Hey princess! As a trans woman myself,im so proud of you for coming out early in life,took me until i was 34 to come out as a "little boy" i went through my share of deceptions when it comes to gender expectation( grew up in the 90's) lots of love to you,just subbed and wishing you happiness in your real body!:)
38:20 awwwwwwww My mom’s last ten texts have been three pictures of some miserable looking slug and random anti videos about regret. Icky said it best: “You know you’re a girl when you think to yourself, ‘well, if the hrt doesn’t totally work out for whatever reason, at least I’ll have a girly body.’”
Hii, as a trans youtuber that has not been able to be forthcoming or honest about myself due to the niche I'm in, I appreciate you. Instant sub and honestly you are going to be one of my favorite TH-camrs going forward, I can feel it. Love this 'essay' in air quotes and I hope you're doing well.
Thank you for telling your story 🤍 I wish you all the best and that your family comes around. Personally I've suppressed my gender ambiguity for so many years and now later in life fear the rejection of family and friends when I come out.
Thanks for the support ! Unfortunately it's over between me and my bio family, (as I said this was my last attempt) I do however have a good support system, found family (especially trans sisters) helps alot ! Good luck to you on your journey ❤ Ps : I know lots of trans girls who still great families, I just got unlucky x
This video is so beautiful Tris. I felt myself so fully in so much of it. Funnily enough, new years 2019 was also a key moment for me too. Thank you from another 1999 transfem whovian girlie
FTA. Your video popped up on my YT. I am surprised that your daddy dearest, as someone who likes Lou Reed's Transformer and its most famous song has been unable to be supportive of your journey. Sometimes things can be a step too far. Take heart that all may not be irrevocably lost with your immediate family, things do change. It took a few years for my own father to apologise for how he had been to me but eventually we gained understanding. (For context I started cross sex hormones in 1991 and live in the UK).
C amusant que j'ai trouvé ta vidéo car je viens d'écrire une silly little chanson à propos d'être transgender mdr, mais seriously c'était super cool d'écouter ton histoire!! Je t'envoie love du Canada🫶
i will confess that you are very beautiful. i'm a transwoman named janis. you can call me janis, yes. that feels good to say. very good. i took the name from janis calavicci, character in quantum leap, who, after every1 else gave up on looking for dr. beckett, continued to attempt to establish contact. i like the name janis.
I can't believe this has so little views and likes, severley underrated. Also, your sweater is so cute! sincerely, a bi enby new fan :3 My preffered name is Vee!
For some reason I picture me with bangs, but maintaing my vegeta split, so like in the middle the bangs go to my chin but on the side witht he eyes I can still see cuz they are so high lmao
Mdr, on était dans le même lycée, quelle était la probabilité que TH-cam me propose ta vidéo par hasard. D'ailleurs je t'ai croisé il y a peu à Rennes mais je n'étais pas sur qu'il s'agissait de toi. Enfin bref, bonne continuation à toi 👍
"There are things you do in puberty that are just weird and then you stop." Well, that tells me your dad used to wear women's clothes at a similar time in his life. As someone's mum once said to a lesbian friend; "oh we've all had feelings about other women but you knock that on the head when you're married." And I was like, you're mums a lesbian too but was just locked in! I was like; I'm straight and have had none of those feelings or wants. Therefore they can't be straight by simple observation. For context, I'm a straight cis dude in a straight relationship with a lovely woman and have never wore fully feminine clothes like dresses etc. and never had the want to, but if someone else wants to and then discovers they're trans that's completely normal. Just because that's not something I've experienced, doesn't make it any less true for others. Furthermore; I watch all kinds of content, including LGBTQ+ content as I see it a learning experience, because I don't know many trans folk day to day and the best way for someone like myself to learn more about them and broaden my education is to listen to their experiences. It's why I follow Abigail Thorne too (Philosophy Tube etc.) All the best in your future as the real you. Much respect. Also incredible end piece by the way. He should be proud of his daughter.
So what happened when you wake up a girl did she scream in surprise? Sorry but seriously a lot of what you talk about validates terf talking points, 1; that many involuntarily celibate young men are transitioning because they can't get a girlfriend (at least not one they would be attracted to). 2; transition into a parody of stereotype womanhood hotness from the straight male gaze. 3; that you are just pretty boys dressing up, for a masturbation fetish. or 4; Have very strong internal homophobia, strong fear, or disgust of living, or being though of as, being seen in public as a feminine/ gay man in any setting. obviously people should live and let live, if you are doing no harm.
You were SO assigned diva at birth. Obsessed with the pretty boy attitude lolll.
Pretty boys make even prettier gurlz 🧚♀️
Hey princess! As a trans woman myself,im so proud of you for coming out early in life,took me until i was 34 to come out as a "little boy" i went through my share of deceptions when it comes to gender expectation( grew up in the 90's) lots of love to you,just subbed and wishing you happiness in your real body!:)
Ohhh thank you for your loverly message, you're never too old or too young to be who you feel you are inside ♡
It's crazy that you family don't want you... but we do! Welcome to the family Tris! You seem a lovely person.
Found family can show up and and be there for you when you really need it, I've been learning this recently. Thanks for the support ♡
@@tris_makes_music ❤
38:20 awwwwwwww
My mom’s last ten texts have been three pictures of some miserable looking slug and random anti videos about regret.
Icky said it best: “You know you’re a girl when you think to yourself, ‘well, if the hrt doesn’t totally work out for whatever reason, at least I’ll have a girly body.’”
WAIT THE HAIR IS GIVING GIRL IN RED AUTUMN CORE I LOVE ITTT😭😭
I was thinking Stevie Nicks af
can see you coming into yourself just like I am rn. amazing stuff hrt is, went from sad boy to confident girl and almost qualified at makeup
Ohhh thanks ! And well done, so happy for you ♡
I love the hair, and the off shoulder sweater? YES!
I instinctively want to do your makeup now 😂
yoooo 1999 transmonaut, let's gooo
Hii, as a trans youtuber that has not been able to be forthcoming or honest about myself due to the niche I'm in, I appreciate you. Instant sub and honestly you are going to be one of my favorite TH-camrs going forward, I can feel it. Love this 'essay' in air quotes and I hope you're doing well.
Heyyy ! That's very nice of you ! And I send you love & courage ♡
Thank you for telling your story 🤍
I wish you all the best and that your family comes around.
Personally I've suppressed my gender ambiguity for so many years and now later in life fear the rejection of family and friends when I come out.
Thanks for the support ! Unfortunately it's over between me and my bio family, (as I said this was my last attempt) I do however have a good support system, found family (especially trans sisters) helps alot ! Good luck to you on your journey ❤
Ps : I know lots of trans girls who still great families, I just got unlucky x
Omg 😮 I can relate so much with my dysphoria! You also reminded me I need to take my hormones and drink water. Thanks for sharing! ❤
Thank you for being so open and honest about your experience. This was very informative.
This video is so beautiful Tris. I felt myself so fully in so much of it. Funnily enough, new years 2019 was also a key moment for me too. Thank you from another 1999 transfem whovian girlie
FTA. Your video popped up on my YT. I am surprised that your daddy dearest, as someone who likes Lou Reed's Transformer and its most famous song has been unable to be supportive of your journey. Sometimes things can be a step too far. Take heart that all may not be irrevocably lost with your immediate family, things do change.
It took a few years for my own father to apologise for how he had been to me but eventually we gained understanding.
(For context I started cross sex hormones in 1991 and live in the UK).
The Doctor regenerated as a woman, and so did you. Oh brilliant!
You look a lot like me. Your bangs look way thicker though. I’m always trying to spread mine out to cover my forehead more, but yours look glorious
C amusant que j'ai trouvé ta vidéo car je viens d'écrire une silly little chanson à propos d'être transgender mdr, mais seriously c'était super cool d'écouter ton histoire!! Je t'envoie love du Canada🫶
i will confess that you are very beautiful. i'm a transwoman named janis. you can call me janis, yes. that feels good to say. very good. i took the name from janis calavicci, character in quantum leap, who, after every1 else gave up on looking for dr. beckett, continued to attempt to establish contact. i like the name janis.
The floating bit hit me like a freight train 😢
Jesusssss now I’m sobbing
Added the tea? song to my playlist literally such a fan😭😭💞
Ohhh thanks for checking out my music ! 💗
@@tris_makes_music no prob i love ur style☆
I loved being a gender fluid femboy it was very liberating but it was definitely the entrance to the trans pipeline in my case hehehe
I can't believe this has so little views and likes, severley underrated. Also, your sweater is so cute! sincerely, a bi enby new fan :3 My preffered name is Vee!
Why thank you, nice to meet you and thanks for watching ! Xx
For some reason I picture me with bangs, but maintaing my vegeta split, so like in the middle the bangs go to my chin but on the side witht he eyes I can still see cuz they are so high lmao
omg i want to share the image i generated in copilot lmao
thank you, for your beautyful . perspective on this subject.
Dr Who trans women ftw
Your voice is so graceful it reminds me of princess diana ❤ /pos
Mdr, on était dans le même lycée, quelle était la probabilité que TH-cam me propose ta vidéo par hasard. D'ailleurs je t'ai croisé il y a peu à Rennes mais je n'étais pas sur qu'il s'agissait de toi. Enfin bref, bonne continuation à toi 👍
Wish you the best ❤️
_great_ song choice, very classy
This is sooo cute!
I loved this video! i related so much to your story
good luck girl
Ohhh that's so good to hear 💗
Don’t know you… but wow proud 😊
🌹
"There are things you do in puberty that are just weird and then you stop." Well, that tells me your dad used to wear women's clothes at a similar time in his life. As someone's mum once said to a lesbian friend; "oh we've all had feelings about other women but you knock that on the head when you're married." And I was like, you're mums a lesbian too but was just locked in! I was like; I'm straight and have had none of those feelings or wants. Therefore they can't be straight by simple observation.
For context, I'm a straight cis dude in a straight relationship with a lovely woman and have never wore fully feminine clothes like dresses etc. and never had the want to, but if someone else wants to and then discovers they're trans that's completely normal. Just because that's not something I've experienced, doesn't make it any less true for others.
Furthermore; I watch all kinds of content, including LGBTQ+ content as I see it a learning experience, because I don't know many trans folk day to day and the best way for someone like myself to learn more about them and broaden my education is to listen to their experiences. It's why I follow Abigail Thorne too (Philosophy Tube etc.)
All the best in your future as the real you. Much respect. Also incredible end piece by the way. He should be proud of his daughter.
That was a lovely video ❤
thanks for sharing!
Love ya babes 💗🏳️⚧️
Look! Quick! Look at her! She’s gender envy!
Beautiful video 💛
why is the top of ur hair straight but the sides r curly
It's just my Barnett babe x
you look like david tennents daughter or sister
I'd love to be Tennants daughter ! He's so loverly and a great ally 🧚♀️
@@tris_makes_music me too :3
❤️❤️❤️🩹❤️🩹
Also yeah - HEAVY on the David Tennant love
David is also my senpai, so I understand. he is a likeable guy.
So what happened when you wake up a girl did she scream in surprise?
Sorry but seriously a lot of what you talk about validates terf talking points,
1; that many involuntarily celibate young men are transitioning because they can't get a girlfriend (at least not one they would be attracted to).
2; transition into a parody of stereotype womanhood hotness from the straight male gaze.
3; that you are just pretty boys dressing up, for a masturbation fetish. or
4; Have very strong internal homophobia, strong fear, or disgust of living, or being though of as, being seen in public as a feminine/ gay man in any setting. obviously people should live and let live, if you are doing no harm.
@@sophiepooks2174 at first yeah, then I cried tears of joy 😊