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Absolutely amazing video! So deep and touching. Really relatable. 🦄 My life is also an absolute Hell right now. And I don't really see a way out. It's not about me being queer either, or it is. But mainly just people are awful and my life is crap.

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That was rather good girl, more music videos if you please💋

Thank you for making such a great video. You explain these issues so clearly, very moving.

This is sooo cute!

Love the bangs. ❤❤❤😊😊😊

Thank you!! Please continue your work, you’re lovely❤

😭 I'm crying I found my voice here thank you 🙏🏾 ❤❤️❤️

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PLEASE PUT YOUR MUSIC ON APPLE MUSIC IM BEGGING

So happy to have found you and your channel 🌟

“sometimes we get unlucky with the people we love” i die. this was beautiful. i’m glad you’ve found love and family after your birth family turned out to be evil.

Even the beginning made me guilt-trip.

16:17 - 16:51 OMG TRIS WE LITERALLY HAD THE EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE. I had the exact same relationship with sexuality at that time. Afterwards I'd feel guilty, and just try to forget about it entirely, and was shockingly successful at suppressing it outside of those contexts. Eventually just the proximity of a close non-binary friend made me realise. Sexuality is often one of the only strong enough forces in the human spirit to force you to be honest with yourself.

😢 me recuerda a una escritora maldita, te quiero

So the root is depression all along

You are straight up awesome. Your ability to confront and bull doze through some of the most difficult human emotions of rejection and abandonment and still stand amazingly in your own glorious space as a human being is not only admirable its damn right military special ops level and still exudes a feminine grace under fire that just blows me away. To wander into these areas of emotional danger takes great courage. So, Blessed to hear you just go on like it's nothing. Great Stuff Here. Thanks for being you. 😜😜😎😎

217k follower !!! bravoooo

How can I make contact with a trans woman I think it would be nice to chat to one maybe in South Africa

How can you say I go about things the wrong way? I am human and I need to be loved just like everybody else does ❤

I used to think I had anything to do with it, because the gaslighting was there from the very beginning, to control me into being a plaything. I lived, got some experiences outside of them, even got abused by a third person, researched a bit more about what being a narcissistic is and how they abuse people and at some point I completely felt absolved. It's all on them to be so confrontational, not on me. It still hurts, but it's a different hurting. One that motivates me to fight them and their views all my life.

You’re a beautiful and strong woman.

Shame is a human concept and it’s designed to control the minds of people. Love you all. Keep going. Keep fighting.

This is so beautiful thank you for your eloquence, wisdom, and above all wisdom! P.S., in “It’s a Sin,” apparently Richie lived on the Isle of Wight, but actually the ferry and setting is all based on the Isle of Man for some weird reason, which makes no sense but I absolutely love because the Isle of Man is my home and I love it dearly <3

"There are things you do in puberty that are just weird and then you stop." Well, that tells me your dad used to wear women's clothes at a similar time in his life. As someone's mum once said to a lesbian friend; "oh we've all had feelings about other women but you knock that on the head when you're married." And I was like, you're mums a lesbian too but was just locked in! I was like; I'm straight and have had none of those feelings or wants. Therefore they can't be straight by simple observation. For context, I'm a straight cis dude in a straight relationship with a lovely woman and have never wore fully feminine clothes like dresses etc. and never had the want to, but if someone else wants to and then discovers they're trans that's completely normal. Just because that's not something I've experienced, doesn't make it any less true for others. Furthermore; I watch all kinds of content, including LGBTQ+ content as I see it a learning experience, because I don't know many trans folk day to day and the best way for someone like myself to learn more about them and broaden my education is to listen to their experiences. It's why I follow Abigail Thorne too (Philosophy Tube etc.) All the best in your future as the real you. Much respect. Also incredible end piece by the way. He should be proud of his daughter.

You have the most lesbian hair I have ever seen (this is intended to be a compliment I would 100% wear mine like that if I cared a lot less about passing (I'm transmasc)) <3

It's clear that you have made so much progress and can joke about it now. But my heart could not help but break for you when you talked about your father's final message. Perhaps this is overly speculative on my part, but that must of been a heartbreaking message to receive. I hope you've managed to find true family and friends to replace those who would not love you as you are.

If I had a nickel for every time I've seen a commentary channel make video essays AND their own music I would have two nickels. Which isn't a lot but it's cool it happened twice💜

I've heard the voice saying 'its all your fault' so many times, and it's nice to know its something we (the queer folk) all struggle with to some extent. Its hard too, knowing sometimes all you can do is try to take care of yourself and find your people, it feels like there should be something more... but sometimes that's all you can do and its all you need to do. Good video.

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OwO coucou ! je suis transfem de france aussi ! yippee! je te souhaite beaucoup de courage et d'amour de ta famille choisie ! you've got this girl ❤

Truely great video✨

Merci tellement pour cette vidéo ! Vos arguments sur les endoctrinements qui nous permettent de nous penser mal sur nous-mêmes sont très intéressants. J’essaie toujours de comprendre cette problème, mon homophobie intériorisée, mais c’est très difficile parce que je ne peux pas toujours de repérer une manifestation de celle-là. J’apprends les études de genres pour mes diplômes de master et doctorat ! , je pense que je ne peux pas accepter que je peux toujours avoir les sentiments ou pensées de l’homophobie Cette vidéo, je pense, me convainc que tous le monde peut avoir ces pensées, même si une personne a déjà fait un “coming-out” ou est très “intelligent” sur ce champ

Great video!!

Guys the youtube algorithm is re_traumatising me

I'm the only one who still believes in her

Oooh, also: "blood is thicker than water" was originally "the blood of the Covenant is thicker than the water of the womb"--Jesus was saying "the people you choose to love are more important than the people you are genetically related to."

your so amazing

offtopic but your hair is so fucking gorgeous

As a straight bish who just found out undiagnosed female ADHD caused my AvPD, I.... relate. To all of you. SO MUCH. Shame is the root of suffering. Shame destroyed my life. To reject shame and embrace love is to heal your heart. Try to forgive those poor fools who rejected you--out of compassion. If you are religious, look up the Hebrew word "zachar." I was raised religious. If there's a God, he loves you all and he made you as you are. Shame is theirs, not yours. Just be good to yourself and everyone else. I love you. 🫂❤

Thank you ❤

At this point shame is a long-time friend of mine. He'll hold my hand when I feel lonely, tempt me further into mental illness. Shame knows what I hate about myself and if he plays his cards right those insecurities will be all I think about. And I let it happen because it makes the pain less noticeable. An escape is an escape. It's hard being queer. It's been years, and I've come out several times as ace, aro, autistic, and now trans. I hate having to convince my own family to love me when I need them the most. And it's happened multiple times now. But we survive, and we keep each other company. That's the good part about being queer; there are so many people who will love you, feel an even STRONGER connection to you than normal because of your queer identity. Ever since coming out I've been conditioned to reject that community for fear of echo chambers but I want my friends back.

Self Queer perception there some else and Else comportament in society you IS the you represented in line of society of appearance you IS than gender non conform but Society IS gender conform us never adapted This gender conform

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Thank you so much for saying all of this. I was fortunate enough to grow up in a very supportive community, though I never felt comfortable with being trans because I was harassed relentlessly wherever I went online. You have so succinctly described the subconscious feeling of "This is wrong" that we begin to feel when we have those words branded into our minds over and over again, regardless of their validity. This is a really important video, and it means so much to me that someone has been able to describe the parasite I had unknowingly been carrying for so long. Thank you.