@@ms.amazed I decided to stay single and focus on my six year old twins when their mother. I've had major surgery I broke my right arm on Easter Sunday 2019 I thought I just lost my left eye and when I couldn't feel it with my finger I said at least I went 44 years with two and refused to suffer and stopped trying and let everything go leaving it to fate. I started laughing at my mistakes mental or physical. I found the Essential works of David Hume I made a few videos explaining the rest
I can't begin to tell you the change your videos have made in my life. This video in particular was the one that blew me away....I've been struggling with a bad breakup from a girl i love dearly. I couldn't understand why it was so hard to let go of her and the fantasy of the relationship I had in my mind. When you said that the suffering Is found not in the letting go, but in the holding on...I felt such a massive shift in my perspective and such an overwhelming sense of peace flood through me that I lack the words to give it justice. You are doing great things for the world. Please keep it up. Thank you. So much.
Hooray to shifts in perspective! That's wonderful. I'm glad you're discovering the simplicity and relief of letting go. Thank you for the kinds words and encouragement. I will indeed continue sharing. Blessings to you!
Im still struggling over a year later with a break up also & nothing has been able to take the pain away, except time, very slowly i am getting there, we both will, i wish you all the best & much happiness that you deserve!!! Please know that i feel your pain, i just want peace, the thoughts & pain to go away, very true different perspective, ive been holding on also for to long & not letting go, lost my power, TIME TO TAKE IT BACK!!!!
Happy Thoughts Hi there. I have Been going through exactly the same situation. It has been very difficult for me. I am trying to do all sorts of different things, but I am still suffering. How are you doing now? Any better? Sometimes I feel like this pain will never go away... 😪
@@ericaawake9503 Hi. I've been going through exactly the same since a month ago. Yes, ofc it's hard. I've noticed that some days it's harder and some days less hard, and I cant actually understand why it is like that. Let's say, for example, that the second week was way less unbearable than the fourth, which I found strange... I constantly observe myself and my thoughts, emotions, reactions. I suggest you do the same. Did you ask yourself those questions proposed in this helpful video? Especially: why are you holding on? Also, I wanted to thank to the creator of the videos as I found myself enjoying and listening several of them in a row 😁 I'm just a new fan, discovering the content. Thank you, Nada 💜
“Reality doesn’t always match our expectations” Sadly it rarely does. Giving people permission to hate or disappoint me has been the most freeing thing. I don’t fight life anymore. Radical self-acceptance can be painful, but liberating. I just say “You’re right, goodbye”. I can’t control anyone! Once you evict people to living rent free in your mind you find peace 😌✨
Not true to people who cannot and hate letting go; it's repressive and destructive to more than enough unless you know why and practice what you're believing not just potentially abiding by aphorisms that promote or supposedly promote self acceptance. That we are fighting not ever against doesn't give us a reason to let go of anything, particularly. It gives us a reason it should, to know why we must. Not just for the sake of it as a truism.
Humans need attachments to make their lives meaningful. It is the suffering and obstacles that provide spiritual and emotional growth, and not something you should hide from. Detachment is just one step away from leaving physical reality. By living in detachment, you have one foot in the physical world and the other foot in the spiritual world, not truly alive or dead. I find that when i live without attachment, I become more isolated, and care lesser for people and things.
When I moved to Florida from Maryland, I got rid of or gave away everything I owned. No biggie. I missed some of it afterwards but things can be replaced if need be.
I like how he explains attachment can be how we see ourselves not just attached to things or another person. Attachment can be to your own beauty for example. This is dangerous as we all age or can become ill. So what becomes of this persons thoughts and emotions as their beauty inevitably fades
Thank you for addressing that attachment is something to be understood, not ignored. Trying to be mindful of your existence underneath, while helps to shift the focus, doesn't allow for growth of understanding why we are suffering. So, instead of avoiding suffering or trying to be "mindful" about placing your attention elsewhere, it is great to hear about placing your attention on what we are actually doing to ourselves. Feeling our own discomfort, giving ourselves a chance to explore this in order to understand, thereby finding or trying to understand why we are suffering to begin with instead of shifting attention away from this.
I thought I had overcome my attachments, having walked away from a bad marriage, my home, possessions etc and being content in my own company seems I was sent the ultimate test, letting go of someone you're absolutely in love with I've been battling with this for many months now. The attachment is causing me so much pain I'm thinking its maybe better to just let go. This advice is really good and I will look deeper into how I got in this mess. Thank you
I’m so grateful for this right now. I got very attached to someone who I was introduced to this side of things and can’t seem to detach even though this person has been quite cruel to me also.
This is so true…you have to know who u are first …to know who others are …go within …ur always feel free from attachments …you will never feel you need or desire anything because you’re already it.!!!
This sounds a lot like the philosophy of Krishna Consciousness. Even if it isn't, renunciation of attachment and recognition of illusion are some of the main themes of the Bhagavad Gita. Thank you for helping me to understand these themes a lot better and apply them to my life.
So glad your videos.were recommended to me. Sometimes attachment is to an " old part of us" that we have become Stuck in. I get it. That is why sometimes the holding on is because we are repeating the same lesson. I am now moving forward to the next chapter in my life. I surrender all attachments to people, places or things that no longer serve a positive place in my life. Amen. Thank you Jesus. Namaste ❤️🙏❤️
There's a problem. Letting go of only the "negative". Positive thinking is a scam. Attachment to the postive creates a negative experience. Let go of everything and get out of the Positive thinking movement.
"He who tries to save his life, Will lose it. But he who gives up his life (everything) for my sake, will gain it." - Jesus (paraphrased" There's good and bad, positive and negative, joy and sorrow in your life. He's asking you to give it all up to Him. (The Way, The Truth and The Life) Happy Weekend! ❤️
Totally necessary to understand past the level of the intellect! I've preached concepts for YEARS some times before they really sank in and I actually embodied and felt them. Until then, I didn't really understand even though I thought I did.
Thank you so much for this. Your message brought me to tears and I realized how attached I am to how things used to be with my family and loved ones. I realize that my actions and pushing others away has led to the reality of how things are. I'm working on letting go and accepting the reality so that I can experience healing and move on. Your channel is helping me so much.
First of all, kindly accept my love and reverence...I badly needed to overcome a strong attachment of mine and I was praying to the Universe and to my soul to show me the way and see who HE presented in front of me...thank you so much dear awakened soul. Secondly, can you please throw some light of your wisdom on the concept of collective consciousness and how we can heal a particular pattern we have recognized in our family lineage or culture or even in our country. Waiting for your guidance.
I’ve been listening to all your videos you’ve posted. Thank you so much for sharing. Your voice and insight has been healing, foundational and soothing to me.
I landed on your video unintentionally as my finger pressed on and the video started playing. I decided to watch as my current state of mind is going through the process of detachment. I just loved the way you explained everything step by step and you presented a comprehensive picture of attachment and the importance of their presence. Thank you!!!
I believe the movie starwars episode 1 to 6 has alot of messages and philosophy of buddhism engrained. Anakin skywalkers entire story is of attachment,which led to his suffering and eventually turned him into Darth Vader.
After certain spiritual experience, I don't find interest in anything, everything looks tasteless, i question everything i am doing, feel like quitting my job, society and everything and resign to woods but my family and relationships keeping ke tied down. My job keeps me irritated/frustrated i want to quit it but i become insecure how will i take care of my family. These attachments and insecurities don't allow me to live my life peacefully. I feel like i m zombie in this concrete jungle. Don't find solution to my problems.
BROOOO I TOTALLY FEEL U! I’m In the same current state of mind. I’m working towards that same goal. There’s nothing here in this society for me. I understand ur worries about ur family etc. like u said theses thoughts/ feelings/ perceptions are attachments ingrained upon us. I hope u find a way to make money so u can get out of this vicious cycle. 🙏
Look into the mentality of lacking, as soon as u change ur mind set from 'i lack the money to do...' to money is not important, i have all that i need and God/universe will always provide. Tried and tested this myself and it works. Also how to recognise, process and release fear as fear is our main driving force in a open air prison society.
During a meditation session I asked myself: why I do resist a relationship? The response was that I do not feel worthy. I again asked myself: why are you not worthy? And the response was: I can’t control myself! Therefore, my conclusion was that I shouldn’t control myself. After this I began to notice in a lot of different aspects of my life that I have this need for control. I do not know how I continue, but I guess I just have to be patient.
Thank you so much! This was so enlightening and profound! Your channel is a game changer for being on the spiritual journey. Infinite love and light 💡💗!
Wow. thank you for this. I am going thru some major changes in my life, emotional and material. This is helped me a great deal today. I feel lighter this morning. namaste
Thank you so much for your amazing ability to explain traps and holes that we fall into and have no idea how to get out. I thank God for the revelation that you have to allow COMPREHENSION on complex situations and uncover what is obvious, but at the same time NOT. For me, it was so deliberating to understand that I have control over my fantasies and illusions but very little over reality and that fantasy is temporal, but reality always is present is always there.
i saw the symbol of the eye in a meditation, it appeared in front of me. And I thought it would resemble my third eye. seeing this now shows me that it is, and that it was guiding me to your page. Thank you. Had a really bad day yesterday bc of my addiction and my perspective to it. now I can work on myself. Rather than changing the surface itself.
i lost my phone that had about two years worth of photos and memories. Some precious photos that I had taken of my passed grandma and my dog (the best dog that I've ever had the pleasure to care for...) it's really hard on me. the worst part is the bargaining stage. I sent it to get repaird and it was lost in the mail. I have little to no hope of getting it back from USPS and am struck with such a sudden grief over it. I need to let this go...... I have the memories in my mind and that should be enough. I can't understand why this anxiety keeps overcoming me.
Thank you so much for this precious video you helped me understand this intellectually and it’s a guidance to know where do I have to keep looking in order to find peace and be free
I usually think my attachment is to life or separateness and sometimes I feel like I will stop existing if if I let go. Maybe my attatchment is to multiple perspectives or validation. I sometimes think I am attached to love. My understanding gets very paradoxical and I am led to believe I am crazy by others but they seem transparent to me. I don't know much about spirituality and have been a militant athiest up until recently. All that I feel is true is that perception exist. I have issues with self doubt but they seem to be working themselves out naturally. Religious trauma from childhood and having to rely on my discernment has been challenging. I had a sudden flood of awareness but I have questioned if it is spiritual or just psychological or if it even matters. Experiencing my biggest fears had me wishing I was delusional at times. Your videos "ironically" validate my experience. Thank you for posting them.
Yes i agree 100% with princefiggys comment below mine. I really enjoy your honest perspective & videos, it really hits home, i so dont understand why you dont have tripple the likes & subscriptions, their loss!! THANKYOU keep up your great work!!
I just got emotional just listening to your advice. I’ve been in quite a predicament for about 2 years, and I believe my issue is due to my own insecurities, thinking that I have to help people, in order to be loved. Which isn’t entirely wrong in itself, but it’s come to a point I felt used, but I couldn’t walk away from the person. In a way, I don’t hate the person, since we communicate our concerns with one another. I just don’t want to feel drawn to him anymore, and I’ve tried pushing him away, only to be even more drawn in. It’s tough for both of us, but hopefully at some point we will both figure our own way.
I am so happy I've met you, I find your channel so helpful and valuable, it's really priceless to me. I just don't know why you don't haveso many views. I feel like you should be reaching to all the people out there in the world, you are so wise.... Thank you for sharing it with us. Thank you from Uruguay
Namaste. Thank you so much for your words. We are interested in Eckhart Tolle, Moogi, Sadhuru and find you a wonderful complement to our spiritual growth.
im suffering so much allmost loosing my mind,to let go off my ex as if i gave birth to her. all i can say right now is thank you thank you thank you i mean it..😚😚😚😚😚
@@meowm6156 it takes time.. swim deep inside ur desire.. do u feel enhanced with ur ex. Dont u feel u can find love again. What is making u think they cant be replaced ?? In due time things will become alright.. do some work on urself.. heal 🙃
hi meow i feel for you its hard and sad time to go thru break up,first thing you have to learn right now is to distancing yourself from your past memories that you gatherd in your head.your memory should be a platform you stand upon to reach out for something higher,not a trap you sink in to..dont worry you diserve better ..🙋👌👍🌻
Great video, I really like the ideas you present on attachment. The last minute of the video summarizes everything beautifully. Thank you so much, as this is something I've been struggling with recently
I just recently realized people with unrealistic/unreasonable thought process might have had an advantage to survive, cuz most of our choices are unreasonable yet we survived. Maybe lower suicide rate compared to reasonable people + higher assessment of oneself to boost the confidence which is pretty damn helpful to be successful?
I don’t make effort , I want only take distance from toxic relation, and to continue to hear you, But sometimes I have things to do, and I trays to solve them, and then I have sad mode, And I tray to rest a little bit, and I want to have less hours in TH-cam, because it’s ‘Killing “ my eyes,
Strong attachment is from trauma & great loss. One must grieve & or work through the trauma or issues, if possible. The fear is more perceived loss of more of one’s soul! This is my experience. I’m not sure which is the illusion...as there is The Ladder Exercise which when done, proves to the practicer that one does actually have control by directing one’s imagination! So...I’m a bit confused by this, as I was successful when I proved thoughts with emotions do become one’s reality as did E.O Locker, Jr. , student of Neville Goddard back in the day. It’s on YT.
Thank you for that video, it was really inspiring. I have a long way to go before letting go of attachment but your video definitely helped me and gave me some keys to understand why do I need attachment and control. I'm gonna try thinking about it and answer these questions. Thanks for your content 🙏🤗
When you learn this you will get power on how to open ur heart while you in pain this is not a joke. First you need welcoming the root of attachment welcoming is accecpt because we live in this world not to be the best but to live what is already written and letting go ( no effort) bcs you know this is the world rules. Then you will laugh and happy at it, this is dangerous state , people will see you are stronger and attractive. In Alquran say may god be pleased or redha. Bcs everything already created by god from you are born until you die everything is written .
In the teachings of the Buddha, wisdom does arise, Three characteristics, profound and wise. Let me weave them in verses, clear and true, Impermanence, suffering, and non-self, I'll share with you. Impermanence, the dance of life's embrace, Like shifting sands, it leaves no trace. From dawn to dusk, and season to season, All things change, without rhyme or reason. Flowers bloom, then fade away, As night turns to dawn, and day to gray. With every breath, moments fleet, Impermanence reminds us, life is sweet. Suffering, the noble truth we face, In trials and tribulations, we find our place. From physical pain to the ache within, Suffering weaves a thread, where all begin. Attachments bind, desires give birth, Yet suffering teaches, the depths of our worth. Through compassion's embrace, we find release, In understanding suffering, our hearts find peace. Non-self, the illusion of a separate "me", A profound teaching that sets us free. No fixed identity, no soul to claim, We're but a ripple in the cosmic game. Connected we are, in this grand tapestry, No separate self, just interdependency. Non-self reveals unity's sweet embrace, As we let go, we find our place. Impermanence, suffering, and non-self, In these teachings, the Buddha's wisdom dwells. Through understanding, compassion takes flight, Guiding us towards liberation's light. So let us contemplate these truths profound, In each moment's whisper, let their essence resound. With wisdom and love, let our hearts unfurl, Embracing impermanence, suffering, and non-self in this precious world.
It's almost like I don't like people to be around me for long because I do get attached and then they aren't around and I feel a loss of something. Why is this? I am trying to not be so attached and I'm working on this. Any help with videos is are appreciated. Thanks this video helped me understand and being patient with myself and understanding the why I feel forced made me understand what it is with this at this current time. I'm ok with knowing why and I can smile and say maybe the next time I won't let attachment get under my skin. Peace
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Learn to love yourself and nothing else matters it only took me 44 years
Took me 38 years. It's a great place to be.
Took me 46 years.. And I'm 49.. Lol
So what was the how 2 video u watched to do that lol
@@ms.amazed you just do it. Videos nor books can't help you on that. It has come come from within.
@@ms.amazed I decided to stay single and focus on my six year old twins when their mother. I've had major surgery I broke my right arm on Easter Sunday 2019 I thought I just lost my left eye and when I couldn't feel it with my finger I said at least I went 44 years with two and refused to suffer and stopped trying and let everything go leaving it to fate. I started laughing at my mistakes mental or physical. I found the Essential works of David Hume I made a few videos explaining the rest
I can't begin to tell you the change your videos have made in my life. This video in particular was the one that blew me away....I've been struggling with a bad breakup from a girl i love dearly. I couldn't understand why it was so hard to let go of her and the fantasy of the relationship I had in my mind. When you said that the suffering Is found not in the letting go, but in the holding on...I felt such a massive shift in my perspective and such an overwhelming sense of peace flood through me that I lack the words to give it justice. You are doing great things for the world. Please keep it up. Thank you. So much.
Hooray to shifts in perspective! That's wonderful. I'm glad you're discovering the simplicity and relief of letting go. Thank you for the kinds words and encouragement. I will indeed continue sharing. Blessings to you!
Im still struggling over a year later with a break up also & nothing has been able to take the pain away, except time, very slowly i am getting there, we both will, i wish you all the best & much happiness that you deserve!!! Please know that i feel your pain, i just want peace, the thoughts & pain to go away, very true different perspective, ive been holding on also for to long & not letting go, lost my power, TIME TO TAKE IT BACK!!!!
Happy Thoughts Hi there. I have Been going through exactly the same situation. It has been very difficult for me. I am trying to do all sorts of different things, but I am still suffering. How are you doing now? Any better? Sometimes I feel like this pain will never go away... 😪
@@ericaawake9503 Hi. I've been going through exactly the same since a month ago. Yes, ofc it's hard. I've noticed that some days it's harder and some days less hard, and I cant actually understand why it is like that. Let's say, for example, that the second week was way less unbearable than the fourth, which I found strange... I constantly observe myself and my thoughts, emotions, reactions. I suggest you do the same. Did you ask yourself those questions proposed in this helpful video? Especially: why are you holding on?
Also, I wanted to thank to the creator of the videos as I found myself enjoying and listening several of them in a row 😁 I'm just a new fan, discovering the content.
Thank you, Nada 💜
Muslimcel never....
‘He who does not desire anything outside of his control can not be anxious’ a stoic quote.
“What you resist, persist” - Carl Jung
“Reality doesn’t always match our expectations”
Sadly it rarely does. Giving people permission to hate or disappoint me has been the most freeing thing. I don’t fight life anymore. Radical self-acceptance can be painful, but liberating. I just say “You’re right, goodbye”. I can’t control anyone! Once you evict people to living rent free in your mind you find peace 😌✨
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thanks for the nugget of wisdom
Hit it on the head
Not true to people who cannot and hate letting go; it's repressive and destructive to more than enough unless you know why and practice what you're believing not just potentially abiding by aphorisms that promote or supposedly promote self acceptance. That we are fighting not ever against doesn't give us a reason to let go of anything, particularly. It gives us a reason it should, to know why we must. Not just for the sake of it as a truism.
Humans need attachments to make their lives meaningful. It is the suffering and obstacles that provide spiritual and emotional growth, and not something you should hide from. Detachment is just one step away from leaving physical reality. By living in detachment, you have one foot in the physical world and the other foot in the spiritual world, not truly alive or dead. I find that when i live without attachment, I become more isolated, and care lesser for people and things.
Thank you. This has helped me in my spiritual growth.
Prisca Humphrey i agree! Me aswell! Couldn’t have said it any better! Thank you so much!
When I moved to Florida from Maryland, I got rid of or gave away everything I owned. No biggie. I missed some of it afterwards but things can be replaced if need be.
Every time I start thinking about him and fantasizing, I watch the last four minutes of this videos. It helps every time, without fail.
I like how he explains attachment can be how we see ourselves not just attached to things or another person. Attachment can be to your own beauty for example. This is dangerous as we all age or can become ill. So what becomes of this persons thoughts and emotions as their beauty inevitably fades
Thank you for addressing that attachment is something to be understood, not ignored. Trying to be mindful of your existence underneath, while helps to shift the focus, doesn't allow for growth of understanding why we are suffering. So, instead of avoiding suffering or trying to be "mindful" about placing your attention elsewhere, it is great to hear about placing your attention on what we are actually doing to ourselves. Feeling our own discomfort, giving ourselves a chance to explore this in order to understand, thereby finding or trying to understand why we are suffering to begin with instead of shifting attention away from this.
I’m 28 and just started my spiritual journey this year. You are absolutely right that loving and focusing on myself is all that matters.
I have found the way out is humility. Humility makes us flexible. Pride and shame solidify the ego.
A thousand times yes, well said!
So trueee
@@Witch.of.Pannonia Me too, it's a wonderful quality :-)
“Let go of your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become the wind.”
Thanks now I can fly
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Yeah that the answear, feel, embrace the void
whatever you say, guru laghima
I thought I had overcome my attachments, having walked away from a bad marriage, my home, possessions etc and being content in my own company seems I was sent the ultimate test, letting go of someone you're absolutely in love with I've been battling with this for many months now. The attachment is causing me so much pain I'm thinking its maybe better to just let go. This advice is really good and I will look deeper into how I got in this mess. Thank you
Such profound insight, explained beautifully.
Thank you.
You're welcome. I'm glad you liked it
No one deserves loving kindness today more than you do.
The concept of "deserving" anything is made up.
@Seven Inches of Throbbing Pink Jesus and some people deserve a good Starbucks handy
I’m so grateful for this right now. I got very attached to someone who I was introduced to this side of things and can’t seem to detach even though this person has been quite cruel to me also.
Nothing Here for you_I am no expert but look into ‘trauma bond’.
This is so true…you have to know who u are first …to know who others are …go within …ur always feel free from attachments …you will never feel you need or desire anything because you’re already it.!!!
This sounds a lot like the philosophy of Krishna Consciousness. Even if it isn't, renunciation of attachment and recognition of illusion are some of the main themes of the Bhagavad Gita. Thank you for helping me to understand these themes a lot better and apply them to my life.
So glad your videos.were recommended to me. Sometimes attachment is to an " old part of us" that we have become Stuck in. I get it. That is why sometimes the holding on is because we are repeating the same lesson. I am now moving forward to the next chapter in my life. I surrender all attachments to people, places or things that no longer serve a positive place in my life. Amen. Thank you Jesus. Namaste ❤️🙏❤️
There's a problem. Letting go of only the "negative". Positive thinking is a scam. Attachment to the postive creates a negative experience. Let go of everything and get out of the Positive thinking movement.
"He who tries to save his life, Will lose it.
But he who gives up his life (everything) for my sake, will gain it."
- Jesus (paraphrased"
There's good and bad, positive and negative, joy and sorrow in your life. He's asking you to give it all up to Him. (The Way, The Truth and The Life)
Happy Weekend! ❤️
Thank you so much, took me three years of suffering to figure out what was wrong and where it came from all thanks to your video
Man ur topics are quite timely and relevant... definitely a true guide. ☝
Totally necessary to understand past the level of the intellect! I've preached concepts for YEARS some times before they really sank in and I actually embodied and felt them. Until then, I didn't really understand even though I thought I did.
Thank you so much for this. Your message brought me to tears and I realized how attached I am to how things used to be with my family and loved ones. I realize that my actions and pushing others away has led to the reality of how things are. I'm working on letting go and accepting the reality so that I can experience healing and move on. Your channel is helping me so much.
First of all, kindly accept my love and reverence...I badly needed to overcome a strong attachment of mine and I was praying to the Universe and to my soul to show me the way and see who HE presented in front of me...thank you so much dear awakened soul.
Secondly, can you please throw some light of your wisdom on the concept of collective consciousness and how we can heal a particular pattern we have recognized in our family lineage or culture or even in our country. Waiting for your guidance.
Your so peaceful, sometimes when I listen to you I drift off to sleep. Love your content. Thank you 🙏
You are so right. His message and voice helps me sleep.
thank you so much i cannot thank you enough you’ve saved my life
I’ve been listening to all your videos you’ve posted. Thank you so much for sharing. Your voice and insight has been healing, foundational and soothing to me.
I landed on your video unintentionally as my finger pressed on and the video started playing. I decided to watch as my current state of mind is going through the process of detachment. I just loved the way you explained everything step by step and you presented a comprehensive picture of attachment and the importance of their presence. Thank you!!!
I believe the movie starwars episode 1 to 6 has alot of messages and philosophy of buddhism engrained. Anakin skywalkers entire story is of attachment,which led to his suffering and eventually turned him into Darth Vader.
After certain spiritual experience, I don't find interest in anything, everything looks tasteless, i question everything i am doing, feel like quitting my job, society and everything and resign to woods but my family and relationships keeping ke tied down. My job keeps me irritated/frustrated i want to quit it but i become insecure how will i take care of my family. These attachments and insecurities don't allow me to live my life peacefully. I feel like i m zombie in this concrete jungle. Don't find solution to my problems.
BROOOO I TOTALLY FEEL U! I’m In the same current state of mind. I’m working towards that same goal. There’s nothing here in this society for me. I understand ur worries about ur family etc. like u said theses thoughts/ feelings/ perceptions are attachments ingrained upon us. I hope u find a way to make money so u can get out of this vicious cycle. 🙏
@@jecmenicjecmenic32 Thanks alot!
Look into the mentality of lacking, as soon as u change ur mind set from 'i lack the money to do...' to money is not important, i have all that i need and God/universe will always provide.
Tried and tested this myself and it works.
Also how to recognise, process and release fear as fear is our main driving force in a open air prison society.
God bless u brother stay strong pray for provision patience and understanding.. I pray u god rains many blessings upon you and your family ‼️
During a meditation session I asked myself: why I do resist a relationship? The response was that I do not feel worthy. I again asked myself: why are you not worthy? And the response was: I can’t control myself! Therefore, my conclusion was that I shouldn’t control myself. After this I began to notice in a lot of different aspects of my life that I have this need for control. I do not know how I continue, but I guess I just have to be patient.
You’re already on your way because you can see it. 🙏
I want you to know you’ve changed my life for the better. You’ve made me realize so much and helped me on my spiritual path.
Many thanks for this! One Attachment I have let go of is "do as ye would be done by!"
Please teach us more, you have deep wisdom the world needs, namaste
Thank you so much! This was so enlightening and profound! Your channel is a game changer for being on the spiritual journey.
Infinite love and light 💡💗!
This is saving my life! Thank you for this very clear and clinical explanation!
Wow. thank you for this. I am going thru some major changes in my life, emotional and material. This is helped me a great deal today. I feel lighter this morning. namaste
37 and started my healing journey 5 years ago.
Thank you so much for your amazing ability to explain traps and holes that we fall into and have no idea how to get out. I thank God for the revelation that you have to allow COMPREHENSION on complex situations and uncover what is obvious, but at the same time NOT. For me, it was so deliberating to understand that I have control over my fantasies and illusions but very little over reality and that fantasy is temporal, but reality always is present is always there.
It's taken me 42 years to be woken ⏰ so glad lovely place to be in my life x
i saw the symbol of the eye in a meditation, it appeared in front of me. And I thought it would resemble my third eye. seeing this now shows me that it is, and that it was guiding me to your page. Thank you.
Had a really bad day yesterday bc of my addiction and my perspective to it. now I can work on myself. Rather than changing the surface itself.
Thank you. Took some notes!
i lost my phone that had about two years worth of photos and memories. Some precious photos that I had taken of my passed grandma and my dog (the best dog that I've ever had the pleasure to care for...) it's really hard on me. the worst part is the bargaining stage. I sent it to get repaird and it was lost in the mail.
I have little to no hope of getting it back from USPS and am struck with such a sudden grief over it. I need to let this go...... I have the memories in my mind and that should be enough. I can't understand why this anxiety keeps overcoming me.
The best 4 minutes of my day was right here at the end of this message! Brilliantly said!
I’ve just discovered this channel and it’s giving me such peace. Wise wise words, delivered in a calm and insightful way. Thank you so much
Thank you, I can really process what you are saying, your slower speaking helps me a lot. 🙏🤗
Thank you so much for this precious video you helped me understand this intellectually and it’s a guidance to know where do I have to keep looking in order to find peace and be free
Thanks so much for such deep insight !
Attachment limits our life. Freedom from attachment makes our life unlimited and infinite. It is boundless energy.💯🤗
Brilliant.
Thank you for making these videos and trying your best in this life. I appreciate you and your content so much.
I usually think my attachment is to life or separateness and sometimes I feel like I will stop existing if if I let go. Maybe my attatchment is to multiple perspectives or validation. I sometimes think I am attached to love. My understanding gets very paradoxical and I am led to believe I am crazy by others but they seem transparent to me. I don't know much about spirituality and have been a militant athiest up until recently. All that I feel is true is that perception exist. I have issues with self doubt but they seem to be working themselves out naturally. Religious trauma from childhood and having to rely on my discernment has been challenging. I had a sudden flood of awareness but I have questioned if it is spiritual or just psychological or if it even matters. Experiencing my biggest fears had me wishing I was delusional at times. Your videos "ironically" validate my experience. Thank you for posting them.
Thank you for this video. I can see how to remove/work thru the jungle toward clarity.
I'm glad you took something of value from it, and I hope you continue to find clarity on your journey
Thank you for your wise insight! This was exactly what I needed! 🙏🏻 Namasté
Yes i agree 100% with princefiggys comment below mine. I really enjoy your honest perspective & videos, it really hits home, i so dont understand why you dont have tripple the likes & subscriptions, their loss!! THANKYOU keep up your great work!!
I just got emotional just listening to your advice. I’ve been in quite a predicament for about 2 years, and I believe my issue is due to my own insecurities, thinking that I have to help people, in order to be loved. Which isn’t entirely wrong in itself, but it’s come to a point I felt used, but I couldn’t walk away from the person. In a way, I don’t hate the person, since we communicate our concerns with one another. I just don’t want to feel drawn to him anymore, and I’ve tried pushing him away, only to be even more drawn in.
It’s tough for both of us, but hopefully at some point we will both figure our own way.
Your love , is Enough!
This is absolutely precious. Thank you!
This was so easy to understand yet so powerful. Thank you so much for the offering
Thr effort we r making is not in letting go its in holding on. Effort itself is attachment.
Very cool, I learned a lot of valuable info so thank you!!❤
I am so happy I've met you, I find your channel so helpful and valuable, it's really priceless to me. I just don't know why you don't haveso many views. I feel like you should be reaching to all the people out there in the world, you are so wise.... Thank you for sharing it with us. Thank you from Uruguay
Beautiful video 🤩
Namaste. Thank you so much for your words. We are interested in Eckhart Tolle, Moogi, Sadhuru and find you a wonderful complement to our spiritual growth.
im suffering so much allmost loosing my mind,to let go off my ex as if i gave birth to her. all i can say right now is thank you thank you thank you i mean it..😚😚😚😚😚
I am in the same situation. Has this video helped you longterm? I feel lost
@@meowm6156 it takes time.. swim deep inside ur desire.. do u feel enhanced with ur ex. Dont u feel u can find love again. What is making u think they cant be replaced ?? In due time things will become alright.. do some work on urself.. heal 🙃
hi meow i feel for you its hard and sad time to go thru break up,first thing you have to learn right now is to distancing yourself from your past memories that you gatherd in your head.your memory should be a platform you stand upon to reach out for something higher,not a trap you sink in to..dont worry you diserve better ..🙋👌👍🌻
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insight
Thank you Nada! 😊🙏
thank you my friend. your words have given me innerstanding ~ you have soothed my soul. im grateful for you beautiful being
Great video, I really like the ideas you present on attachment. The last minute of the video summarizes everything beautifully. Thank you so much, as this is something I've been struggling with recently
A wise man! Love your videos and very helpful
Good perspective! Thank you!
Spectacular. Great content here. I've saved it so I can re-watch over and over.
Thanks for your insights it's really appreciated 🙏
I can totally relate to where you are coming from ❤
Amazing video. Thank you!
I just recently realized people with unrealistic/unreasonable thought process might have had an advantage to survive, cuz most of our choices are unreasonable yet we survived. Maybe lower suicide rate compared to reasonable people + higher assessment of oneself to boost the confidence which is pretty damn helpful to be successful?
I don’t make effort , I want only take distance from toxic relation, and to continue to hear you,
But sometimes I have things to do, and I trays to solve them, and then I have sad mode,
And I tray to rest a little bit, and I want to have less hours in TH-cam, because it’s
‘Killing “ my eyes,
Strong attachment is from trauma & great loss. One must grieve & or work through the trauma or issues, if possible. The fear is more perceived loss of more of one’s soul! This is my experience. I’m not sure which is the illusion...as there is The Ladder Exercise which when done, proves to the practicer that one does actually have control by directing one’s imagination! So...I’m a bit confused by this, as I was successful when I proved thoughts with emotions do become one’s reality as did E.O Locker, Jr. , student of Neville Goddard back in the day. It’s on YT.
shift in perspective i guess that what enlightens us 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thank you for your time and words
I appreciate your insights.
minute 12 is a perfect description for me to begin to let go
Thank you for that video, it was really inspiring. I have a long way to go before letting go of attachment but your video definitely helped me and gave me some keys to understand why do I need attachment and control. I'm gonna try thinking about it and answer these questions. Thanks for your content 🙏🤗
Thank you, that was great.
Whats good?! Your a beautiful woman, Im letting go now.
When you learn this you will get power on how to open ur heart while you in pain this is not a joke. First you need welcoming the root of attachment welcoming is accecpt because we live in this world not to be the best but to live what is already written and letting go ( no effort) bcs you know this is the world rules. Then you will laugh and happy at it, this is dangerous state , people will see you are stronger and attractive. In Alquran say may god be pleased or redha. Bcs everything already created by god from you are born until you die everything is written .
Great video!
Beautifully said and explained. Thank you!
100 percent agree with you!!
Thank you for this awesome explanation!
I just suffer because I made someone i love suffer.. i feel like i can only feel good again if i know they feel good
Thank you with my heart ❣
Very helpful ❤️ grateful I found your channel just at the right time ☺️
So Powerful! Thank you.
I really enjoy your channel :) Thank you for the work!
Thank you so much for this video.
In the teachings of the Buddha, wisdom does arise,
Three characteristics, profound and wise.
Let me weave them in verses, clear and true,
Impermanence, suffering, and non-self, I'll share with you.
Impermanence, the dance of life's embrace,
Like shifting sands, it leaves no trace.
From dawn to dusk, and season to season,
All things change, without rhyme or reason.
Flowers bloom, then fade away,
As night turns to dawn, and day to gray.
With every breath, moments fleet,
Impermanence reminds us, life is sweet.
Suffering, the noble truth we face,
In trials and tribulations, we find our place.
From physical pain to the ache within,
Suffering weaves a thread, where all begin.
Attachments bind, desires give birth,
Yet suffering teaches, the depths of our worth.
Through compassion's embrace, we find release,
In understanding suffering, our hearts find peace.
Non-self, the illusion of a separate "me",
A profound teaching that sets us free.
No fixed identity, no soul to claim,
We're but a ripple in the cosmic game.
Connected we are, in this grand tapestry,
No separate self, just interdependency.
Non-self reveals unity's sweet embrace,
As we let go, we find our place.
Impermanence, suffering, and non-self,
In these teachings, the Buddha's wisdom dwells.
Through understanding, compassion takes flight,
Guiding us towards liberation's light.
So let us contemplate these truths profound,
In each moment's whisper, let their essence resound.
With wisdom and love, let our hearts unfurl,
Embracing impermanence, suffering, and non-self in this precious world.
It's almost like I don't like people to be around me for long because I do get attached and then they aren't around and I feel a loss of something. Why is this? I am trying to not be so attached and I'm working on this. Any help with videos is are appreciated. Thanks this video helped me understand and being patient with myself and understanding the why I feel forced made me understand what it is with this at this current time. I'm ok with knowing why and I can smile and say maybe the next time I won't let attachment get under my skin. Peace
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Wow. Wonderful insight.
It helped me a lot.
Thank you thank you thank you.
You are the best thank you, u are saving my life ♥️
thank you, thank you.
one love brother, excellent content