How To Wait Until Marriage | Let's Talk About Sex! | The Crutes

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  • So many of you guys have asked us how we dated for six years and DID NOT HAVE SEX! In today's video, we share with you guys some tips that helped us abstain from sex while we dated.
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ความคิดเห็น • 95

  • @TheCrutes
    @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Leave us some suggestions on what our group/crew/family name for you guys should be!

  • @jeronsmith3684
    @jeronsmith3684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love the "No sexual conversations" tip! Big one.

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!

  • @PiterStreak
    @PiterStreak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Christian background, not really active. Been struggling with this. I've had a crush on my current gf for years now.went to prom with her and all. I've asked her out 3 times and finally landed her. Love the girl to pieces but she's on that no sex til marriage and as much as I want to be on the same page, I'm not. Now we do spend time together alone but nothing has happened because of her strong will and what seems like low libito to begin with which can't be fixed by a ring. From countless videos it seems like the best thing to do is being on the same page about this from the get go. Anyways great video yall

  • @CassandraWHaire-ii2tq
    @CassandraWHaire-ii2tq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The name the Crute Chronicles would be a nice name. Chronicle means a related talks of events.

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Interesting to see this perspective. Muslims usually just keep the dating period really physically separate (no touching at all) ideally with a chaperone, and get married within a relatively short courting period.

    • @jjjjjjjjj2476
      @jjjjjjjjj2476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats how Christian doctrine also explain just that people are ignorant

  • @TuscanWonder
    @TuscanWonder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He went six years without sex (from anyone)? That’s fortitude in todays time (and other physical things)

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i need everyone making these claims hooked up to lie detectors

  • @thenishab
    @thenishab 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Come on!!! The Crutes out here trying to teach us the Godly Living 😍

  • @momentoftruth5381
    @momentoftruth5381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The car tempted us badly. But we stayed celibate until marriage praise God!

  • @supremeetnel7707
    @supremeetnel7707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “He makes me a bagel” 😂😂😂😂 that will never not be funny

  • @TheServantJ
    @TheServantJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *Best Tip*
    No emojis 🙅🏼🤣

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But forreal though!

  • @vivelise16
    @vivelise16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    i respect her lol i would never get w someone that wasn't a virgin too. it would make me so uncomfortable if my bf or husband had been w other people like that before me 😭 if i'm waiting you waiting too lmao

  • @yahshaunyahu
    @yahshaunyahu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I always tell women, that a man really wants to be with you, he'll wait. A man that knows your value will not rush sex just to be wit you. But these chick's can't even wait 2 weeks anymore.
    I left girls to wait atleast 6 months to be in a relationship and an extra 3 montns before sex and they act like that's impossible. I want a challenge. I want someone to make me wait. But these girls giving it away like a clearance sale

  • @babygiraffe53
    @babygiraffe53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hope this works. Have to wait another 13 months😬 and it’s already SO HARD!!!

  • @sheronam5788
    @sheronam5788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Had to subscribe as soon as I saw the title 😭❤️

  • @SherinaShantelle
    @SherinaShantelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ya'll actually made me Laugh Out Loud! love your love.

  • @worshipwithwonderschurch7732
    @worshipwithwonderschurch7732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this!! So good!! Love your personalities together too!

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you :)

  • @cbond1c113
    @cbond1c113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well, it's certainly a touchy subject (excuse the pun). Back when I was your age (realistically probably about 3-4 yeas older) I was heavily involved in the Church, and shared an apartment with 3 other guys from the church, and we would have weekly house meetings were we opened-up about different things in a support group setting. Most of us had a girlfriend whom also attended the same church whom we were serious about and hoped to one day marry. We followed the same guidelines for dating outlined here; double dating, never being alone, keeping conversation centered around the lord, etc. In those weekly meetings, it was found that everyone confessed to falling into masturbation, about once a month on average. Then others admitted to involuntary sex which manifested itself through nocturnal emissions. I'm bringing this up because this should be an 'open' discussion. The problem with religious thought is that it does not want to acknowledge the fact that sex is something that we cannot help having because it is a biological. Should we give full rein to it... absolutely not! However, it is important for young people to develop positive attitudes about a behavior in which most will engage, regardless of whether or not they choose to abstain from intercourse or not. Perhaps we can learn from the example of non-European cultures, where they seem to recognize this fact, and couples are united in marriage early-on, sometimes even at the very onset of puberty.

  • @michellej9712
    @michellej9712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for this advice!! Subbed right after watching!!❤️❤️

  • @linawetipo2553
    @linawetipo2553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Favorite couples🖤
    How much y'll inspired me.

  • @bertramwoods5257
    @bertramwoods5257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome commitment💒💒💒😍

  • @josephdejarden2080
    @josephdejarden2080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The No Name Gang sounds kinda dope if not The Crutons lol

  • @shansullivan8675
    @shansullivan8675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love The Tips & #The Crutes Crew 🤍

  • @MalkiaMcKween
    @MalkiaMcKween 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Crutes Crew 🤍

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
    JOHN 3:16

  • @vinashamenka617
    @vinashamenka617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this, thanks for sharing :)

  • @tonymanners5361
    @tonymanners5361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Crute Troop”

  • @NessTalks
    @NessTalks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this 🥰

  • @sespotlhaselo9315
    @sespotlhaselo9315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you guys are beautiful, God bless you. i hope God blesses me with my godly white wife too

  • @hannahmaria9021
    @hannahmaria9021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Croutons!

  • @myarivera4951
    @myarivera4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love this!!

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much Mya :)

  • @lyndengardiner6534
    @lyndengardiner6534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great!

  • @kkingdom2378
    @kkingdom2378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice 👍🏾

  • @jefferycoleman3002
    @jefferycoleman3002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need relationship help!!

  • @lalou6408
    @lalou6408 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sooo yall didn’t kiss for 6 years either?

  • @fredachevalier1967
    @fredachevalier1967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crute fam

  • @emilykaler108
    @emilykaler108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'CrutePies'

  • @aus2tigran
    @aus2tigran 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So basically the guy was friendzoned until they got married

  • @butchblack8582
    @butchblack8582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I dated a girl who said no sex till marriage Ieft her at the bar😂😂🤣🤣😅 I refuse to be married and screwed 😤

  • @Jambuc829
    @Jambuc829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would never marry a chick I haven’t had a chance to be intimate with. I would fear us getting married and then finding out we don’t have any sexual chemistry and aren’t sexually compatible. That would suck so bad.

  • @MalkiaMcKween
    @MalkiaMcKween 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How did you two transition into marriage? Was it hard to let those dating boundaries go after implementing them for 6 years?

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It actually wasn't hard at all.. We were so close and comfortable with one another, so it made the transition really easy. Hope this answered your question :)

  • @chelseakingston
    @chelseakingston 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How bout ‘Crutons’...a play on croutons...😂🤣 I really dig it!!

  • @kboone
    @kboone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I won’t add a lot of details or Contant here just know that a story like this, today in the world we live in is very refreshing to hear. My heart goes out to both of you for such commitment and strength. Be well. . . .
    Love is love, respect is earned, loyalty is priceless.
    Keith in California byway of Harlem❗️🙏🏾

  • @Itsrebeccadee
    @Itsrebeccadee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The way he looks at you ahh

  • @fredachevalier1967
    @fredachevalier1967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The "Crute saders"♡♡♡♡♡

  • @adventuresofxyz22
    @adventuresofxyz22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love love this, the alone thing is real lol. Gotta put up those boundaries maynnne!

  • @magretongubo1902
    @magretongubo1902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow you look good and blessed

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! 🤗

  • @desid1098
    @desid1098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    absolutely love this video! such awesome advice for someone like myself who waits to wait! 💍 y’all are definitely my fav youtubers! ☺️🙌🏻🤎

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you!

  • @alisoncoach4459
    @alisoncoach4459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You got me I've pressed the subscribed button 🤗 No idea for the name but some videos ideas if I may : Song association Challenge, House tour and your career & education path (education is important tho) Keep doing that gooood like it 😃 Hi from Germany !

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi!!! Thank you for the suggestions!

  • @luckie314
    @luckie314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good job you two. God loves your message. Keep up the good work!

  • @miaconte6930
    @miaconte6930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Are you guys religious?

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      We are Christians!

  • @lilyrosepunkunicorm9871
    @lilyrosepunkunicorm9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Cruties or The Crutons.

  • @tamaraslay
    @tamaraslay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the cru❤️

  • @preciouschauke3109
    @preciouschauke3109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good advice thanx

  • @SophiaCaton
    @SophiaCaton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All I could think about was yall calling us "crute-ies" like cuties but guys might not like that one 😂

  • @eternalwellnesswithjonatha6436
    @eternalwellnesswithjonatha6436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love the tips! all useful advice for walking out a pure relationship before marriage 👌🏽

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jon!

  • @m.s4764
    @m.s4764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Crutes Crew definitely!

  • @thaiao3988
    @thaiao3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯

  • @3OOG
    @3OOG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crutes Crew 🤘🏾 Just let the fam know when y’all drop that dope hoodie merch 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol! We got you!

  • @fluffycookie3415
    @fluffycookie3415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Muslim can relate...
    We haven't sex, before marriage

  • @jefferycoleman3002
    @jefferycoleman3002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys, these are some great tips. I’m definitely loving y’all videos!! Much Love!!

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!!

  • @leticiagallegos6266
    @leticiagallegos6266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Number 3 is such a good tip! Love it 🤎

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! 🤎

  • @madisoncory6807
    @madisoncory6807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥

  • @iswiyanto2146
    @iswiyanto2146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    your husband is soo handsome...

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree!! -Brooklyn 🤍

    • @luisv8887
      @luisv8887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They both are very attractive some beautiful babies are gonna come out of this beautiful marriage!😂