Seerah of Prophet Muhammad 98 - Marital dispute with wives - Sh. Dr. Yasir Qadhi 12/3/14

Date of presentation: Dec 3, 2014
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In this video, Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi covers the famous family incident of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), where the prophet abstained from his wives for a whole month and the residents of Makkah were afraid that he may have divorced all his wives.
Benefits derived from this incident include:
-Customs and gender roles vary from society to society. Islam doesn't dictate particular gender roles as long as overall guidelines of Shari'a are met. Behavior and speech of woman of different lands may be different. Sharia allows for a halal spectrum.
-Humanity of wives of prophet. If Allah had willed, the Prophet (PBUH) would have had a fairy tale marriage. These incidents show even the prophet had to deal with marital issues, such that we would learn how to cope with our own martial issues.
-The prophet (PBUH) was the perfect role model in the treatment of women: In a society which accepted physically disciplining the wife, our prophet as never lifted his hands up against any woman or servant
-News of marital problem spread to the whole city, and Allah revealed verses. Shows to have a marital problem is not embarrassing, nor taboo
- The good marriage is not the one that doesn't have any problems, but rather, the problems are trivial compared to the positives.
-One of the best ways to settle problems is to keep away for a little while to cool off. However, the woman should never be asked to leave, the man should leave (if needed and appropriate)
-The in-laws can and should get involved as needed, only if they do so wisely.
-The husband has the right to give the option to his wife for divorce. (Ikhtiar)
-Simplicity of the lifestyle of the Prophet (PBUH), a sign that he is a prophet. All his wives were given the option to live a simple life.
-The status of the Mothers of the Believers is shown, as they chose to live simple lives over luxury and wealth.
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[@greencoolmoss]

@3:40 FINALLY THE AUDIENCE IS PUT IN THEIR PLACE LOL. I'm always here screaming the answer haha. But I guess it's easy for me who's binging the seerah one after the other on demand. These poor brothers and sisters sometimes have month long breaks between classes

[@mohdfazliibrahim9459]

Our mothers(wives of Rosulullah) definitely the best role models that this ummah must look up and follow

[@attivamp6435]

I'm so happy to reach close to 100 now.

[@farzeensweetie4949]

May ALLAH Grant us Sabr in marriage 😔 at the end every Sabr will bring fruits in Sha ALLAH

[@sahraluujiyano6]

Mansha Allah i always answer your questions before your Student i learned from you the best jizaka Allah

[@yahyaabbie9795]

Linda Said
May Allah make it easy for u and us

[@baranbarin4927]

Jazakallah khaira brother
may Allah grant you and all Muslim brothers and sisters in highest Jannah Ameen 🤲

[@fmnishad1]

Jazakallah khairan

[@sahraluujiyano6]

Mansha Allah jizaka Allah kheir

[@_f_]

Thanks

[@kisherenow]

JazakAllah

[@alispokenenglish]

ZasakAllah

[@greencoolmoss]

@1:55 lmaooo, first time after 97 hours

[@imamzakariya4965]

thanks

[@greencoolmoss]

So right now in the seerah, the wives are:
Sawda, Aishah, Hafsa, umm salama (hind), juwayriah bint al haarith, zaynab bint jahsh, umm habibah ramla binti abu sufyan, safiyah bint huyay, maymuna bint al haarith al halaaliyyah. Radhiyallahuanhum

[@swalihmm]

One more. Zainab binth huzaima.r.a. She died during the life of Prophet s.a.w.

[@greencoolmoss]

@@swalihmm yes at this point she has already passed away radhiyallahuanha, along with khadija radhiyallahuanha thats why i didnt include their names

[@sayidahummi6841]

Did our prophet (pbuh) ever divorced?

[@greencoolmoss]

@@sayidahummi6841 with hafsa radhiyallahuanha once, but allah made rasulullah take her back
Then in a strange incident where a woman(forgot her name) on the wedding night suddenly rejected the prophet before they consumated the marriage

[@sayidahummi6841]

@@greencoolmoss i've read an article, said that prophet divorced his 3 wives. But, the article doesn't put any dalil from shahih hadiths, so i can't trust the statement on that.