Update: AITA for going to a pre-planned vacation with my family rather than my...
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If she's not going to support him emotionally, he's not a boyfriend. He's a fuck buddy to her.
OP 1 is the AH in the weirdest way. She ditched him… he forgave her… she asks for a break and then breaks up with him even though he’s a “great guy”. DAMN, she’s ruthless 😂😂😂
She saw his emotional vulnerability and ran for the hills.
She realized she just didn’t care about him more than going on a vacation she wanted to go on. At least she realized that meant she didn’t actually care about him that much and knew they should break up.
She ITA for ditching him, but not for breaking up with him.
@@Solkard I know what you mean but first bros mom dies then his girl breaks up w him after going on a girl’s trip? Those optics are kinda crazy
She did 1 thing right. She broke up with him. Now he can find a good woman. Now he doesn't have to deal with a selfish B.
@@lindah3803 I agree. But remember, she broke up w him shortly AFTER his mom died which makes her a special kind of AH.
She made a decision and this has consequences...hope the boyfried will find a better partner in the future
story #2: Not only is the OP NTA, but she dodged a nuclear bomb. If he did that much destruction to her apartment when she is simply a GF, imagine how much damage he would do to HER if she was married to him.
That BF is NOT entitled to spouse level privileges from a GF. She had already done much more than should be expected from a a. GF.
Anyone backing the BF is as narcissistic as he is. Her relationship with her family is at least as important as his relationship with his family is to him
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Again - boyfriends have no right to expect spousal level privileges from a girlfriend.
Story 1: oh wow! But at least she did what was right, in the end, by breaking up with him.
OP 1 Trash. "Wait, are you going somewhere?" OP2 ITA for playing the boyfriend out so rudely. The boyfriend deserves jail for his vandalism.
Story 1: ‘I hardly knew his mother.’ YIKES!!! She’s horrible.
Story 2: Thank goodness he showed his true colors. I’m just glad she was out of town when he did. Holy smokes!
I would 100% break up with her over that.
Wow. Ditches grieving boyfriend to party. Doesn’t find herself to be the AH. Asks for a break 3 months after funeral fuck up. Then not even a month later breaks it off bc ‘he’s a great guy’ he does deserve better. Good riddance..
Story 2 ESH the communications sucks between them. As other said this could have been a good opportunity to meet the family, boyfriend could have paid for himself and a passport doesn’t take long to get (in my experience), and gotten himself a room for the duration. Tbf the reasons she gave (and how she probably gave them) probs came off as ‘haHAA you’re not important enough to meet my family plus I really don’t want you there’ also a phone call to the hosts would have given her a lead on which direction she should take ‘oh yes he can come it’d be lovely to meet him’ or ‘no this is a family vacation.’ I don’t think they were invested in this relationship, ofc it’s only been a year, but NTA in the update, dude deserve the charges, shoulda just left with his pride intact instead of being a vandal like it wouldn’t bite him in the ass
21 year old brother's fiancee is coming, so significant others coming doesn't seem to be an issue. BF just found out the hard way that he's not significant, just other.
Story 1- definitely the AH. If his mother was absolutely a wicked witch towards you, I would totally understand not going to her funeral. However, that wasn't the case and he needed your support and you just tossed him aside like hot garbage.
S1: op is the aahhh....
S2: op isn't the aahhhh...
Get him girl don't take it laying down get every thing you can
S2 both AH but varying levels. OP is ah for not thinking about your bf of 1yr and not inviting him but the bf is in another stratosphere of AH.
Who tf goes on vacation anyway after finding out bf's mum died...that is so selfish. You can always reschedule trips, you can't reschedule a funeral....like wtf
Ehh it could have been fine
IMO op 1 ain’t the ah
Story 1: AH - its a funeral. A hard time for him and wanted your support. Sorry but its a you should have gone
Story 2: AH family. If a friend is getting invited your partner should be. He needs to meet them. If family know Op is in a relationship they don’t care about Ops relationship and OP doesn’t care about him
Meeting family by not discussing it
Story 1: OP's NTA for going on the trip with her family instead of the funeral. Everything was already planned and given the circumstances, delaying it could have resulted in years. Now of course the death of OP's boyfriend's mother was a very tragic moment for him, but he had to understand her side too and she could be with him to support him once she came back from the trip. I understand that it might've been very hard for him to process everything and even to try to understand his partner's side, but being mad at her over it is just selfish.
But what OP did next by ditching him like that was truly an AH move, especially since she knew it was such a vulnerable moment for him. They should've done some sort of counseling or productive activities to rekindle the relationship, but instead she ran for the hills. Goodness.
Crazy how his moms death is more important than time with her living family to you people nta especially cause she left him when all is said and done
WTF are you talking about bro? This wasn’t a family event. She went partying with her friends instead of supporting her boyfriend at the funeral. She’s ABSOLUTELY an asshole
Boyfriend overreacted for sure and wasn’t in the right for causing 25k worth of damage but I get why he did it. The gf communication issues coupled with missing social cues def played a part in how she responded to her bf’s intentions. Sucks but BF should def held responsible for those damages