Listening to her thank people for the advice on the postpartum depression and the tongue tie as well as intimacy issues was really wonderful. It was so great that people were able to step up and give her advice on her situation that allowed her to move forward and be healthier. This makes me so happy for her.
He calls HER selfish when he's not paying any attention to his child? He and his friends can go off and have their circle jerk "tournament" without OP. She already has one child, she doesnt need to be married to another one.
Girl it's been 61 years but oh my goodness I remember the cracked nipples. I feel you and you have my sympathy. I hope it gets better soon. Í hate to say it but I really think you should walk away. Your married to a Manchild. He will never change. You deserve so much better. Good luck to you and your baby girl. 😊
Are we all going to ignore the fact that she literally has to beg her husband for help? She’s literally married a manchild. She’s expected to take care of a baby all day, while he gets to just work then play video games as soon as he gets home. There’s no excuse for his lack of parenting on his end. Yes, he works all day, but there are men who work all day every day yet they’re still able to be present & parent their child. OP’s husband’s priorities aren’t straight & she needs to divorce him b/c the way he’s acting it annoying af. She needs to get his a** in check & LEAVE HIM!
Individuals who work full time, come home and want to "relax," and complain when their SO asks for help, accusing them of sitting at home on their butts all day - who do they think is doing the laundry, keeping the house clean, cooking, running errands, etc..... And then to do all that on top of taking care of a newborn?! What a bleeping bleeper.
Even if they didn't do any of that, the fact they are stuck at home all day, every day, no actual break time, for weeks, months on end, with a screaming newborn and throbbing infection in thier breasts is hellish enough as is! It is an incredibly isolating time, it was so bad I wanted to end myself when I was going through it.
I think the husband is also going though something. Not excusing his actions and attitude; but I do think he is perhaps also struggling with depression and the life changes, and the connection he lacks with the kid. He needs help. Glad that OP is getting it and have a more optimistic outlook on life and the situation.
I was wondering that too. She said 6 weeks have passed since the delivery. Whether she chose not to have visitors around until the baby reaches a few months old or because she doesn't have the courage to face anyone over their so-called "protectiveness", then yeah, arguably not that close....
@anaduarte8760 she literally can't even talk to them about her situation because her Dad and bros tempers are so bad,she afraid they'll end up in jail 🙄 they sound nuts
See? The thing with this kind of dedicated gamers is that they assume the work they are doing on gaming is equivalent to real work and not as an amusement park
@funkyfresh2053 well that doormat is suffering because she didn't want her father and bros to lose control of their tempers and make the situation worse....I can see where she got her taste in men🙄
Did you miss the part where she said he was playing games 24x7 without even taking a break for to eat? Do you need genius to figure out it's not normal?
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Listening to her thank people for the advice on the postpartum depression and the tongue tie as well as intimacy issues was really wonderful. It was so great that people were able to step up and give her advice on her situation that allowed her to move forward and be healthier. This makes me so happy for her.
He calls HER selfish when he's not paying any attention to his child? He and his friends can go off and have their circle jerk "tournament" without OP. She already has one child, she doesnt need to be married to another one.
Girl it's been 61 years but oh my goodness I remember the cracked nipples. I feel you and you have my sympathy. I hope it gets better soon. Í hate to say it but I really think you should walk away. Your married to a Manchild. He will never change. You deserve so much better. Good luck to you and your baby girl. 😊
Are we all going to ignore the fact that she literally has to beg her husband for help? She’s literally married a manchild. She’s expected to take care of a baby all day, while he gets to just work then play video games as soon as he gets home. There’s no excuse for his lack of parenting on his end. Yes, he works all day, but there are men who work all day every day yet they’re still able to be present & parent their child. OP’s husband’s priorities aren’t straight & she needs to divorce him b/c the way he’s acting it annoying af. She needs to get his a** in check & LEAVE HIM!
And too many people think that being a full-time parent, especially to a newborn, isn't work.
Says she "doesnt do anything" all day, but then wont help because its "inconvenient"... my dude... if its nothing why you complaining?
Individuals who work full time, come home and want to "relax," and complain when their SO asks for help, accusing them of sitting at home on their butts all day - who do they think is doing the laundry, keeping the house clean, cooking, running errands, etc..... And then to do all that on top of taking care of a newborn?! What a bleeping bleeper.
Even if they didn't do any of that, the fact they are stuck at home all day, every day, no actual break time, for weeks, months on end, with a screaming newborn and throbbing infection in thier breasts is hellish enough as is! It is an incredibly isolating time, it was so bad I wanted to end myself when I was going through it.
She sounds like a really sweet but timid person who needs to step up. What manchild she married!
Wait?! If he is gaming 24x7 without even taking break in-between to eat, It's no longer gaming issue, Bro having full on mental breakdown there
Her husband has checked out of the marriage. Highly likely to have an affair.
I think the husband is also going though something. Not excusing his actions and attitude; but I do think he is perhaps also struggling with depression and the life changes, and the connection he lacks with the kid. He needs help. Glad that OP is getting it and have a more optimistic outlook on life and the situation.
If she's having that much trouble she needs to switch to a bottle.
Shooting your semen dosent make you a father
Just makes him a donor
Her family are so protective...but not one of them have come to visit her and help with the baby🙄
I was wondering that too. She said 6 weeks have passed since the delivery. Whether she chose not to have visitors around until the baby reaches a few months old or because she doesn't have the courage to face anyone over their so-called "protectiveness", then yeah, arguably not that close....
@anaduarte8760 she literally can't even talk to them about her situation because her Dad and bros tempers are so bad,she afraid they'll end up in jail 🙄 they sound nuts
NTA he is . He needs to help she is his daughter
See? The thing with this kind of dedicated gamers is that they assume the work they are doing on gaming is equivalent to real work and not as an amusement park
usually I'm not a fan of destroying things [digital or not] but op is 1000% NTA
Poor girl is going THROUGH IT
Dude, the comment section was horrible to OP. Glad some reasonable folks pulled through eventually, but wow- some people are so delusional
This had to rage bait...husband is pathetic and cruel she can't ask her family for help or they'll end up in jail...ffs😂
If my husband was treating me like this my family would end up in jail too 😂
@funkyfresh2053 well that doormat is suffering because she didn't want her father and bros to lose control of their tempers and make the situation worse....I can see where she got her taste in men🙄
Did you miss the part where she said he was playing games 24x7 without even taking a break for to eat? Do you need genius to figure out it's not normal?
@formanga8871 no shit he's normal...obviously a mental
@@formanga8871 noshit he's not normal...he's an absolutemental
Ppd... basically sleep deprivation...