Art advice that changed my life ( art + chat )

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  • @jewabeus
    @jewabeus ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Just found you today. Thank you, thank you, thank you for being here. I'm a self taught artist that has given up. It's been years since I've done anything with a pen or pencil. I just watched this video, but you've got my fingers itching to pick something up & doodle. It's past my bedtime, but I'm thinking really hard about tinkering tomorrow after work. I appreciate you for that. Thank you!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You got this! Take your time and start small. I’ll be here if you need ideas and encouragement 💙😊💜

    • @jewabeus
      @jewabeus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@betsi_jae Much appreciated. I've been thinking about it all day. The power has been out after a storm for the last 3 hours, so I've had work time to think while I couldn't do anything else. LOL🤣

    • @gonnabeayogi1445
      @gonnabeayogi1445 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just had a doodle day yesterday as I sat by a riverbank. Sun was shining and I sat for hours doodling leaves and swirls and it just worked! It looked fantastic!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gonnabeayogi1445 that sounds wonderful 😊. I’m glad you enjoyed a little time drawing.

    • @susanmartin3762
      @susanmartin3762 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've just ordered my Micro-pens in all sizes. I have TONS of empty journals. I've ALWAYS written in my journals. I've NEVER lettered or doodled in my journals. Today I begin a new way if recording my thoughts and feelings. The pens were NOT expensive at sell. They were $8.99 for 6. The lady who tutored me on lettering here in TH-cam told us not to buy expensive pens right away. We didn't know if we were even going to line lettering. I KNEW i was going to love this hobby. I bought the best brush pens, Tombow Dual- tip brush pens. $15 for 10 brush pens isn't "expensive " in my mind. This is going to be fun. I'm also beginning to use watercolors to make my own canvases for my lettering and now my Zen- Tangles. I've always been an artist..I just didn't know it. Not until i was in my 30s did i give my talents some serious attention. I'm musically inclined. I sing and dance and act. The stage is my "paper" and my body and vocal chords are my pens and pencils. Performing on stage has been the only true "home" I've ever known. I loved listening to you Miss

  • @1057FarmWife
    @1057FarmWife 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am 60 now and just getting into art, haven't done any since high school. I found your channel a few days ago and have been trying my best to make your patterns in my sketchbook. You have really inspired me! Thank you!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is awesome!

  • @ahphong2904
    @ahphong2904 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You took doodling to a whole new level. You made doodling into an art form. That’s why your advice of not taking yourself seriously holds a lot of truth, you doodle.

    • @gabicreightonbooksetc.
      @gabicreightonbooksetc. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ahphong2904, your comment is so lovely and true.😊💕🌸

  • @ingeleonora-denouden6222
    @ingeleonora-denouden6222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agree!
    One thing I want to add: you do not need expensive art supplies ... but if you want them and buy them, don't worry: use them!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly☺️

    • @mattsadventureswithart5764
      @mattsadventureswithart5764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely! If you've bought them, don't feel guilty for treating yourself, but please use them.
      If considering your paper, work out how much per page it cost and compare that to just buying a cup of coffee from whichever coffee shop you prefer. Almost all of the time, the paper will be a fraction of the cost of the coffee and will give much more pleasure, both in how long it takes to make art on each page and in how long you can keep it and look at it in future.

  • @kylieb4836
    @kylieb4836 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This resonated with me so much…. Unbeknownst to me until 8 yrs ago, I’ve lived with Narcolepsy Type 1 since I was 15. I’ve loved art all my life, but couldn’t concentrate long enough to learn or practice before I fell asleep. Since I started on medication 8 yrs ago, I’ve found a new love for creativity - I’ve taught myself to draw, sketch, paint, paper weave, card making, create crepe wall flowers, crocheting, resin work, Upcycling furniture, plaster art, machine sewing, art journaling with gel plates, canvas art and woodwork ( yup, I have my own workshop with tablesaw etc). Like yourself, I persevered through the hard parts - Lawd, there have been so many failures…lol. But there is no better feeling than when you create - good or bad outcome, it’s the process that I love. I so hope you continue this channel- it’s inspiring and your work is beautiful 😍 thankyou for the advice 😊

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, I can’t imagine how many difficulties you’ve gone through because of your condition. Thank you for sharing your amazing story 💙💜💙. I’m happy to read that you are out there creating.

  • @artisanne10
    @artisanne10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've only just found you and so glad that I did. I've succumed to the dreaded covid again and am feeling so rough. I found your channel and began to doodle along and what I found was that by concentrating on my doodling, it stopped me from giving in to how poorly I'm feeling, and from feeling sorry for myself. So thank you for your wonderful tutorials and keep up your gorgeous artwork. They're really beautiful, and it's so therapeutic.

    • @catzrule5973
      @catzrule5973 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you are feeling much better real soon. I've just found Miss Betsi too, and am inspired. I have a board on Pinterest with ideas for art projects "one day" that i need to start using! Sending good health wishes while I am drawing!

    • @artisanne10
      @artisanne10 ปีที่แล้ว

      @catzrule5973 thank you so much. I too have far too many "one day" projects saved on my Pinterest boards! 😅 Take care.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome aboard! I caught covid a handful of times myself these last few years, and each time its absolutely brutal. I truly hope you start feeling better soon. Take care 🧡

  • @DollyRider
    @DollyRider ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have no idea how you are inspiring me👍🏽I am learning so much from you. I had an epiphany yesterday and here it is: 1. Draw what you see around you. Use everyday shapes. I did a painting then using numbers 1 thru 9! 2. Tweak the shapes 😮😮in a way that’s pleasing to your eyes. I esp like soft curves vs sharp corners and edges. I really love your flowing lined leaves! 3. Duplicate them into space using 2-point perspective. Fill the space. Add other shapes that come to you. 4. SHADE using what works. Pen and ink and graphite preferred. 5. Add color and this can be before the doodling or after.
    No earthshaking new thoughts but I’m sharing them because they were inspired by watching you. Thank you so very much, Betsy, my new friend and (unbeknownst to you) mentor. I’m 84 and having the time of my life!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      These are all wonderful ideas! I like that you are developing a system that works for you and is fueling your creativity. I certainly consider everyone who engages with my art part of my friend group💕. I taught and tutored mathematics for years and years, and I have always carried all those memories of all my students with me. I'm glad you are here, and I'm honored to be your mentor 💙💚💙.

  • @dopapier
    @dopapier ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Betsi, you are not only a great artist and teacher, you are also a philosopher. I could listen to you for hours.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you 💚💙💚

  • @gamingbutternut
    @gamingbutternut ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The "you don't need expensive art supplies" tip (as well as the "don't take it so seriously" since they are linked) I always struggle with. Partially because I have a birb brain that wants the new item on account that it is new and partially because I'm still unlearning the idea that more expensive = better art. Especially with Copic markers. All my art friends in high school had them and their art looked so much better than mine so that must mean I need the markers. I finally got some from a small art store that was sadly going out of business and I just couldn't bring myself to use them. I know the reason their art was so good was because they practiced all the time but boy did younger me want it to be the markers, otherwise I could never be as good as them. Doing art for myself instead of comparing myself with others has honestly been the best thing I've learned.
    As always thank you again for another great video and I can't wait for the next one!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience and your advice. It certainly is important to not compare what we do with what others do, since it so often leads to a feeling of inadequacy.

  • @DeAzul7902
    @DeAzul7902 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    ❤❤❤ You are a blessing, my lady! You're also an accomplished & wonderful artist. Person, too. Thanku for sharing you with us. You "saved" me today.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for your wonderful comment. I'm just trying to share a little inspiration if I can 💜.

    • @maineiacts
      @maineiacts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I 2nd THAT!!! 😉😘👍👍👍🏆🤗💖

  • @DB_in_AZ
    @DB_in_AZ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think this is the very first video I watched of yours months ago. It’s why I follow you now. You are very talented and your advice is wise and welcoming. You are why I am drawing again. Thank you.

  • @bnanimal
    @bnanimal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so grateful I stumbled across your page. Just in the couple days I've been watching you have made me see and feel more appreciation for what I try in my art and for myself! Thank you for being so real and raw ♡

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad! You’ve totally made my day 💜🦋💜

  • @gr81gkar
    @gr81gkar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was rewatching you today, thank you for all your support to those looking for a place to feel comfortable and safe.
    I found my safe place in a group in NC Artmosphere Community Arts Center. Some are wonderful working artists, others are like me, striving to find my place in a new home (originally from SoCal). I'm 65 and while at Artmosphere someone introduced me to zentangle, that sent me on a journey through the internet and I found much inspiration. Your the only one that's put things into words that I van share with others to let them know how I feel.
    I'm going to share this with a couple of new members that are kind of where I am, sort of a limbo of destination. Just starting or restarting on their art journey.
    Thank you❤

  • @darleneyoung5314
    @darleneyoung5314 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since I was a small child I have loved color. If I got a coloring book and crayons for Christmas, and nothing else, I was happy. I love watching your creativity and listening to your sage advice on living life.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      That is awesome!

  • @claireruf7556
    @claireruf7556 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wrote out you’re advice on a card to keep referencing it, because it’s good stuff! Like you said, it applies in all of life.

  • @scrappinrabbit
    @scrappinrabbit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your art is beautiful and inspired me to start Zentangling again. A couple years ago i sanded and doodled my entire cottage kitchen table. At first people say they thought it was a tablecloth.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      How fun ☺️. I'm sure it was such a rewarding experience.

  • @kalakala10011
    @kalakala10011 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Goodness, your work has inspired me so many times, but I never listened to the sound track, was listening to someone reading a book! Now that I found your voice, your work and words sends me! Thanks for your honesty too.

  • @genelleduran9069
    @genelleduran9069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do have a funny story . The first time I doodled one of your videos, I spent a couple of days on this particular piece and I just couldn't believe how perfect this piece was on the first try...until I found my glasses! LOL What a mess!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      That is awesome! I get the same thing, after I finally got some prescription glasses I realized how different my old drawings look.

  • @dianemoore2945
    @dianemoore2945 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Miss Betsi, I’m sure I am much MUCH older than you, but everything you said is true! Great advice from a young person to a much MUCH older artist. I actually did what you were told not to do. I took myself too serious and fell out of creativity and became a 9 to 5 worker bee. The part of me that loved art and doodling was on the back shelf of life. I am very glad I came across your channel, you are inspiring thanks again for being here❤!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad this discussion resonated with you . I'm approaching my forties, and although I could resent the time it seems I lost, I'm trying to appreciate all the lessons I've been handed over the years.

  • @jacquelinecroft1982
    @jacquelinecroft1982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow so glad i found you, i studied art and design for nearly four years, loved it but didnt take it up as a job.... I like you have tried everything, i too can knit ,crochet and sew. For the past two years i have played around with resin, which was good, but then i saw your videos and i am hooked again on drawing, out have come my pens and pencils and you have have inspired me, at 70 years old i am drawing again. thankyou so much. I am catching up with your videos now xx

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      How wonderful! I’m so glad you’re feeling inspired. 💜

  • @mattsadventureswithart5764
    @mattsadventureswithart5764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On your "you don't need expensive art supplies", I'm so glad that you went on to say that you do sometimes get the expensive pen.
    I KNOW I don't need expensive art supplies, I promise that I do, and almost all of what I make is with cheap supplies... but sometimes it's wonderful to treat myself by buying an expensive pen or pencil.
    Anyone who makes art outside is likely to have people come and chat, and the subject of supplies comes up often in that situation. I say that I don't feel the need to buy expensive supplies, but it's nice to treat myself every now and again.

  • @heatherwalton9501
    @heatherwalton9501 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice - thank you! I am guilty of buying expensive art supplies then don’t use them because l ‘save them for best’. I don’t actually know what ‘best’ is so they just sit in a drawer until they dry up!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😞I can completely relate. We're all guilty of that at some point. A few years ago, my local craft store was selling a lot of scrapbook paper at really good prices and I decided to "stock up". Of course, a lot of it is still unused, but at least I learned to stop buying scrapbook paper and I'm actually looking for ways to use it up.

    • @mattsadventureswithart5764
      @mattsadventureswithart5764 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I bought so many sketchbooks, both expensive and cheap, and was always scared of ruining them, but eventually came to the realisation that not using them was far worse than even a single scribble on each page before throwing the paper in the recycling bin.
      I try to compare my art supplies purchases to the cost of a coffee from a swanky coffee shop. I know that I get much more pleasure from using my art supplies than I get from spending money in coffee shops, and just knowing that I've spent 3 weeks of coffee shop money on art supplies is a lovely motivation to make art that I enjoy looking at or gifting to people I love.

  • @NicoleMachele
    @NicoleMachele ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 😍 I love listening to you as I draw… I’m fairly new at this but come from a family of artists. I was always told by them that I didn’t have any talent, so I didn’t even try. I now see it’s about patience and practice and I’m loving the joy I get from working through the hard parts to create something I find pleasure in looking at 😍 my husband listens to you too when I forward something on to him… your video on struggle was brilliant as is this one… I’m working my way slowly through your content 🥰
    One piece of advice I got years ago, I’m 54, is progression not perfection… 👍🏻 helps me with everything daily… 🤩

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad you are beginning to find joy in art again, and I’m honestly so sorry that other artists (your family!) found such a horrible way to discourage you from making art. I truly believe the key is patience, and the progress will come. I’m also so glad that your husband listens too 🧡.

  • @kellylogan3273
    @kellylogan3273 ปีที่แล้ว

    17:40 thank you so much! When you got to number five it really resonated with me because that is what I do but I didn’t put into perspective how helpful this was and is to my continued art journey and life.
    I also very much appreciate the fact that your supplies are what is handy because I have a habit of having to have all the good stuff and then completely peter out on doing the project. If my art is dependent only on me and not my instruments I am more able to draw at any moment and not feel I need a special time, place and materials.
    Have a blessed day my Sister ❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely! It’s better to be intrinsically motivated, to let the inspiration come from within, rather than depend on external forces (like our art supplies) to dictate how we will express our creativity.

  • @happymailmagic
    @happymailmagic ปีที่แล้ว

    So much great advice! Yes... I'm Binge-Watching your Channel! LOL!

  • @barbmclean1722
    @barbmclean1722 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely painting! Your advice is extremely useful. Thanks for sharing!

  • @okreizman
    @okreizman ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Воистину сказочные сады !!! Благодарю , что делитесь своим талантом !!! ❤

  • @beckys7884
    @beckys7884 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so wise beyond your years :) I love watching and listening to your videos. I draw and watch at the same time, it helps me relax :)

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 😀

  • @RozannaPotter-sk5et
    @RozannaPotter-sk5et ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the reminders of art and life!

  • @plamarsh1
    @plamarsh1 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have enjoyed this video so much! I too, try everything, and have become quite good at a lot of things. I have really demonstrated to myself that just continuing to practice works and I get better and better. When I am knitting or crocheting I often have to pull it all out and start over, which I just expect now and do without regret because I am learning how to do something I wasn't understanding previously. Creating is my oxygen, I need it daily. Thanks for your lovely video.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing!! I like that it's your oxygen. Beautiful ☺️

  • @flowgood123
    @flowgood123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the inspiration. It was also very relaxing to watch. Loved it😊.

  • @paulinemartinbarrell3277
    @paulinemartinbarrell3277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Pauline ! 💜 I really appreciate your gift 💚☺️💚

    • @paulinemartinbarrell3277
      @paulinemartinbarrell3277 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so happy! I’m 70 yrs old & never have been able to draw a circle a straight line and I’ve almost completed my first artwork!!!…. Thanks to you!🌸

  • @grannyrorystudio492
    @grannyrorystudio492 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome, you are very talented

  • @kath.artique
    @kath.artique ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful advice, Betsi. And so inspiring to watch you draw. ❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

  • @kathrync.209
    @kathrync.209 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you are awesome and also an awesome teacher. Thank you for encouraging me. Kathryn C

  • @Coasterdude02149
    @Coasterdude02149 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is why I am so thankful TH-cam put you in my recommended videos. Your style and teaching is so easy, free flowing and laid back. You don't have any aura of pressure or 'rules'. So many other tutorials I tried to follow, esp. Zentangles seemed so precise. Like everything had to be just so in just the right combination, and I always got down on myself when I couldn't manage to piece together the right patterns. You have lifted all that and given me the inspiration and courage to just let go and do it. Thank you for that!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! I’m so glad I could help make this pleasant for you again. ☺️ I just want everyone to enjoy the craft, relax, and reduce stress.

    • @Coasterdude02149
      @Coasterdude02149 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@betsi_jae You're definitely accomplishing your goal 😊

  • @linerlova
    @linerlova ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed doodling with you and listening to your wisdom

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @beadingbelle3486
    @beadingbelle3486 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found you today, too, & what a joy - i'm so happy to have found your channel! Watching & listening to this i had tears in my eyes because what you said resonated with me so much.
    Like you, i love to try all sorts (& sometimes i get a bit overwhelmed with so many projects & ideas that i have to slow myself down & discipline myself to concentrate on one thing at a time - the piece in hand).
    I sometimes put things aside when they get too tricky, but they can get left, so i have many half finished projects, so 'finding ways to push through the hard parts' has inspired me to find these put adide projects, pick up where i left off, & find ways forward with them.
    I had given up on my music (piano & guitar) because i didn't think i had any talent (until i picked up my guitar & found i couldn't even remember how to tune it & couldn't remember where any of the chords were, then i realised i had at least some!) So i could apply what you have said here to my music, too... I so get what you say regarding needing to keep the muse healthy & i only have myself to blame, as i realise i have stagnated, allowed that part of my creativity to go stale. I guess i have listened too much to another person's negativity about my music, & have allowed myself to transfer what i've heard into other parts of my creativity - the voice whispering in my ear saying i'll never be any good, or good enough. But good enough for whom?! Them?! Surely, if i'm good enough for me/myself, i realise that's all that matters, & every 'failure' is afterall a valuable lesson in itself.
    I, too, use yarn a lot so i knit & crochet. Creating is my way of coping with my cptsd, & I used to create the kind of pen & ink artwork in your videos 50yrs ago, back in my teens, as a way of destressing when feeling overwhelmed by my dusfunctional life circumstances as i found it so calming, but i only knew a very few simple elements. Now, however, i feel inspired to expand it, & i envisage many happy hours ahead! I especially love the little cameos of single elements as these inspire me to try them out first, before putting them together in one large piece.
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful artwork with us, & for sharing the nuggets of related inspiring wisdom you have gleaned over the years.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so glad the message resonated with you. 😌 As creatives we often find ourselves feeling very lonely. Sometimes other people don’t understand what we’re trying to create. They’re quick to judge, so we un fortunately get discouraged and give up. Thank you so much for sharing your story. 💜 I’m here if you ever need a little push to get you creating again.

    • @beadingbelle3486
      @beadingbelle3486 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@betsi_jae Thank you.

  • @genelleduran9069
    @genelleduran9069 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your my inspiration Miss Betsi! I look forward to look thru your videos and find one and try it for myself and even though I am not as good as you are right now, that flame that burns in me and your beautiful art work, drives me and deep down I know the future holds great potential! Thank you for this video!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      You can do it! With practice and patience you can create anything you dream up 💙

  • @ralphenlinda
    @ralphenlinda ปีที่แล้ว

    What I've learned from my depressions and anxiety is this:
    When you face a setback , you either fix it or let it go.
    There a lots of things in live that you can't fix, that's ok, now let it go en move on.
    All other option leds to pain en anger

  • @Auriasis
    @Auriasis ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kudos to you! I also tried my hand at many different art techniques. It was amazing to me at what came easy and what was just NOT my thing.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      💜 it can certainly be both a blessing and a curse to be the kind of creative who wants to try everything. I know I also found a few art forms that didn't click with me either. I guess it's all part of the process 😊

  • @jamie.miller.inspiring
    @jamie.miller.inspiring ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fantastic advice, I wish I had this video a long time ago, especially when i was a photographer.
    Years ago I accidentally became a published photographer by, someone else had to convince me to publish some photos because all i saw was the flaws so i didnt think it was worth publishing, yet someone else saw the beauty in it which i couldn't because i was too focused on the imperfections which ultimately ended up with me abandoning that career!
    Pushing past the hard parts is the only way to have massive breakthroughs in any area of life because much like photography those same insecurities showed themselves when i began painting but this time i pushed thru it and overcame all of them, now i truly love every single thing i paint 💖
    Im in the process of starting a brand new channel much like yours with sharing what ive learnt on my art journey, because we can be so hard on ourselves, including leaving the hard energy of this channel due to old videos that i want to start with a totally blank canvas TH-cam channel and build it from the ground up with what ive learnt in all aspects of life so it can reflect who i am now, not who i used to be 🙏
    The only thing i personally dont resonate with with is quality pens and paper, for me when i do draw i prefer smooth paper and high quality pens, because for me drawing on toothy paper feels like nails on a chalk board for my nervous system 🙈🤣 but everyone has their preferences and thats totally ok 🙏

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What an amazing story! I'm happy that you were able to make significant breakthroughs and that you were able to find your passion. It's completely understandable that you have developed preferences in the supplies you use since you have experience now. I would love to follow you on your TH-cam journey. Have you created your new channel?

    • @JamieMillerCreations
      @JamieMillerCreations ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@betsi_jae I did have a whole ton of other life and health issues going on back in the photography era, but not only did i spend the last year fighting thru and dealing with alot of things internationally like the fact i died last year which amongst other things that was extremely hard to wrap my head around that whole experience 🙈
      I learnt to truly embraced my love of creativity which has taken shape in many forms over the years and my favourites being photography, woodwork, leatherwork, a little bit of drawing but mainly focused on dot artwork now :)
      I have this is my new channel 🙏

    • @Tatiana-19
      @Tatiana-19 ปีที่แล้ว

      Спасибо что показываете, как нарисовать такой рисунок. Мне очень нравятся такие работы и кажется, это очень сложно нарисовать. Но повторяя за вами все действия, у меня тоже получаются такие красивые рисунки.❤❤❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tatiana-19 I'm so glad ☺️

  • @newsong80
    @newsong80 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shiny new pens! 🤩😍 Lol. I try so hard to resist. Sometimes successful, sometimes not.

  • @peaceseeker601
    @peaceseeker601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so happy to have found your page. You are fantastic. Thank you for sharing your art and the tips. We are so hard on ourselves sometimes when it comes to creativity. Thank you!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. We often go into it with many expectations, but with no way to manage said expectations. It’s so important to accept the ‘ ugly drawings as much as the pretty ones, and to enjoy the process of creation 💜💙💜

  • @teresa_wiggins_gallery
    @teresa_wiggins_gallery ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice, thanks you!

  • @ToadYoga
    @ToadYoga 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish i had understood these things about myself long before I did. But thankful for artists like you i can identify with. I have learned so much about myself and capabilities since i was forced to retire for health reasons 4 years ago. I had abandoned my art for 40 years because i didnt think i was talented enough. I have been through an amazing creative journey with sewing, paper beads, watercolors, acrylics, clay, crochet and drawing with several mediums! Thank you for sharing with us!❤😊

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad you're connecting to your artistic side 💜💜💜. I'm happy to be a small part of your journey.

  • @rl4424
    @rl4424 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely! Enjoyed your video, just found you on TH-cam tonight . Thank you 😊❤

  • @maineiacts
    @maineiacts ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Betsi!! Wow!!! I really, REALLY needed to hear your WISDOM SHARE!!! THANK YOU & MUCH RESPECT!!! You are WISE Beyond your years!! I'm in my later 69's been a serious ' dabbled' all my life! Like you, I also try to learn and do everything that interests me, or is important to learn how...
    Jill of all Trades, Mistress of
    None lol!
    Probably that way because I don't like to rely on other oeople, or other people that could do things, are not available or affordable... Like fixing vehicles ( ugh) for example...Hi by used to, but he's not able to physically do some maintenance things so maybe I can if he will show me..? Things like that.. Its liberating to be able to do things yourself, I find...
    Anyhoo....I really enjoyed this upload! You are doing such a wonderful service!!
    See You Again!! Enjoy Life's Blessings and Gifts!!🙏😘🤗💖🌹🙋‍♀️🗽

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, your are too kind. 💙😊💙 It's important to keep learning no matter what age we have reached. I agree it's liberating to be able to do things for yourself. When I met my husband, I already knew how to change the oil in my car, change the spark plugs, change tires, drive automatic transmission, and overall diagnose most car problems. Its nice that - even though he chooses to take care of all that for us now - he knows I can do it myself.💙

  • @janc734
    @janc734 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GREAT video! Totally agree with your advice though I will fess up to having an insane amount of pricey art supplies. What I've most admired in your work (other than your amazing line work) is your understanding of composition. It really brings your outstanding line work to the next level. This is what has helped me the most watching your videos. Thanks for sharing with us.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow thank you so much 💙😊💙. I try my best to share what I know. I'm glad you're enjoying the videos .

  • @55natashenka
    @55natashenka ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. And I did painted with you and enjoyed it.😀

  • @dylansmith876
    @dylansmith876 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've recently started watching your stuff, and you've allowed me to make more interesting and cool stuff❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy to hear that! 💜

  • @tunnisquiltingcreations9466
    @tunnisquiltingcreations9466 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the sharing of advice. I love your drawings. It has been a very long time since I doodled. There was not a time for me, no piece of paper did not have a doodle.

  • @pamelavenable4042
    @pamelavenable4042 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have just recently found your artistic creativity. Thank you for sharing you expert designs and helpful commentary

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      So nice of you

  • @Yahwertle
    @Yahwertle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice ❤ thank you 🙏

  • @dinascott1291
    @dinascott1291 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just saw your video today. It’s the first I’ve seen. I want to learn to draw like you. Lovely!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 😀 I have short tutorials as well as longer vids. Hope you find them helpful.

  • @KathyBernier-x3u
    @KathyBernier-x3u ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Your drawing is amazing and your advise was really thought provoking and well taken.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

  • @louisemcbow61
    @louisemcbow61 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your advice is almost life advice. And your whole little chat and lesson was very enjoyable. Xo

    • @louisemcbow61
      @louisemcbow61 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol, then you say it yourself,,,

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @ez6944
    @ez6944 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! I love your drawings, trying to recreate them, and love the result.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you like them! 💕💜💕

  • @lynnkb8793
    @lynnkb8793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just happened upon your video .. wow.. it was so relaxing and reassuring to hear your words. It shows that you mean every one and you have a HUGE heart! Made my morning and learned some new doodles! Thank you!!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it 💙

  • @katjasteinkellner
    @katjasteinkellner ปีที่แล้ว

    you are a great artist and a great teacher, thank you so much! I started to draw again a few month ago, also took some courses - but the problem was, each time I started with a drawing I had this idea how the finished piece should look - and it NEVER looked like I had imagined, that was so frustrating. But watching you and your flow really inspired me, I thought, well, I guess, I can try this, just start and draw one line after the other and see where it takes me...... And it works, I´m really happy with the result :)

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      That's wonderful that you started drawing again 😊. I'm glad I could help a little

  • @selfreliantintuitivetarota9799
    @selfreliantintuitivetarota9799 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤ Thank you! I love your videos! 😊

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you like them!

  • @Babyjohn8170
    @Babyjohn8170 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed taking this journey with you. Many of the things you said or touched on I have experienced on my creative journey as well. Thank you for sharing your story.😊

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 💜. I’m happy to share, and I’m glad you enjoyed it.

  • @SheriWinston
    @SheriWinston ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for another wonderful, thoughtful and inspiring video. At a teacher myself, one of the pieces of advice I like to
    offer is that mistakes are how we learn. So no shame, no blame. Just another learning opportunity! And if we aren't willing to take the risk of making a mistake, how will we grow?
    And, while I agree that we don't need expensive supplies to make art, I think that quality materials can really add to the quality of our work.
    In addition, sometimes higher quality materials are actually longer lasting and more economical. I am in love with the Copic SP technical drawing pens. It's true theiy are pricey to begin with but they are refillable and have replacable nibs. So in the long run I think I save money rather than buying cheaper ones and having to replace them frequently. And, I really appreciate not having to replace the entire pen when it's finished so they are more eco friendly.
    Thanks again for your fantastic videos and gorgeous artwork!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You provided some very good points 🙂. We need to be willing to make mistakes, and at some point fork out for those art supplies. I've been avoiding buying certain supplies because of the cost, but I finally decided it was time to invest 😊. As a beginner (and as a broke person) it was important that my art supplies were cheap just so I can get practicing. Now I can get a few things here and there that are a little "fancy".

    • @SheriWinston
      @SheriWinston ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually think the Copic multiliner SP technical pens are cheaper in the long range because I can replace the nubs and refill the ink. They're definitely pricey to begin with, but I have had my set now for years so considering how quickly I used to go through Microns and similar pens, cheaper in the long run. I also love the way you aluminum barrels feel in my fingers. I'm glad that you're at a point where you can treat yourself
      to some quality art supplies. You deserve it!

    • @SheriWinston
      @SheriWinston ปีที่แล้ว

      Please excuse typos!

  • @amandahaagner1493
    @amandahaagner1493 ปีที่แล้ว

    You give me hope to carry on in a meaningful way,thankyou so much❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤. There is always hope.

  • @sueharper1976
    @sueharper1976 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watched you for the first time (won’t be the last). I love the way you make those marks on the paper and I thought your advice very good. A shame I didn’t hear that I didn’t need expensive materials earlier though. I’m new to art, and so many people have told me that I need Good Brushes, Professional grade paints, 300gsm cotton paper. Well, all that didn’t help my art improve one bit IMO. Just made me scared of using expensive stuff and intimidated that I wasn’t equal to the materials I was using. Anyway, I’m getting better but that’s through practice. And I’m proud of myself to say Perseverance. I’m loving making art. I’ve come to it late at 68 but I feel I have so much energy and so many ideas. I eat sleep and think painting now. It makes me happy (for the most part). Anyway, back to you - thank you for sharing and your generosity saying we can make marks like you but it’s still our own work. Bless you.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      I can totally relate. There was a brief time when I decided to get “good” supplies, but I never used them. This isn’t to reduce the value of those items, or of the artists who use them. Professional artists should certainly weight the benefits of the quality of their supplies. For those of us who are just learning, or playing around, it’s a little less important.

  • @gailresources3970
    @gailresources3970 ปีที่แล้ว

    The girls are so adventurous. Mommy has a big job and you do it so well. This is so cute.

  • @mandybridger4630
    @mandybridger4630 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found your channel,I love it,thank you ❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoy it!

  • @redwing3969
    @redwing3969 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your frank, honest advice ! It's encouraging, and I enjoyed watching you create. I've only just discovered your channel & have subscribed💜💫

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! I only started this channel two weeks ago so I definitely appreciate the company. I'm planning lots of fun content for the foreseeable future, so start tuned 💜💙💜

  • @MsSylvana63
    @MsSylvana63 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video, I’m inspired to subscribe ✨👌🏽

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome aboard!

  • @paulinemartinbarrell3277
    @paulinemartinbarrell3277 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ! That was the most inspiring video I’ve watched. You were strumming my pain with yr fingers & singing my song with your words….! Your work is beautiful and you’ve encouraged me to open to a new muse… thank you❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful! I'm happy to provide inspiration if I can 💜🦋💜

  • @DeborahWaltenburg
    @DeborahWaltenburg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found myself sitting here watching you work with my mouth hanging open ... thankfully, I didn't drool 😁 Absolutely mesmerizing to watch your pages come to life!!! Gorgeous work!!!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 😀 I’m really glad you like it .

    • @marypoindexter7273
      @marypoindexter7273 ปีที่แล้ว

      I found you on you tube less than a month ago and I love your work and method of teaching. I was a teacher in public schools for 31 years and I value a really good teacher. Your advice takes the pressure off of wanting to perfect drawing So glad I found you!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marypoindexter7273 Thank you so much for the kind comment. It's so important to find someone who can teach the way you need to be taught. I believe there are many types of teachers, with many styles, and it makes me happy to know that my particular style has helped some people. 😊

  • @ritarobertrawantas3813
    @ritarobertrawantas3813 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are awesome Betsi!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you 💜💕💜

  • @joanc551
    @joanc551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was learning the zentangles and drawing a lot but the price of the pens stopped me-- I bought some expensive ones and rationed my drawing time and didnt color in what I wanted to because I did not want to use the ink. Time passed, the pens dried up and so did my excitement for it. But you have reignited it-especially with these you link to, thank you so much!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry you lost interest in drawing. There was a time when I couldn’t even afford cheap pens like these. I know how awful it feels, so during those times I drew with a pencil. A box of ticonderoga school pencils was less than $2 and that was enough to keep me going. I hope you can find joy in creating again.💙

  • @Mimi-mj2vm
    @Mimi-mj2vm ปีที่แล้ว

    J'adore ce que vous faites ❤❤. Gratitude ❤.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 💕

    • @Mimi-mj2vm
      @Mimi-mj2vm ปีที่แล้ว

      @@betsi_jae 😍

  • @kimberleebrooks-trakis9563
    @kimberleebrooks-trakis9563 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you a full time artist or do you have another life as well? I am in such awe of your muscle memory when you draw. Thank you for your inspiration. I have been following along with your videos. I have also been in love with those pens from Amazon. What a deal!!!! I use them for work as well since I have a job that requires an excruciating amount of writing.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad the pens are working out for you.
      I do other things in my life as well, but over the last few months I've been dedicating more and more time to my artistic endeavors, studying math and physics, reading, etc. Since I stopped teaching I just work from home now. Not much money, but it's a start =)

  • @myjewelry4u
    @myjewelry4u ปีที่แล้ว

    All great advice ❤

  • @SonyaBatten
    @SonyaBatten ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video ❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Cheers!

  • @drbettyschueler3235
    @drbettyschueler3235 ปีที่แล้ว

    When starting out in art you can learn a lot from copying the works of others. By trying to copy, what someone else has already done, you have a framework, ready made, upon which you can branch out and add or subtract to make your own work of art. Just remember, this is for practice and not for commercial uses.

  • @dinacarroll9211
    @dinacarroll9211 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice. I am a perfectionist, that is a hinderance. I also feel guilt creating for no reason. Like I should be doing something else. If I’m making a creative gift for someone else I have no problem taking the time to do so. I’ll keep your advice in mind.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate so much! I often felt like I shouldn't be making art because I Should be doing better things with my time ( making money). I hope you find the resolve to start making art. It can be very very rewarding.

  • @ddcdiana7792
    @ddcdiana7792 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonjour Miss Betsi. Je suis en France et j'ai regardé votre vidéo et même dessiné avec vous. Vos propos m'ont touché et on résonné en moi. J'apprécierai mes dessins d'une manière différente maintenant. Merci de vos partages

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad you drew with me 💕😊💕. Greetings from sunny Southern California .

    • @ddcdiana7792
      @ddcdiana7792 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@betsi_jae 💕

  • @susanmartin3762
    @susanmartin3762 ปีที่แล้ว

    My GOD you're talented! I've loved listening to you. I want you to know I've just ordered my Micro-pens in all sizes. I have TONS of empty journals. I've ALWAYS written in my journals. I've NEVER lettered or doodled in my journals. Today I begin a new way if recording my thoughts and feelings. The pens were NOT expensive at sell. They were $8.99 for 6. The lady who tutored me here in TH-cam told us not to buy expensive pens right away, that we didn't know if we were even going to line lettering or not. I knew i was going to love the lettering hobby so.... I bought the best brush pens, Tombow Dual- tip brush pens. $15 for 10 brush pens isn't "expensive " in my mind. I bought the "good" paper.. the HP 32lb brand so i didn't ruin my new pens. eredThis is going to be fun. I'm also beginning to use watercolors to make my own canvases for my lettering and now my Zen- Tangles. I've always been an artist..I just didn't know it. Not until i was in my 30s did I give my talents some serious attention. I had always been musically inclined. I sing and dance and act. The stage has always ben my "paper" and my body and vocal chords are my pens and pencils. Performing on stage has been the only true "home" I've ever known. I loved listening to you Miss Betsi. I'm going to love being taught by you. There are tons of other Doodle-Teachers but I like your channel the best! Thank you for sharing your experience with me..I mean with us. I can't wait for my pens to arrive. I'm excited to begin.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      ☺️ thank you so much, and I'm happy to hear how much you're enjoying getting your supplies together. I love dancing so much too💕. It can be so freeing and I never do it nearly enough.

  • @vmiller735
    @vmiller735 ปีที่แล้ว

    My best advice is to be brave with your art. It doesn't have to be perfect - just create. Try new things to broaden your knowledge and skills. Art is truly different for everyone in what they create and what they admire. I so appreciate the hard work that artists do to create something that creative and beautiful. I hope you keep creating as your art is wonderful. I am always trying new things. I love being creative and it makes me happy.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said! We are each on our journey, and we each find beauty in different things.

  • @SheriWinston
    @SheriWinston ปีที่แล้ว

    I also want to add but I get a lot of inspiration from nature, The colors, shapes and designs of plants, aquatic life, Mushrooms, animals, etc.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent! May I ask what subject you teach? (I taught math). I love learning what subjects artsy teachers teach.

  • @SofSof.
    @SofSof. ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching you is inspiring ❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thank you

  • @jlm517rocks
    @jlm517rocks ปีที่แล้ว

    yep, imma supplies junkie & ii use all of them....they teach me how to use them, & all y'all teachers show me how you mix it up...simple is the base for certain....yet...ii found some things ii envisioned weren't working w/primary level quality...ty for yr insights.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂 I hadn't heard that term before but it makes a lot of sense. I personally try hard not to buy more at supplies only because I already have everything I need. Its wonderful that you use your supplies 💙. Keep on creating!

  • @mrrol5212
    @mrrol5212 ปีที่แล้ว

    geez if i could draw half as good as you there'd be no fear of failure...i fail each time i try to draw but i'm ok with that, its the process i enjoy and no one else sees my work but me... you are very very talented and thanks for showing us you technique and works:))

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww thanks, but I definitely make lots of drawings that aren't very good 😊. Practice leads to improvement though.

  • @cynthiarollins3949
    @cynthiarollins3949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your art…so what is the name of the pen you are using?

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reminding me. I just added a link to the pen I used in this drawing. It was a pack of blue and red pens and it was pretty inexpensive on Amazon.

  • @suspage
    @suspage ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.

  • @46rebecca
    @46rebecca ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing! I love this piece and was trying to recreate somehow. I love love love the pattern that looks like leaves with just lines, it’s the fourth pattern on the left hand side counting from the bottom, but I couldn’t figure out how to draw that. Not sure you know which one I meant… I had this on slow motion at 0.25x but still couldn’t figure out… do you think you can have a tutorial for that pattern?

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely! I'm currently compiling a series of mini tutorials where I teach you how to recreate each pattern. 😊 Stay tuned.

    • @46rebecca
      @46rebecca ปีที่แล้ว

      @@betsi_jae thank you Betsi, I can’t wait! I am enjoying all your drawing very much with all the suggestions and advices. Thank you!

  • @wilhat
    @wilhat ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks great.

  • @claireruf7556
    @claireruf7556 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you spoke about inspiration, I remembered a quote that I believe came from Pablo Picasso- “Inspiration does excist, but it must find you working”. (I suppose I show fact check that😊)

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Its a good quote! I think I’ve heard it too, and it really does apply here.

  • @mehakus1195
    @mehakus1195 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah great sharing your friend from USA 🇺🇸

  • @CieloDesign
    @CieloDesign ปีที่แล้ว

    You are exceptional!!! I'm so captivated by your art, I really want to try it out but I have a problem with the pens....those that you have recommended, are they the 0.5 mm? Do they glide on the paper? I have micron pens but I feel there are more for writing than drawing...any advice? :) I'll keep following you here to get more inspiration!!!

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for stopping by to watch the vid 💛🧡❤️. The pens in the description are regular 0.5 ball point gel pens. I recommend them because they’re inexpensive and they are also very smooth and very “inky”. If you have other pens, feel free to use those. Overall the pens don’t really matter all that much IMO. What matters is that you’re comfortable🙂.

    • @CieloDesign
      @CieloDesign ปีที่แล้ว

      @@betsi_jae Thank you for taking the time to reply!!! I just feel that the microns are a bit on the dry side and I like the inky look! I shall order at your advice! LOL!

  • @nannywhumpers5702
    @nannywhumpers5702 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you are amazing, thanks for sharing. Regarding point #2, if I see something shiny (in real life or in digital life), I promise myself I can come back and get it next week (or next paycheck) if I still really want it. I find 19 out of 20 times I forget about it. And when I see it again I'm not as attracted to it.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said! I do something very similar. I'll add things to my cart but I force myself to wait a week or two (online) before I give myself permission to even consider buying. Almost every time I realize it isn't important so I just take it out of the cart. IRL I do something similar 😅, I'll add anything I want to my cart but then I put everything back before I go to the checkout.

    • @nannywhumpers5702
      @nannywhumpers5702 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@betsi_jae
      My inner magpie says once the shiny is in my actual possession, it is mine, so I can't add it to the cart in RL or I will buy it. Digital life is much easier.

  • @surendradeshmukh3377
    @surendradeshmukh3377 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Cheers!

  • @lauriebieda4498
    @lauriebieda4498 ปีที่แล้ว

    Betsy please post some more……please 🎉❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      💜😊💜 Lots more coming soon.

  • @infiniteawareness2698
    @infiniteawareness2698 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Forgiveness is key. Forgive yourself first ❤❤❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True True 💗

  • @vda_lin2463
    @vda_lin2463 ปีที่แล้ว

    5 mins in, I can identify with feeling guilty, just maybe I will give this more than one listen (whispers, I already know this) lil golden nuggets that are really big ❤❤❤

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re not alone. As you can see, we all go through so many emotions and it can take time to figure it all out.

  • @cathyriach1285
    @cathyriach1285 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful. I think sometimes you DO have to spend the money on quality supplies, i.e. good watercolour paper is crucial. A good pen that doesn't leak or 'blob' is also important for creating something you're happy with. So can't agree totally on this point.

    • @betsi_jae
      @betsi_jae  ปีที่แล้ว

      That's absolutely valid 😊. It can be frustrating when the tools don't do their job.

  • @DrStrangechilde
    @DrStrangechilde 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌻!