My fiancee is high functioning autistic, we didnt find out until after we were engaged and I didn't give a damn about the diagnosis when it came to my choice, I stuck with it. Shes the love of my life and we're planning to get married by the end of next year, wouldn't trade my baby for the universe!
I honestly love ones like this because it shows peoples true colors because they don’t care when their loved one has a disability they love them for who they are ♥️
Not married to one, but the son of one. I'm 38 and my dad has been totally blind since before I was born. Despite this, he maintains a job, raised 3 children in a Christian household, can cook, and is the wisest man I know due to all the reading he does. Now he is playing an active role in the lives of his grandchildren.
My husband and I are visually impaired and he has Cerebral Palsy. We are both each other’s rock. He is for me mentally, I am for him both mentally and physically.
I am the disabled spouse. I have several chronic health conditions including arthritis and endometriosis. When I was first diagnosed, my husband and I were still dating and I was at the lowest point in my physical health. I often used a cane to walk, I spent most of my time in bed, and I had to ask for help with very simple things like hauling in the groceries or carrying a laundry basket. This was a very difficult time for both of us because I lost a lot of my independence and well being and he was trying to help me while also going to school and working. We had no expectation that my illnesses would get any better but he still stuck with me and never made me feel like a lesser human being. We were very honest with each other about how difficult the situation was. Now, a year and a half later, we’re married, I’m feeling better overall, and I’ve returned to work. We both know that my health could plummet at any moment but we love each other very much and I think we’re going to be okay.
You are very blessed and very glad you found each other💛 true heart of gold. I had a partner once but they left me ultimately because of it and it really messed my outlook up
I have always had chronic health. Ive done the marriage. Done the long term relationships. Even though I'm VERY honest and up front about my health everyone always says "I dont care. Its not important to me." Yeah bullshit. Then they realize my life is not what they want to be dealing with and they admitted to finding other reasons not to be with me. I've chosen to be celebate and single now around 7 years I think. It sucks I dont have a partner to help sometimes but its better for me.
I'm autistic and have PTSD (Finally diagnosed) and legally blind in the left eye; and my wife cheated on me and left me because after 3 years I still don't have a job. We talked about this possibility WTF??????
Im a leg amputee and honestly im afraid of even trying to be with anyone anymore. I dont want to fear about relying on someone when i get older because i feel it woupdnt be fair to be a burden, and even tho im pretty high functioning now, theres still things i cant do on my own and know these thinga will just become more burdomsom with age. Once life gets too hard ill take myself out without having to worry about anyone missing me.
Lea williams one thing I learned about this is, I was “that” guy that always said “well up north we did it this way” I know really annoying. But southerners up north that I’ve met never said “ well down south we did it like this”
I have chronic illness. My husband is usually the kindest man though. He loves me and I love him. There are hard times, but communication helps. I help him and he helps me.
Why do people with incredibly severe mental or physical handicaps have kids? That just makes handling everything 100x harder, and in some cases - specifically with the women - make the disability worse due to the stress the pregnancy places on the body.
You have to be an extremely strong person and have love with no boundaries or conditions to be in a relationship and or married to someone with a disability. Take it from my own advice I am the disabled one and my ex walked out on me because me being blind was just too much for him
Same, sadly a lot do but it's their lack of love and character not our lack of Loveability. There are many out there both good and bad I guess it comes down to be lucky to find someone
I'm going to cry. For 20 years from age 13 to 33 I thought my mild autism was the king of all dealbreakers (since 13 when the most popular/attractive girls in school would bully me for said autism and I stutter when nervous) so I believed I wouldn't be good enough for any woman but at 33 I realized every woman's different and wouldn't dismiss when a woman would flirt with me as opposed to them being friendly. I consider myself a good person as I: love to take care of my dad who has mobility issues, work full time at a very demanding job, loyal to all of my friends, love to help people in need and love and dote on my cat as if he were my child but I focus too much on the bad ie: Autism, stutter, lower income job (grocery store stockboy), hard to deal with stress and anger (verbal but never physical). No one is perfect and wished I listened to my dad when he told me that but I (still) can't mentally comprehend a woman loving me for who I am.
I hate being disabled. I wish i was never born. You get so guilty and sad seeing the annoyance and regret in your significant other's face. But you have to understand because they are human and they get tired too. Just as a person with disability, i feel i shouldn't exist. It would all around be better. And i don't feel sorry for myself,i am just a biological liability and have no place in the large scheme of things.
Believe it or not, it can always be worse, and sometimes that's what we need to see first to then step into gratitude for what we still have and can still enjoy in the present. Don't think far in the future, try to enjoy the Now and think every day a few things you are grateful for and it may help lift your mood, but I do understand
I’ve had the very same emotions. You have to just accept the fact that you are disabled. I’ve felt very modivated by these negative emotions to better myself and become more independent. The great thing is that we live in a time where everything isn’t about survival. You’d just be killed back then. Good luck and cheers!
2 years ago, my aunt fell in love with a guy, he had cancer and it was really bad, i met him once, during Christmas of 2020. He and my aunt got married, and a few months later he passed. My aunt misses him dearly, he was a great guy and very nice to me
I hope no one ever attacks you for being honest. I have a slew of medical shit problems and its annoying. Everyone always says its fine and then it isnt. They feel guilty for saying its my health because people "shouldnt". If more people were honest and open about this stuff then it would be a bit easier on disabled or chronically sick people. We have enough bullshit in our lives and shouldn't have relationship lies on top. Good on you!
At least you know that about yourself, never forget, the shoe could be on the other foot one day nothing in life is guaranteed and if your health went to hell what kind of partner would you want by your side? That's the kind of partner you need to be first
5:45 Cheating woman files for divorce at *35.* Odds are she’s gonna reap what she has sown and regret it not too long after she’s back on the dating market Even if a man she likes, likes her and gives her a chance he’s gonna see the red flags when he finds out she left the husband who took care of her through her cancer diagnosis
I am legally blind and at this point have given up on finding a gf / wife. I don't want them to potentially suffer through a relationship with me when rhere are tons of other "fish in the sea".
I'm very disabled and married for 15 years. I am constantly worried about my wife leaving me because one of my disabilities never stops progressing but she insists she married me for my sexy brain so... ok. I'll take her at her word.
We both have a visual impairment and we Live pretty darn good. I do the cooking but he does all the physical labor like the trash. He has a guy dog that might as well be mine. Lol she’s our first baby With fur.
11:12 Arctickey, stop being so selfish. He put his life on the line for the military, and he came out injured. You need to step up and be there for him and take care of him, because you may be all he has.
My dad married my mom adopted me and my twin my mom lost her sight when she was driving home with me and my sister in the car 2 years later found out I had autism and still did every thing to make sher my mom had every thing she needed before she died me and my sis were adopted when we were 2 my mom died when we were 23
My fiancee is high functioning autistic, we didnt find out until after we were engaged and I didn't give a damn about the diagnosis when it came to my choice, I stuck with it. Shes the love of my life and we're planning to get married by the end of next year, wouldn't trade my baby for the universe!
This makes me happy. I am also high functioning autistic and I'm happy couples like you exist
What signs did she showed?
pro trick: you can watch series at Flixzone. Been using them for watching loads of movies lately.
@Bronson Titus Yea, I've been watching on flixzone for since december myself =)
@Bronson Titus yea, I have been watching on flixzone for months myself :)
I honestly love ones like this because it shows peoples true colors because they don’t care when their loved one has a disability they love them for who they are ♥️
Not married to one, but the son of one. I'm 38 and my dad has been totally blind since before I was born. Despite this, he maintains a job, raised 3 children in a Christian household, can cook, and is the wisest man I know due to all the reading he does. Now he is playing an active role in the lives of his grandchildren.
My husband and I are visually impaired and he has Cerebral Palsy. We are both each other’s rock. He is for me mentally, I am for him both mentally and physically.
Where did you meet?
I am the disabled spouse. I have several chronic health conditions including arthritis and endometriosis. When I was first diagnosed, my husband and I were still dating and I was at the lowest point in my physical health. I often used a cane to walk, I spent most of my time in bed, and I had to ask for help with very simple things like hauling in the groceries or carrying a laundry basket. This was a very difficult time for both of us because I lost a lot of my independence and well being and he was trying to help me while also going to school and working. We had no expectation that my illnesses would get any better but he still stuck with me and never made me feel like a lesser human being. We were very honest with each other about how difficult the situation was. Now, a year and a half later, we’re married, I’m feeling better overall, and I’ve returned to work. We both know that my health could plummet at any moment but we love each other very much and I think we’re going to be okay.
You are very blessed and very glad you found each other💛 true heart of gold. I had a partner once but they left me ultimately because of it and it really messed my outlook up
I have always had chronic health. Ive done the marriage. Done the long term relationships. Even though I'm VERY honest and up front about my health everyone always says "I dont care. Its not important to me." Yeah bullshit. Then they realize my life is not what they want to be dealing with and they admitted to finding other reasons not to be with me.
I've chosen to be celebate and single now around 7 years I think. It sucks I dont have a partner to help sometimes but its better for me.
Hubby has a spinal cord injury.
Memory loss
I am deaf. Life is challenging,but good
The story about the husband whispering into his wife’s deaf ear is cute and funny
I'm autistic and have PTSD (Finally diagnosed) and legally blind in the left eye; and my wife cheated on me and left me because after 3 years I still don't have a job.
We talked about this possibility WTF??????
Im a leg amputee and honestly im afraid of even trying to be with anyone anymore. I dont want to fear about relying on someone when i get older because i feel it woupdnt be fair to be a burden, and even tho im pretty high functioning now, theres still things i cant do on my own and know these thinga will just become more burdomsom with age. Once life gets too hard ill take myself out without having to worry about anyone missing me.
5:26 man I really feel sorry for this guy.
This would be a question for my wife. It’s been 6 years of bliss so far on my end. My disability is I’m a yank living in the south.
J C I’m a southern in the north.
As a southerner, it warms my heart that your dear wife could bring herself to look beyond your crushing disability (wipes tear) 😁
Yeah but really...where is your wife from 😆
Amy Stone with out giving to much info, the south east USA
Lea williams one thing I learned about this is, I was “that” guy that always said “well up north we did it this way” I know really annoying. But southerners up north that I’ve met never said “ well down south we did it like this”
I have chronic illness. My husband is usually the kindest man though. He loves me and I love him. There are hard times, but communication helps. I help him and he helps me.
My husband has mild Cerebral Palsy and he's amazing.
I'm hoping we can loose weight and do better and live a happy healthy life.
Why do people with incredibly severe mental or physical handicaps have kids? That just makes handling everything 100x harder, and in some cases - specifically with the women - make the disability worse due to the stress the pregnancy places on the body.
Because they choose to? They don't need a reason- their human, who may want kids, they choose whether or not to have a kid and that's that.
Hitler wondered the same thing.
You have to be an extremely strong person and have love with no boundaries or conditions to be in a relationship and or married to someone with a disability. Take it from my own advice I am the disabled one and my ex walked out on me because me being blind was just too much for him
Same, sadly a lot do but it's their lack of love and character not our lack of Loveability. There are many out there both good and bad I guess it comes down to be lucky to find someone
I'm going to cry. For 20 years from age 13 to 33 I thought my mild autism was the king of all dealbreakers (since 13 when the most popular/attractive girls in school would bully me for said autism and I stutter when nervous) so I believed I wouldn't be good enough for any woman but at 33 I realized every woman's different and wouldn't dismiss when a woman would flirt with me as opposed to them being friendly. I consider myself a good person as I: love to take care of my dad who has mobility issues, work full time at a very demanding job, loyal to all of my friends, love to help people in need and love and dote on my cat as if he were my child but I focus too much on the bad ie: Autism, stutter, lower income job (grocery store stockboy), hard to deal with stress and anger (verbal but never physical). No one is perfect and wished I listened to my dad when he told me that but I (still) can't mentally comprehend a woman loving me for who I am.
I hate being disabled. I wish i was never born. You get so guilty and sad seeing the annoyance and regret in your significant other's face. But you have to understand because they are human and they get tired too. Just as a person with disability, i feel i shouldn't exist. It would all around be better. And i don't feel sorry for myself,i am just a biological liability and have no place in the large scheme of things.
Believe it or not, it can always be worse, and sometimes that's what we need to see first to then step into gratitude for what we still have and can still enjoy in the present. Don't think far in the future, try to enjoy the Now and think every day a few things you are grateful for and it may help lift your mood, but I do understand
I’ve had the very same emotions. You have to just accept the fact that you are disabled. I’ve felt very modivated by these negative emotions to better myself and become more independent. The great thing is that we live in a time where everything isn’t about survival. You’d just be killed back then. Good luck and cheers!
That first one was cute
man these story's are WAY more positive than the story's about people with disabled kids.
2 years ago, my aunt fell in love with a guy, he had cancer and it was really bad, i met him once, during Christmas of 2020. He and my aunt got married, and a few months later he passed. My aunt misses him dearly, he was a great guy and very nice to me
maybe i can find someone who will love me
@Mayank Tomar if I get into a relationship then she needs to come first but I can not Promise That because of health issues that need to come fast
She need to be the priority I would want her to be happy and I want to be able to do that
@Mayank Tomar Thank you
3:36 legendary
If I'm being honest I wouldn't marry someone with a disability, I'm too lazy and selfish to be there for someone like that
I hope no one ever attacks you for being honest. I have a slew of medical shit problems and its annoying. Everyone always says its fine and then it isnt. They feel guilty for saying its my health because people "shouldnt". If more people were honest and open about this stuff then it would be a bit easier on disabled or chronically sick people. We have enough bullshit in our lives and shouldn't have relationship lies on top. Good on you!
At least you know that about yourself, never forget, the shoe could be on the other foot one day nothing in life is guaranteed and if your health went to hell what kind of partner would you want by your side? That's the kind of partner you need to be first
@@amylee3531 💯%
5:45 Cheating woman files for divorce at *35.*
Odds are she’s gonna reap what she has sown and regret it not too long after she’s back on the dating market
Even if a man she likes, likes her and gives her a chance he’s gonna see the red flags when he finds out she left the husband who took care of her through her cancer diagnosis
As someone with severe mental issues this made me feel a lot better about my partner being with me.
we need better healthcare for everyone
I am legally blind and at this point have given up on finding a gf / wife. I don't want them to potentially suffer through a relationship with me when rhere are tons of other "fish in the sea".
I'm very disabled and married for 15 years. I am constantly worried about my wife leaving me because one of my disabilities never stops progressing but she insists she married me for my sexy brain so... ok. I'll take her at her word.
I’m blind and do all the cooking.
Wait, but how did you type this, then?
Katherine Rosalita I am visually impaired and there are many ways for us to comment. For example, VoiceOver.
@@atricewarner5705 ok but how do you find stuff
Your local Toaster Easy if I can’t use the vision I have, I feel for it. On my phone or iPad sometimes I use zoom or VoiceOver.
We both have a visual impairment and we Live pretty darn good. I do the cooking but he does all the physical labor like the trash. He has a guy dog that might as well be mine. Lol she’s our first baby
With fur.
11:12 Arctickey, stop being so selfish. He put his life on the line for the military, and he came out injured. You need to step up and be there for him and take care of him, because you may be all he has.
my girlfriend and I are both autistic with potential to develop other disabilities and so far things are going alright we plan to go to the aquarium
I am 80% disabled due to multiple sclerosis..my hubby loves me
My dad married my mom adopted me and my twin my mom lost her sight when she was driving home with me and my sister in the car 2 years later found out I had autism and still did every thing to make sher my mom had every thing she needed before she died me and my sis were adopted when we were 2 my mom died when we were 23
As we age, the risk of becoming disabled increases. 🙂
I have Tourette’s and bipolar. Not sure if that counts, but I hope my crush will love me back.
Some of them are nice. But it can be easier if you already knew the person had a disability.
I,AM A EPILEPTIC.I DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN.WE'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 23 YEARS.TONY HAS SPOKEN.
Paranoid schizophrenia isn't a diagnose to mess with. I wouldn't breed with those people...sorry
She can hurt the child.
Breed? Really?
Honestly, you shouldn’t ever reproduce with that attitude.
Hi
Hello
@@renbiscotti1514 hello, imagine if we kept this chain going
Hi
Hi
Hi