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  • @krislove1167
    @krislove1167 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5262

    President Kim's perpetual face of laughter behind brought much joy to the speech

    • @swong32
      @swong32 8 ปีที่แล้ว +361

      i think you mean the just kidding kimster

    • @salkdjfasldkfjsdlk
      @salkdjfasldkfjsdlk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Ha ha, I saw that. Priceless.

    • @selinguven3115
      @selinguven3115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kris Low Okay, this must sound so ignorant, but wasnt Obama the president during 2011?

    • @UmarTahir
      @UmarTahir 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@selinguven3115 President Kim is Dartmouth's president.

    • @shock285
      @shock285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@UmarTahir I think hes joking. A really bad joke though.

  • @vincelunceford
    @vincelunceford 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3362

    Conan is a comedy genius and a genuine mentor

    • @ting-ilee6804
      @ting-ilee6804 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is.

    • @georgeshelton6281
      @georgeshelton6281 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I fantasized of Conan O'Brien cussing out George Mickey Dolenz Jr. It's not just fantasize that's contemplate on it.

    • @allahm-ast3mnlywlatstbdlny164
      @allahm-ast3mnlywlatstbdlny164 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mashallah tbark Allah alhamudillah inshallah better astgfrallah

  • @fairytale143
    @fairytale143 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2839

    Dr. Kim laughing in the background is extremely entertaining :)

  • @justinallen5166
    @justinallen5166 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4457

    god Conan is his own kind of genius and I love it

    • @galaxytraveler5779
      @galaxytraveler5779 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Justin Allen Yup! He is so talented.

    • @sniperclown6384
      @sniperclown6384 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +Justin Alllen Conan, God is his own kind of genius and I love it.

    • @austin5408
      @austin5408 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lao Tzu no lol

    • @serelbass7283
      @serelbass7283 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Harvard man!

    • @thomasbooska1448
      @thomasbooska1448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Its funny that he has a 160 IQ. Up there with Stephen hawking and einstein

  • @MorticiaObscurum
    @MorticiaObscurum 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2944

    "It looks like something a bear would use at an AA meeting." That's just gold. He really shot that one up to the moon.

    • @nOx1D3
      @nOx1D3 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Danial Khalil that made me laugh so hard i started crying xD

    • @djvista38
      @djvista38 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Danial Khalil I agree total geniuus

    • @fauzilmufassa4691
      @fauzilmufassa4691 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is AA?

    • @kiddi3smalls
      @kiddi3smalls 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Fauzil Mufassa alcohol rehab meetings

    • @ardhiantowiryawan1685
      @ardhiantowiryawan1685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here that's really a good fire

  • @ryndanriley5348
    @ryndanriley5348 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5690

    I genuinely believe as far as writing jokes go, Conan blows everyone else who has worked in modern late night out of the water. For some reason a lot of people don't find him likable, but you have to admit his jokes are better than most anyone else.

    • @ExtremeTG
      @ExtremeTG 8 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      +Ryndan Riley what, he is one of the most beloved talk show host right now

    • @ryndanriley5348
      @ryndanriley5348 8 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      ratings say otherwise... especially when he was on the tonight show. he doesn't test well with most demographics outside of younger people. for some reason Jay Leno tested better. weird, but true.

    • @ryndanriley5348
      @ryndanriley5348 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      +LiGht YaGami I'm sorry, but that's just simply not true. I didn't ever say people hate him, I said people don't find him likable. that's why he doesn't get older viewers. he used to make a lot of jokes about it on the tonight show with how little kids are afraid of him and older people think he looks like a creep. those jokes came from responses to focus group testing. I'm sorry you don't want to believe it for some unapparent reason, but there's a reason his viewership declined so much. and comparing it to Justin bieber is called a fallacy of false analogy, and you should try not to use it in presenting arguments. since fans of pop music listen to whatever is publicized and talked about, but people make TV choices based on seemingly random preferences and whims. instead look for evidence to back up your claims. and evidence that's pertinent to the conversation, not critic reviews when we both already agree that he's the funniest and should therefore have the best reviews. my whole point was that people don't watch him as much because they don't find him likable. that's an easily Googleable fact. haha.

    • @ExtremeTG
      @ExtremeTG 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ryndan Riley i completely understand ur point, but do u not think this was when he was the host of late night show rather than now. When he took over the late night, a lot of viewers disliked him, and after decade of being the host, he improved and just overall grew on people, still some people didnt like him (older people, middle age, etc), but he really became a fan favorite after what happen with him and jay leno, and now everyone who know conan at least see him in a positive light (some are dying hard fan, some thinks hes alright, but rarely see people disliking him or even hating him) unlike jimmy fallon for example

    • @ryndanriley5348
      @ryndanriley5348 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +ExtremeTG yeah I think so. the social commentary definitely changed when he got screwed by nbc. people still don't watch him as much as any other host though, which seems to point to those people still not being into him, for whatever reason. being on TBS can't fully explain it because other cable hosts still pull in more viewers. I haven't heard any focus group results since then though, so maybe it's changed. anything we can say outside of things like that is really just speculation.

  • @chaseyongue594
    @chaseyongue594 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2963

    I wish i could speak and write like that

    • @nirbhaysharma1214
      @nirbhaysharma1214 8 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Jim Roberts work

    • @gabelogan56
      @gabelogan56 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ...like that Rihanna song

    • @dushyantbangal169
      @dushyantbangal169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      So does Jimmy Fallon...

    • @BudderB0y2222
      @BudderB0y2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He’s been on TV for over 30 years of course he’s better

    • @joefitzgerald2762
      @joefitzgerald2762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      he has writers, all you have to do to speak well is practice.. not that hard as long as you have the time

  • @DatMarkan
    @DatMarkan 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1858

    "So late last night, I began" Hilarious but true. Conan is a true genius of comedy!

    • @Yuan0287W
      @Yuan0287W 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      As a university student, I can relate. 🥲

    • @JaydevRaol
      @JaydevRaol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes relatable and funny.

  • @markreilly4577
    @markreilly4577 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1069

    Conan can you speak at my funeral?

  • @R4V22
    @R4V22 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2806

    It is our failure to become our perceived ideal,
    that ultimately defines us, and makes us unique.
    It is not easy, but if you accept your misfortune,
    and handle it right, your perceived failure,
    can become a catalyst for profound reinvention.
    ....so amazingly good!!!

    • @manjunathsrinivas1109
      @manjunathsrinivas1109 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Rav Forge he is very eloquent

    • @LetsbeHonestOfficial
      @LetsbeHonestOfficial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Perhaps my favorite part

    • @Lightnings
      @Lightnings 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      He worded it well, though the essence is relatively basic

    • @stevenjames6766
      @stevenjames6766 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      really good

    • @JBSCORNERL8
      @JBSCORNERL8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      but its not. A lot of people do not realize that they become unique chasing something that's already established.

  • @contactgenesis2572
    @contactgenesis2572 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2944

    It is unreal how amazingly well organized this commencement speech was. It had all the contents required to make a speech absolutely perfect. Humor, words of wisdom, sharing personal experience and relating to the graduates.
    So much #Respect for Conan O'Brien.

    • @michakowalski2930
      @michakowalski2930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      also noticed how whenever i started drifting off he pulled me back in with absurd joke. Really balanced great speech.

    • @jacobfarmer8578
      @jacobfarmer8578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@michakowalski2930 For a second I read your name as Micheal Wazowski

    • @HeierMr
      @HeierMr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Gor Yu not sure if that was an attempt to undermine his speech, but he is definitely brilliant no matter how much his team helped him

    • @gunman462
      @gunman462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Gor Yu It's funny how he only gets better without his writers and is just interacting with public on a remote segment lol

    • @altafkalam2716
      @altafkalam2716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Gor Yu Yes, Conan, the literature grad from Harvard who wrote on shows like SNL and the Simpsons, can't write anything by himself.
      I know it was an attempt to put him down but Conan is a pretty good writer on his own. You should read his newspaper articles especially his tribute to David Letterman in Variety

  • @PassingMaxQ
    @PassingMaxQ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +934

    As somebody getting ready to dramatically change paths, this speech means a lot.

    • @xxaks3lxx
      @xxaks3lxx 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I couldn't agree more

    • @samulai
      @samulai 8 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Watching Conan in general is always a good thing to do when you're down.

    • @parikshitsolunke3930
      @parikshitsolunke3930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hope the path you chose is treating you well, Goodluck and stay kind :)

    • @rojeezee
      @rojeezee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I hope that path you took, more than three years ago, worked out well for you.

    • @yahyabinilyas9917
      @yahyabinilyas9917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hope it's working out all well for you now

  • @kudiyyy
    @kudiyyy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4920

    "There are few things more liberating in this life than having your worst fear realized." Amen. Conan is the best. @19:16

    • @muffinman5741
      @muffinman5741 8 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      such deep

    • @rohittamhankar1058
      @rohittamhankar1058 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      +Sanna I scrolled down exactly when he spoke that sentence.

    • @hyunho7302
      @hyunho7302 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      19:00

    • @lepetitchat123
      @lepetitchat123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lorne Michaels really made the right choice

    • @pujiea
      @pujiea 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont get this line, what's it mean?

  • @turovartiainen
    @turovartiainen 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1188

    "Work hard, be kind, and amazing things will happen." Gotta love this man.

    • @muffinman5741
      @muffinman5741 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and be rich and white

    • @muffinman5741
      @muffinman5741 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      SDoGx54 not denying this, I wasn't talking about conan, neither was he.

    • @SDoGx54
      @SDoGx54 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jim Knopf you gotta admit your comment looks sort of like some bullshit racist comment if read wrong. my apologies. lol

    • @muffinman5741
      @muffinman5741 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SDoGx54 no, it actually looks like some extremely left winguish bullshit. Just wan6ed to point out how that's kinda not true, since there are a lot of people who work hard and are kind and they're still poor mostly because their parents were poor. The american dream doesn't exist. I still love conan and dont blame him it's still a good motto I just wanted to point that out.

    • @SDoGx54
      @SDoGx54 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jim Knopf i mean i dont disagree with that.

  • @davidkosa
    @davidkosa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    I expected this address to be funny and lighthearted. It was. What I did not expect was the deep, poignant message about the power of failure. Conan is the smartest man in show business.

  • @theonetun
    @theonetun 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2252

    Conan for president.

    • @NinjuhhhSponge
      @NinjuhhhSponge 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Ferhan Mahmood That would be great

    • @beazek
      @beazek 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Ferhan Mahmood fuck yeah!!

    • @chadww3959
      @chadww3959 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ferhan Mahmood i dont want nor should you want, someone ruling over you.

    • @canefan17
      @canefan17 9 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      +Ferhan Mahmood
      I actually think he'd make a great President. He has a lot of leadership qualities, certainly the wit, & his opening remarks (in regards to Bush Sr.) were enough to convince me that he "gets it"

    • @MaeLSTRoM1997
      @MaeLSTRoM1997 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Conan for pregnant

  • @mastahand
    @mastahand 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1924

    Honestly I think I've never watched a 20 min long youtube video with such attention before. It was totally worth watching.

    • @MiniNinja258
      @MiniNinja258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea

    • @weian87
      @weian87 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i've watched this in its entirety for the 10th time today and i never get sick of it

    • @supadopemex9245
      @supadopemex9245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@weian87 This is probably my fifth time watching this lol it’s so good

    • @r.p.354
      @r.p.354 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I watch this a few times a year, especially when I'm lost and need an inspirational boost.

  • @TheJohnCube
    @TheJohnCube 9 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    Conan is a legend

  • @BostonJoe13
    @BostonJoe13 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1985

    I got teary eyed while watching this. Conan is a brilliant man. That was the best speech i have ever heard.

    • @rheathermopolis9299
      @rheathermopolis9299 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +J4GG1D_3DG3 You should listen to JK Rowling's harvard commencement

    • @BostonJoe13
      @BostonJoe13 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Rhea Thermopolis will do. thanks

    • @HeidiSvenson
      @HeidiSvenson 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It was hilarious, effortless, touching, inspiring and brilliant. That's totally Conan. And not to take anything away from him or his speech, I would also recommend watching Jim Carrey's 2014 commencement speech to MUM University. If never used to like Jim Carrey but after watching that speech, not only was I in a huge puddle of tears, I think the man is an unquestionable genius. for those of you who have not seen it yet - even Carrey haters like I once was - push aside your opinion of him for a moment and give it a watch. I do not think you will be sorry you did. Life-changing.

    • @ArielGonzalez1
      @ArielGonzalez1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought I was the only one

    • @chris-hayes
      @chris-hayes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is one of the best I've heard, but I def recommend looking up the commencement speech from author David Foster Wallace. For me that's the best speech I've ever heard.

  • @Engineer_Heathen
    @Engineer_Heathen 10 ปีที่แล้ว +788

    Damn, he killed it. Wish conan would speak at my graduation lol

  • @OPERATOR-SHCP
    @OPERATOR-SHCP 8 ปีที่แล้ว +723

    I watch this whenever I'm down..Such a perfect speech this is..

    • @tanmayagupta4440
      @tanmayagupta4440 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NEWLAROEKOE i couldn't agree more

    • @epr1
      @epr1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m in tears. But I feel more motivated than ever. What an amazing person he is

    • @wsaj41221
      @wsaj41221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right??

    • @snowsmile7113
      @snowsmile7113 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same !!

  • @killua5676
    @killua5676 9 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    Completely destroyed Leno with the "aging baby boomer" comment.

    • @rodrigobraz2
      @rodrigobraz2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      And after that he says he is "speaking generally"... or did he say "Jay Leno-ly"? :-)

    • @GeologicFM
      @GeologicFM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I scrolled down the comments section to see if anyone else laughed so hard at that! Love it.

    • @mauricortez702
      @mauricortez702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol

  • @narutolll
    @narutolll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    20:53 "It is our failure to become our perceived ideal, that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It's not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention." What an incredibly intrinsic quote. Absolutely brilliant.

  • @santoshk73
    @santoshk73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "When I got the call two months ago to be your speaker, I decided to prepare with the same intensity many of you devoted to an important term paper... So late last night I began." TRUTH

    • @emili9715
      @emili9715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It made me feel personally attacked

  • @tyronewhite918
    @tyronewhite918 9 ปีที่แล้ว +653

    Knowing the context and what happened to him, that was a pretty good speach. What an honor that must have been for those kids.

    • @powexor
      @powexor 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      +Voyd He lost his job or quit. He even said it in the speech.

    • @hos5043
      @hos5043 9 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Fired by NBC for Jay Leno's freaking greed

    • @JaydevRaol
      @JaydevRaol 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah

  • @suramprady
    @suramprady 8 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    i come here whenever i feel lost or upset about what is going on in my life. the only constant through the years is Conan reassuring me that everything changes and we come out of each problem better than we imagined ourselves.
    Conan is my spirit animal!

    • @Horzinicla
      @Horzinicla 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How's life?

    • @wearewon
      @wearewon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is just my animal ...

    • @nico-zt9od
      @nico-zt9od 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well i hope you're doing okay

    • @doloresstone9927
      @doloresstone9927 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      President Kim's perpetual face of laughter behind brought much joy to the speech

    • @curious_fly
      @curious_fly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG Same

  • @noelleelizabeth9991
    @noelleelizabeth9991 7 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    "there are few things more liberating than having your worst fear realized." "but if you accept your misfortune, and handle it right, your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention." As someone who went through a personal shitstorm last year, this is the realest thing anybody can ever tell you.

  • @connorpaquette5090
    @connorpaquette5090 11 ปีที่แล้ว +743

    Beautiful mixture of intelligence, comedy, and of course - Conan's own originality. Awesome speech.

  • @nkm11tbm
    @nkm11tbm 10 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    This is in my opinion, the best commencement speech I have ever seen

    • @yckim17
      @yckim17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Neel Moudgil watch his Harvard Commencement speech! It’s up there as well!!

  • @dee5tank
    @dee5tank 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I re-watch this speech when I'm down in the dumps, which is roughly once every 18 months. I'm not one to say I have "epiphanies," which feel too grand, but when I re-watch this, I see my life trajectory with greater clarity. And for that, I genuinely appreciate Conan and his team for this amazing speech.

  • @nates1414
    @nates1414 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5946

    I'd love to see Jimmy Fallon try to entertain a crowd and impart words of wisdom without celebrity cameos or stupid drinking games

    • @MarcoLorenzoFlute
      @MarcoLorenzoFlute 10 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Couldn't have put it better myself!

    • @trenis
      @trenis 10 ปีที่แล้ว +333

      why go as low as fallon, I cant see anybody doin a better job than conan

    • @cwickram
      @cwickram 9 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Word.

    • @sirmolio
      @sirmolio 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nate S Or better yet, the NBC producers who propelled him into hosting that show.. or, more accurately, (here's the part no one will like) the idiot masses who fueled the ratings that propeled him into popularity and thus revenue-generating late-night-host status .. yeah, that's you reading this! :) Suck it, and thank you for degenerating us all.

    • @chadochocinco3801
      @chadochocinco3801 9 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      Jimmy Fallon has money and good writers to be funny. Conan is just naturally a comedic genius.

  • @NHLUniverse
    @NHLUniverse 9 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    Jimmy Fallon trying to pull that off: Such a pleasu--*fake laughs awkwardly for 5 seconds after every 2 words*

    • @jessesauceda8695
      @jessesauceda8695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can't stand Jimmy Fallon he is fake and NOT funny.

    • @sujata15164
      @sujata15164 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True😔

  • @NxDoyle
    @NxDoyle 8 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    Conan is fast approaching entertainment demigod status, if he's not there already.

    • @NxDoyle
      @NxDoyle 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Nor Norranun No, he just hit his punchlines.

  • @MikeFeeneyComedy
    @MikeFeeneyComedy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    "I went from being in the center of the grid, to not only off-the-grid, but underneath the coffee table that the grid sits on. Lost in the shag carpeting that is underneath the coffee table supporting the grid. It was the making of a career disaster and a terrible analogy." - Conan O'Brien
    ^ Terrific.

  • @sandria22
    @sandria22 11 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    I watch this over and over- its excellent

    • @guycitron5479
      @guycitron5479 10 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amen to that. True inspiration wrapped in hilarious comedy.

  • @weeniehutjunior
    @weeniehutjunior 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I watch this video every few months whenever I feel like I need a mood lift. And also to admire the amazing writing of his jokes and Conan's impeccable comic timing.

    • @jamcarb3853
      @jamcarb3853 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. I watch this before I need to give a speech. It's so well written and delivered

  • @courgette4735
    @courgette4735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The security detachment in the backgroung laughing their asses off is hypnotising.

  • @nikkiberay4903
    @nikkiberay4903 8 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    it is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique

    • @nikkiberay4903
      @nikkiberay4903 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention

    • @rishavmukherjee949
      @rishavmukherjee949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      r/im14andthisisdeep

  • @FulesTV
    @FulesTV 8 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    "it is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us, and makes us unique"
    20:00 love this...

  • @Munger88
    @Munger88 10 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    "In the "Dartmouth Bi-Monthly" of April, 1908, Professor E.J. Bartlett explains how green came to be Dartmouth’s color. Bartlett’s bottom line: it was the only color not used by another college."
    Wow, he wasn't making that up.

    • @mintimin8707
      @mintimin8707 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Came across this comment just as it popped up in the video.

  • @johnboy3523
    @johnboy3523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I have wrestled with depression my whole life, and something about Conan is truly miraculous. This man is undeniably gifted, and I am grateful he does not allow his gifts to go unused. Laughter really is the best medicine. Thank you, Conan. I’m sure I’m not the only one.

  • @n.4625
    @n.4625 8 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    "Thank you for inviting me, stinky Pete!"

  • @caligal1090
    @caligal1090 10 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    by far the best commencement speech ive seen

    • @raresabraleaks8216
      @raresabraleaks8216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah Andy Sambergs is better but this a close second

  • @markb3572
    @markb3572 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    20:01 - 21:10 :Greatest 1 min 9 sec of the speech. "It is our failure to become our perceived ideal, that ultimately defines us, and makes us unique. It is not easy, but if you accept your misfortune, and handle it right, your perceived failure, can become a catalyst for profound reinvention."

  • @crumbyvirus3421
    @crumbyvirus3421 9 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Conan is the GOAT! This speech was amazing and he has the best talk show today. An intelligent, funny, and humble man.

  • @Matdogg2k
    @Matdogg2k 9 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    I'm not gonna' diss Jimmy Fallon because I think he's talented - but I don't think Jimmy will reach the status of Conan. Similar to Leno, Jimmy isn't as hilarious as Conan. His style is like no other. He can make fun of himself and not do it in a depressing way. He can also be smart and articulate. I'm glad you're in LA Conan because the westcoast needed someone like you. Screw NBC and their garbage crap. Conan is the funniest talk show host ever. I'll say that when I get older and even after I die - CONAN IS THE FUNNIEST TALK SHOW HOST EVER!

    • @pthompson2113
      @pthompson2113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Matdogg2k Well said on all accounts!

    • @iAMhappful
      @iAMhappful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @ChłódPoranka
      @ChłódPoranka 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes, when you die for sure the only thing you will want to say will be "Conan is so funny"

    • @nurmadihahbintizulkifli1734
      @nurmadihahbintizulkifli1734 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      say it LOUDER HAHAHA

    • @mika274
      @mika274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would dare to include him with the likes of robin Williams

  • @arunmohan8882
    @arunmohan8882 9 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    this guy is something else

  • @lifesaver72
    @lifesaver72 8 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    This is one of the best commencement speeches that I have seen in a long time. Conan is awesome.

    • @nakajell
      @nakajell 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about carson

  • @SlowassSlothCharlie
    @SlowassSlothCharlie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I love watching these speeches. He doesn't always let on how smart he is for comedy purposes (most of the time), but when you do get to see him in something like this, he's very incredible, very humble, and true to himself.

  • @inescruzada
    @inescruzada 8 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    "...I bet for some of you your sexual orientation changed since I began this speech. I know I have.":deadpan delivery:
    DEAD

  • @mordredphantom9992
    @mordredphantom9992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Conan, i know this is a long shot but i hope you read this. You've been my inspiration for years since i've watched you. Thank you for giving joy through my darkest times. Thank you for giving me hope when i was giving up. Thank you.

  • @JonISNH
    @JonISNH 10 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    He got to his bit about Leno at 16:00 and I lost it. I constantly find Conan O'Brian one of the funniest comedians around.

  • @ro-p9514
    @ro-p9514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The security in the background laughing at Conan’s jokes is so wholesome 💕✨

  • @matthewhudson7883
    @matthewhudson7883 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "At Harvard five different guys in my class told me they would one day be president of the United States. Four of them were later killed in motel shootouts. The other one briefly hosted 'Blues Clues' before dying senselessly in yet another motel shootout."

  • @오르막길-d6t
    @오르막길-d6t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Seriously, this clip made me quit the job and live totally different life. thank you Conan. I will remember your words til I die " there are few things more liberating in this life than having your worst fear realized" .

  • @willvr4
    @willvr4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There's only one word to comment on this speech, "genuine."

  • @shmibbybibby7668
    @shmibbybibby7668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This guy is the only late-night show host that can make a crowd laugh outside of the studio equally as much so as inside the studio, legend.

  • @InsideThaJackalsHead
    @InsideThaJackalsHead 10 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    He's the best late night host period....

  • @soccerlovin1
    @soccerlovin1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Dr. Jim Yong Kim is now the leader of the World Bank.

  • @mimikdm
    @mimikdm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "It is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It's not easy but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention." 👏

  • @charlesmarcoe9621
    @charlesmarcoe9621 10 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Fantastic. Never had more genuine respect or admiration for Mr. O'Brien. Well done.

  • @havelard
    @havelard 9 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Thank you Conan, this is beautiful speech

  • @kwahhn
    @kwahhn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Lady grabbin a smoke behind Conan is the chef's kiss of this video.

  • @user-qx2rk7gu1u
    @user-qx2rk7gu1u 9 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    the smoking lady far behind him by the building is a hit.

    • @swapanjain892
      @swapanjain892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha!!!

    • @michaelaramis1210
      @michaelaramis1210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      gosh i was looking for this comment, she took like 4 in a row

  • @starlitshadows
    @starlitshadows 9 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    This is a really amazing speech. Great human being. "Work hard, be kind and amazing things will happen."

  • @aruberokun
    @aruberokun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "with true disappointment comes clarity, and with clarity comes conviction and true originality"

  • @HeierMr
    @HeierMr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I know a lot of people would disagree just for the sake of disagreeing, but this has to be one of the greatest and most inspirational speeches of all time. I am not even joking AT ALL.

  • @_KT5
    @_KT5 9 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    'How to change ur life in 23 minutes'

  • @deedonnerramone4757
    @deedonnerramone4757 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I used to teach in Malaysia and I was tutoring a girl in an English speech competition nationwide. I showed her this clip and she literally fell in love with Conan. She didn't win but she was profoundly impacted by this speech! Power of humor and honesty. Thank you COCO.

  • @j-zenberg4181
    @j-zenberg4181 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    MY only wish to meet this beautiful man in person

  • @liamaspinall6906
    @liamaspinall6906 8 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    The message brought a tear to my eye, for too long now I have been running fron fear and failure, but here today I say no more, we should face our fears head on and do our best at everything we can, by giving everyone undivided attention when they talk, by actually studying for there exams rather then half-assing it, by actually being proactive rather then being reactive, I believe that we can be better then we were yesterday!!!
    - ramblings of a stranger
    p.s to anyone who read this, I don't know who you are or anything about you, but do your best!!!
    remember someone believes that you can succeed even if its a random stranger on the internet! :)

    • @marioalvoh655
      @marioalvoh655 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      liam aspinall wow mate you really help me :D

    • @sursr2820
      @sursr2820 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you, stranger.

    • @MrAngusyoungistheman
      @MrAngusyoungistheman 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      liam aspinall
      👏✊️

    • @scaussie75
      @scaussie75 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you. Truly uplifting comment I hope you are on your way to happiness and your success now and look back on this post on days that get you down. Good luck and best wishes

    • @zoet9524
      @zoet9524 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was in tears when I was watching this!

  • @Focusfin100
    @Focusfin100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Conan doesn't get serious very often, but when he does it's so impactful.

  • @bdbly
    @bdbly 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is the best video I’ve seen in a long time. I love Conan.
    “It is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It’s not easy, but if you accept your misfortune, and handle it right, your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention.”
    “Whether you fear it or not, disappointment will come. The beauty is that through disappointment, you can gain clarity, and with clarity comes true conviction and originality.”

  • @auliasoemantrihardjo
    @auliasoemantrihardjo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2023 and still loving this. Thank you, if it werent for you, id be dead back in 2017. Thank you.

  • @BudderB0y2222
    @BudderB0y2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Damn these students are already 30. Times flies by quick.

  • @iUhMazexD
    @iUhMazexD 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love how well-spoken he is. His message could not have been said any better

  • @maveryk
    @maveryk 11 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    why is everyone so surprised that Conanwould knock this speech out of the park? He does a monologue 5 nights a week and he has speech writers.. He is in his element speaking in front of college kids

  • @Riv3rch781
    @Riv3rch781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “It is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimate defines us and makes us unique. It is not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention”

  • @mestizzo
    @mestizzo 11 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Finally, a speech without cliches

  • @haoiseetheworld820
    @haoiseetheworld820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I keep coming back to watch this video whenever I am down or going through obstacles in life. Still the best speech I've ever heard. Thank you Conan.

  • @moe4vw
    @moe4vw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m honored to be one of Conan’s fans ever since he started ... Respect 🎩

  • @davidbross9314
    @davidbross9314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    A brilliant speech. Conan weaves a story from beginning to end that is at times silly but so engaging that he gains ones listening ear. The arc of the speech then moves to his sharing how a personal wound mobilized him to fine new meaning and purpose to his life-his humor he shares in the face of this pain only humanizes him even more. One of the best speeches that I have ever heard and with wisdom critical for us all to embrace.

  • @Mauriziobarenboim
    @Mauriziobarenboim 11 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Excellent excellent speech. Well I don't think work hard, but I believe in working smart.

    • @wanderlustnova2599
      @wanderlustnova2599 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think Mike Rowe said something about that phrase. I agree with him when it says it's an absurd phrase that degrades the success of people who choose to work in manual or skilled labor - welders, mechanics, plumbers, electricians - or pretty much anything outside of requiring a higher education.

    • @Mauriziobarenboim
      @Mauriziobarenboim 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wanderlust Nova Everything you can work smart. Mindful and deliberate working for 2 hours is better than mindless working for 8 hours. If your work is causing you to be stressed then you've been doing it wrong.

    • @normalwhitedude
      @normalwhitedude 11 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Wanderlust Nova how about both? work hard and work smart regardless of profession?

    • @Mauriziobarenboim
      @Mauriziobarenboim 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      normalwhitedude That's another good idea too haha.

    • @Mauriziobarenboim
      @Mauriziobarenboim 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** So... fighting doesn't bring you success?

  • @el0blaino
    @el0blaino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I return to this every now and then when I feel I have come to some crossroads and it always picks me up and inspires me. It’s a lovely combination of humor and advice for living well.

  • @imhellag
    @imhellag 10 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    At the midpoint this shit gets real. So good.

  • @tevtev6227
    @tevtev6227 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "When I got the call two months ago to be your speaker, I decided to prepare with the same intensity many of you devoted to an important term paper... So late last night I began. SO FRIEKENN TRUEE

  • @MaeLSTRoM1997
    @MaeLSTRoM1997 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    easily the best commencement speech i've ever heard

  • @graxianess9785
    @graxianess9785 9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You are the next hero that this generation looked up to. You are an epic Conan!

  • @memcf
    @memcf ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I listen to this speech at least once a year, and have for several years now. It may be the most perfect commencement address ever delivered. Hilarious and wise.

  • @tigersfan14
    @tigersfan14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've gone back to this video at least once a year since 2011. Incredibly motivating and timeless. Possibly the best commencement speech ever.

  • @NateHaselton
    @NateHaselton 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is the best commencement address I've ever heard.

    • @DeusEx_Machina
      @DeusEx_Machina 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      listen to Stephen Colbert's at Northwestern

    • @elroyblackbean
      @elroyblackbean 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also check out Jim Carrey's 2014 address to Maharishi University of Management. This was great, but I got even more out of JC's speech.

  • @mcwchiu3
    @mcwchiu3 10 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Amazing speech! Worth watching the entire video, but 19:00 is where Conan kicks off the real talk.

  • @liryisnotateddybear
    @liryisnotateddybear 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I couldn't have a graduation ceremony because of 2011 Tohoku earthquake. It was canceled.
    Now it feels like I'm having one. Thanks, Conan.

  • @TheMostAmazingTroll
    @TheMostAmazingTroll 10 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This speech was beautiful. Conan delivered it perfectly.

  • @RepublicanG8mer
    @RepublicanG8mer 9 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    "JadeBlade, Seafoam Avenger, or Limezilla."
    LOL

  • @Retski7
    @Retski7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is a wonderful speech. I have a massive respect for Conan for really re-defining his career and coming out on top. Have always loved his show but the podcast is incredible. I hope you never quit.

  • @40laceration
    @40laceration 11 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Amazing. Pure genius.

  • @jasprerph
    @jasprerph 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That is one of the most awesome commencement speeches ever !!! Conan is intelligent, witty and hilarious !!! He handled himself with so much class and dignity when the Leno sham happened !!! Great job Conan !!! WE LOVE YOU !!!

  • @AngryKittens
    @AngryKittens 8 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    That Jay Leno diss. ROFL

    • @MrBignate12345
      @MrBignate12345 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      what is the time stamp

    • @wennwenn1422
      @wennwenn1422 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      15:38

    • @andymoore9892
      @andymoore9892 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Hey, he was speaking in general *cough*

  • @yyyuuuiii0102
    @yyyuuuiii0102 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    great speech
    19:15 "How could this be true? Well, it's simple: There are few things more liberating in this life than having your worst fear realized."