AsynC they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister. It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
This is a perfect example of kids not being academically talented but well versed and skilled in the arts. I hope he goes very far, he's very talented and so lovely
I can feel his depression. The smiles, the laughs, the vibe his giving it's very obvious the mom is hiding everything. The son of giving hints of his depression and suicidal thoughts. I just wanna be friends with this dude. He is really bright and happy on the outside but inside might probably be suicide.
@@balooroo8684 some people keep that things inside my brother friend said lets hang out and the other he sucide we were so shocked it looked like he is going through like that
" they should've never had me and be a happy family of 3 " y'all know that's usually hint or sign of people having suicidal thoughts, im scared of what's going through his minds now by the fact that he's such a bright person :(
I think for him it’s the best to get as much support from the friends and go out of that house and get a decent job to at least pay for a little apartment.He should go to a doctor too .To slowly recover from his past
"they should have just not had me and been a happy family of three." The fact he's all smile and bright from the outside but instead have this kind of thought in the inside, it's really broke my heart. there really must be a lot of sad unsettled feelings that he keeps for himself : (
Rlly? I've thought that too about my family. I never thought it was that big of a thing, probably most of the youngest kids in a family may have thought that.
ELF ryeorin i know right! You could see that he is really suffering but the MCs and the audience kept laughing and turning the all thing into comedy which didnt help his family to understand his concern in my opinion.
agree. people who hold bright face with things usually broke a lot inside, that's why they always smile and appear so happy. I suffer that myself, not about this but some other issues.
I just realized she hadn’t complimented him not once even after that AMAZING dance he did. She’s always complaining about his studying but he has talent. I feel bad for him to be honest bc he looks scared and then parent seem fake. I hope he’s doing better🤍
I hope he can soon make his dreams into reality and get away from his manipulative parents :' He deserve a happy life. I want his parents to change but from my personal experience people THAT manipulative can't be influence by others and only believe what they want to believe even if people tell it's wrong. Regardless I hope he can finally have the dream he hoped to achieve.
They are not sincere. Of course they don't want to look bad in the public. But they should know, they are the one who decide to have a kid. I think the problem with most Asian parents is, they think the children "owe" them. While it is to be thankful to, you should be more responsible to support and love you're children instead of pressure them to the point of depressed. Thank god the boy has a bright personality and positive vibe, he's even encouraging his older sister. Don't keep nagging and accusing your kids for literally nothing, it's really stressful.
I cry when he said "I feel like I don't fit with my family they should've just not had me and been a happy family of three" I just want to give him a hug
He may seem bright, but read his body language people. The stiff shoulders, messing with the pillow... he was anxious. Most people think being anxious only means to shy away, but No. It can be talking really fast, or seeming excited. He has probably perfected the art of smiling through the pain to make it hurt less and to keep from crying. I would know. I've smiled through whole therapy sessions while talking about dark shit. This guy is struggling.
Ikr. Especially when he mentioned that he bites his nails. These are likely signs of anxiety disorder.. the happiest looking people might not be happy people. I’m sure we’ve seen lots of unexpected celebrities suicide.
I feel for the kid. Not everyone will become a scientist, a doctor or an engineer. If that was the case then we wouldn't have wonderful paintings to look at, songs to relax to, actors and actresses to watch, magicians to be amazed by and people who draw out our imagination and as he said, "our inner child". He is a dreamer and extremely talented. I wish him well on his bright future.
Exactly...this happens to me too..I have huge dreams but my parents don't even know my talents (singing,rapping,dancing,drawing,studying good,gymnastics/contortion..I love it) And that's what makes me self-conscious about myself ...I'm not confident ..my parents don't support my dreams..I wanna be a dancer and singer..
@Suga's grandpa dance Infired me so hard thank u so much...I'm really trying hard to make myself proud and make people understand.but...my problem is that,I get mad easily but I forgive people easy af..I tried to tell my parents and friends about my..depression and other symptoms but they just don't care....now..I'm into kpop...everyone around me hate it..but now idc..I've decided that I WILL go for my dreams slowly ..suffering ..not caring..love u!
Me too,my parents always forced me to study economy.But i actually quite good at drawing,design,and create something so that i want to study graphic design,and of course the won't let me.they think that only government employees can succeed and that is a cool job. Even though graphic design can make a lot of money and it is a cool job too right? :(
@@minttako9626 awee me too! I always wanted to be an art and english teacher and even kindergarten teacher but they said that my dream is not high enough and i should sign for law school and things like that so i can be a "successful" kid. I really hope that our parents will understand us better and think that our opinion matters too!😭
I wonder how he's doing right now. I just watched this and had my heart broke for him. His smiles hide his pain, you can see it through his eyes. It's disappointing how majority of the people in the show didn't even see right through him. He should be supported by his family not just financially but emotionally and psychologically, instead all he gets are wounds. It's quite alarming when he said, "this is the last thing i want to say". I think he's reallly having suicidal thoughts which I hope am wrong. 💔😭 The audience, hosts and the guests kept laughing it off because he just kept on smiling. 😭 Kuddos to Sejeong for speaking her mind and make the mom realize *somehow*, her son's feelings. I'll pray for you Byeong Jun. You are PRECIOUS just like every child. Fighting!!!
The fact he said all those dark words ("They shouldnt have me" & etc) with such a bright smile breaks my heart. People like this are diamonds. They should shine out. I hope he does acheive his dreams!
And his remarks "This would be my last words" or something along that line. It's as if he's saying that he would no longer voice his concerns in the future.
His parents are the type of parents who never reflect on themselves. Whenever concerns arise, rather than thinking 'is there anything i could change on my side', they'll always think 'my son is too this and that'. Poor boy, what are you up to today? I pray you are surrounded by people who understands and listens to you.
The way he said "they should've never had me and be a happy family of 3" I cried (actually though) the way he said it was just so sad, he's such a bright kid who's going places it's just sad to think that words depressing as those, came from him.
Kinda how my family is My dad left and stopped talking to me when I went to college My cousins have not talked to me since my mom died in 2005 The only reason my aunt's are talking to me is cause I tried to kill myself last month and they are only checking to see if I'm alive I have not been invited to a family event since 2011
Lavender Boy I need to share this with you guys. I have 2 older siblings in which the oldest, my brother, already graduated, passed the exams and is nlw working in Japan. Mg sister and I have been bright students but me, myself can't get to win prizes. I only won major things last year. I have collected about 5 major awards for winning first and was able to go to places, and many minor awards. Today, the teacher who coached me asked if I could bring my awards to school for our foundation day. While looking for it at homw, you know what my dad said? *"Why are you looking for your awards? For the foundation day? It should be your sister's. She has more awards."* The mext day, when I was getting my most wamted and important award, my glass trophy, mom said, *"Be careful with that. Once you break it you won't be able to win another. You can break that once you won many trophies. Why can't you be like your sis? Many trophies."*
Taehyung'sLeftFoot Yeah, maybe they can treat this case like a simple one but for me, it's really big worried. As a student, I had felt a lot of pressure when I think about my family and they want me to studies, and I end up forcing myself and get into diplomas , take a course that I dun like. They never force me to do it though. After that, I get dipressions and anxiety, I can't study at all. My parents blame themselves cause they think this happened because of them. This was not their fault, I feel bad. But, im okay right nw, my family give me a lot of support even when I do the little things. I changes my life with their motivation words and I countinued studies with smile, laugh and happy. #Sorry for my english^^
I think the MCs should’ve been more careful. About the Thomas train part, there was a part where they were laughing about why a boy of his age is still buying these ‘children’ toys and he seems to try to explain but is out voiced with laughter from the MCs and the audience. And then later when the pictures were shown, they then realize why he buys the trains. They are usually really careful but I felt that they took him too lightly. This young man has so much potential omg! I hope he goes through with his own dreams because I can definitely see his future being successful! I hope he gains his confidence and definitely follow and trust himself😁
That's so true :( It's a miracle that he grow up to be such a fine boy and have a bright personality. He didn't even dispice his sister for the maltreatment that he got.
I get good grades in my family but they never complemented me! I even graduated top 1 in my whole grade since i was in grade 1 and now i’m in grade 8 and never been complemented! My parents like my older brother more eventhough he don’t like studying!! He just likes playing basketball! So i tried playing sports for 2 years and i got 70+ medals and 10 trophies! My brother doesn’t even have a half of all my achievements but my parents always like him!! 😡😡
but I think they don't want your brother to feel bad. Cuz it doesn't matter if you win more or have higher grader or don't win much of have average low grades. You parents should love you equally.
Wow this kid needs to go places. His personality is amazing. He really seems like he has what it takes to succeed. He might be one of the funniest and my most favourite guest. I’d love to have a younger brother like him.
They not taking anything seriusly just because he talk in such a lively way. When he said " this is the last thing I want to say" they all just laugh it off
idk why but I feel like his family is fake af and they bout to whipped his ass when they go back home :( the boy is so soft and pure :( I want a brother like him :(
Ahhhhe is so beautiful and has the most pure personality!! He will grow up to make a great man - hopefully his family won’t break his self worth and brightness ❤️
First Last sejeong is the girl on the right of the person who voiced the concern. She is wearing round glasses and a blue shirt with the word "blush" on it. She was a part of produce 101 s1 and came 2nd place. She is also known as God Sejeong
he seemed really sad... even if he tried to hide it with his bright personality you can tell that he’s really in pain just by looking in his eyes. he’s so precious :(( i hope he’s doing fine ❤️
it really annoyed me how his mother said that his performance was thanks to her and that he would have a low self esteem without her. as if she was making his achievement hers. like he didnt do anything and it was all her doing... no wonder he has a low self esteem, he cant do anything. she should have said smth like "good job" "you did well" but she said "ite because i raised him well". idk that really pissed me off
marwa they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister. When his mum was making his achievements as if it were her own, it is also a trait of narcissism. It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
The brightest of people can hide the darkest of things. I think that applies to him. He seems all bright on the outside, but he's hurting inside which really makes me feel sorry for him because I feel like it applies to me too. The smallest of things can affect people and some people don't seem to realise that.
swetha. This is why I am so so careful with my more sensitive friends and family members. I am not very upbeat and suffer from severe resting bitch face which automatically makes people assume that I am angry and so when I am upset, people know automatically. People need to realise that people that are really happy and upbeat all the time are humans too and they can get hurt. We have to be more aware of each other and be more in tune with one another because the exterior hides a lot of deep hurt and pain.
I agree. It makes me sad that he puts on this lovely smile on his face but in the inside, he has these sad thoughts. I also feel like it applies to me because I have family issues and I've often thought, why did my parents bother to have a kid? It's true the smallest things can affect people. I'm sensitive as well and one time, my friends were joking around about me. I smiled and laughed, pretending that I found it amusing. However, I was really hurt. Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore and began to cry. My friends were surprised because I was all "happy" before. Well, news flash!!!! Some people are affected more easily than others.
he’s so happy and bright ughhhh how could you possibly hate him :-) but really that mom only loves her daughter because of her good grades. i hate when parents favorite one son or daughter because of grades. i mean he has so many talents, studying is not the only thing good in this world :/
Nam Balloon In comparison to my friend, she has high grades and does all their chores but her parent's still favor her siblings over her. And she's the youngest. I feel angry for her and sad.
Nam Balloon well is worse when you do everything good And you are a nice kid WHO ALWAYS listen to your parents , who cares about them yet her favorite song is the selfish one who disrispect her And yell her And treat her like a maid ... yet he is perfect And you are a mistake in her eyes... isn't that way worse? Is psychological abuse:(
I got higher grades than my brothers but my parents still favor over them. I even became a director of a company when I was working and still not a single word of compliment from them. Parents like mine won't change no matter how hard i've tried. Then I decided to no longer care and get married and live happily with my husband. Parents like mine should never be a parents. They gave me such a deep scar while watching my brothers get praised or comforted while all they ever did was left me behind.
The whole family is obviously being smug about this whole thing because due to his soft personality and nativity, there’s no way he can articulate that they treat him like the family’s loser. They’re happy they can get away with doing this and continue to make themselves feel big and important by having “loser” in the family. The MCs don’t realize he’s the family’s loser because Korean humor is a lot of roasting and sarcasm; they’re missing the reality that this family truly means what they’re saying.
they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister. It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
Assuming you mean Naïveté (or naivety) not nativity I agree. His mom is too arrogant. She brings herself up by pushing *her son* down. What a narcissistic psycho
@@twiceisoncemorefancy1499 going to a program like this is bad. They arent professionals and often blow over important things like for example parents being violent or alcoholics, go to a professional or counselling
i can tell his mom puts so much stress on him, like my parents are koreans too and my mother has sat at the table with me while i cried over math and said “ we will do this together” not say “ your brother didn’t ask for help why should you!” plus his body shows how hard he’s trying to hold it all in... i feel for him 🥺
why does the family seem so well prepared and ready to answer all the questions? and whenever his parents were speaking to him it looked like they were kind of taunting him. also i'm really annoyed at the fact that the people that were supposed to help him weren't really taking him seriously. and it's so obvious that he looks cheery just to cover up the fact that he's hurting inside. shouldn't these 'hello counselor' people know at least that?
This guy is talented in the arts, and specifically in directing or choreography. The parents has a valid fear his dream might fall short but forgot the part where people don't get tired easily when play is work.
Honestly, near the end you can see what kind of people his parents are...he's so expressive and pure but what they want is some kind of CEO from him...they were clearly embarassed by his dance, meaning they don't give a fuck about his passion....
That's not true, the mother said she didn't expected amazing results. She even said that she loved him the same no matter what while she didn't like the sister as much if she had poor results And come on, the dance was horrible. It reminded me of the dad who danced in the previous episode.
Claire Duval i dont think so, since he was dancing with the feet on the floor and that hurt a lot, spinning anf all that. More over they just dont get what he likes so since is not expected they look at him like he is crazy, but if you saw a korean parade you would say its quite amazing, and remember he dosent have class dance or any academy. Thats prety good, since its like a cheerleader and not an idol dancer. He has not just dream but has creativity and in the actual world you can get more far than just studying.
Claire Duval C'mon,how could that dance be horrible,I mean people have different opinions from each other but he has some talent,why don't you just watch him without judging him.
brielle kim I'm sorry, my comment was a bit mean 😳 I agree that he has an amazing talent when it comes to imagine and draw what he has in mind. However I don't get what dancing has to do with his dream... Also I think there was some misunderstanding with his family because they seem supportive and his mother just wanted him to have marks good enough to realise his dream.
He he started talking I really thought he had a vibe.. kind of a star vibe haha cause I'm into kpop He has such a strong energy and his dance was amazing
The face his sister makes is like "Even though he does it I. Am not impressed... I am the best". He has potential.. I hope he is living a good and peaceful life
He is so bright but I’m scare one day he will be like jonghyun. Don’t judge a book by its cover. He might look happy but doesn’t mean in the inside he’s happy too.
Please don't compare him to jonghyun, his suffering can not be compare to anything. He's not just some real popular idol in Korea that committed suicide, he's a normal person living by his work, work every day with not rest is hard so I'm happy that jonghyun is living in a better life somewhere out there.
you didn't have to compare him to jonghyun. he's not you suicide poster boy, he's a real person, you can't define him by the thing that ended his life. imagine you died in a car accident and then you're forever known as "the one who died in a car accident". it's not going to feel good right? don't define jonghyun by his death. define him by his talent and his achievements, because that's what's most important.
Suhaila Aziz we take offence because the original commenter literally didn’t have to bring jonghyun up at all. ever since he passed, people have been using him and using his death for their own gain, using him to get sympathy and clout and to exaggerate and strengthen their point (as the original commenter did). it makes fans of jonghyun mad because they’re discarding all the amazing accomplishments and wonderful things he did during his life and forgetting about the amazing person he was, and just focusing on how he died, because it benefits them. it’s offensive because it’s disrespectful. :)
The reality is that there are some individuals who may commit suicide because they are unable to take the stress/depression any longer. It doesn't matter who, what, or where you're from.
i am starting to really dislike his mom... she takes all the credit for his hard works, says that he basically cant get anywhere in life and keeps trying to contradict him with things that she cant even begin to understand. i mean, did you guys see how he was gripping the pillow, how he clenched his fingers together and how he kept smiling throughout the whole thing? i know where that 'self confidence' comes from, because I experience it every day. It's hard to understand what it feels like, to feel as if nobody really believes you, as if you're a disappointment to everyone you meet. I think that he's just never really had someone to truly stand by his side and not make 'back up plans' for 'just in case he fails'. And maybe he's gotten so tired of it that he fakes smiles every day, so often that they've become a part of him. acting really bright and happy to cover up for something you dont want others to see? That's so unfair. unfair for him.
Sometimes the happiest people feel the saddest inside. They just don't show it. This guy really is precious. He is like a ray of sunshine. And i hate it when parents compare kids. No two people cab be same. He surely is talented as hell if not good in studies. Everyone has their weak points. Doesnt mean he is worth nothing. I hope he grows well and becomes some one big.
Indeed..actually the people tend to mask their sadness by faking to be bright and happiest person ever..you could hardly see the sadness in them as they always smile and seem to be unaffected by the problems surround them..
Many are commenting byeongjun but here I want to praise Sejeong. The way she gave all the advice channel like a real specialist even when she's not. She didnt blame one party or another nor did she lean toward one or the other. She simply give the best positive ways for both. She is an old soul with the purest and kindest heart combine with high intelligence and positivity about life. To think that she is only a 24yrs old with a hard life growing up. Her mom, granddad and grandmom are the biggest contributor why she is that great.
I don't know if I am wrong.I really hate his mom.Moms like these only appreciate the child who are good at studying but act as cool parents outside. Bloody hypocrites.They will stop these bright stars till their death. I can feel him way too much.
they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister. It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
Its not that its that we are all raised to believe that studying will get you somewhere in life. His mum is just concerned. She appreciates him otherwise she wouldn’t give him pocket money or she woulda kicked him out. She loves him and wants him to have a good life, maybe if he told his parents a well thought out plan as to how he will make it by being a parade director she wouldn’t be concerned.
I hope he never gives up on his dreams. He's got so much talent, he really could make it somewhere. Even if his parents don't accept it, I hope he'll continue to fight for what he believes in. He really is amazing.
The mother seems to despise her son, she’s seems to never like what he does. If you’re not prepared to have kids who don’t want to be a doctor then don’t have one!!!!!
HazzaxCalum Yes...I agree..everything she had now came from hardwork and experience that's why she can give this kind of advise. She is a matured lady. :-)
I wanna have Sejeong as my sister!!!! As the oldest of 3 siblings I didn't have any wise person during my difficulties!!!! Now I am trying to be a good sister I don't want my siblings to go through the same difficulties I had to go through during my middle School year!!!!😔😔
After four years when I watched this I truly can see the idols were the ones that were on his side telling him to just tell them that he will pursue his dreams whether they want him to or not because they themselves told their parents the samething
they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister. It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
I almost cried when I saw his sketches and his room and watching him dance, this boy is a dreamer, and he's not afraid to dream. I really hope he goes far.
Idk how can i see through him..i mean he’s like positive on the outside but really broken on the inside..im not a korean but i think koreans have this mind that can get them depressed really easily..i hope koreans will be happy and won’t happen such a sad thing to them
upupandawayyy uwu It’s not a mind that gets depressed easily. It’s a society that puts WAAAY too much pressure on its citizens. Look it up, they are going through a crisis rn.
A Human exactly,,, he may look really bright and positive outside but if you look closely at his body language it tells u more. he seems very anxious and stressed. Broke my heart :( . and i don't like the family at all, they sound too shady and they sound like they would act much differently at home. This is a very serious concern, the bot might even be diagnosed by depression .
This moved me to tears. The boy is amazing and so inspiring and imaginative, creative and ughh.. But his parents and family are the perfect examples of people who just want to live a simple life and I know they want him to be like them but he just can't... Just by seeing this video I can tell how bright his personality is and honestly he is my spirit animal. I hope his parents and family will support him as much as I do! Hwaiting!
I hate how they kept joking when he let go of his bright smile for a few seconds and was serious for once...it's a concern and it disgusts me how the MCs kept making his pain into comedy just because he looks so bright and not that hurt Also it gave the family that mistreated him an easy pass...what a great help now he knows he'll never get taken serious and should just be a man •-•
I genuinely feel bad for him, all the sad things he said with such a happy smile made me so sad. His dance was incredible but then his mother didn’t care all that much, it must have hurt him to see that his mother didn’t even want to tell him that he did a good job.
I really hope he never loses himself . I love how bright and pure he is . Don't let the world , the "reality" change your personality . I personally think that it's very rare to find someone like him nowadays. He's so precious .
I feel like his dancing, his sketches, crafts and art work are all to do with escaping from reality. The fact he's so talented is because it's the only way he can run away from his horrible family.. The only way he can be happy is to dance, draw, design etc....
What the older sister said about the mother I feel means she really did get favoured so heavily throughout her life by her mother that she was blind to the treatment of her younger brother.
Jinwoah they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister. It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
he has such an attractive personality. he is so bright and would be a really good friend to talk to. he seems to be a very open person. i think he is just one of these people you feel comfortable with- i just want to hug him :))
"that's the last thing I want to say" felt like a suicide note. This whole counseling felt like a approval for a last desicion. "either they change their minds or not."
What he said about "they shouldn't have had me and just been a happy family of 3" also sent up red flags for me. That's a pretty common thing for those with suicidal thoughts to say. I hope that he's doing alright
why did none of the people mention what he said at 3:55 that already showed he had a low self esteem and was hiding his feelings. geez this show seriously pisses me off sometimes
I feel for him. His mom and sister didn't even consider his feelings. The way they speak, it is as if he has no feeling. I respect him that he could still be bright and cheerful kid despite being treated like that. Even if he is a sensitive child, it'll be alright if they at least understand him. I don't like the way his family looking down on him. I mean all the harsh words they said to him. We never know that those words might hurt him and left a deepest scar in his heart. I bet he is likely to be successful in his life than his sister. If I were him, as soon as I can be independent, i'll leave the house immediately. It's suffocating living in family like that.
nana love tchoutchou Some people including myself suffer from the lack of self esteem. Those harsh words they were saying towards the guy could've easily pushed him into committing suicide. Being able to understand how to properly speak to a person who is sensitive to how others view them, is an incredible skill which you don't seen to possess! Just because he is constantly smiling doesn't mean he doesn't have any days where he feels devoid of emotion! The way you wrote that comment was a very immature way of doing so. And you are reading something someone (aka me) who is only 14 years old typed!
God it’s so saddening to see this even 6 years later! We really need an update on Byeongjun. The fidgeting, the awkward smiling, and blank speechless stares at his family while he sits stiffly..😕 it’s even worse when he says “They should’ve never had me and be a happy family of 3” I just feel for him, it’s so terrible seeing someone seeking for help so clearly yet no on notices :( I hope he’s doing well and achieving his dreams and gosh I loved his dance sm !! 😭💕✨
Oh I can't belive that lady. This family is definitely ruled by the mother, just look who talk the most. She just can't and won't support her son. This dude may not be the smartest in school but I belive he's got a bright future. Even Einstein belive imagination is the most important thing.
She very obviously supports him but she still worries because what he wants is so specific. And that's how most parents feel when their child wants to go into the arts. Especially when they don't have something tangible that may prove that they have a chance of success like awards. Hell, even kids who are in university that study the arts, their parents still worry. At least he has a mother who isn't pressuring him and is allowing him this kind of freedom. My parents gave me three options: STEM, Medicine or Law. They killed anything that wasn't that and my dream was to become an author and comic book artist.
Mira Loran well watching this the mother gave conflicting vibes to me, she said she isn't pressuring him but she wants him to Excell, then she said since her son is in 11th grade he could at least be taller, overall in that 27 minute clip she keeps shooting down her son's hopes and dreams without any shame on TV and still smiling. The dad and daughter just smiled also. I got 3 friends and I know people whose parents gave them a target to achieve like go to law school or med school, they went and graduated but after that they went and pursue their dream job which don't have any connection with their majors but their parents at least still showed some support.
LowLight his mom is not bad. She doesnt force him to get high grades like the perfect student, just be the average so he could actually go to a university and be something in the future, and maybe make his dream come true. If you think this is bad, then how permissive your parents are?
Did we watch the same concern?! 🤔 She clearly loves and supports him. Unlike some parents, she knows her sons strengths and weaknesses and tries to help him improve both. She clearly said that she knows that her son has immense potential and a bright future but it’s very logical for a parent to worry for their child’s future, especially when the child has chosen a field that the parent is not familiar with. His mum just wants him to have a safe plan B which studying and education provides. Life’s tricky and you never what may come your way so it’s always good for have options. Like she said, she raised her son preciously and with a lot of support, that is why he’s able to be as confident as he is. Also, it seems like she does support his interests and passions like taking him to a theme park for a whole week straight, getting him a yearly pass and giving him her credit card for the model that he built in his room. If she was hard on him, he would be far more sadder and resentful towards his mother but instead, he is bright, joyful, upbeat, charismatic and very much loves his family. She lets him express himself e.g. the dancing in the living room lol. She sounds like an awesome Mum tbh...she’s just concerned for his future which is very normal for parents to be concerned of their children’s future.
I agree with u! Shes like justifying herself.. "If really i pressure him.. Why is he etc etc" she dont want to accept that she is wrong and her approach is wrong. Even the smallest things eg; buying new school bag is important. Especially to people who are sensitive. Smallest things matters the most. Do not take ur children emotional wellbeing lightly.
Seems that parents focused too much on his weakness rather than his strength. I wish that parents would understand that every child is different so no comparison needs to happen and not everyone will excel academically. Instead of making your child feel less important, nurturing and encouragements are very much needed in their development. I hope this teen self esteem and mental health won't be affected as his embrace adulthood.
usually person with bright personality have these kind of concerns... Thankfully he has a bright personality ... BYEONGJIN .. if youre reading this (hope you do) dont let them bring you down ;) they will appreciate your worth .. I guarantee it ,. just hang in there ;) FIGHTING !!!!!
His dance performance was so beautiful and especially with the deep meaning behind it, it's just stunning. He seems very dedicated to his dream, I really hope he successes and achieves his dream. I hope nobody pulls him back from what he wants to be, He deserves the happiness and success, honestly.
I understand his concerns....although I’m the oldest my parents also treat me as “lesser” than my younger siblings and it’s quite heartbreaking. I feel so sorry for him to have these feelings especially as he is so bright...I’ve also thought that my family would be happier without me...because they often say “no one wants you here” to me. They treat my brothers well all the time, saying they love them and listening to their worries and buying them stuff all the time and not me...however I’m not bothered by that, I dont want their money, I’d prefer if they didn’t spend any on me, even if they just offered or....actually went through with “punishments” for my brothers instead of just me....(I had my phone taken and tv and stuff for two months for something trivial, and my brothers literally never get punished no matter what they do lol) I also feel like I have a bright personality (although I’m not as talented as him omg YOU GO DUDE) but I have very dark feelings inside....i hope my family can love me in the future. Also good luck with your dream byeongjin!! ☺️💕
The world is very big, u can meet people that is willing to stand by your side and give u some light bulbs or even table lamp to brighten up your darkest day. So please dont be sad my dear, things just gonna be fine :)
Hang in there, I know exactly how you feel. I am a middle child and the terrible rep is true. I have two younger and two older siblings. My older siblings get the freedom they want because they're older and my younger siblings get it because "they are just kids and need to have fun" but I am not allowed anywhere with anyone. To make me feel even more alienated the older ones have a different father and so do the younger ones. I am the only offspring between our mother and my father and they can't let me forget it. I never complained to my mother when I was young when she wouldn't show up during eat with your mom during lunch or picnic with your mom or other days dedicated to our parents coming to school. I knew my mother was busy but it would make me sad nevertheless when I looked around the room and I was the only child alone. But I began to feel wronged when I would see her put aside work to show up to my older and younger siblings activities. She bought anything and everything they asked for, things that made me think they were being selfish and none sense. My older siblings would break phone after phone and get a new only a week or two later, my younger siblings would blame me for everything and anything and they would believe them. All I asked for were books and pencils because I really liked stationary and used to draw a lot. They'd tell me it's none sense and a waste of money. They would complain to me that my school just wanted their money. I was always dumped with the responsibility of babysitting and cleaning from age 9. My siblings were disrespectful and cursed at her but if I did my hair wrong or gave the wrong answer it was that days headline for the whole family. If I asked for a shirt the school was selling or asked for undergarments for some reason my mother thought I was trying to show off or was being promiscuous I was only 12 but she would go out of her way to make sure my siblings had something to wear for wacky tacky day or spirit week. It was very clear to me the favoritism in the household. I started to develop a skin condition that would make my skin extra sensitive and I would bruise and develop painful leisures on my skin but my mother did not bring me to the doctor and would tell me it was because I was dirty. My older sister cut her finger chopping food and my mother told her she could take her bring her to the emergency (the cut only went through one layer of skin). I continued to get sicker and it spread to my face and instead of bringing me to a dermatologist she stopped taking me out with her because she was embarrassed and would continue to say I was dirty. It wasn't until I couldn't walk anymore that she took me to see a professional. I spent all of my preteen and teenage life recovering but was still constantly compared to my older and younger siblings. My medicine made me lose my hair, a side effect was dark pigmentation and I could no longer keep food down and became emaciated but all I heard was about how I didn't have a figure like my siblings how I was not light skinned or pretty like my siblings. Edit: they didn't care that I was a straight A student and had a scholarship ready. On the brink of death however I became thankful. I was thankful for being able to eat well as a child and thankful that I felt peace somehow. I am still recovering but now I think that I can't get any lower than death now and now that I as a young adult things have been slowly getting better.
I'm sobbing. This boy looks so sweet and precious but his family treats him so harshly. Legit every single words that comes out of their mouths is something "bad" about him. When people who are supposed to love you the most treat you like this the pain must be unimaginable
Damn if he were my son I wouldn't want that glow to leave him. When you see him dancing you can tell that he really enjoys it. I do understand that as a parent you want to have your child to have a better future but just like Sejeong said this is his dream the least that a parent can do is support him and be with him throughout.
I'm majoring and child development and not having expectations is bad because it shows that as a parent, you don't believe in them. Also, constantly telling negative things to your child can really hurt them because they end up believing the words they hear leading to negative thinking of one's self. He might be trying to go farther in life and not realize exactly how family has been hurting him. He might look bright but he can be hiding it. I can really relate to him and it frustrates me how he's not getting the understanding he deserves.
nana love tchoutchou my goodness calm down. that wasn't even the point. no matter how old he is the way his family in treating him is not right. you're basically getting angry because of nothing.
nana love tchoutchou actually he’s most likely 16 in this video because korean age is different from america. being in the womb counts for a year when the child is born as well as new year’s day
People who often laugh and show bubbly personalities often use that as their defense mechanism because inside they are really hurt and sad...I can feel that this guy has depression or anxiety. I don't know but his parents look so fake😂 like they're pretending. I feel so bad for him, people often sleep on these problems which lead to mental health problems...
I feel like they didn't really take him seriously enough. In the end too he seemed disappointed by such a low amount of votes like no one gets him. He was definitely giving nervous/anxious vibes with talking fast and fiddling with the pillow all the time. Poor guy.. he seems so nice and talented!
I think he should be an Idol, he'll be my bias then. He's actually really cute, talented and funny and I do understand him on his concern because I, myself sometimes feel being unloved too. Don't worry Byeongjun, we're with you.
i wanna give him the biggest hug, sometimes shows like these frustrate me because such issues shouldn't be taken lightly, the happy and laughing atmosphere.
Vanessa Chan i typed sangkyu then i editted it to sangkyun (as it is always spelt like that in jbj show.). Why is that even a big thing for you? So childish.
Lol the video I literally just watched before this video was the JBJ weekly idol episode with Samuel and other Produce 101 former contestants. I didn’t watch Produce 101 at all but thank God I watched that weekly idol ep cause I can totally see it 😂
I get the kid is probably exaggerating and stuff but there's a big issue with the family. They compare their kids and that's not right. Every kid is different so to compare them is wrong.
Hearing the way hes describing his feelings and how anxious he seems and along with the excessive nail biting it looks like he may have an anxiety or depression disorder. thats why he overthinks and is so sensitive with the way he is treated and takes it very personally. hopefully his family can be more aware of how he is feeling and assure him with his concerns and how he can get help. and along with that his parents dont even seem like they care and especially the mom just seems so negative in finding a way to find what he isnt doing right instead of what he is. so i wouldnt be surprised that he started developing these feelings and the amount of low self esteem. idk this is just what i think 😐🤷♀️
I feel like he's the type of person that will do anything for his dream.._ all his mum has to do is support him an say studying is important to fulfil it.
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The way the family talks seems to be very passive aggressive...makes me think they don't act exactly like this at home.
AsynC they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister.
It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
@@riverlu precisely my friend
@@riverlu you should work as a psychologist
thats just how koreans talk. Its extremely open and real in context.
sound like every asian family
This is a perfect example of kids not being academically talented but well versed and skilled in the arts. I hope he goes very far, he's very talented and so lovely
IKR
RIGHT!! it frustrates me when parents only care about academics and not arts
I can feel his depression. The smiles, the laughs, the vibe his giving it's very obvious the mom is hiding everything. The son of giving hints of his depression and suicidal thoughts. I just wanna be friends with this dude. He is really bright and happy on the outside but inside might probably be suicide.
same here
Yeah
What are the hints of suicidal thoughts? I didn't sense any so very curious
@@balooroo8684 some people keep that things inside my brother friend said lets hang out and the other he sucide we were so shocked it looked like he is going through like that
@@balooroo8684"they shouldnt've had me so they could be a happy family of 3" :((
" they should've never had me and be a happy family of 3 " y'all know that's usually hint or sign of people having suicidal thoughts, im scared of what's going through his minds now by the fact that he's such a bright person :(
Same. I released that as soon as he came unto the show. He was hiding his hurt feelings behind his smile. But I wished someone picked up on that.
He's not bright it's him trying to cover up how sad he is
I think for him it’s the best to get as much support from the friends and go out of that house and get a decent job to at least pay for a little apartment.He should go to a doctor too .To slowly recover from his past
Such sentences are results of a long process
LEGIT
"they should have just not had me and been a happy family of three."
The fact he's all smile and bright from the outside but instead have this kind of thought in the inside, it's really broke my heart. there really must be a lot of sad unsettled feelings that he keeps for himself : (
ELF ryeorin I agree
Rlly? I've thought that too about my family. I never thought it was that big of a thing, probably most of the youngest kids in a family may have thought that.
ELF ryeorin i know right! You could see that he is really suffering but the MCs and the audience kept laughing and turning the all thing into comedy which didnt help his family to understand his concern in my opinion.
agree. people who hold bright face with things usually broke a lot inside, that's why they always smile and appear so happy. I suffer that myself, not about this but some other issues.
ELF ryeorin l
I just realized she hadn’t complimented him not once even after that AMAZING dance he did. She’s always complaining about his studying but he has talent. I feel bad for him to be honest bc he looks scared and then parent seem fake. I hope he’s doing better🤍
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I hope he can soon make his dreams into reality and get away from his manipulative parents :' He deserve a happy life. I want his parents to change but from my personal experience people THAT manipulative can't be influence by others and only believe what they want to believe even if people tell it's wrong. Regardless I hope he can finally have the dream he hoped to achieve.
i get a feeling he would get it bad when he went back home...
Hui same here they seem very fake
random boii I agree
Their smiles are hella creepy :( poor guy
I'm scared
The parents give me fake vibes.... their smiles are so smug and almost taunting?
i feel like the second they got home the boy got yelled ar
I know you mean, I also feel those vibes to.
Typical asian parents tbh
Same...their facial expressions while speaking creeped me out especially the mother
They are not sincere. Of course they don't want to look bad in the public. But they should know, they are the one who decide to have a kid. I think the problem with most Asian parents is, they think the children "owe" them. While it is to be thankful to, you should be more responsible to support and love you're children instead of pressure them to the point of depressed. Thank god the boy has a bright personality and positive vibe, he's even encouraging his older sister. Don't keep nagging and accusing your kids for literally nothing, it's really stressful.
I cry when he said "I feel like I don't fit with my family they should've just not had me and been a happy family of three"
I just want to give him a hug
Same 😖 and btw love ur icon 🤣💕
@@armyblinkteume5792 ty
He may seem bright, but read his body language people. The stiff shoulders, messing with the pillow... he was anxious. Most people think being anxious only means to shy away, but No. It can be talking really fast, or seeming excited. He has probably perfected the art of smiling through the pain to make it hurt less and to keep from crying. I would know. I've smiled through whole therapy sessions while talking about dark shit. This guy is struggling.
Samy Marie Uoyevoli !!!
Same thoughts yet they make fun of the situation
As they say....the people who hide sadness, smile the most
I feel the whole family do that. They all seem bright but really i'm sure they where all anxious
Ikr. Especially when he mentioned that he bites his nails. These are likely signs of anxiety disorder.. the happiest looking people might not be happy people. I’m sure we’ve seen lots of unexpected celebrities suicide.
I feel for the kid. Not everyone will become a scientist, a doctor or an engineer. If that was the case then we wouldn't have wonderful paintings to look at, songs to relax to, actors and actresses to watch, magicians to be amazed by and people who draw out our imagination and as he said, "our inner child". He is a dreamer and extremely talented. I wish him well on his bright future.
Exactly...this happens to me too..I have huge dreams but my parents don't even know my talents (singing,rapping,dancing,drawing,studying good,gymnastics/contortion..I love it) And that's what makes me self-conscious about myself ...I'm not confident ..my parents don't support my dreams..I wanna be a dancer and singer..
@Suga's grandpa dance Infired me so hard thank u so much...I'm really trying hard to make myself proud and make people understand.but...my problem is that,I get mad easily but I forgive people easy af..I tried to tell my parents and friends about my..depression and other symptoms but they just don't care....now..I'm into kpop...everyone around me hate it..but now idc..I've decided that I WILL go for my dreams slowly ..suffering ..not caring..love u!
@Suga's grandpa dance Infired me so hard 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Me too,my parents always forced me to study economy.But i actually quite good at drawing,design,and create something so that i want to study graphic design,and of course the won't let me.they think that only government employees can succeed and that is a cool job. Even though graphic design can make a lot of money and it is a cool job too right? :(
@@minttako9626 awee me too! I always wanted to be an art and english teacher and even kindergarten teacher but they said that my dream is not high enough and i should sign for law school and things like that so i can be a "successful" kid. I really hope that our parents will understand us better and think that our opinion matters too!😭
I wonder how he's doing right now. I just watched this and had my heart broke for him. His smiles hide his pain, you can see it through his eyes. It's disappointing how majority of the people in the show didn't even see right through him. He should be supported by his family not just financially but emotionally and psychologically, instead all he gets are wounds. It's quite alarming when he said, "this is the last thing i want to say". I think he's reallly having suicidal thoughts which I hope am wrong. 💔😭 The audience, hosts and the guests kept laughing it off because he just kept on smiling. 😭 Kuddos to Sejeong for speaking her mind and make the mom realize *somehow*, her son's feelings. I'll pray for you Byeong Jun. You are PRECIOUS just like every child. Fighting!!!
same...i rlly wanna know how hes doing rn
The fact he said all those dark words ("They shouldnt have me" & etc) with such a bright smile breaks my heart. People like this are diamonds. They should shine out. I hope he does acheive his dreams!
Kiwi Chuu what i hope is that he wont lose his bright personality over the years ,i hope he matures brightly.
And his remarks "This would be my last words" or something along that line. It's as if he's saying that he would no longer voice his concerns in the future.
Wow! He’s so bright he could glow in the dark 😍
Noor Hope His skin or his personality?? Haha. As a mostly non-enthusiastic and nonchalant person, I envy his personality...and his smooth skin 😂
Korean future is so bright
Noor Hope Yeah! I'd probably date him. 😍💞
Chim Cham yup his skin is envy worthy 😂
Noor Hope he is brighter than my future tbh...
His parents are the type of parents who never reflect on themselves. Whenever concerns arise, rather than thinking 'is there anything i could change on my side', they'll always think 'my son is too this and that'. Poor boy, what are you up to today? I pray you are surrounded by people who understands and listens to you.
This deserves more likes!
The way he said "they should've never had me and be a happy family of 3" I cried (actually though) the way he said it was just so sad, he's such a bright kid who's going places it's just sad to think that words depressing as those, came from him.
Kinda how my family is
My dad left and stopped talking to me when I went to college
My cousins have not talked to me since my mom died in 2005
The only reason my aunt's are talking to me is cause I tried to kill myself last month and they are only checking to see if I'm alive
I have not been invited to a family event since 2011
The only fact that he thinks that is a huge warning. They should be careful of him... Those thoughts can lead to suicide
YamiAlex224 sorry to hear that i hope everything goes well . Good luck. And take care ❤️💕😊
that's the exact thing my mom told me hahaha My mom , dad and my baby sis is living in the other country and I'm here living with my aunt hahha
Lavender Boy I need to share this with you guys. I have 2 older siblings in which the oldest, my brother, already graduated, passed the exams and is nlw working in Japan. Mg sister and I have been bright students but me, myself can't get to win prizes. I only won major things last year. I have collected about 5 major awards for winning first and was able to go to places, and many minor awards. Today, the teacher who coached me asked if I could bring my awards to school for our foundation day. While looking for it at homw, you know what my dad said? *"Why are you looking for your awards? For the foundation day? It should be your sister's. She has more awards."*
The mext day, when I was getting my most wamted and important award, my glass trophy, mom said, *"Be careful with that. Once you break it you won't be able to win another. You can break that once you won many trophies. Why can't you be like your sis? Many trophies."*
that kid is creative, good dance, handsome, passionated...his mom should be proud :/
Taehyung'sLeftFoot Yeah, maybe they can treat this case like a simple one but for me, it's really big worried. As a student, I had felt a lot of pressure when I think about my family and they want me to studies, and I end up forcing myself and get into diplomas , take a course that I dun like. They never force me to do it though. After that, I get dipressions and anxiety, I can't study at all. My parents blame themselves cause they think this happened because of them. This was not their fault, I feel bad. But, im okay right nw, my family give me a lot of support even when I do the little things. I changes my life with their motivation words and I countinued studies with smile, laugh and happy.
#Sorry for my english^^
IKR
Nur Fiza I wish you luck
Taehyung'sLeftFoot yea they just haven’t realised it.. *sighs*
shit, his, you're right ! english is not my first langage so I tend to make mistakes ^^
I think the MCs should’ve been more careful. About the Thomas train part, there was a part where they were laughing about why a boy of his age is still buying these ‘children’ toys and he seems to try to explain but is out voiced with laughter from the MCs and the audience. And then later when the pictures were shown, they then realize why he buys the trains. They are usually really careful but I felt that they took him too lightly. This young man has so much potential omg! I hope he goes through with his own dreams because I can definitely see his future being successful! I hope he gains his confidence and definitely follow and trust himself😁
I hate it when parents say I love my daughter/son more because she's getting higher grades....
true af, it's uncomfortable for the smart kid and toxic for the other. One of the best ways to destroy the relationship between siblings :(
나도..ㅠㅠ
That's so true :(
It's a miracle that he grow up to be such a fine boy and have a bright personality. He didn't even dispice his sister for the maltreatment that he got.
I get good grades in my family but they never complemented me! I even graduated top 1 in my whole grade since i was in grade 1 and now i’m in grade 8 and never been complemented! My parents like my older brother more eventhough he don’t like studying!! He just likes playing basketball! So i tried playing sports for 2 years and i got 70+ medals and 10 trophies! My brother doesn’t even have a half of all my achievements but my parents always like him!! 😡😡
but I think they don't want your brother to feel bad. Cuz it doesn't matter if you win more or have higher grader or don't win much of have average low grades. You parents should love you equally.
Wow this kid needs to go places.
His personality is amazing. He really seems like he has what it takes to succeed.
He might be one of the funniest and my most favourite guest. I’d love to have a younger brother like him.
jelly I would to be his younger brother
jelly true! This kid has so much personality. He’s funny as hell and will definitely do great in Korean variety shows!
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Same here. I also want a brother like him😅
I would take him in my home and encourage him like mad crazy and be thrilled to watch him heal and soar! Come to USA and do international training!!!
I don't know I cried when he danced, I can see his passion. I hope his parents will express their love for the son
Sorry to ruin the atmosphere, but they won't
But he could still be successful regardless so I also hope he can make his dreams come true and truly be happy for himself.
He seems depressed to me. Smiles even when they say hurtful things. Saying they shouldn't have had me is a big sign.
Its just sad how they're taking him as if his a joke :
They not taking anything seriusly just because he talk in such a lively way. When he said " this is the last thing I want to say" they all just laugh it off
idk why but I feel like his family is fake af and they bout to whipped his ass when they go back home :( the boy is so soft and pure :( I want a brother like him :(
Me too.. 😭😭
Yes if he was my brother i woild care for him more like a treasure
There are People who watch over the family for months or years if the situation is at its worse
his family looks so good at manipulating that it's actually scary. i hope he's doing okay rn :(
Ahhhhe is so beautiful and has the most pure personality!! He will grow up to make a great man - hopefully his family won’t break his self worth and brightness ❤️
I hope not either. I hope he can get past this
I pray he won't lose his personality, we need more people like him in the world 💕
He is 18 yo, already a man. Lol.
Too late he is fucked. Will be dead in a few years. Just another statistic.
@@nanaprincess2537 18 years old in Korea is 16 years old lmao what
Sejeong has always been a good speaker I'm so proud of her
Dope Chungha who is she? Oh my she is 👍👍👍
yessss my biass
I didn't know her really well but in this show she looks so mature and really intelligent. That's the kindof person we need in our society omg
First Last sejeong is the girl on the right of the person who voiced the concern. She is wearing round glasses and a blue shirt with the word "blush" on it. She was a part of produce 101 s1 and came 2nd place. She is also known as God Sejeong
Min Hee she was from group Gugudan. let check it out! 😉
he seemed really sad... even if he tried to hide it with his bright personality you can tell that he’s really in pain just by looking in his eyes. he’s so precious :(( i hope he’s doing fine ❤️
When you look at his eyes you will see the pain and sadness
Especially when he talked about his birthday.
He also like want to cry
Dude true
Actually he seems really scared. I don't know why but he just look so scared. I want to adopt him.
DoggyPoo that’s actually so weird why did you think hitting send was a good idea
DoggyPoo bitch says the one that’s user name is “Doggypoo” I don’t think you have the right to talk. Crusty ass bitch
GucciTae V I’m laughing so hard right now
same here
Me too and .......I am 17😶😕
OUTSIDE:*Bright and Happy*
INSIDE:*upset, stress and etc*
it really annoyed me how his mother said that his performance was thanks to her and that he would have a low self esteem without her. as if she was making his achievement hers. like he didnt do anything and it was all her doing... no wonder he has a low self esteem, he cant do anything. she should have said smth like "good job" "you did well" but she said "ite because i raised him well". idk that really pissed me off
marwa they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister.
When his mum was making his achievements as if it were her own, it is also a trait of narcissism.
It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
same, her way of thinking really upsetted me
Same
Of course, him not getting good grades was also thanks to her.
The brightest of people can hide the darkest of things. I think that applies to him. He seems all bright on the outside, but he's hurting inside which really makes me feel sorry for him because I feel like it applies to me too. The smallest of things can affect people and some people don't seem to realise that.
swetha. This is why I am so so careful with my more sensitive friends and family members. I am not very upbeat and suffer from severe resting bitch face which automatically makes people assume that I am angry and so when I am upset, people know automatically. People need to realise that people that are really happy and upbeat all the time are humans too and they can get hurt. We have to be more aware of each other and be more in tune with one another because the exterior hides a lot of deep hurt and pain.
I agree. It makes me sad that he puts on this lovely smile on his face but in the inside, he has these sad thoughts. I also feel like it applies to me because I have family issues and I've often thought, why did my parents bother to have a kid? It's true the smallest things can affect people. I'm sensitive as well and one time, my friends were joking around about me. I smiled and laughed, pretending that I found it amusing. However, I was really hurt. Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore and began to cry. My friends were surprised because I was all "happy" before. Well, news flash!!!! Some people are affected more easily than others.
Really disturbing he just said his dad physically abused him and people thought it was funny
he’s so happy and bright ughhhh how could you possibly hate him :-) but really that mom only loves her daughter because of her good grades. i hate when parents favorite one son or daughter because of grades. i mean he has so many talents, studying is not the only thing good in this world :/
Nam Balloon
In comparison to my friend, she has high grades and does all their chores but her parent's still favor her siblings over her. And she's the youngest. I feel angry for her and sad.
Nam Balloon well is worse when you do everything good And you are a nice kid WHO ALWAYS listen to your parents , who cares about them yet her favorite song is the selfish one who disrispect her And yell her And treat her like a maid ... yet he is perfect And you are a mistake in her eyes... isn't that way worse? Is psychological abuse:(
Nam Balloon his life same with me.But I never hate my family and still love them.
I got higher grades than my brothers but my parents still favor over them. I even became a director of a company when I was working and still not a single word of compliment from them. Parents like mine won't change no matter how hard i've tried. Then I decided to no longer care and get married and live happily with my husband.
Parents like mine should never be a parents. They gave me such a deep scar while watching my brothers get praised or comforted while all they ever did was left me behind.
Nam Balloon
I see you everywhere I always watch your I.M loves country boys 😂
The whole family is obviously being smug about this whole thing because due to his soft personality and nativity, there’s no way he can articulate that they treat him like the family’s loser. They’re happy they can get away with doing this and continue to make themselves feel big and important by having “loser” in the family. The MCs don’t realize he’s the family’s loser because Korean humor is a lot of roasting and sarcasm; they’re missing the reality that this family truly means what they’re saying.
Rinna Mai exactly...when in fact he shines brighter than all of his family combined.
they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister.
It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
Assuming you mean Naïveté (or naivety) not nativity
I agree. His mom is too arrogant. She brings herself up by pushing *her son* down.
What a narcissistic psycho
You know what.. This was also the reason why I hate my father so much.. Just if my country have program like this.. I hope my father would change..
@@twiceisoncemorefancy1499 going to a program like this is bad. They arent professionals and often blow over important things like for example parents being violent or alcoholics, go to a professional or counselling
i can tell his mom puts so much stress on him, like my parents are koreans too and my mother has sat at the table with me while i cried over math and said “ we will do this together” not say “ your brother didn’t ask for help why should you!” plus his body shows how hard he’s trying to hold it all in... i feel for him 🥺
why does the family seem so well prepared and ready to answer all the questions? and whenever his parents were speaking to him it looked like they were kind of taunting him. also i'm really annoyed at the fact that the people that were supposed to help him weren't really taking him seriously. and it's so obvious that he looks cheery just to cover up the fact that he's hurting inside. shouldn't these 'hello counselor' people know at least that?
Its a show very obvious
Show for entertainment so peoples concern like this serious doesn't matter to them
Is a variety show..... the show is for entertainment and also this show kinda does help a little bit
man...this boy is too pure for this world !!!
This guy is talented in the arts, and specifically in directing or choreography.
The parents has a valid fear his dream might fall short but forgot the part where people don't get tired easily when play is work.
Honestly, near the end you can see what kind of people his parents are...he's so expressive and pure but what they want is some kind of CEO from him...they were clearly embarassed by his dance, meaning they don't give a fuck about his passion....
Ebial. Umm no
That's not true, the mother said she didn't expected amazing results. She even said that she loved him the same no matter what while she didn't like the sister as much if she had poor results And come on, the dance was horrible. It reminded me of the dad who danced in the previous episode.
Claire Duval i dont think so, since he was dancing with the feet on the floor and that hurt a lot, spinning anf all that. More over they just dont get what he likes so since is not expected they look at him like he is crazy, but if you saw a korean parade you would say its quite amazing, and remember he dosent have class dance or any academy. Thats prety good, since its like a cheerleader and not an idol dancer. He has not just dream but has creativity and in the actual world you can get more far than just studying.
Claire Duval C'mon,how could that dance be horrible,I mean people have different opinions from each other but he has some talent,why don't you just watch him without judging him.
brielle kim I'm sorry, my comment was a bit mean 😳
I agree that he has an amazing talent when it comes to imagine and draw what he has in mind. However I don't get what dancing has to do with his dream...
Also I think there was some misunderstanding with his family because they seem supportive and his mother just wanted him to have marks good enough to realise his dream.
This guy is special. People like him born only once in a while
He he started talking I really thought he had a vibe.. kind of a star vibe haha cause I'm into kpop
He has such a strong energy and his dance was amazing
The face his sister makes is like "Even though he does it I. Am not impressed... I am the best". He has potential.. I hope he is living a good and peaceful life
He is so bright but I’m scare one day he will be like jonghyun. Don’t judge a book by its cover. He might look happy but doesn’t mean in the inside he’s happy too.
That hit a cord
Please don't compare him to jonghyun, his suffering can not be compare to anything. He's not just some real popular idol in Korea that committed suicide, he's a normal person living by his work, work every day with not rest is hard so I'm happy that jonghyun is living in a better life somewhere out there.
you didn't have to compare him to jonghyun. he's not you suicide poster boy, he's a real person, you can't define him by the thing that ended his life. imagine you died in a car accident and then you're forever known as "the one who died in a car accident". it's not going to feel good right? don't define jonghyun by his death. define him by his talent and his achievements, because that's what's most important.
Suhaila Aziz we take offence because the original commenter literally didn’t have to bring jonghyun up at all. ever since he passed, people have been using him and using his death for their own gain, using him to get sympathy and clout and to exaggerate and strengthen their point (as the original commenter did). it makes fans of jonghyun mad because they’re discarding all the amazing accomplishments and wonderful things he did during his life and forgetting about the amazing person he was, and just focusing on how he died, because it benefits them. it’s offensive because it’s disrespectful. :)
The reality is that there are some individuals who may commit suicide because they are unable to take the stress/depression any longer. It doesn't matter who, what, or where you're from.
i am starting to really dislike his mom... she takes all the credit for his hard works, says that he basically cant get anywhere in life and keeps trying to contradict him with things that she cant even begin to understand. i mean, did you guys see how he was gripping the pillow, how he clenched his fingers together and how he kept smiling throughout the whole thing? i know where that 'self confidence' comes from, because I experience it every day. It's hard to understand what it feels like, to feel as if nobody really believes you, as if you're a disappointment to everyone you meet. I think that he's just never really had someone to truly stand by his side and not make 'back up plans' for 'just in case he fails'. And maybe he's gotten so tired of it that he fakes smiles every day, so often that they've become a part of him. acting really bright and happy to cover up for something you dont want others to see? That's so unfair. unfair for him.
KBS we need an update on Byeong Jun!!! I really hope you’re doing good and you’re in a better place and state of mind 🥺
Sometimes the happiest people feel the saddest inside. They just don't show it. This guy really is precious. He is like a ray of sunshine. And i hate it when parents compare kids. No two people cab be same. He surely is talented as hell if not good in studies. Everyone has their weak points. Doesnt mean he is worth nothing. I hope he grows well and becomes some one big.
TRUE. I waas hoping to find a comment like this!
Indeed..actually the people tend to mask their sadness by faking to be bright and happiest person ever..you could hardly see the sadness in them as they always smile and seem to be unaffected by the problems surround them..
I agree with you
He seemed sad, like really sad...even if he tried to hide it with his charming smile, you could tell he was unsure and confused at the world
Many are commenting byeongjun but here I want to praise Sejeong.
The way she gave all the advice channel like a real specialist even when she's not. She didnt blame one party or another nor did she lean toward one or the other. She simply give the best positive ways for both.
She is an old soul with the purest and kindest heart combine with high intelligence and positivity about life. To think that she is only a 24yrs old with a hard life growing up. Her mom, granddad and grandmom are the biggest contributor why she is that great.
Look at this human glowstick. I wanna hold and protecc
I don't know if I am wrong.I really hate his mom.Moms like these only appreciate the child who are good at studying but act as cool parents outside.
Bloody hypocrites.They will stop these bright stars till their death.
I can feel him way too much.
Ramisa Tahsin Shreya and she does it all with a smiling face while thinking she did well and he is 'just whining'.
they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister.
It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
@@riverlu Was thinking the same thing.
Its not that its that we are all raised to believe that studying will get you somewhere in life. His mum is just concerned. She appreciates him otherwise she wouldn’t give him pocket money or she woulda kicked him out. She loves him and wants him to have a good life, maybe if he told his parents a well thought out plan as to how he will make it by being a parade director she wouldn’t be concerned.
I hope he never gives up on his dreams. He's got so much talent, he really could make it somewhere. Even if his parents don't accept it, I hope he'll continue to fight for what he believes in.
He really is amazing.
The mother seems to despise her son, she’s seems to never like what he does. If you’re not prepared to have kids who don’t want to be a doctor then don’t have one!!!!!
Sejeong is beautiful inside & out! Her words are so inspiring...
HazzaxCalum ikr
HazzaxCalum Yes...I agree..everything she had now came from hardwork and experience that's why she can give this kind of advise. She is a matured lady. :-)
I want to one day visit south Korea because of her in that show and I wish she don't change before I meet her.
I wanna have Sejeong as my sister!!!! As the oldest of 3 siblings I didn't have any wise person during my difficulties!!!! Now I am trying to be a good sister I don't want my siblings to go through the same difficulties I had to go through during my middle School year!!!!😔😔
yess ikr
After four years when I watched this I truly can see the idols were the ones that were on his side telling him to just tell them that he will pursue his dreams whether they want him to or not because they themselves told their parents the samething
i dont like how the sister automatically assumes that it’s byeongjun who stresses the mother out. like can’t it be the dad or something else??
Sarrah Neo she explained why. Why you so easily misunderstand
Kim seojong is a good speaker. She must be smart too.
Dewi Wulansari lol what logic is this 😂
You mean sejeong, the girl in the glasses next to the boy?
DuskGlade yep
this boy is so creative !!! unfortunately his parents are not taking him seriously and tbh i'm a bit worried that he might harm himself .
I dont like his family at all. Theyre so shady! 😪
DutchBTS Army ikr
Definitely. I bet everyone on that stage wanted to take him home like that family does not deserve him
they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister.
It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
Me neither, they seem so fake
honestly
I almost cried when I saw his sketches and his room and watching him dance, this boy is a dreamer, and he's not afraid to dream. I really hope he goes far.
He is such a sweetheart. He's a gem
saddest people are always the brightest...
Idk how can i see through him..i mean he’s like positive on the outside but really broken on the inside..im not a korean but i think koreans have this mind that can get them depressed really easily..i hope koreans will be happy and won’t happen such a sad thing to them
upupandawayyy uwu It’s not a mind that gets depressed easily. It’s a society that puts WAAAY too much pressure on its citizens.
Look it up, they are going through a crisis rn.
It is the reason korea has the highest suicide rate in the world
Omg…. This is nearly the entire main cast of Business Proposal!
his face after he got only 66 votes break my heart 😢
I think he only got 66 votes becouse of his bright personality and it makes most of people think that was not a concern
A Human exactly,,, he may look really bright and positive outside but if you look closely at his body language it tells u more. he seems very anxious and stressed. Broke my heart :( . and i don't like the family at all, they sound too shady and they sound like they would act much differently at home. This is a very serious concern, the bot might even be diagnosed by depression .
I just got to that part and I'm highkey crying
@@ahuman1983 Ikr that pissed me off , couldn't the ppl clearly see that he was acting bright bcoz he was trying to hide the pain
I am skipping the voting part.. I don't want to get hurt and pissed 😞
This moved me to tears. The boy is amazing and so inspiring and imaginative, creative and ughh.. But his parents and family are the perfect examples of people who just want to live a simple life and I know they want him to be like them but he just can't... Just by seeing this video I can tell how bright his personality is and honestly he is my spirit animal. I hope his parents and family will support him as much as I do! Hwaiting!
I hate how they kept joking when he let go of his bright smile for a few seconds and was serious for once...it's a concern and it disgusts me how the MCs kept making his pain into comedy just because he looks so bright and not that hurt
Also it gave the family that mistreated him an easy pass...what a great help now he knows he'll never get taken serious and should just be a man •-•
I genuinely feel bad for him, all the sad things he said with such a happy smile made me so sad. His dance was incredible but then his mother didn’t care all that much, it must have hurt him to see that his mother didn’t even want to tell him that he did a good job.
I really hope he never loses himself . I love how bright and pure he is . Don't let the world , the "reality" change your personality . I personally think that it's very rare to find someone like him nowadays. He's so precious .
I feel like his dancing, his sketches, crafts and art work are all to do with escaping from reality. The fact he's so talented is because it's the only way he can run away from his horrible family.. The only way he can be happy is to dance, draw, design etc....
What the older sister said about the mother I feel means she really did get favoured so heavily throughout her life by her mother that she was blind to the treatment of her younger brother.
Jinwoah they have the exact traits of Narcissistic parents, they want people to feel bad for them, they suck the life force out of their children, they act and behave “nicely” in front of strangers but at home they can become violent and (almost) monstrous. They manipulate their own children and others. As for one child (could be an older or younger), they will become the “Golden” child who inevitably become like the Narcissistic parent(s), in this case it’s the poor kids older sister.
It’s completely shit for their offspring and their mentality, often becoming depressed and thinking “if I wasn’t born my family would be happier”
he has such an attractive personality. he is so bright and would be a really good friend to talk to. he seems to be a very open person. i think he is just one of these people you feel comfortable with- i just want to hug him :))
the way the mc has no idea how sad he is.... And they keep telling that his personality is bright and cheerful.
I shall name him squishy, and he shall be mine, he is my squishy.
Cj's Jingerbread and Suga Kookies Is that a reference to Chuggaaconroy's Splatoon lp?
@@iwanttosleep4506 no i think its from finding nemo remember dory said it
Nop, he is MY squishy >:v
I bet half the crew talking about this wanted to take him home after
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 u shooooowwww is right
Honestly the mom pisses me off, she pushed off all his concerns mentioned and just took credit for his talent.
"that's the last thing I want to say" felt like a suicide note. This whole counseling felt like a approval for a last desicion. "either they change their minds or not."
What he said about "they shouldn't have had me and just been a happy family of 3" also sent up red flags for me. That's a pretty common thing for those with suicidal thoughts to say. I hope that he's doing alright
@@raerohan4241 yeah me too.. I was in this position as well and I can understand why he thinks that way. I rly hope he's getting better
why did none of the people mention what he said at 3:55 that already showed he had a low self esteem and was hiding his feelings. geez this show seriously pisses me off sometimes
owo qween i feel like the cushion comment really made everyone brush over that sentence and it really bothered me a lot
anu right .?? It’s like they didn’t really want to talk about it and made sure to stop him from going any further .
This show is not the right place for him
THIS SHOW ALWAYS GETS INTO MY NERVES, THERE'S NO POINT AT ALL
I feel for him. His mom and sister didn't even consider his feelings. The way they speak, it is as if he has no feeling. I respect him that he could still be bright and cheerful kid despite being treated like that. Even if he is a sensitive child, it'll be alright if they at least understand him. I don't like the way his family looking down on him. I mean all the harsh words they said to him. We never know that those words might hurt him and left a deepest scar in his heart. I bet he is likely to be successful in his life than his sister. If I were him, as soon as I can be independent, i'll leave the house immediately. It's suffocating living in family like that.
Dell Delilah He's a very bright person, so I hope he continues to follow his dreams and receive love from many people.
nana love tchoutchou Some people including myself suffer from the lack of self esteem. Those harsh words they were saying towards the guy could've easily pushed him into committing suicide. Being able to understand how to properly speak to a person who is sensitive to how others view them, is an incredible skill which you don't seen to possess! Just because he is constantly smiling doesn't mean he doesn't have any days where he feels devoid of emotion! The way you wrote that comment was a very immature way of doing so. And you are reading something someone (aka me) who is only 14 years old typed!
God it’s so saddening to see this even 6 years later! We really need an update on Byeongjun.
The fidgeting, the awkward smiling, and blank speechless stares at his family while he sits stiffly..😕 it’s even worse when he says “They should’ve never had me and be a happy family of 3” I just feel for him, it’s so terrible seeing someone seeking for help so clearly yet no on notices :( I hope he’s doing well and achieving his dreams and gosh I loved his dance sm !! 😭💕✨
Like, his skin is already so bright. Plus his personality too. Talents & dreams .He's freaking shining glowing. Rise kid rise! 😭
Oh I can't belive that lady. This family is definitely ruled by the mother, just look who talk the most. She just can't and won't support her son. This dude may not be the smartest in school but I belive he's got a bright future. Even Einstein belive imagination is the most important thing.
She very obviously supports him but she still worries because what he wants is so specific. And that's how most parents feel when their child wants to go into the arts. Especially when they don't have something tangible that may prove that they have a chance of success like awards. Hell, even kids who are in university that study the arts, their parents still worry. At least he has a mother who isn't pressuring him and is allowing him this kind of freedom. My parents gave me three options: STEM, Medicine or Law. They killed anything that wasn't that and my dream was to become an author and comic book artist.
Mira Loran well watching this the mother gave conflicting vibes to me, she said she isn't pressuring him but she wants him to Excell, then she said since her son is in 11th grade he could at least be taller, overall in that 27 minute clip she keeps shooting down her son's hopes and dreams without any shame on TV and still smiling. The dad and daughter just smiled also. I got 3 friends and I know people whose parents gave them a target to achieve like go to law school or med school, they went and graduated but after that they went and pursue their dream job which don't have any connection with their majors but their parents at least still showed some support.
LowLight his mom is not bad. She doesnt force him to get high grades like the perfect student, just be the average so he could actually go to a university and be something in the future, and maybe make his dream come true. If you think this is bad, then how permissive your parents are?
Did we watch the same concern?! 🤔 She clearly loves and supports him. Unlike some parents, she knows her sons strengths and weaknesses and tries to help him improve both. She clearly said that she knows that her son has immense potential and a bright future but it’s very logical for a parent to worry for their child’s future, especially when the child has chosen a field that the parent is not familiar with. His mum just wants him to have a safe plan B which studying and education provides. Life’s tricky and you never what may come your way so it’s always good for have options. Like she said, she raised her son preciously and with a lot of support, that is why he’s able to be as confident as he is. Also, it seems like she does support his interests and passions like taking him to a theme park for a whole week straight, getting him a yearly pass and giving him her credit card for the model that he built in his room. If she was hard on him, he would be far more sadder and resentful towards his mother but instead, he is bright, joyful, upbeat, charismatic and very much loves his family. She lets him express himself e.g. the dancing in the living room lol. She sounds like an awesome Mum tbh...she’s just concerned for his future which is very normal for parents to be concerned of their children’s future.
I agree with u! Shes like justifying herself.. "If really i pressure him.. Why is he etc etc" she dont want to accept that she is wrong and her approach is wrong. Even the smallest things eg; buying new school bag is important. Especially to people who are sensitive. Smallest things matters the most. Do not take ur children emotional wellbeing lightly.
He's so cute, I love his mindset and the way he expresses his creativity throught his drawings. I would love to meet such a positive person in my life
Seems that parents focused too much on his weakness rather than his strength. I wish that parents would understand that every child is different so no comparison needs to happen and not everyone will excel academically. Instead of making your child feel less important, nurturing and encouragements are very much needed in their development. I hope this teen self esteem and mental health won't be affected as his embrace adulthood.
idontlikebadjokes his family is something else, it's annoying 😡😡
usually person with bright personality have these kind of concerns... Thankfully he has a bright personality ... BYEONGJIN .. if youre reading this (hope you do) dont let them bring you down ;) they will appreciate your worth .. I guarantee it ,. just hang in there ;) FIGHTING !!!!!
His dance performance was so beautiful and especially with the deep meaning behind it, it's just stunning. He seems very dedicated to his dream, I really hope he successes and achieves his dream. I hope nobody pulls him back from what he wants to be, He deserves the happiness and success, honestly.
Can I adopt him? He's so bright and creative. With a whole bunch of personality. If you ask me he can go places with that attitude alone☺.
I understand his concerns....although I’m the oldest my parents also treat me as “lesser” than my younger siblings and it’s quite heartbreaking.
I feel so sorry for him to have these feelings especially as he is so bright...I’ve also thought that my family would be happier without me...because they often say “no one wants you here” to me. They treat my brothers well all the time, saying they love them and listening to their worries and buying them stuff all the time and not me...however I’m not bothered by that, I dont want their money, I’d prefer if they didn’t spend any on me, even if they just offered or....actually went through with “punishments” for my brothers instead of just me....(I had my phone taken and tv and stuff for two months for something trivial, and my brothers literally never get punished no matter what they do lol)
I also feel like I have a bright personality (although I’m not as talented as him omg YOU GO DUDE) but I have very dark feelings inside....i hope my family can love me in the future.
Also good luck with your dream byeongjin!! ☺️💕
Fariha Sayyed OMG YOU ARE THE NICEST THANKS!!! I hope you have a great dayyy wooooow 💜😭
Fariha Sayyed awwwwwww T^T well hopefully tomorrow will be better! And yeeeeeee armYYYYY
The world is very big, u can meet people that is willing to stand by your side and give u some light bulbs or even table lamp to brighten up your darkest day. So please dont be sad my dear, things just gonna be fine :)
V Lee T^T aWWWWWWWWWW 💜 man thanks I really appreciate it
Hang in there, I know exactly how you feel. I am a middle child and the terrible rep is true. I have two younger and two older siblings. My older siblings get the freedom they want because they're older and my younger siblings get it because "they are just kids and need to have fun" but I am not allowed anywhere with anyone. To make me feel even more alienated the older ones have a different father and so do the younger ones. I am the only offspring between our mother and my father and they can't let me forget it. I never complained to my mother when I was young when she wouldn't show up during eat with your mom during lunch or picnic with your mom or other days dedicated to our parents coming to school. I knew my mother was busy but it would make me sad nevertheless when I looked around the room and I was the only child alone. But I began to feel wronged when I would see her put aside work to show up to my older and younger siblings activities. She bought anything and everything they asked for, things that made me think they were being selfish and none sense. My older siblings would break phone after phone and get a new only a week or two later, my younger siblings would blame me for everything and anything and they would believe them. All I asked for were books and pencils because I really liked stationary and used to draw a lot. They'd tell me it's none sense and a waste of money. They would complain to me that my school just wanted their money. I was always dumped with the responsibility of babysitting and cleaning from age 9. My siblings were disrespectful and cursed at her but if I did my hair wrong or gave the wrong answer it was that days headline for the whole family. If I asked for a shirt the school was selling or asked for undergarments for some reason my mother thought I was trying to show off or was being promiscuous I was only 12 but she would go out of her way to make sure my siblings had something to wear for wacky tacky day or spirit week. It was very clear to me the favoritism in the household. I started to develop a skin condition that would make my skin extra sensitive and I would bruise and develop painful leisures on my skin but my mother did not bring me to the doctor and would tell me it was because I was dirty. My older sister cut her finger chopping food and my mother told her she could take her bring her to the emergency (the cut only went through one layer of skin). I continued to get sicker and it spread to my face and instead of bringing me to a dermatologist she stopped taking me out with her because she was embarrassed and would continue to say I was dirty. It wasn't until I couldn't walk anymore that she took me to see a professional. I spent all of my preteen and teenage life recovering but was still constantly compared to my older and younger siblings. My medicine made me lose my hair, a side effect was dark pigmentation and I could no longer keep food down and became emaciated but all I heard was about how I didn't have a figure like my siblings how I was not light skinned or pretty like my siblings. Edit: they didn't care that I was a straight A student and had a scholarship ready. On the brink of death however I became thankful. I was thankful for being able to eat well as a child and thankful that I felt peace somehow. I am still recovering but now I think that I can't get any lower than death now and now that I as a young adult things have been slowly getting better.
I'm sobbing. This boy looks so sweet and precious but his family treats him so harshly. Legit every single words that comes out of their mouths is something "bad" about him. When people who are supposed to love you the most treat you like this the pain must be unimaginable
Damn if he were my son I wouldn't want that glow to leave him. When you see him dancing you can tell that he really enjoys it. I do understand that as a parent you want to have your child to have a better future but just like Sejeong said this is his dream the least that a parent can do is support him and be with him throughout.
I'm majoring and child development and not having expectations is bad because it shows that as a parent, you don't believe in them. Also, constantly telling negative things to your child can really hurt them because they end up believing the words they hear leading to negative thinking of one's self. He might be trying to go farther in life and not realize exactly how family has been hurting him. He might look bright but he can be hiding it. I can really relate to him and it frustrates me how he's not getting the understanding he deserves.
nana love tchoutchou my goodness calm down. that wasn't even the point. no matter how old he is the way his family in treating him is not right. you're basically getting angry because of nothing.
nana love tchoutchou actually he’s most likely 16 in this video because korean age is different from america. being in the womb counts for a year when the child is born as well as new year’s day
People who often laugh and show bubbly personalities often use that as their defense mechanism because inside they are really hurt and sad...I can feel that this guy has depression or anxiety. I don't know but his parents look so fake😂 like they're pretending. I feel so bad for him, people often sleep on these problems which lead to mental health problems...
I SUPPORT THIS BOY
The parents smiles look slighty.... fake?
Like they could snap at any moment?
I immediately thought "religious cult". The dad gives me the creeps...
I feel like they didn't really take him seriously enough. In the end too he seemed disappointed by such a low amount of votes like no one gets him. He was definitely giving nervous/anxious vibes with talking fast and fiddling with the pillow all the time. Poor guy.. he seems so nice and talented!
Honestly, if I was his parent I would be so grateful for just his presence. It shares such a bright vibe.
I think he should be an Idol, he'll be my bias then. He's actually really cute, talented and funny and I do understand him on his concern because I, myself sometimes feel being unloved too. Don't worry Byeongjun, we're with you.
bro wtf just bcs u see a cute asian man doesn't mean he should be an idol
But where's the talent..? I don't know, just sounds fishy to me when someone tells an Asian guy who just so happens to be good looking to be an idol
????????????? Where does he even dance LOL
i wanna give him the biggest hug, sometimes shows like these frustrate me because such issues shouldn't be taken lightly, the happy and laughing atmosphere.
He has jbj's sangkyun vibes all over him. Plus he looks a littleeee bit like him too omg
aid sang gyun*
Vanessa Chan its the same duh
lmao u typed sungkyu at first
Vanessa Chan i typed sangkyu then i editted it to sangkyun (as it is always spelt like that in jbj show.). Why is that even a big thing for you? So childish.
Lol the video I literally just watched before this video was the JBJ weekly idol episode with Samuel and other Produce 101 former contestants. I didn’t watch Produce 101 at all but thank God I watched that weekly idol ep cause I can totally see it 😂
I get the kid is probably exaggerating and stuff but there's a big issue with the family. They compare their kids and that's not right. Every kid is different so to compare them is wrong.
Hearing the way hes describing his feelings and how anxious he seems and along with the excessive nail biting it looks like he may have an anxiety or depression disorder. thats why he overthinks and is so sensitive with the way he is treated and takes it very personally. hopefully his family can be more aware of how he is feeling and assure him with his concerns and how he can get help. and along with that his parents dont even seem like they care and especially the mom just seems so negative in finding a way to find what he isnt doing right instead of what he is. so i wouldnt be surprised that he started developing these feelings and the amount of low self esteem. idk this is just what i think 😐🤷♀️
I feel like he's the type of person that will do anything for his dream.._ all his mum has to do is support him an say studying is important to fulfil it.