I've watched a few of your videos and this one earned a sub. Really, really good content! Being mid-level management and having dealt with the hiring process, your analogies really work well for this topic.
Just finished the month of December in the Philippines with my GF where we also went to a week in Thailand. I’ve been with her for 2 years. The first 2 times I came to the Philippines I thought she was the one. This trip convinced me she was not. I have spent thousands on this girl, her kids and even her parents. I knew a year ago she probably wasn’t the one but I was enamored with the concept of having a beautiful young Filipina girlfriend. My recommendation in finding a girlfriend as I used to do as an owner of a company is Loose Quickly. I should have taken the first signs and stopped the relationship and started looking again. I do intend to wait until I am 100% in country before I try again in less than a year from now.
Hi Rob, how you doing? I am 67 years old and have adopted three axioms by which I live my life: (1) “Get busy living or get busy dying.” - Andy D, (2) “Don’t be a bitch!“ - My friend James, (3) “There’s nothing you can do that can’t be forgiven.” - Jesus the Christ (my loose paraphrase…) 😊
Just like stock trading rules! Hit your stops quickly and don’t hold onto a loser! Same with me bro…so enamored by her youth and beauty an amazing two week holiday girlfriend experience took awhile for me to return because of long covid but I had caught her dating a local guy through social media I was advised by everyone to punt but I could not…I paid a lot of her friends to keep an eye out for me and out of the blue I had one report she was having sex with a guy that was high on my suspicion list…sure enough I get here and give a new iPhone but demand the passcodes and see right away this guy called her our first night together…I down play it all hoping to catch it later and screen shot everything so I can get it translated they could not resist playing with me…and I got the proof and it’s bad and very bad…he is a married man with a 8 year old daughter…that’s the slap in the face I needed…so I’m grateful for that…less than a year in say 10 months…she hid it well from all her friends also…the one source was kinda crazy and screen shot our conversation and sent to the guy for some reason and it inflamed my girlfriend…haha! She is a very skilled and accomplished liar! I can never lie so well…But now I know her true character…
Greetings, Love the video, advice, and mindset. A job worth doing is worth doing well. This often means attending to and doing the little things. In putting together a comprehensive understanding of the Philippines and Filipina's I have been looking for little details and clues. Your explanation of maintaining her familial status with her supplying money to meet the family needs was a "little thing" that helped fill in a gap I was trying to figure out. Thanks and keep the knowledge coming.
I think my PhD in Occ Psych is ringing in my ears... haha. Leave is approved. Flights booked. Interview with my fourth serious candidate is taking place soon. 😉
Hi Rob, how you doing? I am 67 years old and have adopted three axioms by which I live my life: (1) “Get busy living or get busy dying.” - Andy D, (2) “Don’t be a bitch!“ - My friend James, (3) “There’s nothing you can do that can’t be forgiven.” - Jesus the Christ (my loose paraphrase…) 😊
One of things my father taught me and what i have taught my son's is DON'T get your HONEY where you get your MONEY, and they have so far listen to me, two BEING a C.E.O.'s OF corporation's and one a police officer in a large city , they all married an happy so far
Whether an extremely jealous man or woman in the US, it is usually a sign that they themself might be cheating....since they think you do when given the chance. These individuals are very destructive and can't weather a marriage.
Hahaha great video and analogy Rob. I have to say one thing, dating in the west is kinda like being Andy in the shit pipe. But once you’re free and you’re clean your golden , right now I feel like Andy sanding my boat on the beach. 😉😊
Great, using a business metaphor for choosing this kind of partner! I sure would've like to have met you back in your Big 5 consulting days. Did you go through these steps with Chrissie? As I recall, you were in S. America and she messaged you on a dating site. I don't recall 36 other candidates. I'm the guy who'll say "I'll do what HE did!"
I am the one who messaged Chrissy, but I’ve been online six years earlier for a month or two and then again during Covid for two or three months I surely had seen the first third of the deck before I met Chrissy
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines☝️☝️ Rob was just a blind squirrel finding a nut and when he cracked it there was a diamond inside! I hesitate to guess the very very very small percentage of Filipina’s who have the moral upbringing like Chrissy! 🍀🍀🍀🍀
Making a trip once a year to meet that special someone has a very high failure rate because with a 2-4 week visit you are only going to have limited time.
I thing I would say about this video is, why would you find a candidate to fill your bosses shoes when he tells you that you were next in line for his job?
I see your point however in real life when you’re asked to hire another director and you know, your boss is going to retire in a couple years it’s obvious the new candidate could be a competitor
Unless the guy walks on water you can outperform him you do it because you are confident in your abilities…and can likely move on in another organization at a higher level…
Of course look for Red Flags (that's most important!), but who the heck has got the time to be dating A Lot just in order to gauge an Acceptable Mate. Older guys should already know this but it's worth mentioning, Prior to Dating, each fella should do some serious reflection on who he is and make a list of what he wants in a partner. I believe A Lot of us know what we want and could live very happy lives with the first girl who meets that profile.... we don't Require the Best.... Good Enough is generally a pretty Great option all things considered. Making a list of your Boundaries AND your Deal Breakers and choose the Filipina who fits that profile - Is what I'm considering. Dating a bunch just to get the Best Filipina seems to be a fools errand and a young man's game.... It will be interesting to see how I approach this scenario when boots hit the ground and it is my reality. Peace and Love, B Goat
You will be enamored and start ignoring and down playing red flags 🚩 like everyone going through the learning curve…you will give her another chance and maybe another…set hard boundaries especially financial ones…don’t lead with your wallet…good luck…it’s a sea of sharks and danger…
@@etfremd Agree, that's why I think each guy should Write Down his Hard Boundaries And Deal Breakers before hand (I have a long list). I have watched my buddies Girls change right before my eyes as they Sh!t test my friends. I have seen behind the curtain while their relationships fail. I'm not looking for the Best. I'm gonna Vet and choose the Good Girl who passes the test, earning her spot by properly falling into her feminine role..... or so I tell myself. We will see if I can hold the line against the Femme Fatale. Peace Goat
I’m one of your subscribers, your videos are priceless!! I’m Divorced, Retired P.D. But I’m 73, don’t drink, health good, no beer belly, Do you think I’m now too old to find a good woman that’s not old ? What is your suggested age range of the youngest I can go You had an age range in there for 60’s. Your 68, Chrissy is 31 ? Like a 37 year age gap? What are my chances? And what age range, I intend to just come there, “boots on the ground “. Not dating sites. ?
I will establish myself first in the Philippines before l even start talking about dating, once I get my routine and knowing my environment, and continue to improve myself, then l will start to look into the dating scene and even then move slowly and critically . Don’t forget that pinays have more than 1 facebook account, keep that in mind , l agree not to put off with the idea of if you’re planning to move to the Philippines, get your butt in gear but do it for the right reasons, also take time to understand the culture and leave the “ rush rush “ mindset back in the west , go there for YOU and not a woman, you will come off as desperate and NO woman likes a desperate man.
Lotta good advice in your comment we point out on many of our videos that typically Filipinos have two or three Facebook pages and it takes up pretty good social media snoop to sort it out in addition to their other social media account
Nice videos , im your follower from Turkey , i was in manila mall of asia last month from november 15 to december 15 one month vacation , i love philipine n especially manila ,, its been not one month i came but still im eager to go there again and again ,, thanks for your info about philipine and their culture ❤
Hey Rob,just curious, how long till you and Chrisy dtarted sleeping together? I know things happen fast as I've been there several times recently.. if you wait a while don't you think you can sort the good from the bad much sooner. Curious minds wanna know 😊
I can't tell you, Rob, how much I love your "Hire hard, manage easy" philosophy, and your neck biter (killer) comment. Those will stick with me. UPenn Wharton School of Business 😍. Unfortnately the only Ivy (school) I ever got into was Poison Ivy. 😂. I kid, I kid.
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I've watched a few of your videos and this one earned a sub. Really, really good content! Being mid-level management and having dealt with the hiring process, your analogies really work well for this topic.
Thanks for subscribing, I’m glad the videos are helpful to you!
Always a pleasure to watch your videos. The both of you!!!
Our pleasure!
Thanks for the video. This really got my attention - you make a lot of sense. Will be following you. Great advice.
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I hit like immediately in your intro when I heard your favorite movie 🎥 'Shawshank Redemption'. My favorite too. 📺 🍿🛋️
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Very good informative video on several points Rob….
I'm glad you found it helpful.
Great breakdown & advice. Thank you 👍
I appreciate that.
Just finished the month of December in the Philippines with my GF where we also went to a week in Thailand. I’ve been with her for 2 years. The first 2 times I came to the Philippines I thought she was the one. This trip convinced me she was not. I have spent thousands on this girl, her kids and even her parents. I knew a year ago she probably wasn’t the one but I was enamored with the concept of having a beautiful young Filipina girlfriend. My recommendation in finding a girlfriend as I used to do as an owner of a company is Loose Quickly. I should have taken the first signs and stopped the relationship and started looking again. I do intend to wait until I am 100% in country before I try again in less than a year from now.
Hi Rob, how you doing? I am 67 years old and have adopted three axioms by which I live my life: (1) “Get busy living or get busy dying.” - Andy D, (2) “Don’t be a bitch!“ - My friend James, (3) “There’s nothing you can do that can’t be forgiven.” - Jesus the Christ (my loose paraphrase…) 😊
Sorry to hear about this papa Doug, but it seems like you’re sorting things out. Best of luck and thanks for watching our videos.
Just like stock trading rules! Hit your stops quickly and don’t hold onto a loser! Same with me bro…so enamored by her youth and beauty an amazing two week holiday girlfriend experience took awhile for me to return because of long covid but I had caught her dating a local guy through social media I was advised by everyone to punt but I could not…I paid a lot of her friends to keep an eye out for me and out of the blue I had one report she was having sex with a guy that was high on my suspicion list…sure enough I get here and give a new iPhone but demand the passcodes and see right away this guy called her our first night together…I down play it all hoping to catch it later and screen shot everything so I can get it translated they could not resist playing with me…and I got the proof and it’s bad and very bad…he is a married man with a 8 year old daughter…that’s the slap in the face I needed…so I’m grateful for that…less than a year in say 10 months…she hid it well from all her friends also…the one source was kinda crazy and screen shot our conversation and sent to the guy for some reason and it inflamed my girlfriend…haha! She is a very skilled and accomplished liar! I can never lie so well…But now I know her true character…
Hi Rob! Great video... I actually live in mansfield, and a few miles from where the the prison is, where they filmed it 😃
It really is my favorite movie. Thanks for watching and taking time to comment
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Happy Birthday Carey
You motivated me brother
Glad to hear it!
Greetings, Love the video, advice, and mindset. A job worth doing is worth doing well. This often means attending to and doing the little things. In putting together a comprehensive understanding of the Philippines and Filipina's I have been looking for little details and clues. Your explanation of maintaining her familial status with her supplying money to meet the family needs was a "little thing" that helped fill in a gap I was trying to figure out. Thanks and keep the knowledge coming.
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I think my PhD in Occ Psych is ringing in my ears... haha. Leave is approved. Flights booked. Interview with my fourth serious candidate is taking place soon. 😉
Thanks for watching Peter and sharing your experience. Let me know if I can help.
Hi Rob, how you doing? I am 67 years old and have adopted three axioms by which I live my life: (1) “Get busy living or get busy dying.” - Andy D, (2) “Don’t be a bitch!“ - My friend James, (3) “There’s nothing you can do that can’t be forgiven.” - Jesus the Christ (my loose paraphrase…) 😊
Love it thanks for sharing
(2) made me laugh 😂. Simple and yet very powerful. 👌
One of things my father taught me and what i have taught my son's is DON'T get your HONEY where you get your MONEY, and they have so far listen to me, two BEING a C.E.O.'s OF corporation's and one a police officer in a large city , they all married an happy so far
Congratulations Arthur-hard work pays off
Whether an extremely jealous man or woman in the US, it is usually a sign that they themself might be cheating....since they think you do when given the chance. These individuals are very destructive and can't weather a marriage.
Certainly a challenge if you run into it
Hahaha great video and analogy Rob. I have to say one thing, dating in the west is kinda like being Andy in the shit pipe. But once you’re free and you’re clean your golden , right now I feel like Andy sanding my boat on the beach. 😉😊
Love it
Im 68 and been in the Philippines for 3 months. Im Like a kid in a candy store
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Great, using a business metaphor for choosing this kind of partner! I sure would've like to have met you back in your Big 5 consulting days.
Did you go through these steps with Chrissie? As I recall, you were in S. America and she messaged you on a dating site. I don't recall 36 other candidates. I'm the guy who'll say "I'll do what HE did!"
I am the one who messaged Chrissy, but I’ve been online six years earlier for a month or two and then again during Covid for two or three months I surely had seen the first third of the deck before I met Chrissy
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines OK. I misremembered your history. Thanks for the info.
Kudos on your editing and graphics as well as delivery.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines☝️☝️ Rob was just a blind squirrel finding a nut and when he cracked it there was a diamond inside! I hesitate to guess the very very very small percentage of Filipina’s who have the moral upbringing like Chrissy! 🍀🍀🍀🍀
Making a trip once a year to meet that special someone has a very high failure rate because with a 2-4 week visit you are only going to have limited time.
That’s certainly true.
I thing I would say about this video is, why would you find a candidate to fill your bosses shoes when he tells you that you were next in line for his job?
I see your point however in real life when you’re asked to hire another director and you know, your boss is going to retire in a couple years it’s obvious the new candidate could be a competitor
Unless the guy walks on water you can outperform him you do it because you are confident in your abilities…and can likely move on in another organization at a higher level…
Of course look for Red Flags (that's most important!), but who the heck has got the time to be dating A Lot just in order to gauge an Acceptable Mate. Older guys should already know this but it's worth mentioning, Prior to Dating, each fella should do some serious reflection on who he is and make a list of what he wants in a partner.
I believe A Lot of us know what we want and could live very happy lives with the first girl who meets that profile.... we don't Require the Best.... Good Enough is generally a pretty Great option all things considered. Making a list of your Boundaries AND your Deal Breakers and choose the Filipina who fits that profile - Is what I'm considering. Dating a bunch just to get the Best Filipina seems to be a fools errand and a young man's game.... It will be interesting to see how I approach this scenario when boots hit the ground and it is my reality. Peace and Love, B Goat
Thanks for sharing your thoughts b goat
You will be enamored and start ignoring and down playing red flags 🚩 like everyone going through the learning curve…you will give her another chance and maybe another…set hard boundaries especially financial ones…don’t lead with your wallet…good luck…it’s a sea of sharks and danger…
@@etfremd Agree, that's why I think each guy should Write Down his Hard Boundaries And Deal Breakers before hand (I have a long list). I have watched my buddies Girls change right before my eyes as they Sh!t test my friends. I have seen behind the curtain while their relationships fail. I'm not looking for the Best. I'm gonna Vet and choose the Good Girl who passes the test, earning her spot by properly falling into her feminine role..... or so I tell myself. We will see if I can hold the line against the Femme Fatale. Peace Goat
I’m one of your subscribers, your videos are priceless!! I’m Divorced, Retired P.D. But I’m 73, don’t drink, health good, no beer belly, Do you think I’m now too old to find a good woman that’s not old ? What is your suggested age range of the youngest I can go You had an age range in there for 60’s. Your 68, Chrissy is 31 ? Like a 37 year age gap? What are my chances? And what age range, I intend to just come there, “boots on the ground “. Not dating sites. ?
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I will establish myself first in the Philippines before l even start talking about dating, once I get my routine and knowing my environment, and continue to improve myself, then l will start to look into the dating scene and even then move slowly and critically . Don’t forget that pinays have more than 1 facebook account, keep that in mind , l agree not to put off with the idea of if you’re planning to move to the Philippines, get your butt in gear but do it for the right reasons, also take time to understand the culture and leave the “ rush rush “ mindset back in the west , go there for YOU and not a woman, you will come off as desperate and NO woman likes a desperate man.
Lotta good advice in your comment we point out on many of our videos that typically Filipinos have two or three Facebook pages and it takes up pretty good social media snoop to sort it out in addition to their other social media account
Nice videos , im your follower from Turkey , i was in manila mall of asia last month from november 15 to december 15 one month vacation , i love philipine n especially manila ,, its been not one month i came but still im eager to go there again and again ,, thanks for your info about philipine and their culture ❤
Hi, i have been in Turkey,2019 & 2021, Istanbul, Bhosporus and Antalya.
I like your country too.
Thank you for visiting my country as well.
Thank you for watching and your kind words
Hey Rob,just curious, how long till you and Chrisy dtarted sleeping together? I know things happen fast as I've been there several times recently.. if you wait a while don't you think you can sort the good from the bad much sooner.
Curious minds wanna know 😊
Well, curious minds might wanna know, but they’re not gonna find out. Thanks for watching the video.
I can't tell you, Rob, how much I love your "Hire hard, manage easy" philosophy, and your neck biter (killer) comment. Those will stick with me.
UPenn Wharton School of Business 😍. Unfortnately the only Ivy (school) I ever got into was Poison Ivy. 😂. I kid, I kid.
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