If I Were Starting Over RIGHT NOW... | for Black women who lost or left their job

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  • @trace3254
    @trace3254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +403

    Oh BTW.....I am in the final stretch of blasting the hell out of this leg of my life. I am 76 Stephanie, and am currently in the final stretch of my sabbatical year roaming the globe. I am almost there. I just gave up my apartment and am in an airbnb until May. Then I am off. Not sure of my first destination.. but the world is my oyster now!!! I've laid all the groundwork....stacked cash....no bills. The only thing I am working on is what you talked about here. Yep....I've decluttered...so radically that it made me nervous!!! My storage locker is now the size of a coat closet. Now I have to declutter on the more scary level.....ideas that don't work, values that don't work, friends that don't work, family (well, I decluttered there years back) ets c. etc. Stephanie, can you please have a panel of older women in their 70s and even 80s who are braving this type of leap. We have different cares and concerns and it's never DEEPLY talked about. Love you. P.S. Im hoping to do my first international sit.

    • @earnestinejackson5859
      @earnestinejackson5859 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      I'm a 76 yr. widow , Co living to save money and get out of debt, so I can travel to move out of USA.

    • @QueenBees456
      @QueenBees456 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Wow 😮…. Wonderful you are so inspiring!❤

    • @empresschakrawanda
      @empresschakrawanda 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      WoW..I so appreciate reading your and others story..I'm 65 now, have been watching Stephanie channel for few years...learning so much from other mature women and the ways they've chosen to navigate the years to come...I desire to experience more freedom..sabbatical lifestyle

    • @PowerEnglish4ForeignExecs
      @PowerEnglish4ForeignExecs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How wonderful and congrats. World, look out, trace3254 is on the move!

    • @claudiacage3146
      @claudiacage3146 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      72 Dear, hoping to follow your lead; decluttering everything; etc,etc,etc L❤ve your vision!!!!!!

  • @DiAshlie
    @DiAshlie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +189

    Hello all. I just turned 34 and I’m so tired of the hustle and bustle of corporate America.😢😂This community is giving me hope and life.😊

  • @drlamonicajames
    @drlamonicajames 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +353

    I received my PhD. 3 months ago, will be 40 in 2 months, lost my job last month, and getting divorced next month. I'm truly starting anew, and I am afraid. I hope that through your channel and followers, I can gain support through this transition with my children.

    • @glory2glory679
      @glory2glory679 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Sis you are smart you are beautiful you are important YOU GOT YOUR PHD YOU GOOOOOOO GUUUUUUURRRLLLL

    • @glory2glory679
      @glory2glory679 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Start your own practice get your own clients!! Show those babies just how strong they are through you my friend!!! Let us know how it goes

    • @makhethevuma2700
      @makhethevuma2700 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      We’re here for all of it Dr. James! You’re not alone

    • @lowill1620
      @lowill1620 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hello

    • @fdoctor79
      @fdoctor79 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Congrats, Dr. James from a fellow PhD soon to be two times fold. 😅 Don't give up, stay encouraged, and know that the BEST is yet to come! 😊

  • @yolettahall8494
    @yolettahall8494 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Hello ladies, I’m 55 ex truck driver forced into retirement, now working on stacking funds and declutterring then I will be in the expat streets, best wishes to you all ❣️

    • @Sweetsy928
      @Sweetsy928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      See you there sis! 🥰

    • @nakkeya
      @nakkeya 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes, me too

    • @FindYourFree
      @FindYourFree 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      let's gooooo!

    • @parisafrochic
      @parisafrochic หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope all is working in your favor!!

  • @raynbogrl80
    @raynbogrl80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    Hello everyone! I left my job about 6 months ago and it was one of the best decisions of my life!

  • @tajj5255
    @tajj5255 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Greetings all,
    I’m 47 and my rebirth has made it clear that this chapter of my life no longer serves me.
    Loss director job, filed for divorce, relocated to a place for a job that I no longer have. I could go on and on, but I’m focused on the next phase of my life and it’s not in the US.

    • @workingremote11
      @workingremote11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @Rassa5845
      @Rassa5845 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I relate to your journey... agree

  • @ms.ednapost
    @ms.ednapost 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Hello, all!!! Over 65 here…was financially devastated by divorce, credit in the toilet from that and then the pandemic flushed it. I have two degrees, I’m healthy, fit, and I have a daughter with a career that transferred her from Orlando to Dallas. I’m giving up my $1700 a month apartment and co- living with her and family in a new state. Maybe I’ll meet my rich dream boat 🙏🏽or maybe I’ll just save up a ton of money. Either way, I’m done being angry, disappointed and feeling defeated. And reinventing myself, creating the life I dreamed of when was younger. Working on my own “moveable feast.” Looking onward and upward…Portugal, Panama, Paris, Milan, Mexico, Martinique here I come. And I couldn’t be more grateful. Blessings to all for being our own protectors and providers. Being courageous and faithful.🙏🏽Blessings to us all.

    • @dearjourneyxokamiahmonique
      @dearjourneyxokamiahmonique 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Wishing you all the best! And welcome to Dallas! 💕

    • @nakkeya
      @nakkeya 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Looking for a travel partner?

    • @imasummergirl
      @imasummergirl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nakkeyaare you?

    • @ms.ednapost
      @ms.ednapost 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dearjourneyxokamiahmonique Thank you…looking forward to the new surroundings🌹🙏🏽

    • @ms.ednapost
      @ms.ednapost 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nakkeya Are you in Dallas???

  • @janiceheno6366
    @janiceheno6366 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    70 yrs old. Recently lost my husband, quit my nursing job, moved to embrace co-living with my daughter in California. Registered with Trusted Housesitter, no money and still scared to take first steps alone. 😢

    • @Snicoleliving
      @Snicoleliving 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I feel you there. Still need money for these housesits

    • @mfletcher902
      @mfletcher902 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!

    • @susanmadison6466
      @susanmadison6466 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's a lot. Know that you'll be well and will thrive.

    • @zionnubia9376
      @zionnubia9376 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi

    • @zionnubia9376
      @zionnubia9376 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just lost job ...vo habiting with mother82

  • @earnestinejackson5859
    @earnestinejackson5859 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Worked 20 yrs. In medical profession, through Word of mouth, I do short term sitting with elderly people who needs a miminal assistants. Cash only.

    • @shawandamayes5092
      @shawandamayes5092 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Good Evening everyone, I'm watching the replay from Atlanta, Ga.😊

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      How do you get into this field? I like talking to older people. I would definitely do it as a side gig

    • @ListenUpDemocracy
      @ListenUpDemocracy หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very smart.

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    This community is so life-giving and safe. Thank you, Stephanie Perry!

  • @loloqueenbee6052
    @loloqueenbee6052 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hello and good afternoon Stephanie. I am currently co-living, after leaving an abuser. I felt ashamed and defeated. After seeing this, I now see the BLESSING. NO SHAME IN CO-LIVING. AT LEAST I AM LIVING.
    🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾

  • @WeDontRetireWeAscend_
    @WeDontRetireWeAscend_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    I tutor on Cambly... Now, about an hour a day...$50 a week goes a long way in some countries.

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So they pay $10/ hr?

    • @kariah-pn2vv
      @kariah-pn2vv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How did you get approved? I’ve been waiting for months

    • @WeDontRetireWeAscend_
      @WeDontRetireWeAscend_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@kariah-pn2vv Really? Wow... I was approved and started tutoring after about 2-3 weeks.

    • @ResourceRoz
      @ResourceRoz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@WeDontRetireWeAscend_ Do you have to have a degree?

  • @MadamSeibes
    @MadamSeibes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hi👋 . Lost my job, lost my mom who was the only parent left, and moved back to my country with children, so it's a starting over on a higher level. Unfortunately, we have no one to live with, no family or relatives. But we will get there😊. Thanks for always sharing great content for us black women Stephanie ❤

  • @jessb_empowersu
    @jessb_empowersu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Replay! Getting laid off in May and moving abroad with my daughter sooo excited!!

  • @Kozette007
    @Kozette007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    For my birthday, I had to start over. Left stable income, feelings of overwhelm and SHAME and on the tip of a mental breakdown. Gracefully I kept my apartment in Bogotá. However I’m starting over from the bottom making slow but steady progress. 😔

    • @yolandalewis6988
      @yolandalewis6988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Praying for you beautiful 🙏🏾

    • @workingremote11
      @workingremote11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @adriajones659
      @adriajones659 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Coming from someone who's had to start over several times, YOU CAN DO IT!! I'm cheering and praying that you find your true essence, your voice, and strength again!❤

  • @aprildickerson3804
    @aprildickerson3804 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Hello! Was just told about you last night by a friend and I think I’m finally home.

  • @jerilee-carter1068
    @jerilee-carter1068 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I'm 62 and one week into my retirement and have NO intentions of ever working anyone's job again!! It's my time 😅❤

    • @yolandalewis6988
      @yolandalewis6988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Congratulations 🎊

    • @serenity6831
      @serenity6831 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you! 🖤🖤

  • @dmiles8406
    @dmiles8406 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I’m in the middle of a divorce planning to relocate. I’m a U.S.Marine Corps Veteran as well. I’ve traveled overseas as a Marine and look forward to traveling and starting over as a single civilian. Looking forward to living again. I’ve got a testimony and a book inside. Please 🙏🏾 continue to keep us. I look forward to house 🏠 sitting or simply traveling again. I live in Virginia Beach and had no idea how to find house sitting opportunities until this post. My plan is to relocate to Texas but overseas is a welcome alternative. Thank you so much for offering this service and encouraging TH-cam channel.

  • @n.trahan3561
    @n.trahan3561 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Good morning , I lost my job while suffering with cancer. I had a side hustle making wigs, so I am trying to make it my full-time gig. It's been a little rough but I am hopeful.

    • @1bluegreen2
      @1bluegreen2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Is there any chance they fired you because of your cancer diagnosis? That's illegal. You should get a lawyer ASAP. It's not too late

    • @n.trahan3561
      @n.trahan3561 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@1bluegreen2 I will definitely consult with an attorney. Thanks you for this information!! My supervisor told me after he fired me," I hope you feel better." I thought that was such an insensitive thing to say to someone after you let them go.

  • @shunwilliams6180
    @shunwilliams6180 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I love it speaking to black women with kindness ❤❤❤

    • @christinet6336
      @christinet6336 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes… same 💙

  • @phyllisnewton1147
    @phyllisnewton1147 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I’m co-living now with my daughter.

    • @FindYourFree
      @FindYourFree 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      same here..in the caribbean...on our way back to brazil so we can spend a lot less...i love it

  • @lrridley
    @lrridley 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +314

    I'm just TIRED... 😔

    • @PhetteHollins
      @PhetteHollins 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Same here 😢

    • @DiAshlie
      @DiAshlie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Sis same😢

    • @tvdavis
      @tvdavis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      Speak on it, sis! We are just SO TIRED! A whole lifetime of being expected to never be tired (especially if you’re child-free), to always go above and beyond, to give & give and expect little in return. Exhausted from the expectations and burdens.

    • @mljm_mljm
      @mljm_mljm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I feel y’all pain 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 im sure things will improve when we are more comfortable about looking after ourselves! 💕💓💐

    • @AdolGlow
      @AdolGlow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Chile me too 😂

  • @growden100
    @growden100 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    My son in law told me to get a one way ticket. I have 4 beautiful grandchildren in Maryland. My daughter and husband have a beautiful home with lots of land, they garden. I believe that is my destiny before the end of the year.

  • @KimmiJackson-sp2kz
    @KimmiJackson-sp2kz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Im tired of dealing with these crazy people which make my day hard ......It's not my job but these people........

  • @APerfectPerception
    @APerfectPerception 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I lost my home to a fire and looking for a different way to live

  • @Tonya_Loves_to_Travel
    @Tonya_Loves_to_Travel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I am 68 years old. I have been co living most of my life. I grew up with 4 generations living in our house. My cousin and a friend are currently living with me. We spent 17 days in Europe last October. Compromise is essential for successful co living but it works for us.

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    That frustration you expressed is how we ALL feel. Holding it in can be detrimental to your health / happiness. I’m glad you let a little of it out. ❤️

  • @stellam8379
    @stellam8379 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Good morning all,
    I missed the live! And I was too busy putting around my flowers to give curb appeal to my home that is going on the market in 7 days! Then on to traveling plans and moving to Mexico by June 2024. Thanks most to YOU Stephanie, Adalia & OBU! Thank you!

    • @sylviamacklin6366
      @sylviamacklin6366 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Good for you! I'm in the process of preparing my home to sell. Freedom feels Damn Good! Blessings to you.🎉❤❤

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      @workingremote11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @gonnietolliver2467
    @gonnietolliver2467 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Hello from Washington DC. I left my miserable job of 32 years 2 months ago and I'm ready to travel the world. I definitely need help starting over.

  • @livinglifemyway6511
    @livinglifemyway6511 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Good evening from Portugal. I really appreciate the safe space that you have created.

    • @demi5378
      @demi5378 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Do you like living in Portugal?

  • @GMQeroddy
    @GMQeroddy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    I just finalized my divorce yesterday. And I asked the Lord what I should do this morning, I’m sick of “grinding” and then this video popped on my timeline! I’m watching it today. TYJ

    • @mavenofcharts
      @mavenofcharts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      God will definitely give direction in the midst of a storm. - praying for mental clarity for you ❤

  • @epicureantherapy
    @epicureantherapy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Hellllerrrr! I’m just here on the replay! Can we talk about Stephanie’s voice? Am I the only one who tunes in for the content and her calming tone? Who feels like everything’s gonna be alright after listening ???Raise your hand if you think Stephanie should do some guided meditations/affirmations on her own app! ✋🏾Of course I’m happy to listen to keep listening to the TH-cam’s! 💃🏿

  • @artiamahaley9514
    @artiamahaley9514 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I am 54, I work for toxic non-profit, and my hours and wages were cut in half. My job can be stressful and unstable. It is time for change.

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      @workingremote11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @gialewis9614
    @gialewis9614 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hello everyone! I am not a black woman, I hope that's ok to write in your comment space...
    I am 40 now and just lost my long time job that I sacrificed so much for. This job was my life, my identity... I realize now that's not a good thing to let a job- working for other people - dictate your life and to identify with it. Because after I was discarded at the beginning of just this year, I've been struggling with who I even am now. What I should be doing... I feel ashamed, I feel like a huge failure, a loser... I've been struggling with depression to the point where I stopped trying to get my unemployment because I had some hurdles in my way to get there... I just didn't have the nerves/ strength for all the nonsense. My health took a huge hit and I started having lots of pain and issues with my feet, couldn't even walk some days. I'm hoping to get a change of perspective and the courage and strength to start fresh, but for myself from now on... Thank you for letting me vent...

    • @joyfulsoul4967
      @joyfulsoul4967 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hope/Pray you are in a better mind set now. Keep moving and looking up.

    • @gialewis9614
      @gialewis9614 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@joyfulsoul4967 Thank you...

  • @zipporah5060
    @zipporah5060 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I am starting over in my fifties after leaving my job. I have the privilege of co-living with my parents, keeping my expenses low, and embracing this time to declutter what is no longer serving me - old habits, attitudes, limiting beliefs, and stuff. Seeking my next chapter.

    • @wandajackson5796
      @wandajackson5796 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi! Did you work for Dominique Broadway?

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      @workingremote11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @zipporah5060
      @zipporah5060 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wandajackson5796 No. Not me.

  • @tvdavis
    @tvdavis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Good morning! I missed the LIVE by just a bit, but my morning hadn't gotten started yet.
    I quit a job after 16 years in August last year. Switched to a new one to stack cash to make my getaway in a few years. Found the environment toxic (my Caucasian male friend who recommended the job doesn't have the same experience I do while working there). Called my old boss to get my former job back, and he was totally willing, but HR and "the rules" were making the deal worse for me (reduced leave and sick time earned). So I withdrew and I'm back to this job I don't like and find overwhelming. Just trying to tough it out FIVE years until I can retire at 60. I should've saved a LOT more money. If you're young, stack that cash NOW.

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  • @divinefavor9190
    @divinefavor9190 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is great information and mind set is everything.
    My son passed away, then lost my job and home- broken and tired but I am going to make it. Nothing can shake me at this point. Starting my own business and definitely see a tiny home in my future. I am 60 and while starting over is daunting, I have nothing to lose.

  • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
    @LisaSoulLevelHealing 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    My midlife crisis was amazing. Embrace the ego death, mourn the life you strove so hard for but it's time to let go, cleanse and renew. What comes after that ego death is better than what you were doing before.

  • @Refreshing_Words
    @Refreshing_Words 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    replay watcher here. Cambly was a great option for me when i got divorced and needed quick additional cash on top of my full time job. The schedule was flexible and could do from my house.

  • @christianataylor8926
    @christianataylor8926 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    30 years old & left a toxic work environment voluntarily in Jan. Trying to enjoy this season, but the volatility of the job market coupled with my dwindling savings makes me FEARFUL.

    • @cbreeze123
      @cbreeze123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi, How are you able to stay afloat ?

    • @christianataylor8926
      @christianataylor8926 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cbreeze123 I’m working a part time job and my savings!

  • @Neisha8686
    @Neisha8686 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Greetings Stephanie and chat. I love all my black sisters. 🫂🫂🫂

  • @tishabootravels
    @tishabootravels 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Good morning ladies! I’m 51, medical coder, and in the process of starting over after 50. I love the community I found with exodus summit group.

  • @sidellebuffington8504
    @sidellebuffington8504 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Good evening! I am 51 yrs old and have recently lost my home because of my significant decrease in my income along with the rapid inflation cost of living in the U.S., so I was blessed into a co -living environment that is very temporary. I am working technical certifications as a career pivot from designing homes (that I could not even afford to buy...smh). I apologize, Lol, I'm ranting now. I am highly interested in living outside of the U.S. before this year is up. I am thinking that house sitting is a good option for me since my adult children and one parent are spread out in different continents at the moment. I just downloaded the housesitting guided. Love, peace, light and continued blessings to you & thank you for sharing!

  • @donnapaul7121
    @donnapaul7121 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I "retired" from my job feb '23 just after turing 64. Presently im decluttering and not she were my first destination is yet, but I'm ready

  • @ResourceRoz
    @ResourceRoz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I am 49, sold my house, three businesses. Lost all my money in a bad investment. It was everything I had so I could travel & move abroad. I was discouraged but every time I get on this app, I see your community and get back on a roll. I found my community in Belize. I plan to visit and to stay a while. I have a family, so I got prepare for them. I AM WORKING ON GAINING MY FINACES BACK SO I CAN ESCAPE THE US!!! Thank you, Stephanie.

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  • @makedabailey3305
    @makedabailey3305 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hello Stephanie lost my job jan 2024. I will deeply listening to this in depth.

  • @latangelawilliams5339
    @latangelawilliams5339 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Happy Saturday! Atlanta, GA

  • @Happened_tv
    @Happened_tv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Am 52 I currently work in a warehouse for 10 hours a day my legs are starting to hurt and I have a learning disability 😢am trying to start an online business selling T-shirt but it’s hard thank you for this 😢

  • @earnestinejackson5859
    @earnestinejackson5859 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'm co living.

  • @rhondacooper7639
    @rhondacooper7639 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hey Stephanie love ❤️ your channel. l want to house 🏡 next year. 🎉

  • @daynagraves7533
    @daynagraves7533 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Good morning!
    Good morning! Grand Rising! I'm ready to start house sitting!

  • @annettefrench4689
    @annettefrench4689 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Love and kindness always!! Thank you Queen! I turned 50 this month- looking forward to celebrating yours in July in Dubai!

  • @mljack14
    @mljack14 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hi ladies, watching the replay. Wishing us all a healthy and relaxing lifestyle.🤎🌸

  • @tjones4423
    @tjones4423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Watching each and every video. The “always on and doing and taking care of everyone but me has totally destroyed me mentally physically and emotionally. Figuring it out and this is speaking to my soul. Pray for me please.

  • @vintagecladius
    @vintagecladius 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This video is so timely. I got laid off last year. Started a new job in the Fall and quickly discovered my boss was not a fan of melanated women. Now unemployed again, I am looking/needing to make a serious life pivot at 38 years old. Thank you for the tips and inspiration to transform my life. And thank you for sharing one of your three topics near the end of the video! 🍉

  • @britanypryor4004
    @britanypryor4004 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Grandrising Stephanie, you’ve
    been a light in my life. I’m a 38-year-old with one fur baby living in my car. Because I decided to leave an unhappy marriage, now I'm starting over in the process of reinventing myself. These TH-cam videos that you make have been a guide for me. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @monicam-x8n
    @monicam-x8n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hello Everyone, I absolutely love this community! Everyone is so supportive & kind. Thank you Stephanie for sharing your journey, your friendship & love to “ ALL” of us.

  • @nicoletteanderson594
    @nicoletteanderson594 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Hello. Missed the live; watching the replay. I am ready to leave my job at soon to be 61 years old.

  • @dianeheidelberg3791
    @dianeheidelberg3791 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Good morning everyone!

  • @glamsam6098
    @glamsam6098 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Greetings to you and all. So glad that there’s a platform to support us black women. I want change. I want to make changes in my life that serves me. I work the 9-5 corporate yet I’m glad I’m a remote worker but on the flip side is that I hardly get outside. I want to travel more and really embrace life!

  • @Sweetsy928
    @Sweetsy928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Was injured on the job with a major airline yr 2022.....cannot work on a regular basis, my youngest daughter had to move in with me to help with the rent, benefits her as well....😁

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  • @ToriaManette
    @ToriaManette 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hello everyone. I’m 24.. Left my stable job last October to drive for Amazon (was well needed but also a mistake and inconsistent hours) fast forward to March I got fired the day I had a minor car accident, (I didn’t have insurance because I had to pay the car note and my rent and it lapsed. So I had my car and license plate taken and had to get everything back.) started working for my mom again (it’s been a struggle), lost my apartment and fast forward to last Monday I flipped my car and it was totaled. (I’m okay though thank God). So I’m pretty much stripped of everything. I have support but I feel like a complete failure. I’m looking at the brighter side of everything. And hopefully I can somehow get completely back on my feet😭.

    • @mavenofcharts
      @mavenofcharts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks God that you are definitely here for a purpose and God hand of protection is all over you. Let this stand a a testimony of God restore everything you lost and returning it in 3 months. ❤Be encouraged you will make it

    • @ToriaManette
      @ToriaManette 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@mavenofcharts thank you for the kind words❤️❤️

    • @homebody61
      @homebody61 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sending prayers

    • @ToriaManette
      @ToriaManette 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@homebody61 thank you!❤️❤️

  • @prettyproblem16
    @prettyproblem16 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Congrats on being featured in the wall street journal Stephanie 🎉❤

  • @writingdiasporan
    @writingdiasporan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Missed the beginning of the live, but first to comment! 😁 I'm currently on a sabbatical - one year has turned to one and a half years. May not ever go back to Canada except in the summers. Thanks for the informative topic. I do freelance technical writing, but I'm finding that you have to hustle for those clients, and the work and therefore the pay isn't always consistent.

    • @StephaniePerry
      @StephaniePerry  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I used to spend too much time prospecting for clients when I was a virtual assistant. It sucked. I wish I has positioned myself differently and did things like content marketing and speaking at conferences to get a stream of clients like @wes mcdowell does.

    • @writingdiasporan
      @writingdiasporan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@StephaniePerry Thanks! I'll check her out.

  • @SunSpotGrasshoppa
    @SunSpotGrasshoppa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    sunrise black women, i just tuned in here, it's august 18'24
    thank you for this Stephanie and i'm glad i'm here because without your channel and the other ladies' channels, i would have been alone and in my head about everything i'm about to do now.. it is scary but it's inevitable

  • @allways5635
    @allways5635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I appreciate you so much Sis!!!! Thank you for this VITAL content!!

  • @mooresherri
    @mooresherri 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rich Rising Ladies! I left my employer of 16 years almost 3 years ago. I was a month away from turning 41. All this time, I have been undoing a limited mindset around being able to live a secure life. I am finally ready to make a bold move and leave my comfort zone. I feel supported by the stirring within me to write a new story. You all are such an inspiration! I am finally feeling excited about starting over🎉

  • @lisashackelford-anderson2791
    @lisashackelford-anderson2791 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hello, everyone. Stephanie, I love your content.

  • @wandajohnson1505
    @wandajohnson1505 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good morning from California. Starting over after 64 yrs young 😊

  • @kiva5619
    @kiva5619 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hello from the future 👋🏽 This video is right on time for me. Thank you Stephanie ❤

  • @mcradiocafe
    @mcradiocafe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hi hi ya’ll, hanging out catching the replay 💕

  • @thirtyyearcosmetologist
    @thirtyyearcosmetologist 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don’t mind living with someone. The circumstances have to be right and we have to keep communicating a priority.

    • @queenceline9738
      @queenceline9738 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FEEL THE SAME. I'M CELINE 60 SOUNDS LIKE A PLAN

  • @sylviamacklin6366
    @sylviamacklin6366 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good afternoon Stephanie and guests!❤🎉

  • @joraha3441
    @joraha3441 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Incredible live. Thank you for being the realest!!! 💖

  • @Hop2261
    @Hop2261 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello. I am so excited to have found you and this community. I am ready to start over at 48!!!!

  • @gretchenking5952
    @gretchenking5952 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good afternoon, watching the replay.

  • @phyllisnewton1147
    @phyllisnewton1147 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Enjoying the replay. This video was on time.🙏🏽❤️

  • @Nabisoul28
    @Nabisoul28 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hey, Stephanie and all of our fam.Good morning to everybody.I will be talking to you the next time.Retired and living in thailand should be on april fifth

    • @dday3322
      @dday3322 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thailand is top on my list of sabbatical destinations! I look forward to your interview.
      Have a good day!

  • @KimmeeTheBrand
    @KimmeeTheBrand 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hello Stephanie and everyone! So glad to have found this GREAT group of supportive new friends.
    I'm 53, starting over and PROUD! 25 years of robotics for a company that didn't care a thing about me became overwhelming.
    I watched a couple of your videos before I found this one. I saw this one...I thought OMG she's talking to me. How did she know I was feeling like this... how did she know I was thinking that same thing OMG. Hello new family 🧘🏾‍♀️🫶🏾✨🩷❣️

  • @sayyidahthewriter
    @sayyidahthewriter 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good afternoon! Yes, we are still friends! 😊

  • @dday3322
    @dday3322 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hello! From Dallas, TX

  • @SisMaria1
    @SisMaria1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good evening ladies! I am co living with my beloved son

  • @BarbaraDavisGayles
    @BarbaraDavisGayles 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good morning! God Bless you. I have been thinking, praying about how to start over at 75. I need this. I lost the use of my hands after a spinal surgery.

  • @MidLifeMamaInMotion
    @MidLifeMamaInMotion 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hello!! 🙂 Just tuning in and Happy to be here for today's message as I'm in the ever-evolving process of a New Beginning. Looking forward to adding to the nuggets of wisdom being paid forward. Thank you for your time and service to The Community.

  • @robinfloyd3102
    @robinfloyd3102 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    …And I’m at my wits end…Found your videos in answer to a prayer, so I’m here
    58 and I’m here😢😂🎉

  • @ashiasmith4945
    @ashiasmith4945 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good Afternoon from Jersey, love your hair sis!

  • @jyronav3159
    @jyronav3159 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank You Angela for the working with Rev. Barber in the Poor People's Campaign.

  • @FindYourFree
    @FindYourFree 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I got tired as a young mom and started global living with my 2 kids. 18 years in! Ladies just do it! Living abroad is so much better than struggle life in the US.. Stephanie, excellent content! Community Care is the Truth!

  • @Nandigrl57
    @Nandigrl57 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello everyone. Yes, I was released at 60+ and felt hurt, embarrassed, doomed, etc. Five months later after soul searching and now transitioning to a better life developing my dreams. I would not have imagined my dreams while grinding on someone else's agenda. I'm blessed right where I stand and grateful for the next chapters in my life. It wasn't easy getting here but I have arrived. Hang in there and reimagine how your day would begin according to your agenda. Slowly make those changes and bring them to fruition.

  • @WeDontRetireWeAscend_
    @WeDontRetireWeAscend_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Checking the replay! 🙋🏾‍♀️ This content is for me! 🤗

  • @LisaRahman-z2d
    @LisaRahman-z2d 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    good morning watching on 4/3/24 i retired from my education job on 1/1/24 @55.. I'm blessed that I do have a pension that covers all my expenses and am an empty nester so i am just responsible for myself. my life is so different now I took a break and am now working as a flight attendant something that i always wanted to try

  • @keeleyjones6160
    @keeleyjones6160 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Grand rise Beautiful People 👑🌹🌞

  • @iciousalexander7593
    @iciousalexander7593 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a 52 yr old mother & grandmother and they live with me. I am also in a co-living situation. Not something that I really like because space is limited but it has been working for our situation. Thank you for your video and information

  • @theparisdream
    @theparisdream 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    (53:50) Hold up!! Sister Stephanie just said, "Some of y'all are gonna work 50 years of your life... Does ONE YEAR when you DON'T WORK sound THAT ridiculous?!"
    WHEW! Preach that good word, sis! That's the best sell I've EVER heard!!

  • @NkemOnyeka12
    @NkemOnyeka12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am 53 years old and I already left a different comment on this video, but Stephanie said something that REALLY hit me hard, she said that she went home to her parents. I wish I had some parents. 😢❤. Mommy left 32 years ago at 37 years old, and Daddy …is around. When I get free to travel I am going to go love on some Elderly people and get some in return. ❤

  • @tatibaby1111
    @tatibaby1111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love how warm this community feels ❤

  • @poshlifeconsulting
    @poshlifeconsulting 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for all you do Stephanie!!!!!

  • @shunwilliams6180
    @shunwilliams6180 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good morning beautiful ladies ❤❤❤

  • @moniquetate2376
    @moniquetate2376 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hello from San Antonio, TX! Always great info :)

  • @GlobeTrekkingwithMzFab
    @GlobeTrekkingwithMzFab 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m 51 and ended my almost 20 year career this past September. My home is paid for. Only property taxes, homeowners insurance, monthly bills, and groceries. I’m living off of my savings. I haven’t tapped into my retirement funds YET. I also have a pension plan , but I have to be at least 55 to start receiving partial retirement benefits, or 58 for full benefits. I’ve been using this time to rest and travel. I loved Costa Rica🇨🇷 ! My 12 yr old didn’t want to leave 😢… Okay so my dilemma is this. I LOVE ❤️to travel, and I fancy the idea of moving abroad. However, I don’t have any set career plans moving forward. House sitting sounds great, but I’m a full time mother, and can’t figure out hours to do this with my kid. I’m not an animal person per se. 🆘

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