For the 1st story, that disrespectful, arrogant excuse of a “husband” can go 🧝♂️ himself. He’s giving misogynistic, spoiled brat vibes. Wifey/ OP better set him straight if ya ask me. Because he’s outta pocket 😒
First story: The lord and master of the manse summons his char woman? Husband seems to think it’s 1824. Second story: Not to invite your own children is unthinkable to most people. This may be a preview of things to come. Third story: If it bothers you a little now it will bother you a lot more after marriage.
First story, there's a group of people out there that think cleaning makes you inferior by default. Exact quote from a family member: "why would I clean after myself when I can get a stupid person to do it for me?"
It‘s so weird because imo they should get so much respect for doing something most people don‘t want to or don‘t do I don‘t get how people can look down on them
Split the difference on the second story. The ceremony will likely be boring for the kids, but the reception is fun so invite them to the part they would enjoy.
Eh, there's an easier fix than that. If it were me, I'd just start snapping my fingers at HIM. If asked why, I'd just say I am only trying to get his attention. And keep it up for as long as it takes. We hire a launderess, all she does is wash clothes, but I would never dare THINK of doing that!
you should never get married then. I'm not siding with the husband at all. He is 100% wrong, but you can't divorce somebody because they made a mistake. Marriage is about working together and fixing problems
@PhantomMagician1846 That's not a problem between them, it's a lack of respect for people outsode their marriage he deems a lower class from him. He's a grown adult and she didn't and shouldn't have married him to parent him about thing a 6 year old could make up themselves. He even lied about apologizing, if he can lie about that why not lie about understanding her point of view too?
@@honeystly_disgusting6393 have you ever told a lie ?? yes he needs to learn to respect people. he needs to learn what he did was wrong. but you don't divorce somebody because they have a flaw, you at least try and fix the flaw. Nobody's perfect. One of the problems with today's world is people think marriage vows are a joke and are willing to end it at the 1st sing of something going wrong.
6:36 For that last one, sharing locations for safety, like if he was a delivery driver or something then it would be normal to share locations in case something were to happen. But as a norm? Not really, I mean you can, if you live or work in a sketchy area, but otherwise it feels invasive. I have my location shared with my adult child (because I work delivery and don't want them to worry).
The next time you want to speak to your husband, snap your fingers at him to get his attention. Second story-your future wife does NOT love your kids. Rethink this wedding.
jeez, his kids should be there for him at his best too not just at his worst. for her to not want them to be there cause they're an annoyance to her is so superficial.
Story 1: Nope, he's gone immediately! Anyone who is willing to be so rude to someone who is working for them isn't partner material, especially if they refuse to apologize and fix that behavior after being called out on it. Story 2: He needs to remind her that it's his day as well. I understand wanting a child free wedding bc children can be messy and loud, but complaining about how it's going to ruin *her* big day is not okay. I say he should talk to her about this before he decides to move forward with or break off the engagement. Story 3: Idrk how to answer this. I do think op should talk to his gf about the concerns he has, but otherwise, there's really no reason to post about this on reddit or wherever Kyutie gets these posts.
story 1: don't get married. I am not sticking up for the husband. what he did is 100% wrong and he needs to do better. but if you are willing to divorce somebody over what he did (and you have kids involved) then never get married
Oh that second one, she's not the one. OP needs to call off the wedding. She thinks she's only marrying him, and not him and his kids, and probably intends to alienate him from the kids.
The location sharing is a bit of a divided opinion in my head: I wouldn't have it on at all times, only when I am in a sketchy area and I want to get home safe. But I wouldn't want a partner that keeps refreshing my location all day long either. I don't have an iPhone, but I have put on location sharing on WhatsApp on my Samsung a couple of times.
About the first story makes me think if Beth still wants to work for them even with the disrespect I wonder if she didn't went by worse or know she can pass by worse working on other houses. 😢
The guy in the First Story is disgusting.......he should AT LEAST apologize to Beth, and give her Flowers or something and swear that he NEVER does anything like that again! And the wife maybe has to watch out...........because someday he is treating HER that way. Absolute No - Go.
For the second one, if the gf REALLY liked the kids, she would want them at the wedding. And if it makes it unfair to the other guests, just allow them to bring their children too as long as the kids will behave. From what I've seen, people who really love the kids in situations like this don't even think about keeping the kids away from an event like this. Overall, I'm not sure if she doesn't actually like the kids or if it's just that she doesn't like OP that much. It'd be hard to do everything she's done with the kids while faking it but she also doesn't seem to take into account OP's feelings. Either way I think it's better to break everything off because if THIS is enough to make the relationship rocky, imagine how much worse it'll be in the future. Hell, what would happen if one day they get into an argument, the kids overhear, and OP says "is that why you didn't want my girls to NOT come to our wedding?" as part of the argument (this could lead to the kids feeling like the gf doesn't want them and stuff)
Actually they can fake giving attention/love to the children. She can do that only in front of him or maybe she is just doing it to impress him. After marriage she may chance since she doesn't need to impress anymore and her not wanting the children on the wedding maybe the doors for her real identity come to light.
Omne of the reasons i don't think i can be in a romantic relationship with someone is that I have introverted traits and because I'm home almost 24/7 i just want the people i love in the house, everyone in my household spends most of their time at home and i get kind of anxious when they leave. I just want everyone to be safe but I know and I don't want watching them all day. They have their lives and i have mine so i think sharing ur location can be good but not that important. Idk just my opinion. 😅
6:50 I share my location with my friends just for fun tbh, because I know they wouldn't check it like they're spying on me. My mom doesn't have an iPhone, so I don't share locations with her, but since she's not controlling I wouldn't mind doing that with her too
My husband & I have shared locations for years. I also leave for work at 4:15-4:30am to get to work at 5-5:30 am. It’s more for the safety aspect of me driving at that time. I usually use the app to see if he’s gotten out of work late. If it’s after his scheduled time to leave & he’s still at work, I won’t call or expect a call to see if I need anything on his way home. There’s no need to bother him if he’s taking care of something at work. It’s just a courtesy.
Third story, what in the 1984. It would be interesting if there was something that would give your location if your health monitoring app catches something wrong (oof too much tech), but keeping people constantly updated is weird. I'll never get used to all of this. Visited someone with a fully connected home and it's so weird that they don't even call for each other anymore, instead they turn to the closest monitor and see the location of other family members... and visitors.
About the last story if I not mistaken the boyfriend of my best friend share his location but because he is an Uber and he got his car stolen once. So after that as his phone was also stolen they share locations so she knows he is fine because she got really scared after he told her. And she offered to be my watching eyes when I needed to take subway for work, I didn't needed to use but I accepted that offer if I start taking in person classes for my college.
0:05: OP's husband must have been raised in an atmosphere of privilege, so he considers Beth to be beneath him. OP was right to call him out, as he embarrassed himself, and deservedly so. 3:28: It's not about "her special day", or "his special day", it's "their special day". OP's fiance not wanting his kids at the wedding is an indication of a one-sided marriage. OP needs to put his foot down and demand his kids be there, or the wedding is called off. 5:55: There's a fine line between being concerned about a loved one and not being able trust a mate to be faithful. OP should look for potential red flags in this relationship to determine her true intentions about wanting to know his whereabouts at all times (and this could work the other way around also).
hi kyutie, idk if you read comments but i just remembered you recently! i’ve been subscribed for like… wow, 7-8 years? and i’ve decided to get back into your content again! i remember when i was like 9, i would scare myself straight listening to your gut feeling stories, but i loved them either way :3 i watched you so much my mom could tell when i was watching one of your videos by the intro lol
Hii Ellen I love the video and your outfit I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and that the both ofbyall stay healthy and safe also coco is adorable I love the both of yall💜💜💜
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, you should easily just cusss him out like crazy, fire the cleaning lady, and file for a divorce immediately because he is basically showing you his true colors right there. If you're ruined to those restaurant employees, then that's how your food gets spat in. In the seond story, what's wrong with your girlfriend because if and when she marries you, then both of his daughters will be your stepdaughters so they need to be apart of this ceremony and this ceremony only. I think that she is just being very selfish here. You talk to her and make her fully understand that those are your daughters and yes they will be apart of the ceremony and if she doesn't like it oh well I guess this is where we part ways forever. In the third story, yes other couples do do this for safety purposes. I love you my precious friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
For the 1st story, that disrespectful, arrogant excuse of a “husband” can go 🧝♂️ himself. He’s giving misogynistic, spoiled brat vibes. Wifey/ OP better set him straight if ya ask me. Because he’s outta pocket 😒
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First story: The lord and master of the manse summons his char woman? Husband seems to think it’s 1824. Second story: Not to invite your own children is unthinkable to most people. This may be a preview of things to come. Third story: If it bothers you a little now it will bother you a lot more after marriage.
First story, there's a group of people out there that think cleaning makes you inferior by default. Exact quote from a family member: "why would I clean after myself when I can get a stupid person to do it for me?"
Unfortunately some people view retail workers and service workers the same way
It‘s so weird because imo they should get so much respect for doing something most people don‘t want to or don‘t do I don‘t get how people can look down on them
first story makes me so annoyed
Split the difference on the second story. The ceremony will likely be boring for the kids, but the reception is fun so invite them to the part they would enjoy.
1st story: divorce his ass!!!
Eh, there's an easier fix than that. If it were me, I'd just start snapping my fingers at HIM. If asked why, I'd just say I am only trying to get his attention. And keep it up for as long as it takes. We hire a launderess, all she does is wash clothes, but I would never dare THINK of doing that!
you should never get married then. I'm not siding with the husband at all. He is 100% wrong, but you can't divorce somebody because they made a mistake. Marriage is about working together and fixing problems
@PhantomMagician1846 That's not a problem between them, it's a lack of respect for people outsode their marriage he deems a lower class from him. He's a grown adult and she didn't and shouldn't have married him to parent him about thing a 6 year old could make up themselves. He even lied about apologizing, if he can lie about that why not lie about understanding her point of view too?
@@honeystly_disgusting6393 have you ever told a lie ?? yes he needs to learn to respect people. he needs to learn what he did was wrong. but you don't divorce somebody because they have a flaw, you at least try and fix the flaw. Nobody's perfect. One of the problems with today's world is people think marriage vows are a joke and are willing to end it at the 1st sing of something going wrong.
@@PhantomMagician1846that wasn't a mistake. He knew exactly what he was doing.
I would be ashamed of having a husband like that.
6:36 For that last one, sharing locations for safety, like if he was a delivery driver or something then it would be normal to share locations in case something were to happen. But as a norm? Not really, I mean you can, if you live or work in a sketchy area, but otherwise it feels invasive. I have my location shared with my adult child (because I work delivery and don't want them to worry).
The next time you want to speak to your husband, snap your fingers at him to get his attention.
Second story-your future wife does NOT love your kids. Rethink this wedding.
jeez, his kids should be there for him at his best too not just at his worst. for her to not want them to be there cause they're an annoyance to her is so superficial.
Good way to ensure the cleaning lady tells him to go to hell.
Story 1: Nope, he's gone immediately! Anyone who is willing to be so rude to someone who is working for them isn't partner material, especially if they refuse to apologize and fix that behavior after being called out on it.
Story 2: He needs to remind her that it's his day as well. I understand wanting a child free wedding bc children can be messy and loud, but complaining about how it's going to ruin *her* big day is not okay. I say he should talk to her about this before he decides to move forward with or break off the engagement.
Story 3: Idrk how to answer this. I do think op should talk to his gf about the concerns he has, but otherwise, there's really no reason to post about this on reddit or wherever Kyutie gets these posts.
Even at child free weddings, it's standard to have the children of the bride and groom there.
story 1: don't get married. I am not sticking up for the husband. what he did is 100% wrong and he needs to do better. but if you are willing to divorce somebody over what he did (and you have kids involved) then never get married
Oh that second one, she's not the one. OP needs to call off the wedding. She thinks she's only marrying him, and not him and his kids, and probably intends to alienate him from the kids.
The location sharing is a bit of a divided opinion in my head: I wouldn't have it on at all times, only when I am in a sketchy area and I want to get home safe. But I wouldn't want a partner that keeps refreshing my location all day long either. I don't have an iPhone, but I have put on location sharing on WhatsApp on my Samsung a couple of times.
About the first story makes me think if Beth still wants to work for them even with the disrespect I wonder if she didn't went by worse or know she can pass by worse working on other houses. 😢
The guy in the First Story is disgusting.......he should AT LEAST apologize to Beth, and give her Flowers or something and swear that he NEVER does anything like that again!
And the wife maybe has to watch out...........because someday he is treating HER that way.
Absolute No - Go.
For the second one, if the gf REALLY liked the kids, she would want them at the wedding. And if it makes it unfair to the other guests, just allow them to bring their children too as long as the kids will behave.
From what I've seen, people who really love the kids in situations like this don't even think about keeping the kids away from an event like this.
Overall, I'm not sure if she doesn't actually like the kids or if it's just that she doesn't like OP that much. It'd be hard to do everything she's done with the kids while faking it but she also doesn't seem to take into account OP's feelings. Either way I think it's better to break everything off because if THIS is enough to make the relationship rocky, imagine how much worse it'll be in the future. Hell, what would happen if one day they get into an argument, the kids overhear, and OP says "is that why you didn't want my girls to NOT come to our wedding?" as part of the argument (this could lead to the kids feeling like the gf doesn't want them and stuff)
Actually they can fake giving attention/love to the children. She can do that only in front of him or maybe she is just doing it to impress him. After marriage she may chance since she doesn't need to impress anymore and her not wanting the children on the wedding maybe the doors for her real identity come to light.
It is sweltering where I'm living and I'm looking at Ellen wearing her thick fluffy layers. It takes a moment to dawn on me, it's winter in Australia.
Omne of the reasons i don't think i can be in a romantic relationship with someone is that I have introverted traits and because I'm home almost 24/7 i just want the people i love in the house, everyone in my household spends most of their time at home and i get kind of anxious when they leave. I just want everyone to be safe but I know and I don't want watching them all day. They have their lives and i have mine so i think sharing ur location can be good but not that important. Idk just my opinion. 😅
Everyone can’t agree and get along with each other
@@TwiceplusOnce99 yea but they don’t have to be buttholes about it
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7:40 men can be scared of that sort of thing as well
Woah I always end up back here after 2 or 3 years
6:50 I share my location with my friends just for fun tbh, because I know they wouldn't check it like they're spying on me. My mom doesn't have an iPhone, so I don't share locations with her, but since she's not controlling I wouldn't mind doing that with her too
My husband & I have shared locations for years. I also leave for work at 4:15-4:30am to get to work at 5-5:30 am. It’s more for the safety aspect of me driving at that time. I usually use the app to see if he’s gotten out of work late. If it’s after his scheduled time to leave & he’s still at work, I won’t call or expect a call to see if I need anything on his way home. There’s no need to bother him if he’s taking care of something at work. It’s just a courtesy.
Third story, what in the 1984.
It would be interesting if there was something that would give your location if your health monitoring app catches something wrong (oof too much tech), but keeping people constantly updated is weird.
I'll never get used to all of this. Visited someone with a fully connected home and it's so weird that they don't even call for each other anymore, instead they turn to the closest monitor and see the location of other family members... and visitors.
About the last story if I not mistaken the boyfriend of my best friend share his location but because he is an Uber and he got his car stolen once. So after that as his phone was also stolen they share locations so she knows he is fine because she got really scared after he told her. And she offered to be my watching eyes when I needed to take subway for work, I didn't needed to use but I accepted that offer if I start taking in person classes for my college.
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3:27 here i was thinking most people have their kids in a hospital bed
I have my daughter's location all the time, but not to annoy her. In fact, i barely call her.
0:05: OP's husband must have been raised in an atmosphere of privilege, so he considers Beth to be beneath him. OP was right to call him out, as he embarrassed himself, and deservedly so.
3:28: It's not about "her special day", or "his special day", it's "their special day". OP's fiance not wanting his kids at the wedding is an indication of a one-sided marriage. OP needs to put his foot down and demand his kids be there, or the wedding is called off.
5:55: There's a fine line between being concerned about a loved one and not being able trust a mate to be faithful. OP should look for potential red flags in this relationship to determine her true intentions about wanting to know his whereabouts at all times (and this could work the other way around also).
A wedding is a union of two families...
She can't exclude the groom's children, because they are family (they won't vanish when you get married lol)
People can never seem to agree on anything!
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hi kyutie, idk if you read comments but i just remembered you recently! i’ve been subscribed for like… wow, 7-8 years? and i’ve decided to get back into your content again! i remember when i was like 9, i would scare myself straight listening to your gut feeling stories, but i loved them either way :3
i watched you so much my mom could tell when i was watching one of your videos by the intro lol
Snapping fingers at the house cleaner is simply a lack of humility. Personality flaw, too late to change...
Sounds like the husband been watching too much Bridgerton or Downton Abbey cuz that's crazy
Tell Beth to wear earbuds and totally ignore the husband.
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, you should easily just cusss him out like crazy, fire the cleaning lady, and file for a divorce immediately because he is basically showing you his true colors right there. If you're ruined to those restaurant employees, then that's how your food gets spat in. In the seond story, what's wrong with your girlfriend because if and when she marries you, then both of his daughters will be your stepdaughters so they need to be apart of this ceremony and this ceremony only. I think that she is just being very selfish here. You talk to her and make her fully understand that those are your daughters and yes they will be apart of the ceremony and if she doesn't like it oh well I guess this is where we part ways forever. In the third story, yes other couples do do this for safety purposes. I love you my precious friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
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