Are You Living an Insta Lie? Social Media Vs. Reality

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  • @JesusisKingRedeemerMessiah
    @JesusisKingRedeemerMessiah 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4927

    It’s proven that social media increases depression and loneliness. Just live your life and stop worrying about others to compare yourself, you will never be happy this way.

    • @xunox9304
      @xunox9304 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Jokes on you I was already terribly depressed and lonely BEFORE social media

    • @kasimmalik9806
      @kasimmalik9806 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes we will

    • @kitcat0005
      @kitcat0005 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol ik, I dont even have a insta or Twitter account or even snapchat just Facebook but I barely use it there's barely photo of me only google pictures

    • @areyoukirringmeirriyaa
      @areyoukirringmeirriyaa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christian Gomez tru

    • @loidloidloidloid
      @loidloidloidloid 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The reason why I don’t like Snapchat because when you take off the filter you’ll get disappointed at you face

  • @doramn3276
    @doramn3276 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18218

    I was in the running machine at gym. a girl came, took place in another running machine, photograph herself and then she left...

    • @arciacchi
      @arciacchi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +456

      Dora Manou Hahahahaha omg

    • @sinchasin3611
      @sinchasin3611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      Dora Manou :D sick

    • @dookiemanik
      @dookiemanik 7 ปีที่แล้ว +728

      Dora Manou running machine? You meant 'treadmill'?

    • @jajarounette95
      @jajarounette95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Dora Manou 😂😂

    • @rochelle1199
      @rochelle1199 7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I can't believe that! 😂😂

  • @husnnoor8155
    @husnnoor8155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12849

    The Better You Feel About Yourself, The Less You Feel The Need To Show Off .

    • @asohnoelle5883
      @asohnoelle5883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Very true 💯 thank you very much o just learned something new 😊❤

    • @DennisHorn1981
      @DennisHorn1981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Underrated commet! So true...

    • @SunShine-qm7hu
      @SunShine-qm7hu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Completely agree! True Happiness is about silence, imho.

    • @Sunshinejaz777
      @Sunshinejaz777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      True! I deleted my Instagram about a year ago! Life been good, I stop comparing myself constantly

    • @rosvellobo8562
      @rosvellobo8562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I only have TH-cam and Facebook account
      When I post on Facebook, I saved it as only me.
      just for saving purposes.
      😊

  • @ibanezgrind
    @ibanezgrind ปีที่แล้ว +2093

    Got rid of Instagram and Facebook over 5 years ago. One of the best decisions of my life.

    • @priyathakral2220
      @priyathakral2220 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Samesies

    • @iamhealed-l7j
      @iamhealed-l7j ปีที่แล้ว +12

      How did you do that

    • @jamessolanki9969
      @jamessolanki9969 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@iamhealed-l7jits about willpower

    • @GrimKnight12
      @GrimKnight12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Same here

    • @GrimKnight12
      @GrimKnight12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@iamhealed-l7j by deleting your account then apps from your phone and start enjoying life for what it is

  • @gthedragon17
    @gthedragon17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21255

    We're a sad generation with happy pictures.

  • @nidhi6699
    @nidhi6699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2323

    1:50 restaurant scene is spot on! I have seen my friends completely indulged in taking photos and not at all talking to each other

    • @bananamonster7
      @bananamonster7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      And kinda sad when ur the only one not on ur phone 💀

    • @diyanabeel4744
      @diyanabeel4744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I didn't actually believe that scene until your comment...My friend group was always social

    • @lialee9426
      @lialee9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      This is exactly what my friends do all the time. They invite me to luxurious places only so that we can take pictures together and post it on socials.

    • @Eviiiiilspongebob
      @Eviiiiilspongebob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I have a friend who invites me over and all day she’s on her phone and I’m just talking to myself lol

    • @lordblanck7923
      @lordblanck7923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Eviiiiilspongebob man this is the worst type of idiot . I would ignore her too when she would call me next time. No middle ground here bro

  • @Songkhi
    @Songkhi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7816

    "A lot of you have been asking about my skincare routine.. "

    • @teodoraostaficiuc424
      @teodoraostaficiuc424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Nobody truuuuu

    • @simp8966
      @simp8966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      True

    • @azaelia2000
      @azaelia2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      lol

    • @lisaasa
      @lisaasa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Fliters💀🤭

    • @wdwdwdwlolol7725
      @wdwdwdwlolol7725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +359

      "yeah, I honestly just drink a lot of water and it helps a lot"

  • @blueskies773
    @blueskies773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1236

    Thank god I grew up riding bicycles with my friends, playing outdoor games at night, and not getting a phone until my junior year. Parents need to emphasize this balance more. It’s crucial. So unhealthy to grow up in the age of social media

    • @wefeelitweliveitnaugthy
      @wefeelitweliveitnaugthy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I didn't have my own smartphone until I was 18

    • @nerd_alert927
      @nerd_alert927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I got a prepaid phone for myself when I went to college back in the early 2000s.

    • @paulgerhard5170
      @paulgerhard5170 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will make sure of that…

    • @ayamohammed7753
      @ayamohammed7753 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true

    • @lecsu131
      @lecsu131 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Stop blaming the parents man. You have no idea what it's like to be a parent in this era.

  • @darkprostoria
    @darkprostoria 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5612

    That's actually pretty depressing

    • @paulofranca3725
      @paulofranca3725 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      marta petrovic yee...

    • @jyotikumari-bx4ph
      @jyotikumari-bx4ph 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      marta petrovic and true

    • @Milicevic1987
      @Milicevic1987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      marta petrovic tuzna realnost danasnjice :(

    • @emilijastevanovic1107
      @emilijastevanovic1107 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Milicevic1987 jebiga..

    • @femloh
      @femloh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's life with social media.

  • @meoowmeoow9920
    @meoowmeoow9920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5339

    Maybe I am not modern person... But I hate to show my own life to others . Because I live for myself •not for others and not for social media❤️

    • @shaks2085
      @shaks2085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      💯

    • @karamkaur1761
      @karamkaur1761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      I have social media but I keep my life private b/c more private life u have more happy you will become.

    • @meoowmeoow9920
      @meoowmeoow9920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@karamkaur1761 I am agree with you

    • @pearlheart9021
      @pearlheart9021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup and we love it😊

    • @Eva-us5nx
      @Eva-us5nx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @Dave N did someone asked you to exist?

  • @grilledcheesus
    @grilledcheesus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3668

    This makes sense two years ago. But now people are like “yo Wuddup just woke up from my depression nap” with a frazzled and incoherent selfie

    • @mimi-zu3sy
      @mimi-zu3sy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      Peachy Nah those are probably not one of the most popular ones on social media. It’s still like this

    • @kuein
      @kuein 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      An0nym0us Pers0n I think it has lowered down a bit in terms of the “fake” lifestyle because I don’t think many people care as much as they used to.

    • @grilledcheesus
      @grilledcheesus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      An0nym0us Pers0n what I’m saying is that the very few who still do this are lifestyle gurus and Instagram “models” but other than that I’ve been noticing more honesty about not being perfect and more talks about mental health, sometimes in the form of a self deprecating joke but I like it, it’s much more relatable and honest.

    • @Slimm_Sheedah1
      @Slimm_Sheedah1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @urmom2452
      @urmom2452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      yeah but still there’s a significant different between your mindset when on social media vs not on it. i got of socials like a few months ago and i feel so much better. it sounds stupid but social media is truly a waste of time

  • @azul6892
    @azul6892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I've stopped using social media back in 2012 at age 23, I never share my life, kids, husband or my house anywhere. I still don't have social media accounts. Quiting social media is easier than quiting smoking.

    • @rohanisahguro6472
      @rohanisahguro6472 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I agree. As they say, what people don’t know, they can’t destroy. Just how many ‘perfect’ couples and lives on screen are suffering greatly behind the scenes. They portray unrealistic standards just to please their viewers. 😞

  • @katarina5206
    @katarina5206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +930

    And then people ask me WHY am I not on instagram, Facebook, or snapchat, well...where do I start? It's toxic..

    • @charispatriciavalloso6459
      @charispatriciavalloso6459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Katarina Child in Time wow. Like the attitude!

    • @ven2983
      @ven2983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are hero.

    • @edcho5774
      @edcho5774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I spent less time on social media these past few weeks and my mentality has gotten better.

    • @georgeiosif9838
      @georgeiosif9838 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Katarina Child in Time me too, and never be

    • @artemisacyn9154
      @artemisacyn9154 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I totally agree ! I don't have those apps either, except for this one & when I tell them they get shocked and ask me how I survive without any... simple I live a real life, dot pretend to please anyone and once in while with a sweet, hot coffee while I have a conversation with some I care !!

  • @lxvrvn
    @lxvrvn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +821

    This video was the reason why I deleted my Snapchat, instagram, Twitter, and tik tok accounts. I’m only 18, but I’ve never felt happier. Highly recommend this to anyone, no matter your age. I’m never going back

    • @jujuraffe3732
      @jujuraffe3732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I deleted FB, Twitter, and Snapchat as well. Not Instagram yet but I don’t post anything and I barely have followers. I am also 19 yrs old.

    • @cucumbercoo7816
      @cucumbercoo7816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I deleted Twitter, facebook, Instagram. Never used TikTok.
      Only kept WhatsApp which I later muted 95% of the statuses .
      My life has never been happier😁

    • @latroletteeeee
      @latroletteeeee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I like pasta

    • @purple_latte1441
      @purple_latte1441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so glad I decided to delete it for the time being.

    • @funkyfella197
      @funkyfella197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I deleted Facebook, snapchat like 4 years ago, never used instagram (literally I dont know how it looks like). The only thing I use in Internet is TH-cam and Google. Im 24 now.

  • @_roseanevieira
    @_roseanevieira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2946

    The problem has never been Instagram or Facebook, but the human being who likes to compare with others and want to live the lives of others.

    • @SpoiledLocGurl
      @SpoiledLocGurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Social media just allows them to let that side of them show.

    • @angelofdeath275
      @angelofdeath275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      social media was engineered to exploit that aspect of human behavior. look up videos of how instagram, facebook, twitter, etc were made

    • @hoenn4ever829
      @hoenn4ever829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      True. People need to stop being so insecure nowadays to the point that they have to share fake photos and videos on social media. It's just weird how people think their self-worth and self-esteem is gained through posting those fake photos and videos.

    • @Jerard715
      @Jerard715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rose Vlogs how does one get rid of the habit of comparing and wanting to live the life of others?

    • @inbredjesus9188
      @inbredjesus9188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Jerard715 REMOVE YOU FROM MEDIA. WE BELIEVE IN YOU

  • @patriciawatkins9539
    @patriciawatkins9539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    My husband and I went out for breakfast and we noticed that everyone around us were on their phones. Father with his young son, mom & dad and teen son, young couple with their toddler who was on a tablet. I felt so sad for the kids. What a perfect opportunity for families to talk and connect. We didn't give our son a cell phone until he entered high school. We don't allow phones at meal times or when we're out at restaurants. It's just gotten so out of hand. It's no longer for convenience, it's an obsession, an addiction.

    • @btryx9378
      @btryx9378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How did you get your son to not be bitter about not giving him cell phones until high school and all the rules? If i ever have a kid I want to do the same thing, but Ive seen my relatives' kids be unbelievable spiteful against their parents because of this.

    • @mochi8632
      @mochi8632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not letting your kid use the phone at the table is an error. You don't need to put rules, you need to make him appreciate the time spent connecting.
      I never had any rules about phones, and still every time I sit at the table with my family or friends I am the only one wanting to talk face to face, socialice and stop using the phones.
      What you are doing to your son is useless.

    • @donotneed2250
      @donotneed2250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mochi8632, THAT is your problem. "Never had rules." When dinner is served in my house cellphones are not allowed at the table. Do so and YOU and your PHONE may be going out the door. You will get only one warning.

    • @mochi8632
      @mochi8632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@donotneed2250 Why tho? Also, you don't have any power over me so you can't tell me what to do.
      But if you do this to a kid without even an explanation then you are abusing them. You are making them fear you, they will not value any time spent with you because you are creating an abusive relationship.
      This will only make them more rebellious and hope to not see you ever.

    • @donotneed2250
      @donotneed2250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@mochi8632, is not child abuse. House rule and the same thing goes for adults.🤷🏼‍♂️ If you find that you have issues with my house rules then don't visit. Simple. If I take it from you I will toss it out on the grass the first time. Next time it hits the walkway.

  • @Wayne_GudaGuda
    @Wayne_GudaGuda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1079

    My teacher once said: the only reason you feel unhappy is because you comparing your life with other's

    • @kramer1372
      @kramer1372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      .. “comparison is the thief of joy”...Twain, i think...

    • @OnionStyle
      @OnionStyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Super nice quotes right there, i love it!

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well...not the only reason, for áll misery ofcourse, but when it comes to instagram, then yes.

    • @aliciamoon9816
      @aliciamoon9816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Definitely a reason many people are unhappy, but not the only reason.

    • @recallworld
      @recallworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true 👍💯...

  • @videogamemaster7201
    @videogamemaster7201 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3354

    It's all a vicious cycle cos 98% of ppl watching this video will still go back and continue this loop.

    • @videogamemaster7201
      @videogamemaster7201 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Dennis Portillo If that's not you then that's not you 😃

    • @gglollipop407
      @gglollipop407 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So true that what I was thinking xD

    • @videogamemaster7201
      @videogamemaster7201 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@gglollipop407 Respect

    • @gglollipop407
      @gglollipop407 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@videogamemaster7201 ❤

    • @natec6180
      @natec6180 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Its an addiction.

  • @mariekano9730
    @mariekano9730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2142

    27 year old and I quit Facebook ten years ago. Never even attempted to use Instagram. All I have is TH-cam. Best thing I've ever done

    • @kinakk6260
      @kinakk6260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yupp

    • @Usersifa
      @Usersifa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same

    • @sk369ge
      @sk369ge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Same, just shame that TH-cam is turning into something similar 😅

    • @sapnapbgxx2087
      @sapnapbgxx2087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @denisataylor6027
      @denisataylor6027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All I use is TH-cam, same for me.

  • @harleyspeedthrust4013
    @harleyspeedthrust4013 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I once dated a girl who was always on Instagram. It wasn't this bad but she was literally always scrolling thru Instagram. I had to explain to her that it's rude to be on her phone when we're eating together or when I'm trying to have a conversation with her but she still didn't get it. Unfortunately that wasn't nearly the worst of her problems but now I know that being on social media all the time is a red flag

  • @Lidia.M.R
    @Lidia.M.R 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2457

    I was at my in-laws for Thanksgiving and my Sister-in-Law would not let anyone eat until she got THE perfect picture of the dinner table all set up. Kids are screaming, everyone is hangry, and she is just snapping away... it was pure chaos. She ruined Thanksgiving dinner... But her post made it seem like everything was wonderful and peaceful. Completely disconnected from reality...

    • @Ramiz422
      @Ramiz422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Sad this is common everywhere. I was at this tourist spot few days ago and it was a beautiful sun View that day and people are busy taking selfies and i was enjoying the view laughing at them in my mind.

    • @sarahdcollins_
      @sarahdcollins_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Wow… I totally know what you mean. That’s why I decided not to force pictures on Christmas. Just spend time with family cooking and bring together

    • @abhinavdesai9035
      @abhinavdesai9035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This is exactly what happens when I and my friends hang out

    • @jennifercarrion-panti2834
      @jennifercarrion-panti2834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :(

    • @veiserexab1428
      @veiserexab1428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Can you really blame her for making memories but yeah it's affecting others, I usually take pictures or videos but I don't really post them
      Just keeping them in the hard drive who knows if you get old at some point and see the nostalgia

  • @dominiquerichard3266
    @dominiquerichard3266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +754

    I think we've become addicted to social media and we need to focus in whats really important: family, friends and nature.

    • @jhonvvick1289
      @jhonvvick1289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Talk to yourself some dont even know what social media is

    • @tulisen6328
      @tulisen6328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so true.... nature❤

    • @renatus20058
      @renatus20058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@jhonvvick1289 But almost everybody does. I'm just saying, we can't argue with the fact that a lot of people knows social media and uses it a lot, but for the wrong purpose, which is one of the problematic things nowadays.

    • @jhonvvick1289
      @jhonvvick1289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@renatus20058 no, I dont fuckin care, everybody uses it because they are ordinary people. Social media is garbage that makes you sick

    • @AlexandraAnnette
      @AlexandraAnnette 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      emphasis on nature

  • @tentandoumcover
    @tentandoumcover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6235

    When I feel sad because people living better than me, I will see this video again.

  • @TheLoneWolf51395
    @TheLoneWolf51395 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    1990s: Happy Humans
    2020s: Happy Pictures

    • @americandissident9062
      @americandissident9062 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No one going to mention that it’s really old people who are OBSESSED with Facebook?

    • @CharlenePierre710
      @CharlenePierre710 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I won't any of this false. + Around me. I let them with this, false. Keepin'. ❤ I have nothing inside.

    • @StratosAsa
      @StratosAsa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really!!

  • @sasakiumiquema9608
    @sasakiumiquema9608 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3434

    When the only soul media you have is TH-cam...

    • @sasakiumiquema9608
      @sasakiumiquema9608 7 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      *social

    • @내가리민호조아안녕
      @내가리민호조아안녕 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sasaki Umiquema same

    • @isauraroberta1
      @isauraroberta1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I only have TH-cam/Instagram but I Dont use a Lot.

    • @tiya1571
      @tiya1571 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sasaki Umiquema same 😂

    • @soggypotato1
      @soggypotato1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      TH-cam isnt social media, it's a sheep in wolf's clothing, it's a predator ready to pounce, it's a lowlife thief that steals your sanity, grammer, and intelligence away from you.....
      *And I'm one of the people addicted to it.*

  • @koynanath1379
    @koynanath1379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3269

    "Instagram isn't the real life. It's the filtered life."

  • @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689
    @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1773

    Instagram started to teach me to be envious..
    I come from a very humble family where am taught to appreciate every little thing that comes my way..
    Social media made feel the exact opposite.
    Deleting my social media accounts has been the most wonderful thing I have ever done!
    My life is less stressful!!

    • @maxill1060
      @maxill1060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I did it too months ago
      And I'm feeling much better
      When I was on insta I always felt like I was trapped
      But now I found my happiness 😊

    • @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689
      @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@maxill1060 happy for you sis!🤩

    • @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689
      @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Stephanie Maria 3 years! Wow! You deserve a gold medal!🏅
      Kudos to you!👏🏽

    • @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689
      @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Stephanie Maria lol.
      Praise and honor received for an achievement.
      You deserve that! 3 years free from social media ain't a joke at all.
      Once again, kudos to you!🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689
      @mwangalamusialelaamwalana3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Stephanie Maria awww.. your kind is rare nowadays, so rare.

  • @CountOfMonteCristo_
    @CountOfMonteCristo_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    My ex recently dumped me, I understand I messed up by being insecure but GOSH DANG boy even two weeks after she dumped me she posted herself out with new people and she seems so “happy.” I have personally been staying silent on my socials becsuse I feel no need to fake anything, but she is posting waaaay to much with people she literally just met; they seem so happy and it honestly hurts me, because it made me believe I was just replaceable. This video has certainly helped me come back to reality.

    • @archanakumaridasgupta5536
      @archanakumaridasgupta5536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      She's faking it. It would be different if she rewired and actually spoke to those people again, made friends, or posted something new. And in moderation. I too don't feel that urge anymore. Locked myself from facebook around September end, and it only did good.

    • @deepjyoti2445
      @deepjyoti2445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      everyone in social media is chutiya.. I've cut off myself from insta, fb, TH-cam since 4-5 years

    • @Iegs
      @Iegs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deepjyoti2445 what are you doing on here now 😂☠️☠️☠️🧡🧡🏫🤓💊😭💕😭😿❤️‍🩹🤲❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹😿♻️😁💝💕💝😿💝😿💝💀

    • @shivangi6228
      @shivangi6228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Bro everything apart, BLOCK HER FIRST TF

    • @marteumar8429
      @marteumar8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@archanakumaridasgupta5536 she may not be faking it. If she dumped him there’s the possibility she was eager to be single and is happy now. If he was The Who dumped her and now she’s doing the most with her posts then it would be likely she’s faking.
      It’s true that most things on social media is exaggerated, some things are outright fake, but every on social media is not fake. I think some people like to believe so as a cope mechanism.

  • @Bakaj1989
    @Bakaj1989 7 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    I stopped posting on Instagram before I saw this video, I felt like people don't like your pictures because they really do like them but because they want you to hit the like button when they post a picture. They see your picture hate, judge and criticize you then they hit the like button. It's so misleading and fake.

    • @evaristarnelson8303
      @evaristarnelson8303 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Baraa Jawabreh very true

    • @clampgodej4788
      @clampgodej4788 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Straight facts

    • @rayva1
      @rayva1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baraa Jawabreh so why haven’t you done the same thing with TH-cam bruh?

    • @zubisstar508
      @zubisstar508 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You hit the nail on the head 👍

    • @enydnightshade
      @enydnightshade 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes and some people will follow you then will unfollow you days later! What the..

  • @Daaywe
    @Daaywe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +904

    I deactivated my instagram and my facebook a week ago, you realize how addicted you were to these social networks when you don't use them and you feel abstinence, like a drug.

    • @cristianamelchior2975
      @cristianamelchior2975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Me too! I'm one month off of instagram and I couldn't believe the amount of times I automatically unlocked my phone and went searching for the app icon that first week...

    • @bellainbuenosaires
      @bellainbuenosaires 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Preach!

    • @Emsyaz
      @Emsyaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey babez, iz you married?
      I wantz to marry you 😍
      🤣🤣🤣 pretending to be simp

    • @harleen0007
      @harleen0007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Emsyaz 🤣🤣👍

    • @butter1367
      @butter1367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yah finna do the same with titkok

  • @vendyk6221
    @vendyk6221 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2326

    This video made me sad. I like social media, but when we're with friends or family, we should put our phones down and talk to each other.

    • @floydharris4736
      @floydharris4736 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      absolutely agree

    • @lliii76
      @lliii76 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah agree

    • @JajarMekatz
      @JajarMekatz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wendyss Ka ohhh me too :(

    • @diinii100
      @diinii100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wendyss Ka nowadays when I go to the foodcourts, ppl are busy w their gadgets rather than w their companion.

    • @flaviasouza7095
      @flaviasouza7095 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree!

  • @gracezachariahh
    @gracezachariahh ปีที่แล้ว +40

    6 years later, it’s 2023, and not a thing has changed.

    • @MalissiaCreates
      @MalissiaCreates 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s now monetized

  • @mixflip
    @mixflip 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11465

    Lol....it seems like it's all about bragging and making others feel envious....and it's all about getting those likes!!!!

    • @PS1604
      @PS1604 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      EXACTLY

    • @jchuck1737
      @jchuck1737 6 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      That's why I don't use social media. I have it but I don't dwell and spend my time in there.

    • @husamhanieh9287
      @husamhanieh9287 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I still don't understand that concept of pity and likes, whether I receive 1 or 100 what I post will never be fraudulent.

    • @majestic6303
      @majestic6303 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Your absolutely right!

    • @colingznetwork781
      @colingznetwork781 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      mixflip I just do it for fun

  • @LaRusso
    @LaRusso 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3404

    This is why I completely quit social media, it's full of absolute nonces trying to make their lives seem better than they actually are.

    • @Goldblooded559
      @Goldblooded559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      LaRusso i also quit too..its been a year and im actually happy i did🤗

    • @markcelemen
      @markcelemen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      LaRusso *nonsense

    • @sk1ttle314
      @sk1ttle314 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I also quit and I miss absolutely nothing!

    • @AntonnyTan
      @AntonnyTan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I only have facebook now for reading things not for social update.

    • @user-yr3uj6go8i
      @user-yr3uj6go8i 6 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Well, you didn't completely quit social media since you're obviously using TH-cam currently. I strongly believe what you meant to indicate is that you now currently use the internet much more sagaciously wasting less precious time such as receiving an autodidactic education.

  • @Genz_Sage
    @Genz_Sage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2495

    People: Why are you not active on social media
    Me: I don't feel insecure about my presence in this world.
    ....... Guess am not the only one.

    • @jyotirajnath8651
      @jyotirajnath8651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @JustArtHobbies That's a good one 👍

    • @e_kychkina9170
      @e_kychkina9170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      People: why don’t you post anything? Are you a real person?
      Me: I live my offline life. I’ve got no time to write, shoot and edit posts 😂
      My SMM manager: you 🤬
      Me: sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m not going to lie about myself, “two posts a year” is me, could hire a copywriter, but it would be a lie.

    • @federicapiottoli6922
      @federicapiottoli6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I don't know man. Maybe if you weren't insecure you wouldn't feel the need to judge others because they make different choices

    • @Genz_Sage
      @Genz_Sage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@federicapiottoli6922 but i need to answer them right

    • @federicapiottoli6922
      @federicapiottoli6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Genz_Sage what?

  • @suparnabiswas2134
    @suparnabiswas2134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Today is my birthday. I don't post photos on any social network this is my life a starting point that's a big message for me and thank you very much. Enjoy yourself not showing other’s people.

  • @honeybun7926
    @honeybun7926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1661

    This is why I do not have social media anymore. I want to be authentic to myself and also it causes me a great deal of anxiety and depression.

    • @ThistleBeinnstudio
      @ThistleBeinnstudio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Same! I feel so free now!

    • @cyborg4099
      @cyborg4099 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too

    • @taekonea1145
      @taekonea1145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me tooo

    • @HeathLynM92
      @HeathLynM92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I still have them but it’s as if I don’t because I haven’t been on them in months lol

    • @lh4864
      @lh4864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      So true. I know some people can function fine with social media but I am definitely not one of those people. I tried so hard to stop comparing myself to others and seeking validation in likes/comments/messages/retweets/etc. but I'd fail every time. Life without social media is pretty isolating and you quickly realize who your real friends are and who you want to always stay in touch with.

  • @wolfgoddess7294
    @wolfgoddess7294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    For the last girl, with the boyfriend? I feel like social media posts like that are a huge reason why people are surprised when they break up; from the outside it all seems perfect :(

    • @yvonneumuhoza4622
      @yvonneumuhoza4622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      true you really don't know what goes behind the scenes

    • @caooue7047
      @caooue7047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes I was that girl.. looks so good but in reality just fights.. and ppl on u like why did u break up with so and so.. you guys were so cute together ?!?!?

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it is. Because our lives are so filtered from the truth

    • @jayg5391
      @jayg5391 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because no one’s life is that interesting. Filters and background work great too.

  • @relic6457
    @relic6457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2519

    I feel sad for people who need cconstant validation and recognition

    • @mahoganysoul7195
      @mahoganysoul7195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I know it's sad , lack of self love.

    • @Grand-julius
      @Grand-julius 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Dont feel so sad for them, they sometimes hurt people if they don't get enough attention

    • @wowholadaw429
      @wowholadaw429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      U do realize youtube is also Social media do u.

    • @lexiboo8671
      @lexiboo8671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      reli:c and likes

    • @m.g.d4721
      @m.g.d4721 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      reli:c yes😔what worries me are young people relying on that for their self esteem/ self worth

  • @raphaeleprovost5826
    @raphaeleprovost5826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm a french teenager, and we studied this video in english class. The name of the lesson was ''performing in social networks'' . We spoke about it and I think it's a very good thing to have this prevention level at school. :)

  • @norinbegum6473
    @norinbegum6473 7 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    People on social media feel the need to post every aspect of their lives. Instead of enjoying the moment they would rather take a picture of it and show everyone else that they're 'enjoying' it. I was once like this

    • @Window4503
      @Window4503 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Norin Begum
      So true. I went for a walk without my phone yesterday and I had to constantly fight the urge to take pictures... not that I could.

    • @roxysandru7740
      @roxysandru7740 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Norin Begum
      tbh the only social media i “post” on is snapchat and i only send pictures like black background with the hour or sometimes some text lol. i don’t like posting my life on social media, and the only reason i do it on snapchat is because of the snapstreaks i started long ago

    • @faridaakbarli288
      @faridaakbarli288 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me 2. Finally I found the right way, N I deleted Ig

    • @adaezenjoku7527
      @adaezenjoku7527 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm on social media but I barely use it to post pics, i use it for communication, like i found the instagrams of people I knew a long time ago and I'd lost their phone number

    • @dribbeldiejustiz
      @dribbeldiejustiz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I Go to Lot of Partys bc my Boyfriend is a DJ and Most of the time i enjoy the time with the other people on the parties or Dancing Don't Using my Phone but i Take Like 3-5 Pictures and Vids.I Like to Share my memories but i just want to feel it too,Like tf Being always on the Phone when other Friends are around you? how unrespectful

  • @kuwaitipatroitic4274
    @kuwaitipatroitic4274 7 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    I'm on the edge of quitting social media. The fakeness we portray and see from others on daily basis is driving us crazy. I do even catch myself doing it occasionally I'm not sure if it's really a gap within us that we're trying to fill or in my case it was kinda a rivarly type of thing.

    • @enydnightshade
      @enydnightshade 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I think because social media is like something we own. Like our personal space. Like there are no rules but our own. We can control it on the way we want it. When we want and where we want it. Anything that we cannot achieve instantly or express from a normal non social media relationship/life, we can put or say in social media. Social media is instant gratification that it can be addicting. And while being addicted, what's true and what is make believe can be mixed. That's when we can go to extremes bcos it's is gratifying. I want to explain my opinion more but i just have little hard time elaborating it. I dont use my FB anymore. Twitter is useless to me. I visit my instagram once in a while. You Tube is what i enjoy. Hehe..

    • @totalbasedcan1676
      @totalbasedcan1676 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Quit it best thing i ever did!

    • @ivansantos1596
      @ivansantos1596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I have never entered, I only use WhatsApp and Messenger just to chat with my friends.

    • @elygurl02
      @elygurl02 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PREACH

    • @pinwheel8723
      @pinwheel8723 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you should definitely do it if you just want to live your life. i left all social medias because everyone only cares about what others think and its so depressing.

  • @BeamPlays
    @BeamPlays 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10000

    Do people actually do this? I only use social media to look at memes

    • @chrisesparza3786
      @chrisesparza3786 6 ปีที่แล้ว +458

      Rising Spirit sadly they do. thats why i deleted facebook and instagram. kept snapchat though

    • @gladzmt6505
      @gladzmt6505 6 ปีที่แล้ว +275

      me too.!😂😂 most of my newsfeed is all about memes!😆

    • @makavelishakur7930
      @makavelishakur7930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Rising Spirit yes. I HAVE A 16YR OLD STEP DAUGHTER WHO DOES THIS EVERY SPARE SECOND SHE HAS!

    • @StarfireRebirthCM
      @StarfireRebirthCM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      For real. 99 out of 100 posts on my home page on fb are memes.

    • @thomase13
      @thomase13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I thought the same thing - this seems unbelievable to me!

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      @BomaBayciti 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @JackieShroff-g1i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @mapleleaf3803
    @mapleleaf3803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1685

    I deleted my facebook account around three years ago. I NEVER want to go back to social media. My husband and I are actually talking about unplugging from mainstream tech and switching to flip phones for awhile to see the impact it can have on our mental health and culture in our home. I pray we succeed in that decision. 💛

    • @cristoldsouza521
      @cristoldsouza521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      It's going to be a great decision

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      the 2 worst people i met in my travels were 2 Europeans with no FB accounts. Even the coolest people have an account. They just never used it though. They dont post anything... but they on bday, you can at least get a greeting. So FB is not so bad. Just dont add friends and family.

    • @blumacaw9399
      @blumacaw9399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@eduardochavacano why do you say they're the worst? what did they do?

    • @amyhudson1016
      @amyhudson1016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If you do, can you do a video on the process and outcome 😃

    • @loop78
      @loop78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope you never read this because you're too busy living your life instead of wasting it watching other people. I think I might just give it up too. ❤

  • @christianvaldez755
    @christianvaldez755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2493

    Quitted social media for one month, much more motivated

    • @dsouza6
      @dsouza6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      More power to youu

    • @turtlefeesh
      @turtlefeesh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      congratulations you just made the best decision of your life

    • @Bell_414
      @Bell_414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I did too..

    • @HelloMedicAnkit
      @HelloMedicAnkit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's been 6 months or so...

    • @vivac995
      @vivac995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Now in quarantine? How?? But I'll try, thanks for the ideas😀

  • @cherrymarlboro
    @cherrymarlboro 7 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    so they all just looking at eachothers photos like "oh thats cool let me go lie too"

    • @chamomile_coffee5667
      @chamomile_coffee5667 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jamee Ganal yeah basically

    • @grapeyakultgreentea
      @grapeyakultgreentea 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      they see others' photos (which are fake) but they're convinced that other people are having better lives than them (since everyone in their pics are perceived as perfect and nothing else) so they decide to do the same to make themselves feel better... it's sad how none of their posts are genuine

    • @ichspiellp3685
      @ichspiellp3685 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @Leah0119
      @Leah0119 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jamee Ganal lool yeh sad truth😂..so messed up man

    • @TheOrangeButterfly333
      @TheOrangeButterfly333 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

  • @Matilda130_
    @Matilda130_ ปีที่แล้ว +25

    We've made stalking anyone else's life and comparing so easy and normalised that we don't even realise it's a huge problem!

    • @Justbefrl
      @Justbefrl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yass relatableee

  • @helloworld2054
    @helloworld2054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1308

    The grass always looks greener on social media.

    • @FRLLFC
      @FRLLFC 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      unless it is fake, like artificial turf :D

    • @zayanbasheer5565
      @zayanbasheer5565 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahahhahahaha

    • @HuangLiYu1401
      @HuangLiYu1401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It looks greener but in reality is it really greener??

    • @yahyabahsh669
      @yahyabahsh669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The sea is always clearer in social media. I am maldivian and lived most my life here and i have never seen sea as clear as the pictures

    • @Danirey02
      @Danirey02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sally Sadly good point

  • @shymac5071
    @shymac5071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    The last one is one of the main reasons i broke up with my ex..she was always posting pictyres like that just to show people how "happy" she was

    • @moody6108
      @moody6108 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ShyMac Good thing I never have the urge to take pictures with my bf

    • @tubeaesthetics768
      @tubeaesthetics768 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ShyMac picture*

    • @nannanonni2820
      @nannanonni2820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So you can make her "happy"

    • @vicokhangtravel
      @vicokhangtravel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So that mean she wasn't happy, that why you disappointed?

    • @MrSilentrage123
      @MrSilentrage123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my god same. She was drowning in a stew of depression but on Facebook she’s doing just great. I was like fu

  • @SuperAvocadoo
    @SuperAvocadoo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +794

    Ironic how this depressing reality has a upbeat music background playing.

    • @MrDanSpank
      @MrDanSpank 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I think that's the purpose of the video. Everything is ok all the time, when in reality, it's not.

    • @Smashingpumpins
      @Smashingpumpins 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omfg

  • @Dockif
    @Dockif ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Yeah, that’s the reason why I no longer using social media, and I’m so happy with that, my mental health have been improved a lot and I literally have more extra time doing what I always want, I hope that the these words are helping you guys, who are struggling and felling bad of yourself. ❤❤❤ thanks for reading

  • @pragtisharma9465
    @pragtisharma9465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +867

    People are so busy trying to impress this world they forget that their is a world inside them

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏👏👏

    • @Lyoto1994
      @Lyoto1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said 👍😔

    • @mrtruthhurts2307
      @mrtruthhurts2307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truth

    • @James_follows_Christ
      @James_follows_Christ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Clay Art Jaz a person doesn’t know truly who they’re from experience until they’re know who and where true Loves comes from and is, Jesus Christ.

    • @preecha.
      @preecha. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Touched!

  • @GeorgeGewk
    @GeorgeGewk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +617

    social media ---> egocentricity and narcissism ---> misery
    People are NOT socializing in social media, they are literally competing AGAINST each other and constantly seeking more and more attention from others. We are not supposed to compete against each other, but to help and give love to each other. If you really want to find your self-respect and your happiness, start spreading sincere kindness and love to this world every single day. "Strong people don't put others down.They lift them up".

    • @LelouchAlberto
      @LelouchAlberto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The best comment here. Nice!

    • @rotting.tomato
      @rotting.tomato 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks for this, i just want to let you know that i copied your comment so i can have an answer on my online essay (insight of the video)

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @anthonydavenport7131
      @anthonydavenport7131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👋🌊🌄

    • @purebubbles
      @purebubbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      great words and great reminder. I don't want social media. I want a social life

  • @partly_sunny1955
    @partly_sunny1955 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1587

    Talk about a depressing reality, Who remembers chilling with a group of friends who weren’t looking at their phone screen every 3 mins? (Sigh) 2007 Good ol days

    • @14rings24
      @14rings24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Bro stop stereo typing us.. we use social media yeah but where not obsessed and look on it 24/7

    • @partly_sunny1955
      @partly_sunny1955 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      14 Rings You sure? Don’t be to blind and look around.

    • @Joy-bc3cs
      @Joy-bc3cs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was born in 2007 😂😂 but I get your point

    • @callmecoolo2950
      @callmecoolo2950 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Idk most people i know arent on their phones 24/7.

    • @ritikjain4256
      @ritikjain4256 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Joy-bc3cs what are you doing here kid?

  • @Eagle-q6d
    @Eagle-q6d ปีที่แล้ว +31

    No insta, no Twitter, no snap, no FB in our family. Happy without them. Free to live without telling or showing everything to everybody.

    • @Eagle-q6d
      @Eagle-q6d ปีที่แล้ว

      @Solace good and wise choice

    • @sanathbharadwaj999
      @sanathbharadwaj999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy without Social media or the Family? 😂

    • @Eagle-q6d
      @Eagle-q6d ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sanathbharadwaj999 have no social média and à wonderfull family who has no social média.AlhamdouliLah

    • @Eagle-q6d
      @Eagle-q6d ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sanathbharadwaj999 I guess " your family" is social media😏

  • @ksubyslowed
    @ksubyslowed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1169

    Been off social media for a little over a year now. No Snapchat , No tumblr , No Facebook , No Instagram . Night and day difference.

    • @stim178
      @stim178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      But you're on TH-cam 😂

    • @ksubyslowed
      @ksubyslowed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@stim178 ? what does that mean

    • @stim178
      @stim178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@ksubyslowed TH-cam is also social media.

    • @-freya-
      @-freya- 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@stim178 No it's a place to watch videos

    • @stim178
      @stim178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@-freya- according to Google, "Yes. Though you may only be familiar with TH-cam as a place to watch funny videos of laughing babies and puppies, TH-cam has firmly established itself as a social mediawebsite."

  • @bellaisme1761
    @bellaisme1761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +906

    Someone once said being famous on Instagram is the same as being rich in monopoly ...... made so much sense

    • @lazzy5173
      @lazzy5173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But my friends used to make fun of me because I had way lesser followers than them

    • @HeyImAedRianne
      @HeyImAedRianne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@lazzy5173 They do not care. Everyone is minding own problems. So sister... You don't need to worry.
      But I just want to tell you that Jesus Loves you and the Lord did not forgot about you. I love you ❤️ Fighting! Do not make things control you hihi

    • @Practicalinvestments
      @Practicalinvestments 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lazzy5173 exactly, read mans comment again and draw the comparison, the friends making fun of you are rich in monopoly money but meaningless in the rest of the world

    • @Annieloool
      @Annieloool 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But in instagram they get real money, don't they?

    • @johnnycage4135
      @johnnycage4135 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Annieloool sure you get but it's not enough to buy you bread and butter

  • @ariana-kd7qn
    @ariana-kd7qn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1874

    2:12 why he put on heels if they don't appear in the photo?

    • @internationalmusiK06
      @internationalmusiK06 5 ปีที่แล้ว +547

      To get in the mood

    • @nawel9251
      @nawel9251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      @@internationalmusiK06 best answer ever

    • @pamelagarnace
      @pamelagarnace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      brokenjaw that’s another part of you easily getting lied by these catfishes

    • @yiemyi3136
      @yiemyi3136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ppykare1 you should stfu

    • @nhefy
      @nhefy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I HAVE THE SAME QUESTION

  • @thx473
    @thx473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Here are some ways social media can improve-
    1) Remove like/dislike system
    2) Relabel "Followers" To "Connections"

    • @naufal_hakim
      @naufal_hakim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thats kinda cool

    • @alisa7012
      @alisa7012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      that means no fun for many companies 😐

    • @danielapolo7346
      @danielapolo7346 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alisa7012they need to create an own space

    • @primrosec.2045
      @primrosec.2045 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @thx473 whilst I get the point you're trying to make, I unfortunately don't think using the word 'connections' will make any difference or make people become 'aware'. Facebook already uses the term 'friends', and we all know how most people don't even speak to the 'friends' that are connected to their account. For this reason, I think the word 'followers' captures the reality of what people are doing, when they connect to a person's social media account, quite accurately.

    • @Secritas
      @Secritas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is wise

  • @khalifashadow
    @khalifashadow 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    They said taking picture is to keep the memories, but that's not the case for today's world, it's more like bragging about your boring daily life that you created to make it look "fun", "happy", "luxurious", "my life is perfect", while it actually just for attention and gaining more likes, get a life and stop thinking what other people thinks about you

  • @lh8625
    @lh8625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1405

    The only things people don’t post on social media is their failures and when they’re peeing or pooping

    • @SugaBabieT
      @SugaBabieT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Lol some will post themselves on the toilet😂😂 just nasty ❌

    • @Albin-crow
      @Albin-crow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      They do now on tiktok 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @Mimirules21
      @Mimirules21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      whaddya mean?

    • @user-vu7rv1xf1l
      @user-vu7rv1xf1l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah I have seen on the toilet pics. No one posts a messy wipe though 😂😂.

    • @jaredvalisno7762
      @jaredvalisno7762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And why the fck they would do that?

  • @sedameansstrong
    @sedameansstrong 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1034

    I didnt even notice I was living like this until I deleted my account for a week. 🙈 Resisting the urge to make things look insta-worthy from now on and focusing on actual life. Love it!!!

    • @maria-fq1ud
      @maria-fq1ud 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same!

    • @manon5600
      @manon5600 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same 😌🌻

    • @hibzaokilife1398
      @hibzaokilife1398 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Relate tho

    • @nyx4323
      @nyx4323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      For me it’s the opposite. I never really liked having many social media but I’m just curious so I’ll give it a shot.

    • @sagebreezy
      @sagebreezy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol

  • @Zack_Mee_Nhatz
    @Zack_Mee_Nhatz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    An issue made about 7 yrs ago but still pretty much holds water to this day.

    • @MalissiaCreates
      @MalissiaCreates 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Definitely. And since it’s now monetized, you’re paid to show the best or be quirky or create a brand, an image. Can’t imagine growing up as a teen now where what’s real? The norm is false representation. Shopping at a store but don’t mind the content creator recording his current episode to millions and I’ll be an extra in the background cause I went out of my house. lol Nah, it’s worse.

  • @Marie-ec1ll
    @Marie-ec1ll 7 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    Always knew those "Woke up like this" pics were a lie

    • @morenasutati5326
      @morenasutati5326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Marie Cajalne yea no one can ever woke up like that😂

    • @minhvan9003
      @minhvan9003 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good one 👍👍😂😂

    • @selenophile1235
      @selenophile1235 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +++

    • @IBelievenevermind
      @IBelievenevermind 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie Cajalne Hey single? I'm shy so asking like this way xD, never had a gf :(, so are you?

    • @minervaville
      @minervaville 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      leavemewheneveryoufindsomeoneelseasothersdotoo :( dude. This aint a dating app. Are you sure you’re okay?

  • @sumuqh
    @sumuqh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1761

    Instagram: how different are you from the other people
    Twitter: how people think the same as you

    • @saraabdeyazdan8660
      @saraabdeyazdan8660 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sumukh wise

    • @edward6749
      @edward6749 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Sumukh I agree. But I had a Twitter for 2 months b/c my friends finally talked me into making one and I didn’t really like it. It was just a lot of apathetic posts that people would never say in real life. What really surprised me were that most retweeted/favorited tweets were made from people that were pretty “anti-social” or lacked social skills in real life

    • @earthclad6833
      @earthclad6833 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      St. Petersberg reddit

    • @musicbox8351
      @musicbox8351 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      you FORGOT ABOUT ME FACE BOOK HOW DARE YOU!!!!! I only youtube for half my time whatever

    • @mrs.hudson8224
      @mrs.hudson8224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do not like twitter - it's hard to find communication there...btw no one from people i know have twitter. Maybe 2 or 1 so I don't know whom to subscribe and whom to read and whom to talk or with whom to share my thoughts

  • @ForthDimensional
    @ForthDimensional 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    Been two years I quit social media. I don't know how better it made my life but I can definitely say that it saved me from a lot.of anxiety, panic, garbage and waste of time.

    • @jhustineespinosa3100
      @jhustineespinosa3100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @sunandherflowers5197
      @sunandherflowers5197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @FransceneJK98
      @FransceneJK98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now that’s inspiring!

    • @kris78787
      @kris78787 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TH-cam is also social media though

    • @Tooba-K123
      @Tooba-K123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The moment I deleted my FB and Insta, it took me 2 years to get a better hold of myself. I gave more attention to my studies, stopped comparing myself to others both mentally and physically, gave up trying to be a good friend all the freaking time and not to take my family’s words to heart. All these factors used to make me feel envious of others but now I only do activities that makes me happy such as reading a nice book or drawing and feeling contented with my body and mind the way it is cause no one can be perfect. Now I feel no panic attacks, anxieties and self loathing.

  • @myvideoguy
    @myvideoguy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1:48 I love how you show them putting away their phones for the photo, then are straight back into it - seen it SOOOO many times

  • @whan9551
    @whan9551 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    fake people fake attitude

    • @dancolombo6050
      @dancolombo6050 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Wenny Dornan - and fake friendship, even fake love...

    • @mindblowndudvedos3682
      @mindblowndudvedos3682 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Everything is fake nowadays it's hard to love or to trust somebody wether to love or to not risking yourself to get hurt in the process.

    • @Aaron-zn4vx
      @Aaron-zn4vx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      wtf they are wasting life likethat.I would rather post a video of me eating spicy noodle.its tasty i love food.

    • @Leah0119
      @Leah0119 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wenny Dornan yeh fake fake fake✌

    • @everretwavince1843
      @everretwavince1843 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup her boyfriend is gay. Using her as cover to hide his homosexuality.

  • @Allexandra04
    @Allexandra04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3317

    Never had insta or Facebook, guess I’m not losing anything

    • @k.k.2820
      @k.k.2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      It's a win for you

    • @_pingu00
      @_pingu00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      you're amazing

    • @sharonrooja
      @sharonrooja 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Yay.. So I'm not the only one here! 😂😊

    • @beatabloniarz1859
      @beatabloniarz1859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👍

    • @praneeta1516
      @praneeta1516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too.....👍

  • @bkelly556
    @bkelly556 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2451

    This is how all of the Kardashians and Jenners live.

    • @AfriqueNY
      @AfriqueNY 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Only because we support it

    • @mishkajethwani1114
      @mishkajethwani1114 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      This is how all of us live

    • @Dudettesluv
      @Dudettesluv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@mishkajethwani1114 nah, mostly the kardashians. its their "career"

    • @sshakir2747
      @sshakir2747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @TrustJesus100
      @TrustJesus100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      No...this is how most of north America lives.

  • @Vivekkumar-yr2zd
    @Vivekkumar-yr2zd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Heard this somewhere,
    "Out of 24 hours, people hardly get 24 minutes of true happiness. During this time, the person clicks 24 pictures. Finally, he shares one single best picture magnified with filters, which ruins the mental well-being of next 24 people."

  • @Yararar
    @Yararar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    It's actually really sad...Thankfully I gave up my instagram account a couple of years ago and never looked back. Life has been so much more enjoyable!

    • @georgia673
      @georgia673 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fernanda Good for you! It really does feel freeing!

    • @ragejinraver
      @ragejinraver 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the club

    • @marty30399
      @marty30399 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Fernanda I still have my instagram account,but I don't spend too much time on it.The real struggle is when all your friends are screen addicted and they can't stay five minutes without thei r mobiles!And whatever they do they must post it,that's so hateful

  • @missl5122
    @missl5122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1655

    I deleted all my social media I had the constant desire to be perfect and just be ok it. It was crazy how much time I wasted :/

    • @dorothycelly
      @dorothycelly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      chicken nugget goddess but you're still on youtube honey

    • @sinchasin3611
      @sinchasin3611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      chicken nugget goddess good girl

    • @sinchasin3611
      @sinchasin3611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      antipeesea on TH-cam you actually entertain yourself, watch videos, like TV. You don't try to be perfect or pretend here.

    • @lucijaleban6614
      @lucijaleban6614 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I did the same

    • @MM-MLT
      @MM-MLT 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      chicken nugget goddess
      Yeah Social Media sucks!

  • @afracoskun6096
    @afracoskun6096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2062

    She’s not happy with her boyfriend, but happy with the likes ..

    • @lieutenanttom9733
      @lieutenanttom9733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Just like your happy with your likes

    • @brianwassil3941
      @brianwassil3941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow you're quick

    • @3A_z
      @3A_z 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@lieutenanttom9733 u sir, have earned my respect.

    • @lieutenanttom9733
      @lieutenanttom9733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@3A_z can i slip the slug in you then

    • @djan1264
      @djan1264 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😏

  • @sidenx
    @sidenx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    7 years later, it's in my feed, and in a way it still holds true. They did something wrong to our generation.

  • @Lumbrett
    @Lumbrett 6 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Everybody sitting on their phone when out at a restaurant has always irked me.

    • @spyjonsachurin2101
      @spyjonsachurin2101 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Brett910 SAME! Like okay, sometimes there’s a social media break, I’m guilty of sometimes being on social media but I don’t stay on too long. In real life, I see people socializing, but I don’t go out much, and I’m always paying attention to my company instead of the people around me.

    • @prinzalina7502
      @prinzalina7502 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same with me.

    • @anitafrieda
      @anitafrieda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm to parsimonious for that. Have no data-tariff.

    • @artsiecat3792
      @artsiecat3792 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brett910 we aren't allowed phones when eating out, this way we actually interact with each other 😸

    • @theindianconservative8746
      @theindianconservative8746 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Brett910 I work at a restaurant and let me just tell you it really pisses me off especially when a couple or a date is on there phones

  • @diyaalexy687
    @diyaalexy687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    Yes!! We are the saddest generation with happy pictures

  • @jam3279
    @jam3279 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1672

    I deleted my Instagram and refused to make a Snapchat account. I just can't stand how people are faking their lives and proving that they are always "busy". I just can't stand people who are unfollowing people who they used to follow just to show popularity. I just can't stand how the number of likes define a person of who she/he is. Because if people are truly happy and busy in life, they wouldn't have time to prove to others that they're happy. Personally, when I started limiting my use of social media, I have learned to live in the real world. I have learned to cherish my true friends. I have learned to make genuine memories not to brag to others, but to treasure for myself.

    • @kat6038
      @kat6038 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A failure is not a loss. It's a gain.
      I totally agree with you 👍

    • @andothersmallthings2917
      @andothersmallthings2917 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      A failure is not a loss. It's a gain. Bro it's not that serious.... all I do on snapchat is post pictures of my rabbit.....

    • @Cece-fr7bp
      @Cece-fr7bp 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you....make genuine memories not fake ones to show people how much fun you are having which ain't the case

    • @nina4781
      @nina4781 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeahh I agree

    • @sel6350
      @sel6350 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A failure is not a loss. It's a gain. very well said! this is so true

  • @THALIAXIOMARAPEREZJARA
    @THALIAXIOMARAPEREZJARA ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Cyberbullying is a very serious problem that affects many people, especially young people using social networks.

  • @abrarjunejo
    @abrarjunejo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    What people fail to understand is being a slave to social media. Get out of the house and enjoy life. The more likes you get the more addicted you'll to false recognition. The only person who needs to understand your worth is YOU.

    • @내가리민호조아안녕
      @내가리민호조아안녕 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      abrarjunejo yup

    • @trilljujitsu7642
      @trilljujitsu7642 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Many of them are out of the house when they use social media, lol

    • @lynette599
      @lynette599 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      abrajunejo The irony is that I know my daughter "likes" the posts of people she feels sorry for - so the amount of likes definitely does NOT reflect on how popular you ....it is false recognition.

    • @micaskustomdzignz7169
      @micaskustomdzignz7169 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      abrarjunejo amen

    • @awesomeperson1640
      @awesomeperson1640 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      abrarjunejo I need help. My sister is supposed to be studying because she going to university, and all her focus is on is social media. Also putting makeup up, checking out her stories on ig/Snapchat and it's annoying! She is never gonna go to university and I keep telling her too, she never listens.

  • @Bangel911
    @Bangel911 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1347

    We've come into an age where social acceptance and validation is a much needed feeling to fill the gap of neglected parts of ourselves that weren't fulfilled.
    Instead of recognizing it and fixing it for ourselves, we put tape on it instead because it's too much work. We push others to help us boost our sense of self confidence and constantly put on an air of positivity hoping it will solve eveything like magic.
    These things have always been here and the only difference between then and now is how social media has just made the flaws within ourselves that much more apparent and obvious.
    Social media isn't to blame. The blame has always been onto ourselves. Social media is only a tool and not the cause. We are the cause and we should stop having others do our work for us by trying to fix our problems. Fix your own problems and you'll be glad you did. I promise! 😊

    • @TheParrot1000
      @TheParrot1000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bangel911 truth

    • @cryptidofthemarshes1680
      @cryptidofthemarshes1680 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Bangel911 How does your comment not have 10000 likes

    • @cryptidofthemarshes1680
      @cryptidofthemarshes1680 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Probably because it's the truth that nobody is ready to face

    • @chibigamerlol
      @chibigamerlol 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ginger the Fox mj

    • @haretztj4682
      @haretztj4682 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Bangel911 Your comment is the reason why my English teacher so proud of me for using this comment for english speech.Thx m8 :D .I was going to credit you but I forgot sorry :/

  • @puffyc6373
    @puffyc6373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +780

    It's so sad!! Honestly, the lies that are believed in social media really has an impact on everyone's self esteem.

    • @veiserexab1428
      @veiserexab1428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's just attention seeking people in general
      Some of us use social media for memes

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@veiserexab1428 yeah ok lol

    • @aya_kovv
      @aya_kovv ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely agree with you!
      I hope one day in social media there will be a trend for truth and sincerity and people will understand that they don't have any imperfections, we will stop belittling ourselves.

    • @lee-gf5ep
      @lee-gf5ep ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

  • @digisophy
    @digisophy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Social media is where you try to impress or please people who don't even give a f*** about you in real life, while ignoring the ones who actually are"

  • @MrProphetius
    @MrProphetius 5 ปีที่แล้ว +615

    nothing about social media is social.

    • @sylviabrcic8724
      @sylviabrcic8724 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      MrProphetius should be called internet media

  • @Sudaniya
    @Sudaniya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3007

    No Instagram no Facebook no snap . No social media just cooking on TH-cam for fun 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😂😂😂😂💐💐💐

    • @b.e.1601
      @b.e.1601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Me too✌️

    • @susannanunez1448
      @susannanunez1448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      TH-cam is were it's at🤙💗

    • @a.c.w.1927
      @a.c.w.1927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Same here! The only thing I use is TH-cam and my podcast! I got rid of my Facebook and Instagram almost two years ago and I love not letting the world see my private life! It’s no one else’s business and I don’t feel the need to get attention like that.. I think it’s people that are extremely insecure and need attention . It’s sad and pathetic and makes me cringe seeing stuff like this- nothing real or genuine .. just all fake to try and get attention and likes etc..

    • @susannanunez1448
      @susannanunez1448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Here's a loaded question...does anyone have a SO that participates in Social media...Heavly?...Does it cause problems for you?

    • @a.c.w.1927
      @a.c.w.1927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@susannanunez1448 my (now husband) and I used to have Facebook and it was a problem before bc random girls would try messaging him and commenting on his posts inappropriately so it did cause lots of fights and problems .. but later on we eventually decided to get rid of all social media so neither of us has to worry! I feel like a lot of men and women like it so they can cheat or get attention from others so it’s not good for relationships if your spouse is good looking and likes attention lol

  • @iliveinhogwarts5365
    @iliveinhogwarts5365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    I have always felt so backdated, too ordinary since I started my insta account. People are having such colorful, happy,life. And there I am sitting in my room with books, study and absolutely nothing. I really tried to be like them, like trying reels, make-up and all. But that's not me, and i can't pretend anything. So i just deactivated all my social media account. You know what? I'm genuinely happy and satisfied with no showing off. I'm living my life instead of making fake things.

    • @Jackiesdaughter84
      @Jackiesdaughter84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Love this!! I feel the same

    • @mochi8632
      @mochi8632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "I am not like other girls"
      That's basically your comment.

    • @divine1562
      @divine1562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️

    • @daniel.is.my.brother
      @daniel.is.my.brother ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Honestly. If it makes u feel any better. I do this too. Sure, i go on youtube. But as a senior in high school, I feel like all i do is study, do i feel lonely and depressed kinda. But, at least i am not the only one who does this in my school and many of the most intelligent people i know, RARELY use social media.

    • @crow1628
      @crow1628 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@mochi8632 no. 🙂

  • @DarkPredator011
    @DarkPredator011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am happy that i didn't use anykind of social media except youtube and messaging apps .
    If people really do these things it feels like like they are living in delusion .

  • @ilonawinn4256
    @ilonawinn4256 7 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    What annoys me the most is when I see couples or friends at a restaurant on their phones and not talking to eachother! It just drives me mad! Or worst, I was at a MacDonald's recently where they had put iPads for kids to play whilst eating!! Just TALK!!!

    • @taelenstae1142
      @taelenstae1142 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ilona Winn ohmygod true 😭💔

    • @patch5674
      @patch5674 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They probably are talking, the internet is one of the best methods of communication invented.

    • @matanai8883
      @matanai8883 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agreee

    • @MrKundu-vp7td
      @MrKundu-vp7td 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ilona Winn , yes it annoys me also!!! Couple went out with each other but are busy with their phones!! Another thing is clicking photos after photos of the food and uploading!!! It's like I'm eating the food only to show off!! *So irritating these things are!!* 😥😥😥

    • @Jess-ip2fx
      @Jess-ip2fx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hate thar Ipads so much... Kids this days... but its not their fault

  • @Tyzer8x
    @Tyzer8x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1056

    *“Comparison is the thief of joy”*
    ~ Theodore Roosevelt

    • @kingpluto555
      @kingpluto555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's like my mom once told me, "Don't allow this mean world to take your smile away."

    • @Tiffany-ov2jf
      @Tiffany-ov2jf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If that's true anything can be a thief of joy- overthinking, guilt

  • @allicat_888
    @allicat_888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    deleting insta was one of the best decisions i’ve ever made! i highly recommend

    • @marcomaticc9420
      @marcomaticc9420 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alli Kay wanna hang out?

    • @Ishwarubab
      @Ishwarubab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You did great

    • @YeiYeiC
      @YeiYeiC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good job. I gave it another shot but my friends/people I know still posting the dumbest stories... I don't really care if you're drinking a coffee.

    • @32방탄소년단
      @32방탄소년단 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameeee

    • @muhammadibrahim5633
      @muhammadibrahim5633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I did the same thing. And now i am proud of this decision. It relieved me of so many (read that all) stresses.

  • @eldanijel
    @eldanijel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I deleted my facebook and instagram account as soon as I finished university (almost 2 years ago). I don’t regret it at all. I was always telling my friends that people only post only the best of their lives, and often it's not even real. That could make an average person think "Why is everyone life so much more interesting and better, and how is everyone way happier than me?" But that's a trap, because we are sad and unsocial generation. Also, start tracking your time on phone and "social" apps. You'll be suprised how much time you waste.

  • @samalsonam
    @samalsonam 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Few months ago my friend was suffering from mild depression..he shared his problems with me..I just asked him to quit social media for 1 month..n feel if there is any improvement...guys u won't believe..he has improved so much..

  • @elara5122
    @elara5122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    I always re-watch this video to remind myself social media is fake.

    • @mabelleko7027
      @mabelleko7027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too

    • @elizabethsjourney701
      @elizabethsjourney701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too

    • @hridaspandanarajmedhi3977
      @hridaspandanarajmedhi3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same!!

    • @behappyyy8925
      @behappyyy8925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @MyFirstHandle
      @MyFirstHandle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hmm... we sort of forget what's the point why we use social media in the first place. It's used to spread happiness and show sincere with others and not competing each other. Comparing is kind of the norm in social media quite often now :(

  • @user-gh2lf1zw3r
    @user-gh2lf1zw3r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7179

    I feel sorry for teens today. Everything’s about image.

    • @Karincl7
      @Karincl7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      Teens ? Not only teens

    • @jjsx5347
      @jjsx5347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      well duh image gets you laid

    • @sarah_7251
      @sarah_7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Not everyone is like that

    • @cheerioooo7865
      @cheerioooo7865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@jainil7244 bro? we're not being "cry babies", we have valid complaints about the situation that all of us were born in. and?? there's literally a pandemic going on?? we're not supposed to be going outside to hang out??

    • @lainqinh9350
      @lainqinh9350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cheerioooo7865 and Online classes also hits hard for social teens😂

  • @ishitakothari5095
    @ishitakothari5095 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel so good watching this, it really shows us the "Behind the Scenes" of social media posts.
    Kudos to the creators for this wonderful creation.

  • @Fass47
    @Fass47 7 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    Most people i've met that are like this have been the most miserable in real life.

    • @_ryxn
      @_ryxn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fass47 I couldn't be like that it's so fake reason I left Facebook

    • @sonigarg377
      @sonigarg377 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg so true! I couldn't do this either.

    • @user-hz8tf4gb6y
      @user-hz8tf4gb6y 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ryan x same

    • @rocketangel3543
      @rocketangel3543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      when ur talking something really important but they on the phone😒

  • @jaywolf1998
    @jaywolf1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1296

    “Reality is often disappointing” Thanos.

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    That was so dramatic and time consuming. The older I get (I'm 24) , I became less focused--wayyy less focused on using my phone, taking pictures & I actually enjoy the moment. Talking with friends, communication face to face. We need to bring back those old days

    • @RaffSayN
      @RaffSayN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too.. now I'm rarely take photos when hanging out with friends.. Unlike younger days when I posted photos every day

    • @GRORGvideot
      @GRORGvideot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Seeing as you're still so young and think this way already, I would say we (the world) have a lot of hope.

    • @Sunshinegardens55
      @Sunshinegardens55 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GIRL YES!!

    • @taylorbritt499
      @taylorbritt499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I still take lots of pictures, but that's because I have a really bad memory and want to be able to remember important moments in my life. If I don't capture it somehow I will inevitably forget. HOWEVER I don't let the picture taking overshadow the event. I take one or two pictures, maybe a video of what's going on then put my phone away. The photo/video just serves as a memory trigger.
      I also don't have social media so I'm not posting any of this, I just keep them in cloud storage and send them to others if they want then. It's like keeping a digital scrapbook!

    • @lilegg301
      @lilegg301 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      people go on their phones with their friends? this is why y’all don’t have close friends TALK and people somehow wanna stick to you

  • @chris_gangyi
    @chris_gangyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true. Misled all the time and comparing ourselves to falsehoods and pretences. Pitifully striving for “likes” from insignificant people who don’t even matter. The people who really matter are the ones we interact with face to face, not losers who are addicted to social media.