many families can . it just depends on how much " stuff" u want. some things are worth more than "stuff" . a couple of fancy cars meen alot less to kids than mommy at home. theres no subsitute
As long as you're both happy & respectful of one another, that is the dream of most. Congratulations to you both on building a solid family. Nothing wrong with an alternative lifestyle either, same rules of respect of others should always apply.
I was a trad wife who trusted my husband implicitly until I found out he had multiple affairs, ultimately leaving me & our 4 children with nothing. I had to start from scratch as a single mom of 4. I found a job, went to college and am now a nurse. While I no longer believe women should make themselves this vulnerable, I also acknowledge that she's an adult capable of making her own decisions. If this works for her, I think that's amazing, and she shouldn't care what anyone else thinks.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, thank you for being honest. Apparently Estée was a meteorologist before she gave it up to become a tradwife, and as others have said social media is actually a job. Which means that the cute innocent facade is just an act.
I am also sorry this happened to you. It is a terrible thing to be betrayed by one’s partner in life. The deal is, for most of the time humans have been pairing up in the traditional manner, husbands have been dying on the job, of sickness, and the stupid wars started by Banksters, and they’ve died while having young children and inadequate life insurance. Some have even come home requiring constant care and unable to earn an income. Would you avoid being a traditional wife because of these eventualities? I don’t think the solution to your situation is abandoning the best possible arrangement for the crappy modern solution. If society will not provide the incentives for people to honor their family commitments the way it used to, including supposed churches and clergy, post nuptial agreements could help. If a man files for divorce for any reason besides infidelity or abandonment, on her part, a wife gets 20% of his salary and 50% of his other income on top of child support until she remarries. A woman foregoing her career to provide a superior environment for a man’s family is good and valuable consideration, it is estimated to be worth at least $150,000 a year. This should be the default, but since it isn’t, you can fix it with a contract. Michael Douglas‘s contract pays Catherine $1 million every time he cheats. In a business arrangement, there is no way written dissolution provisions would leave all the income producing assets to one partner, and all the liabilities to the other, nothing wrong with a marriage agreement doing the same.
Make sure your name is on the house and everything and you have some savings in the bank if he decide to leave you. I pray he doesn’t but no one can promise tomorrow
Growing up my mom was the primary breadwinner and my dad managed the childcare, cooking and cleaning. it worked well b/c they were suited for each role, and we were all happier for it. Having a stable & nurturing parent at home makes a big difference for kids, whether it’s a mom or dad. I respect tradwives even if it isn’t for all women, and I respect men who care for their homes and kids even if they aren’t ‘traditional’
I wasn't critical of her until I found out she doesn't even have any children!!!!! How she's able to convince so many she's busy cooking and cleaning ALL day for 2 people amazes me. BTW, let me add, she has 1,000s of male followers...could that be because she almost always is spilling out of her tops!!! LOL
Awww you poor dear. You’re hallucinating that she made videos that insulted women. You should tell your doctor about that cause if you do, you’ll get worser 😥
@@laitofangirl5805 aw, poor dear, you used "worser" in a completely sincere, unironic manner. You should dirty up that brain whilst revisiting English class.
@@MBJK_baby as long as you have good communication, every problem can be solved. For example: You don't have money? Do you have a plan, may I give advise or is there other way I can help you? Many times issues come from not wanting to disclose a bad situation, why couples do that? Because they're taught to tough it up. I as a man have been taught to only disclose when I don't have a way to solve the situation because that way my partner can focus on whatever she does for our better life. Women are usually taught to not disclose problems because she'll be seen as a nuisance but it's the opposite, if you don't tell me, don't expect me to magically have knowledge of the situation or a solution in my pocket. This in fact creates so many issues in the long run because of bad communication or miscommunication. For example, the neighbor is trying to fort with you? If you don't tell me right away and I'm someone with low self-esteem I will do stupid things to both you and the relationship and if I have a high self-esteem then either I believe you when you're in the fire or I just divorce you because I can't trust you to avoid problems. On the other hand, both low and high self-esteem will know right away what's going on if you speak up from the very beginning because you overcame embarrassment or the fear of being thought crazy and will support you or even devise a way to face this situation. All other things like doing housework are secondary to communication. But again they are appreciated because the spouse doesn't need to think about what else is needed to be done when arriving at home and can focus on resting while having a good partner who supports the relationship and home too. I really just want a wife who will have a great communication skill, ie. can talk about what's needed even if it's embarrassing or an assumption because there's trust. She's there not to serve me because she's my wife but because she wants to share her time with me doing whatever she thinks will make me happy or help our home or relationship when all I need from her is a welcome kiss and a hug.
I’m a husband of a traditional wife. Go to church, be part of the congregation, believe in the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind and strength. A good man will be found there.
😂 takes an actual man. All I wanted to be but men these days want Women to still manage household and work which lead to resentment....have to do it all, Rather be alone. Thank god I had skills outside of taking care of a man.
@@AG-nn8lp yep, this is an issue everywhere. The real marriage nowadays should be: One stays at home and takes care of the house while the other goes to work. Both work and both have to share responsibilities at home. But most of the time it's immature people who can't accept the new society and think the house should be only one person's responsibility even though both work. Or both avoid facing reality until they can't survive anymore and start attacking each other.
Help a girly with relationship advice I have two crushes rn but one doesn’t know I exist and the other works with me both are Christian but I can’t like make a move since I’m the woman for some reason🧍♀️
I’m glad you’re a real feminine you support husbandall the way Feminist are not real, laddies they hijack, real feminine ideology they just care about themselves. These people will put a real woman under the bus defend trans women are real woman . This is what every man wants feminine lady, not a feminist
30 years ago I was friends with a couple where the wife was "traditional" and they were always laughing and joking together even though they had been together over 20 years and had four kids. One day I asked them what their secret to getting along was and the husband said "I let her think she's the boss, but I'm really the boss" to which the wife laughed and replied a little bit louder "I let him think HE'S the boss, but I'M really the boss!", as he made a face, and then they both started laughing. I think that's the key to a happy marriage. God blessed you Gilbert and Norma.
@@RestnPepperonis I didn't describe why she was a tradwife, I was only telling about a conversation. If I said she was a tradwife, that meant that she was a stay-at-home housewife and raised the kids. The husband and wife both had a great deal of affection and respect for each other. I was close friends with them both. They were a solid team.
@@jackandblaze5956 stay at home doesnt mean shes tradwife that just means shes a stay at home mom trad wives are submissive and dont put others in there business and saying your the boss aint submissive
Applause to her! There is nothing wrong with being traditional. At one point in our marriage, I homeschooling, ran our household and mom's. Worked on weekends. On the weekends, my hubby ran the household. It worked for us. We were at our best as a real team. He cooks so much better than me anyway.😂
Being a tiktok influencer is anything but traditional you fools. But she's attractive I agree with the only one who's got a brain here. Congrats JPD, you win.
Exactly. You can be a mom and work, but then you're going to have to let go of things in the mom (or parent) category and pay someone else to do them. Let's be real, a working mom does not have time to do much on weekdays besides drive her kid around after work, buy processed food rather than make healthy foods from scratch/produce, is going to do Target pickup rather than shop around for deals, and is going to pay someone else to watch her kid most of the day (including schools via taxes)... Plus her kids are less likely to get the full night's sleep bc otherwise she'll only see them for MAYBE the 2 hours she is busy w/ chores. At the end of the day, most of my income as a working mom went to all of those things (plus gas, a second car, and work clothes). So can't say I was better off financially and my children def weren't better off. All the child rights talk these days, but none of it about a child's right to be raised by their parents in a stable relationship.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder and it takes a village to raise children....not just two people. Babysitter does not equal parent at all. Your views are antiquated
I'm sure he is pleased...she brings in lots of $$$. Do you know any housewives who dress in revealing clothes while baking and vacuuming? She has found a VERY naive audience and it's paying off.
Help a girly with relationship advice I have two crushes rn but one doesn’t know I exist and the other works with me both are Christian but I can’t like make a move since I’m the woman for some reason🧍♀️
I totally agree. As a 49 year old Bachelor, the major reason why I hesitate to ever get married is because I've yet to find a bachelorette that possesses these qualities and skills.
Yeah because you probably do sweet literal fuck all around the house. Of course she's the glue, you'd be without a maid and a chef and no one to wipe your bum and change your diapers if she wasn't around.
@@cryptoffilth8711 No, that’s not God’s natural order. The Bible says in Corinthians, wives submit to your husband in all things and husbands love your wives. They both have their roles and responsibilities however the man ( husband/father) is the head of the family and not the woman. Any man who says his wife is the glue that holds his family together is not a leader and not a Christian. Women are attracted to strong, assertive men who are in control, especially within a family; not weak men who worship at her feet and tell her constantly she’s a princess and the rock of the family. Most women will soon resent this type of man and will see it as weakness, unattractive weakness and many times leave him in the end.
I’m a traditional wife, and have been for 36 years, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Most important job you can have, taking care of your husband, kids, and home. It is a 24/7, thankless job, but it’s the best!
Yes but can you have your own money to buy things or do you have to ask and submit an itemized list? Kidding not kidding. I’m not knocking traditional wives at all. Do you, boo. I’m just curious.
It's definitely not a thinkless job. Most women are the CEO, CFO, COO, Chef, Janitor, Psychiatrist, Nutritionist, etc. There are so many levels of intelligence and skill involved in running a successful household. Never say what you do is thinkless. You are incredible!
@@Puddin_Pi That is a psycho way to look at it. Families are a team, most families the wife handles all the money, husband works and hands it over. There is not a hard and fast way it is done though. This narrative that all husbands or just men in general are controlling, authoritarian beings is truly disgusting. Every relationship I know the partners discuss big expenses together and justify it.
@@kingcosworth2643 I apologize. I’m not saying it’s all bad-all relationships are different and unique. I usually hear the bad side of such traditional relationships.
I am proud to say that my mom is a traditional wife. She's independent. She can cook, clean the house, take care everyone in the family, be active at church community, sew clothes, fix roof, fix most house appliances, took a small business to help my dad, manage family finances, and more. My dad worked 9 to 5, worked at construction after retiring from office, did gardening, served at church, was active in his communities, helped me with lessons, listened to his kids' stories, gave his entire salary for my mom to manage. This traditional couple is the best example in my eyes. They showed what true partners do. I'm glad I have traditional parents. Now, my dad passed away 3 years ago and my mom is still doing the same thing. I never see her as a burden or anything less than an extraordinary person. Blessed you all women. I wish we are all happy with our choices.
@@MBJK_baby Have a backup so you can leave if need be. I'd never tell another woman to leave all her goals behind to stay home because 50/50 odds you'll be divorced with no job or career to fall back on. Scary shite
@@AG-nn8lp I will always have multiple things to fall back on. I have a soap business, I have an older friend that’ll let me work part time at her pizza shop whenever I need (sometimes when she needs lol). I’m planning on starting a TH-cam channel for political commentary as well as a channel I’ll be able to talk about becoming a true Christian and repenting my homosexuality even tho I have bisexual tendencies. My parents own their house and are not planning on selling it and leaving it to me in their will so I’ll be able to rent it if they pass (my parents are both in their mid fifties even tho I’m 17 so I’ve been preparing myself if either passes especially since my dads been having heart issues :/). I have MANY forms of income and this is just as a 17 year old. Obviously I want to have a husband that provides a majority of our money but I will never give up working entirely even if I start an egg and milk sales business or something since I want to own a ranch with my future husband. I will never not work because I do find fulfillment in working, but I don’t want a 9-5 especially since I have adhd and I don’t want to do a dirty/hefty type of job like construction or something since I’m a weak bitch LMAO. I need stuff I’m always actively doing things with wether that’s making pizza or running my own business or being an online personality.
Modern feminists hate this. True feminists, when they were first a thing, would’ve been glad that she was allowed to choose in the first place. She wasn’t obligated and chose this life for herself.
Modern feminist hate this because it exposes their unfulfilled lives clinging to a philosophy that is destructive to women. It’s hilarious that feminists react to this delightful tradwife by trying desperately to convince themselves and others how horribly bad it is to be a traditional woman…Yeah ummm obviously 😂 Yet they respond to tear down and not build up… its the same as all other deceptive ideologies… a philosophy that is just words on paper that do not bring joy and fulfillment but emptiness…
Like any other social media influencer, she’s crafting content based on what she wants us to see, not her unfiltered reality. I think that’s something we often lose sight of. I’m the primary breadwinner in my marriage and that works fine for me and my husband. So long as women have choices and agency in living the kind of life they want to lead, I could care less if some women choose this lifestyle. It’s not one way is right or wrong, it’s doing what works for your marriage.
I was a trad wife and I love it except my ex-husband did turn abusive. Sad bc that’s how I want to live but there are definitely predators seeking out women who are submissive. Anyway, to all the happy trad wives who are loved, safe, and respected-keep being you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Then when your husband leaves you and your kids and you have zero marketable skills to put a roof over your head and that of your children. No thanks. I’ll take financial independence any day.
I’m a traditional wife and I support this woman 100%! “Tradwives” r sick of all this and have had enough! I love my husband and I cherish my life with my hubby and family! This is what fulfills and makes me happy! Quit telling tradwives what to think and feel!
Being a tiktok influencer on internet is the opposite of being a tradwife. A tradwife doesn't care about tiktok. Especially at that pace. She's a paid actor You fools. A caricature.
My husband and I met when we were young..we didn't have anything of value to claim outside of our character...but we worked together to be where we are now..He has his master's and a fantastic job..I stayed home and raised our children and tended to the home..no regrets..over the years I've taken on jobs..mainly providing childcare for others..and now that our kids are teenagers..I have been stepping out into my love of photography... never would change our decision!!! No oppressed.. honored by my husband..he reminds me daily I'm a cornerstone here!!
this generation is allready worthless and ruined , the best we can do now is educate the next generation on proper traditional values, and to be honoust her 50's looks are just a treat for the eyes aswell.
I'm not trying to cause any disrespect.....but if someone chooses to be a traditional wife, then what's wrong with that? I just respect the fact of what she is doing for her family. Just as what I do for my family as a stay-at-home dad.
Yes, we should definatly encourage all women to be tradwives. This is a great idea. Your husband has a 100% chance of dying eventually, possibly dying young in a tragic accident. And you have a 50%chance of divorce. If one of these 2 things happen you now have no real work history, no job, most likely a high school education and a ton of kids to feed. There is spousal and child support but it's not usually enough. I think if you have really young kids it's fine because they need 24/7 attention, but I don't think this is a good position to put yourself in permanently. I also was put off by her husband telling how to dress at home. You marry a partner not a barbie. People should love you for you, not what you look like
I have respect for this woman. I wish that there were more women like her, but maybe someday in the future, I will find one like her. I pray I will have a wife like that. If there were women like her, I wouldn't be so afraid to talk to women or even approach them without fear.
Help a girly with relationship advice I have two crushes rn but one doesn’t know I exist and the other works with me both are Christian but I can’t like make a move since I’m the woman for some reason🧍♀️I wanna have a 50s aesthetic but live like a 40s ranch wife 😂
Some people just prefer to use more traditional roles in their marriage!! There’s nothing wrong with people who choose this dynamic, unless they are forcing other people to be exactly like them! It’s their marriage, not yours
You ladies have the right idea. The ladies criticizing her all submit to a boss (usually male) who is a stranger and doesn’t love and care for them. I don’t see how that’s a better trade off.
The issue is finding a man that can financially support you and kids for the long term.. that cuts out most of the population of men. Cut out the ones you don't find attractive or in your age group.. Then account for your body count. Your left with maybe one in a million for you personally. And even then most traditional, good looking, financially secure men have the means to get a passport and go across seas for even more options.. and that's just what we are doing lately. Not trying to turn you away, world needs more traditional women.. especially in the west, but don't expect the search to be easy.
@@desmondblack5339 I’ll be sure and let my wife know how lucky she is. But it wasn’t luck. She amazes me every day. I feel lucky to have her. She supports me in every way and I fight to make sure she has what ever she needs and wants. Again I’m lucky because her wants are very reasonable.
My Mom was a tradwife. Def handled a lot more than just housework and raising kids let me tell you. When my Dad was out of work and got unemployed; she went to work part time and still was home in time before we got home from school and still cooked a full meal, cleaned, etc. And to this day; I thank her for teaching me cooking/cleaning skills. Seriously one of the strongest women I've ever known. She even cared for my Great Aunt 3x removed that had Alzheimer's, at the time our family took her in on top of everything else. And somehow society; specifically even moreso the modern day feminist movement looks down on that as weakness/servitude? It baffles me to no end. My Mom was is a boss lady and could seriously do everything these so called modern day women could do and still hold her powerful femininity while doing it. Now tell me a lady/woman that does all that on top of raising kids, making sure we were fed as kids AND helping their spouse out with other tasks is a slave; you're seriously misinformed. My Mom's more boss than if she would've had a high paying 6 figure job; in my opinion.
She looks way better than most modern women do. She is glowing with health and happiness. Not burnt out from a job she doesn't have to work since her husband earns enough.
the same ones screaming my body my choice in the streets are the same ones attacking this woman for choosing to be a stay at home traditional wife 🤦♀️😂😂
Wrong I believe live and let live as long as you're not pushing your lifestyle down my throat it makes you happy go for it and I'm pro-choice it's part of being pro-choice I choose how I live and what I do with my body the ground and because it doesn't line up with your view you guys are going to talk s***
@@gothicgirlfriend7375 I think you might have misunderstood the dowry system, which isn't hard to do since it isn't practiced anymore or taught about. The father didn't sell anything, and he wasn't allowed to own or use any of the money from the dowry. He was supposed to hold it in case the son in law could no longer provide for the daughter being married. That could be because of divorce or death. Heck even injury could trigger it. At that point the father uses it to provide for his daughter. There was no alimony or child support or division of property back then, so this was how they dealt with it. It also gave the wife leverage in divorce in case the husband was abusive because if she left she could potentially live off the dowry instead of having to work as a servant or slave.
Lucky guy that’s got a woman like that🙌🏻. He can fully concentrate on work . When my missus was off on maternity it was so much easier. We didn’t have to rush about at all like we did before after work . Wish I earnt more so we could stay that way . She was a lot happier also 🙌🏻
Yah, Trad men need to do their part. Not just making enough today to cover all the expenses, but also putting enough away for the future. You need to get life insurance as well as mortgage insurance that will pay it off if something should happen to you. Because that's really the problem. What happens to the wife and children when the provider is not there anymore.
Let her be! It's her life, her choice. At least she knows her duties as a wife. Nothing wrong with that. Just because she wants to be what she is does not mean she is abused. Some people nowadays just call anything that against their belief, "abuse". She's not bothering our lives with her choice anyway.
The problem is often the proselytising that often goes with the trad wife thing. I don't know this lady but the barbie doll appearance suggests a toxic attitude. Yes she shouldn't be abused for her choice, however she should also not abuse either. Whether its gaslighting, strawmanning or toxicity that leaves women vulnerable to abuse.
@@lizcollinson2692 Who cares if she talks about her lifestyle with other people? Plenty of women who live differently certainly talk about theirs. The only thing toxic I see is you judging her as toxic because of her appearance. There is nothing wrong with how she chooses to live her life.
@@crucialtaunt5717 I'm not judging her specifically as I haven't seen enough of her to judge but especially the Christian sect of trad wife are very toxic. There is alot of coercive control and descriptions of submitting and obedience. If you needs control in a relationship, it's not healthy.
@@lizcollinson2692 blah blah blah buzz words "gaslighting, toxic, strawmanning" - got em all in! Proselytising goes about ten times as much for feminist women so cry us a river
@@poocrayon4588 sorry if many of the people promoting trad wife ideology as superior are toxic. There are some toxic feminists, I agree, any that insist that one way of life is superior. And being cautious of a historically abused way of life being promoted without caution or consideration.
So let me get this straight, people are upset that she’s a traditional woman who takes care of her household while her husband works? Jealousy comes in so many forms 🤦🏽♀️
Imagine women telling us to be free and choose to do whatever we want to do yet when we actually do what we want to do (like deciding being a house wife) then all hell breaks lose? Right… 😂
@@beno.9958 she makes videos for validation from men on social media and now has a career surrounding that… Her audience is mostly men who are simping in her comment section. She’s 25 years old and has been married less than a year. Doesn’t sound very traditional to me. Its very gullible to not have realised that she’s putting on an act because it gets her views and clicks. A quote from her "I definitely didn't grow up in a traditional setting. My parents divorced when I was young and my mum struggled with her kids to make ends meet. At the time, I was a student studying meteorology, but shortly after we met I left college and dropped all means of pursuing a career.” She was a career woman who wanted the easy life, they’ve been dating since 2020 have been married less than a year and still don’t have any children. She’s playing a character.
If she is happy and isn’t directly hurting anyone, who cares. People have the freedom to live how they want, you don’t have to agree with them, and they don’t have to agree with you. If you don’t have anything nice to say or a nice way to say it, don’t say anything at all.
It depends really, i agree on most part, but the trad wife thing often comes with toxic and abusive messages. The kind that can lead to controlling and abusive relationships. Strawmanning and coercion is what may women will react against.
@@lizcollinson2692 The men in those types of relationships are evil men. Real men do not act like that. Good men will not abuse their families. Real men serve and protect their wives and children. Husbands and wives work together to provide a stable and nurturing environment for children to grow up in.
My daughter is the same as you, she is an amazing mother and wife at 24, she is holds so much power in her hand, she is the nurturer, the moral setter the kindhearted but strong role model… well done to all you beautiful inside and out women… stay strong in your roles x
It's so funny that her choice of wanting to be feminine is so awful and despicable, but Dylan Mulvaney is celebrated on a red carpet. Double standards much?
All the women critiquing her lifestyle are just jealous, because they know they’re going to probably die alone from becoming masculine because feminism has made them discount men
girls who are criticizing this beautiful woman of God whose a blessing to her husband are as the wicked witch of the West the truth makes them go I'm melting I'm melting. A trad wife IS A PROVERBS 31 WOMEN. Keep God first and God defines roles of HIS JOY! Jesus Others You A worthy woman who can find? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband trusteth in her, And he shall have no lack of gain. She seeketh wool and flax, And worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchant-ships; She bringeth her bread from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, And giveth food to her household, And their task to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it; With the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, And maketh strong her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is profitable; Her lamp goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the distaff, And her hands hold the spindle. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; Yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household; For all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh for herself carpets of tapestry; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, When he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh linen garments and selleth them, And delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and dignity are her clothing; And she laugheth at the time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; And the law of kindness is on her tongue. She looketh well to the ways of her household, And eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children rise up, and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praiseth her, saying: Proverbs 31:10-11, 13-28
I fully support a woman who wants to be a traditional wife, I also support a woman who wants to work outside the home. In my opinion a traditional wife deserves more respect than one working out side the home.
The sad part is feminists realise it’s bullshit after ten years of being gullible and recruiting thousands in the process creating a never ending cycle of prolonged irrational and delusional ideology for future female generations to come
Trust me, they wanna die sooner. Cz it's the same thing everyday for them. Wake up, cook, take care of the kids, listen to the husband's bitching over jobs, get fked & sleep. Do it over again in the next day & for the rest of her life.
raising the happiest most well adjusted children ever. That's what this kind of amazing effort will accomplish. And her husband CANNOT wait to come home to her loving arms. I'm just guessing, but I think this is what God intended for things to be like. I'm very happy for the both of you
Biblically it is exactly what God wants. The truth is for some of us it's absolutely something that makes us happy making our family and man especially happy. Our job is to take all the stress outside of the day job off the shoulders of our man. Frankly for a lot of us, this is our dream job.
Ya must be nice to have enough money to do so. Y’all act like working women are bad when they do it out of necessity . This life we live in cannot be supported on ONE income anymore . Especially life like hers with pretty hair and makeup and dresses . She is lucky , glad for her and would wish that on myself tbh but for most women it is not even a option if they wanted too. And like good wives we stand by our man even if he don’t make enough bank to make us a “tradwife” so we chug along to work just like everyone else
@@Souls-at-zer0 I know the two sides of this coin. The hardest part is when you have children like I do. Try having two jobs and a hustle. Then yes you have officially walked a mile in my shoes. Oh and for the record: I'm broke, broke, broke!
@@accessdenied5998 Congrats. Personally I’m happy being single but I still wish there were more like her. It’s sad to see how marriage has deteriorated over time.
@@jcavilaramos5697 and all of that depends on your own belief system, which is different in everyone. Why can’t you have your preferences and opinions without being nasty to people who don’t agree? Ur just causing unnecessary hurt and making the world a worse place 🫠
Um have you ever seen a single mom with 3 kids who works 2 jobs. I don't have anything against this woman. I don't agree with everything she sais but she seems nice. But her life is not very hard, its super easy if you have no kids. Most women will never dream of having time to fuss that much with hair and makeup and outfits and bubble baths and 5 hours of cooking. She is an extremely fortunate person. It's kind of like holding up a picture of Megan and Harry at a hot sweaty wearhouse and being like "This is what strong work ethic looks like." Like girl,...exsqueeze me???
Any man would love to have a wife like this. She's beautiful and runs her home like a beast. It's not easy to be a home maker and I applaud her ability to do it with a smile 😊
I applaud her. She's dam near a unicorn in today's world. Bless her! Watching my grandmother being a "trad wife" was the most beautiful, respectful, admirable thing I'd ever seen. ❤
Beautiful homes with beautiful people don't always have the best of lives behind closed doors. It's just what you see on the outside. Plenty of terrible, trying, sad & heartbreaking scenarios all throughout the years of the "Trad" families being the "norm".
I’m happy for her that she’s able to do that and that works for their family. Feminism was all about giving women opportunities to work and so everyone has the freedom to do that but they don’t have to be forced to. If someone wants to be more traditional that’s okay, we have the freedom to choose what to do with our free will instead of being forced to do something 😊
Its ok. But a lot of men wants a mommy, but cant sell. I care about my disabled mom since im 8. I will never accept a woman which tries to exclude me from carework. Im too used to it.
The problem with women's rights is that it's more about spoiled privileges for women. If you don't need to register for selective service and be drafted at some point in your life, you shouldn't vote or hold political office.
Most beautiful thing I've seen all day. Lucky guy.
Lucky both of them. Not many families can survive on one income.
many families can . it just depends on how much " stuff" u want. some things are worth more than "stuff" . a couple of fancy cars meen alot less to kids than mommy at home. theres no subsitute
I know right. Especially those dresses. Women don't wear enough dresses nowadays.
@@victoryan4008 She's likely making more than her husband at this point
I am grateful for my Tradwife...I am also a TradHusband that treats her with the highest respect and support
Heck ya bro!
As long as you're both happy & respectful of one another, that is the dream of most. Congratulations to you both on building a solid family.
Nothing wrong with an alternative lifestyle either, same rules of respect of others should always apply.
Thank God for you.
Nobody cares if they're happy. They just want women to work.
Excellent!!!
So like all trad wives, they literally run a small business, that business is family.
👍
The most important business
@@azzeddineaziz Amen !
it's not small , it's the most significant
I’d like to double 👍👍 the post and the above 3 comments.
They are the manager of their business and the husband is the sponsor
I was a trad wife who trusted my husband implicitly until I found out he had multiple affairs, ultimately leaving me & our 4 children with nothing. I had to start from scratch as a single mom of 4. I found a job, went to college and am now a nurse.
While I no longer believe women should make themselves this vulnerable, I also acknowledge that she's an adult capable of making her own decisions. If this works for her, I think that's amazing, and she shouldn't care what anyone else thinks.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, thank you for being honest.
Apparently Estée was a meteorologist before she gave it up to become a tradwife, and as others have said social media is actually a job.
Which means that the cute innocent facade is just an act.
Honestly you need a trad-husband to be a
trad-wife.
God fearing, loyal, family man, hardworking and all.
Can't make a playboy into a trad-husband.
That sucks, but it didn't happen because you were trad, so I wouldn't give up on the concept altogether.
@@avmrb42I didnt know that people have "player" or "tradhusband" written on their foreheads nowadays.
I am also sorry this happened to you. It is a terrible thing to be betrayed by one’s partner in life.
The deal is, for most of the time humans have been pairing up in the traditional manner, husbands have been dying on the job, of sickness, and the stupid wars started by Banksters, and they’ve died while having young children and inadequate life insurance. Some have even come home requiring constant care and unable to earn an income. Would you avoid being a traditional wife because of these eventualities?
I don’t think the solution to your situation is abandoning the best possible arrangement for the crappy modern solution. If society will not provide the incentives for people to honor their family commitments the way it used to, including supposed churches and clergy, post nuptial agreements could help. If a man files for divorce for any reason besides infidelity or abandonment, on her part, a wife gets 20% of his salary and 50% of his other income on top of child support until she remarries. A woman foregoing her career to provide a superior environment for a man’s family is good and valuable consideration, it is estimated to be worth at least $150,000 a year.
This should be the default, but since it isn’t, you can fix it with a contract. Michael Douglas‘s contract pays Catherine $1 million every time he cheats.
In a business arrangement, there is no way written dissolution provisions would leave all the income producing assets to one partner, and all the liabilities to the other, nothing wrong with a marriage agreement doing the same.
This is amazing. What an absolute gem of a women. Her husband is a lucky man. You’d do anything for a wife like her.
I'd kill for a wife like that ngl and I don't say that a lot tbh lmao, but I fully agree with you fam.
I will marry you lol
He found a HELL of a keeper! She's a knock-out, too!
Naw he’s blessed.
Do you have advice for a traditional woman who wants to be a trad wife to find a good man 🧍♀️
I’m a tradwife and I absolutely love it. So does he! Hot meals, clean laundry, clean house… He’s more than happy to provide financially.
Make sure your name is on the house and everything and you have some savings in the bank if he decide to leave you. I pray he doesn’t but no one can promise tomorrow
Growing up my mom was the primary breadwinner and my dad managed the childcare, cooking and cleaning. it worked well b/c they were suited for each role, and we were all happier for it. Having a stable & nurturing parent at home makes a big difference for kids, whether it’s a mom or dad. I respect tradwives even if it isn’t for all women, and I respect men who care for their homes and kids even if they aren’t ‘traditional’
Amen
This! No matter how you and your spouse choose to live, it's about teamwork.
nothing wrong with that. Its not how nature has wired the vast majority, but it can work.
Right on ❤
@@caribbeanbound8357 very little about the world we live in is how nature intended yet we still have banks, fast food, cars, guns etc.
Thats not why peoole critized her. It was only when she started making content making fun of working women 😂
exactly
I was okay with her until she started with women SHOULD this and that...
I wasn't critical of her until I found out she doesn't even have any children!!!!! How she's able to convince so many she's busy cooking and cleaning ALL day for 2 people amazes me. BTW, let me add, she has 1,000s of male followers...could that be because she almost always is spilling out of her tops!!! LOL
Awww you poor dear. You’re hallucinating that she made videos that insulted women. You should tell your doctor about that cause if you do, you’ll get worser 😥
@@laitofangirl5805 aw, poor dear, you used "worser" in a completely sincere, unironic manner. You should dirty up that brain whilst revisiting English class.
Women like her are what Helps makes a Happy Loving Caring Family.
Do you have advice for a traditional woman who wants to be a trad wife to find a good man 🧍♀️
@@MBJK_baby as long as you have good communication, every problem can be solved.
For example: You don't have money? Do you have a plan, may I give advise or is there other way I can help you?
Many times issues come from not wanting to disclose a bad situation, why couples do that? Because they're taught to tough it up. I as a man have been taught to only disclose when I don't have a way to solve the situation because that way my partner can focus on whatever she does for our better life.
Women are usually taught to not disclose problems because she'll be seen as a nuisance but it's the opposite, if you don't tell me, don't expect me to magically have knowledge of the situation or a solution in my pocket. This in fact creates so many issues in the long run because of bad communication or miscommunication.
For example, the neighbor is trying to fort with you? If you don't tell me right away and I'm someone with low self-esteem I will do stupid things to both you and the relationship and if I have a high self-esteem then either I believe you when you're in the fire or I just divorce you because I can't trust you to avoid problems. On the other hand, both low and high self-esteem will know right away what's going on if you speak up from the very beginning because you overcame embarrassment or the fear of being thought crazy and will support you or even devise a way to face this situation.
All other things like doing housework are secondary to communication. But again they are appreciated because the spouse doesn't need to think about what else is needed to be done when arriving at home and can focus on resting while having a good partner who supports the relationship and home too.
I really just want a wife who will have a great communication skill, ie. can talk about what's needed even if it's embarrassing or an assumption because there's trust. She's there not to serve me because she's my wife but because she wants to share her time with me doing whatever she thinks will make me happy or help our home or relationship when all I need from her is a welcome kiss and a hug.
I’m a husband of a traditional wife. Go to church, be part of the congregation, believe in the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind and strength. A good man will be found there.
😂 takes an actual man. All I wanted to be but men these days want Women to still manage household and work which lead to resentment....have to do it all, Rather be alone. Thank god I had skills outside of taking care of a man.
@@AG-nn8lp yep, this is an issue everywhere. The real marriage nowadays should be:
One stays at home and takes care of the house while the other goes to work.
Both work and both have to share responsibilities at home.
But most of the time it's immature people who can't accept the new society and think the house should be only one person's responsibility even though both work. Or both avoid facing reality until they can't survive anymore and start attacking each other.
Proud TRAD-WIFE! ❤🙋🏻♀️
Help a girly with relationship advice I have two crushes rn but one doesn’t know I exist and the other works with me both are Christian but I can’t like make a move since I’m the woman for some reason🧍♀️
@MBJK 🐝 머리부터 발끝까지 If you need help, ask them to help. Then, pay it back by cooking or baking for them.
I'm a traditional wife and I do not regret
Me too, I am with you girl
@saputridewi3665 well hello there 😍
I’m glad you’re a real feminine you support husbandall the way
Feminist are not real, laddies they hijack, real feminine ideology they just care about themselves. These people will put a real woman under the bus defend trans women are real woman . This is what every man wants feminine lady, not a feminist
Making trad wife great again!
@@saputridewi3665 are you Indian????
😂😂😂😂😂 This lady is not a trad wife. She is a content creator
EXACTLY
Traditional wife/mother is good, it shows good values, there is nothing to be ashamed of
She is probably so much happier then all her critics, especially in about 20 years when raising a family,
Bring back tradition
I think it's wonderful. She seems very happy with this lifestyle. 😊
30 years ago I was friends with a couple where the wife was "traditional" and they were always laughing and joking together even though they had been together over 20 years and had four kids. One day I asked them what their secret to getting along was and the husband said "I let her think she's the boss, but I'm really the boss" to which the wife laughed and replied a little bit louder "I let him think HE'S the boss, but I'M really the boss!", as he made a face, and then they both started laughing. I think that's the key to a happy marriage. God blessed you Gilbert and Norma.
Now that seems more lighthearted and balanced! Love to hear it.
I wish everyone could have a relationship as healthy as that
thats not a tradwife
@@RestnPepperonis I didn't describe why she was a tradwife, I was only telling about a conversation. If I said she was a tradwife, that meant that she was a stay-at-home housewife and raised the kids. The husband and wife both had a great deal of affection and respect for each other. I was close friends with them both. They were a solid team.
@@jackandblaze5956 stay at home doesnt mean shes tradwife that just means shes a stay at home mom trad wives are submissive and dont put others in there business and saying your the boss aint submissive
I am also traditional and its so beautiful and rewarding. No regrets here
What a woman! Applause to all tradwives
Applause to her! There is nothing wrong with being traditional.
At one point in our marriage, I homeschooling, ran our household and mom's. Worked on weekends. On the weekends, my hubby ran the household.
It worked for us. We were at our best as a real team.
He cooks so much better than me anyway.😂
WELL DONE!!!🎉
Her beauty and happiness speak for themselves.
She's a "hypocrite"!😄
And a very attractive one!
JPB
@@jpbrooks2 jealous aren't ya?
Yup. It's not a coincidence that she's hotter and happier than her detractors. Says it all
@@jpbrooks2 Very attractive? Repulsive with tons of makeup and gunk. No thanks.
Being a tiktok influencer is anything but traditional you fools. But she's attractive I agree with the only one who's got a brain here. Congrats JPD, you win.
You know she will be raising her own children instead of having babysitters do it for her 💕
Exactly. You can be a mom and work, but then you're going to have to let go of things in the mom (or parent) category and pay someone else to do them.
Let's be real, a working mom does not have time to do much on weekdays besides drive her kid around after work, buy processed food rather than make healthy foods from scratch/produce, is going to do Target pickup rather than shop around for deals, and is going to pay someone else to watch her kid most of the day (including schools via taxes)... Plus her kids are less likely to get the full night's sleep bc otherwise she'll only see them for MAYBE the 2 hours she is busy w/ chores.
At the end of the day, most of my income as a working mom went to all of those things (plus gas, a second car, and work clothes). So can't say I was better off financially and my children def weren't better off.
All the child rights talk these days, but none of it about a child's right to be raised by their parents in a stable relationship.
@@carlac33 my mom worked, she was very present and taught us how to be independent, I think it's good , maybe midm
Absence makes the heart grow fonder and it takes a village to raise children....not just two people. Babysitter does not equal parent at all. Your views are antiquated
@@FionaWho_ShreksMyHusband but you missed out on a lot. its best for a child to have a parent present instead of at work.
@@caribbeanbound8357 it can be but it has it benefits too. And also in America's and puerto ricos economy bfr💀
You go girl!! In the end it is you that holds together a loving family
That husband got the whole package deal. And FYI she is beautiful. Lucky dog
Absolutely! She’s gorgeous ❤
She’s adorable and I bet her husband is very pleased with her
I know I would be. She's the dream wife.
He's not
How? She’s making him participate in this foolery.
If she’s like a lot of influencers, she probably makes more money than her husband
I'm sure he is pleased...she brings in lots of $$$. Do you know any housewives who dress in revealing clothes while baking and vacuuming? She has found a VERY naive audience and it's paying off.
🎉yay! Sane family dynamics 😍 you go girl.
She’s beautiful in every way ❤
She is beautiful and is the perfect wife❤❤
You go sister 💯🙌🏾🎊🎊🎊🎊
Help a girly with relationship advice I have two crushes rn but one doesn’t know I exist and the other works with me both are Christian but I can’t like make a move since I’m the woman for some reason🧍♀️
There needs to be a dating app specifically for tradwives and tradhusbands. These people need to find each other.
Yes!!
Yes plz, keep them away from the rest of us
@@g.h.7661 Happily
I totally agree. As a 49 year old Bachelor, the major reason why I hesitate to ever get married is because I've yet to find a bachelorette that possesses these qualities and skills.
@@michaeldavis2039😂😂😂 I’m sure you’re a 49 yo bachelor trying to find a young virgin…🤮
I am proud to be married to a traditional woman. She’s the glue that holds the family together.
Yeah because you probably do sweet literal fuck all around the house. Of course she's the glue, you'd be without a maid and a chef and no one to wipe your bum and change your diapers if she wasn't around.
Absolutely.
No, you both are.
@@alextaylor8776
A good husband gives his wife all the credit, it benefits the family if mom feels treasured.
@@cryptoffilth8711 No, that’s not God’s natural order. The Bible says in Corinthians, wives submit to your husband in all things and husbands love your wives. They both have their roles and responsibilities however the man ( husband/father) is the head of the family and not the woman. Any man who says his wife is the glue that holds his family together is not a leader and not a Christian. Women are attracted to strong, assertive men who are in control, especially within a family; not weak men who worship at her feet and tell her constantly she’s a princess and the rock of the family. Most women will soon resent this type of man and will see it as weakness, unattractive weakness and many times leave him in the end.
You know her marriage rocks!
Beautiful traditional wife! You do you and let no one change your mind. Love it!
Thank you for saying before me
I’m a traditional wife, and have been for 36 years, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Most important job you can have, taking care of your husband, kids, and home. It is a 24/7, thankless job, but it’s the best!
Totally agree! Super blessed to be a traditional wife 15 years! Enjoying my 3 kiddos as they grow ❤ works great for our family.
Yes but can you have your own money to buy things or do you have to ask and submit an itemized list? Kidding not kidding. I’m not knocking traditional wives at all. Do you, boo. I’m just curious.
It's definitely not a thinkless job. Most women are the CEO, CFO, COO, Chef, Janitor, Psychiatrist, Nutritionist, etc. There are so many levels of intelligence and skill involved in running a successful household. Never say what you do is thinkless. You are incredible!
@@Puddin_Pi That is a psycho way to look at it. Families are a team, most families the wife handles all the money, husband works and hands it over. There is not a hard and fast way it is done though. This narrative that all husbands or just men in general are controlling, authoritarian beings is truly disgusting. Every relationship I know the partners discuss big expenses together and justify it.
@@kingcosworth2643 I apologize. I’m not saying it’s all bad-all relationships are different and unique. I usually hear the bad side of such traditional relationships.
Her look is just so beautiful. Love that 50s look. Men wore suits and women where fancy AF.
I know right?!
She’s a dream come true for that family!
I am proud to say that my mom is a traditional wife. She's independent. She can cook, clean the house, take care everyone in the family, be active at church community, sew clothes, fix roof, fix most house appliances, took a small business to help my dad, manage family finances, and more. My dad worked 9 to 5, worked at construction after retiring from office, did gardening, served at church, was active in his communities, helped me with lessons, listened to his kids' stories, gave his entire salary for my mom to manage. This traditional couple is the best example in my eyes. They showed what true partners do. I'm glad I have traditional parents. Now, my dad passed away 3 years ago and my mom is still doing the same thing. I never see her as a burden or anything less than an extraordinary person.
Blessed you all women. I wish we are all happy with our choices.
W trad wives. Not stressing her partner, having his back while he has hers. It’s beautiful
Do you have advice for a traditional woman who wants to be a trad wife to find a good man 🧍♀️
@@MBJK_baby the right man will come along. Don‘t look to hard. I also found my hubby that way when I least expected it 😄
@@MBJK_baby Have a backup so you can leave if need be. I'd never tell another woman to leave all her goals behind to stay home because 50/50 odds you'll be divorced with no job or career to fall back on. Scary shite
@@AG-nn8lp I will always have multiple things to fall back on. I have a soap business, I have an older friend that’ll let me work part time at her pizza shop whenever I need (sometimes when she needs lol). I’m planning on starting a TH-cam channel for political commentary as well as a channel I’ll be able to talk about becoming a true Christian and repenting my homosexuality even tho I have bisexual tendencies. My parents own their house and are not planning on selling it and leaving it to me in their will so I’ll be able to rent it if they pass (my parents are both in their mid fifties even tho I’m 17 so I’ve been preparing myself if either passes especially since my dads been having heart issues :/). I have MANY forms of income and this is just as a 17 year old. Obviously I want to have a husband that provides a majority of our money but I will never give up working entirely even if I start an egg and milk sales business or something since I want to own a ranch with my future husband. I will never not work because I do find fulfillment in working, but I don’t want a 9-5 especially since I have adhd and I don’t want to do a dirty/hefty type of job like construction or something since I’m a weak bitch LMAO. I need stuff I’m always actively doing things with wether that’s making pizza or running my own business or being an online personality.
@@AG-nn8lpWomen initiate 80-90% of divorces. The odds are far from 50/50 if she doesn’t want a divorce.
Traditional wives ROCK.
Thank you, young lady.
She looks happy and fulfilled. Feminists hate this because they see it works and they don't want to admit that they could be wrong.
Modern feminists hate this.
True feminists, when they were first a thing, would’ve been glad that she was allowed to choose in the first place. She wasn’t obligated and chose this life for herself.
Femnazis KNOW they are wrong, but they want the other woman to be miserable, too.
It works im sure...... But only with two ppl that see eye to eye on it and are willing to do their parts like any good union
Modern feminist hate this because it exposes their unfulfilled lives clinging to a philosophy that is destructive to women. It’s hilarious that feminists react to this delightful tradwife by trying desperately to convince themselves and others how horribly bad it is to be a traditional woman…Yeah ummm obviously 😂 Yet they respond to tear down and not build up… its the same as all other deceptive ideologies… a philosophy that is just words on paper that do not bring joy and fulfillment but emptiness…
Like any other social media influencer, she’s crafting content based on what she wants us to see, not her unfiltered reality. I think that’s something we often lose sight of.
I’m the primary breadwinner in my marriage and that works fine for me and my husband. So long as women have choices and agency in living the kind of life they want to lead, I could care less if some women choose this lifestyle. It’s not one way is right or wrong, it’s doing what works for your marriage.
tradwives are incredible.
I was a trad wife and I love it except my ex-husband did turn abusive. Sad bc that’s how I want to live but there are definitely predators seeking out women who are submissive. Anyway, to all the happy trad wives who are loved, safe, and respected-keep being you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Then when your husband leaves you and your kids and you have zero marketable skills to put a roof over your head and that of your children. No thanks. I’ll take financial independence any day.
@@Brutus-co9dt Why aren't you working?!?!...be on your way!... instead of working people's nerves 😜
You deserve better and a TRUE heart will get you THERE ❣️
I’m a traditional wife and I support this woman 100%! “Tradwives” r sick of all this and have had enough! I love my husband and I cherish my life with my hubby and family! This is what fulfills and makes me happy! Quit telling tradwives what to think and feel!
Being a tiktok influencer on internet is the opposite of being a tradwife. A tradwife doesn't care about tiktok. Especially at that pace.
She's a paid actor You fools. A caricature.
Being a mother and homemaker is by far the best thing I have ever been blessed with
Agreed!
My husband and I met when we were young..we didn't have anything of value to claim outside of our character...but we worked together to be where we are now..He has his master's and a fantastic job..I stayed home and raised our children and tended to the home..no regrets..over the years I've taken on jobs..mainly providing childcare for others..and now that our kids are teenagers..I have been stepping out into my love of photography... never would change our decision!!! No oppressed.. honored by my husband..he reminds me daily I'm a cornerstone here!!
We need so many more like her in the world.
this generation is allready worthless and ruined , the best we can do now is educate the next generation on proper traditional values, and to be honoust her 50's looks are just a treat for the eyes aswell.
i’m not sure we do… but i can tell u one thing. we need less people like you in this world, definitely
I'm not trying to cause any disrespect.....but if someone chooses to be a traditional wife, then what's wrong with that? I just respect the fact of what she is doing for her family. Just as what I do for my family as a stay-at-home dad.
Yes, we should definatly encourage all women to be tradwives.
This is a great idea.
Your husband has a 100% chance of dying eventually, possibly dying young in a tragic accident.
And you have a 50%chance of divorce.
If one of these 2 things happen you now have no real work history, no job, most likely a high school education and a ton of kids to feed.
There is spousal and child support but it's not usually enough.
I think if you have really young kids it's fine because they need 24/7 attention, but I don't think this is a good position to put yourself in permanently.
I also was put off by her husband telling how to dress at home. You marry a partner not a barbie. People should love you for you, not what you look like
@@ongakira How can you not be sure of needing more women like the one in the video but be CERTAIN that we don’t need more men like OP? Stupid logic
I have respect for this woman. I wish that there were more women like her, but maybe someday in the future, I will find one like her. I pray I will have a wife like that. If there were women like her, I wouldn't be so afraid to talk to women or even approach them without fear.
And more men like her husband, apparently.
Love these women! They are amazing! Bringing back retro style
A beautiful woman wishing her and her husband all the best
Absolutely adorable.
She should ignore the haters. She's so beautiful and happy so internet trolls should just take several seats
I love the 50s aesthetic. I go for a more 40s ranch wife vibe myself.
😂
Help a girly with relationship advice I have two crushes rn but one doesn’t know I exist and the other works with me both are Christian but I can’t like make a move since I’m the woman for some reason🧍♀️I wanna have a 50s aesthetic but live like a 40s ranch wife 😂
I don't have the clothes or know how for 50's, but! I do denim and t shirts because I'm ready to work in the back yard with him 😉
She’s gorgeous. I want a wife like this
Lots of choices in TLM.
@@LauraBeeDannon What is TLM?
Do you have any advice for trad-women who wanna be trad wives to find good men 🧍♀️
Traditional Latin Mass, I think
@@MBJK_baby Be open and proud about it.
Some people just prefer to use more traditional roles in their marriage!! There’s nothing wrong with people who choose this dynamic, unless they are forcing other people to be exactly like them! It’s their marriage, not yours
I’m 18 and can’t wait to be a tradwife, beautiful women like her only inspire me more ❤
17 here and yesss this lifestyle seems lovely. ❤
You ladies have the right idea. The ladies criticizing her all submit to a boss (usually male) who is a stranger and doesn’t love and care for them. I don’t see how that’s a better trade off.
@@pn2627 but men submit to their bosses too tho? And they also get paid...
The issue is finding a man that can financially support you and kids for the long term.. that cuts out most of the population of men.
Cut out the ones you don't find attractive or in your age group..
Then account for your body count.
Your left with maybe one in a million for you personally.
And even then most traditional, good looking, financially secure men have the means to get a passport and go across seas for even more options.. and that's just what we are doing lately.
Not trying to turn you away, world needs more traditional women.. especially in the west, but don't expect the search to be easy.
@@desmondblack5339 I’ll be sure and let my wife know how lucky she is. But it wasn’t luck. She amazes me every day. I feel lucky to have her. She supports me in every way and I fight to make sure she has what ever she needs and wants. Again I’m lucky because her wants are very reasonable.
She's going to have people show up for her 70th birthday thanking her for being loving, nurturing and inclusive
Like 80 people who all directly or inadvertently came from her.
or she will be left with no money by her cheating trash husband
Classic W
Meanwhile, those who criticize her will die alone and forgotten about. All of their vain attempts at relevancy met with eye rolling and laughter.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey better die alone than put up with a cheating male.
My Mom was a tradwife. Def handled a lot more than just housework and raising kids let me tell you. When my Dad was out of work and got unemployed; she went to work part time and still was home in time before we got home from school and still cooked a full meal, cleaned, etc. And to this day; I thank her for teaching me cooking/cleaning skills.
Seriously one of the strongest women I've ever known. She even cared for my Great Aunt 3x removed that had Alzheimer's, at the time our family took her in on top of everything else. And somehow society; specifically even moreso the modern day feminist movement looks down on that as weakness/servitude? It baffles me to no end. My Mom was is a boss lady and could seriously do everything these so called modern day women could do and still hold her powerful femininity while doing it. Now tell me a lady/woman that does all that on top of raising kids, making sure we were fed as kids AND helping their spouse out with other tasks is a slave; you're seriously misinformed. My Mom's more boss than if she would've had a high paying 6 figure job; in my opinion.
She looks way better than most modern women do. She is glowing with health and happiness. Not burnt out from a job she doesn't have to work since her husband earns enough.
She actually has 2 jobs - being a housewife and a content creator.
She makes more than him..?
the same ones screaming my body my choice in the streets are the same ones attacking this woman for choosing to be a stay at home traditional wife 🤦♀️😂😂
Lol very good point, but we know how hypocritical those kinds of people are. They are all insane
Right?! 😂 they're clowns. They can't even see their own hypocrisy.
For real
Wrong I believe live and let live as long as you're not pushing your lifestyle down my throat it makes you happy go for it and I'm pro-choice it's part of being pro-choice I choose how I live and what I do with my body the ground and because it doesn't line up with your view you guys are going to talk s***
@@tammyastorga731 live and let live??? Does that baby get that same thing?? Oh no cant live when your aborted
You don't try to put things down unless you resent them. Gold star!
That is what a good man wants. Bless her.
"do whatever you want as long as it's not Biblical in any way" sums up equality
Me trying to do everything as Biblical as possible: ._.
I think trad wife stuff is fine. Sadly Biblical would be selling your daughter to the highest bidder. I know what you mean though. Goofy
@@gothicgirlfriend7375 I think you might have misunderstood the dowry system, which isn't hard to do since it isn't practiced anymore or taught about.
The father didn't sell anything, and he wasn't allowed to own or use any of the money from the dowry. He was supposed to hold it in case the son in law could no longer provide for the daughter being married. That could be because of divorce or death. Heck even injury could trigger it. At that point the father uses it to provide for his daughter. There was no alimony or child support or division of property back then, so this was how they dealt with it. It also gave the wife leverage in divorce in case the husband was abusive because if she left she could potentially live off the dowry instead of having to work as a servant or slave.
Lucky guy that’s got a woman like that🙌🏻. He can fully concentrate on work . When my missus was off on maternity it was so much easier. We didn’t have to rush about at all like we did before after work . Wish I earnt more so we could stay that way . She was a lot happier also 🙌🏻
Try doing with less to live on one income. Ditch the direct TV etc… maybe you can do it
Yah, Trad men need to do their part. Not just making enough today to cover all the expenses, but also putting enough away for the future. You need to get life insurance as well as mortgage insurance that will pay it off if something should happen to you.
Because that's really the problem. What happens to the wife and children when the provider is not there anymore.
@@mR-dc4oq foods too dear 🙄😂
@@kelliepatrick519 good point! We are literally all wage slaves 🙄
Western society needs more women like her.
Let her be! It's her life, her choice. At least she knows her duties as a wife. Nothing wrong with that. Just because she wants to be what she is does not mean she is abused. Some people nowadays just call anything that against their belief, "abuse". She's not bothering our lives with her choice anyway.
The problem is often the proselytising that often goes with the trad wife thing. I don't know this lady but the barbie doll appearance suggests a toxic attitude.
Yes she shouldn't be abused for her choice, however she should also not abuse either. Whether its gaslighting, strawmanning or toxicity that leaves women vulnerable to abuse.
@@lizcollinson2692 Who cares if she talks about her lifestyle with other people? Plenty of women who live differently certainly talk about theirs. The only thing toxic I see is you judging her as toxic because of her appearance. There is nothing wrong with how she chooses to live her life.
@@crucialtaunt5717 I'm not judging her specifically as I haven't seen enough of her to judge but especially the Christian sect of trad wife are very toxic. There is alot of coercive control and descriptions of submitting and obedience.
If you needs control in a relationship, it's not healthy.
@@lizcollinson2692 blah blah blah buzz words "gaslighting, toxic, strawmanning" - got em all in!
Proselytising goes about ten times as much for feminist women so cry us a river
@@poocrayon4588 sorry if many of the people promoting trad wife ideology as superior are toxic. There are some toxic feminists, I agree, any that insist that one way of life is superior. And being cautious of a historically abused way of life being promoted without caution or consideration.
Her videos are great for young people. Something for young girl to strive for, and for young men to dream and achieve in the future. God Bless Her.
Too bad Gen Alpha is already screwd up really bad because of scrolling habits, general bad parenting and instant reward addiction 😢
I love being a traditional wife. My life is beautiful and I thank GOD every day.
Do you lick 👅 your hubbys brown eye?
this is a wonderful person I wonder how rare finding a good caring person is now .
Do you have advice for a traditional woman who wants to be a trad wife to find a good man 🧍♀️
I have a traditional wife and I am a transitional husband. we could not be more happy.
She's a gorgeous high value woman that knows who she is and what she wants. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with it.
The world NEEDS more wives like you. God bless you!
Definitely the kind of a real women that all real men want.
Well some men like tomboys...you know hunting partner, fishing friend, work on the car with him. But she is cute.
Amen
Lol we men want whatever the f we want. You don't define us.
@@vb2806 I was referring to Real men.
@@vb2806 Nope, only God does🙂
This woman that calls herself a trad wife is awesome and a blessing to her family.
So let me get this straight, people are upset that she’s a traditional woman who takes care of her household while her husband works? Jealousy comes in so many forms 🤦🏽♀️
Yes, it sure does.
Imagine women telling us to be free and choose to do whatever we want to do yet when we actually do what we want to do (like deciding being a house wife) then all hell breaks lose? Right… 😂
She’s not even traditional, she makes videos on the internet for male validation…
@@NJX247 How do you know whether or not she is traditional?
@@beno.9958 she makes videos for validation from men on social media and now has a career surrounding that…
Her audience is mostly men who are simping in her comment section.
She’s 25 years old and has been married less than a year.
Doesn’t sound very traditional to me.
Its very gullible to not have realised that she’s putting on an act because it gets her views and clicks.
A quote from her "I definitely didn't grow up in a traditional setting. My parents divorced when I was young and my mum struggled with her kids to make ends meet. At the time, I was a student studying meteorology, but shortly after we met I left college and dropped all means of pursuing a career.”
She was a career woman who wanted the easy life, they’ve been dating since 2020 have been married less than a year and still don’t have any children.
She’s playing a character.
If she is happy and isn’t directly hurting anyone, who cares. People have the freedom to live how they want, you don’t have to agree with them, and they don’t have to agree with you. If you don’t have anything nice to say or a nice way to say it, don’t say anything at all.
She's not even hurting anyone in directly. She's actually beneficial to society.
@@harrylongabaugh7402 fr
It depends really, i agree on most part, but the trad wife thing often comes with toxic and abusive messages. The kind that can lead to controlling and abusive relationships.
Strawmanning and coercion is what may women will react against.
@@lizcollinson2692 The men in those types of relationships are evil men. Real men do not act like that. Good men will not abuse their families. Real men serve and protect their wives and children. Husbands and wives work together to provide a stable and nurturing environment for children to grow up in.
As long as her husband isn’t beating her and she’s happy, I’m glad their marriage has a mutual understanding of their roles
My daughter is the same as you, she is an amazing mother and wife at 24, she is holds so much power in her hand, she is the nurturer, the moral setter the kindhearted but strong role model… well done to all you beautiful inside and out women… stay strong in your roles x
That's a high-value woman right there... Beautiful...
100%
Facts.
It's so funny that her choice of wanting to be feminine is so awful and despicable, but Dylan Mulvaney is celebrated on a red carpet. Double standards much?
@@mehujaakarhu3233 Exactly.
@@mehujaakarhu3233 your choice is valid until it doesn't support their degenerate agendas, then you're being toxic and manipulative
The west needs more women like her
A LOT more.
100%
The west also needs more good men to go along with good women.
Women of the west gonna shut her Uup. But I love this girl btw.
What? Showing cleavage & doing the exact opposite of what she saying. She is making tiktok as a hot 60s wife. She is earning money through it.
Then needs to be more women like this. Bless her heart
Her hair and makeup are like actually perfect omg
Too much blush imo, but very cute and suitable haircut
They are hating because she is stunningly beautiful.
Traditional wife:
Beautiful✅
A cheft✅
A houskeeper✅
Know self worth✅
Love her Husband✅
Apriciate her husband✅
Happy marriage✅
Annoying feminist ❌
All the women critiquing her lifestyle are just jealous, because they know they’re going to probably die alone from becoming masculine because feminism has made them discount men
They seem to want a traditional man but not be traditional themselves.
girls who are criticizing this beautiful woman of God whose a blessing to her husband are as the wicked witch of the West the truth makes them go I'm melting I'm melting.
A trad wife IS A PROVERBS 31 WOMEN. Keep God first and God defines roles of HIS JOY! Jesus
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A worthy woman who can find? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband trusteth in her, And he shall have no lack of gain. She seeketh wool and flax, And worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchant-ships; She bringeth her bread from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, And giveth food to her household, And their task to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it; With the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, And maketh strong her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is profitable; Her lamp goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the distaff, And her hands hold the spindle. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; Yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household; For all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh for herself carpets of tapestry; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, When he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh linen garments and selleth them, And delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and dignity are her clothing; And she laugheth at the time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; And the law of kindness is on her tongue. She looketh well to the ways of her household, And eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children rise up, and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praiseth her, saying:
Proverbs 31:10-11, 13-28
@@hashbrown4278 nope. they dont want traditional men. they want traditional men on steroids. so "perfect" men.
@@EL-ce6bg yeah you’re right
@@hashbrown4278 whatever that means
I fully support a woman who wants to be a traditional wife, I also support a woman who wants to work outside the home. In my opinion a traditional wife deserves more respect than one working out side the home.
Studies show traditional women report higher levels of happiness compared to those who embrace feminist theory.
The sad part is feminists realise it’s bullshit after ten years of being gullible and recruiting thousands in the process creating a never ending cycle of prolonged irrational and delusional ideology for future female generations to come
"feminist theory" lmfao
@@coolboy9979 Yeah, it's eaht it's called. Feminism is a failed experiment
Trust me, they wanna die sooner. Cz it's the same thing everyday for them. Wake up, cook, take care of the kids, listen to the husband's bitching over jobs, get fked & sleep. Do it over again in the next day & for the rest of her life.
@@coolboy9979 that’s the technical name like CRT and Critical Gender Theory💀
raising the happiest most well adjusted children ever. That's what this kind of amazing effort will accomplish.
And her husband CANNOT wait to come home to her loving arms.
I'm just guessing, but I think this is what God intended for things to be like.
I'm very happy for the both of you
Not really. Working moms raise the best independent and responsible children while stay at home moms raise lazy spoilt children.
Biblically it is exactly what God wants. The truth is for some of us it's absolutely something that makes us happy making our family and man especially happy. Our job is to take all the stress outside of the day job off the shoulders of our man. Frankly for a lot of us, this is our dream job.
@@megschuler8532 women can do both. Every Srilankan woman does both.
You go girl. Wives that manage the house are doing what God intended for us to do.
👏👏👏👏👏👏
Ya must be nice to have enough money to do so. Y’all act like working women are bad when they do it out of necessity . This life we live in cannot be supported on ONE income anymore . Especially life like hers with pretty hair and makeup and dresses . She is lucky , glad for her and would wish that on myself tbh but for most women it is not even a option if they wanted too. And like good wives we stand by our man even if he don’t make enough bank to make us a “tradwife” so we chug along to work just like everyone else
@@Souls-at-zer0 I know the two sides of this coin. The hardest part is when you have children like I do. Try having two jobs and a hustle. Then yes you have officially walked a mile in my shoes.
Oh and for the record: I'm broke, broke, broke!
Like the women who followed Jesus. They left their homes to follow Him. Nobody told them to go back to the home.
@@Souls-at-zer0ironically it's because women entered the workforce en masse lol
Live and let live. Do what is right for you and your family. Last time I looked, it’s still America.
Hey men! More of us need to celebrate her and her husband. This is what we need to get back to.
Are you happy to be a trad husband because that is what she will expect?
@@starrynight1329 Don’t threaten me with a good time. Yes. I am a trad husband.
She’s a like a ray of sunshine ☀️
Now that's a real woman.
Facts
Shush my bro.. . We got lots of alligators watching.. You could get in trouble...
Amen
Yessir
Gross
Wish there were more women like her.
There is but you need to try really hard.
Mine met her when i was taking vacation 👍
@@accessdenied5998 Congrats. Personally I’m happy being single but I still wish there were more like her. It’s sad to see how marriage has deteriorated over time.
@@tsmith3286 Thanks and I hope you find your soul mate in the coming future bless with lots of kid
@@accessdenied5998 Thank you!!
Her husband is a very luck man ,all the best to you both 👍
Nothing but respect for her. This is what an actual strong woman looks like.
Why can’t we just respect women no matter what they want to do with their lives 🙁
@@zoefreeman9478 Because certain actions merit respect and certain other actions merit disrespect.
@@jcavilaramos5697 and all of that depends on your own belief system, which is different in everyone. Why can’t you have your preferences and opinions without being nasty to people who don’t agree? Ur just causing unnecessary hurt and making the world a worse place 🫠
Um have you ever seen a single mom with 3 kids who works 2 jobs. I don't have anything against this woman. I don't agree with everything she sais but she seems nice. But her life is not very hard, its super easy if you have no kids.
Most women will never dream of having time to fuss that much with hair and makeup and outfits and bubble baths and 5 hours of cooking.
She is an extremely fortunate person.
It's kind of like holding up a picture of Megan and Harry at a hot sweaty wearhouse and being like
"This is what strong work ethic looks like."
Like girl,...exsqueeze me???
@@jcavilaramos5697 like what, like working to provide for your family as a woman. Wtf?
Any man would love to have a wife like this. She's beautiful and runs her home like a beast. It's not easy to be a home maker and I applaud her ability to do it with a smile 😊
Been a joyful
Tradwife for 34 wonderful years ❤
She looks beautiful and happy. Unlike the angry feminists.
Good you go find a trad wife and leave us angry feminists free to live as we choose.
Thank God for young ladies such as yourself. ❤
I applaud her. She's dam near a unicorn in today's world. Bless her! Watching my grandmother being a "trad wife" was the most beautiful, respectful, admirable thing I'd ever seen. ❤
Beautiful homes with beautiful people don't always have the best of lives behind closed doors. It's just what you see on the outside. Plenty of terrible, trying, sad & heartbreaking scenarios all throughout the years of the "Trad" families being the "norm".
I’m happy for her that she’s able to do that and that works for their family. Feminism was all about giving women opportunities to work and so everyone has the freedom to do that but they don’t have to be forced to. If someone wants to be more traditional that’s okay, we have the freedom to choose what to do with our free will instead of being forced to do something 😊
Its ok. But a lot of men wants a mommy, but cant sell.
I care about my disabled mom since im 8. I will never accept a woman which tries to exclude me from carework. Im too used to it.
@@halleffect5439 and a lot of modern women wants a daddy with money but don't want to be traditional. Goes both ways.
@@halleffect5439 A traditional wife wouldn't do that to you.
You naive doll. Feminism was all about having the other half of population spend money. There was nothing noble behind giving women "freedom".
The problem with women's rights is that it's more about spoiled privileges for women. If you don't need to register for selective service and be drafted at some point in your life, you shouldn't vote or hold political office.