@Melanie Martin 7 of my birth children, 2 we are adopting. I still consider the 2 mine. My sister passed away, they are her kids. We absolutely love it. I'm blessed to have a Godly husband who in very much involved. 🙏
Praise the Lord!! That’s wonderful. This sermon is making me repent. I have been a cancerous tumor to the bone and I feel so ashamed. I don’t want to be that person in my marriage. I want to be a trad wife and have respect for my husband and take care of him. Sometimes my field in healthcare makes me feel empty with caring and I need the Lord everyday to give the care. I need Jesus even more to be a good wife to my husband. God bless my man for sticking around. I see my mistakes now and I’m ready for correction. Thank you God!
Im a stay at home mom. I don't miss going to work at ALL 😂 being a stay at home mom is a MILLION times harder 100000%%. But it just feels right. If I'm going to be stressed out daily it may as well be for something thats actually worth being stressed over. Id say my home and children are something worth stressing over!
@@vickywright54 it is absolutely a million times hard lolol. no breaks no sick days. it's not about you anymore. exhausting but like you said it's the right thing before the Lord and they are so worth it.
Amen. I haven't even heard the entire message yet. God put this... The 5 things right here... He has this in my heart and I am at the 5th one and now Satan wants to assassinate everything that is us now. I give this situation to God. I give the influence around us to God, I give all of the evil around us to God. I know you are active in our lives Holy Spirit. God is for us and I know it. Thank you Jesus. Amen.😊
What stood out from this message was them speaking and praying for single moms. As a single mother who does have to work & can’t stay home, I am praying that one day I will be able to stay home with my children after God sends me a husband. I truly believe that in Jesus name.
Yes this is possible with prayers. I was a single mom of 2 for 11 years, always working 2 jobs and never spent time with my kids. Then God gave me my husband, and now we have 2 more boys. I just became a stay at home mom this year after my babys birth. He works and runs his own business to take care of us and is working hard to buy a house for us. I pray the Lord also gives you a good godly man
Yes keep praying sweety for that good man. I was also a single mom of 2 for 11 yrs never got to spend time with my babies cause I had no choice always working 😢 but he finally sent me a good man and I know he will do the same for you. I will keep you in my prayers❤
i have been asking God to help me in my marriage, ive been very unhappy with my husband and was thinking about a divorce. God not only led me to a message about offense and delivered me from that but then this message today helped me to see that I am the one not respecting my husband like he deserves . that is a hard pill to swallow but I thank God and you for this message today
I'm in the same boat today. I just feel so stuck but I'm learning to learn another way. I think I do lots of these things and more but If God requires me to do more, then that's just what I must
"obey submit" to ur husband's AUTHORITY OVER YOU he will be COMPELLED to reciprocate or leave ---> Love & Respect, Dr Emerson Eggerichs, based on Ephesians 5:21-33-----get it TODAY😇
I was following the feminism trends where my man cant tell me what to do & he can serve himself, clean for himself, I was working as well to make my own money. It was ruining my marriage. All we did was fight & argue. We almost divorced 4 times. We separated for a year. My 5 year old son got depression from being with a babysitter & not seeing me all day. I was also into witchcraft, Islam, spirituality trying every religion because I felt lost. Once I started attending a Christian church & reading the bible, listening to teachings like this video have helped me so much. My marriage is doing amazing. My son isn’t depressed anymore, I’m staying at home and serving my husband & he treats me with so much love. ❤❤❤ Very grateful to have found my way back to Jesus🥰
I am so happy for you sister. I have been on this same journey and have found my way back to Jesus. Only difference is that I have not had a husband during it all. Please for me sister that I would be granted a wonderful husband by the grace and mercy of God.
Not married but learning a lot for my future wife. The way you guys explain it in such harmony just shows what beautiful a creation God made marriage to truly be
Make sure you learn your role as the man as well. If you do not lead your family in the correct way, your wife will not follow you. Only when you submit to God, will she submit to you.
This is my first day home from deciding to leave my job to stay home with my son. Financially it seems scary, but trusting that God will provide and make a way is everything. This entire sermon blessed me and the Holy Spirit convicted me on a few things I need to apologize to my husband for and to do better. Thank you Jesus for this couple who preached this message. Listening from Sterling, VA ♥️
God with you. I did the same thing now we have three kids and we homeschool. Financially can be hard sometimes but we are trusting God. I work twice a week. But maybe you can look into homeschooling. Watch … the homeschool awakening to get an insight.
Yas!!! I love that you did that!!! Just a thought, the Proverbs 31 woman also had time for herself when she went afar to get special things and sold items and ran a business and had employees.
My wife a was and is a believer, she passed away due to cancer, strong faith and love for Jesus through it all . We will see each other again one day soon. She Truly was a Proverbs 31/32 wife. I still love her and can’t wait to see her again, Married 24 years short 3 months of her passing.
I’m sorry for your loss! She’s in the most loving hands now.. all souls belong to God and He gives and takes away… I’m glad that you were able to enjoy her, while God allowed her to live here, on earth… and yes, you will see her, again because God is not man to lie and He is faithful to His word! :) May God continue to give you strength and comfort!
I'm sorry for your loss and pray for you and know you will be together again. I'm glad you have a wonderful wife and can speak such flattering words of her. I thank God everyday for my husband and have always strive to be a good wife and mother and live by proverbs woman.
I m female from & living in Asia, just turned 50 yet still single. I still believe God will bless me with a spouse in spite of my age. I believe the long wait is because I wasn't ready all these years as my mind was too screwed up and destructive. Thank you for sharing both your wisdom. This is so good. Some day when God brings him to my life, I'll revisit all your marriage advice again & again. Thank you for such insightful and constructive sharing. God bless heapsss!! ❤🎉😊
@@awake8806 😊I repent for always complaining that my husband is not taking a leading role in our families spritual life.Your sermon really helped me to see my problems.
As a single man I'm very happy to learn and grow in my walk with the Lord and to be better prepared to receive & lay down my life for my future wife :) Thank you for this wonderful message!
I love ❤️ this message and your wife gives important points. This is a life changing words. Thank you , God blessings It is a privilege to listen to God choose men and women. I honestly honor the wisdom the Lord place in his people.
The part that stood out to me was that my husband was designed to need my help, that the things he struggles with are things that I am skilled to assist him in overcoming and I don’t have to be a victim of these things but accept my role as his helper
HUGE BLESSING TO ME!!! I repented, I’m sad to say I’ve been like a cancerous tumor and not being a better wife. This was a great teaching for me. The Lord touched my heart with this. Give me a clean heart oh lord! Amen!
Heavenly and Almighty God, I come before you humbled and sorrowful, aware of my sin, and ready to repent. Lord, forgive me for I have sinned before you. Wash away my sin, purify me, and help me to turn from this sin. Lead me to walk in your way instead, leaving behind my old life and starting a new life in you. 🙏✝️🤍
Amen amen... I, too, have become aware of my failings and sin in marriage in the last few months... thank God for His grace & mercy. If God is for us who can be against us?
My husband left me recently so it's been difficult for me to accept that I don't play the role of a wife anymore because I loved it but I know God has a biblical husband out there for me. This sermon was so well delivered and is helping me understand how to be a better biblical wife again one day. ❤
Same happened to me. I was working part time, took care of household and kids, while he was focused on his career and made the main income. And during that time I endured a lot of verbal abuse and control. Now after almost 30 years he wants me to work full time and take care of everything or move out and he doesn't want to give me anything. He says it is my problem that I don't have money or a job like him. That to the woman as a helper for her godly husband. That hurts! And it feels like I waisted my life and love for him. While he thinks he is the perfect husband and Christian. I hope I will not end up poor or homeless and maybe find a real loving husband even in my age. I still pray and hope for a change in him, but I think that is very unrealistic.
At 39:40 when he mentioned that men who leave their kids will have to face all the tears their kids shed really got me. my father abandoned me before i was born for another woman
My father was my hero. I thought the world of him. At 8 years old my father abandoned us several times. By 10 years old my father left us for a younger woman. We seen every few years,but I felt betrayed by the him and the woman who also broke up her childrens home for my father.
@@robinluich6626 I cannot even imagine how terrible it would be to go through that…… that feels like a deeper abandonment and betrayal than when it happens as a baby bc at least he never knew me
@@KimRope ,I had never been so hurt as the day my father showed up after months of missing him and he was holding the hand of another little girl my age with blonde hair and blue eyes too. My mom yelled ,kids your dad is here. I joyfully went running to the kitchen and stopped dead in my tracks when he stood there holding another little girls hand. I thought " That's why he didn't come home ,he got a new a little girl. Heartbroken doesn't come close to describe my hurt and the betrayal,along with abandonment. My dad would normally hold out his arms for me to run into them. Not that time. My brother, my father's only son,wouldn't even walk into the kitchen to see dad. He was heartbroken too. My mother seen the hurt on us kids. Mom told him You have some nerve showing up here with another kid when these kids haven't seen you in months. It was terrible. I married a much better man than father was.
I so LOVE this message 👨👩👦👦 I’m stay home mom Married for 21 years Raising two kids my boy 17 years old at a christian private school and homeschooling my little 8 yr old daughter. I’m a living testimony of this teaching. It is possible to go against the culture with the help of the Holy Spirit.
I just came across this Pastor today and I have been blessed. What I noticed between this sermon and the sermon about biblical husbands, is that his tone and delivery and demeanor is totally different when he’s speaking about wives than husbands. He has true understanding of the delicacy of women and he delivered it here. This is absolutely beautiful. His wife is blessed and you can tell she’s well taken care of IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!!!
I am a working/housewife. I call myself that because I cannot afford to not work at the moment, but I try my best by the grace of God to be present for my children and my husband as much as I can. May God helps us through this process
I love it as well. Unfortunately in my case when I leave the decision to my husband he makes none, leaves things without direction. So I must step in and make the decision last minute to its best at that moment. Afterwards I listen how my desion was bad and the whole family hates me and blames me. This is very hard to live with but I know deeply in my heart that I did my best and God will judge my husband as Vlad said.
Only righteous men, though. I submitted for 38 years, and lost everything thru his theft & secret pedo relationship with our daughter. A word to the wise.
I was my ex-husband crown, and he's an evil person. I prayed for strength to endure the relationship and wait on an answer from God. Our 2 sons blamed me for his actions. He was emotionally abusive , but God shield my mind and protected me. One Friday evening he came home and told me he was leaving us. That was music to my ears, and I told him to give the boys their allowance for the weekend. He was so shocked at my reaction 😂. I wasn't looking for God or my respect towards my husband to change the relationship for the better, but God worked it out for my best. It's been 26 yrs since HE divorced his family, and he still try to keep up with my life. Asking people how am I doing, and I'm still his wife😂. I'm raising our special needs grandson of 24 yrs. , and my ex-husband makes sure we're financially taken care of. God knows how to make good out of bad💯🙌🙌.
I am sooo glad you can see God's love for you in the midst of those hard times! I haven't been through that kind of experience, but I have seen it when people I love say really earth-shattering things to me. It just reminds me that God is the One Who is Our True Home. I know they don't understand what they are doing. Thank you for all you have done in helping your family. I hope Jesus continues to bless you!!🌹🌹🌹
I'm not usually one to give much private information publicly, but I feel I needed you and your wife to know this. And publicly is the only way. I feel that you need to know that you are on the right path and the only way that can happen is if people tell you when you have helped them. God brought you to me at just the right time. My husband and I have been married 29 years, and things are falling apart. I watched this sermon and the one for husbands. Of course I watched the one for husbands first because, like most people, we think the other person is the one making most or all of the mistakes. I wanted confirmation that I was right. You said so many things that were spot on about what women want, the way they think, and what they need that I decided to watch this one. It made me realize that I am doing so many things wrong that maybe I should be the first one to make a change. My husband is not destroying our marriage. We are both equally doing so. This is the first time I could ever admit that. I love him and do not ever want to be without him. I've always known that. It is in my mind always no matter how bad things have gotten. I am so glad God called you to do his work. I am so grateful he led me to you.
Same. 28 years here. We don't like each other anymore. Fight n tear each other down. He isn't the biblical husband he should be but I've been disrespectful and critical, the rottenness that discourages and emasculates. I've been preparing for divorce, looking forward to it actually, because this has been ongoing for years. But I believe God brought me to these 2 messages. I know He despises divorce. But I thought "I knew better!" This pastor is truly a gift from God. He used just the right words to reach my hard heart. I'm repenting, and will do the "uncomfortable" work of trying to repair our marriage. God will ultimately perform the reparations, but im going to work with Him instead of against Him. Pray for me. My husband isn't perfect. Neglectful and stingy. But I made the commitment before God, and I hvnt been honoring or respectful. I'm going to take the plank out of my eye and leave my husband's plank to God. Thank you, Pastor, for your messages. You cannot begin to know the lives you've touch. All praise to God.
Thank you for this message. My marriage is in trouble. I am being controlled by my husbands demanding personality. He’s a hard man. I don’t want to leave him, but I don’t know how much longer I can handle the verbal and emotional abuse. Honestly, I struggle respecting him I struggle with even loving him. Please pray for us.
I am a stay at home, homeschooling Mum. We had to homeschool because of our son’s additional needs not being met in mainstream school. At first I thought his difficulties were unfair and why me? Then, just before we decided to leave school, he said I’m not sure if I’m a boy or a girl. I was livid, at the school, but at the time I calmly spoke to him and asked if he had a boy or girl body? He said boy, so I said there, you’re a boy. We had told the school not to include him in that part of their curriculum and they clearly didn’t respect our wishes, where else would a seven year old get this idea? We restrict his media viewing so it must have come from the school. So glad he’s not being exposed to those dangerous ideas anymore. We are all so much happier now that I am at home full time and in my feminine energy. ❤
I submitted to a man that wasn’t my husband, and it backfired so I’m now trying it God’s way and waiting for my husband to then submit, honor and respect him
This was very nice sermon to hear. My husband and I are both Christians however my husband is not as spiritual as I am. No children in our marriage. But my husband can be very controlling with me. I have to take care of the finances as he doesn’t understand the concept of money and feel like we can spend money like we have it. It is nice to hear these kind of messages so I can learn and I can pass it onto my husband and hope he will catch on. Please pray for me and my husband. ❤
I’m sorry but I think you missed the point of this video, I’m sorry that your husband do not know how to deal with money, but this video is about what WE wives can improve, if God sent this video to you and not your husband is because YOU need to hear. That doesn’t make him right, but throwing on his face what HE needs to catch on is exactly what they say in this video not to do. You love your husband, respect and honor him, then GOD will change him. It’s hard, there’s so many things I had being telling my husband I need him to do better and it just makes things worse, even if I’m right about those things, the point is not to be right, is to love, to be long suffering towards their weaknesses, and humble to admit ours. And after we do that we can see Gods miracles!
I grew up in a single headed household where I saw my mom disrespect my older brothers even to date. She uses her words to destroy, and without knowing (intending to) I am doing the same to my husband. I am so sorry, he is a kind man & loves me so much. Deep down I want to access who I envision myself to be & envy calm, gentle, considerate ladies. I am not that, I am ashamed & tired of feeling like a short of these traits because I am a Christian , but how do I even say I love God if I am not loving my husband. Holy Spirit help me be a good wife, & to trust you.
Single Women - Be mindful of the man you choose to say no to everyone else; that He is a kind of man that you WANT TO LEAD YOU. Be sure He understands YOU ARE HIS CROWN 👑 Partnership 🙏 is ❤ Beautiful 🎉
u are not his crown partnership ughhhhhh------the head (leader/protector) is 100% vested in the husband translation men are the prize sounds like u are a crown of thorns😆😆😆
What stood out for me is what I need to stop doing as a wife. Being critical,nagging, negative. I now understand that honor and respect will draw my husband to God and to loving me. I'm in a journey of learning especially to submit to my husband's government. 'He has the final say'. I will listen over and over again even as I practice what you have taught. Thank you this is life changing.
I understand that you said nagging and being negative to some degree, but honestly what is wrong with being critical? Like isn't it more dangerous to take things at face value?
I just finalized my divorce and have a 2 yr old; my ex husband has no role in our lives. I felt so seen from this message. Thank you guys so much. I'm actually in pursuit of a degree in business so that I may open a school that goes against the propaganda that's in our schools today. I work as a nanny so I'm able to work and keep my son rather than putting him in daycare. Never heard of this channel, but today you got a new listener/subscriber! Seeing a loving husband and wife speak truth and yielding to God's word is SO refreshing!! I wish I lived closer to your church. I'm in South Florida. God bless y'all
This has convicted me much. Coming from a family with strong women, many who were never married. I have adopted that strength but allowed it to take precedence over submission to my husband. Even though I feel like my husband should be doing this or that I could be a better wife God has called me to be and that will encourage him and allow Holy Spirit to move.
This message was impactful and profound and truly blessed me. I’m inspired to be a better wife and confidante to my husband because he is amazing and deserves it. I never had an issue submitting to ny husband because he 1:04:03 reveres the Lord and holds Him dear to his heart and follows Christ so as long as my husband follows Christ I can trust that I’m in good hands. I love being protected. After being single for many years, I wouldn’t change it for the world. Two is better than one. I thank God for allowing my hubby to locate me. I am forever grateful 🙏🏽
I loved this teaching! It showed me how much I have grown as a wife over the years. I had to learn a lot because being a biblical wife was not modeled for me but the Lord provides! He has taught and led me into being a great wife (according to my husband 😂). I hope all husbands and wives can come to learn these key concepts and implement them in marriage. I believe the world would be a much better place!
This was a blessing. I am a single mom of one and praying for God to connect me with the right person. As I am learning how to be a good wife based on biblical teachings, I am praying for grace as well to carry me through that time when it comes. In the meantime, I am enjoying my space and allowing God to fill it and teach me the way I should live for his glory.
I was a single mom before meeting my husband. I got very specific with the Lord one day and put pen to paper about what I wanted in a man for not only myself but my children. A year later I met my husband, it's been 16 years together. My kids have had a stable man to call "dad" all of these years and I have the love of my life thanks to a prayer one night. Get serious with Papa God and his will shall be done in your life when the time is right. His grace is abound now you just hold onto that faith ❤ Bless you and your child(ren).
What I think is so crazy to wrap my mind around is that husbands are given 3 simple tasks: Love, lead, and sacrifice. Wives are given 3 simple tasks: Submit, obey, and help. It's that easy. And it's very rare that one or both do this.
Yes, I loved this sermon, my wife and I have our trials and tribulations.but you described our marriage to a tee. I'll hug her a little tighter and let her know a little more how much I love her.
I appreciate you both!!! Thank you for reminding me of my peace in His words. Single mom with 5 grown children. I am struggling financially to put any money away for the future. Wanting to never be a burden on my kids. Thank you both for sharing Gods peace ❤
Wonderful teaching, I am 74 and married, and learned quite a bit from this precious couple who live full time to serve our Lord AND Savior Jesus Christ. Amen to this wonderful teaching.
Thank you for this teaching. I learned that I am 1/5 biblical wife lol. I am not discouraged, but instead I am blessed to know the areas where I am failing in. I want to pray and ask God to help me in these areas and make me a biblical wife. Thank you so much for your powerful teachings.
I'm gonna butcher the line but when you said we need to honor our husbands even when they don't deserve honor, because we are to be honorable women. It hit me hard! I had to turn it off and just mull on it. Thank you for sharing these Biblical truths. Earlier today I was seeking the Lord on how I just feel so far from Him. I asked the Lord if I had allowed some sin into my life that was causing the separation, because I know that He has not changed. He brought up my lack of submission to my husband. I was shocked but I definitely do admit I am disrespectful. So I searched up how to be a submissive wife and here we are!. Thank you to you both for your faithful teaching of the word of God. I'm taking it to hear and know the Lord is chastening me.
I honestly feel God led me to this message. This is blessed me beyond words. I'm going through one of the hardest seasons of my life but God is a keeper. This message provided both conviction and confirmation. 🙏🏽 May God continue to bless your ministry
Got my Celsius and Bose earbuds and ready to listen . Respect and honor the both of you so I know I can receive this . Hard to receive these kinds of teachings from just anyone. 🙏❤️
I am so glad the Lord led me to these videos, I'm praying that I can be the Biblical wife my soon to be husband needs and can be proud of. The submissive section comparing a Family role to the chain of command of the Holy Trinity really spoke and uplifted me. Thank you for these videos and putting the word of God in such an understandable message. Praise the Lord 🙌🙏
Same! I’ve been lost in what submission meant for awhile. I didn’t understand how it worked when the woman has a “more dominant” personality. Takes a lot of humility & trust!
Thank you for this sermon Pastor, I've come to realize that i'm not a traditional wife like I thought. I've fallen into how the trap of being a nagging wife and trying to change my husband when it's really me that needs to change alpt. I came from a house of abuse neglect and sexual abuse. I believe all this plays a factor. Today I've woken up to how I really am. All I want is to be a biblical wife. So thank you, God has answered my prayers and shown me the truth theough you. God bless.
Thank you so much! What I learned....a lot. I repent because I see that I have wronged my love. I am so grateful for Gods grace and reconciliation! Gracious words!
As a teacher of 10 years, I just wanted to say a sincere thank you for posting such uplifting music for me to use in my classroom while students are working. It is incredible to watch their little faces light up when they hear the tune of a song they know and even better when they hum along. It's a blessing every day I use it! Thank you SO much!
What a blessing message. It spoke high volumes for me as a first time wife. I recently married year 22' June. So far so great but I need alot of improvement. I'm aware I'm not perfect. What I learned about this video was how to submit to my husband wilfully, respect him and speak to him with kindness. It's going to take time for me to practice those traits and it'll take trial and error. This is all new to me and I want God to guide me the righteous way. My husband is worth it. I intend being with him until death do us apart. ❤
If you are referring to emotional/verbal abuse I highly recommend watching videos from Kris Reece who is also a great biblical teacher especially on this subject. Much love and prayers ❤
Thank you both for sharing your roles as husband and wife. You are a very good preacher. You have got my attention on many things you teach. I'm going to keep the fire burning
You have such a beautiful wife inside and out and she explains things with such grace. You are a great team! I wasn’t sure if I was being a Biblical wife and you both helped me identify where I am doing well and where I need some work. I especially liked the breakdown of what submission means as it relates to God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. So beautifully explained!
What a blessed message, so good. I struggle with being submissive, yet I really do want to be able to stay home. Sadly, we have not been able to have children, and both my husband and I are struggling with major health crisis right now. Please pray for me so God can heal me and deliver me from all disease specially cancer, and also for my husband to experience healing. We are both believers in Christ, and desire for us to be able to have children. I would love for those miracles to happen and to be able to stay home with the children God provides. Also, asking God for direction in the midst of our health crisis for whether we should start foster care and/or adoption. May God guide us and may His will be done.
You've turned your case to the LORD, I add my voice to your prayer that, God who is healer, heal your completely through the shed blood of Jesus Amen. Also I pray for total recovery of your womb and ability to have children in Jesus name. He's the originator and knows how to fix it better! May the Holy Spirit bring the Mystery in Marriage to you as you read Eph 5 : ---------- 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Praying for you and your husband. Praying for peace, healing, and trust in God's willingness to create a miracle in your family's lives. God bless you.
This was such a blessing!! Thank you for this message! I as a wife and mother of 5 children am finally realizing how God wants me to operate in my home and family! I’ve been consumed with myself for so many years even though I’ve been home, and now my heart is ready to follow Gods leading in managing my children and home and loving my husband the way He designed me to! This message gave clear instructions and guidelines that I really needed to get started! Thank you so much!!!❤
Going to be putting all of these more so into practice with my husband and my children. We are already having a breakthrough and your messages has reached me at the right time in our journey in Christ. God bless you and thank you both. Your wife is beautiful!❤
Such a blessing. I love how you guys interact and rely on each other to compliment each other & specify how important following Gods plan for our marriage and home is important to be followed. With love.
Such a great message! Every man and woman should hear it! I only pray that one day God will grant me a husband and children that I may be blessed to submit, serve, build a home, and raise children in the truth of the Bible. God bless this couple!
Thank you for this beautiful amazing teaching, its our 7th wedding anniversary today, it was so good for me as wife to listen to this kind of teaching on our special day ❤ I have been asking God to teach how to submissive to my husband and respect him, to be a better wife and this teaching came at the right time ❤ My husband comes from a very strong Christian background and when I met him, he believed in God and I know deep down in his heart he still loves God but he doesn't know what to believe in anymore, my husband was born with a medical condition that causes not to have kids and his desire is to be healed, unfortunately his faith has gone down the hill because God hasn't healed him yet. He doesn't pray, read the Bible or go to church anymore, he is in his own world and that made it so hard for me to be submissive to him sometimes but this year I have been asking God to teach me to be submissive and your teaching has encouraged me to keep going ❤ And for the last few years, I decided not to force him to pray, read the word or go to church 🙏 God made me realized that it was His job to change not mine ❤ Thank you so much both of you 💓 God bless you always and may God fill your lives with wisdom and understanding in everything you do ❤
Not to impose but maybe try watching prophetic ministries especially healing and deliverance services so he can be encouraged and see that God can heal. Please try Emmanuel TV prophet TB Joshuas ministry. It really helps strengthen faith and expose curses and their cause.
Extremely backslidden maybe but I would say he’s an unbeliever. Treat him as such, it tells u in the Word how. What a hard hard thing to be unequally yoked with.
This message was a great reminder as my role as a wife I have no problem submitting to my husband because I don’t see that word as diminishing. My husband is a man of God a great leader and. Wonderful husband and friend. We both respect and honour each other and it is only because God honoured and served and loved us first ❣️ Thank you Pastors💜 God bless you❣️
Hi, I just recently found this channel on TH-cam and I'm soaking it all in. Pastor Vlad's preaching is so powerful and spirit filled! I wanted to hear him talk about biblical roles and was so thankful to have found this video with his lovely wife. We are an older couple raising our grand nephew whome we adopted. He will be 5 this summer and has been in daycare and now preschool for most of his early years. I am a teacher and my husband is on social security. I am really torn and always wanted to stay home with him but could not see how we could do it financially. Next school year he'll be entering kindergarten. I don't know what to do. I am praying about this daily and would appreciate prayer!
I pray that God will give you wisdom and provide for all your needs. Can your husband homeschool the child? Government schools teach our children how to NOT love God. The actual teaching portion of the day will be very small at this point.
From a stay at home mom that homeschools thank you. The end gave me chills and made me tear up. It was a blessing to hear this message. Thank you for the encouragement. May the Lord bless you both for following his word. Have a wonderful week.
This message was such a blessing to me. It brought conviction in some needed areas. You and your wife explained submission in such a beautiful beautiful way.
Love this so much. Thank you for this necessary and helpful teaching! Also for mentioning the part about husbands not loving the church more than his wife. As a PK who grew up in a home where the church took priority over family life that was good to hear.
Awesome message! Thank you so much. As a single man I am grateful to have watched this. This is something that I have to return to my notes for especially after being married to keep that fire in my fireplace! Thank you so much pastor. If God can do it for you, He can do it for me too! ❤
This was so encouraging, I am stay at home mum of 2 and have found it very fulfilling and challenging to be doing what seems opposite to our culture but the children and family is worth it. Thank you and God bless your ministry please pray for my family to be baptised
Thank you! What a great message! I never planned on being a stay at home mother of 3 very close in age but I am …. We did daycare the first year for our first one, and it broke my heart…even staying home is very difficult with society these days… No family help either makes it very guilt ridden… I am very grateful and appreciate your message and my husband❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this! This was very encouraging. Sometimes we can feel as if we aren’t doing much by staying home as mothers but you guys were right on point with everything that God has ministered to me about why it is important to stay home and raise my children while my husband works to provide. I used to work and I didn’t I have the energy to do half of the things I do now for my children. God wants us to give them our best including our husbands! It is very difficult to do that when you are juggling a job and a family. God helped me choose my family over having more money. We may not see all the seeds we are planting now in our little ones but one day we will see that harvest and it will be worth it to see our children serving the Lord -there is nothing more important than that! ❤ God bless you both! You two are incredible! Praise God!
I believe the devil has been obfuscating the definition of "submission" for decades in order to make us feel a negative stigma at the word. But submission is a road to freedom. Submission is the ultimate form of control. It is building a stronghold of order around yourself through rules and expectations that build a foundation of trust and allow absolute security. Submitting myself to the knowledge and rules of my husband has given me absolute trust in him. I know he loves me, I know he cares for me, I know what he will say about a situation before I ask him, because I have asked him for the last 5 years and i have learned his answers. This has helped me to know how to act in a way that would be pleasing to him, even when he's not around. This kind of marriage only works with a God fearing husband, because his rules are for my good. His answers are because he loves me. And we are not perfect, but God is. Since we are both submitted to God in the same way, I am also free to be submitted to him.
No, being submissive to your husband is a 50s housewife. Women did not fight hard for centuries for equal rights just to be told they should "submit' to their husbands. This is the 21st century. Get with it. Thank goodness Christianity is dying.
@@lifeisbannanas You're entitled to your opinion, but I would respectfully disagree. As a Christian, I believe that mutual submission and respect are important in any relationship, including marriage. The Bible teaches that husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives should respect their husbands. This doesn't mean that one partner is superior or inferior to the other, but rather that both partners should honor and serve each other. It's also important to note that Christianity is not dying - in fact, it's the world's largest religion with over 2 billion followers worldwide 🙏✝️ May the Lord Jesus Christ bless your heart 🤍
@@lifeisbannanas if the man carries the heavy burdens of leadership responsibility n accountability while providing protecting n loving sacrificially then yes u need to submit to his authority
Thank you so much! I have been trying to gain understanding of my role as a young wife walking in the truth. Neither myself or my husband have had examples of good marriages and we are figuring this out for the first time. This has given me such an understanding that has filled my heart with so much joy, to the point where I know I will be tested with it and I am excited to be faced with this truth. I am ready to overcome the battle I have been facing to prove my love, respect and honor toward my husband and to ESTEEM the Father! HalaluYAH!!! Praise YAH !
I really appreciate the tactful but courageous way you addressed modern gender theory (e.g., transgenderism). It is indeed an incoherent worldview, but that doesn't mean we have to be (actually) hateful or mean-spirited about it.
Thank you, I needed this message. I'm 28 and not married yet, but I always wanted to do more with my life then "just having a family and a normal life". But God makes me understand that this is also a beautiful way to serve Him. This doesn't mean God won't use me in other places, but maybe I needed to finally understand the importance of my role before God can send me my better half.
Praise The Lord 🙌 Really blessed Pastor & Lana thank you! I was 'home maker' only until my daughter back to school full time (after Covid:) I go back to work outside too. Yes I recommend every mother/father either 1 able to stay home with your child until they go to school minimum 6 hours (God bless the right heart desires if you want a job with perfect timing that match with their school time and be home when they're home 🙏 amen!!!)
this blessed me, i raised my daughter alone with Gods help, was very difficult. Praise Jesus she is 20 years old today and married. Im still single but trusting for a Husband still. God bless you Vlad and Lana
Excellent interview! Pastor Vlad, your wife is not only beautiful, but as she speaks the anointing flows like a river through the screen. Thank you for teaching the body of Christ the way you do. I am sure people are being built and edify in every area the Lord leads you to teach. God bless you!
Just listening to Pastor Vlad's wife already makes me feel peaceful. It gives hope that there are millions of good women out there. Honor and respect, that is how we REAL men feel loved
I’m extremely grateful for this sermon. I REALLY needed it. I can’t say I’ve always walked in the proper way of a Godly wife with my husband. I also want to clarify that, I have never cheated on my husband. But I didn’t always give him the honor & respect that he deserved & I should have been giving him. I have made mistakes in my marriage. I am also doing my very best to make changes within myself to not make mistakes like that again. This sermon opened up my eyes to a lot of things. Thank you for preaching this. I’m extremely grateful & blessed for it.
We have 9 kids. I love being submitted to my husband, he gives me something to submit to, he's a good man. ♡
Good, that's a large family!🪨🪨🛀🛀
@Melanie Martin 7 of my birth children, 2 we are adopting. I still consider the 2 mine. My sister passed away, they are her kids. We absolutely love it. I'm blessed to have a Godly husband who in very much involved. 🙏
Praise the Lord!! That’s wonderful. This sermon is making me repent. I have been a cancerous tumor to the bone and I feel so ashamed. I don’t want to be that person in my marriage. I want to be a trad wife and have respect for my husband and take care of him. Sometimes my field in healthcare makes me feel empty with caring and I need the Lord everyday to give the care. I need Jesus even more to be a good wife to my husband. God bless my man for sticking around. I see my mistakes now and I’m ready for correction. Thank you God!
Wow I pray I can see God move like that in my life. So beautiful 🙏 ❤️
God bless you and your family❤️💪🏼🙏🏼
Im a stay at home mom. I don't miss going to work at ALL 😂 being a stay at home mom is a MILLION times harder 100000%%. But it just feels right. If I'm going to be stressed out daily it may as well be for something thats actually worth being stressed over. Id say my home and children are something worth stressing over!
So true lol but again it’s not “million times” harder😅
@@MMJ501 for me it is. But i also homeschool. And my husband works from home. Its chaos every day 🤣 i miss my lunch breaks LOL
I agree!
@@vickywright54 it is absolutely a million times hard lolol. no breaks no sick days. it's not about you anymore. exhausting but like you said it's the right thing before the Lord and they are so worth it.
Not here to argue! Kids grow up but hectic jobs remain.
1. Partners with her husband to rule over creation.
2. Helps her husband.
3. Is a crown to her husband.
4. Submits to her husband.
5. Builds her home.
And the husband?
@@twainalex996 Lays down his life for his wife. Next video from the following week after this one.
@@twainalex996 does what he's suppose to otherwise she wouldn't feel this way
Amen. I haven't even heard the entire message yet. God put this... The 5 things right here... He has this in my heart and I am at the 5th one and now Satan wants to assassinate everything that is us now. I give this situation to God. I give the influence around us to God, I give all of the evil around us to God. I know you are active in our lives Holy Spirit. God is for us and I know it. Thank you Jesus. Amen.😊
@Johnny Longshlong That's why there is a sermin for this. ;)
What stood out from this message was them speaking and praying for single moms. As a single mother who does have to work & can’t stay home, I am praying that one day I will be able to stay home with my children after God sends me a husband. I truly believe that in Jesus name.
Yes this is possible with prayers. I was a single mom of 2 for 11 years, always working 2 jobs and never spent time with my kids. Then God gave me my husband, and now we have 2 more boys. I just became a stay at home mom this year after my babys birth. He works and runs his own business to take care of us and is working hard to buy a house for us. I pray the Lord also gives you a good godly man
I pray for God to send you a godly man as well 🙏 ❤
Yes keep praying sweety for that good man. I was also a single mom of 2 for 11 yrs never got to spend time with my babies cause I had no choice always working 😢 but he finally sent me a good man and I know he will do the same for you. I will keep you in my prayers❤
Same here, single mom of a young son, praying for the same. Lord in your mercy, hear our prayer!
Keep standing and decreeing and thanking God for the husband he has for you
i have been asking God to help me in my marriage, ive been very unhappy with my husband and was thinking about a divorce. God not only led me to a message about offense and delivered me from that but then this message today helped me to see that I am the one not respecting my husband like he deserves . that is a hard pill to swallow but I thank God and you for this message today
Thank God. This is why churches need to teach the truth. Will save a lot of marriages if they don’t compromise on scripture.
The same here. But I want to do better. This teaching challenged me to be a real Christian in my home with my husband first.
I'm in the same boat today. I just feel so stuck but I'm learning to learn another way. I think I do lots of these things and more but If God requires me to do more, then that's just what I must
God bless. .. Keep grounded in the Word, my sister. God honors faithfulness.
"obey submit" to ur husband's AUTHORITY OVER YOU he will be COMPELLED to reciprocate or leave ---> Love & Respect, Dr Emerson Eggerichs, based on Ephesians 5:21-33-----get it TODAY😇
I was following the feminism trends where my man cant tell me what to do & he can serve himself, clean for himself, I was working as well to make my own money.
It was ruining my marriage. All we did was fight & argue. We almost divorced 4 times. We separated for a year. My 5 year old son got depression from being with a babysitter & not seeing me all day.
I was also into witchcraft, Islam, spirituality trying every religion because I felt lost.
Once I started attending a Christian church & reading the bible, listening to teachings like this video have helped me so much. My marriage is doing amazing. My son isn’t depressed anymore, I’m staying at home and serving my husband & he treats me with so much love. ❤❤❤
Very grateful to have found my way back to Jesus🥰
Did you cheat on your hubby?
I am so happy for you sister. I have been on this same journey and have found my way back to Jesus. Only difference is that I have not had a husband during it all. Please for me sister that I would be granted a wonderful husband by the grace and mercy of God.
Not married but learning a lot for my future wife. The way you guys explain it in such harmony just shows what beautiful a creation God made marriage to truly be
Start praying for her cause she is already out there living life.
@@watchthis1316 amen!! 🙏
Make sure you learn your role as the man as well. If you do not lead your family in the correct way, your wife will not follow you. Only when you submit to God, will she submit to you.
@@ChaChaRah 🙏🏼 amén!
Just stay single. Marriage is too much work
This is my first day home from deciding to leave my job to stay home with my son. Financially it seems scary, but trusting that God will provide and make a way is everything. This entire sermon blessed me and the Holy Spirit convicted me on a few things I need to apologize to my husband for and to do better. Thank you Jesus for this couple who preached this message.
Listening from Sterling, VA ♥️
God with you. I did the same thing now we have three kids and we homeschool. Financially can be hard sometimes but we are trusting God. I work twice a week. But maybe you can look into homeschooling. Watch … the homeschool awakening to get an insight.
That’s beautiful ❤
❤ I pray God bless you and your family in every need of your life. Praying from Flomaton, Alabama Sending love Bless you - Mrs. Kristi Garrett!
Yas!!! I love that you did that!!! Just a thought, the Proverbs 31 woman also had time for herself when she went afar to get special things and sold items and ran a business and had employees.
Same here! Just left my job to stay home with my son also….God sent this message right on time
My wife a was and is a believer, she passed away due to cancer, strong faith and love for Jesus through it all . We will see each other again one day soon. She Truly was a Proverbs 31/32 wife. I still love her and can’t wait to see her again, Married 24 years short 3 months of her passing.
I’m sorry for your loss! She’s in the most loving hands now.. all souls belong to God and He gives and takes away… I’m glad that you were able to enjoy her, while God allowed her to live here, on earth… and yes, you will see her, again because God is not man to lie and He is faithful to His word! :) May God continue to give you strength and comfort!
I'm sorry for your loss and pray for you and know you will be together again. I'm glad you have a wonderful wife and can speak such flattering words of her. I thank God everyday for my husband and have always strive to be a good wife and mother and live by proverbs woman.
32?
May God comfort you
I’m sorry for your loss!May God comfort you!
I m female from & living in Asia, just turned 50 yet still single. I still believe God will bless me with a spouse in spite of my age. I believe the long wait is because I wasn't ready all these years as my mind was too screwed up and destructive.
Thank you for sharing both your wisdom. This is so good. Some day when God brings him to my life, I'll revisit all your marriage advice again & again.
Thank you for such insightful and constructive sharing. God bless heapsss!! ❤🎉😊
I pray you find your husband❤️
May God bless you with a Godly man.
Praying for a Godly husband in JESUS NAME!
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😊I repent for always complaining that my husband is not taking a leading role in our families spritual life.Your sermon really helped me to see my problems.
God bless you! I love seeing your faith and believe that God will come through for you. ❤
As a single man I'm very happy to learn and grow in my walk with the Lord and to be better prepared to receive & lay down my life for my future wife :) Thank you for this wonderful message!
What happened?😮😮😮😮
I love ❤️ this message and your wife gives important points. This is a life changing words. Thank you , God blessings
It is a privilege to listen to God choose men and women. I honestly honor the wisdom the Lord place in his people.
Amen🙏
❤
Same here🎉🎉🎉
The part that stood out to me was that my husband was designed to need my help, that the things he struggles with are things that I am skilled to assist him in overcoming and I don’t have to be a victim of these things but accept my role as his helper
Yes!
You just sealed the deal for me. I'm going to listen to this all the way through! Thank you. ❤
HUGE BLESSING TO ME!!! I repented, I’m sad to say I’ve been like a cancerous tumor and not being a better wife. This was a great teaching for me. The Lord touched my heart with this. Give me a clean heart oh lord! Amen!
Heavenly and Almighty God, I come before you humbled and sorrowful, aware of my sin, and ready to repent. Lord, forgive me for I have sinned before you. Wash away my sin, purify me, and help me to turn from this sin. Lead me to walk in your way instead, leaving behind my old life and starting a new life in you. 🙏✝️🤍
Amen 🙏🏾 same. Thank you lord
We will rise again and be the best wives possible for our husbands
Hallelujah
❤thanks you for your truth! So have I!
Amen amen... I, too, have become aware of my failings and sin in marriage in the last few months... thank God for His grace & mercy. If God is for us who can be against us?
My husband left me recently so it's been difficult for me to accept that I don't play the role of a wife anymore because I loved it but I know God has a biblical husband out there for me. This sermon was so well delivered and is helping me understand how to be a better biblical wife again one day. ❤
Hopefully he Will repent one day , hopefully soon he will realize it is a sin!
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Why should he repent for?
Every coin has two sides.
There is her version. His version. And there is the true.
Was he a believer as well?🥲
Same happened to me. I was working part time, took care of household and kids, while he was focused on his career and made the main income. And during that time I endured a lot of verbal abuse and control. Now after almost 30 years he wants me to work full time and take care of everything or move out and he doesn't want to give me anything. He says it is my problem that I don't have money or a job like him. That to the woman as a helper for her godly husband. That hurts! And it feels like I waisted my life and love for him. While he thinks he is the perfect husband and Christian. I hope I will not end up poor or homeless and maybe find a real loving husband even in my age. I still pray and hope for a change in him, but I think that is very unrealistic.
God knows why? Your absolutley Gorgeous
At 39:40 when he mentioned that men who leave their kids will have to face all the tears their kids shed really got me. my father abandoned me before i was born for another woman
🙏🌹🤲
My father was my hero.
I thought the world of him.
At 8 years old my father abandoned us several times.
By 10 years old my father left us for a younger woman. We seen every few years,but I felt betrayed by the him and the woman who also broke up her childrens home for my father.
@@robinluich6626 I cannot even imagine how terrible it would be to go through that…… that feels like a deeper abandonment and betrayal than when it happens as a baby bc at least he never knew me
Does this apply to husbands for coercive sexual harassment?
@@KimRope ,I had never been so hurt as the day my father showed up after months of missing him and he was holding the hand of another little girl my age with blonde hair and blue eyes too.
My mom yelled ,kids your dad is here. I joyfully went running to the kitchen and stopped dead in my tracks when he stood there holding another little girls hand. I thought " That's why he didn't come home ,he got a new a little girl. Heartbroken doesn't come close to describe my hurt and the betrayal,along with abandonment.
My dad would normally hold out his arms for me to run into them. Not that time. My brother, my father's only son,wouldn't even walk into the kitchen to see dad. He was heartbroken too.
My mother seen the hurt on us kids. Mom told him You have some nerve showing up here with another kid when these kids haven't seen you in months.
It was terrible.
I married a much better man than father was.
The way he looks at her when she speaks😍 They’re so cute! God bless you guys for spreading the gospel💕
I so LOVE this message 👨👩👦👦
I’m stay home mom
Married for 21 years
Raising two kids my boy 17 years old at a christian private school and homeschooling my little 8 yr old daughter.
I’m a living testimony of this teaching. It is possible to go against the culture with the help of the Holy Spirit.
God bless you for this
Love this for you.
What type of income do you think the man must make, to sustain this type of lifestyle for himself & family?
2w😩😍
there's nuttin to go against if was TRAINED to be a "housewife" --> thank ur "dad"👍😇
I just came across this Pastor today and I have been blessed. What I noticed between this sermon and the sermon about biblical husbands, is that his tone and delivery and demeanor is totally different when he’s speaking about wives than husbands. He has true understanding of the delicacy of women and he delivered it here. This is absolutely beautiful. His wife is blessed and you can tell she’s well taken care of IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!!!
I am a working/housewife. I call myself that because I cannot afford to not work at the moment, but I try my best by the grace of God to be present for my children and my husband as much as I can. May God helps us through this process
This is so good. I've been married for over 2 years and I'm just now learning that I need to change to be a godly wife
sure i had to update EVERYTHING NEW SET OF GUIDELINES----Love & Respect, Dr Emerson Eggerichs -> get this book, TODAY!
Submitting to Husband makes husband more responsible - loved it 👑👑
I love it as well. Unfortunately in my case when I leave the decision to my husband he makes none, leaves things without direction. So I must step in and make the decision last minute to its best at that moment. Afterwards I listen how my desion was bad and the whole family hates me and blames me. This is very hard to live with but I know deeply in my heart that I did my best and God will judge my husband as Vlad said.
WOWWWWWWWW u got that "scared-perfect" in the Lord😆😇
Only righteous men, though. I submitted for 38 years, and lost everything thru his theft & secret pedo relationship with our daughter. A word to the wise.
I was my ex-husband crown, and he's an evil person. I prayed for strength to endure the relationship and wait on an answer from God. Our 2 sons blamed me for his actions. He was emotionally abusive , but God shield my mind and protected me. One Friday evening he came home and told me he was leaving us. That was music to my ears, and I told him to give the boys their allowance for the weekend. He was so shocked at my reaction 😂. I wasn't looking for God or my respect towards my husband to change the relationship for the better, but God worked it out for my best. It's been 26 yrs since HE divorced his family, and he still try to keep up with my life. Asking people how am I doing, and I'm still his wife😂. I'm raising our special needs grandson of 24 yrs. , and my ex-husband makes sure we're financially taken care of. God knows how to make good out of bad💯🙌🙌.
😢 I'm praying for you and your broken heart. Hurt and resentment.
If he isn't married yet, God can fix what man couldn't. Open your heart
possible, or maybe you were also part of the problem
With all due respect, I don't think this is an appropriate post for this type of content. God bless you.
I am sooo glad you can see God's love for you in the midst of those hard times! I haven't been through that kind of experience, but I have seen it when people I love say really earth-shattering things to me. It just reminds me that God is the One Who is Our True Home. I know they don't understand what they are doing. Thank you for all you have done in helping your family. I hope Jesus continues to bless you!!🌹🌹🌹
I'm not usually one to give much private information publicly, but I feel I needed you and your wife to know this. And publicly is the only way. I feel that you need to know that you are on the right path and the only way that can happen is if people tell you when you have helped them.
God brought you to me at just the right time. My husband and I have been married 29 years, and things are falling apart. I watched this sermon and the one for husbands. Of course I watched the one for husbands first because, like most people, we think the other person is the one making most or all of the mistakes. I wanted confirmation that I was right. You said so many things that were spot on about what women want, the way they think, and what they need that I decided to watch this one. It made me realize that I am doing so many things wrong that maybe I should be the first one to make a change. My husband is not destroying our marriage. We are both equally doing so. This is the first time I could ever admit that. I love him and do not ever want to be without him. I've always known that. It is in my mind always no matter how bad things have gotten.
I am so glad God called you to do his work. I am so grateful he led me to you.
Same. 28 years here. We don't like each other anymore. Fight n tear each other down. He isn't the biblical husband he should be but I've been disrespectful and critical, the rottenness that discourages and emasculates. I've been preparing for divorce, looking forward to it actually, because this has been ongoing for years. But I believe God brought me to these 2 messages. I know He despises divorce. But I thought "I knew better!" This pastor is truly a gift from God. He used just the right words to reach my hard heart. I'm repenting, and will do the "uncomfortable" work of trying to repair our marriage. God will ultimately perform the reparations, but im going to work with Him instead of against Him. Pray for me. My husband isn't perfect. Neglectful and stingy. But I made the commitment before God, and I hvnt been honoring or respectful. I'm going to take the plank out of my eye and leave my husband's plank to God. Thank you, Pastor, for your messages. You cannot begin to know the lives you've touch. All praise to God.
28 and 10 years married and still going strong thank you guys praise Jesus !
Thank you for this message. My marriage is in trouble. I am being controlled by my husbands demanding personality. He’s a hard man. I don’t want to leave him, but I don’t know how much longer I can handle the verbal and emotional abuse. Honestly, I struggle respecting him I struggle with even loving him. Please pray for us.
Praying for your clarity 🙏
Praying for you, your husband, and your marriage.
You need professional help
There’s a bother video Pastor had it’s called Suffering in Marriage. It’ll help.❤
@@omaragaravito9444thank you
I am a stay at home, homeschooling Mum. We had to homeschool because of our son’s additional needs not being met in mainstream school. At first I thought his difficulties were unfair and why me? Then, just before we decided to leave school, he said I’m not sure if I’m a boy or a girl. I was livid, at the school, but at the time I calmly spoke to him and asked if he had a boy or girl body? He said boy, so I said there, you’re a boy. We had told the school not to include him in that part of their curriculum and they clearly didn’t respect our wishes, where else would a seven year old get this idea? We restrict his media viewing so it must have come from the school. So glad he’s not being exposed to those dangerous ideas anymore. We are all so much happier now that I am at home full time and in my feminine energy. ❤
Additional needs? So hes a T ard😅
I submitted to a man that wasn’t my husband, and it backfired so I’m now trying it God’s way and waiting for my husband to then submit, honor and respect him
This was very nice sermon to hear. My husband and I are both Christians however my husband is not as spiritual as I am. No children in our marriage. But my husband can be very controlling with me. I have to take care of the finances as he doesn’t understand the concept of money and feel like we can spend money like we have it. It is nice to hear these kind of messages so I can learn and I can pass it onto my husband and hope he will catch on. Please pray for me and my husband. ❤
I’m sorry but I think you missed the point of this video, I’m sorry that your husband do not know how to deal with money, but this video is about what WE wives can improve, if God sent this video to you and not your husband is because YOU need to hear. That doesn’t make him right, but throwing on his face what HE needs to catch on is exactly what they say in this video not to do. You love your husband, respect and honor him, then GOD will change him. It’s hard, there’s so many things I had being telling my husband I need him to do better and it just makes things worse, even if I’m right about those things, the point is not to be right, is to love, to be long suffering towards their weaknesses, and humble to admit ours. And after we do that we can see Gods miracles!
Also “not spiritual as I am” shouldn’t God be the one to judge that?
This was a somewhat hard one to watch, but I needed it. I want to be the crown and not the cancer. Thank you, for every word spoken in this sermon.
I grew up in a single headed household where I saw my mom disrespect my older brothers even to date. She uses her words to destroy, and without knowing (intending to) I am doing the same to my husband. I am so sorry, he is a kind man & loves me so much. Deep down I want to access who I envision myself to be & envy calm, gentle, considerate ladies. I am not that, I am ashamed & tired of feeling like a short of these traits because I am a Christian , but how do I even say I love God if I am not loving my husband.
Holy Spirit help me be a good wife, & to trust you.
Single Women - Be mindful of the man you choose to say no to everyone else; that He is a kind of man that you WANT TO LEAD YOU. Be sure He understands YOU ARE HIS CROWN 👑 Partnership 🙏 is ❤ Beautiful 🎉
u are not his crown partnership ughhhhhh------the head (leader/protector) is 100% vested in the husband translation men are the prize sounds like u are a crown of thorns😆😆😆
What stood out for me is what I need to stop doing as a wife. Being critical,nagging, negative. I now understand that honor and respect will draw my husband to God and to loving me. I'm in a journey of learning especially to submit to my husband's government. 'He has the final say'. I will listen over and over again even as I practice what you have taught. Thank you this is life changing.
I understand that you said nagging and being negative to some degree, but honestly what is wrong with being critical? Like isn't it more dangerous to take things at face value?
I just finalized my divorce and have a 2 yr old; my ex husband has no role in our lives. I felt so seen from this message. Thank you guys so much. I'm actually in pursuit of a degree in business so that I may open a school that goes against the propaganda that's in our schools today. I work as a nanny so I'm able to work and keep my son rather than putting him in daycare. Never heard of this channel, but today you got a new listener/subscriber! Seeing a loving husband and wife speak truth and yielding to God's word is SO refreshing!! I wish I lived closer to your church. I'm in South Florida. God bless y'all
This has convicted me much. Coming from a family with strong women, many who were never married. I have adopted that strength but allowed it to take precedence over submission to my husband. Even though I feel like my husband should be doing this or that I could be a better wife God has called me to be and that will encourage him and allow Holy Spirit to move.
You adopted trauma, not strength.
@@CaptnMojo Never thought of it like that but definitely
I am currently preparing to be a TRAD wife. Can't wait! 😍🥰♥️✨
I'm what you've been waiting for.
@@jeremiahwhite2624 lol
Homeschooling my 4 babies. Thanks for the encouragement. I needed it. Sometimes I forget that there is a great reward at the end.❤
I really like how Pastor Vlad looks at Lana, so loving. Let men of God arise. Praise God for this beautiful family. Thank You Jesus.
They are a couple? Or in marriage?
At first I was confused about how I'm going to be a wife in the future. But after watching this, I now I know how to be a biblical wife. Thank you ❤😊
This message was impactful and profound and truly blessed me. I’m inspired to be a better wife and confidante to my husband because he is amazing and deserves it. I never had an issue submitting to ny husband because he 1:04:03 reveres the Lord and holds Him dear to his heart and follows Christ so as long as my husband follows Christ I can trust that I’m in good hands. I love being protected. After being single for many years, I wouldn’t change it for the world. Two is better than one. I thank God for allowing my hubby to locate me. I am forever grateful 🙏🏽
I loved this teaching! It showed me how much I have grown as a wife over the years. I had to learn a lot because being a biblical wife was not modeled for me but the Lord provides! He has taught and led me into being a great wife (according to my husband 😂). I hope all husbands and wives can come to learn these key concepts and implement them in marriage. I believe the world would be a much better place!
This was a blessing. I am a single mom of one and praying for God to connect me with the right person. As I am learning how to be a good wife based on biblical teachings, I am praying for grace as well to carry me through that time when it comes. In the meantime, I am enjoying my space and allowing God to fill it and teach me the way I should live for his glory.
Same❤
I was a single mom before meeting my husband. I got very specific with the Lord one day and put pen to paper about what I wanted in a man for not only myself but my children. A year later I met my husband, it's been 16 years together. My kids have had a stable man to call "dad" all of these years and I have the love of my life thanks to a prayer one night. Get serious with Papa God and his will shall be done in your life when the time is right. His grace is abound now you just hold onto that faith ❤ Bless you and your child(ren).
@@mimidiy7845 Thank you. Those who hope in the Lord will never be disappointed.
What I think is so crazy to wrap my mind around is that husbands are given 3 simple tasks: Love, lead, and sacrifice. Wives are given 3 simple tasks: Submit, obey, and help. It's that easy. And it's very rare that one or both do this.
Now that's deep. Great observation.
Yes, I loved this sermon, my wife and I have our trials and tribulations.but you described our marriage to a tee. I'll hug her a little tighter and let her know a little more how much I love her.
I appreciate you both!!! Thank you for reminding me of my peace in His words. Single mom with 5 grown children. I am struggling financially to put any money away for the future. Wanting to never be a burden on my kids. Thank you both for sharing Gods peace ❤
Wonderful teaching, I am 74 and married, and learned quite a bit from this precious couple who live full time to serve our Lord AND Savior Jesus Christ. Amen to this wonderful teaching.
Thank you for this teaching. I learned that I am 1/5 biblical wife lol. I am not discouraged, but instead I am blessed to know the areas where I am failing in. I want to pray and ask God to help me in these areas and make me a biblical wife. Thank you so much for your powerful teachings.
I'm gonna butcher the line but when you said we need to honor our husbands even when they don't deserve honor, because we are to be honorable women. It hit me hard! I had to turn it off and just mull on it. Thank you for sharing these Biblical truths.
Earlier today I was seeking the Lord on how I just feel so far from Him. I asked the Lord if I had allowed some sin into my life that was causing the separation, because I know that He has not changed. He brought up my lack of submission to my husband. I was shocked but I definitely do admit I am disrespectful. So I searched up how to be a submissive wife and here we are!.
Thank you to you both for your faithful teaching of the word of God. I'm taking it to hear and know the Lord is chastening me.
I honestly feel God led me to this message. This is blessed me beyond words. I'm going through one of the hardest seasons of my life but God is a keeper. This message provided both conviction and confirmation. 🙏🏽 May God continue to bless your ministry
Got my Celsius and Bose earbuds and ready to listen . Respect and honor the both of you so I know I can receive this . Hard to receive these kinds of teachings from just anyone. 🙏❤️
I am so glad the Lord led me to these videos, I'm praying that I can be the Biblical wife my soon to be husband needs and can be proud of. The submissive section comparing a Family role to the chain of command of the Holy Trinity really spoke and uplifted me. Thank you for these videos and putting the word of God in such an understandable message. Praise the Lord 🙌🙏
Same! I’ve been lost in what submission meant for awhile. I didn’t understand how it worked when the woman has a “more dominant” personality. Takes a lot of humility & trust!
Hallelujah. PTL.
Vlad's wife is soooo adorable so sweet and I love her giggling throughout, you can tell they are really connected and have a beautiful marriage😍
Finally the explanation of submission I needed to hear... Vlad is really funny and anointed.. Lana is so beautiful and calm. Love you guys
You are a beautiful couple used by the Lord. Keep up the good work. As a fellow Slavic immigrant in 🇺🇸 I’m so honored to have found your channel.
Thank you for this sermon Pastor, I've come to realize that i'm not a traditional wife like I thought. I've fallen into how the trap of being a nagging wife and trying to change my husband when it's really me that needs to change alpt. I came from a house of abuse neglect and sexual abuse. I believe all this plays a factor. Today I've woken up to how I really am. All I want is to be a biblical wife. So thank you, God has answered my prayers and shown me the truth theough you. God bless.
Would you want some potential advice on that? Would you want to talk about how you are trying to change him and why?
Beautiful sermon! I also loved the one about the role of the husbands. I'm not married but I'm learning so much. Thank you ❤
Thank you so much! What I learned....a lot. I repent because I see that I have wronged my love. I am so grateful for Gods grace and reconciliation! Gracious words!
As a teacher of 10 years, I just wanted to say a sincere thank you for posting such uplifting music for me to use in my classroom while students are working. It is incredible to watch their little faces light up when they hear the tune of a song they know and even better when they hum along. It's a blessing every day I use it! Thank you SO much!
Thank you for this!!! So good! I’m absolutely loving the movement of Christians going back to their first love and valuing what God values ❤️
Thank you for this sermon. I'm a man unmarried and hearing this gives me hope in Christ more and my future wife should definitely hear this 🎉
yeah... right attitude.. your wife SHOULD hear it! lol! so she can learn how to submit better when she comes around
Thank you for bring up working single moms who homeschool. My kid often misses out on meet up with other friends. But we are making it.
Praying for you❤
What a blessing message.
It spoke high volumes for me as a first time wife. I recently married year 22' June. So far so great but I need alot of improvement. I'm aware I'm not perfect. What I learned about this video was how to submit to my husband wilfully, respect him and speak to him with kindness. It's going to take time for me to practice those traits and it'll take trial and error. This is all new to me and I want God to guide me the righteous way. My husband is worth it. I intend being with him until death do us apart. ❤
Thank you, pastor Vlad! Please make a sermon on abuse in a family and the biblical way of dealing with it.
If you are referring to emotional/verbal abuse I highly recommend watching videos from Kris Reece who is also a great biblical teacher especially on this subject. Much love and prayers ❤
Thank you both for sharing your roles as husband and wife. You are a very good preacher. You have got my attention on many things you teach. I'm going to keep the fire burning
You have such a beautiful wife inside and out and she explains things with such grace. You are a great team! I wasn’t sure if I was being a Biblical wife and you both helped me identify where I am doing well and where I need some work. I especially liked the breakdown of what submission means as it relates to God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. So beautifully explained!
What a blessed message, so good. I struggle with being submissive, yet I really do want to be able to stay home. Sadly, we have not been able to have children, and both my husband and I are struggling with major health crisis right now. Please pray for me so God can heal me and deliver me from all disease specially cancer, and also for my husband to experience healing. We are both believers in Christ, and desire for us to be able to have children. I would love for those miracles to happen and to be able to stay home with the children God provides. Also, asking God for direction in the midst of our health crisis for whether we should start foster care and/or adoption. May God guide us and may His will be done.
You've turned your case to the LORD, I add my voice to your prayer that, God who is healer, heal your completely through the shed blood of Jesus Amen. Also I pray for total recovery of your womb and ability to have children in Jesus name. He's the originator and knows how to fix it better! May the Holy Spirit bring the Mystery in Marriage to you as you read Eph 5 : ---------- 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
May God do a miracle in your lives. Amen
Praying for you and your husband. Praying for peace, healing, and trust in God's willingness to create a miracle in your family's lives. God bless you.
This was such a blessing!! Thank you for this message! I as a wife and mother of 5 children am finally realizing how God wants me to operate in my home and family! I’ve been consumed with myself for so many years even though I’ve been home, and now my heart is ready to follow
Gods leading in managing my children and home and loving my husband the way He designed me to! This message gave clear instructions and guidelines that I really needed to get started! Thank you so much!!!❤
Going to be putting all of these more so into practice with my husband and my children. We are already having a breakthrough and your messages has reached me at the right time in our journey in Christ. God bless you and thank you both. Your wife is beautiful!❤
Such a blessing. I love how you guys interact and rely on each other to compliment each other & specify how important following Gods plan for our marriage and home is important to be followed. With love.
Such a great message! Every man and woman should hear it! I only pray that one day God will grant me a husband and children that I may be blessed to submit, serve, build a home, and raise children in the truth of the Bible. God bless this couple!
Thank you for this beautiful amazing teaching, its our 7th wedding anniversary today, it was so good for me as wife to listen to this kind of teaching on our special day ❤
I have been asking God to teach how to submissive to my husband and respect him, to be a better wife and this teaching came at the right time ❤
My husband comes from a very strong Christian background and when I met him, he believed in God and I know deep down in his heart he still loves God but he doesn't know what to believe in anymore, my husband was born with a medical condition that causes not to have kids and his desire is to be healed, unfortunately his faith has gone down the hill because God hasn't healed him yet. He doesn't pray, read the Bible or go to church anymore, he is in his own world and that made it so hard for me to be submissive to him sometimes but this year I have been asking God to teach me to be submissive and your teaching has encouraged me to keep going ❤
And for the last few years, I decided not to force him to pray, read the word or go to church 🙏 God made me realized that it was His job to change not mine ❤
Thank you so much both of you 💓 God bless you always and may God fill your lives with wisdom and understanding in everything you do ❤
Not to impose but maybe try watching prophetic ministries especially healing and deliverance services so he can be encouraged and see that God can heal. Please try Emmanuel TV prophet TB Joshuas ministry. It really helps strengthen faith and expose curses and their cause.
You will testify of the Lord’s goodness ❤
Extremely backslidden maybe but I would say he’s an unbeliever. Treat him as such, it tells u in the Word how. What a hard hard thing to be unequally yoked with.
This message was a great reminder as my role as a wife I have no problem submitting to my husband because I don’t see that word as diminishing. My husband is a man of God a great leader and. Wonderful husband and friend. We both respect and honour each other and it is only because God honoured and served and loved us first ❣️ Thank you Pastors💜 God bless you❣️
This was such a blessing to me!!! I loved the submission section mostly because it was taught in a way I’ve never heard before. Thank you!
yeah they try different flavours to make it more palatable. bottom line submission sucks where there is no communication
Hi, I just recently found this channel on TH-cam and I'm soaking it all in. Pastor Vlad's preaching is so powerful and spirit filled! I wanted to hear him talk about biblical roles and was so thankful to have found this video with his lovely wife. We are an older couple raising our grand nephew whome we adopted. He will be 5 this summer and has been in daycare and now preschool for most of his early years. I am a teacher and my husband is on social security. I am really torn and always wanted to stay home with him but could not see how we could do it financially. Next school year he'll be entering kindergarten. I don't know what to do. I am praying about this daily and would appreciate prayer!
I pray that God will give you wisdom and provide for all your needs. Can your husband homeschool the child? Government schools teach our children how to NOT love God. The actual teaching portion of the day will be very small at this point.
This is the best sermon I have heard about marriage in years. Especially with the modern age of dating and marriages falling apart.
From a stay at home mom that homeschools thank you. The end gave me chills and made me tear up.
It was a blessing to hear this message.
Thank you for the encouragement.
May the Lord bless you both for following his word.
Have a wonderful week.
This message was such a blessing to me. It brought conviction in some needed areas. You and your wife explained submission in such a beautiful beautiful way.
Love this so much. Thank you for this necessary and helpful teaching! Also for mentioning the part about husbands not loving the church more than his wife. As a PK who grew up in a home where the church took priority over family life that was good to hear.
This was a blessing you all speaking positively and biblically about a wife’s role. Amen.
Awesome message! Thank you so much. As a single man I am grateful to have watched this. This is something that I have to return to my notes for especially after being married to keep that fire in my fireplace! Thank you so much pastor. If God can do it for you, He can do it for me too! ❤
This was so encouraging, I am stay at home mum of 2 and have found it very fulfilling and challenging to be doing what seems opposite to our culture but the children and family is worth it. Thank you and God bless your ministry please pray for my family to be baptised
Learning a lot from Pastor Vlad and Pastor Lana today. On a preaching marathon today. I'm glad I was led to that channel.
Thank you! What a great message! I never planned on being a stay at home mother of 3 very close in age but I am …. We did daycare the first year for our first one, and it broke my heart…even staying home is very difficult with society these days… No family help either makes it very guilt ridden… I am very grateful and appreciate your message and my husband❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this! This was very encouraging. Sometimes we can feel as if we aren’t doing much by staying home as mothers but you guys were right on point with everything that God has ministered to me about why it is important to stay home and raise my children while my husband works to provide. I used to work and I didn’t I have the energy to do half of the things I do now for my children. God wants us to give them our best including our husbands! It is very difficult to do that when you are juggling a job and a family. God helped me choose my family over having more money. We may not see all the seeds we are planting now in our little ones but one day we will see that harvest and it will be worth it to see our children serving the Lord -there is nothing more important than that! ❤
God bless you both! You two are incredible! Praise God!
I believe the devil has been obfuscating the definition of "submission" for decades in order to make us feel a negative stigma at the word. But submission is a road to freedom. Submission is the ultimate form of control. It is building a stronghold of order around yourself through rules and expectations that build a foundation of trust and allow absolute security. Submitting myself to the knowledge and rules of my husband has given me absolute trust in him. I know he loves me, I know he cares for me, I know what he will say about a situation before I ask him, because I have asked him for the last 5 years and i have learned his answers. This has helped me to know how to act in a way that would be pleasing to him, even when he's not around.
This kind of marriage only works with a God fearing husband, because his rules are for my good. His answers are because he loves me. And we are not perfect, but God is. Since we are both submitted to God in the same way, I am also free to be submitted to him.
No, being submissive to your husband is a 50s housewife. Women did not fight hard for centuries for equal rights just to be told they should "submit' to their husbands. This is the 21st century. Get with it. Thank goodness Christianity is dying.
@@lifeisbannanas does it make you feel like a better person, to look down on someone else for their beliefs?
@@lifeisbannanas You're entitled to your opinion, but I would respectfully disagree. As a Christian, I believe that mutual submission and respect are important in any relationship, including marriage. The Bible teaches that husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives should respect their husbands. This doesn't mean that one partner is superior or inferior to the other, but rather that both partners should honor and serve each other. It's also important to note that Christianity is not dying - in fact, it's the world's largest religion with over 2 billion followers worldwide 🙏✝️ May the Lord Jesus Christ bless your heart 🤍
@@lifeisbannanas Christianity is dying?? Ummm....its exploding??
@@lifeisbannanas if the man carries the heavy burdens of leadership responsibility n accountability while providing protecting n loving sacrificially then yes u need to submit to his authority
Thank you so much! I have been trying to gain understanding of my role as a young wife walking in the truth. Neither myself or my husband have had examples of good marriages and we are figuring this out for the first time. This has given me such an understanding that has filled my heart with so much joy, to the point where I know I will be tested with it and I am excited to be faced with this truth. I am ready to overcome the battle I have been facing to prove my love, respect and honor toward my husband and to ESTEEM the Father! HalaluYAH!!! Praise YAH !
Just love this sermon its beautiful and perfect. Keep preaching it brought me peace.❤
I really appreciate the tactful but courageous way you addressed modern gender theory (e.g., transgenderism). It is indeed an incoherent worldview, but that doesn't mean we have to be (actually) hateful or mean-spirited about it.
I love the concept of the helper and partnership. God is great.
Thank you, I needed this message. I'm 28 and not married yet, but I always wanted to do more with my life then "just having a family and a normal life". But God makes me understand that this is also a beautiful way to serve Him. This doesn't mean God won't use me in other places, but maybe I needed to finally understand the importance of my role before God can send me my better half.
Praise The Lord 🙌
Really blessed Pastor & Lana thank you! I was 'home maker' only until my daughter back to school full time (after Covid:) I go back to work outside too.
Yes I recommend every mother/father either 1 able to stay home with your child until they go to school minimum 6 hours (God bless the right heart desires if you want a job with perfect timing that match with their school time and be home when they're home 🙏 amen!!!)
“Partners for life🤜🤛”-😭😂I love them
Wow. The points of belittling a husband were so good
this blessed me, i raised my daughter alone with Gods help, was very difficult. Praise Jesus she is 20 years old today and married. Im still single but trusting for a Husband still. God bless you Vlad and Lana
Excellent interview! Pastor Vlad, your wife is not only beautiful, but as she speaks the anointing flows like a river through the screen. Thank you for teaching the body of Christ the way you do. I am sure people are being built and edify in every area the Lord leads you to teach. God bless you!
What an awesome message! When I look at you 2 I see God all over you both. God bless you 🙏🏼
I’ve never heard the order of the trinity and how it applies to marriage explained so well!!!
Just listening to Pastor Vlad's wife already makes me feel peaceful. It gives hope that there are millions of good women out there. Honor and respect, that is how we REAL men feel loved
I’m extremely grateful for this sermon. I REALLY needed it. I can’t say I’ve always walked in the proper way of a Godly wife with my husband. I also want to clarify that, I have never cheated on my husband. But I didn’t always give him the honor & respect that he deserved & I should have been giving him. I have made mistakes in my marriage. I am also doing my very best to make changes within myself to not make mistakes like that again. This sermon opened up my eyes to a lot of things. Thank you for preaching this. I’m extremely grateful & blessed for it.
This was amazing! Thank you for inspiring me and informing me how to be a godly wife when that time comes!
You spoke right to me Pastor Vlad about the militant wife part lol. I’m not a wife quite yet but I am being prepared to be one by God’s good Grace 🙌🏻