Wanting Someone Who Doesnt Want You

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  • Why wanting someone you can’t have, someone who is unavailable, someone who doesn’t want you, or wanting reality to be other than it is, is an unhealthy, unbalanced and dysfunctional way of denying yourself true happiness, true love, and what you really deserve.
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ความคิดเห็น • 518

  • @Solocup73
    @Solocup73 6 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    If you don't want someone have the integrity to be honest with them, and don't lead them on.

    • @MusicforMindfulness-yu3en
      @MusicforMindfulness-yu3en 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fr

    • @earldelacruz3727
      @earldelacruz3727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ikr, well said

    • @phatmanlovescake
      @phatmanlovescake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Goodluck ... alot of women arent gonna be honest with you bcuz they simply dont want to hurt your feelings

    • @Shiro642
      @Shiro642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@phatmanlovescake There are some people that are afraid to say "no, i don't wanna hang out, and I think its best we go separate ways".
      Another reason why: some people just aren't THAT attracted to you, whether sexual or emotional, so they only booty call... So some people are smart because they never break the line of communication so that they could hit you up when THEY want. Only the real snakes do this...

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@phatmanlovescake , exactly! Women are indirect. You gotta look at her actions. Don't waste time with someone that isn't in to you or is unavailable.

  • @yolofullsend
    @yolofullsend 6 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    You can't talk a girl into liking you... and even if you could, why would you when there are people who will like you just because

    • @SoundSpotted
      @SoundSpotted 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow. Thank you for that comment

    • @johnpeter4815
      @johnpeter4815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What if she was in love with you before and you messed up so your trying to get her back?

    • @harudotai
      @harudotai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      From personal experience even if they like you for your personality if you weren't her first choice she will keep looking for her first choice while keeping you as a backup. Shits not worth it.

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ive been single for a decade

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had people blocked because i left our workplace without telling them

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 6 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    You can control what you feel dont put yourself in complicated situation, dont force yourself with someone who is not into you. Find someone who feel the same way and that you can find the true happiness.

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LoveMe,com i thought i found one until i found out she is taken

    • @Jmelpegues
      @Jmelpegues 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The female I actually have feelings for don't want me. I mean born alone die alone

    • @the_vigilante4730
      @the_vigilante4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jmelpegues I’ve liked this one girl for ages. I see other girls but idk, I’m not into them. I’m super picky, I just keep going back to liking her, I mentioned it a couple times before but stopped cause she said to. Just upsets me cause she keeps going for boys that miss treat her and don’t even really like her and I’m just sat in the corner seeing it happen and can’t do shit about it

    • @disturbomentale3089
      @disturbomentale3089 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe in 100 years you'll find the match...

    • @carlrav5660
      @carlrav5660 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly happened to me of two years. 3 weeks ago I went no contact....she hates me because she said I destroyed our friendship. I don't know what to think anymore

  • @betteryoubetter
    @betteryoubetter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This man literally changed my life!....and I'm divorced, and 54 years old! Thanks Corey!

  • @Jmelpegues
    @Jmelpegues 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As humans we always want what doesn't want us. Just be happy in your own skin. This is real life not a Disney movie

  • @MisterB2eternity
    @MisterB2eternity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    Talking to women is no different than applying for jobs. Some will call some won't.

    • @kezmenflowers8691
      @kezmenflowers8691 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most don't for me

    • @MisterB2eternity
      @MisterB2eternity ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kezmenflowers8691 Have you tried going to another town. I'm talking a place that may take a couple of hours of getting there.

    • @kezmenflowers8691
      @kezmenflowers8691 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MisterB2eternity I've traveled most of my life

    • @asurxh
      @asurxh หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some will, MOST won't.

    • @MisterB2eternity
      @MisterB2eternity หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asurxh Focus on the some.

  • @Boletodecinecom2011
    @Boletodecinecom2011 9 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I like Corey's honesty...if a person doesn't want you on your life, why chase her? If a woman really wants something she makes the move. Subtle and everything, but they do it. So the thrill of the chase is fun...for a while. There are tons of women out there so focusing on one or two it's just insane. Sometimes you give up a woman and after a year she will come back...women attracts more women.

    • @tylerhawkins2691
      @tylerhawkins2691 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Boletodecinecom2011 truth

    • @chelseafoster_irl3214
      @chelseafoster_irl3214 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Y

    • @the_vigilante4730
      @the_vigilante4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not being persistent with the one I like, just I’ve tried to move on and I keep finding myself falling for her again. I did mention a couple times that I really like her but stopped cause she said to and I don’t want to cause issues so now I just talk like a mate with her and act like I’ve forgotten

    • @ChadOliver-b7y
      @ChadOliver-b7y 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@the_vigilante4730 dude that's a beta male behavior. Just walk away and meet other women.

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    3:40 When you love yourself, and value yourself, and respect yourself, you’re going to demand and you expect to have high standards that the other person is going to feel the same way about you. And if the other person doesn’t feel the same way about you, why would you want to keep somebody in your life who doesn’t want to keep you in theirs? People who get hung up on people they can’t have is because the story they tell themselves - that they don’t deserve to be loved for who they are, or to have what they really want. So they get hung up on people who aren’t interested.

  • @yourstruly3114
    @yourstruly3114 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Been dumped for about a week now. And if it wasn't for your videos I would of kept making a fool of my self by trying to get her back. Love your personality man

  • @nemo7782
    @nemo7782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You cannot command another person to 'be into you'. That they do not want YOU is the first sign that you need to move on.

  • @italianprincess91377
    @italianprincess91377 9 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Mr Coach Corey Wayne! You are awesome. My boyfriend broke up with me & I felt so down. I listened to your videos all day long your personality made me laugh & you made me feel Strong. Some people go to church for spiritual help & guidelines I just turned you on & listened to you. So I wanted to Thank you.

    • @issaccaballero3929
      @issaccaballero3929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Italian Princess I’ve never heard something so real ! Many people do go to church in hopes for guidance 💆🏻‍♂️ when in reality you have to learn from your mistakes and be a better you

    • @PilotN396
      @PilotN396 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Italian Princess hey I’ll be in Italy in 3 weeks I’ll take you to dinner lol

    • @Cali_luv213
      @Cali_luv213 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      And i turn to you Mz Princess for your contact details ;)

  • @tstrike1
    @tstrike1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    7:58 "Suffering comes from wanting reality to be other than it is", WOW, BRILLIANT! That is so spot on!

  • @movingforward743
    @movingforward743 8 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Coach you freaking roasted the guy in the video lol..You are a great coach and he should listen....

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      some people need a kick in the ass and some tough love

    • @movingforward743
      @movingforward743 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Coach Corey Wayne I agree Coach.. Coach I am interested in getting your book what is the name of it and is it sold at Barnes &Noble?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      amzn.to/2epSGem

  • @sylwiagallo
    @sylwiagallo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Rejection and how you react to it, is going to determine your character and persona moving forward
    Whether its losing a significant other or a big ass sale. Learn from it and move on. It will make you stronger.
    Like the song says. That's Life. (Old Blue Eyes)
    Great stuff Corey !!

  • @brandondaniels9471
    @brandondaniels9471 8 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    The way that Corey _politely_ rips this guy apart is kinda funny! :-D

    • @abysmalvsmarcus
      @abysmalvsmarcus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMAO, IKR? It's like he's maintaining his composure reading this guy's email. He really wants to kick his ass.

    • @abysmalvsmarcus
      @abysmalvsmarcus 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      beastb83 ten more for good measure homie.

    • @itstayaaa8280
      @itstayaaa8280 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brandon Daniels it's hilarious lol .

    • @closetalkerwatcher30
      @closetalkerwatcher30 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hilarious!

  • @geronimo159
    @geronimo159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    When you're wondering what to say or how you look, just remember, she's already out with you. That means she said yes when she could have said no. That means she made a plan when she could have just blown you off. So that means it's no longer your job to make her like you. It's your job not to mess it up.

    • @gustavventer8346
      @gustavventer8346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hitch

    • @bamsuchanan
      @bamsuchanan หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think it worked like this in my case

  • @danielletirpkoff4167
    @danielletirpkoff4167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    It does not pay to waste time pursuing someone who does not, want to bother with you!!!! It is like being a stalker and they will get, sick and tired of you!!!!

    • @robertcollins5307
      @robertcollins5307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Danielle Tirpkoff never chase someone who doesn't chase after you! ..soo the ice cream man can fuck off for a start!

    • @infinitebeing2228
      @infinitebeing2228 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Danielle Tirpkoff right that’s a sign that there’s somebody better out their for you!!!

    • @m1zzm0ni3
      @m1zzm0ni3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LOTTA PERROTTA exactly my case!! I just told him, “hey I can’t be friends with you. I need to move on to find a person who wants to be with me. The reality is you don’t want me and it’s hurting me.”

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You know what suck?
      Once a girl stops liking you then youre screwed

    • @christopherarmstrong2710
      @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Robert Collins LOL, brilliant comment!

  • @therealistrex2570
    @therealistrex2570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He teaches how to meet women and help create attraction by controlling your own actions by being aware to keep your emotions in check and not let them get you in to trouble or the friend zone the book is solid and a good read.

  • @djjayem100
    @djjayem100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This guy is absolute therapy when your itching to text. Legend Coach.

    • @carlrav5660
      @carlrav5660 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same.... it's hard....but it works

  • @veriappelsiini
    @veriappelsiini 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I dated/flirted with about 50 girls when I was in my early twenties/late teens. About like 5 went a little bit forward and 1 I am married now so I totally agree with the numbers.

    • @Thefishingcaddy
      @Thefishingcaddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      veriappelsiini should date lots of women to find the right one. But never settle down until your older because your needs change

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cannot do it

    • @ameliatheressa1911
      @ameliatheressa1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That requires lots of money

    • @veriappelsiini
      @veriappelsiini 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ameliatheressa1911 A good point. However, it did not cost that much after all. A lot of the dates were drinking tea at my place. The idea of the date is to get to know each other, if the focus is too much on the external, those were not my type.

    • @ameliatheressa1911
      @ameliatheressa1911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@veriappelsiini inviting someone over on the first date might seem difficult..plus just drinking n talking for 2 hours? It might work if already known for at least a month..i said money because i was concerned about those 50 girls during the first date..let alone 2nd 3rd 4th

  • @ireneflaming4677
    @ireneflaming4677 9 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Few weeks ago I stumbled over your work. As a female, I have to admit that you are absolutely right on what you are teaching about women (as far as I can tell). Every single day I am taking some time to learn more about your work - since a lot of techniques apply for female as well. Since it is quiet important to learn by doing I immediately went out on the “field” and started implementing your advice. Even my friends noticed a change and said: I wish I was like you! :) My secret: Coach Corey W and Anthony Robbins.
    To all ladies out there, this is powerful and worth listening to! If men are too f* shy to approach an attractive and selfconfident women, we have to start taking over male roll ;) :) :))))))
    Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and experience. Cannot wait to read your book!
    PS.: Men, observe Corey Weynes SMILE, EYES, listen to his VOICE and the way he playes with it while speaking to the camera. This is what women absolutely love and find attractive, too. It#s the small things we fall for! ;) :)

  • @falcons9659
    @falcons9659 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I'm a woman and you are absolutely right. I had to make a couple of police reports on a some guys who just didn't understand the meaning of NO I DONT WANT TO DATE YOU, but just kept persistently pursuing me without any respect to my boundaries. (Including showing up at work doin gestures). Guys, it's not like in the movies. It's just creepy and not at all attractive and you WILL lose the person forever.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can't leave this empty
      Interesting. How you doing now?

  • @zyyx7416
    @zyyx7416 8 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    this guy could have changed my life 10 years ago. but its not too late

  • @Planespotterdude
    @Planespotterdude 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    i always get asked out by women. i act like i dont care if i go home alone. show some confidence

  • @192OOIDJJ3
    @192OOIDJJ3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I like this video. He always sticks with the facts instead of sugar coding bullshit videos like others. Thumbs Up & Subscribed.

    • @tomrich2619
      @tomrich2619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sugar coating not coding

  • @shadow30920
    @shadow30920 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Read your book multiple times, I was that guy before and I followed what you teach and now I'm getting engaged to a wonderful girl-Thank you

  • @faizankut
    @faizankut 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    coach Corey Wayne knows what he's talking about. Dude of you're not willing to put in the work or take action you won't have women flock to you.

  • @robyn9513
    @robyn9513 7 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I love the fact that you're brutally honest and have a foul mouth.😂😂😂

    • @dpm9a189
      @dpm9a189 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Robyn Newberry I hope the audio book is like this haha

    • @fantaclaus7053
      @fantaclaus7053 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Robyn s and those that know you would say if that brutal honesty were dished on you, you would slap his face.

  • @justindavis8817
    @justindavis8817 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your right coach wanting someone. Who doent want you is crazy

  • @yeshuaservant7
    @yeshuaservant7 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gosh, Corey--next time don't hold back how you really feel!! LOL!! Great vid. We (the true believers)--respect your advice. Your work speaks for itself.

  • @NiggaSlayer666
    @NiggaSlayer666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it made me feel really better.
    wish you can feel how low i was until watched this video, Thank you so much!

  • @waynesworldizm
    @waynesworldizm 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video Corey and I definitely agree as I have been in this situation many times especially when I was younger. I'm in a completely different place now so do not make the same mistakes. For any Men going through this, self love is the key. You have to totally love and respect yourself and when you do, you have more balance in your life.

  • @paulhutchinson4070
    @paulhutchinson4070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Corey ,I came to your work like many others following a break up and making lots of mistakes before and after...... Your insights have helped me rebuild my life and move forward with love in my heart and a positive attitude believing in tomorrow.You are an amazing person thanks for sharing so much gold .You have it down man I've dated over 100women in the last 18months and as I got better so did my successes.LISTEN to this man ,be brave , believe in you.

  • @haythamblaidd9774
    @haythamblaidd9774 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is your best video! I am seriously considering buying your book now. Don't overlook people like me who came here to learn something and will most likely purchase it if we actually do.

  • @samueljones8374
    @samueljones8374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't waste time with people who don't want to be with me whether it's friends, relationships, or acquaintances. Don't have time for nonsense.

  • @user-tg9qv9qq3h
    @user-tg9qv9qq3h 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey man really appreciate the help. It’s much more fulfilling to be around with people who intrinsically want to have you there, be they romantic lovers or friends. Forcing yourself upon others who don’t share the same feeling is a sign of low self-esteem, because deep inside you don’t believe you can get what you want. (Or deserve to have them) Thanks again for help.

  • @adday.
    @adday. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "A woman knows within 3 seconds". She sure does.

  • @Vectorlover3
    @Vectorlover3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've started watching your videos Corey and i noticed you said you were 44. I'm 42, so this gives me hope that i can get back to who i used to be before i split with my wife and lost my confidence. thanks to your videos i asked someone out a week ago for the first time in a year. not heard anything, but hay only 99 more to go! thanks telling it like it is. cheers

    • @Amctothemoon
      @Amctothemoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 50 ffs
      Have to work 20 times harder

  • @HRHooChicken
    @HRHooChicken 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can't date a woman unless my emotions are engaged. I need to really like a girl before I see them. It's why i refuse to use dating apps or to give girls a chance who like me but i don't like them back

  • @imprezdsti1
    @imprezdsti1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the biggest thing that I think most guys struggle with, I know I'm one of them. The risk seems too great and inaction takes grip. Well, I'm going to be turning 30 and I have lost about 4 years. I've nailed everything in my life except dating successfully. Time to work on that! Thanks coach and I'll be sure to read that book 10 to 15 times!

  • @Ishfaqw731
    @Ishfaqw731 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Worldstar Worldstar. Coach is the man! Been watching his videos for the past two week, read the book 3 times in a week. Even when I'm out my mates can already tell the difference, why should I worry and cry and be sad over someone who hasn't made the effort after with me. Time to move on and enjoy life.

  • @aapl10n67
    @aapl10n67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    « Suffering comes from wanting reality other that it ils »

  • @LessonSmith
    @LessonSmith ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Corey been saying the same things for over a decade now. It works

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I searched 'Roast' and found this video

  • @513Headstrong
    @513Headstrong ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything corey says that I apply, works.

  • @jchad3229
    @jchad3229 9 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Sounds like this e-mail was really written by a woman. If it is a guy he needs to change teams.

  • @mace8704
    @mace8704 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In my experience, women only find persistence to be an attractive quality in guys they already have a high level of interest in. If she has little to moderate levels of interest, persistence communicates weakness and a lack of other opportunities. This is especially true if a mans response to rejection is persistence. As a result, any interest she did have in you is gone. Time to change strategies.

  • @jorgealexphoto
    @jorgealexphoto 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Why you always gotta cut so deep COREY? Damn lol

    • @dpm9a189
      @dpm9a189 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jorge Flores he always gets to the point like a surgeon he knows where to cut

  • @newavatar2947
    @newavatar2947 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Coach CW!THis is my favorite video of yours thus far.Im 44 years myself(as of 2018).Im giving myself the ultimate gift,a complete life makeover!

  • @Sunkissedcali54
    @Sunkissedcali54 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Handled this guy so well. Love it!

  • @AARONH85
    @AARONH85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I caught myself in this mindset recently. She has a boyfriend would kiss me and go a little further sometimes but was always hot and cold. Realized she’s a cheater and nothing more than a FWB at most. Second I realized this and detached, her interest level went right back up. It’s also congruent at the present moment where her and her BF fight. He keeps her busy when she’s not with me and I now hold all the cards. She will eventually break up with him and try to get me, NOPE. Only FWB, nothing more!

  • @lightnbubbly
    @lightnbubbly 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your humor and directness.

  • @alejmc
    @alejmc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Freaking A that the Audiobook version is read by yourself. Kudos to that.

  • @BaxyBoiler
    @BaxyBoiler 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I am from England going and through a nasty divorce and have read your book 4 times (11 to go ! )and watched loads of your videos and this is one of the must brutal/funny yet😂 - keep up the good work as you have already made a massive difference to my life 👍👍👍 thank you

  • @hanowiese9170
    @hanowiese9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Main Man, chill Winston. Don't explain you're self.......the truth is difficult to explain. Get it Got it or never.
    Coach keep up the awesome work, thank you!

  • @CharlesAdeyemiO
    @CharlesAdeyemiO 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where would I be without Coach Corey, your work is so good coach

  • @jeremiahperez301
    @jeremiahperez301 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have really helped my life Corey!

  • @javierperalta7648
    @javierperalta7648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This happened to me a few years ago. I met the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. She was so beautiful that I fell in love on first sight. For a whole week I sent her texts and she did not reply or did so in an uninterested way. One day during a party, we were both drunk. I saw her standing just in front of me, looking me at the eyes. I approached her. And we started making out. I felt like I finally had found my soullmate, it was the best moment in my life.
    But the next day, I went to a different party, again. And I saw her with another guy. They were holding hands, she was whispering to his ears, and doing things that she never did to me.Eventhough we had kissed we never developed a connection like the one I was seeing there. She really liked him. But she never liked me. And I understood this. There was nothing I could do, I just spent the whole night drinking with my friends and seeing them interact as a loving couple.
    After that I left and I never talked to her again. I am not stupid, I have read Corey's book, watched his videos. But when you find someone you like so much you just ignore the red flags. You know that she is not interested but you choose to not believe it. You choose to believe that it will be fine, even when she doesn't give a shit about you. It's so hard to avoid this when you like a person SO FUCKING MUCH. But that's how it is.

  • @MidTierVillain
    @MidTierVillain 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Coach, that emailer is passive aggressive.. Nothing will help him unless he is willing to risk a chance.. No risk, no reward..
    I'm proof This works.. Trust, I've been down and out.. And everything Coach says has helped.. But you gotta let go of those old habits and ways of thinking.. It hasn't worked back then, what makes him think it'll continue to work? He's comfortable being lazy and doubtful.. He gave up before he even started..

  • @donaldpatricktrbovich3556
    @donaldpatricktrbovich3556 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have great effect advise. I spend too much time worrying about everyone, not just the one. Seems like people or so used to being let down, that I'm staying strong cool and centered. Feeling things are going to change. Just let me tell you I do appreciate the shooting from the hip.

  • @stinkydeucesinurbutt
    @stinkydeucesinurbutt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been following Coreys practice for 7 months and it has definitely hot wired my brain my soul and body to win people who say the can and people who say they can't are always right. At least Corey knows how to be a man and I'll follow him to war.

  • @wulfclaw4921
    @wulfclaw4921 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach, in honesty I wish this guy had a valid point and you weren't right about what you do, but that's just NOT the case. I have found when I was able to apply your standards to any particular situatuon or issue, they have slways worked. I know you have taken this to the threads that hold it all together and explored every particular involved in all of it. I am grateful. The rest, I know, is simply following the advice that is set up.
    (I still have big triuble with the no contact thing...nothing tougher than that).
    Anyway,
    I'm grateful for all you put into this for all of us out here trying to decode all the multifaceted workings of the woman.
    Good Lord ! ....LOL
    Thanks,
    Wulfy

  • @jvinson
    @jvinson 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This dude has NO self-esteem and is trying to justify his fucked up behavior. He is also listing step by step on why what he's doing doesn't work and blaming it on you.

  • @jjjj5452
    @jjjj5452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the worst advice I ever received was "if you really want her, go chase her"... I became the creepy stalker type...

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, done that in my past 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @Volksinformant
      @Volksinformant 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hollywood is to blame!

  • @rockn1677
    @rockn1677 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Corey, you mention in this video and countless other video's how the movies has screwed up our sense of how relationships work but also the romance novels have screwed up women's idea of relationships. My ex wife used to buy all those love story magazines and it programmed her to have an idealized model that doesn't fit into real world relationships so it affects both men and women alike.

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shasha8674
      From the time we are children, we are conditioned by all the cartoons, movies, fairytales and stories and lies that we are fed and that gives us a false view of the real world. We all heard of " .. and they lived happily ever after" but when we go to apply that in the real world, that's not the reality for most of us and those that do make it work long term, face challenges along the way. Take a look at any old couple that's been married for 60 to 70 years, they went through bad times also, but they stuck together. Now days everyone wants a microwavable relationship and everything in a day and when all the initial; feel good endorphines and dopamine high wears off in relationships, they see all the flaws of that person and they want to jump to the next person in order to feel that same "high" again. Just "Hook up, hang out and have fun" that's the key in life and Corey can guide most people but they still have to go out and apply it and make some mistakes, plus they have to filter through all the time wasters just like you would when you own a store and some customers only come in to 'browse".

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shasha8674 Well as you can see how your Mom was conditioned by Shirley Temple movies and characters as is the case with us guys being conditioned by fictional characters and situations that just aren't reality, so we get screwed up from the beginning, lol

  • @eric5ho5
    @eric5ho5 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach Corey is the shit. I am telling you he knows his shit WELL! I wish I had watched his videoss and read his book "10 to 15 times" when I was in high school or college. His greatest teaching is getting your shit together n loving who you are and being confident with yourself your financial situation and your career when all that's in place the rest of its a cakewalk but I'm telling you...anybody who doesn't follow Corey is a moron. he's knowledgeable, up front, hes honest, he's not going to blow a bunch of sunshine up your ass he's going to tell it like it is and if you listen to him n put action to the knowlege u gain you will be set in so many different ways. coach corey thank you from the bottom of my heart. U have just added the little things to make my already successful life that much better n fulfilling n I thank you! Keep up the good work n god bless you...or budda or alla or whoever your higher power is to you! ;)

  • @annarabassa7170
    @annarabassa7170 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love listening to you ,helped so much I can't afford book but thank you Corey .

  • @williamschmaus4871
    @williamschmaus4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach corey you know what you're talking about, I see value and confidence in what you teach. I'm going to put the screen down and go and ask 100 women in a month on a date. And as always, HANG OUT HAVE FUN AND HOOK UP💪

  • @EchelonDon
    @EchelonDon ปีที่แล้ว

    Live YOUR life. Your life is your purpose (work), fitness, spirituality, etc. Any friend, any romantic partner is something to ADD. Like a piece of jewelry. They do not become your life.

  • @charliekillen5018
    @charliekillen5018 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve fallen in love with a straight girl, and I made the mistake of telling her. At first she didn’t care but then it got more extreme and started scaring them. At one stage I tried to convince myself I hated her, then that I could make her like me, and now it’s gotten to the point she told heaps of other people because she didn’t know what to do and now it feels like the whole grade is against me. I can’t ignore her existence because we live in a boarding school together. I’ve tried to make it normal but I can’t and now I have no friends at boarding because I avoid social situations incase she is there. Even though there is a girl right now who actually likes me, and I also like her, I still like this other straight girl. I’ve accepted now that I like her and she doesn’t like me, that it will never go anywhere, and I need to move on. But it just doesn’t seem to be working.

  • @loreleiletslivetogether3767
    @loreleiletslivetogether3767 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Certain people seek out unrequited love, the question becomes why?

  • @B_easy79
    @B_easy79 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was hilarious!!! Im dying with laughter. Its important for men to talk to as many women as possible AT THE SAME TIME this serves as excercise n experience to avoid the pitfalls that have befallen this clueless guy...i know coz i had to learn the hardway...EXPERIENCE matters a lot in the relationship arena

  • @avinashmuraleedhar
    @avinashmuraleedhar 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i am gald that guy asked those questions,thanks Mr.Corey for answering them

  • @sapnasuryavanshi8710
    @sapnasuryavanshi8710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what am i going to do with a super model ? "hang out , have fun & hook up " hahahahahahah i could not stop laughing at that !

  • @RadoslawKurczewski
    @RadoslawKurczewski 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Isn't James Bond you recall quite often also a fictional movie character ? ;). Just f..ing with you man- being honest- I REALLY appreciate your work. Great book, great videos, great life lessons. Thank you.

    • @Mad0Killah
      @Mad0Killah 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Radoslaw Kurczewski I remember in a different video. I think it's by farfromaverage. He mentioned that from our childhood we tend to model ourselves based on our parents or someone we look up to growing up. The argument is that you're able to choose who you want to model yourself to so why not someone like James Bond.

  • @jamesc4196
    @jamesc4196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man Corey: You got me the most perfect girlfriend in the world. 2 years and 2 months later, she totally fell out of love with me and moved on in the snap of a fingers. I didn’t heed her warnings. I feel so much regret right now. Always pay attention to your woman’s warnings. I just neglected this girl so much, so was so loving and good to me. I’ll never forgive myself for this one, what a shame.

    • @rosst8919
      @rosst8919 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here man. Saw my ex on a dating app yesterday and when I messaged her she told me shed moved on and was speaking to someone new. So hard to take

  • @Kanjas19
    @Kanjas19 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been realizing that in the end one of the reasons I have been so rejected lately is because I am not sure of my passion yet. I am trying to focus on it for now and try to not hit on women for now.

  • @klipperartist8874
    @klipperartist8874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I mean... even if you’re not confident enough to approach women you find attractive, you can start with approaching women you really have no interest in dating just to get there experience and get out of your shell, and then you can start slowly opening yourself up to more and more attractive women unto you feel comfortable enough with the process and with getting rejected that it don’t knock you off your center to approach women you actually would like to date.... baby steps

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the confident laugh "hah" "hmph". Fits in so well in certain situations.

  • @anthonysuihkonen4817
    @anthonysuihkonen4817 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Coach Corey Wayne, CCW I like that I am a gun enthusiasts so cool abbreviations. I want to let you know I appreciate your videos and I have just started to watch them. Kinda pissed I didn't find you sooner. Well I am putting into practice what I have learned so far and not only am I getting results but I am also feeling more confident and proud of who I am. I have always though highly of myself but always wondered why people do not like me. I dont anymore. i hope to have the money to have a phone interview soon because you are the man. Thanks for the help and I truly appreciate your philosophy of giving. GET SOME!!!

  • @Dajjordanuk
    @Dajjordanuk 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    not only do you give good advice...but you are bloody hilarious lol..he def needs to listen to you whoever he is.self help and getting out there is the only way to new results and change.

  • @5LTMFOG
    @5LTMFOG 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣 This is one of the funniest videos I’ve seen of Corey. I love how he holds nothing back. Emailer gets schooled. 🤣🤣

  • @DIAMONDGIRL57
    @DIAMONDGIRL57 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hello Cory . . . I know your book and vlogs are for men but I find your advice great for women as well 😉

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A little something for everybody. Universal truth works for everyone

    • @SPAC3MANxSPL1FF
      @SPAC3MANxSPL1FF 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The truth is, beyond our "avatars" (bodies), we are all the exact same spiritual soul being. It is just the physical form that can tangle us up if we allow it to. We all want to be loved and respected, and we all get turned off when someone turns clingy or obsessivly creepy, but we need to learn how to respect ourselves and each other.

    • @IreneGM543
      @IreneGM543 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Coach, I'm quite new over here, have been listening to your vlogs for a few days now and would like to read the book that you mention. Could you, please, mention the exact title? Thanks a lot for the support.

  • @SwaggyE212
    @SwaggyE212 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is gold. This is the epitome of Corey not “blowing sunshine up your a**” 😂 Thanks Coach

  • @geraldnash4561
    @geraldnash4561 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u for ur viedos i just found my self free i miss her but i have to get my self happy so i get what i deserve in life im glad ur doing these videos im not very rich but doing things to draw things into my life that I deserve thanks again

  • @michaelbox8553
    @michaelbox8553 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm noticing that a lot of relationships is all about what's in it for me

  • @kezmenflowers8691
    @kezmenflowers8691 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stop begging people to love you. You cannot force anyone to love you. Its their choice. You shouldn't have to beg for love and overextend yourself for someone who doesn't appreciate your efforts. Love will make a fool out of you. Nothing wrong with having feelings for someone but know when to cut it off so you don't hurt yourself because theyll go on about their life while youre breaking down and suffering. I almost ended myself when i realized the woman i loved didn't love me the same way.

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much truth here. The only current T.V. Shows/movies I see that get it right as far as how a man should act when courting a woman are Iron Man, Hank Moody in Californication, and James Bond(of course).

  • @themoz1965
    @themoz1965 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I echoe computing forever comment below if I had come across this work earlier things may have been different . So now I am taking on board the teachings and starting again. Keep up the awesome work coach

  • @newmedstudent
    @newmedstudent 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Because of this video I'm going to buy your book!!!

  • @FreedomMinded23
    @FreedomMinded23 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Corey, I think you book and your videos are very sincere. Thank you

  • @DJRick313rd
    @DJRick313rd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anytime I went out, and had a good time, I learned that if I let go of the worries of asking anyone out, the women did the asking. The Abundance mindset really works. Sometimes, I forget to text a girl for a few days. Married men do this, and get pursued by a 3rd girl. It's just the way it is lol.

  • @whidoineedthis
    @whidoineedthis 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That email.......uuuhhhgggg.... was the most repetitive email ive ever heard in my life. Omg...i watched this video the whole way through just to hear COACH COREY WAYNE tear this guy up. LOL. I really respect coach taking time to read his emails that get sent in, and also taking time to read and respond on air as well.
    Shows he really cares about what he does, who he is, and the willingness and want to help others. I think its great.
    Maybe the guy in the email was drunk. Or maybe he doesn't really know who he wants to be sexually. Not saying like hes homosexual, but maybe hes just less into physicality with women and more into the minds and hears of women instead. Fine. Nothing wrong with that...its great...but at the end of the day....like COACH said "If you dont talk to women....YOU'LL NEVER FIND OUT". Its simple...you have to just talk to someone...verbally. Say hi. You see people every day im sure...women come to you! Just try it man. Coach is the expert....but all the people who listed to you reapeat yourself....OVER N OVER...N OVER...NOVER...We're here for you to man...but geeze...uuuuggghhhh

  • @mauiswift6391
    @mauiswift6391 8 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Victim mentality in that guy's email.

    • @fantaclaus7053
      @fantaclaus7053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      maui swift .....You're all compassion, let's see what we can nail on you.

    • @one4theroad15
      @one4theroad15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fantaclaus7053 she's right.... he's the sole person at his own pity party!

    • @mplmpl5415
      @mplmpl5415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everytime a man is upset the woman says he’s playing the victim. No. It’s called being sad. I’m so fed up of women’s mentality. They don’t have compassion or empathy.

    • @gipgap4
      @gipgap4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mpl Mpl women only have empathy for themselves, their children and their pets. Not for men however.

    • @klipperartist8874
      @klipperartist8874 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, who hurt you guys?!? Get out your feelings and stop blaming women for not feeling sorry for you and your pity party! No one said you can’t be sad but you shouldn’t allow that feeling to control your thoughts and actions to the point where you refuse to accept reality and you lash out at ppl for telling you that.... this guy didn’t sound sad, he sounded bitter and resentful that Corey was saying thus us what women want abs it didn’t align with his hopeful fantasies that, “if I just orbit her long enough and she gets to know me,she’ll all of a sudden fall for me”. That’s not how attraction works, this ain’t the movies and women want someone that’s strong and goes for what they want.... sorry not sorry

  • @sophienavarro4317
    @sophienavarro4317 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey, I think you are awesome. My brother recommended your book to me. I am highly considering it. Thank you for your videos!!!😊

  • @HeavenlyDivineTaro
    @HeavenlyDivineTaro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally a video where someone understands
    Half these people are afraid to WORK

  • @locustslord
    @locustslord 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    From experience, coach is right. I met my first girlfriend at a book fair. She was attracted to me since the beginning, she made all my way to her effortless. We last 4 years. Then I found this channel. I recognize my second girlfriend dumped me because I made her my center, even I "knew" what Corey teaches. She was a strong woman, and she said "I asked everyone but I don't know what's wrong with me, because you are a good man". I didn't follow what Corey's says because my thinking was: I got this. I didn't get nothing but failure.
    About that guy, not only anecdotal information supports this work, also numeric data does, this last one shows woman wants everything they see in romantic movies ONLY when they're into you, and data confirms that FIRST you need to be funny, charming and strong, with things running in your life.
    I've found his work to be true.

  • @dukeroyal8158
    @dukeroyal8158 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Corey dose not literally mean that you have to talk to "100" women to get one. If you are following his instructions you will get a women within the first 50 that you talk to.

  • @saveriocartularo9473
    @saveriocartularo9473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder🤔

  • @davidmckesey7119
    @davidmckesey7119 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    coach corey is fired up. i love it lol