Why and How the Sexual Revolution FAILED w/ Dr. Budziszewski
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Dr. Budziszewski breaks down what caused the sexual revolution and what it's consequences are for Gen Z and Gen Alpha
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My wife has decided that she's outgrown our marriage and I've now become disposable. We have a 3 year old and my wife is under the impression that our daughter will be better off if we divorce and I know it's going to be devastating to her.
This selfish worldview of disposable relationships and no fault divorce is crushing our society and I don't know how to get through to her and legally there's nothing I can do to stop it. It's completely crushing me and breaking my heart every day.
Will be praying for your wife, daughter, and you.
She was always like that. Just waited for it to be convenient, like how getting married was convenient.
Now, she will demand you pay for her to go on a cruise with Chad from accounting.
She's a loser, with no conviction, no perseverance.
Now, as a single mom only loser vulture men will come around to use her, then leave.
Probably had 10-50 guys before she met you, and now has no ability to form a bond with any man.
An alley cat, all she is.
The government lets this happen because the laws are written by Jews and Femennaughtzis.
I'll be praying for you brother. It's all in God's hands at the end of the day, so make sure you give it to God yourself.
You'll be in my prayers brother. I hope you can allow the holy spirit into your heart and into the damage that you're going through. I know its not easy - please take care 💙
Praying for you, Brother. Our Lady Undoer of Knots!
“But once our souls, that is, ourselves, have been given up, the power thus conferred will not belong to us. We shall in fact be the slaves and puppets of that to which we have given our souls.”
-CS Lewis, The Abolition of Man
Mind blowing book
@@TheophanP Easily one of the best I’ve read.
Very powerful story of the student whose parents divorced. We need to share stories like that one whenever possible in order to make the true cost of the sexual revolution apparent to the secular majority.
YES Dr. Budziszewski is brilliant really excited he got on the show!
Really delighted to hear the take on anger at propaganda versus compassion for the suffering at the end there. God Bless you both!
One of the best guests ever! Please have him on again!
My parents didn't let the kids in our family watch Seinfeld.
Probably best to avoid all TV. None of it funny or teaches anything but lies
This was such a good interview. Would love to see him on again.
I ask for prayers for my upcoming marriage. I have been living in cohabitation with my fiance for 5 years. We are getting married in a Catholic Church next month. I go to confession every week and we try to abstain but we fall into temptation. We did so for financial reasons but I still regret the decision. I pray that we have a lifelong happy marriage.
Congratulations on your marriage! God, who sees and knows all, understands your heart. This is the last stretch of the race, brother. Soon you'll be a new man, and I pray you'll do your best to always find how to become a better husband, and for your bride to become a better wife, day by day.
May God bless you deeply.
Congratulations! 🙏
Also, a little piece of advice.
Some of the great advices from married couples I've heard, was that they prayed together daily. In case you're not already doing that, I suggest it. Even just Our Father and 3x Hail Mary in the evening, or a decade of rosary. Or whatever works for you. I've heard of one couple kneeling in front of the cross every evening to give thanks to God and to each other. So they also wouldn't go to sleep holding resentment or angry. It's not only to help you both not to give in to temptation, but also to keep you together during various trials that as I'm sure sure you're aware, will inevitably come. I've heard many marriages that emphasized daily prayer together as what cemented their love and helped them stay together throughout whole life.
@@alonsoACR thank you so much!
@@joane24 Thanks for the advice, Joane! We should definitely start doing this more!
Hi! May God bless your marriage, and Congrats!! I've lived with my now husband for 2 years before getting married. Not for financial reasons, just because I was stupid. Tried at some point to live chaste again, but didn't succeed. Now, 10 years later I really don't know how that could have worked
for young people with a normal sexual appettite while stile cohabiting. The problem is not your desire for the other, but your naivety/ carelessness/ willingness/ ... to put yourself in such a tempting situation.
But anyway: On your wedding day forget what's behind you, make a good confession and start a new life. Your marriage will be blessed by God! Have courage and commit to one another and you will get through all the hardships that lie in front of you and enjoy the years and graces and beautiful things that will be given to you! I pray you two will be blessed and have a fruitful marriage!
Growing up during the 60s we thought we were saving the world. We did not see nor were we taught the harm sexual freedom would do. We were just admonished not to. I am not sure my parents knew why. They were just doing as they had been taught. In the 60s we questioned and challenged everything from Jim Crow, Vietnam to sexual relations. We thought sex was just a private affair.
Is this J. Budzisezwski from the Focus on the Family website?
Love the way that guy thinks
As I have said elsewhere, we shouldn't see fertile sex as a consequence anymore than eating vegetables. Both of these are good and are the core of what motivates us to eat or have sex. Both casual sex and junk food are perversions of their respective biological functions.
Thanks!
Pornography has enslaved a generation of men.
My husband left me and wrecked all of us. We're still paying for it.
I stopped seeing Seinfeld when I reached the episode of them promoting abortion.
We fell so far. God forgive us all.
It made men LAZY
AND WOMEN DESPERATE
@@kathleenking47 strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times, hard times create strong men. Where are we exactly? I won’t speak for women regardless. We’re all suffering.
We do not deserve His forgiveness. That He gave it is a miracle in itself.
It was _his_ design that failed. He should ask _us_ for forgiveness.
@@progidy7 Hmm, so let’s see… it was divine for time immemorial until man started playing Gods game thinking he could do it better? Where have I heard that before…Oh yeah! Babylon. Sodom. Nice try. You’re way of thinking is exactly the problem. Enjoy Sheol!
I’ve enjoyed reading his works. Have him back on!
That Ts Eliot quote is amazing
This episode with Dr Budziszewski remains one of my favourites.
Full interview is great, I see the link is found under the title ...more
And they don't take the pills properly-- at exactly the same time every day-- which triggers ovulation.
There's so much more to this. I agree with everything. But it all starts out in childhood and parenthood. My mom was a single mom and she had a crappy childhood. Her father would beat the heck out of the kids, cheat on his wife. He also had a crappy child hood too. I had a crappy childhood too and was sexually abused. I'm a single mom too and I'm celibate. There's no way I'm giving what was given to me to my child. And I want better for her. I want this new generation to have more hope than I did or my mom.
It isn't just because of the S revolution. People are fickle and weak.
Listen to women's reasonings for divorce, at 40 years old they sound like a toddler that is throwing a fit over not getting a toy.
"I dunno, I'm just not happy"
That's what they'll say.
Either that, or some new age psychological babble about being "emotionally abusive"
Well, sometimes it *is* cause their husbands are emotionally abusive...
That's fake and means nothing.
And you think men have no part in all that and are completely innocent? 😂
In my 12 year marriage, my husband was the child. He would spend all of our money on himself: TVs, computers, cars, Gucci clothing. My dream was to go on a family vacation to the beach or anywhere really. In all those years, we never once went on a vacation together.
We couldn’t even have our anniversary dinner unless his mom went with us. We went once and she went so crazy that we didn’t invite her. Since he had a spending problem, he never wanted to tell her no so the next 11 years she went with us.
I tried so hard to stay in shape, look pretty, be a loving wife, but I didn’t get any love back.
I hate that I had to get divorced, but it was truly for my own sanity.
At least that is quantifiable. Sounds like that marriage should have never happened.
@@hansblitz7770 I wonder how many marriages that shouldn't happen do anyway, because the leaders of the church just want to convince everyone to marry, then "Go forth and multiply."
Enjoyed the diction. Whoughd like more clinical proof of the claims like "people think that can be happier by transitioning medically, but they aren't happier"
Where's clinical proof that they are? Goes both ways, bud.
I don't know what to say, but this video should have a greater algorithmic advantage.
Seinfeld? Isn't he Jewish?
Who doesn't want to wear the ribbon?!!?
If we believe we need to watch what we say around our kids so they don't repeat something we don't want to say, then we should have the same practice with our actions. Kids soak up everything!
I agree, Seinfeld was hilarious when I was younger, but now it has more relation to reality that I'm aware of and it can be sad or cringey.
Is there any research into if the mothers of these gender confused individuals had been on the pill for a time? I’m sure the introduction of hormones into the fertility cycle has to have consequences. Are there any studies done on this? 🤔 I’ll have to do some digging myself.
Flabbergasting.
Sanity. Dr. Budziszewski
Sin doesn’t degrade our moral understanding of right and wrong. It dilutes it. Human nature does in excess what they know they should do in moderation when the limitations of penalty are removed. We know penalty comes no matter what the evasion. Yet we do it anyways because we can. That is the nature of sin. The nature of holiness is that we do not because Jesus Christ has enabled us to resist in the power of His Spirit.
Can Dr Budziszewski say his own name correctly? :)
Lol. Looks like a Polish name, so it's pronounced "Boo-Jee-shef-ski". Easy! 🇵🇱
@@josephbrandenburg4373 easy for you to say.
@@Polones12 😀 well in reality it took several months of consistent study and practice to learn just the basics. It's an unreasonably difficult language!
What i find funny about the revolution was when girls insisted on being allowed to play on boys teams such as wrestling and football and the boys were afraid of injuring the girls and were thus not able to play to their full potential. NOW girls are irate that transgender men want to compete on their teams!!! A man is a man and is still in moist cases physically stronger than a girl and sets an imbalance in the game. The tables have turned.
Boo-gee-shef-skee.
I always think of the effect of birth control in Idiocracy.
3:55 I often say that young people aren't getting married because they see it as loading 3 rounds and playing Russian roulette.
5:14 India isn't Christian, yet somehow it has lots of intact families and high birth rates. Only recently did numbers slow down.
7:56 I would see Christians better if I wasn't given cptsd from a bunch of hellfire and brimstone sermons.
As a Catholic, I have never heard a hellfire and brimstone sermon in Church. As with any religious discussion, it is hard to face the hard fact that one has been living a lie when they are not following the true religion. When you experience the comprehensive sermons of a good Catholic priest, you will find this truth.
@@servornon100% …. Where are these “hateful” Catholic ideologies/sermons people are talking about? I think the message challenging individualism is so antithetical to modern society people find it “hateful” instead of hopeful.
I will respond to each of your points.
1. This is mostly a problem in secular culture. If you marry someone who puts God above all things... well God forbids divorce (It's in the Bible.), so your spouse is unlikely to try and divorce you. This is supported by the fact that devoutly religious individuals have far lower divorce rates. I'm talking about like 5%, although you should note that this doesn't apply to ALL Christians, because many Christians don't practice. I'm talking about the hardcore Christians who attend services weekly, practice NFP, etc. Find one of those girls, and assuming you are a good man, you are pretty much all set. Secondly, your analogy to Russian Roulette just doesn't work, because a) In Russian Roulette, there is no benefit from the gun NOT going off. In marriage, if there is no divorce (analogous to the gun not going off), then the individual benefits from having a faithful life partner and the ability to create offspring. b) You don't typically die in a divorce, and though it is a negative experience akin to losing a loved one, most people can move on. It's not death. c) Finding a sexual partner and having children is a basic life experience necessary for reproducing, which is a basic life function of any species, whereas playing Russian Roulette is... well... a game invented 1 billion years after the first life began, so it's clearly not essential the way marriage is.
2. Well Matt was talking about Western culture. In any culture, it's typically the dominant religion that supports traditional family structure, because religious people are more likely to be absolutists rather than relativists. In Western society, this religion is Christianity. In the Middle East, it's Islam. In India, it's Hinduism. There are obviously major differences between these religions in their theology, but they all tend to support what is considered traditional family structures in their home cultures.
3. I have been to church every Sunday of my life since I was a baby except one Sunday as a little kid (long story behind it), and I have never heard a "fire and brimstone" sermon. Also, this seems to fail to take into account the differences between different denominations. Catholics do not have very many "fire and brimstone" priests, and for that matter, Evangelical Protestants don't have very many "fire and brimstone" preachers. Only certain backwoods fundamentalists are fond of such preachers. If you should choose to join Christianity, you will be able to find a church that doesn't have any "fire and brimstone," because that is the vast majority of churches. But then again, define "fire and brimstone." Christians believe that the wicked go to hell. Is mentioning this "fire and brimstone" to you? Because if it is, you need to man up. But if you mean something else (which I think you do), then that still doesn't make a valid reason to refuse Christianity on its own unless you have a reason for believing that Christianity is false. Lots of the best institutions are full of idiots. I'm an American even though I think my president is a moron. Similarly, one can be a Christian while thinking that certain individuals in the faith are morons.
@@gunsgalore7571 I has flashbacks and paranoia for years because of all that hellfire and brimstone stuff. Others do to. That is the problem.
Also, I was never capable of belief. No matter what I did or didn't do, I could never feel "saved."
I confused that it is something that only works on certain people, and OCD sufferers don't count.
@@skylinefever Ahh... Well certain denominations of Christianity can be like that, where you need to "feel" saved, and thus a lot of people leave. However, this is mainly a problem in denominations of Evangelical Protestantism. The problem is that feelings are subjective. In Catholicism, we believe that it doesn't matter what you "feel," but what is objectively true based on logic and reason. I suggest you look into St. Thomas Aquinas, as he wrote a lot about Catholic beliefs from a strictly logical perspective. All I'm saying is don't weigh Christianity based on the feelings you get from it. It's not supposed to make you feel "saved" and it's just the Evangelical Protestant churches who make this mistake and try to convince their parishioners that it's so.
Also, in Catholicism, we believe in something that is a lot more logical than what Protestants believe. Whereas Protestants believe you are "saved" the moment you believe in Christ, Catholic believe that no one is ever truly saved until they enter Heaven because, if you think about it, anyone could stop being a good person at any given moment, and thus they wouldn't be "saved" anymore. So in Catholicism, it's about what you do, not what you feel, and so I suggest you give a look into Catholicism in particular rather that Christianity in general. We are also the original church that has basically been around since about 29-33 AD, so we've got more legit claims at being the purest form of the Christian religion.
The Sexual Revolution may have failed you. It's been a smashing success for me!🤣
Yes but life could be so much better and more meaningful.
Indeed, the serial revolution is great for the alpha males and the kinds of women who have a s3x drive, bit no reproductive drive.
@@hopefull61256 It would be kinda cool to have a Nobel in biology.
This guy indoctrniating you into nonsense
bait?
@Test7017 Source?
@@buckarooben7635 meou
Does anyone realize that the pill came about because women were tired of living in poverty with there husbands and because men dont want to reign it in, in even marriage that women where tired of having to try and take care of fifteen to twentyfive kids. That you know dang well those husbands werent helping with!!! The second wave of that was free love and all kinds of kids born out of wedlock! So it seems to me whether married or not, men dont want to control whats in there pants!!! Never mind many men go gay today because they'll take it anywhere and from anyone! Any holes the goal!
It is a vast work of Catholic propaganda seen through a lense which is biased by Catholic ideas, but the secular point of "population decline" is a legitimate danger to humanity.