How to forgive yourself and allow change to happen

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ส.ค. 2024

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  • @Vxruxxss
    @Vxruxxss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I was born and raised in Islam. Lost my way for a few years and went back to Allah. It's been years and I still struggle to forgive myself. Thank you for posting this 🙏🏽

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know the feeling ❤️ you got this

    • @777SO
      @777SO 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Going through the same thing,subhãna Lah!i ask Allah swt to help me to forgive myself cause I don’t know how to do that🥹😭😭😭 only him can bring peace in my heart. I asked him to show me the path,and here I’am Allah swt shows me this video. My heart is heavy,Ya Allah swt I cry and cry again during my prayers it’s really difficult! Btw I return to him the day of Arafat,last week so it’s New. I’m doing the most,trying to compensate,by learning/relearning sourates and everything. I need to calm down cause🙄🤦🏽‍♀️May Allah forgive us,from the smalls sins to the big one. May he make it easier for all of us. Ameen.

    • @Vxruxxss
      @Vxruxxss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@777SO Ameen! It's been almost three years for me sis and alhamdulilah it's much better. I do cry some days and I've forgiven myself for most things . But somethings are hard to let go of. I would say continue on your path. Pray tahajuud, read Quran regularly and make istigfaar everyday. InshaAllah things will get easier for you. I will keep you in my duas love ❤️

    • @777SO
      @777SO 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Vxruxxss thank for your kind words,may Allah grant us peace of heart and mind Ameen💙

  • @WhoAmI_Beee
    @WhoAmI_Beee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for uploading🙏🏽. We missed you❤️❤️

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My pleasure missed you too ❤️❤️

  • @jahirahere
    @jahirahere 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As salamu alaikum, Jazakallah khair for this powerful video! It resonated with me deeply, especially as I'm entering my final year of high school and striving to make the most of it.
    Like you mentioned, self-forgiveness is a crucial step in moving forward. Waking up for Fajr and Tahajjud prayers has been a goal for a while, but negativity and past experiences have held me back. I won't delve into those details, but I acknowledge their impact and want to move forward positively.
    Missing these prayers has affected my academics and spiritual life. I know the blessings they hold, and I truly crave that peace and guidance in my final year.
    The struggle with negativity and self-doubt is real. Waking up motivated feels like a constant battle. However, Allah guided me to this video, and your message about self-forgiveness and embracing change is exactly what I needed to hear.
    My question is, how can I practice self-compassion when those negative thoughts creep in and make me hit snooze? I'm willing to change my sleep pattern and I'd love to hear any tips or experiences from others on this journey towards Fajr and a more positive morning routine.
    May Allah reward you for your wisdom and guidance!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Waleykum Salam, Ameen Ameen. May Allah make it easier for you to get up for these prayers and reward you for understanding their importance🫶🏾. I have a video on my page called “start doing this and watch Allah change your life” I think it would be helpful with what you’re asking! I think maybe you just need baraka in your days so you can wake up with motivation and have more compassion on yourself. It makes a huge difference ❤️❤️

  • @777SO
    @777SO 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There is no such thing as coincidence… this video is right on time!back to Salah last week. And let me tell you the guilt is real,crying oceans of tears during my prayer,my heart is HEAVY. It’s not easy!thank you for posting it,thank you Allah swt for showing me this video,since I asked him to help me to forgive myself,Allah wakbar! La ilâh Ilah ilala. May Allah swt forgive us,may he bless all of us believers,Ameen.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ameen! May Allah swt keep you steadfast ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ksmb00
    @Ksmb00 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so grateful to watch this video ❤ Al hamdoulilah. May Allah bless you ! I love you Fissabillah

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameeeen ❤️ I love you too! May Allah swt keep you close to Him always

  • @halimahtanko8228
    @halimahtanko8228 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jazakumulahi Khair ❤❤❤May Allah forgive us and grant us ease, Amin.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameen 🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @tesnimathimni2228
    @tesnimathimni2228 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for posting this ❤️❤️🌸

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hiarahearer55
    @hiarahearer55 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this video. May Allah SWT bless you ❤❤❤

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameen and you too❤

  • @bilalnekere3811
    @bilalnekere3811 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ma sha Allah oh ya Allah we all have wrong you please have mercy on us thank you so much for this video my sister may bless you

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameeeen

    • @bilalnekere3811
      @bilalnekere3811 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you doing please if I may ask where are you from

  • @neelamjameel7433
    @neelamjameel7433 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhamdulilah for the khair you bring in these videos ✨️💕✨️

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥺❤️❤️

  • @Hayouma149
    @Hayouma149 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    YAY SHE POTSED AT THE RIGHT TIMEEEEEE

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️

  • @amidatkarimu9433
    @amidatkarimu9433 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Barakallah feeki fir this🥹❤️

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure ❤️❤️❤️

  • @husseinsula
    @husseinsula 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mashallah

  • @ruasaeed6131
    @ruasaeed6131 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This video couldn’t have come at a better time🩷🩷

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alhamdulilah ❤️❤️❤️

  • @juwaireeyahx
    @juwaireeyahx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful video Mashallah 😪

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️

  • @user-be2sg8ty3r
    @user-be2sg8ty3r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️

  • @ellaina3207
    @ellaina3207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can I ask a question, I need another perspective on my dilemma. Everything you said resonated with me. Sorry in advance for the long comment. Thank you as well :) My issues currently are on the present day sins. I changed a lot in the past one year and its been A JOURNEY !! I actively try to do better in my deen and akhlaq every single day and keep Allah in my mind every single day alhamdulillah however I question myself somedays. Am I a hypocrite if fall into a bad habit i tried to let go or committed sins during my day? (for example as part of working on my akhlaq i try to make sure i dont get angry at anyone but sometimes it comes out and i feel terrrrrible and make istigfar then i start the whole question of AM I EVEN DIFFERENT? AM I EVEN BETTER? WILL A DAY COME AND I WONT DO THIS AGAIN? AM I HYPocRITE for saying im working on my relationship with Allah and trying to become a better muslima? (caps for emphasis on my internal dialogue sorry haahaha)
    I wonder am i really better if i wasted time that day and didnt do all the ibadah i wished i did? is this part of my progress and journey to getting closer to Allah or am i a hypocrite? did i actually change? Am I still on the right path? Am I actually better? im unemployed for 1 year and have all the time to learn the deen more but I am still struggling trying to get better and somedays i end up wasting so much time. I regret all the time I wasted I feel like a failiure (I should add even the 1% i do somedays is vastly more than what i used to do a year ago so i shld remember that . but somedays the sins that i do in anyday get to me so hard mentally that i question my entire progress. I try to not give up. somedays i give up momentarily but Allah guides me very quickly the next morning even to get it together. I just dont know if its normal to struggle day to day or is this shaitan or what. Any answer from anyone would be appreciated. Thank you

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not at all! This is exactly what I was talking about. The fact that you are aware of this and you still want to progress is a blessing from Allah. Honestly when I first started I was just like this and some days I still feel like this but the key is to keep pushing just like you’re doing. It’s a jihad, especially when you’re not used to it yet. Keep pushing but most importantly keep asking Allah swt to grant you steadfastness & every time you fall back down ask Him to forgive you and try again, this exactly what it means to be a Muslim in this dunyah. We make mistakes, it’s hard but you don’t give up and one day in sha Allah you’ll get past this stage 🫶🏾 and no you are not hypocrite. Hypocrites don’t worry about being one you know. May Allah make it easy for you ❤️

    • @ellaina3207
      @ellaina3207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@meiiilin Thank you so much. I want you to know that your response meant a lot. I have Allah and he is sufficient. I do wish I had friends to talk to about these things. May Allah accept all you good deeds and forgive you and grant you all the good that you desire

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ellaina3207 Ameen ❤️ and for you too. I’m here anyway if you need to talk

  • @abeermu8587
    @abeermu8587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤ wish you change channel name it hard to find you even tho I’m a subscriber

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Press the notification bell it will tell you whenever I post, it’s raider that way in sha Allah

  • @island.91
    @island.91 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah I feel ABANDONED AND NEGLECTED by own family parents while they give my older brother and his family everything how do I cope then honestly I am tired of them and being a Muslim dealing with this

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May Allah mend your relationships & make it easy for you