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I remember Diana getting really close to people and then dumping them like a hot potato. She sounds more and more like someone else we all know. No wonder H feels so comfortable with his wife...
Diana had trust issues. She was frequently betrayed. Even though she had her faults, she was a true humanitarian and NOTHING like M. Diana was doing extraordinary humanitarian work off camera by her mid 20’s.
Tacky? Yes, C had a weekend holiday trip... Yet D invites Hewitt to stay at Highgrove, in their marital home to play footsie under the table, so to speak, right in front of the children - W and H!
Princess Margaret was also fearless about AIDS. Before this, she visited a friend’s son who had contracted AIDS when others were afraid to. But it was done in private, not to raise awareness.
I was interested to know what happened to Mary Berry and looked her up on the internet. Discovered that when her book came out Prince Charles, as he was then, was livid with her as she had signed confidentiality agreements when she went to work there. The book was banned in the UK and lawyers were after her so she left the UK for Canada. She moved around and much later when the dust was settled she returned to Liverpool where she now lives. That is a very condensed version of what I read. I've really enjoyed you reading this book to us. You are a natural on the screen and when you tease with what you are going to read out, I find myself smiling in response! Thank you for your chat shows.
OMG! Shauna you are so funny! I thought the same thing about those freaking eyebrows. They were creepy!!! And who chews on their hands? What the heck is that? I just thought the same thing. I love dogs but if you pee on my bed I wouldn't think it's funny either. That's just gross. Yuck.
I don't know whether she went abroad with James Hewitt, but she spent a lot of time with him here in Devon. They stayed in a cottage owned by James's mother Shirley.
You ARE definitely responsible for the giant price surge on this book. Had you not revisited it, no one would ever know such a personal account even existed. It’s the bird’s eye view we’ve all been waiting for. Turns out it was there, on the shelf, all along! 👏
I’m an OR nurse and I remember having to wear isolation type gear , double gloves, etc , whenever caring for AIDS patients . There was the fear that was seen recently with dealing with COVID patients . So much misinformation and lack of information about how the virus was transmitted . Diana ‘s actions with those patients meant a great deal in that atmosphere.
Of course special protection gear is necessary when operating on patients with highly infectious / easily transmitted diseases or when treating wounds or dealing with bodily fluids. That’s the same today , of course. But in my country the public information was very clear that normal physical contact with AIDS patients was not dangerous and all people I knew (directly and indirectly) had no objections to treating AIDS patients without any special protection. All of that before Diana did it. PS I remember my astonishment about the fuzz that was made about Diana since it was nothing new nor remarkable.
You are correct, my Mother was an OR nurse too. When I was in nursing school myself, that’s when the information and medication for HIV/AIDS treatment had substantially improved. This was in the same timeframe that Freddie Mercury had passed away, and Magic Johnson was diagnosed with HIV, 1991.
I’m a chemist who had to wear full-on bunny suits for clean rooms, but I drew the line when all citizens were required to wear masks that didn’t protect people from viruses 🦠 that are so much smaller than most masks 😷.
@honeym210 I think so, too. I read that he rehoused his oldest beloved dog shortly after he married to please his wife - she didn't like the animal. I always felt that said quite a bit about Diana.
@@UrbanArtCentralDiana wasn’t a saint. Just because she was pretty, charismatic and was smarter at manipulating the media, doesn’t mean she was innocent. It takes two to mess up a marriage. Several people confirm Charles really did TRY with Diana… only when it was hopeless and she cheated on him did he go back physically to Camilla… but yes, I think his heart was never fully in it. He felt pressured to marry someone the family and public would accept. How much autonomy did he have in selecting a wife. Diana looked good on paper but it was a terrible match. I think there’s plenty of blame to go around, including to the older royals who meddled in Charles’ relationships
This makes me feel creeped out by meg even more to see her strategy, after a year with Cory 'Celebrity chefs' dropped in popularity. She came to the UK hunting someone more famous Harry scoped into her radar she learnt EVERYTHING about him & for 2 years built a story around her life. Bogart, the perfume, the 'love' of Africa, need I say more!?!
I never saw it as a fairy tale marriage, rather a disaster waiting to happen. They had absolutely nothing in common and in every marriage there comes a time when you actually have to talk to one another. They had nothing to talk about. And the ridiculous expectations of the general public for their .’fairy tale’ marriage through which they could live vicariously must have been an enormous pressure on them. And the very public who accused the paparazzi of murder when Diana died are the same public who were desperate for news and photographs and bought all the papers and magazines. Hypocrisy at its highest. And still lessons have not been learned.
Diana pretended to be interested in Charles’ hobbies & interests (fishing, hunting, gardening, art, architecture, reading, country life/Balmoral) to get him to marry her, then after the wedding she dropped the pretense of sharing his interests and tried to get him to drop them all.
While it was Princess Diana who drew public attention to AIDS patients and should be credited for doing so, she wasn't the first royal to visit them - that was Princess Margaret. Perhaps Diana also visited Lady Glennconner's son - I don't know - but speaking to the Daily Express, Lady G only mentioned Princess Margaret, and when talking to the Telegraph after her son's death she said that Margaret was making her visits long before Diana. I don't want to detract from what Diana did because the public nature of her visits was very much needed, but she probably knew from Margaret's visits that there was nothing to fear. In the Daily Express article Lady G said: "When my second son had AIDS, which in the '80s was terrifying because we didn’t know how it was caught, quite a lot of our friends suddenly couldn’t come and stay-I don’t blame them because it was difficult. But [Margaret] always came to stay, she always saw David and Sarah, she always hugged Henry. She would come with me to the lighthouse, which is a place for young men who are dying of AIDS, quite often on their own, because their parents wouldn’t have anything to do with them or their partners have died." Lady Glenconner added that Margaret wasn't touchy-feely with the patients, but ""She was very very good with them. She used to make them laugh and talk to them. And all that people don’t really know about.”
I keep thinking how awful it was for the boys - to witness their parents’ continual rejection of each other. No wonder it made them wary of love. I love this book and your sharing of it.
Loving this series, your balanced view is welcome. As for dog on the bed piddling, yuck! The Royals and their dogs, the corgis peed indoors all the time too, very odd.
I love your channel and I really enjoy your insights . I was born in the 70s and one of my first memories was everyone watching the royal wedding . I always loved seeing Princess Diana on the news or in the papers . Her Aids work was magnificent . She taught people to not be scared . This is in the 80’s . She had something about her that was transcendent . You were spot on about eating disorders . When she was rude to her dresser . Your body does get reactive to smells in recovery from eating disorders . It’s not easy . RIP Princess Diana .
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I enjoyed this episode but the first part stuck with me, being a huge dog lover all my life. I can't imagine having such an entitled, unruly dog! Perhaps the former prince also spoiled his children that way?? At the very least, it's incredibly rude to have the staff clean up after an untrained dog. And yes, even I draw the line at dogs eating in my bed, except their nightly before bed biscuits. Urine smells badly no matter how much you love your dog! Its a gross thought to just dab it with baking soda! That's fine for spot cleaning some things but not a pool of urine on bedding!!
Shauna, I really do love the way you present these books. You have compassion and empathy as you expand on each story. That marriage was in no way a fairytale ever, right from the beginning. While I understand the reasoning behind the actions of HMTQ and the QM wanting a ‘pure’ wife for Prince Charles, neither older woman took into account the needs of the individuals involved. I feel that PC was crying out for unconditional love and acceptance. He received that from C. What he received from D was expectations of love and attention she never received from her father and mother. The fact they had to perform Royal Duties from the beginning of their married life and not allowing them the time to truly settle into the positives and negatives of married life. I feel that both C&D were a bit entitled and expected their marriage merger to succeed and thrive without much input or work from either of them. I can understand why D refused to be comforted by C when she was hurting and upset. They may have presented as overly emotional tantrums but she was feeling isolated, alone and abandoned in her marriage. C was also a damaged soul at this point in time. He has endured the horrors and bullying of Scottish boarding school, had succeeded in his educational endeavours at uni and then when he felt he had an opinion and point of view to offer he was mocked and ridiculed. His family were not a real safe harbour of love and acceptance as he was destroying hidebound royal protocols. C must have felt like the only safe person in his world. Sadly, he did not receive that safe live and acceptance from the very young woman he was forced to marry. And neither did D from the older man she chose to marry because she had loved him from afar for years but did not know the real man under the masks he presented to the world. I just feel so sad for both of them. But more so for W&H growing up in such an emotionally unstable home. I have no doubt that both boys were adored by their parents and they did their best individually. But discord in a marriage always leaks out and the children suffer often without really understanding what is going on. 💔💔🥲😭😢🤗🤗
It was wonderful that her hug 'broke the barrier' for those suffering with AIDS. Others did similar work and dedicated years to it. But Diana had the spotlight and she loved the spotlight when she looked courageous, loving and gorgeous. As for the paparazzi - they got away with too much. They were thugs.
I find it disgusting that the medical community do not get the bulk of the credit for not ending the stigma over people with AIDS. It was doctors, nurses, and other frontline medical staff that started bringing awareness to the world that you could not contract AIDS by simply being around someone with it. Princess Diana was on the sidelines like everyone else when the disinformation about the disease was popular. But the myth of Diana has grown as if she alone ended the stigma.
Funny how people forget about Princess Margaret and her friend's son who had and later died of aids.... Pr Margaret used to visit patients before Diana " made it fashionable"
EYEBROWS 100% !!! It's his barbers responsibility to trim those hedges!!! I've said this for years ( hairdresser here 33 years) I tell all of my male & female clients ,"If it's above the neck, it's mine to fix ."
I think trimming is a lot to blame. Just like when women shave their legs. Trimmed hair grows back thicker and stronger. I’m just glad I have never shaved my legs. Okay, I used to have some hair, but it was fine and fair, and now that I’m older has thinned out.
I totally get your point. Facial hair is a different matter. You will notice brow hairs grow because it grows until the follicle dies. The wild brush on Ferguson's face is unsightly. Just my professional opinion. @@ynys_mon6928
So most times I would agree about the dogs eating in the bed… But I work for a hospital, and when I would work a third shift I would go down to the cafeteria by breakfast bring it home, my dog and I would eat it and then sleep the day away. I don’t know it was just a special little moment just for the two of us.
I wonder if someone from the picnic called the press and let them know that the prince was there with Diana and the kids. It would’ve been a wonderful evening. What a shame.
I agree with everyone’s comments, I love your delivery when you read stories to us. I also could listen to you for hours. I am sad when your presentation is over and I have to listen to my own thoughts. I feel sorry for Diana, Charles and Camilla. It is too bad that Charles did not have the internal fortitude to stand up to his family, the Royal courtiers and marry Camilla before she got fed up waiting for him and married Anthony Parker Bowls. Charles still has not got the fortitude to deal with Harry and Meghan.
Yes, Charles and Camilla are such a close loving couple, you can see it in the way they look at one another. Such a pity they did not marry at the outset. Diana and Charles were not suited. However, they did have the heir to the throne, Prince William.
It’s so gross that the dogs were allowed on the bed to piddle and eat. I love dogs, they sleep w me but they are also well trained. No piddling allowed !
Piddling on the bed would mean a change of bed top to bottom. That is absolutely not allowed. My cat did the upchuck (sorry but I can't think of another term) on my bed and the whole thing went into the trash. I clean the floor but my bed is sacred.
@@bjbrownAs well it should be!!! I think upchuck is a good term form what a cat presents to you. I have had little kitties all my life. ❤❤❤ Look up a Scottish Fold cat. (Taylor Swift had one.) and a Ragdoll cat. BOTH RECUSED from a shelter. My sweeties...
I so agree about the eyebrows! LOL! My comb and scissors come out when my hubby's eyebrows start curling downwards towards his eyes! The image of the major's being forehead warmers is very funny!
I think you mean the Scilly Isles, Shauna? It’s pronounced “Silly” the c is silent. They are beautiful, part of the Duchy of Cornwall, which is why they went there. I am loving these readings! So much insight from the hindsight 😃 I’d forgotten that Ronald Ferguson was Charles’ polo manager and hadn’t realised how close they were. I’m wondering if this is why he still has a soft spot for Sarah, and has allowed her back into the fold (Sandringham at Christmas!) after the long wilderness years enforced by Prince Philip. Let’s face it, her infamous toe sucking incident is nothing compared to the shenanigans Charles and Camilla got up to when they were married to other people….and Andrew and Sarah were already separated when that happened. Charles and Camilla really don’t have the moral highground when it comes to some of their past behaviour!
It's clear Wendy is team staff. How much would she cover for them (and by extension, Diana, for instance). I mean, would she spill the real beans at all?
Your impression about the debauchery below stairs is supported. In the 90s there was another book called Disorder in the Court or Courtly Life (US, UK titles) by a butler or some such at Buckingham Palace. He said there was a lot of sex and drinking among staff. One time a housekeeper stopped him and said one of the maids and a footman were sneaking off and having sex in one of the back rooms below stairs. The narrator said something like, I wanted to tell her I had trouble enough keeping the gay men apart, and was not going to bother about a man and a woman which was just normal.
The Scilly Isles are pronounced Silly (really!) . They're off the very western tip of Cornwall, and are part of the Duchy of Cornwall. They're quite small, and not easy to get to. There's a ferry during summer months, but otherwise its light plane or helicopter.
I'm wondering if as this book was banned in Britain that possibly it was re-edited and submitted again sans details of Camilla visits to Highgrove to try and avoid the ban. Which could be the reason why there are a few disconnected mentions of her as if she had already been covered in an earlier chapter. I've heard about the soda and blotting paper trick being used by the Queen's staff too on those expensive carpets, so it must work. I can understand Charles loving his dogs so much that they go on his bed, some of mine slept on and in the bed. It must have hurt him so much when Diana wouldn't except his old dog and demanded he got rid of it. Charles gave the fog to friends. As for dog smells, having had several lovely dogs i found only my female Saluki didn't have any doggy odour, in lots of ways she was like a cat, but being a sight hound though ment dhe was a b•gger to get back if she decided to run off. Wonderful, beautiful dogs and very obedient accept for the You Can't Catch Me walks. Putting a chest harness on her with a grab handle was a huge relief as other dog walkers would grab the handle for me when she was playing hard to get. Instead of doggy treats i should have carried around a bag of Quality Street chocolates for all the helpful dog owners haha.
Charles would feel differently if he had to clean up the mess! Absolutely disgusting changing an entire bed Matress cover sheets blankets bedspread and all! I did my bed this morning I love clean sheets but at 73 they don’t get changed weekly anymore but no animals in my house!
Another fabulously cheeky episode, I just love your delivery! As an FYI, in the UK we pronounce valet the French way with a silent T - all of us, it’s not just a regional difference. The only time someone might say val-et (not va-let) is in reference to having a car cleaned ie “I need my car valeting”, “my car was valeted yesterday”. Also the Isles of Scilly has a silent ‘c’, making the pronunciation “silly”. Don’t take this as nitpicking, I just know you love language and linguistics. Keep up the fantastic work! 🥰
Oh Shauna, You tricked me I thought it was some magic episode you had whipped up. (In what spare time?!) I’m still happy to wait But it was just like that quick second when you wake up and you think the world’s aligned to whatever you were hoping for 😂 I think you could write your own book (again in said spare time?!)
Because of Harry and the wife's nonsens, I started to pay attention to Diana's story ,the real story, and I have to say the more I learn, the less I like her
We can now see her as a real person , with flaws like anyone else , rather than the saint that she was portrayed as right after her death . Or the poor innocent victim narrative that ran at the time . The simple truth is that Charles and Diana should never have married, they had nothing in common and were incompatible .
I can't see Diana's faults for seeing Camilla lack of respect/care/love of her and Charles children. Her sister said in the doc., "she never wanted to be queen" huh?? She didn't know all those years of adultery and hurt she caused that she wasn't going to be queen "hahaha 🤣, She chased that crown how many years? It's statements like that, I just can't get past.
@@NiniM8154 They speculate that she had BPD, that is really big emotions that can turn on a dime. It would also explain why she craved Charles' attention while at the same time turning him away if he tried. Black and white thinking and splitting can cause a lot of harm for the people around them while it is happening. If the person doesn't have insight then to them everything they are doing makes sense due to the signals that their body is giving them.
Oh i do love your review of this book! Wish i could afford to but a copy lol. I was a nurse in the usa when Diana began her interactions with AIDS patients. I really admired her for that, made a difference for me.
13:07 HG Tudor´s take on this would be a complete different one. And I am uncapable of looking at it withou taking Diana´s and Charles´ narcissism into consideration. The person I really feel sorry for is William on this biking vacation.
Absolutely!!! William totally needs support in this horrible scenario. So glad he has Catherine and his beautiful children. I obviously don't KNOW, but it seems thst Catherine's parents are VERY supportive.
@@bettyboop4634 that is wide brush you are using here to unfairly, tar her & explain photographers pitching at a very public event (even though i presume, it was dark). Photographers would very likely have been on site for spectacular fireworks imagery.. Noone see Charles or anyone in his party buying hotdogs /candyfloss? Emotional instability makes a person - unpredictable as opposed to how you have set certain behaviour or acts in stone. I think it unwise to weaken an argument by being judgemental to this extent. Just saying...
To hear that Charles loves polo, loves his horses and has a favorite horse… I can't stop wondering.. how some of the royal commentator/ journalists/ writers. ( team Diana) .. has managed to feed people the stories of how King Charles was looked down upon by his father and distanced from his mother because he was afraid of horses and Princess Royal Anna was with their mother all the time , because of their mutual love of horses!! It is so obvious, that they will love to paint king Charles in the darkest light as possible....I wish people would be more critical when they listened to people who claim to know.. never ever ask.. or investigate if it was real... Most of us know how this persons are .
Going off on holidays don't differentiate cheating or not cheating. Diana may not have went on holiday with her many lovers, doesn't mean she wasn't cheating. Cheating is cheating is cheating
I wasn’t implying it wasn’t cheating I just suggested it made it a little more “public” to go off on holiday! They both knew they were with others by then but they were both trying to keep it discrete!
i thought she would not have a long term relationship unless the man was prepared to give her his full attention at all times. drop everything to pander to her emotions. nothing wrong with that but it was certainly not charles.
@@more444store6How could she possibly know what Charles said to Diana before they married? And if there was such a bombshell in this book I think Shauna would have quoted it.
@@mbd6054 The drama included silently calling one married boyfriend's wife over a hundred times in one day terrorising the woman. She freely admitted it on the Panorama interview which William has asked to no longer be available for people to watch. I don't agree, it's an important documentary.
@@flowerjpotter1629 William's stance is understandable, from a son's perspective. He knows far more about his mother's affairs than any son needs to know, and doubtless doesn't want her memory further besmirched. She was tricked into giving that interview, and the fact that it was dishonestly obtained is a further valid argument for not showing it. Whatever the fate of the interview, it is important that the truth is told about Diana. Charles has been unfairly vilified and abused, for decades, because of Diana's manipulations. It's high time the record was set to rights. Charles and Camilla were Diana's victims, not the reverse.
Hey Shauna! Just started watching today’s review of the Housekeeper’s Diary…I wish you could do them more frequently! 😊. I really get a kick out of this!!
For Charles to go on holiday with both Andrew and Camilla... It was obvious not a love birds holiday... Seriously.. Andrew Camilla and Charles was friends for many years... I don't understand Diana's being hurt by it... And it can't in any way, be compered with a Diana - James holiday...( Lovers holiday) Yes we know, he was having an affair, with Camilla.. but Charles was also a common geast in Andrew and Camilla Home for years before that.... just spending time with the whole family..
I understand Diana's feelings toward the dog. My husband got a hunting dog, without discussing it, and they can be very hyper. My son has Asperger's and it was very distressing having the dog bark loudly and run around the house all the time. It peed all over the carpet, and my husband would throw a paper towel on top of the stain. I guess that was his idea of "blotting." It left a tick in my bed and I now have Lyme disease. We are divorced and he has the dog. 11 years later, the dog is very sweet but both my son and I are still on edge when it is around. Maybe Charles dog just added that extra layer of energy in the house that created more aggravation.
Certainly after this read you realize they should have divorced much sooner ( or separated) but back then I guess the Queen wanted them to ‘work’ on it …. What’s crazy after living the press war that was played between he and PD he is now going through this with wayward son & press games 😩 it is sad when she past away because it seemed she was finally blooming as a single woman.
I agree- she did her best work after the divorce and seemed to have accepted more and really started to bloom . Her work with Aids and her exposure to landmine injuries was brilliant.
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I was so happy to read this along with you Shauna ! Love your channel!!!
So nice to hear about how kind Prince Edward was. He and Sophie are lovely!
I remember Diana getting really close to people and then dumping them like a hot potato. She sounds more and more like someone else we all know. No wonder H feels so comfortable with his wife...
Yes I was thinking the same thing.
He really did marry his mother. Lol!
And that comment about curry and garlic would be deemed racist today
True xx
Diana had trust issues. She was frequently betrayed. Even though she had her faults, she was a true humanitarian and NOTHING like M. Diana was doing extraordinary humanitarian work off camera by her mid 20’s.
Tacky? Yes, C had a weekend holiday trip... Yet D invites Hewitt to stay at Highgrove, in their marital home to play footsie under the table, so to speak, right in front of the children - W and H!
I agree the marriage was a trap for both if them! So very sad.
Princess Margaret was also fearless about AIDS. Before this, she visited a friend’s son who had contracted AIDS when others were afraid to. But it was done in private, not to raise awareness.
I was interested to know what happened to Mary Berry and looked her up on the internet. Discovered that when her book came out Prince Charles, as he was then, was livid with her as she had signed confidentiality agreements when she went to work there. The book was banned in the UK and lawyers were after her so she left the UK for Canada. She moved around and much later when the dust was settled she returned to Liverpool where she now lives. That is a very condensed version of what I read.
I've really enjoyed you reading this book to us. You are a natural on the screen and when you tease with what you are going to read out, I find myself smiling in response!
Thank you for your chat shows.
You mean Wendy Berry not (Dame) Mary Berry here, I think. You might want to correct this.
Mary Berry doesn’t live in Liverpool
I kept picturing Mary berry ( she is well known tv baker in Uk)every time Shauna mentioned Wendy Berry 😅
OMG! Shauna you are so funny! I thought the same thing about those freaking eyebrows. They were creepy!!! And who chews on their hands? What the heck is that? I just thought the same thing. I love dogs but if you pee on my bed I wouldn't think it's funny either. That's just gross. Yuck.
No Pee!!! NO PEE NO PEE!! NOT ACCEPTABLE!!! YOU ARE ROYALTY!!! WHERE ARE YOUR STANDARDS? I AM STUNNED!!!
Too short, I always want more. Lovely book brought to us by a charming speaker. 👏 👏
Glad you enjoyed it!
You don’t say, a cycling holiday? But second son stated that Pa never rode bicycles with his sons! 🙄
To be fair I think he was a toddler! 😂🤣
Another one of Harrys "ailments" happens to be selective memory😂
There are several photos of Harry and his Papa riding bicycles.
@@thevintagereadHe is still a toddler!
😅😅😅@@bjbrown
let’s face it,even the paparazzi haven’t exploited Diana’s memory as much as the Sussex’s have!
Agreed!
🎯!! So true...and no doubt it will continue!
The Sussexes and Paul Burrell!!
Never a true word said 😏
I don't know whether she went abroad with James Hewitt, but she spent a lot of time with him here in Devon. They stayed in a cottage owned by James's mother Shirley.
Yah I can’t blame Charles wholly when Diana fooled around first. It was just a tragic misalliance.
You ARE definitely responsible for the giant price surge on this book. Had you not revisited it, no one would ever know such a personal account even existed. It’s the bird’s eye view we’ve all been waiting for. Turns out it was there, on the shelf, all along! 👏
I’m an OR nurse and I remember having to wear isolation type gear , double gloves, etc , whenever caring for AIDS patients . There was the fear that was seen recently with dealing with COVID patients . So much misinformation and lack of information about how the virus was transmitted . Diana ‘s actions with those patients meant a great deal in that atmosphere.
Of course special protection gear is necessary when operating on patients with highly infectious / easily transmitted diseases or when treating wounds or dealing with bodily fluids. That’s the same today , of course.
But in my country the public information was very clear that normal physical contact with AIDS patients was not dangerous and all people I knew (directly and indirectly) had no objections to treating AIDS patients without any special protection. All of that before Diana did it.
PS I remember my astonishment about the fuzz that was made about Diana since it was nothing new nor remarkable.
You are correct, my Mother was an OR nurse too. When I was in nursing school myself, that’s when the information and medication for HIV/AIDS treatment had substantially improved. This was in the same timeframe that Freddie Mercury had passed away, and Magic Johnson was diagnosed with HIV, 1991.
I’m a chemist who had to wear full-on bunny suits for clean rooms, but I drew the line when all citizens were required to wear masks that didn’t protect people from viruses 🦠 that are so much smaller than most masks 😷.
I’ve loved this book, don’t want it to end
Knowing that Charles loves his dogs so much makes me think he's a really kind, nice guy.
A guy who cheats on his wife, doesn't care about social norms and hurts his wife is kind? You have very unique standards.
@@UrbanArtCentraldiana was at it with James Hewitt. And she admitted to being the first to cheat.
@honeym210 I think so, too. I read that he rehoused his oldest beloved dog shortly after he married to please his wife - she didn't like the animal. I always felt that said quite a bit about Diana.
@@UrbanArtCentralDiana wasn’t a saint. Just because she was pretty, charismatic and was smarter at manipulating the media, doesn’t mean she was innocent. It takes two to mess up a marriage. Several people confirm Charles really did TRY with Diana… only when it was hopeless and she cheated on him did he go back physically to Camilla… but yes, I think his heart was never fully in it. He felt pressured to marry someone the family and public would accept. How much autonomy did he have in selecting a wife. Diana looked good on paper but it was a terrible match. I think there’s plenty of blame to go around, including to the older royals who meddled in Charles’ relationships
... I thought the precise opposite when I saw a video clip with Charles and how he treated the horse he rode at that time! :-/
This makes me feel creeped out by meg even more to see her strategy, after a year with Cory 'Celebrity chefs' dropped in popularity. She came to the UK hunting someone more famous Harry scoped into her radar she learnt EVERYTHING about him & for 2 years built a story around her life. Bogart, the perfume, the 'love' of Africa, need I say more!?!
She stalked him for sure.
I love the housekeeper's tale. Feels like a very honest and fair account of the roysl lives.
This book is great and your reactions are priceless
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I never saw it as a fairy tale marriage, rather a disaster waiting to happen. They had absolutely nothing in common and in every marriage there comes a time when you actually have to talk to one another. They had nothing to talk about. And the ridiculous expectations of the general public for their .’fairy tale’ marriage through which they could live vicariously must have been an enormous pressure on them. And the very public who accused the paparazzi of murder when Diana died are the same public who were desperate for news and photographs and bought all the papers and magazines. Hypocrisy at its highest. And still lessons have not been learned.
Diana pretended to be interested in Charles’ hobbies & interests (fishing, hunting, gardening, art, architecture, reading, country life/Balmoral) to get him to marry her, then after the wedding she dropped the pretense of sharing his interests and tried to get him to drop them all.
While it was Princess Diana who drew public attention to AIDS patients and should be credited for doing so, she wasn't the first royal to visit them - that was Princess Margaret. Perhaps Diana also visited Lady Glennconner's son - I don't know - but speaking to the Daily Express, Lady G only mentioned Princess Margaret, and when talking to the Telegraph after her son's death she said that Margaret was making her visits long before Diana. I don't want to detract from what Diana did because the public nature of her visits was very much needed, but she probably knew from Margaret's visits that there was nothing to fear.
In the Daily Express article Lady G said:
"When my second son had AIDS, which in the '80s was terrifying because we didn’t know how it was caught, quite a lot of our friends suddenly couldn’t come and stay-I don’t blame them because it was difficult. But [Margaret] always came to stay, she always saw David and Sarah, she always hugged Henry. She would come with me to the lighthouse, which is a place for young men who are dying of AIDS, quite often on their own, because their parents wouldn’t have anything to do with them or their partners have died."
Lady Glenconner added that Margaret wasn't touchy-feely with the patients, but ""She was very very good with them. She used to make them laugh and talk to them. And all that people don’t really know about.”
I keep thinking how awful it was for the boys - to witness their parents’ continual rejection of each other. No wonder it made them wary of love. I love this book and your sharing of it.
It taught William what he *didn't* want. Harry is not as intelligent.
Love listening to you, Shauna. You're a gem!
Thanks for listening
Loving this series, your balanced view is welcome. As for dog on the bed piddling, yuck! The Royals and their dogs, the corgis peed indoors all the time too, very odd.
I love your channel and I really enjoy your insights . I was born in the 70s and one of my first memories was everyone watching the royal wedding . I always loved seeing Princess Diana on the news or in the papers . Her Aids work was magnificent . She taught people to not be scared . This is in the 80’s . She had something about her that was transcendent .
You were spot on about eating disorders . When she was rude to her dresser . Your body does get reactive to smells in recovery from eating disorders . It’s not easy .
RIP Princess Diana .
My sister in England and myself in Canada love your video's and look forward to them every week. It's as though we're getting together via the internet with a best friend and having a great old chin wag. With out a doubt you are real and not "awful " as you described yourself and we so enjoy your honest humour. Looking forward to many more. Thankyou for our weekly smiles , wishing you well.
Loving all your videos. Thanks for your hardwork, honest opinions & humour. Greetings all the way from Yorkshire, England 🇬🇧 ❤
Thanks so much!
I enjoyed this episode but the first part stuck with me, being a huge dog lover all my life. I can't imagine having such an entitled, unruly dog! Perhaps the former prince also spoiled his children that way?? At the very least, it's incredibly rude to have the staff clean up after an untrained dog. And yes, even I draw the line at dogs eating in my bed, except their nightly before bed biscuits.
Urine smells badly no matter how much you love your dog! Its a gross thought to just dab it with baking soda! That's fine for spot cleaning some things but not a pool of urine on bedding!!
OMG the story of about the dogs eating and peeing in his bed. I love my dogs but that’s too much.
Shauna, I really do love the way you present these books. You have compassion and empathy as you expand on each story.
That marriage was in no way a fairytale ever, right from the beginning. While I understand the reasoning behind the actions of HMTQ and the QM wanting a ‘pure’ wife for Prince Charles, neither older woman took into account the needs of the individuals involved. I feel that PC was crying out for unconditional love and acceptance. He received that from C. What he received from D was expectations of love and attention she never received from her father and mother. The fact they had to perform Royal Duties from the beginning of their married life and not allowing them the time to truly settle into the positives and negatives of married life. I feel that both C&D were a bit entitled and expected their marriage merger to succeed and thrive without much input or work from either of them. I can understand why D refused to be comforted by C when she was hurting and upset. They may have presented as overly emotional tantrums but she was feeling isolated, alone and abandoned in her marriage. C was also a damaged soul at this point in time. He has endured the horrors and bullying of Scottish boarding school, had succeeded in his educational endeavours at uni and then when he felt he had an opinion and point of view to offer he was mocked and ridiculed. His family were not a real safe harbour of love and acceptance as he was destroying hidebound royal protocols. C must have felt like the only safe person in his world. Sadly, he did not receive that safe live and acceptance from the very young woman he was forced to marry. And neither did D from the older man she chose to marry because she had loved him from afar for years but did not know the real man under the masks he presented to the world.
I just feel so sad for both of them. But more so for W&H growing up in such an emotionally unstable home. I have no doubt that both boys were adored by their parents and they did their best individually. But discord in a marriage always leaks out and the children suffer often without really understanding what is going on. 💔💔🥲😭😢🤗🤗
Have also read previously that the Queens dogs when a piddle was found blotting paper and soda was used. Must have been the done thing!
Prevents staining and discourages a repeat behaviour, most times.
Remember this from puppy training.
Soda water neutralises the pee
Such wonderful camaraderie. Could listen to you all day! Thank you for your charm & wit x
Yes, love listening to you reading these books. So entertaining!
Not only embarrassing in front of the staff but ultimately Charles would always have the actual upper hand due to being the heir.
It was wonderful that her hug 'broke the barrier' for those suffering with AIDS. Others did similar work and dedicated years to it. But Diana had the spotlight and she loved the spotlight when she looked courageous, loving and gorgeous. As for the paparazzi - they got away with too much. They were thugs.
It was Elton, Elizabeth, Doris, Diana and Madonna. They were the first major allies.
Diana merely jumped on bandwagons
I find it disgusting that the medical community do not get the bulk of the credit for not ending the stigma over people with AIDS. It was doctors, nurses, and other frontline medical staff that started bringing awareness to the world that you could not contract AIDS by simply being around someone with it. Princess Diana was on the sidelines like everyone else when the disinformation about the disease was popular. But the myth of Diana has grown as if she alone ended the stigma.
Funny how people forget about Princess Margaret and her friend's son who had and later died of aids.... Pr Margaret used to visit patients before Diana " made it fashionable"
I cant get it out of my head ,Charles tells wendy just dab the wet patch on the bed .But hes so fussy over boiled eggs .
I have a hard time believing that, too. And in the BED!
You’re a born storyteller!
I’ve really enjoyed your series on this book, I will be sad when it ends ❤
EYEBROWS 100% !!! It's his barbers responsibility to trim those hedges!!! I've said this for years ( hairdresser here 33 years) I tell all of my male & female clients ,"If it's above the neck, it's mine to fix ."
As Omid says : make it neat.
Eyebrows? I call them the John Howards. (Australians will know what I mean)
I don't know, but I'll look it up ! TH-cam University lol
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I think trimming is a lot to blame. Just like when women shave their legs. Trimmed hair grows back thicker and stronger. I’m just glad I have never shaved my legs. Okay, I used to have some hair, but it was fine and fair, and now that I’m older has thinned out.
I totally get your point. Facial hair is a different matter. You will notice brow hairs grow because it grows until the follicle dies. The wild brush on Ferguson's face is unsightly. Just my professional opinion. @@ynys_mon6928
Dog nappers unite! That is, those of us who love a good nap with our pooches. ❤🐕🐩🐈⬛
So most times I would agree about the dogs eating in the bed… But I work for a hospital, and when I would work a third shift I would go down to the cafeteria by breakfast bring it home, my dog and I would eat it and then sleep the day away. I don’t know it was just a special little moment just for the two of us.
What a shame for the staff and RF at the time of the fireworks. They couldnt even enjoy an evening out. You were so right saying it was a pity
I wonder if someone from the picnic called the press and let them know that the prince was there with Diana and the kids. It would’ve been a wonderful evening. What a shame.
I agree with everyone’s comments, I love your delivery when you read stories to us. I also could listen to you for hours. I am sad when your presentation is over and I have to listen to my own thoughts. I feel sorry for Diana, Charles and Camilla. It is too bad that Charles did not have the internal fortitude to stand up to his family, the Royal courtiers and marry Camilla before she got fed up waiting for him and married Anthony Parker Bowls. Charles still has not got the fortitude to deal with Harry and Meghan.
Yes, Charles and Camilla are such a close loving couple, you can see it in the way they look at one another. Such a pity they did not marry at the outset. Diana and Charles were not suited. However, they did have the heir to the throne, Prince William.
So juicy! Absolutely addicted to this series you are such a great story teller!
It’s so gross that the dogs were allowed on the bed to piddle and eat. I love dogs, they sleep w me but they are also well trained. No piddling allowed !
Piddling on the bed would mean a change of bed top to bottom. That is absolutely not allowed. My cat did the upchuck (sorry but I can't think of another term) on my bed and the whole thing went into the trash. I clean the floor but my bed is sacred.
@@bjbrownAs well it should be!!! I think upchuck is a good term form what a cat presents to you. I have had little kitties all my life. ❤❤❤ Look up a Scottish Fold cat. (Taylor Swift had one.) and a Ragdoll cat. BOTH RECUSED from a shelter. My sweeties...
Just had a very handsome David Beckham advert logging in. More of those please, less of the wholefoods 😅😂
Yummy! 😂
Don’t find David appealing but ur post gave me a chuckle 😅
Can t bear the sight of those monster eyebrows either!!!😊❤
Omid's ?
I so agree about the eyebrows! LOL! My comb and scissors come out when my hubby's eyebrows start curling downwards towards his eyes! The image of the major's being forehead warmers is very funny!
I think you mean the Scilly Isles, Shauna? It’s pronounced “Silly” the c is silent. They are beautiful, part of the Duchy of Cornwall, which is why they went there.
I am loving these readings! So much insight from the hindsight 😃
I’d forgotten that Ronald Ferguson was Charles’ polo manager and hadn’t realised how close they were. I’m wondering if this is why he still has a soft spot for Sarah, and has allowed her back into the fold (Sandringham at Christmas!) after the long wilderness years enforced by Prince Philip. Let’s face it, her infamous toe sucking incident is nothing compared to the shenanigans Charles and Camilla got up to when they were married to other people….and Andrew and Sarah were already separated when that happened.
Charles and Camilla really don’t have the moral highground when it comes to some of their past behaviour!
Thanks! 😊
Thanks for these juicy snippets I love them and on tenterhooks for the next one 😊
Greetings from a chilly Cheshire 🇬🇧 xx
Glad you enjoyed!
It's clear Wendy is team staff. How much would she cover for them (and by extension, Diana, for instance). I mean, would she spill the real beans at all?
Yes valid point…
What a great turn out and such a lovely group of chatters, great to see and to have met you all, hope to catch you next time x x
Really good! But, I don’t understand why Diana would get so upset at Charles when she had found her own comfort with other men.
Greetings from a fan in New Mexico, USA! Loving this playlist!
Awesome! Thank you!
Eagerly waiting!
Your impression about the debauchery below stairs is supported. In the 90s there was another book called Disorder in the Court or Courtly Life (US, UK titles) by a butler or some such at Buckingham Palace. He said there was a lot of sex and drinking among staff. One time a housekeeper stopped him and said one of the maids and a footman were sneaking off and having sex in one of the back rooms below stairs. The narrator said something like, I wanted to tell her I had trouble enough keeping the gay men apart, and was not going to bother about a man and a woman which was just normal.
I have enjoyed this book so much. Thank you for bringing it to our attention and on top of that reading to us the good bits! How great is that??
I love royal bookreviews thankyou
You and this book a a good combination!
I love waking up to new vids from you. Can’t wait to hear next chapter!
❤ I've really enjoyed that, thank you ❤
The Scilly Isles are pronounced Silly (really!) . They're off the very western tip of Cornwall, and are part of the Duchy of Cornwall. They're quite small, and not easy to get to. There's a ferry during summer months, but otherwise its light plane or helicopter.
There’s at least one cottage there belonging to the Duchy that can be leased for a holiday.
When mentioning Ron Ferguson’s eyebrows it made me think of Prince Phillip’s brows. Must be a rich British man’s thing.
Yes, yes,yes. Totally ick!!!
I don’t think Ron was rich, not poor but certainly not rich.
It seems to have taken over from the bushy sideburns of the nineteenth century.
I'm wondering if as this book was banned in Britain that possibly it was re-edited and submitted again sans details of Camilla visits to Highgrove to try and avoid the ban.
Which could be the reason why there are a few disconnected mentions of her as if she had already been covered in an earlier chapter.
I've heard about the soda and blotting paper trick being used by the Queen's staff too on those expensive carpets, so it must work.
I can understand Charles loving his dogs so much that they go on his bed, some of mine slept on and in the bed.
It must have hurt him so much when Diana wouldn't except his old dog and demanded he got rid of it. Charles gave the fog to friends.
As for dog smells, having had several lovely dogs i found only my female Saluki didn't have any doggy odour, in lots of ways she was like a cat, but being a sight hound though ment dhe was a b•gger to get back if she decided to run off.
Wonderful, beautiful dogs and very obedient accept for the You Can't Catch Me walks.
Putting a chest harness on her with a grab handle was a huge relief as other dog walkers would grab the handle for me when she was playing hard to get.
Instead of doggy treats i should have carried around a bag of Quality Street chocolates for all the helpful dog owners haha.
Charles would feel differently if he had to clean up the mess! Absolutely disgusting changing an entire bed Matress cover sheets blankets bedspread and all! I did my bed this morning I love clean sheets but at 73 they don’t get changed weekly anymore but no animals in my house!
Another fabulously cheeky episode, I just love your delivery! As an FYI, in the UK we pronounce valet the French way with a silent T - all of us, it’s not just a regional difference. The only time someone might say val-et (not va-let) is in reference to having a car cleaned ie “I need my car valeting”, “my car was valeted yesterday”. Also the Isles of Scilly has a silent ‘c’, making the pronunciation “silly”. Don’t take this as nitpicking, I just know you love language and linguistics.
Keep up the fantastic work! 🥰
Oh Shauna,
You tricked me
I thought it was some magic episode you had whipped up. (In what spare time?!)
I’m still happy to wait
But it was just like that quick second when you wake up and you think the world’s aligned to whatever you were hoping for 😂
I think you could write your own book (again in said spare time?!)
Just watch all the series today! Just loving it. ...I can't not wait for the other ones!
Great tales Shauna but I did think that H & M have done far more damage than the Paps ever could😢❤
Absolutely!!! They are HORRID. Everything they do is nasty and negative. Truly evil . Protect yourself.
Thank you again for letting us in on this out of print book.
The Scilly Isles are pronounced Silly, and off the Cornish Coast, very beautiful holiday destination. 😊
Happy mornings with Shauna! Love your reviews❤️🇺🇸
Because of Harry and the wife's nonsens, I started to pay attention to Diana's story ,the real story, and I have to say the more I learn, the less I like her
I was never a big fan. Her behavior described in the book seems rather narcissistic, especially the way she treated staff.
Same here, I always thought there was something a bit off, and that there was more to her than meets the eye.@@NiniM8154
We can now see her as a real person , with flaws like anyone else , rather than the saint that she was portrayed as right after her death . Or the poor innocent victim narrative that ran at the time . The simple truth is that Charles and Diana should never have married, they had nothing in common and were incompatible .
I can't see Diana's faults for seeing Camilla lack of respect/care/love of her and Charles children. Her sister said in the doc., "she never wanted to be queen" huh?? She didn't know all those years of adultery and hurt she caused that she wasn't going to be queen "hahaha 🤣, She chased that crown how many years? It's statements like that, I just can't get past.
@@NiniM8154 They speculate that she had BPD, that is really big emotions that can turn on a dime. It would also explain why she craved Charles' attention while at the same time turning him away if he tried. Black and white thinking and splitting can cause a lot of harm for the people around them while it is happening. If the person doesn't have insight then to them everything they are doing makes sense due to the signals that their body is giving them.
Oh i do love your review of this book! Wish i could afford to but a copy lol. I was a nurse in the usa when Diana began her interactions with AIDS patients. I really admired her for that, made a difference for me.
Great fun. Love the way you share the stories😊
Luckily there is Australia Day and a LONG weekend to take the attention of followers in Australia.BUT what will the rest of us do?🙃☺️
I’m Canadian and pronounce it valay I’ve also heard what you’re saying love watching Saturday afternoon 🍻
This was delicious! Keep ‘em coming, doll!🎉
13:07 HG Tudor´s take on this would be a complete different one. And I am uncapable of looking at it withou taking Diana´s and Charles´ narcissism into consideration.
The person I really feel sorry for is William on this biking vacation.
Absolutely!!! William totally needs support in this horrible scenario. So glad he has Catherine and his beautiful children. I obviously don't KNOW, but it seems thst Catherine's parents are VERY supportive.
HG Tudor is wrong.
HG Tudor is wrong.
HG Tudor is wrong.
HG Tudor is wrong.
My guess is Diana phoned the press.
Asif _no-one _ in the public ever ring in tips.
Why would she in this instance, ruin it for the whole party?
@@BlueInk912 she was emotionally unstable.
@@bettyboop4634 that is wide brush you are using here to unfairly, tar her & explain photographers pitching at a very public event (even though i presume, it was dark). Photographers would very likely have been on site for spectacular fireworks imagery..
Noone see Charles or anyone in his party buying hotdogs /candyfloss?
Emotional instability makes a person - unpredictable as opposed to how you have set certain behaviour or acts in stone.
I think it unwise to weaken an argument by being judgemental to this extent. Just saying...
@@BlueInk912 you are entitled to your view and I to mine.
Yep. Labels are for vegetable cans.
To hear that Charles loves polo, loves his horses and has a favorite horse…
I can't stop wondering.. how some of the royal commentator/ journalists/ writers. ( team Diana) .. has managed to feed people the stories of how King Charles was looked down upon by his father and distanced from his mother because he was afraid of horses and Princess Royal Anna was with their mother all the time , because of their mutual love of horses!!
It is so obvious, that they will love to paint king Charles in the darkest light as possible....I wish people would be more critical when they listened to people who claim to know.. never ever ask.. or investigate if it was real... Most of us know how this persons are
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Love this! Sad about the fireworks evening.
Going off on holidays don't differentiate cheating or not cheating. Diana may not have went on holiday with her many lovers, doesn't mean she wasn't cheating. Cheating is cheating is cheating
I wasn’t implying it wasn’t cheating I just suggested it made it a little more “public” to go off on holiday! They both knew they were with others by then but they were both trying to keep it discrete!
I’m with you regarding the dogs.
I don't think Diana wanted to be loved, IMO she wanted to be worshipped.
i thought she would not have a long term relationship unless the man was prepared to give her his full attention at all times. drop everything to pander to her emotions. nothing wrong with that but it was certainly not charles.
That's true. She also immensely enjoyed the melodrama of the numerous affairs.
@@more444store6How could she possibly know what Charles said to Diana before they married? And if there was such a bombshell in this book I think Shauna would have quoted it.
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The drama included silently calling one married boyfriend's wife over a hundred times in one day terrorising the woman.
She freely admitted it on the Panorama interview which William has asked to no longer be available for people to watch.
I don't agree, it's an important documentary.
@@flowerjpotter1629 William's stance is understandable, from a son's perspective. He knows far more about his mother's affairs than any son needs to know, and doubtless doesn't want her memory further besmirched. She was tricked into giving that interview, and the fact that it was dishonestly obtained is a further valid argument for not showing it.
Whatever the fate of the interview, it is important that the truth is told about Diana. Charles has been unfairly vilified and abused, for decades, because of Diana's manipulations. It's high time the record was set to rights. Charles and Camilla were Diana's victims, not the reverse.
Major Ron’s eyebrows 😂 I remember those.
Love your broadcasts Shauna. You are my favourite
Like Prince Edward, he never get the attention what he deserved
Whichever book you choose will come to life when you share it with us!
That is such a wonderful compliment!!❤
Eyebrows that would have kept his forehead warm......😂😂😂😂
Fun read!
Diana was certainly a handful. I still love her it just makes her human. BPD is not an easy diagnosis it hurts the sufferer.
Hey Shauna! Just started watching today’s review of the Housekeeper’s Diary…I wish you could do them more frequently! 😊. I really get a kick out of this!!
For Charles to go on holiday with both Andrew and Camilla... It was obvious not a love birds holiday... Seriously..
Andrew Camilla and Charles was friends for many years...
I don't understand Diana's being hurt by it...
And it can't in any way, be compered with a Diana - James holiday...( Lovers holiday)
Yes we know, he was having an affair, with Camilla.. but Charles was also a common geast in Andrew and Camilla Home for years before that.... just spending time with the whole family..
Again, a brilliant chapter. Thank you
Loving these readings especially this last chapter!!
I understand Diana's feelings toward the dog. My husband got a hunting dog, without discussing it, and they can be very hyper. My son has Asperger's and it was very distressing having the dog bark loudly and run around the house all the time. It peed all over the carpet, and my husband would throw a paper towel on top of the stain. I guess that was his idea of "blotting." It left a tick in my bed and I now have Lyme disease. We are divorced and he has the dog. 11 years later, the dog is very sweet but both my son and I are still on edge when it is around. Maybe Charles dog just added that extra layer of energy in the house that created more aggravation.
You could have got a tick bite from anywhere.
Sorry!!! ❤
I love this channel.💕
Certainly after this read you realize they should have divorced much sooner ( or separated) but back then I guess the Queen wanted them to ‘work’ on it …. What’s crazy after living the press war that was played between he and PD he is now going through this with wayward son & press games 😩 it is sad when she past away because it seemed she was finally blooming as a single woman.
I agree- she did her best work after the divorce and seemed to have accepted more and really started to bloom . Her work with Aids and her exposure to landmine injuries was brilliant.
When the Queen ordered them to divorce Diana and her lawyers fought the divorce and tried to stop it.
It’s the ‘silly isles’ - how to pronounce isles of Scilly !!! (Really lovely place which William must still love because he takes the family there)