Why Men Pull Away (& What To Do) With John Gray

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  • John Gray of Mars/Venus fame talks about why men pull away and Answers The Big Question What About What A Woman Should Do When A Man Pulls Away! Discover How A Woman Can Bring Out The Best In A Man! John shares what to do if a man pulls away. If you want to have attraction between a man and a woman polarity and balances for masculine energy and feminine energy are essential. Secrets About Men Every Woman Needs To Know (For Women Dating Over 40, Dating Over 50, Dating Over 60) John Gray of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus Fame helps single women understand men, bring out the best in a man and have intimacy with a man.
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  • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
    @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @andreacruz108
    @andreacruz108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I wish there were as many men as women interested in learning how to build a long lasting, loving and healthy relationship.
    At times it truly feels like impossible to meet a guy willing to step up and be vulnerable and open to connect... weird times...
    Most of the time I am optimistic about it...not today

    • @maryt7959
      @maryt7959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are right on it….. they use this technique to have make up SEX …. This has nothing to do with unconditional love that every woman deserves . It’s all about SEX and not LOVE .

    • @arturelias6418
      @arturelias6418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      75% of all divorces happen by the women's will and decision. Make that 90% (!) for college educated woman.
      So much for men NOT being the ones willing tô build and keeping family.
      It's the other way around. Women left men, with children involved too, 75 to 90 % of times.

  • @ravipeiris4388
    @ravipeiris4388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a 53 year old healthcare professional, it's true about a man needing to keep his testosterone levels up to keep connecting with a female. Christ, I learned something new from this channel and Dr. Gray,
    Ravi Peiris M.D.

  • @madisonandthefarm
    @madisonandthefarm ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I lived an 1.5 hours from my bf for almost 5 months, we only saw each other weekends. Then I moved to a new location when I bought a house that was closer…about 20 minutes now. We see each other every day, and relationship is growing. Dr. Gray is right, start off slow seeing each other on weekends, and let him miss you throughout the week, he will grow closer.

    • @Loveispatient76
      @Loveispatient76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t want to intrude, but are you also intimate with him? I ask because I want to see something because I’m in a similar situation.

  • @ashleysnow7470
    @ashleysnow7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Why can’t men conform to our needs and meet in the middle.. all this effort to keep a man .. I think men need to evolve and grow out of the cave man ways ..

    • @1jwc
      @1jwc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They have their cave, we have our well.
      🌷

    • @maryt7959
      @maryt7959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They use manipulation techniques on every female out there . Unfortunately, most of men are this way. I agree with you on the cave man ways .

    • @tntkop
      @tntkop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Make me a sammich.

    • @ashleysnow7470
      @ashleysnow7470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@tntkop point proven .. boy go make ya own samage!!

    • @theeladyj
      @theeladyj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree

  • @reign6409
    @reign6409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Listening to all the clinical aspects of how men function makes me want to venture into the lady pool! 😅🤣😂

  • @naturalbeauty8366
    @naturalbeauty8366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I wished I had known this before. But we are now friends and I feel that's for the best as I'm currently seeing someone new going three months now. Besides the long distance it's ok so far and I pray our love for each other will grow continuously positive together. Bless 🤗

  • @eva-nr2bs
    @eva-nr2bs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    John Gray video? I just thumbs up even before I see it.

  • @ElseNoOone
    @ElseNoOone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    if you don't know or forgot about THAT THERE ARE WOMEN DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX UNTIL THEY MARRIED!!
    TALK ABOUT THIS PLEASE...

  • @elharrop
    @elharrop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    If you are having to watch this video just forget him, he's not ready and possibly never will be, or never will be within a reasonable time frame to build a future with. Women should not have to be relationship wizards and shoulder the blame like this. It's degrading. The right person won't need this kind of ridiculous homework and coaxing. If women just cut men off as soon as they started behaving poorly there would be a lot less bad behaviour out there. Unfortunately no one is taught how to set boundaries and so this combined with the endless availability of new people on dating apps has made the whole thing so disposable that no one appreciates anything these days even if you're a total catch. All you can do is have a very strong cut off game and eventually you will find someone decent but it's really not the norm as most people are dishonest, immature, confused, unable to commit these days.

    • @heartspeaks
      @heartspeaks ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well your here too….. soooo! 😏 Welcome to the club hun!

    • @Songs-ls2pr
      @Songs-ls2pr ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow. Too harsh imo. Unrealistic too.
      No one is without mistakes

    • @miabailey2798
      @miabailey2798 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @johannes6760
      @johannes6760 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi perfect blameless person. You're the world's most perfect catch.

  • @tisacharlylungu8396
    @tisacharlylungu8396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow this is mind blowing...
    Quite insightful
    Thank you so much for this video

  • @Jace7310
    @Jace7310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow this sounds a lot like training women for game playing.

  • @mariamejia4969
    @mariamejia4969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "If you want a friend get a dog " Michael Douglas film wall street

  • @ELvis348
    @ELvis348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ….know how to let go…

  • @marlenne9252
    @marlenne9252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But we are the hormonal ones right!

  • @Fan_Tash_Tic
    @Fan_Tash_Tic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Why is dating so hard?! 😂🙈

  • @karimabellydancer
    @karimabellydancer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great sound n vid

  • @je7452
    @je7452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow. Simply amazing. This makes so much sense. Thank you 😍😍

  • @rachelt185
    @rachelt185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What about when a man pulls away when you’ve been together almost 2 years. What do you suggest?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi again Rachel. Thanks for watching. You may want to check out John's book Mars/Venus on A Date. I think it would help you to understand all of this in a way that would be helpful! Good luck!

    • @nhl4264
      @nhl4264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A man will still pull away on and off even after 20 years of marriage. After too much intimacy for his level is reached, he will need to retreat, it's a masculine instinct, not a choice they make.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nhl4264 Thanks for watching and for your comment too.

  • @creepypisces83
    @creepypisces83 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This also sounds like an avoidant pattern too, how do we know the difference 🤔

  • @dawnspage5091
    @dawnspage5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need this one

  • @roseconnolly3567
    @roseconnolly3567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Michelle, next time you have John Gray on, ask how women can increase their estrogen if they have had a total hysterectomy and is it possible?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure. John talks about this in his book called Beyond Mars Venus too!

  • @starcatcher3691
    @starcatcher3691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay does this happen only after sex? Mine pulled back after expressing his feelings and flirting. I have no idea. So painful.

    • @bridgetpowell4883
      @bridgetpowell4883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right. I haven't even had sex with the guy, yet. We went on 3 dates and had a blast. :(

    • @Lizliz223
      @Lizliz223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bridgetpowell4883 two dates in with this guy and he’s already pulling away. I guess we just sit back and let them come to us. If this becomes a pattern and he’s constantly ghosting after contact, I think it’s time to let that guy go. I don’t want him to think he can treat me like that and think it’s okay.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's normal ladies. The best course of action is to focus on yourself, focus on your life, date other men, have sex with other men if you want to, just live and what you'll experience is that the men that pulled away will circle back to you or you will realize they aren't all that important, you're not as into him as you once were or you'll realize he wasn't good enough for you. Be thankful when men eliminate themselves because those men are unavailable and would make you miserable with their breadcrumbing unavailable insecure behavior.

    • @mae88b.16
      @mae88b.16 ปีที่แล้ว

      He maybe an avoidant

  • @meaghand9731
    @meaghand9731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds like a game to me smh. I’m reading the book now n had to look up what you actually meant and yeah I don’t agree to it. What about the men that do this n go and cheat ? Idk I’m a bit confused.

  • @rachelt185
    @rachelt185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Also what to do if you do chase? For instance asking a man when you’re going to see him again. Especially if you’ve been in a long-term relationship. Is that OK or is that chasing?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You may want to check out John's book Mars/Venus on A Date. I think it would help you to understand all of this in a way that would be helpful! Good luck!

  • @suzanne4396
    @suzanne4396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OK.I have a Unique situation.
    We're both 57, dated off n on 25 years ago --- reunited 7 weeks ago.
    K.
    He's very attentive, validating, amorous, sweet, funny ...( Italian!! Lol)..
    But,
    Just this past Thursday ( 3/17)
    he was Diagnosed with a Termial Illness;
    Not curable. Somewhat treatable -- has MAYBE 2 years at the outside.
    John Grey, how do I handle THIS KIND of pulling away ???
    He's in shock, devastated, in disbelief ( I'm assuming). We've exchanged maybe 25 words since then, he's called once, was minimal ( 7 minutes.)
    What do I DO???
    How to ... help him?
    Be there for him???
    Not take his pulling away personally ?

  • @fitwithbrittany2706
    @fitwithbrittany2706 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is getting men to talk getting them in their female side?

  • @Alicebaby99
    @Alicebaby99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Genius

  • @miskasykor
    @miskasykor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I understand this but why do some men want sex almost every day?

  • @SilkyPinkPanter
    @SilkyPinkPanter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Explains long relationships and them going dead in that department 🙄

  • @rabeccamwale1695
    @rabeccamwale1695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Iam in relationship with a man i have known close a year but we have not meet in person all was going cool and all the suddenly he stop chartin stoped replaying am in africa he is in beljium,what can i do,should i pull away too.

    • @1jwc
      @1jwc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      End it. Find a man who lives close who you can date in person.
      🌷

  • @gerialana
    @gerialana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have masculine traits even though I am.heterosexual and I get ridiculed for being a stro g asserti e woman

    • @ibrahimhamada5910
      @ibrahimhamada5910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have an amazing smile greetings from Egypt 🇪🇬