John Gray-A Man Pulls Away After Intimacy-Why?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- John Gray of MarsVenus fame Answers The Big Question About Why A Man Pulls Away And Often Doesn't Even Call After A Woman Has Been Intimate With Him! Discover The Shocking Truth and What You Need To Know To Protect Your Heart. Discover How A Woman Can Bring Out The Best In A Man! John shares what to do if a man pulls away or doesn't call you back after you have been close or have had an intimate connection. If you want to have attraction between a man and a woman polarity and balances for masculine energy and feminine energy are essential. Secrets About Men Every Woman Needs To Know (For Women Dating Over 40, Dating Over 50, Dating Over 60) John Gray of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus Fame helps single women understand men, bring out the best in a man and have intimacy with a man.
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Damn! And then men say women are complicated? 🤣
Bcuz it wasn’t intimacy. Lust is typically considered to be intimacy. He was intimate with you for a session and then went away. There’s another term for it. It’s called hit and run.
Or
ride and die
hit it & quit it
pump... and dump
@@lisaariottiart Right.
I don't understand. They want to do it several times a week it means their testosterone levels go back up quickly, but they don't act the same and they don't chase any more as they did the first time. Weird
Exactly after they've had sex they go quiet and they don't pursue as much as they did before the sex.
The guy I'm talking about I slept with him like 7 times but in between each episode he goes quiet for long periods
@@HisaLight2mypath why are you keep sleeping with a guy who goes quiet on you everytime you are intimate? You deserve better treatment. Im sure all those married women and women who have real boyfriends doesnt get this treatment from their men after sex. Let him go Babe, if you havent yet.
This literally explains everything that never made sense for me with men.. Best advice ever!!!
I always got offended when a man pulled away but they all did it so gaining this awareness helped me to realize our hormones are just reacting differently to sex , I used to overreact but as I got wiser I've calmed down and they always come back, if the sex was really good and he wasn't a complete asshole I would consider him again but for many it was just too late for them and they never got another chance with me again.
If you like the guy, what would be your expectations of contact from him the day after sex for the first time? Let's see you leave each other in the morning. When would you expect him to contact you again? Thanks
Yea me too. Sometimes they take months to return. Too long
I love the clarity he brings! but it is hard to sink in, I need to listen to him a lot to actually get it and act upon it.
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
same!!!!!! I have to listen on repeat
Hey but why should we tolerate him pulling away if he doesn’t take care of our feelings during that time?
this is a great question. if he can’t take a few
minutes out his day during his pull away period to text or call then why should we tolerate his nature if he isn’t considering our nature which is the need for connection even alil connection
If he had the idea that you only had sex with him because he really looks good or is very populair. Then he knows there's a big change once she gets to know him better they will breakup. And therefore zero contact means she hopefully won't be too emotional attached, and get the message that it was just a one nightstand.
A descent guy doesn't have to have sex immidiately. He would want to, but he knows its better for the girl not to.
Nice.. thanks so much... this video helps me so much to understand man ❤❤
This is the best video you’ve posted
Thanks so much for watching and for your kind words too!
I love your channel so much! This is honestly for women of every age, not just 40's and up! :) I'm being taught so much from your talks :D
You are so welcome Rebecca and thanks for watching too!
I totally agree with Rebecca. I am 30 and I there’s so much to learn from your interviews with John! Thank you for sharing this with us! 🙏🏻
Im 42 and slept with 32, but he asked me od I am 18+
Sexual connection is great, but it's one part of the puzzle. It is so important to build emotional and mental connection too, and in advance of sex. So that there are other things besides sex that he misses about you and enjoys sharing with you.
Men have it so good.....
So good
Awesome info to learn at 63! 🤗
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching Gail!
This conflicts with what he says about men finding love through sex and women find love through a number of other things. Which is it?? Very confusing.
I love your talks. They are so real and informative. Also, you have a very happy disposition, and you are honest.
Glad you like them! Thanks for watching the channel!
Thank you, Dr John. Very well explained. Great information. Appreciated.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching and for your comment too Kimberly!
This is brilliant insight
Wow what a great video
What if I go into the gap and then after 2 weeks, i just tell him I wish him well! I had some intimacy and he told me that he's never felt that with anyone.. we just hung out one time. So.... then he pulls back. And I just want to completely pull away and let god handle the rest.
Is it also natural that a man seems annoyed after sex bc of the imbalance of those hormones?
Well put. If her life or relationship doesn’t support estrogen she will look to him for it. Makes sense.
Thanks for watching and for your comment too!
Great insights from John as always. Thanks Michelle!
Thanks so much for watching Sarah and for your kind comments too!
Pure gold
Thanks so much for watching Lacy!
Thanks for the value information! I am not going to lie, is not easy trying to understand how men are. It’s like better to build that emotional connection first , and then sex , than sex first and not emotional connection because waiting for the guy to noticed you after giving your whole self, it’s pretty hard , specially when both have the same goals which is dating with purpose and I assume we building our relationship.
I guess I will have to think like a man and act like a lady for now and on to protect myself .
Thank you very much! So helpful!
Rubbish, its called "Hit it and Quit it.."
EXACTLY
This is the best video I’ve ever watched. You opened my eyes and made me understand. Thank you!!!!!!!!
Man are so complicated I said I love you now I don't know If He will come back. Before sex He was patient and understanding after sex He pulled away and told me I was emotionally unstable. Now I know is all about estrogen and testosterone.
That wasnt nice of him to call you emotionally unstable when intimacy creates oxytocin and bonding. You should call him avoidant.
Same here
So u were acting like crazy?? I'm sure he won't call u emotionally unstable for no reason.... It makes sense why you were ghosted
@@shreeshiva9421 guys call women crazy all the time 🙄
@@Therealdonaldtrumpusa : even women call themselves more complicated sex between male and females...... So what's ur point exactly??
Is this true also for longterm relationships?
thank you for this big help for me to understand .. we have long dist rela..our intimacy thru online.. yea i expect next day he ddint contant me.. i think cp/sms is way too much to connect - this distract the good spaces needed for relationship. i have question.. if a man has anger issue due to past relationship 5 yrs ago.. do you have a tips about angry man how to heal etc
Leave him alone, find someone closer to you both in heart and physically.
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This is true though it hurts..
The guy I had sex with hurts me so much now he can't even look at me for 5 second I don't know if i look like shit to him?? 🤕🥺😭
Please respond i still have feelings for him and it's now one month we don't talk
What happened in the end?
Did he call you.
What if he friendzoned me after too early intimacy?
Is there a way to get his romantic interest back if we're still in contact?
I’ve had men become addicted after sex and not want to leave my side then some men flee fled a bit. It all depends.
How long is a normal time of the gap?
I love you make feel free Men and women same trust and strong
Thanks for watching!
And how can we create mental and emotional connection?
Genius!
Thanks so much Gemma!
Very helpful!!!!!! 😭😭😣
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching Sam!
Just pry to God to give you a good men oke dont worry not all men are like that you can find good one to but let God give you one dont be on the rush and make 1 thing first let hem be crazy with you first and dont feel in love or give sex away so eazy men always want a laddy
i was caught in the moment and slept with a guy who claimed to like me for years and someone i knew for 8 years. He texted me right after sex while i was on my way home but we got into an argument and he stopped reaching out. We always got into disagreements in the past few yrs. I wish and hope he will be contacting me after sex since he wanted me for sex since 8 yrs ago but i never gave in until 8 years later. I asked if he had feelings for me and he said yes then why wasnt him reaching out for over a month now? Help!!!
You won’t really know for sure unless he reaches out - and may never really say. By ghosting you, he is giving you prime information- he is immature and a coward. His loss! Often guys will ghost because they don’t want to really want to deal with the responsibility of hurting you when he’s actually hurting you.
Take this as a lesson: be more discerning. Look for consistency in interest and communication - a guy who really likes you for you will reach out and plan dates.
Words are lip service unless paired with consistent action. When it does: sleep with him. It’s not a perfect formula, but will reduce the likelihood of pain if he doesn’t call.
Remember women are in control of the sexual process of the relationship and the man is in control of the emotional progress of the relationship; mostly. 😉
Again I dont agree. If a woman dont sleep in the same bed with the Guy and there's kind of seduction. There's no bond
Listen to learn
As a man this is 100% correct
Does age matter?
This makes sense. Although I do feel there is an emotional connection. I have known him for years and we got closer and ended up having intercourse. Thing is now I haven't heard off him for 6 days. Beforehand, we seemed to have an emotional connection and share the same hobbies, but now he's gone quiet. Should I be concerned about this or does it sound like he'll come back? It's very hard to tell. Is it normal for a man not to message for days? Thanks
Curious what ended up happening?!
@Amy Lee what happened
@@nicoleb8444 me too
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H is awesome !!! Just and simply AWESOME !!!
Thanks for watching Eva and for your kind words too!
This mean men are stupid , how come he does not want to hear “I love you” instead of “ I love the place you take me to”. Saying “ I love you” does not make him love her, but only what he has invested? Who does not want unconditional love? 😮😮😮😮😮
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