I’ve heard it said that cats haven’t sold their souls to humans like dogs. Cats say “you can serve me. You can stroke me, but if you annoy me I’m going to talk away.”
😂 ......but they'll come back at dinnertime 😅........and use their manipulation tactics (rubbing themselves all over your legs , and softly purring) to get you to submit.
Being authentic has left me hurt and alone, socially. Romantically, it's worked wonders and I'm about to be engaged soon (I came across the ring box today🥰🥰).
Actually that is true because it comes naturally with a secure attachment and confidence. It’s naturally attractive. Romantic love needs to be conditional to a certain extent, it needs to be conditional on being treated with respect and love in return. Your self love needs to be stronger because if not, it becomes more like the unconditional love between parent and child, and that is rather a turnoff. People like to talk about unconditional love but it can feel uncomfortable when it happens to that extent in a romantic relationship. Don’t transform into a doormat who lets herself be humiliated just because you are in love.
Wao I lovedd that sentence the romantic love needs to b Conditional . Yes to an extent it should be like one has to earn it by good behaviour. We so so glorify Unconditional live especially in India the spiritual land a woman is to play a Motherly role to their husbands. I think we need to change this scene. Girls just blossom n shine. Not because a Bee will be attracted to you. You blossom as a natural state eventually a Bee will be attracted to u❤
Haha I have a black cat that cuddles all the time. He does greet guests like a golden retriever and wants to be pet lol He’s the most affectionate cat I’ve ever had.
So many warnings about women being too good at being cold and making men chase, but I think it’s really hard for women to be good at this unless you don’t actually like the guy. Wish I could be colder but it’s too hard lol
I used to be like this too, deep down I still am, but one day you will realise, some people will try to use you and manipulate you every chance they get, if you show that you’re too good and have no boundaries. I wish life wasn’t like this and ,,love” could be easy, but it is what it is and you have to protect yourself if you don’t want to get hurt. I personally, by being my genuine self, later on experienced so much pain, that after all of that, I will never be the same. At least when I’m getting to know that person in the beginning, talking about how I will approach my marriage in the future is a completely different thing though - that’s when I will be my truest self, if I see the person is worthy of it
Honey, don’t wish to be anything you’re not. The idea of transforming yourself so that men will want you is rubbish. Be your Authentic self and who is for you shall find you, if it’s in your life’s plan to have a partner. But ofc don’t be a doormat, have your boundaries and enforce them. In a world where everyone is “cold” there HAS to be warm hearted people, else this whole shit will plunge into deep shit.
Hey i loved your natural and a bit messy set up in this video.otherwise generally pple shoot in a Glossy ,picture perfect, studio type environment but yiurs is very natural n soulful..Also it gives us a Picnic feel😂😂 n yet very very valid points you r talking about. ❤❤
Welcome to Art Class 101 with Father Alex. 🤣🤣🤣🙏😂😂😂 I was laughing hysterically and enjoying your entire video the whole way through. Might've peed my pants a little. 😂 Thank you for the glorious laughs. I really needed that today. It was a Black Cat Energy Day for me today. ❤️❤️🫶👏
I have two black cats and I’ve been mimicking them. I’ve been learning I’ve been watching. Don’t get me wrong. I love a golden retriever. I just don’t wanna be one.❤
Your delivery in this video is so cute and hilarious but the info is on point.. keep up the good work😂🎉👏🏼! With the pointer and drawing board, I'm dead😆🤣
🤔 If it was so simple why are you (and most women) not getting the dudes you actually want the most. The dudes you actually want the most are usually very wealthy or successful or millionaires, famous celebrities, movie stars, etc so which one of them are you getting any form of consistent commitment or money or support or time from?
@@kylefrisbywe want good, loyal men with decency. YOU want millionaires, movie stars and models. Most women don’t give a damn about that frivolous crap, we’ll take a blue collar man who doesn’t lie and/or abuse us. Fool!!!
Actually when I am fighting for my career, I naturally have much more black cat energy (and I’m not saying this with proudness. It’s actually something dark and undesirable)
Haha, I’ve watched another video that says this is like two people in a car, familiar and feeling secure with each other, but the driver suddenly changes and speeds up the car so the passenger starts to get scared
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 Hey, Just wanted to say that I'm a visual learner and I love it when you draw on the white board like this using your artistic ability. Much better than when you were drawing during your videos. Also, like the analogies like using black cat and submissive Golden Retriever dog. Thanks for the videos!
But see I'm a raised black cat energy, with southern and ladylike she wolf standards (wolves are selectively submissive). I'm well integrated, thanks to my old school military love family and reinforced in my kink community 💗🩰
I think as a black cat energy women I have born this way....I really don't know how it works and sometimes I want to be an golden retriever energy person but my social battery runs out easily 😂 I am married but almost every day other men ask me to be their wife and I literaly: 😮 are you crazy ? Onr husband is enought, better be lovers 😂 ( makes jokes to dissapear next second)
Fr me this is a no. Black cat, be cold, don't laugh dnt smile , dnt show excitement, dnt answer calls, dnt let them know u like them, don't be so happy around men this n that... guys I'm so tired pretending to be such a cold hearted being. I wasn't born like that😢😢😢 I'm genuinely a loving person nd warm... everytime I force myself to be cold on a man I like I feel so weird nd uneasy... like I'm not not myself... like I dnt recognize myself... the only time I'm black cat is when I'm not happy nd mad... they kind or person I am as a warm loving person is a cold as I get when I'm not happy or upset. I switch up very quickly... I'm so tired that's why I just give all to Jesus. I show love the Bible way... not even just towards relationships but generally towards humans... those thst dnt appreciate me I just let them be n move on. My man is somewhere in this world searching someone exactly like me. A warm soul that can switch to wrath
I am naturally a black cat, but I don't think it is healthy so I try not to do it and it always backfire for me... lol I was laughing so much cause I'm slow. Walking and talking too.
@@softlife45 you misunderstood me Karen-Melissa. i said DON'T GO *TOO* FAR with black cat energy else he might become TOO obsessed and hate you in the end.
I’m a guy and if you give black cat energy I take it as you are not interested and I’ll move on this is not 1900-2000s a lot guys know this game and it’s big turn off
I have listened to your advise since l was a teen....but are you married yet....like dude....l stopt listening to these content creators ...coz what about golden retriever couples....anyone who loves a black cat is basically some one who hates themselves
I’ve heard it said that cats haven’t sold their souls to humans like dogs. Cats say “you can serve me. You can stroke me, but if you annoy me I’m going to talk away.”
😂 ......but they'll come back at dinnertime 😅........and use their manipulation tactics (rubbing themselves all over your legs , and softly purring) to get you to submit.
That’s why humans hate cats, you can’t rule over them
Animals don’t have souls lol. If you believe everything you hear then you should eat everything you see
@@socalmotionYT They do I'm sure
Authenticity is the true superpower. All these "games" are only making people more and more jaded
Being authentic has left me hurt and alone, socially. Romantically, it's worked wonders and I'm about to be engaged soon (I came across the ring box today🥰🥰).
Agree with i am not changing my way of being ! I am like since i was a child it my quality
Thank you
Too bad it doesn't work.
Actually that is true because it comes naturally with a secure attachment and confidence. It’s naturally attractive. Romantic love needs to be conditional to a certain extent, it needs to be conditional on being treated with respect and love in return. Your self love needs to be stronger because if not, it becomes more like the unconditional love between parent and child, and that is rather a turnoff. People like to talk about unconditional love but it can feel uncomfortable when it happens to that extent in a romantic relationship. Don’t transform into a doormat who lets herself be humiliated just because you are in love.
Couldn’t have said it better 💯
Absolutely 💯
Wao I lovedd that sentence the romantic love needs to b Conditional . Yes to an extent it should be like one has to earn it by good behaviour. We so so glorify Unconditional live especially in India the spiritual land a woman is to play a Motherly role to their husbands. I think we need to change this scene. Girls just blossom n shine. Not because a Bee will be attracted to you. You blossom as a natural state eventually a Bee will be attracted to u❤
I once had a black cat who had a golden retriever personality. He was the exemption to the rule.
Haha I have a black cat that cuddles all the time. He does greet guests like a golden retriever and wants to be pet lol He’s the most affectionate cat I’ve ever had.
I have a black kitty like this right now haha
She’s the sweetest shadow
Ok, so basically be myself. A GEMINI....ok, got it 👍🏾 👌🏾 🙃 ❤
Ayyy! The first time I heard Robert Greene's description of the Coquette seducer type, I thought, "Sounds like Gemini energy!"
My thoughts exactly! ♊️😂
😌
telll them us gemini are naturally like this
Black Cat Energy ✨🐈⬛🖤
So many warnings about women being too good at being cold and making men chase, but I think it’s really hard for women to be good at this unless you don’t actually like the guy. Wish I could be colder but it’s too hard lol
Speak for yourself
it can be tricky
I used to be like this too, deep down I still am, but one day you will realise, some people will try to use you and manipulate you every chance they get, if you show that you’re too good and have no boundaries. I wish life wasn’t like this and ,,love” could be easy, but it is what it is and you have to protect yourself if you don’t want to get hurt. I personally, by being my genuine self, later on experienced so much pain, that after all of that, I will never be the same. At least when I’m getting to know that person in the beginning, talking about how I will approach my marriage in the future is a completely different thing though - that’s when I will be my truest self, if I see the person is worthy of it
Honey, don’t wish to be anything you’re not. The idea of transforming yourself so that men will want you is rubbish. Be your Authentic self and who is for you shall find you, if it’s in your life’s plan to have a partner. But ofc don’t be a doormat, have your boundaries and enforce them. In a world where everyone is “cold” there HAS to be warm hearted people, else this whole shit will plunge into deep shit.
it's very easy to do just dont. care men always chase
He's right and this is why the men we don't like chases us and the ones do like don't.😂🎉
Black cat the next buzz word on the internet
It's already all over TikTok there's a lady talking about it. But of course Father Alex does a better job explaining
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Here we go… diabolical, demure, now “black cat”
@@ceyciemateo9411 black cat was before demure
@@SR77736
Maybe I’m late.
@@ceyciemateo9411 debbie downer aka rejected go somewhere else
lol… I love black cats! Especially Egyptian black cats. Super intelligent. ☺️
i love this guy. he has taught me so much and it works!!! thank you fr alex ❤❤
As a black cat, I’m a little impressed with the golden retriever drawing tbh.
I love it!!
Meow!
Fantastic discussion
Excellent analysis
Thank you Sir
Hey i loved your natural and a bit messy set up in this video.otherwise generally pple shoot in a Glossy ,picture perfect, studio type environment but yiurs is very natural n soulful..Also it gives us a Picnic feel😂😂 n yet very very valid points you r talking about. ❤❤
Welcome to Art Class 101 with Father Alex. 🤣🤣🤣🙏😂😂😂
I was laughing hysterically and enjoying your entire video the whole way through. Might've peed my pants a little. 😂 Thank you for the glorious laughs. I really needed that today. It was a Black Cat Energy Day for me today. ❤️❤️🫶👏
i like your explanation, very rational and practical.
I laughed so hard when he talked about being the golden retriever until he F's up. 😂That's me! Never forget, this kitten has claws, too.
The doodles are actually so good lol 😍
I came here for the message and stayed for the drawings lol
Alex you broke this down perfectly!!
Thank you father Alex for educating me on this just when i needed it ❤
I have two black cats and I’ve been mimicking them. I’ve been learning I’ve been watching. Don’t get me wrong. I love a golden retriever. I just don’t wanna be one.❤
Your delivery in this video is so cute and hilarious but the info is on point.. keep up the good work😂🎉👏🏼! With the pointer and drawing board, I'm dead😆🤣
I wish I could find a Golden Retriever man, lol! I value warmth and consistency. I don't like dealing with hot & cold men.
Loving the drawing ❤
We already know how to do this 🔥since the beginning of time
🤔 If it was so simple why are you (and most women) not getting the dudes you actually want the most.
The dudes you actually want the most are usually very wealthy or successful or millionaires, famous celebrities, movie stars, etc so which one of them are you getting any form of consistent commitment or money or support or time from?
@@kylefrisbywe want good, loyal men with decency. YOU want millionaires, movie stars and models. Most women don’t give a damn about that frivolous crap, we’ll take a blue collar man who doesn’t lie and/or abuse us. Fool!!!
If you knew this you wouldn't be here😂.u chix talk so tough on the internet yet get played and at home crying
This video is next level! 👏
The board is Perfection
Good video again❤, and I like that you're outside.
Thats a GEMINI 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
This was so clear and cute! ❤😂 Im a visual learner 🐈⬛ 🐶 Love these ✨
😂😂can we have more of these please I’m tuned in more because of the drawings 😂😂 😂😂😂
Me too 😂😂 lmfaooooo
I was born with Moon in Scorpio
I naturally have Black Cat Energy
I like men with slight Black Cat Energy
😂 I like this board and the drawings
The doodles are amazing btw😂
Tu es trop drôle ! Merci pour les conseils ❤
Loving los dibujitos y los 500 markers on one hand 😂
Basically acting hot and cold
Yall slow 😂this is why you chicks are single lol
The drawings man 🤣🐈⬛🦮
Purrrrr I def got that black cat energy❤ 😘
This is gooooood ❤❤❤
Actually when I am fighting for my career, I naturally have much more black cat energy (and I’m not saying this with proudness. It’s actually something dark and undesirable)
I loved the board!!! 😂
Hilarious! This is Aquarius energy all day!!
I love your drawings
Alex likes cats because he acts like one lol 😂😂
Haha, I’ve watched another video that says this is like two people in a car, familiar and feeling secure with each other, but the driver suddenly changes and speeds up the car so the passenger starts to get scared
6:42 Love the Dragonball reference 😂
This is true. I told men my love language is more or a cat
This guy cracks me up 😂
Thanks for the great artwork 👍
A live reading!❤😊
I really enjoyed this video, one of my favorites ❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂 The Cat 🐈 is looking away from the dog 🐶 🤭
Love the class thank you balance is everything
such a cute drawing
Absolutely brilliant! 👏 👌 best relationship advice
😂LMAO “.if a guys traumatised he’ll become addicted to you for life” 🤣 so funny love your videos 🥳❤️
Yes balance is key.
Loving this new video format!!! Alex, you’re almost at 500k subscribers 🎉 dang! #alexians
I literally had a click on my subscriber account to see. Girl I'm like 80,000 subscribers away. That's a long time LOL
@ you’re on you way to Sheraseven status. You got loyal followers just like she does.
I unsubscribed cuz too many notifications on my phone, but I still listen PS don't smoke on your videos k@@MindfulAttraction2.0
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 Hey, Just wanted to say that I'm a visual learner and I love it when you draw on the white board like this using your artistic ability. Much better than when you were drawing during your videos. Also, like the analogies like using black cat and submissive Golden Retriever dog. Thanks for the videos!
Anxious + Avoidant = Mee 🥲
I'm an orange cat 🐈
I know their game now.
Another analogy is the black cat and the white cat (which is funny and easy to approach).
This was great!!!!
I grew up in black cat energy baby. I just come from them kind of women
That's probably why I get cold hearted by many people 🤣😏😁💯
But see I'm a raised black cat energy, with southern and ladylike she wolf standards (wolves are selectively submissive). I'm well integrated, thanks to my old school military love family and reinforced in my kink community 💗🩰
This is me all the way . But I'm an avoidant ao it all makes sense
I’d rather be a white cat, it’s the mix. Receptive but not needy and ready to go elsewhere after any infraction.
I think as a black cat energy women I have born this way....I really don't know how it works and sometimes I want to be an golden retriever energy person but my social battery runs out easily 😂 I am married but almost every day other men ask me to be their wife and I literaly: 😮 are you crazy ? Onr husband is enought, better be lovers 😂 ( makes jokes to dissapear next second)
@10:33 ... tail-maker! too funnyyy ...
Lmaooo the drawings 😭
Meow !
Merci Alex !
Fr me this is a no. Black cat, be cold, don't laugh dnt smile , dnt show excitement, dnt answer calls, dnt let them know u like them, don't be so happy around men this n that... guys I'm so tired pretending to be such a cold hearted being. I wasn't born like that😢😢😢 I'm genuinely a loving person nd warm... everytime I force myself to be cold on a man I like I feel so weird nd uneasy... like I'm not not myself... like I dnt recognize myself... the only time I'm black cat is when I'm not happy nd mad... they kind or person I am as a warm loving person is a cold as I get when I'm not happy or upset. I switch up very quickly... I'm so tired that's why I just give all to Jesus. I show love the Bible way... not even just towards relationships but generally towards humans... those thst dnt appreciate me I just let them be n move on.
My man is somewhere in this world searching someone exactly like me. A warm soul that can switch to wrath
Ok that’s fine don’t change your and keep attracting men that will love you the way u are and if they are more like the black cat don’t complain
Alex makes the ladies purrr 😂
‘A bunch of terminators’ 💀
Let's go meow
Play stupid games win stupid prizes 💅🏻
You are an amazing human.
... ok so im over here now cuz i need ma 'fix..'
I am naturally a black cat, but I don't think it is healthy so I try not to do it and it always backfire for me... lol
I was laughing so much cause I'm slow. Walking and talking too.
I rewatched 9:38 - 9:42 a few times 💀btw, can men be black cats? And are they attracted to golden retrievers?
Love cats🐈 😻
Take Note Blk cat is another alias of Michael Jordan thats why theres blkcat jordans🖤🐈⬛
my maltipoo has black cat energy 😂
We think alike . I always thought we women are like cat.and J always want to stay like a cat.
ya don't go to far as a black cat, i did it once and the man still hates me... wasn't funny. but he was also childish; but i still was too much meeow.
You don't go far because the men never liked you. Speak for yourself
@@softlife45 you misunderstood me Karen-Melissa.
i said DON'T GO *TOO* FAR with black cat energy else he might become TOO obsessed and hate you in the end.
@CeciledeLuire if it worked for u . U wouldn't be still single lol😂 get over it
love this haha :)
What if I don’t like playing games ?
Girl this is why you're single. You don't listen lol 😂. He didn't say games
@@softlife45😂😂😂😂
Alex your so funny
Calm
I blocked this man that unblocked me you think you can go days without speaking to me ? Ok cool
I like white cats...
this is our sign,he is a dog and I'm a cat.dono what's happen to us😅any idea who know bout this???
Does this work whenever you have a Crush on someone??
So u need black cat and golden retriever
Black cat or a lemur?
I’m a guy and if you give black cat energy I take it as you are not interested and I’ll move on this is not 1900-2000s a lot guys know this game and it’s big turn off
❤
Rabbit is more unbothered animal.i got many rabbit .they are so limited in affection ..not cat..cat so clingy..i dont like cat..rabbit ya 😍
I have listened to your advise since l was a teen....but are you married yet....like dude....l stopt listening to these content creators ...coz what about golden retriever couples....anyone who loves a black cat is basically some one who hates themselves
ABSOLUTELY HATE CATS. 😒