Going Through Pregnancy in My 40s | Can Ask Meh?

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  • Is it dangerous to go through child birth in your 40s?
    On this episode of Can Ask Meh, we sit down with Evelyn, a founding member of Providend, as she recounts her experience and challenges in becoming a mother.
    Providend is the first fee-only wealth advisory firm in Southeast Asia and a leading wealth advisory firm in Asia. Learn more about Providend here: providend.com/...
    0:00 Introduction
    0:35 Were there any problems with your body?
    5:29 Isn't it dangerous to get pregnant in your 40s?
    10:14 What surprised you most about my pregnancies? (Getting Evelyn's kids to share)
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  • @sugunaite7199
    @sugunaite7199 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    We need more stories like this which lift the stigma of mothers getting pregnant after 35. Trully moved by her sharing. Please bring in more stories like this.

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    Hello, I am 40 years old, married for 6 years now, I am still trying to have children. She is a brave mother. 👍

    • @xJ9pQw2sR5
      @xJ9pQw2sR5 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don’t want to tell you what to do but think of the child if in the text one or 2 years it doesn’t happen pls.. your child will be 20 and u will be 60. When you are dead your child is 40+

    • @lilacfunk
      @lilacfunk 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@MsLilac88 adopt

    • @lifeisgood2542
      @lifeisgood2542 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@xJ9pQw2sR5just shows how selfish some people are

    • @yusyaidah
      @yusyaidah 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      20yr old is a capable adult.. 20 is nt a baby.. the man/woman cn take care of herself... it's amazing to grow old w children .. ​@xJ9pQw2sR5

    • @avrilyap6507
      @avrilyap6507 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Ignore the negative comments, please don't give up! It will be the best thing that happens to you when you get pregnant! Rooting for you.

  • @Allinmyworld
    @Allinmyworld วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wow this is so interesting. This lady is so brave for sharing her story! Brought tears to my eyes gives me hope. Life is a gift!

  • @PolishedRice
    @PolishedRice 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    As someone who had two miscarriages, I can definitely say it was the most painful and most emotional experience of my life. If anyone is going through the same thing, may you seek comfort in God, family, parents, therapy, whatever that works for you. Thank you for sharing your story, Evelyn!

  • @simbeekuan4056
    @simbeekuan4056 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Despite all the struggles but you still managed to pull through. Mothers are the greatest. Kids must learn to appreciate their mothers for bringing them into the world

  • @felixiacindy8255
    @felixiacindy8255 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    For me, have kids is a miracle. I know so hard to have kids. I got 3 times miscarriage. How to move on is not easy. Now, i tried to have baby again by ivf. Some people will judge so easy what happened to me and make my heart in more pain. But i still want to be mom. This clip make me to keep fighting. Thx a lot

  • @lilacfunk
    @lilacfunk 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Very relevant! I’m 38 with PCOS and TTC! Hurts to see 20 year olds popping out 3-4 babies in succession without being able to take care of them. Continue doing the good work, you guys!

    • @lifeisgood2542
      @lifeisgood2542 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Why are you hurt?

  • @myeongwol
    @myeongwol 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    First baby at 35 ok lah, and she even went through four pregnancies...
    At the beginning of the video I thought her first baby was when she is already in 40s...
    Dunno what's the point of this interview, the title doesn't match the content, the interview with the children was awkward af.
    Some women never get to even experience pregnancy let alone have babies at 40s

    • @mamemo359
      @mamemo359 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Ya...this whole interview is a bit weird to me for some reason. The ending also made me feel like the interviewee paid to promote their business 😅

  • @ashleylim2954
    @ashleylim2954 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow 🎉 so amazing. God's preservation & wisdom is so personal & unique to each mother. Definitely 💯 testimony.

  • @sawatoyo6993
    @sawatoyo6993 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Beautiful family. Wishing you all the best ❤

  • @SingZeon48
    @SingZeon48 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Hmm, is this a sponsored post? also not entirely sure of the angle of this video. is it to highlight subfertility, or advanced maternal age (formerly known as 'geriatric pregnancy')? postpartum haemorrhage was brought up, but I don't think there was a direct link to either factor as well. if this is simply a sharing of one mother's journey, then maybe the video could be re-titled to reflect this better.

    • @user-pf7xv6zl7p
      @user-pf7xv6zl7p 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      retitled to what?

    • @AzjatyckiCukier
      @AzjatyckiCukier 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Feels like some sort covert ad. Like a sht sandwitch, were the crappy offer of wealth fund is packaged neatly between a story of motherhood and struggle. Weird.

  • @CapDingo1975
    @CapDingo1975 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wah! Strong woman.

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There are people who still conceive in their 40s. I haven’t reached menopause yet. Does it mean there still hope for me now that I am 40?

  • @mamemo359
    @mamemo359 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This whole interview felt like a strange ad for her business. What's the point of interviewing her 2 kids? Where is the 3rd one whom she gave birth to in her 40s? I dont uds too how she can be sad attending baby showers when she already had 2 children. So puzzled by this whole video. There is no definite angle to this story at all.

    • @Amina088
      @Amina088 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      The part about being sad while attending baby showers was back when she didn't have any kid.
      While the video can be considered an advertisement as well, I think it did a great job showing the journey one goes through when trying to get pregnant in her late 30s. It was beautiful to see that the children never learned of this struggle and that by knowing so, they can appreciate their mother's sacrifices and patience more. Personally, I like this interview but would love to hear more about her 4th child which was born when she was 40 years old too. Indeed, the title was a bit misleading.
      Still a good interview nonetheless.

  • @styfrung
    @styfrung 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    great i cried

  • @wdubb
    @wdubb 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    she looks like 50 though. what's the point of this interview? 😅

  • @HulkyTrapz
    @HulkyTrapz 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    can lah every can.. dont worry

  • @MyHanck
    @MyHanck 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼✝️✝️✝️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @fion3943
    @fion3943 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is an ad...