THERAPIST REACTS to Melanie Martinez- Mrs. Potato Head

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  • @Taromilktea333
    @Taromilktea333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4182

    “It’s such a waste when little girls grow into their mothers face, but little girls are learning how to cut and paste and pucker up their lips until they suffocate” favorite lyric of all time!!

    • @user-dw6zl5kk7r
      @user-dw6zl5kk7r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

      I also like "$100,000 for some compliments" because it shows how stupid cosmetic surgery is

    • @almogxchq5282
      @almogxchq5282 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      @@user-dw6zl5kk7r I won't say it's stupid. Some surgeries are needed to make you function or/and look better.

    • @Shavings_of_eraser
      @Shavings_of_eraser 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      @@almogxchq5282That’s not what we’re referring to though.

    • @almogxchq5282
      @almogxchq5282 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@Shavings_of_eraser I also added or. A surgery done to make yourself feel more confident and comfortable being yourself shouldn't be shamed

    • @MsStorm336
      @MsStorm336 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      i love the sippy cup lyric that goes "pill diet, pill diet, if they give you a new pill then you will buy it, if they tell you to kill yourself than you will try it. all the makeup in the world wont make you less insecure, you've got weights in your pockets when you go to the doctors, your favourite candies cotton, thats why all your teeth are rotten, silly girl... with silly boys..." thats an entire verse but its my favourite part in the entire song. simply because it is so hard spitting. its spitting the cold hard and harsh facts.

  • @andreaviale2481
    @andreaviale2481 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4713

    I watched this video back in middle school (i am 23 now) and it really helped me get over a huge insecurity which was my crooked smile. I slowly stopped covering it when I laughed and stopped wishing that I could get braces. IK that Melanie helped so many of us young women learn to love and accept ourselves in so many ways and continues to do so to this day

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +550

      Thank you so much for sharing and for staying strong😊👍

    • @xLieselotte_13x
      @xLieselotte_13x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      Aww that's beautiful!! I'm sure you have a gorgeous smile

    • @jinx111
      @jinx111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      same watching this as a young kid put a voice to something i didn't realize was affecting me so heavily, while at the same time giving me the message that it's okay to feel uncomfortable with the pressure of society or others that you should change your looks or feel guilty for your looks

    • @Frizaaa_3di1ts
      @Frizaaa_3di1ts 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      it's only 4 months old.

    • @cwenkie
      @cwenkie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@Frizaaa_3di1tsthe melanie martinez MV is 4 months old?

  • @jenisaysthings
    @jenisaysthings 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2034

    This was the first Melanie Martinez song I listened to and I immediately became obsessed

    • @A_Melanie_Fan
      @A_Melanie_Fan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Either mines was Dollhouse or Crybaby

    • @decentadavid6239
      @decentadavid6239 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Mine was dollhouse

    • @emmaarvidson2916
      @emmaarvidson2916 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@decentadavid6239me too:)

    • @natnut69
      @natnut69 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      mine was alphabet boy

    • @yoraidelledelosreyes7137
      @yoraidelledelosreyes7137 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      not only is mrs potato head good its also relatable
      soap was the first song i listened to btw!

  • @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864
    @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1396

    Just got a little clarity. The woman who got the surgery in the video and then had her husband pretty much cheat on her wasn't Melanie it was a girl on TV. Melanie switched the channel after sitting back down and stumbled across that. Which is why after she watched it she took the wig and padding off realizing what she was trying to do wasn't right.

    • @V4mpirelvrs
      @V4mpirelvrs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

      That’s crybaby though, not Melanie because Melanie and crybaby are not the same person. Melanie is telling crybaby’s story through the song and entire album.

    • @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864
      @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      @@V4mpirelvrs I know lol sorry I never refer to her by her persona name 😂 same thing still though pretty much

    • @goomiiii
      @goomiiii 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@V4mpirelvrs🤓

  • @Clouds._xx
    @Clouds._xx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1176

    “Don’t be dramatic, it’s only some plastic. No one will love you if you’re unattractive!” Bro that line pains me yet I love it. It speaks what almost everyone thinks at some point in our lives. People say that “looks don’t matter”, but everyone tries to be pretty and appealing so they can get a lover. People feel ugly so they try to make themselves pretty with makeup, plastic surgery, dressing up, or acting differently just to suit the group or person they want to be with. The saddest thing is, is that you don’t notice your own beauty, you only see the “ugly” views in your own reflection. Whether it be pimples, face shape, body weight, your hair and just everything else about you. You’re all so beautiful even if you don’t realise it. Stay safe, and don’t change yourself for someone even if they tell you to. That just proves that this person/people only want you for your looks/appearance/personality. Stay yourself and only change for yourself. Love yourselves!💗

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

      Thank you for these words and for taking the time to watch😊❤️

    • @user-fh2ro7ie7w
      @user-fh2ro7ie7w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FRR!!

    • @lonely.kidjay
      @lonely.kidjay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      and that's a lie bcz if somebody try to get wit somebody they like "ur ugly" or say something about look so to some ppl looks do matter

    • @mothicmoon4353
      @mothicmoon4353 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This made me cry. I’m 23 and so insecure of a body weight I can’t control because of medical issues, that I was seriously considering plastic surgery. You have a beautiful heart. ❤️

    • @DzinkyDzink
      @DzinkyDzink 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The irony is that Charisma plays almost as big of a role as looks in interpersonal attraction.

  • @Nevermind-ng7lr
    @Nevermind-ng7lr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +581

    the date on the plastic surgery document is October 31st. It's Halloween, a holiday where people basically wear masks.

    • @mindybrgt
      @mindybrgt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Oh I never noticed this detail😮

    • @Nevermind-ng7lr
      @Nevermind-ng7lr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@mindybrgt me too, found out about it in videos from fans who found these details in music videos

    • @thecookieprint
      @thecookieprint 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      omg that's so clever of her

    • @ajandrianjafymusic
      @ajandrianjafymusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      How is it after all these years I’ve never noticed that! Damn that’s very Taylor of Melanie

    • @Giaschannel2012
      @Giaschannel2012 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Oh lol never realised that

  • @claire.chiste
    @claire.chiste 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +827

    always a good day when we get a melanie reaction

    • @andreaviale2481
      @andreaviale2481 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      seriously!

    • @CatFox21
      @CatFox21 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yee

  • @miadoja9246
    @miadoja9246 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +604

    This song really helped me learn that I was perfectly fine just the way I am. But it was hard to listen to since I was struggling with my body image and felt like I wasn't enough. I really like how she spreads these messages to help us and understand that there's nothing wrong with us.

  • @ajandrianjafymusic
    @ajandrianjafymusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +313

    Melanie’s music is something else, she’s incredibly honest and hits the nail in the head for many issues from this: body image to family dynamics. She’s one of a kind. Definitely one of the best to come out of a talent show

  • @XxSarahMCXx
    @XxSarahMCXx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    I relate to this song sm, like I have been called 'A pig with lipstick' more times than I can count. This song was the first song I came across from Melanie Martinez, and it still holds value to this day.

    • @patrickisqueiro4097
      @patrickisqueiro4097 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      thats harsh! you are beautiful and try to think most people say those things just to be mean/get to you, but its not true. I've had the oportunity to confront my childhood bully (one of them) years later and he said he was just saying those things to joke and make fun of me but never actually belived them. not that others opinion should matter at all but it gave me comfort and strenght to not let that get to me anymore

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Thank you for the comment and for sharing 😊❤️

  • @CzIhU
    @CzIhU 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    Just a reminder that this applies to men and boys too. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. You don't have to be muscular, masculine, don't cry, etc. if you don't want to. You can be whatever you want to be. It's important that you feel comfortable. (I know this video doesn't exclude men. I just wanted to point it out because they are valid too) ❤:)

    • @Miomiothethegreatgreat
      @Miomiothethegreatgreat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Real

    • @StxrPostive
      @StxrPostive 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      what does etc mean

    • @CzIhU
      @CzIhU 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@StxrPostive And so on. This means that there are other examples

    • @Miomiothethegreatgreat
      @Miomiothethegreatgreat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@StxrPostive It means what the op said but it specifically means etcetera

    • @StxrPostive
      @StxrPostive 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@CzIhU ohok ty

  • @thezheani1434
    @thezheani1434 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    I actually just went to one of her concerts on the 10th! She wore the Nymph outfit and everything, she really went all out. It was absolutely ethereal.

    • @Turntechgodshead
      @Turntechgodshead 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      You don’t know how jealous of you I am

    • @_MUSHR00M_K1TTY_
      @_MUSHR00M_K1TTY_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Woa! I’m going to her concert in may!!!

    • @mel39373
      @mel39373 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      i’m going to her trilogy tour in june !! i’m so excited to finally see her after being a fan for yearss

    • @thezheani1434
      @thezheani1434 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@_MUSHR00M_K1TTY_ AHHH IM SO JEALOUS!!! I hope you have the best time!

    • @thezheani1434
      @thezheani1434 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mel39373 OMG IM SO JEALOUS!!! I hope you have the best time!!!! 😭

  • @mistressthorn
    @mistressthorn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    "Don't be dramatic, it's only some plastic. No one'll love you if you're unattractive."
    "Will a pretty face make it better?"
    "Do you swear you'll stay forever, even if her face don't stay together?"
    God, Melanie's songwriting is just incredible! She tells the story and sums up our feelings perfectly in just a few simple sentences. I adore her music, but this song is absolutely one of my favorites. And you know it never ends when it comes to appearances in our society. Someone could have every single physically attractive quality that society says you need to have and guess what? They'll still find something wrong! There is no such thing as perfection, we all have flaws and they're all beautiful. I still struggle with body image issues but I try to combat that by pointing out the parts of me I do like and accepting the parts that I struggle with but can't change. To anyone who's struggling right now, know that who you are is enough. You are beautiful just as you are, please don't ever change yourself to fit into the mold society wants or to please another person. Let your beautiful self shine through!

  • @tamironga
    @tamironga 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    She’s not the actress in “the movie” though. Melanie only appears at the beginning and end of the video. I’m excited for Mad Hatter!

  • @AAAAAAAlexWentWhere
    @AAAAAAAlexWentWhere 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +159

    Melanie has helped me alot.
    I used to be rlly insecure about my gap, but she reallt helped me
    The funny thing is, we have about the same sized gap, i always looked up to them for that, but i hated how mine looked, really shows how hard we can be on our selvs..

  • @TheSmallOne66
    @TheSmallOne66 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    "Not that there's anything wrong with anyone who does any kind of treatment- only if it's what they want for themselves" THANK YOU DUDE! I feel like some people don't understand that. Thank you.

  • @mastertofu
    @mastertofu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I love the uncensored horror that Mrs Potato Head portrays. I never cared about my appearance as a girl, until the people around me start to make comments about how I look and how I dress and make me uncomfortable in my own skin. This kind of beliefs often aren't with a person when they're borned, they've been trained to doubt themselves this way by society. I've never gone to the extreme of physically changing myself for someone, and just like Crybaby, I needed to see the pain that comes with trying to fit someone's beauty standard when it isn't truly you.

  • @kromthebomb
    @kromthebomb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    love it when ppl dont judge melanie or say her style is weird and scary and give a genuine reaction, especially when a male watches it. thx my guy

  • @Lildemon-kj6bd
    @Lildemon-kj6bd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I love how Melanie Martinez gets into the mindset of young girl that are going through this is still going through this I know I struggle with this still

  • @user-jp4jv6rv5w
    @user-jp4jv6rv5w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    When I was a teen, my uncle told me I should look more like the girl on the other table, she was wearing shorts and a tank top, and sneakers, her hair was curled with no frizz, she had makeup on, she looked very pretty I was wearing jeans and a shirt, hair all frizzy and wearing tennis shoes. I felt so depressed, I was 13, and after that, I used my birthday money or Christmas money to buy some foundation/bb cream, blush, eyeliner, lipstick and masara and I practiced using makeup, I wore them all the time and the same uncle looked at me during a vacation and told me that I should look like my aunt, no lipstick no foundation and just some mascara and eyeshadow and he told me I was wearing too much for my age. I felt it again, depression creeping up on me, and I know, no matter what I'd do they'll point something out. It was sick! I'm 25 years old now and happily married with a wonderful husband who makes me feel beautiful no matter what time or day, I don't wear makeup that often anymore and I'll wear them if I feel like it.

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for this story and for you believing in yourself and finding that great husband ❤️

    • @user-jp4jv6rv5w
      @user-jp4jv6rv5w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial Thank you! Love your videos! ❤️

  • @donieka27
    @donieka27 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +274

    I ran out the class to go on break and watch this lol 😂 amaziing as always

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      Love you for this😊❤️

    • @oreoemsa304
      @oreoemsa304 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Omg I remember doing that in 8th grade when it came out😂❤

  • @cool_person
    @cool_person 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Melanie is absolutely my favorite artist out there. Some may call her fans 'pick me's', because she's so different from other artist and may sometimes make 'pick me' songs, but I completely disagree. Her music isn't pick me, it's story telling, and can sometimes help people with their trauma recovery and all. I myself didn't grow up traumatized, I just really like her music, but that doesn't change the fact that it can really make you realize how it feels to be in those situations. I do kinda relate to this song though, as I myself was too a victim of the female body standards, and I'm still on my ed recovery. Though I never got got as far as plastic surgery, this song still gets to me, since I know how it feels to want to fit in the standards.

  • @rosea-rose4462
    @rosea-rose4462 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    The lyrics are deep, the song sounds upbeat, and the video itself is creepy.

    • @Miomiothethegreatgreat
      @Miomiothethegreatgreat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      why we love Melanie frl

    • @winter54443
      @winter54443 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Miomiothethegreatgreatreeal

    • @the.one.for.you.1998.
      @the.one.for.you.1998. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      to me the sound is really sad and the video is just brutally realistic

  • @nikitakerry1362
    @nikitakerry1362 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Having a sister that has that image (skinny, pretty, etc), people would always insult me and compare me to her and I just formed a hatred for her and I never feel pretty... That's why each time I would listen to this song... I would cry and think of all the things people have told me

    • @prettyxbonez96
      @prettyxbonez96 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm do you both have a relationship. Is there a reason to actually hate her other than your sis being attractive?

    • @nikitakerry1362
      @nikitakerry1362 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@prettyxbonez96 no she is actually a nightmare... Because she is pretty, everyone believes her... She has turned all of my friends against me and tells everyone I am abusive.... I accidentally hit her once when she was in the way... But she likes twisting stories

    • @Florescence1783
      @Florescence1783 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you... Get revenge? Okay, I know I'm crazy, and yeah, revenge isn't always the key to everything but... Once you're fed up, you needa do something to make her stop and put her to her place, but I know you have morals, I'm just tired and it's 11:19pm here rn-​@@nikitakerry1362

  • @Juli-ln5vp
    @Juli-ln5vp 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This guy is so real for loving Mel, bro’s literally the goat.

  • @matts_tattoos
    @matts_tattoos 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Melanie actually makes me feel so much better about my insecurities. I love how her songs have such deep meanings and are so catchy and good at the same time.
    #Iheartmelanie💗

  • @Khiara
    @Khiara 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this guy’s commentary!! AND HOW HE VIBED TO THE BEAT! melanie ateee in this mv 😭💕

  • @amalieisabel
    @amalieisabel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Love your Melanie Martinez reactions!🫶🏼 Makes me sad to think of the fact, that you one day will have watched all the music videos🥲😩

  • @angeliqueperez2592
    @angeliqueperez2592 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Ugh, i was excited for you to see this music video!! This song NEVER hesitates to make me cry. One of my favorite songs by her, even though ALL of her songs rock lol

  • @Elsa_Swiftieforever13
    @Elsa_Swiftieforever13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “No one will love you if you’re unattractive” this is how I feel every day

  • @ToxicXNature
    @ToxicXNature 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My favorite line from every single one of Melanie's songs is "it's such a waste, when little girls grow into her mother's face" because FUCK that line just hits so hard

  • @yoraidelledelosreyes7137
    @yoraidelledelosreyes7137 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    im so happy that someone also has a teeth gap. for all my life i was very insecure of my teeth gap but melanie helped me!

  • @AquinasBunny
    @AquinasBunny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    7:30 - "Is it true that pain is beauty?"
    For AFAB people, YES! Pain is beauty; you must SUFFER for your art and saying anything less demeans what we lived
    Instead of denying our lived reality, ask "What does beauty give you? For how long? When considered over your whole lifespan, is it WORTH the pain?"

  • @lifewithcosmic
    @lifewithcosmic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My first melanie song was doll house ...it was reflecting! Then Mr potatoes head ! And mad hatter these three stories just had an impact on younger me 😅

  • @purpull2591
    @purpull2591 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This song never fails to make me shed a tear every time I listen to it

  • @Meandpaigearebestieduh
    @Meandpaigearebestieduh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have a chubby face a baby one and I have a gap in my teeth and when I smile I get like these weird little wrinkles on the side of my cheeks.. this song helped me understand stuff i don’t have to change for anyone and when I was younger I was a bit chubbier then other kids

    • @palesa8777
      @palesa8777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow you sound very cute like extremely beautiful

    • @Meandpaigearebestieduh
      @Meandpaigearebestieduh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@palesa8777 tyyy

    • @Aria-yy4us
      @Aria-yy4us 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Their called dimples, I have them too, and people really like them, although it’s one of my insecurities, I’ve learned to love it.

  • @Anukulika2
    @Anukulika2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    What I've noticed is that the woman in the story looked beautiful before she even got surgery, it's like Melanie trying to make fun of us, because the woman looks beautiful but the man doesn't see her that way, even though she is.
    Goes to show how people are picky.

  • @VShinkarenko
    @VShinkarenko 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    There was a time where I would sob at the very thought os listening to this song, today my eyes still water everytime I watch this mv, I wish I could reassure my teenage self and tell her to be a little more gentle with ourselves, I really do.
    Great reaction and amazing insights as always, Tom!

  • @guiaauxtero3810
    @guiaauxtero3810 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    "No one will love you if you're unattractive"

  • @Vox_Offical
    @Vox_Offical 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    When i was little, i was obsessed and realating to melanies songs 😭 I made her crybaby poster when i was in like 3rd grade 😭

  • @AnAnimeFreak_MirrorMaiden
    @AnAnimeFreak_MirrorMaiden 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm currently watching this as a middle schooler (not specifying my grade level), and your words made me feel alot better. Thank you.

  • @GenTlee
    @GenTlee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The girl isnt melanie! Its another actor and it was like melanie aka crybaby was watching a movie and realized she didnt have to change for someone to accept her! :)

  • @miamor-tq6jk
    @miamor-tq6jk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly happy I found this channel- Melanie really helped me grow up and I love how you took us younger girls thought into perspective 🫶 I know the songs meaning and hearing you really get deep into it made me realize how I visualize myself

  • @Crushergirl3122
    @Crushergirl3122 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just love how you enjoy the music and get into it, I love seeing people enjoying things fully ❤🥰

  • @lorshian_go
    @lorshian_go 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It's so sad the part when she got all those surgeries done and he reacts like disgusted about how everything turned out and now she is regretting and remembering her oldself, its like when you change something on yourself you can't go back.

  • @null.1993
    @null.1993 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The man in the video portrays as society. Society sets a beauty standard that if you don’t have the look, you won’t be loved or attractive. In my point of view, the young lady obv. Was already beautiful because she grew into her mother’s face but she allowed society to change her because she didn’t let the beauty standard of a slim body, perky lips and blond hair.
    The lyrics speaks for itself as well as the meaning. You were already beautiful the way you are, you don’t need to change anything of it or for anyone. Be happy who you are and be happy the way you are.

  • @earlisonline
    @earlisonline 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Years after and this mv is still a hard one to watch. As someone who struggles with a lot of insecurities specially on physical appearance, this hits different

  • @Bloodydemise
    @Bloodydemise 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This song made me cry the first time I heard it!

  • @oliviafrazier3596
    @oliviafrazier3596 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm obsessed with Melanie Martinez now. And you! You're so cool!! This is a great way to deliver important information in a format that everyone can enjoy. Thanks bro 🙏

  • @Heheimaveiwer
    @Heheimaveiwer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    When I started listening to her songs,her music became my therapy

  • @JinxNightcore
    @JinxNightcore 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song got me through a lot in middle school and it still does

  • @Alexus_69
    @Alexus_69 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Melanie’s music it helped me through a lot and listening to doll house is so relatable and it’s so comforting

  • @daniela_loves_naruto
    @daniela_loves_naruto 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I love how Melanie’s music has a message Not only that it’s so good and sounds amazing! I also really like Stawberry Shortcake by Melanie!💗

  • @user-jz8hg2ni4k
    @user-jz8hg2ni4k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love how you describe melanies songs

  • @vencellorente6440
    @vencellorente6440 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    My favorite song

  • @stacypearson8011
    @stacypearson8011 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    when i watched this i felt the most confort of my life! Thank you for making this video!

  • @BeautifulSamaria
    @BeautifulSamaria 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been waiting on this one. I requested it months ago and stalked your channel faithfully waiting for it💜💜💜

  • @gertie_roblox5415
    @gertie_roblox5415 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i love melanie so much becuase i can realte to alot of her lyrics shes so amazing as crybaby and in k-12

  • @LIlyMason-yf2ew
    @LIlyMason-yf2ew 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Whenever I felt really insecure I listened to Mrs Potato Head...
    I think it helped remind me that I shouldn’t change how I look for strangers.
    I’m still insecure, but I’m glad I didn’t act on my insecurities

  • @user-kj7gx4hd3x
    @user-kj7gx4hd3x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would listen to Melanie so much when I was in a really dark spot, it made me feel understood. I still love and listen to her music but it makes me bitter sweet

  • @elizabethdarby6867
    @elizabethdarby6867 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The man is supposed to represent society

  • @Melanin_loverxxz
    @Melanin_loverxxz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I LOVE MRS POTATO HEAD SO MUCHHH!!, IT'S MAKES ME CRY BECAUSE IT'S SO SAD THAT PEOPLE TRY TO MAKE THEMSELVES PERFECT FOR SOMEONE:((,WHEN THEY ALREADY ARE PERFECT!!, AND TO EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS YOU GUYS ARE SO SO PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE AND YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!! 💕💕💕

  • @Snak-Pak
    @Snak-Pak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im a male and this song makes me cry everytime i hear it. Im very happy to hear it form someone to explain how ive felt about myself for years

  • @KaiPereira-rb1xw
    @KaiPereira-rb1xw 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    "baby soft skin turns into leather"
    "and a hundreds thousand dollars for some complements"
    this is painfull.

  • @ilovecapybaras-mz3hx
    @ilovecapybaras-mz3hx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This song helped me so much when I was younger and I’m glad it did help me🫶🏼😭

  • @dannielle..
    @dannielle.. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    this song helped me with my body image so much when i was a preteen and made me realise the beauty standards for young girls and women is so unrealistic and rarely naturally achieved

  • @altheamarifontanilla8710
    @altheamarifontanilla8710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    “And a hundred thousand dollars for some compliments” rlly fuck me up also this is why I love Melanie Martinez, she even have a music based on ED bulimia.😢

  • @danielcoats2691
    @danielcoats2691 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The womanbon the tv isn't Melanie. She's an actress named Nora Hall

  • @juliaparry4237
    @juliaparry4237 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love Melanie more than any other artist, she's so perfect

  • @SillyFurryJade27
    @SillyFurryJade27 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I absolutely love Melanie Martinez. The depression she cures is very impressive. Her songs are so sick and her voice is so soft and beautiful and she makes deep meanings sound so innocent.

  • @darlinqdalia123
    @darlinqdalia123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was in middle school when i seen this video and it made me so sad. I still love rhis song and it makes me cry everytime I hear it. 🥺🥺🥺 (I'm turning 21 this year and it's still my favorite songs by mel.)

  • @iamcyno
    @iamcyno 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love Melanie Martinez so much. Mrs Potato Head is my favorite song by her--everytime i listen to it i almost cry, it is such a perfect song in my opinion. It shows how much horrible lies afab people are told about our worth.

  • @ratthepanny7166
    @ratthepanny7166 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve always loved Melanie I’m so glad he’s watching her

  • @Sage_fairy22
    @Sage_fairy22 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    mel is my fav artist i listen to her all the time and she has helped me live and survive life so thank you to her to helping me

  • @_AM-DED_
    @_AM-DED_ 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am a male and i can confirm that beauty standards suck. I remember being 5 and watching TV with my dad and i noticed in every movie we watched, there was a guy i REALLY wanted to look like, great hair, great skin, everything. I still feel like that. And when i was 13, i ruined myself even more and i started doing SH. And i didnt stop, i COULDNT stop. I am now 19 and i got my first house cause i can legally move out of my parents house. I am still doing SH. Luckily i have been clean for a week, but yall, dont do what i did. It ruins you even more. If i could stop the SH addiction i would. I want yall to know you matter and you dont have to change anything about yourself. The only thing that needs to be changed is the world if its making us THAT insecure.
    And especially the young women. You all are said to be more into beauty and could ruin your real beauty by changing yourself for others.
    Love yourself, that goes to EVERYONE.

  • @sammiolsen9817
    @sammiolsen9817 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just remember folks; She is the one that directed/wrote a majority of her music videos. Ofc she had help but what was in her mind played on our screens 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @timmaglente3652
    @timmaglente3652 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    WHEN THE SONGS SO GOOD EVEN THE THERAPIST STARTS DANCING!
    9:12

  • @projectGRADify
    @projectGRADify 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate you making this video. I am a fan! I am a mom who loves music. I found Melanie Martinez randomly years ago and instantly fell in love with everything about her. Now, I have a daughter who is a teen and struggles with life. Music is my family's medium. It opens doors for discussions, helps us express our emotions, and find common ground. I am constantly looking for methods to communicate effectively. I appreciate your support in helping me articulate myself when communicating with my daughter. Seriously, Thank you.

  • @__.naomi.__
    @__.naomi.__ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    that's why i love Melanie and her songs

  • @michaelinthebathroom7560
    @michaelinthebathroom7560 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You got the message right from the beginning.

  • @Doodle._.Dragons
    @Doodle._.Dragons วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I cried SO hard when I first watched this because I related to it SO MUCH

  • @meganwootton7107
    @meganwootton7107 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing vid!
    I am new to the channel and I’m SO HAPPY I found another TØP FAN! ❤❤❤

  • @Iamnicodiangelo
    @Iamnicodiangelo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I need this man as my therapist

  • @LaurieMara01
    @LaurieMara01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I listened to this at 9 and I related to it🫤

  • @Sponey_n_akira
    @Sponey_n_akira 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bro the way he dances is so wholesome I can’t even 😭

  • @ThisArtisticStar
    @ThisArtisticStar 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember watching a animation of Mr potato head later the official mv and I always cry

  • @sunakonakahara222
    @sunakonakahara222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You posted this video 9 minutes ago and I've been looking forward to this one

  • @Tobita_..x
    @Tobita_..x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I had no business watching that mv over and over at the age of 9 😭

  • @jaydavlogs2316
    @jaydavlogs2316 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is why I will always respect Melanie. She points out real world problems and brings attention to them in a creative way. This song and Orange Juice really stick with me

  • @severedheadz
    @severedheadz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my best friend and i had a handshake to this song in middle school (he passed away in 2016 at age 14) and it brings back fond memories but also bad ones bc how insecure i was and still am.

  • @user-Mari_321
    @user-Mari_321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well..i’m a fan of mel since im 4 in 2016…and yep this is one of the songs i relate to..and yep im insecure abt my tall and weight (bcs im too tall and big and fat/chubby for my age) now im 11 and i still have this insecurity…like i relate to most of her songs…more than 20 songs. :(..
    Other traumas like family issues and got bullied and treated differently than my younger sister sometimes and self harm and got h@rr@s3d (all of these when i was 4 but the h@rr@s3d was a year ago (when i was 10) and i get watched this year when i was in with my family,and about self harm..i didnt knew i was self harming bcs it was puching,hitting,pulling hair,eating nails,and fingers upper dead skin,but i started self harming now by using a drawing compass by making white scratches but by accident i got angry wich made me press harder and made some scars(3 lines) but…i started to get used for it…and my parents find abt it and i said to then i got those by accident in the school bcs my desk has a broken spot (its normal bcs our country or school is a little poor/careless) and they seemed suspicious about it but they said only “okay”). :(… (I really want to say more but im so tired right now..)

  • @Pikawarps
    @Pikawarps 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It’s funny you talk about guys making demands, but in my current potential relationship she doesn’t like suits, so when i spend time with her i will be dressing down for her benefit. We all have to decide what we’re willing to sacrifice for the person we want to be important to.

  • @Rikxlm
    @Rikxlm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU IF YOU WON'T ATTRACTIVE 😭

  • @theminegirl3775
    @theminegirl3775 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was bullied when I was a child because of being tall, skinny and having round, small head and a baby face. I was bullied heavily by everyone - children, teen, adults, elders and I was A CHILD. Now I'm 23 and the trauma has severe consequences. I really hope that people will stop bullying others for what they cannot change. These people think it's a joke but they don't know that they are actually causing someone trauma and the consequences are pretty bad, even the daily life suffers due to trauma. These people ruin lives. Really hope that bullying will stop one day.

  • @_.lilbodybigheart._
    @_.lilbodybigheart._ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What I noticed about the line “potatoes turn to french fries” is that potatoes are usually bigger, while french fries are thin, how everyone wants to be thin and skinny like french fries, and never big like potatoes.

    • @disorgan1zedchaos
      @disorgan1zedchaos 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      TYSM FOR THIS?? I DIDNT GET IT UNTIL NOW

  • @zarchsount3506
    @zarchsount3506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    in mrs potato head crybaby learns that she shouldnt change herself for somebody to like her. And then in orange juice she helps other see that

  • @nataliethegreat1237
    @nataliethegreat1237 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I used to starve myself many times a week i found melanie when i was 9 and helped me through life. Im here today because of her.

    • @disorgan1zedchaos
      @disorgan1zedchaos 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i’m so proud of you for that, glad things are going better 🤍

  • @BroadwayLoverTrekkie4Life
    @BroadwayLoverTrekkie4Life 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love Melanie's work. It's visceral and straight to the point. I remember I used to suffer a lot of rejection and bodyshaming. I almost died of Anorexia, I reached 38Kg. The internet at the time was crawling with boys comparing ordinary girls to hollywood celebs as if we weren't good enough. It was disgusting. In the end, I realized I couldn't care less. I decided to *live* and even if a multitude of those modern t0xic men, the so-called "Red Pills" that came out of darkness ran over me, I'd still be good about myself.❤ It's so weird how human beings firmly believe they are worth something only if they find a partner, marry and have children. I think this has to be done because one wants it, not because of peer pressure!
    And I should know. I'm an *ace* , and very fortunate to be one! 🙏🏼 I wouldn't stand having to be in an abusiv3 relationship just not to be "alone". Something I don't understand is that "alone" concept. It's virtually IMPOSSIBLE to be alone. I don't understand why not dating or getting married means "alone".

  • @ashlyn7053
    @ashlyn7053 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    melanies songs never fail to make me cry

  • @thresh_wife_uwu9897
    @thresh_wife_uwu9897 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's why I love most of Melanie's song cause it have hidden meanings and lessons 😢😊