Is this true about where “emotional intelligence” REALLY starts?

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  • @Dimitrius-vz7ol
    @Dimitrius-vz7ol 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +190

    Man knows more facts than snapple

    • @Eddybo22
      @Eddybo22 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      😂😂😂 *Snap snap snap*

    • @minnermouse369
      @minnermouse369 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And Nantucket

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You ain’t lying. 💯💀😂

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Say it again

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🫡🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @a.r.walker5608
    @a.r.walker5608 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    I wish he had his own show but I'm glad he shares the light with others with powerful words to say as well

    • @sunofabob
      @sunofabob 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There isn't enough content in the world for one person o have their "own" show. They can be the host but they will always bring people in to help fill gaps and offer new commentary. Oprah's show was mostly about who she brought on.

    • @doublepromo8240
      @doublepromo8240 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      kita and gayce metadork drag the show down because they out-drama-queen each other.

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    In my Denzel Washington tone, "my man"...this brother is so intelligent and wise.

  • @mca217
    @mca217 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Self awareness is key. Don't jump into a relationship if you don't know yourself.

  • @rooseveltday6687
    @rooseveltday6687 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Between this Brotha and the last Lady who spoke... those two... Those two right there ma bwoy... Shyyyyyyt ~ they got it!!!

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YES LORD!!! ....They Are Diffinently POWERFUL!! Mirror's Of Expression.🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @traceymiller6700
    @traceymiller6700 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    This man is gold, I have never thought about my own emotional intelligence. Thank you 🙏 ❤

    • @blackthought7250
      @blackthought7250 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I applaud you for even speaking on it

  • @dileimywaring4337
    @dileimywaring4337 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Facts!! One of the most important aspects we all lack is self awareness, but of utmost importance is the understanding of what emotions really are and how it differs from feelings. People always follow their "feelings" and get their "feelings" hurt because they don't understand the true nature or interaction between emotions & feelings, let alone how it makes them behave.

  • @glennastokes9867
    @glennastokes9867 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Love this man and his intellect

  • @magneticbeloved7154
    @magneticbeloved7154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    All this man do is talk truthful 👌🏿💯

    • @aomojola1
      @aomojola1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not exactly "all," but he's on point here.

  • @steverobinson5677
    @steverobinson5677 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    My man Tripp needs to write a book

    • @Mrs.Yates0417
      @Mrs.Yates0417 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I heard he got several

    • @steverobinson5677
      @steverobinson5677 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Mrs.Yates0417 🤔🤔

  • @hafizahali1969
    @hafizahali1969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Self-awareness, self-management social awareness n empathy are all needed when learning self

  • @aomojola1
    @aomojola1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    You can tell who is dropping gems, and whose mind is being blown. Overall, it's a good mix for conversation; it just doesn't work when the toxic voices outweigh the reasonable ones.

    • @toricollins6516
      @toricollins6516 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @Slowbone52
      @Slowbone52 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Damn, well stated. Thanks that's acold piece. Word

  • @clytchan
    @clytchan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If people can’t handle the truth, they’re really not going to like that brutha. Because he hits you over the head with it constantly. Some of us embrace it, while others consider it assault.

  • @KINGDEVON16
    @KINGDEVON16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Universal God, Protect This Fellow King At All Time’s! 🙏🏽

  • @Jaydki
    @Jaydki 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This man always has an outstanding answer.

    • @CHOUSASUKE
      @CHOUSASUKE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like never fails 😅😅😅

  • @sonja4164
    @sonja4164 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    So on point! 💯

  • @twinkle8066
    @twinkle8066 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    When you know your measurements you freak n communicate that verbally in truth and honesty!❤

  • @rasgardenandpoultrypigeons2048
    @rasgardenandpoultrypigeons2048 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Trip is so insightful.

  • @destini2388
    @destini2388 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love that Tripp not only pulls the audience in but his co-workers as well. His intelligence is breathtaking. I see you!

  • @trinity-hopetricia3241
    @trinity-hopetricia3241 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Preach and Facts Tripp Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

  • @booboograyson1664
    @booboograyson1664 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    TRIPP, ain't no trip! He's a whole RIDE❣️🎉💯💖👑

  • @Shawntraci
    @Shawntraci 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Finding yourself is the best way to get and maintain any kinda peace. I took years off (willfully single by choice for 5or6 yrs) after a failed marriage. Now I am at ultimate peace because I found me. No stress, no drama, just peace.

  • @themambosyndicate
    @themambosyndicate 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    you guys are helping me so much ...i have learned so much about myself
    thank you from the Netherlands

  • @ahmorgan
    @ahmorgan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This guy's the only reason i watch this show.

  • @trenastewart2599
    @trenastewart2599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That is so true knowing your own self-awareness is one of the most key factors of understanding how far you will put up with other ppl BS.

  • @micheleadamson9867
    @micheleadamson9867 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love deep conversations like this.

  • @mizzvip3196
    @mizzvip3196 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He stay on point.❤

  • @MaxineShaw-de7bh
    @MaxineShaw-de7bh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dude is filled with Knowledge and Wisdom. #TrippdaTruth

  • @venitayoung9152
    @venitayoung9152 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I, can not watching these videos. They, help anyone person to look at themselves. It, talks about women and men. This, is so enlightens to me as a older women to hear these kinds of conversations. Just so positive.

  • @RayvynneFitWellness
    @RayvynneFitWellness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Self-awareness saves you a lot of time and energy. Once you know yourself to the core, you can tell if your character, morals, and goals will align with the person you are getting to know. Being self-aware has a depth of perception that supercedes you. It also helps you navigate and sense things intuitively. Again saving you time and energy.

    • @Slowbone52
      @Slowbone52 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Word, thanks well stated a cold piece.

  • @TheChadShow9
    @TheChadShow9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the beard & glasses guy. Always grateful to listen to him speak.

  • @gloriaray3084
    @gloriaray3084 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fantastic point 💯

  • @vaclinciapounds8859
    @vaclinciapounds8859 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well said!! 👏🏽 ❤️

  • @tallmarn8927
    @tallmarn8927 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    One of the main reasons why a lot of people are so desperate to always be in a relationship is because they can't stand the idea of being with themselves. If you love and highly understand yourself, then you are more likely to choose someone who is right for you, and being in a relationship is actually fun, and not a task.

  • @MelvonXO
    @MelvonXO 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    man.. this man hits the nail every time!!!

  • @robgrant9359
    @robgrant9359 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow! That is another level of logic. 😏

  • @jamilevans5988
    @jamilevans5988 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very true. Lots of ppl don’t know themselves and the levels of emotional intelligence they have. It’s crazy to think how many relationships with strangers are made before the person actual knows what they need in another human before feelings progress. Great topic 🔥

  • @Tido_sav
    @Tido_sav 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God gave his chosen ones a will of our own…I believe the brother was also look for the word discernment…discernment of one’s self images before look into/identifying another individual’s

  • @herelookinatu
    @herelookinatu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yep, I'm fully aware of myself which is why I never wanted kids and most certainly never want to get married.
    It's not my lane

    • @Slowbone52
      @Slowbone52 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly my story you told. Stay up thanks for sharing.

  • @serenatrent6625
    @serenatrent6625 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve been in this trip for a minute of self-discovery and writing activities books to help people learn themselves and their own patterns. My last relationship caught me off guard so I had to revisit my own lessons. ☝🏾❤️

  • @ruthcook8599
    @ruthcook8599 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    #TRIPP LET THE KNOWLEDGE FLOW 👑🖤🔥

  • @1percentwisdom
    @1percentwisdom 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this!
    When you start to expand externally from your internal discoveries, that's when you learn to take more control of your life with your choices and stop blaming everyone else for your lapsed judgment in that specific situation!
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    #nickbillions
    #1percentwisdom

  • @trish4905
    @trish4905 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tripp never misses🤗🥰

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    one of the big things comes out of more severe complex trauma is borderline personality disorder and what is the key characteristic of that
    they can’t regulate their emotions once their fear gets triggered they go from zero to hundred in a
    ammo second they become irrational and they don’t know how to regulate their emotions so their at a childs ability
    when it comes to to regulating their emotions so healthy attachment leads to regulation of emotions they’re are so many people suffer from this disorder e anessa

  • @NicoleS2023
    @NicoleS2023 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “Know your measurements” 🤦🏽‍♀️ if that ain’t a word❤

  • @honeyisnatural5
    @honeyisnatural5 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I learned me own seasons and worked on myself. It seemed to automatically fix my relationship as well. Finally got married after 12 years. We are better then ever today.

  • @elliotselmon7581
    @elliotselmon7581 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    TRIPP WITH DA TRUTH!!

  • @goldnaturelove3503
    @goldnaturelove3503 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A word!!! Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @JulindaLeDee
    @JulindaLeDee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Know thyself 🎉

  • @JordanClemons
    @JordanClemons 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Emotional Intelligence" is the buzzword for women on dating sites

  • @theslenorag
    @theslenorag 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    y'all gonna make me have to subscribe to keep hearing more than the snippets, shorts and reels. #tease
    js

  • @dorothy7382
    @dorothy7382 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is True 😊

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All people know is what they know. It's up to you to know the difference on if they know better or not.

  • @MalikLofton-ry2hn
    @MalikLofton-ry2hn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chocolate brownie at the end badd

  • @JackieS812
    @JackieS812 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Heeeeey Mrs. Kittie and Trip!

  • @CDLCigarandGolfClub
    @CDLCigarandGolfClub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That MF don't miss man #sheesh 💯🎯

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never put any thought to any relationship romantic or otherwise as TAKING UP SPACE!

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz หลายเดือนก่อน

    in a relationship there are three stages stage 1
    all the beautiful words and actions appear there are no problems and everything is going well this is the time when both partners feel energetic and excited about the future begins
    stage 2 this is where the difficulties begin you start to notice each others imperfections and argue at the most trivial thing
    some couples may feel disheartened and consider giving up however this stage can overcome if both partners can work through the difficulties
    and issues together it’s in this stage that the foundation and compromise begins to fall
    stage 3 the most beautiful stage this is where real love emerges you have learned to solve problems without shouting or arguing
    you both know how to treat each other e anessa

  • @NatashallDunbar
    @NatashallDunbar 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That dark skin sister 🔥 is Sooo pretty

  • @user-ok4zw9hp3c
    @user-ok4zw9hp3c 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    you see the self is illusive you can never know thyself. that’s like trying to look directly into your own eyes or kiss your own lips. impossible the self need other just like the back and front go together it’s just what there’s is not.

    • @amari2aj553
      @amari2aj553 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I get where you're going you need others to reflect you so you know what you will and won't tolerate I think ppl who he's referring too are those with trauma who don't know themselves so they mold to fit others which they pressure themselves to be loved so they destroy their boundaries ppl who are trying to be accepted don't learn the reflection because they are just trying to be accepted

  • @renaywaterman815
    @renaywaterman815 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    💯

  • @nasrajamila
    @nasrajamila 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy is smart masha'Allah

  • @gns4838
    @gns4838 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dude is good, but I think it is what we are afraid to show someone else more than if we know ourselves.

  • @PhoenixGoddess
    @PhoenixGoddess 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES absolutely

  • @greatvaluepookie
    @greatvaluepookie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That ds lady is gorgeous 😭

  • @MrNateyboy4
    @MrNateyboy4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have to be social to figure out these things. Meaning trial and error.

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes it always hurts when we love someone it is because when we love someone we always have expectations of being loved back in the same way we are loving that person
    when we find that gap between expectations and reality we feel hurt
    it is really painful when someone doesn’t acknowledge our love the same way we do
    people tell me this where
    love is there’s pain you really need to carry both
    because it can go either way especially this generation there’s a lot of pain out here

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    attention and take note
    the biggest rule in an relationship is no matter how mad you are with your partner you do not seek someone else’s
    attention you sit there and make it right because that is your person if you can easily go to someone else you don’t love the person e anessa

  • @nikkie_a
    @nikkie_a 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This applies to friendships as well

  • @ritawilliams4098
    @ritawilliams4098 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm waiting on him to write a book

  • @jadioj
    @jadioj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please where is the full video???

  • @basketball255tz
    @basketball255tz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's dope

  • @garystewart5326
    @garystewart5326 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯...........

  • @angelique707
    @angelique707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Know thyself.

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz หลายเดือนก่อน

    people will chase you in 3
    conditions when they see your growth
    when they see you are turning more beautiful and handsome when they see you the happiest alone
    so instead of chasing attract believe in the simple fact that whatever is meant for you really will come to you
    manifest good things good people and good days coming to you focus on the law of doing and let the law of attraction work for you

  • @toricollins6516
    @toricollins6516 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where was the lie?! It’s lacking in most people, b/c they simply avoid criticism & don’t self-reflect or seek therapy soon enough to catch these toxic behaviors before they become personality & reputation.

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz หลายเดือนก่อน

    right now we are all like rubber bands and it will be our love not our anger
    that heals the world
    rubber bands are made to be flexible and to endure just like us
    this is where we are we are made to endure to be flexible now pull again and they did again and again one teacher even used her free hand to block her face
    we can endure hard seasons we can absorb change be flexible and stretch ourselves further than we thought imaginable but not forever lest we break
    for my staff in that meeting and for many of us in our lives we don’t see and end in sight largely because the problems and issues are far bigger than us and we can’t do anything about it what we can do however is show grace to ourselves and to others
    you are trying your best
    the woman next to you is trying her best the kiddos in your classroom is trying their best and your boss is trying his best
    but we can only stretch so far and for many of us we are walking fearful that with the next request or burden to bare we will break
    we can solve most of the problems the people around us are asked to endure but we can give them and ourselves some grace which in the end might be the only thing
    that holds us together

  • @Yvng_Zy
    @Yvng_Zy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's a bar if you dont have the awareness of self then you dont self awareness

  • @Thejericko17
    @Thejericko17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The take home lesson is that people need to be aware of their emotional SPC charts 😂🤣. What are your UCL and LCL ? If you dont have that personal understanding then youre liable to be outside of your controls and out of spec.

  • @lydiachagga6946
    @lydiachagga6946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz หลายเดือนก่อน

    marriage does not guarantee you will be together forever it’s only paper
    it takes love respect trust understanding friendship and faith in your relationship to make it last

  • @DashaTheDivineDivah
    @DashaTheDivineDivah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As usual hard facts

  • @keanamejia9331
    @keanamejia9331 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @devonjoseph5467
    @devonjoseph5467 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tripp be finding the way to say the most obvious shit ever. Its not a reflection of him, its a reflection of society. To have to be the person to find ways to say "To have a good relationship you need to be a good person" to full grown adults is insane.

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💣🎤

  • @ForevaABBIEx3
    @ForevaABBIEx3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tripp and that dark-skinned goddess would do well together. They're very aware

  • @1flyirby
    @1flyirby 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whole podcast ?

    • @marvinwoolfolk209
      @marvinwoolfolk209 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s what I’m looking for. What episode is this from?

  • @Ac3Badger
    @Ac3Badger 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All these women commenting how they love how intellectual he is are not even listening hard enough to realize he's talking to them

  • @dreski83
    @dreski83 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the world aint ready for that moment in the mirror...

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    when a man doesn’t want to change he will find any woman that’s ok with his lifestyle so he doesn’t have to grow up
    that’s why these men will purposely destroy a relationship with a real woman because she sets boundaries and has standards that she stands heavy on
    don’t ever think you’re not enough for these men most of the times out you’re just to much for them to handle and they need a weaker woman who accepts the bare minimum e anessa

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what men don’t understand is nobody cooks for her nobody cleans for her nobody takes care of the children for her nobody makes the meals for her nobody does her laundry for her nobody makes sure she is ok nobody caters to her a woman is always looked at as someone that who needs to take care of
    everyone but who takes care of her she deserves a man that can take some weight off of her shoulders and be at peace because she gets tired e anessa

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz หลายเดือนก่อน

    being single gives you a wonderful opportunity to figure out what truly makes you happy and gives you the perfect chance to get to know yourself better being single grants you the time and freedom to do whatever you want on your own schedule
    and allows you to put your needs desires and ambitions above all others not being in a relationship will help you realize and understand that your happiness does not have to depend on someone else’s presence
    you need to be able to be happy alone first and love yourself in order to give your love to someone else and have a successful relationship

  • @chef_thyme
    @chef_thyme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is this Brother’s name? Anyone

  • @giancarlohill3200
    @giancarlohill3200 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What is this man's name. I'm trying to listen to him more

    • @MsTara5328
      @MsTara5328 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tripp

    • @MsTara5328
      @MsTara5328 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Tripp Fontane

  • @lungelo3415
    @lungelo3415 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @daphanyharrison13
    @daphanyharrison13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I swear I want a conversational date with him. I'm a sapiosexual when he talks🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @PeteFish-b1f
    @PeteFish-b1f 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    people dont know ,

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    a twenty year old to fifty year old woman dressing classy typically opts for well tailored timeless pieces in neutral colors like black white camel and navy or grey with a focus on quality fabrics clean lines and fitted silhouettes think tailored
    blazers sleek trousers midi dresses classic blouses and quality leather hand bags often minimal elegant jewelry and stylish shoes like heels or loafers depending on the occasion that’s what real men want in a classy woman clothes that flatter her body shape without being to tight ensuring polish look key elements of a classy woman tailored fit
    neutral color palette quality fabrics classic silhouettes
    statement pieces there you have it trust me real men adore women who dress classy try it just once you’ll see who you attract e anessa

  • @cmitc16ify
    @cmitc16ify 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's deep🤔🤔