PODCAST: HOW TO GET YOUR RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIAGE OUT OF A DEAD PLACE | South African Couple YouTubers

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  • @Rose_Karey
    @Rose_Karey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    For those of us who like before watching the thing..

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Your installments always feel like pre-marital counseling. Thank you for this conversation ❤️

  • @emmilywoods5781
    @emmilywoods5781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The Bible story was about Zachariah, who was married to Elizabeth. She was pregnant with John the Baptist. Love ❤ your channels.

  • @atlegangpooe2915
    @atlegangpooe2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This podcast is slowly helping me to believe in love again, Thank you guys and God bless you.

  • @iam_mmathoka
    @iam_mmathoka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Wow The wisdom 🥺❤🔥 not me watching the whole episode 😢 in loadshedding ka battery ya 10% 😭😅 this was indeed another ravishing and enlightening installation and I definitely took notes for the time I finally get into a relationship 😊
    #DreamTeam ❤

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You once said you had to wait for the right time to start this channel, and I think we are all the better for it because you are respectfully raw. Thank you so much Makhs! Lovely weekend ahead..♥️

  • @preciousmoss9087
    @preciousmoss9087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im Here For The Wisdom Downloaded Straight From God's Throne!❤🔥

  • @ziyandantlombe4412
    @ziyandantlombe4412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Guys you have no idea how grateful I am for coming across your channel. Within less than 3 weeks I have watched all your installments and I must say, I have grown. For that, I thank you.

  • @mbalimthethwa5618
    @mbalimthethwa5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I resonate with Lerato and I like what he says about learning not to be offended by ingratitude. Love it.

  • @pulaamontz6110
    @pulaamontz6110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Absolutely loved the structure of this installment. The indoor plant analogy brought it home. Quotes for the day: "your single-hood good habits may not necessarily be good for your marriage 🙌🏾". "Grace is like fertilizer, don't expect rewards of your grace immediately". Ke le utlwile sentle🙌🏾🤗☀️🌻💛

  • @lebogangramela7093
    @lebogangramela7093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    loving someone involves looking for new ways to always put a smile on their face. wow i felt this

  • @nonjabuloshongwe1212
    @nonjabuloshongwe1212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lerato is also very wise hey. I like your mind.
    Your intellect complements ausi Pheto and likewise.
    I just love how you have made this comparison, it’s so accurate

  • @bongiwedlamini9790
    @bongiwedlamini9790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's the Consistency for me keep it up family much love from 🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿❤️❤️

  • @asandanene4095
    @asandanene4095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love loved this installment- Lerato just dropped a gem at the end not knowing if he noticed that... "You create a safe space for me to be confident" Now that kept me THINKING DO I CREATE THAT FOR MY PARTNER - IF SO how do i intentionally create and maintain one? #Hit hit would love to hear how you would unpack that gem..... Please continue sharing your thoughts some of us are growing, learning and unlearning things... Love you lots and may God continue to bless your union

  • @andilengubane5178
    @andilengubane5178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It takes a whole lot of maturity and grace to reach this kind of mindset! Stubbornness is a killer

  • @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639
    @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story of Elizabeth when she was pregnant of John, Zakaria's mouth was shut because had no faith. Thank you guys for the wisdom you shared, I started watering the plant of where I stay every day it was literally brown, I learned patient from it. It's now has green leaves❤️💕. God bless you and protect your family

  • @boitumelo.speaks
    @boitumelo.speaks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😂 you think my data is the only thing that is finished? My paper and arm strength is depleted from all the note-taking. Love you guys.

  • @kayjnr10
    @kayjnr10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I learn to be a better man and also, I’m a better man every time I listen to you speak Lerato on such talks and topics coz man, blessed is the fruit of thy wisdom. God has blessed you with your match (wife) who’s not only challenging you but also brings the very best out of you…Blessed be the Lord God Almighty.

  • @pulengmatshelo8434
    @pulengmatshelo8434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you too guys.
    May God continually strengthen your marriage.

  • @neopilane3850
    @neopilane3850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man, this is amazing 🤩 May the Almighty continue to bless your union. Love you, guys❤️

  • @leehlemzamo
    @leehlemzamo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sis Pheto looking gorgeous as always and the podcast is amazing, so much seasoned wisdom. 👌👌

  • @itumelengselepe7254
    @itumelengselepe7254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why I subscribed ❤️❤️❤️. I am so glad to be part of the dream team🙏💙💜.

  • @bulauzy1
    @bulauzy1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I relate so much , wow. Sis Phetola I'm growing from so many things you're mentioning as having to learn to let go . I have a lot of introspection to do .

  • @timbasibongile
    @timbasibongile 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Never clicked this fast on a video literally seconds ago

  • @neoshamalapela6265
    @neoshamalapela6265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love love this conversation. I came here to comment even before i finished watching. As a single person, this is treasure to me which i believe i will put to good use some day. Thank you for the wisdom. Thank you for pouring your hearts out to us, and sharing your experiences for our upliftment, growth and encouragement.

  • @Reine111
    @Reine111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I haven't even started watching yet. I only got the notification and I'm blushing 😊 because it's wisdom time !! The deep soul connection between you both is sooooo tangible 🥰

  • @Joelle__K
    @Joelle__K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've been watching your podcasts but haven't really heard the intro properly. I had proper earphones on today. Ugh!! It's SO GOOD!!!
    Okay, let me listen to today's conversation!!

  • @lebogangmasemula8958
    @lebogangmasemula8958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My favorite "cover each other's nakedness". Another amazing instalment, lots of LOVE!

  • @boitumelomalema1470
    @boitumelomalema1470 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspired by how you say marriage has made you a better person. I love this because I promised myself to never get married because of, honestly, fear and past traumas. So inspired to explore this journey and make life choices not from a place of disappointment. Love it

  • @mmatebogomoitswadi
    @mmatebogomoitswadi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Makhs senior's= The Makhs junior 🤞❤️

  • @kokimothoagae9533
    @kokimothoagae9533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am just on 10 minutes Mara wow you are just on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 wow to think on Monday this was exactly what I was talking to hubby about and we had a very long discussion regarding this wow🔥🔥

  • @tshandukomandiwana3334
    @tshandukomandiwana3334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you guys for such an inspiring instalment... One thing amongst others that stood out for me was the fact that instead of throwing the flower, you went and research to try and bring it back to life...
    Lesson: We cannot change what we don't know or understand. I'd relate this to what the book of Proverbs 24:3-4.
    1. Seek knowledge(Research)
    2. Understanding(Comprehension) the info you got from your research
    3. Wisdom (The ability to apply what you have learned)
    Thank you guys and may the mighty El Yahuah continue to bless your family !!!

  • @thembisilesongbirdnhlaponh8200
    @thembisilesongbirdnhlaponh8200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you guys so much. This was so wholesome man. Thank you for always dropping gems. May God continues to shower you guys with wisdom. I can't wait to be married 😭😭😭🙏🙏👰👰👰

  • @alinaabed6082
    @alinaabed6082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The Bible story of the man that was muted took my mind back to the content of the installment you guys made earlier "The right to incubate", Lerato spoke about it. You guys still keep wondering why the family spend their day listening to you, well I'll answer that ...you guys are amazing just like the content that you give, I mean who would like to miss out on this amazing content 😉. You guys are the best, please keep the content coming.... I love you all❤😇😁💏

  • @louisebennett6088
    @louisebennett6088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Quality conversation. Learning lots. Thank you❤️🙏🏽

  • @yolisanqari5899
    @yolisanqari5899 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that last line.... "its so humbling that people actually spend their data to listen to us... its crazy" But truly you guys are a blessing. Big ups Lerato and Phetola🥰

  • @alettahtsotetsi3276
    @alettahtsotetsi3276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much wisdom. I loved it.. Let continue watering the plants and God being the first in everything.

  • @phozisangubombi9899
    @phozisangubombi9899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WOW 🙌🏾. I believe God is using you to share your wisdom through this platform. Thank you Family 🙏🏾 May the good Lord continue to bless you

  • @natzg
    @natzg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey, I have been binge watching, I find your installments so edifying. I need a covering of "Boundaries while Waiting until Marriage"
    would love if you could look into this.

  • @ingavika9383
    @ingavika9383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh man! Amazing! The bringing a dead plant to life analogy is the one!

  • @make931
    @make931 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow the plant illustration relating to the direct sunlight ..wow ❤👏

  • @brigettebond6088
    @brigettebond6088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow this was an amazing installment. My husband and I have just started watering our (plants) marriage and taking those dead leaves off and pruning the each other and amazingly so the outside world is like hey what happen to that couple. So yeh love love u guys for always giving positive insight to all of the viewers 😍

  • @beingtshenolo.3840
    @beingtshenolo.3840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im here for the content in this channel, it really came in a good time. for me i was really in a dead place im ready to stand up and do better. God bless you.

  • @limakatsoselatile6424
    @limakatsoselatile6424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The wisdom in this podcast filled me with joy. Thank you for sharing it with us, it is life changing. We love you!

  • @veronicachirombe7617
    @veronicachirombe7617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such wisdom♥️ sharing your personal experiences with such humility and love for one another.... which is so evident and lovely to see the way you know each other so well and can talk about the tough topics. May God continue to take you from strength to strength!🔥♥️

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Stop it I like it”
    “Sorry not sorry”
    😃 Lerato is cheeky today.
    He’s right though, ur so beautiful Pheto!

  • @CornerHouse_Media
    @CornerHouse_Media 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This one was not revealed to you guys by man ….the jewels here are priceless,God bless you guys real big …

  • @leratodyani1586
    @leratodyani1586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marriage is a journey indeed. Thank you for this instalment. I learnt a lot

  • @zeldakgatlane1588
    @zeldakgatlane1588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Makhs, I absolutely love your ministry ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @bmol9869
    @bmol9869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The love still radiates even when calling each other out on any matters or concerns. Love how you respect each other 💖💞. Correcting each other gently. The solid fan from 🇧🇼.

  • @segobernice2103
    @segobernice2103 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️ "a bad habits for your marriage is not necessary a bad habit"

  • @Zcona9797
    @Zcona9797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yhoo guys you are packed with wisdom 👌❤️uTatu God anisikelele

  • @poppymlotshwa9032
    @poppymlotshwa9032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The content we sign up for, you guys are awesome thank you 😍😍😍

  • @nkelemokami4115
    @nkelemokami4115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U guys r so beautiful hle, phetola ur style is jst on another level

  • @ayandaphilasandelefatola1461
    @ayandaphilasandelefatola1461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was such a beautiful and an authentic episode. Guys thank you for pouring out your experiences to us. I love and appreciate you.
    💖💖💖

  • @Lindo.N7
    @Lindo.N7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always learn from your instalments ❤ Thank you DreamTeam!

  • @kundaikoti9701
    @kundaikoti9701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just here to drop some love ❤. May your cup continue to overflow

  • @nokwethabamdluli6694
    @nokwethabamdluli6694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    W open the door by ...liking first dream team💃💃🥰

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just want to say le di ever fresh 🙌🏽.

  • @linusshaddai8753
    @linusshaddai8753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are so amazing 😍😍, I mean I love you guys. It's the second time I'm seeing particular session and it's still blessing me.

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As'bonge for the seeds sowed in here! The greatest of the insights shared sparingly about nurturing the "plant" that is life generally, how & where it flourishes...🏜❤❤❤love you fam❤❤❤

  • @ZindzileJacobs
    @ZindzileJacobs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHY AM I ONLY SEEING THIS CHANNEL NOW KODWA😢😢😭😭😭😭😢😢
    Thank you very much for this.... Subscribed within 2 minutes of watching. May God bless your union❤️

  • @xolilemahlangu5893
    @xolilemahlangu5893 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One thing about the Makhs they will dish it RAW!!! 👏👏👏👏

  • @thabithamphela6090
    @thabithamphela6090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The wisdom in this channel is phenomenal
    ......

  • @daphneymashao
    @daphneymashao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lools you guys and the verse parts.. the uncertainity🤣😅. John the baptist's dad is the one who went mute..
    Great installment!

  • @gomop4649
    @gomop4649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol,the moment Lerato said(like this plant) earlier i knew there was something juicy about the plant😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @busi889
    @busi889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great lesson ..keep empowering us..we learning alot..thank uu❤❤

  • @gratitude_skins7509
    @gratitude_skins7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeay I'm here ryt on time

  • @pewalina3484
    @pewalina3484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quality Content galore... I love it for us here❤❤❤ .

  • @zinhlendlangamandla206
    @zinhlendlangamandla206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your studio guys 💖👌 it a WOW! Really love it...

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo
    @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know, but God always has a way of sending me to you guys, I've been going through a phase of social media fatigue. I haven't been able to finish videos of my most favorite TH-camrs and content creators in general. Like I'd read a caption and feel wow this is fire, but not even half way through I'd get tired. But yho you guys literally just revived my spirit. Thank you God bless you.

  • @ameliamathebula6213
    @ameliamathebula6213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello dream team... Thank you for this chillas + am here waiting for the electricity to come back

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I still can't believe that I'm still in love with this couple's content after so many months...

  • @zekhethelomchunu1818
    @zekhethelomchunu1818 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys, you making marriage fashionable, not this horrible institution that people paint it to be. 💖😍

  • @boldanddefiant6490
    @boldanddefiant6490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am from Africa and I really learn alot from you. May God continue to use you

  • @Thulare_Ramokgopa
    @Thulare_Ramokgopa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed THIS!!
    🤍🤍🤍🤲🏾😭

  • @nonjabuloshongwe1212
    @nonjabuloshongwe1212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Notification Gang whats up🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a ravishingly beautiful installment from my faves hey👌🏽🥰 God bless you🙏🏽 Meditating on Ezekiel 37:1-14📝♥️💖🇳🇦

  • @nonhlanhlaxanase3345
    @nonhlanhlaxanase3345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow what a graceful and nurturing installment about Love and Life
    🌿☘🌿❤🇿🇦

  • @rseletisha
    @rseletisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    #DreamTeam the wisdom is out of this world. Thank you I'm actually learning so much. Great content Wow... I always look forward to your instalments, the work you are doing is amazing shhaaammm...

  • @lesedisekhu1542
    @lesedisekhu1542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We love The Makhs!!

  • @molebohengnonkevu8433
    @molebohengnonkevu8433 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Makhs installments are worth spending data on 🤗🤗❤️💕💞♥️

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prayer for marriage is what food is for our bodies.

  • @nwakhubayi
    @nwakhubayi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how Pheto is always honest about how she wants to be loved . And Lerato is a great man to be able to listen to her , one thing i struggle with in relationships.
    I am not sure if its the way i communicate because no one has ever heard me .
    This is a great installment, thank you ❤️

  • @pheladibernidanapo8567
    @pheladibernidanapo8567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You definitely married well!

  • @LivingWithTheFrancisFamily
    @LivingWithTheFrancisFamily 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love love the conversation 🙏🏽

  • @kelebogilemoshe4347
    @kelebogilemoshe4347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved the topic. Thank you❤️

  • @Reine111
    @Reine111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching you both gives such great delight 🥰 Apart from giving us great content, you are handsome and beautiful to behold 🥰🥰

  • @stelliemariri1807
    @stelliemariri1807 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow wow I'm just a new sub here, but already being educated here. Both of you are amazing.... OK ok 👌 this is deep

  • @ameliamathebula6213
    @ameliamathebula6213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bathi indlela ibuzwa kwaba phambili... Big up to your platform for reaching and widening our views. On all your talks there is something to pick when you do some self introspection

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just broke the cup while doing dishes, jokes aside. lol I hope you'll help and give me ideas how I can fix this cup before my wife finds out because I was watching this wonderful episode while doing dishes.
    Powerful analogy, God is always talking. Look at you getting a teaching through a plant. I love it.
    The Great I AM loves you

  • @heleni7346
    @heleni7346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much wisdom 👏👏👏👏 Your podcast has blessed my husband and I. ❤

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the analogy of a plant to a relationship

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @zinhlethusi8585
    @zinhlethusi8585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just downloaded this segment, love you guys

  • @inathisofika1669
    @inathisofika1669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😅 yes we wanna listen to you! Y'all are amazing.

  • @vivianrameetse2231
    @vivianrameetse2231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Binge watching all your videos
    Love you guys❤❤❤

  • @keneilwemmushi4692
    @keneilwemmushi4692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Us" is worth listening to!Insightful, entertaining, loving and a safe space for learning and experiencing love at its most

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love to see the growth!😍🔥Road to 1 million let's go💃

  • @tabisadlamini5689
    @tabisadlamini5689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ministry maarn this is for you guys🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️❤️