A Gardener And His "Butterflies" (Kidnapped Women He's Desperate To Preserve) *The Most Twisted BAM

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  • @caleyah8303
    @caleyah8303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6362

    The book is part of a series that has 4 books
    Book 1- The butterfly garden
    Book 2- the roses of may
    Book 3 - the summer children
    Book 4 - the vanishing season
    Book 2 tells what happens to the girls of book 1 but also has a new story.

    • @annejia5382
      @annejia5382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Up

    • @annejia5382
      @annejia5382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +290

      I hope Steph continues the book series 💓

    • @annejia5382
      @annejia5382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I hope Steph continues the book series 💓

    • @noodlepoodle3582
      @noodlepoodle3582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      I really want Steph to read all these

    • @B34RXO
      @B34RXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Thank you for commenting !!

  • @anharu4932
    @anharu4932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4313

    The title is already terrifying, I’m just glad it’s a fictional story

    • @bbymary_625
      @bbymary_625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What’s the title of the book?

    • @viitastic
      @viitastic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@bbymary_625 I think its "the butterfly garden"

    • @girlwithhappiness1298
      @girlwithhappiness1298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@bbymary_625 The Butterfly Garden

    • @girlwithhappiness1298
      @girlwithhappiness1298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bbymary_625 by Dot Hutchinson

    • @bbymary_625
      @bbymary_625 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it on apple books?

  • @mpopinyana
    @mpopinyana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1870

    Stephanie Soo I just wanna say
    Please stop saying that you’re unintelligent ☹️you’ve no idea how much I love and respect you
    You’re very smart
    You’re such a good story teller you’re underrated in my opinion
    I love you so much 🥺❤️

    • @coltjames9159
      @coltjames9159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Hell yeah. She's a Queen. Our Underdog Queen who deserves more subscribers, honestly.

    • @chifuyu5164
      @chifuyu5164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol she says it as a joke

    • @mpopinyana
      @mpopinyana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@chifuyu5164 you should listen to her podcast
      Sometimes she sounds like she means it

    • @cloverzimmer6062
      @cloverzimmer6062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mpopinyana lol probs cause you can’t SEE her

    • @mpopinyana
      @mpopinyana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cloverzimmer6062 this has nothing to do w you 🙏🏿❤️

  • @blumengiesskannen8331
    @blumengiesskannen8331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2481

    (spoilers! ig)
    i actually like the fact that the gardener was sometimes nicer to the butterflies than his son, it makes the whole thing so much creepier. like even you as the reader are manipulated into forgiving him just a little bit and forgetting how horrible the whole situation is, its kind of a parallel to the girl who developed stockholm syndrome

    • @AH-tu3km
      @AH-tu3km 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      I got more of a feeling of them being pets when he was nice to them. Because we treat our pets kindly, we cry when they die, put them down if they're in pain, and some people stuff them to keep them around. Although I've never assaulted one of my pets, that part doesn't fit into the analogy 😬😬

    • @salma1491
      @salma1491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@AH-tu3km yh i agree

    • @sharkddududdudu1679
      @sharkddududdudu1679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@AH-tu3km but i people don't kill their pets when the pets get old/ugly when the pets are doing well physically

    • @seorangsajawe86
      @seorangsajawe86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@AH-tu3km yea but people don't assault or r*p* or murdered their pets. Also it's so much creepier bcs he clearly has emphaty, yet he still do the things he'd done.

    • @AH-tu3km
      @AH-tu3km 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@seorangsajawe86 I'm glad we all agree on not assaulting or murdering animals 😂

  • @kalliehennigar8005
    @kalliehennigar8005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2262

    The most outrageous part of this whole book is how this guy got so much resin like that in that quantity is just so much money

    • @alishaadhikari99
      @alishaadhikari99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Exactly 😂

    • @bethanygates6812
      @bethanygates6812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Right? 😂 I work at Michael’s and one gallon of resin is literally $100 so 👀

    • @booperdooper9762
      @booperdooper9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      If I was his wife I'd be like "wtf are these transactions monthly in our joint bank-account?!"

    • @jojihye
      @jojihye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@booperdooper9762 omg true that HAHAHAHHA

    • @dollie.luv333
      @dollie.luv333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@bethanygates6812 lmao my mom sells resin stuff at farmers markets and on Etsy and spends probably 500 a year on just resun

  • @ruemah
    @ruemah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4149

    I thought the “preserved butterflies” would be the tattoos skinned off and framed and I almost feel like that would have been more unsettling and creepy. Loved this Baking a Mystery!

    • @Pinearah
      @Pinearah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      That’s what I first imagined too!

    • @________5856
      @________5856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That’s what I originally thought too

    • @nayell7679
      @nayell7679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      same

    • @lycheemyusic
      @lycheemyusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same

    • @clovermcneil9398
      @clovermcneil9398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      DAMN IT ME TOO I WAS LIKE OO BUTTERFLY YAYAYAYA AND FUCK IT NO NO

  • @yyashawini5828
    @yyashawini5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1715

    Her baking a mystery's are everything... I swear I watch it here and not long after I listen to it on the podcast.. My life is just better with Stephanie 😂🤧

    • @hannahb9479
      @hannahb9479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yess

    • @angel-yq9lz
      @angel-yq9lz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ARMY HELLO.

    • @yyashawini5828
      @yyashawini5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angel-yq9lz Hehehehe.. Hello 🤧😝

    • @Elif_sh
      @Elif_sh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @aisham_04
      @aisham_04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      heyy, amii💜

  • @riyamadan5880
    @riyamadan5880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2102

    Yes, I stopped my studying to watch this. No, I don't regret it.

  • @karan.kk.h
    @karan.kk.h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1829

    I just realised maya’s grandma’s obsession with preserved animals is like a foreshadowing? Bad omen? Set in by the author to the butterflies

    • @heizousbabygirl4972
      @heizousbabygirl4972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Omg I just realised

    • @themidnightsingerDonut
      @themidnightsingerDonut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Why doesn’t this have more likes????

    • @marinvenet0
      @marinvenet0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      OMG
      Is that why she was so cool most of the time how come we didnt realized it even steph like wtf im out

    • @Queenofthatank
      @Queenofthatank ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@marinvenet0 nah it was cuz Sofia told her about her time in the garden

    • @btb554
      @btb554 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Queenofthatankwho's Sofia? I forgot

  • @xinarow6389
    @xinarow6389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1165

    I feel like the serial killer was written to be nice sometimes because the author was giving the character dimension. Even if someone is twisted and evil they’re still capable of good things.
    Honestly the way he’s written makes him terrifying to me. How someone can “love” beautiful things and then destroy them. The remorse he feels turns him into the average person, because psychopaths don’t usually feel empathy or sympathy.
    It’s believable, and it’s horrifying

    • @mj-kd9uz
      @mj-kd9uz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      this comment reminds me of joe goldberg

    • @kianawillis1325
      @kianawillis1325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      i think what steph was saying is that within the book it goes into detail about all the “nice” things he does, but brushes over the bad things like the assaults. if u wanna create a dimensional nuanced character and go into detail about the “good” things they do, then also go into detail about the bad things they do instead of just brushing over them to the point were people almost forget about them and think “oh hey maybe he’s not that bad”.

    • @55monk28
      @55monk28 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good point
      but is this not contradicting?
      He shows real sadness over the things he finds beautiful,
      But he’s also a psychopath that doesn’t feel empathy or sympathy?
      I think that in itself is a lesson. Not all people capable of evil things are psychopaths, they can feel as much as the average person, which is scarier imo.

    • @yunawinx
      @yunawinx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the last part your describing is a sociopath not a psychopath. this killer is a psychopath that’s y he still feels remorse a sociopath would not feel it

    • @yunawinx
      @yunawinx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@55monk28 no they just described it wrong, the fact that he can feel things makes him psychopath. A sociopath kills with a lack of conscious for things they’re doing. generally sociopaths are scarier bc you wouldn’t even be able to convince them that you shouldn’t be killed

  • @emulee4575
    @emulee4575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    I literally love this series so much words can’t describe my love 😭😖😔

    • @nathiqwabi2346
      @nathiqwabi2346 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same 😭 i want to cry every time she uploads a BAM

  • @nathania8724
    @nathania8724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3284

    This book almost has the same feeling when you're reading/watching The Promised Neverland

  • @kayliediego7637
    @kayliediego7637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5796

    I love baking a mystery

  • @kikiwannabananawatermelonmango
    @kikiwannabananawatermelonmango 4 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    I understand where you’re coming from with Mya feeling exponentially older and so cold for a 16 year old.
    But that’s sometimes how people react to traumatic situations like this. She had detachments to her primary caregivers since she was a baby, pretty much. That ripped away development that she needed.
    You can also be desensitized to your own trauma and treat it as just something that happened rather than an event that shaped your life and development into teenage years and adulthood.
    That’s how I treated my trauma and when I was 16 I was very unemotional and just floated through life pretty much, with an attitude that seemed like I didn’t have time for other people. Trauma is very complex.

    • @JL_5
      @JL_5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      thats what Stephanie said, that it could be her trauma but at the same time it was something else about it, she said reading the book gets u to understand what she actually means

    • @justmesweettea9924
      @justmesweettea9924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same

    • @lialotus9644
      @lialotus9644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right I’ve gone through so much traumatic shįt that I’m like “it’s whatever”

    • @morkawlanamk2319
      @morkawlanamk2319 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@lialotus9644 Same... Im 25 now and ive only now started understanding how much trauma ive been though and that ive been abused most of the time but it was always "whatever" for me too

    • @Angelface11
      @Angelface11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it was just her trying to survive she had to grow up young but yeah it's called disassociating and just detachment sometimes it's just a way to survive.

  • @mackenzie2091
    @mackenzie2091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    this book reminds me of the cellar. the cellar first came out on wattpad years ago and then actually turned into a book. It was about a guy who kidnapped girls and called them his wives and they were a family. The cellar had a kitchen and bedrooms and was soundproof and the door was like made of steel. The girls were named after flowers and he would buy that corresponding flower for them and when they wilted he did something specific to that girl but I forget what. It had the same premise of this book that if the girls didn't "acclimate" he would kill them. I wonder if these books are so similar out of coincidence or if they were inspired by one or the other.

    • @avu2888
      @avu2888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      omg like 3 people have commented the same thing. now im so curious and want to read it.

    • @mackenzie2091
      @mackenzie2091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@avu2888 I recommend it!!! It was so good!

    • @whoisshe3247
      @whoisshe3247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I didn't know it was published I read it so long ago! I can't wait to reread it now lmao

    • @empel1584
      @empel1584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wasnt there like an actual crime case similar to this?

    • @Weebslayer13
      @Weebslayer13 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wait omg thank you, i read that on wattpad when i was like 16 and thought about it semi recently and was like ya im never going to figure out a random wattpad story about kidnapped girls, that narrows the search down in no way lol

  • @iloveicecream127
    @iloveicecream127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1914

    I feel like in a way, having the gardener be "handsome, poise" and emotional enough to cry for one of the victims, show how people in the real world who we think is "normal" may not be in the privacy of their own home. We really can't judge someone to be a good person by how they act in public. But as the reader, its glorifying disgusting criminals. Either way, I feel yucky.

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @peanutbutter1415
      @peanutbutter1415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      It also makes him a round character. Like yeah, he does really, really terrible stuff but there's more to it than that.

    • @LuluBeLulu
      @LuluBeLulu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      it's not glorification, it's depth. Most people who are bad aren't JUST bad. They probably have some good and desirable traits as well. Recently, people take not completely flattening a villain or a bad action into ONLY bad and see it as "glorifying" It's not glorifying, it's reality.

    • @aarishowton8037
      @aarishowton8037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      It’s not glorification it’s just an accurate representation of many, many serial killers. I mean that’s why they get away for so long so often.

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@aarishowton8037 exactly, and serial killers and such are always described by others outside and known to be *very* charismatic, charming, kind/nice but quiet or standoffish or cold in the eyes.

  • @stephanyevaladez8367
    @stephanyevaladez8367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +565

    mister mango butt and miss mango butt in the same day they are spoiling us🙈

    • @faizalhilmi3159
      @faizalhilmi3159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yourstrulycayla2910 he posted on his channel

    • @cvpidswan
      @cvpidswan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@yourstrulycayla2910 she meant they both posted today on their separet channel

    • @christan1189
      @christan1189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wait what’s his channel?

  • @darielysoto2977
    @darielysoto2977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    I also feel like having added more detail in the assault that happened in the book would’ve also better explained why the girls where the way they are even after having been saved from the garden. Like all they did was to ensure their survival and they could only trust each other which is why they all wanted to see Maya before talking to their parents.

    • @abbyalchemist4625
      @abbyalchemist4625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      I feel like you have to remember the story is told from Maya’s perspective. It made sense to me why the assault wasn’t as detailed during the first investigation because even though she was a strong woman, she still experienced terrible things she physically didn’t want to talk about yet.

    • @igot_chu
      @igot_chu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@abbyalchemist4625 but werent the events narrated in the book as a memory/flashback and not her straight up recounting to the investigators?

    • @igot_chu
      @igot_chu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ive read a novel written in my language where the writer wrote a whole affidavit of the character who got assaulted. it was very disturbing but really helped a lot for me to not symphatize with the person involved

    • @anti_fragile
      @anti_fragile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@igot_chu sometimes it hurts to remember traumatizing events, though i do agree more detail would have helped

    • @aetherdemigod
      @aetherdemigod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      People who have experienced trauma's brain usually blocks out the trauma to not induce any stress (panic/anxiety attacks, etc) so when people do recount it, it's sometimes very like "So A..., then B, C, D and H happened..., then J, K, M, P and Q..., then X, Y and Z and that's it" so their brains usually intentionally "forget" some parts of the event for a reason. Also it's hard to remember ANY traumatic event well so that's why the minor, smaller details are like not there. Though ofc, maybe if it was described by a narrator who is outside of the story and that knows everything so we can get more detail might have been nicer

  • @justbecause3754
    @justbecause3754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    About the gardener and how no one looks into his life and how wealthy he is is actually kind of accurate. Most of the wealthiest people on Earth are ones we never heard of, they exist in another space of our dimension. Like when you see a really big wall and you peek into it and see a very lavish mansion, you don't really obsess into knowing who lives there. It's like, kinda there. Therefore, you'll never know their secrets until you accidentally stumbled on them but if in case you do, you'll probably just think like Sophia who never told the cops because of shits.

    • @jojihye
      @jojihye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true or either its like they r evil enough n they kill u😶 n coz theyre rich n stuff like that they may be able to get away w it

  • @joeblade8511
    @joeblade8511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    The way she tells the story is like the way you explain a dream. Nobody ever understands me because it's a dream and everything is all mixed up but I really understand the format of her storytelling.

    • @orangepeel1073
      @orangepeel1073 ปีที่แล้ว

      i like the butterfly keeper man. He just has some emotional problems from the death of his father. the girls should just be happy so that he gets what he wants. shame on the butterflies

    • @GalaxykatYT6
      @GalaxykatYT6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@orangepeel1073 it’s just the way the author described him and stuff. He isn’t that great as he seems . He’s disgusting and needs help .

  • @bnuuywaltz
    @bnuuywaltz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    This one was so good... maybe it’s the way steph relays the story but she makes it sound a lot better and I really want to know what happens afterwards in the trials..... loving BAM!!!

    • @NicoleYukaAoki
      @NicoleYukaAoki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was about to comment how cute you are in your profile pic then i realize its my bias 🤡🤡🤡

    • @bnuuywaltz
      @bnuuywaltz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hi Hey eheheh 88 days left!

  • @brescorner7192
    @brescorner7192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    Who else LOVES STEPHANIE❤️❤️❤️

  • @katrinastewart8741
    @katrinastewart8741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Stephanie can tell a story like no other

  • @T.C.06
    @T.C.06 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I've been so deep depressed for years that I lost interest in reading and watching movies. But Stephanie's narration has made me gain interest in watching movies and reading/listening books again, and keep me engaged to them.
    Thank you!!

  • @dianatrejo8465
    @dianatrejo8465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    This needs to be a movie

    • @AvabackwardsisavA08
      @AvabackwardsisavA08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      YESSS I WOULD 100% WATCH ITT

    • @mae7595
      @mae7595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      FRRR

    • @daily_madisonbeer
      @daily_madisonbeer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      oh geez that would be terrifying. like imagine the film team trying to portray the dead girls - it’s just.....no.
      and since the author glamorised the whole book and the garden, it wouldn’t be good at all. people would end up ACTUALLY wanting to go to this “butterfly garden.”

    • @JL_5
      @JL_5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@daily_madisonbeer ur overthinking it.. honestly.

    • @justmesweettea9924
      @justmesweettea9924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fr

  • @gayisokay8978
    @gayisokay8978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    Let me tell you this.. She completes my day! OUR BISS IS GOING GORDON RAMSEYYYYY

    • @nicolovespanda
      @nicolovespanda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Stephanie was one of Gordon Ramsey's mentors early in his career actually

    • @leetracy621
      @leetracy621 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The algo kept us apart, but now I found my way back 2 U. P.s. your mic is hot & your P's are poppin'.

  • @JellyLee1203
    @JellyLee1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6711

    You ever feel like the people who write stories like this are sus? Human tattooing serial kidnapper/killer? Self report? 👀👀

    • @ni4190
      @ni4190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +954

      It’s so creative but terrifying to think about it. 😭

    • @tanzilajamal2566
      @tanzilajamal2566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

      this aint no among us

    • @JellyLee1203
      @JellyLee1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +481

      Serial killers are always among us. Watchu talking about?

    • @cherryblossom934
      @cherryblossom934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@JellyLee1203 they meant the game among us I think

    • @swegcisu9389
      @swegcisu9389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

      There's literally a thriller - serial killer book that turned out to be a self-report. I forgot the name tho :/

  • @abbie7343
    @abbie7343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    PLEASE DO PERFUME: THE STORY OF A MURDERER ALSO LY BISS💖

    • @abbie7343
      @abbie7343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@ffgjhhkvv5092 maybe because it’s rated R and you probably shouldn’t watch it as a kid 😂

    • @neradias2866
      @neradias2866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg noo we read that in school it's so fucked up. The author has so many weird books

    • @sema2445
      @sema2445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg yes!!

    • @drunkengemini9127
      @drunkengemini9127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES YES YES !!!

    • @mae7595
      @mae7595 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abbie7343 what did the person say the person deleted it

  • @LadyAlainna
    @LadyAlainna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    If you enjoy dark / twisted mysteries, I STRONGLY suggest Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter! I've been into true crime for around 10 years now and there was really no romanticising of any sort, just a great book all around, very poignant too. Thank you so much for this series!

    • @urbessieEsi
      @urbessieEsi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You might have already watched it but she posted a BAM to this a while ago.

  • @rainydaysarebeautiful4693
    @rainydaysarebeautiful4693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    What’s everyone’s fav BAM so far? Mines the third and the fifth one

    • @aleshasinclair1292
      @aleshasinclair1292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Omg same! I loved the plot twists

    • @jhasenseludo8650
      @jhasenseludo8650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Definitely the one with the girl who never spoke again. You had an idea who it was but the way that it played out and how it was explained gave me this “woah” feeling.

    • @spongerina9917
      @spongerina9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jhasenseludo8650 same

    • @oliviaflores4678
      @oliviaflores4678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah mine is the third one too

    • @stupiditeaa735
      @stupiditeaa735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I think I really loved the first one and fifth one! The way Stephanie explains the story just makes it better!

  • @Khalidah
    @Khalidah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    The effort of stephanie wearing a shirt that matches what she’s making.

    • @camillejones5528
      @camillejones5528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve literally looked for her shirt everywhere and I can’t find it 😭

  • @manshililadhar5703
    @manshililadhar5703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    BAM hits different when you can’t sleep

    • @lokid3326
      @lokid3326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No joke that me right now, so true

    • @homemaganga7290
      @homemaganga7290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      really different

  • @bunnny4689
    @bunnny4689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I kinda like the way the author described everything. It made the man and the garden seem so inviting, that it was scary. Like you can feel why some people might just give up on escape and just live there. It gives the whole books a horrifying feeling of wanting to be compliant. Makes u want to fight back less

  • @MustacheFanClub
    @MustacheFanClub 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    the garden reminds me of exaggerated Chinese novels that take place in the palace where there are hundreds of concubines and such, except this is more sick and weird.

    • @vvmn9442
      @vvmn9442 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @lillerin__4666
      @lillerin__4666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Macy most Chinese ancient based novels has concubines so it's a big deal when the protagonist wants to marry only 1 person their whole life which makes it true love and romantic😅
      In conclusion just search for any Chinese novel theyre really good

  • @amyguo8295
    @amyguo8295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I LOVE BAKING A MYSTERY YOU'RE SUCH A GOOD STORYTELLER AND HAVE GOTTEN ME BACK INTO READING (sorry for the caps, don't mean to sound aggressive but I am just so excited to watch!)

  • @mars-nd3yv
    @mars-nd3yv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    i’m really sad rn bc my friends stood me up and i just saw this show up and it literally made me so happy😭😭🥺

  • @MariaRuiz-mt7yf
    @MariaRuiz-mt7yf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Actually I just got here but I’m SO EXITED FOR THIS BOOK!

  • @Aj-he1ws
    @Aj-he1ws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This entire story was a rollercoaster i was not ready for! I actually feel like this would be interesting made into a movie but for now i'm probably going to read the book for myself.

  • @kadenthi7620
    @kadenthi7620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    From what I can tell the book is poorly written but the way Stephanie retells the story is just amazing it felt like I was watching a whole movie! Thank you Stephanie, this was amazing!

    • @biteslip7072
      @biteslip7072 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a movie?

    • @aishra4363
      @aishra4363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No, it isn’t. At least not for me. It was definitely an easy but entertaining read, it obviously contains explicit scenes that were hard to digest but other than that, I would recommend the book to people who are interested in reading it.

    • @orangepeel1073
      @orangepeel1073 ปีที่แล้ว

      i like the butterfly keeper man. He just has some emotional problems from the death of his father. the girls should just be happy so that he gets what he wants. shame on the butterflies

    • @Jasmine-ge2xv
      @Jasmine-ge2xv ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@orangepeel1073 your mental

    • @margodphd
      @margodphd ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@orangepeel1073 what the hell......

  • @sss-lk4fs
    @sss-lk4fs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Teacher: Who’s your favorite person
    Sara: My mom
    Me: Stephanie Soo

  • @mackenziewaugh4715
    @mackenziewaugh4715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    I love STEPHANIE ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
    You queen
    You dropped this 👑

  • @maiabou5036
    @maiabou5036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I used to really love true crime but then recently started getting a bit freaked by it and serial killers and stuff started ending up in nightmares regularly (I don't know why :/) so I had to stop - these videos are a lifesaver! It's so nice because it's like true crime but I can reassure myself that it's not real. Your voice is so soothing and you tell the stories so well that I can continue to listen. Thank you so much for retelling these stories!! It makes it a lot easier for me

    • @orangepeel1073
      @orangepeel1073 ปีที่แล้ว

      i like the butterfly keeper man. He just has some emotional problems from the death of his father. the girls should just be happy so that he gets what he wants. shame on the butterflies

  • @nobara5730
    @nobara5730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love how she explains so so well and is also so sarcastic as hell at the same time 😂

  • @applecat84amv7
    @applecat84amv7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Her reaction to this book with her true crime background is essentially how anyone who's genuinely into bdsm felt when fifty shades of gray came out

    • @annieannie2887
      @annieannie2887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh yes, this!

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel like it's a little different though.
      Ultimately, Edward Cullen...oop...I mean "Mr. Grey" of course was not supposed to be a villian. Yeah there were issues he had and he was a flawed character as the series went on, but we were supposed root for him and Bella-Anastasia 🙄 to have their happy ending finally.
      When it comes to The Gardener, a better comparison would be Joe Goldberg from YOU. We know he's a bad guy, and not just any bad guy but a sexual deviant and a murderer the entire time, and yet what's happening is compelling enough that we find ourselves enthralled eventhough we're disgusted by him.
      "Mr. Grey" was just an already flawed and slightly creepy character from the Twilight series, that was repackaged as a BDSM dom by a lazy author who, unlike Stephanie Meyer, wasn't an uptight Mormon girl so she was willing to write about BDSM even as she wasn't willing to do any research about it!

  • @lexiv8218
    @lexiv8218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Almost two hours of my fav biss? Yes. Baking? Yes! Books? YES.

  • @yippee188
    @yippee188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    These are like when you’re talking to a friend and they’re explaining a book they read and it makes me feel less lonely

  • @Lana..H
    @Lana..H 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just love the way Stephanie explains books/cases she makes it so much more interesting to listen to ♥️

  • @Owaowah
    @Owaowah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I would love it if stephanie wrote a thriller book. she ends up finding each disappointing and i think if she wrote a book there would be almost no plot holes and it wouldn't be problematic

  • @alexandragonzalez6257
    @alexandragonzalez6257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I really think you will like the book “Stolen” It’s a really good read and it’s about Stockholm syndrome

  • @theebrattt5958
    @theebrattt5958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    when she talks about mysteries and they be actually interesting and you’re never losing interest she such a vibe🙂✨

  • @shansam8456
    @shansam8456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    If I’m not watching Stephanie then what’s the point of TH-cam 😀❤️

  • @sahin.4515
    @sahin.4515 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I started watching this when I was doing my night care, and I had to stop because the way she was describing this book I had to read it for myself before I continued watching it. So here I am 2 years later read this AMAZING book so I can continue watching this. 10/10 this book was amazing!!!

    • @EN02z
      @EN02z ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn the way u didnt even forget

  • @LilyBrownlivingforEGG
    @LilyBrownlivingforEGG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I just want to thank you for making this series

  • @cpt.casper
    @cpt.casper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    i honestly like baking a mystery more then her normal mukbangs lmao

  • @weihan1709
    @weihan1709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I don’t like listening to people retelling stories but this is AWESOME-

  • @robnesha4561
    @robnesha4561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Her personality makes my heart smile

  • @loveblackpink4129
    @loveblackpink4129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love reading books but lately I’ve been in reading slump so I’ve binge watched all her BAM, it’s kinda rekindling my love of reading again. Love this series

  • @Strwbrychaee
    @Strwbrychaee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    ive been sucked in this entire time its such a creative story

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      coupled with Steph's amazing and captivating storytelling skills, it's no wonder!

  • @pandehoe984
    @pandehoe984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    31mins in and when Stephanie said she feels the characters don’t act their age, I just get flashbacks to when i was reading The Fault in Our Stars. I think that’s what she meant right? Like they’re 16/17 but acts like they’ve seen a lot in life

    • @senajabeen1076
      @senajabeen1076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But dont all kids act like they know everything.

    • @pandehoe984
      @pandehoe984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@senajabeen1076 that is true 😔 especially when they start talking like war veterans

  • @abbyalchemist4625
    @abbyalchemist4625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I literally read this book last week. It’s so dark because of how well it’s written. It’s told from a “butterflies” perspective, so of course she doesn’t want to get into the explicit details of the assaults.

  • @chescaherrero7088
    @chescaherrero7088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    LITERALLY NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY BEFORE I start my days with you and now I feel like you’re a part of my routine. Love u biss n stephiance! 🥺🧚🏼‍♂️
    SHE LIKED IT LET ME GO CRY 😭

  • @vipblaqjacks
    @vipblaqjacks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Stephanie’s storytelling and love for thrillers got me into reading again and I can’t thank her enough 😭

  • @Thetinkeringnook
    @Thetinkeringnook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I truly aspire to be as great of a story teller like Stephanie one day! Wow! 🥰 she needs to give herself more credit for how intelligent she is to be able to recounts and walk everyone through her experience and bring that book to life. It is just astounding. BAM introduces me to some books I really wanna indulge in because of Stephanie! 🥰

  • @mh_2001
    @mh_2001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man, I love this series. I'm literally binge watching all of them, her storytelling is just soo good

  • @minsungsbackdoorknob2590
    @minsungsbackdoorknob2590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    MISTERMANGOBUTT and MISSMANGOBUTT POSTS ON THE SAME DAY!!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!?!???????

    • @Lily-pc2zr
      @Lily-pc2zr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kinda sus vote em out

  • @maddiek1530
    @maddiek1530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I just found you two days ago and I’ve binged nonstop and now I’m obsessed 😭😭😭

  • @benji8622
    @benji8622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Stephanie! You should consider trying Hunt a Killer. It's really similar to the unsolved mysteries you were doing a few months/ weeks ago but with a much better storyline and mystery. Also, part of the proceeds are donated to the Cold Case Foundation. Idk just thought that would be a fun video because I miss your unsolved mystery ones.

  • @AprilSundays4
    @AprilSundays4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I read this book a few years ago and it was soooooo good but you tell it way better!

  • @batanguenainquarantine2491
    @batanguenainquarantine2491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is becoming my routine. I just finished my Sunday class at grad school and I am listening because this is just like reading a book. Thank youuu

  • @chinobufrocho
    @chinobufrocho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    this story reminds me so much of the handmaid’s tale, especially when june gets moved into joseph’s house

  • @yuankelly5342
    @yuankelly5342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Stephanie I just wanna let you know that thank you so much for doing this new serie! I have to listen to something while I'm by myself or working otherwise I get super sad and scared. I've watched and rewatched ALL your main channel crime stories MANY times and this new serie saved me. It made me happy whenever I see you had uploaded a new video! So, thank you for that super bright energy during this unfortunate time. BTW I am a Chinese international student, I watch your video whenever I miss China, and the tears just dry right up! Thank you for that!

  • @ehcofls
    @ehcofls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    omg ur kitchen is decorated so cute :(

  • @yunnoii
    @yunnoii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    'yes, we are from the streets' PLS JFDBGJD

  • @strxwberries3649
    @strxwberries3649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this is literally my favorite podcast thingy and this is the second one ive ever watched...

  • @meichan
    @meichan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    I LOVE YOUU 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️💫💫💫💫💫💫

    • @drli339
      @drli339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME

  • @krystalp.1410
    @krystalp.1410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    THIS is my favorite B.A.M. ep (so far), GREAT telling

  • @user-pf9su3xu3t
    @user-pf9su3xu3t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just love this series so much. My favorite things: Stephanie, baking, mysteries, and its all surrounding a book🔥

  • @bellastarrie
    @bellastarrie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i come back to this whenever i have free time, this is my #1 favorite BAM

  • @leighmkit2346
    @leighmkit2346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Baking a mystery is one of my favourite series on youtube, literally the best thing ever

  • @moonstar5806
    @moonstar5806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    back two years later to say when i first watch this video i fell asleep towards the end but loved the video so much that i, 16 with like zero money in my pockets, not even bank acc 💀, rushed to amazon the next day to buy the book because you described it so damn well and it was so enticing. two years later. and it’s my favorite book. thank you so much, stephanie ❤️

    • @sahin.4515
      @sahin.4515 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I literally wrote the same comment LMAO this book was amazing !

  • @han7309
    @han7309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    mistermangobutt and stephanie all in one day? is this heaven

  • @thisthatmat
    @thisthatmat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This BAM series is exactly what I did not know I needed in my life!!!
    Thank you Stephanie!❤️

  • @daphnetorres3818
    @daphnetorres3818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have lost how many times I go back to this video and I keep liking it the same. Is like reading your favorite book again.

  • @FabHudz
    @FabHudz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I WAS WAITING FOR ANOTHER EPISODE😍🥳 Thank you Stephanie❤️

  • @vindhani123
    @vindhani123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Stephanieee recommendation for the next BAM: 'Thirteen' - Steve Cavanagh. The tagline is 'The murderer isn't on trial, he's on the jury'

  • @DSO_Lex
    @DSO_Lex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    oh my god you have to read The Cellar by Natasha Preston. It sounds so similar to this. Its such a good book and so unsettling

  • @wmw4668
    @wmw4668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    ah yes another one to listen to while cleaning, I LOVE U STEPHANIE 💖

  • @teodoraichim
    @teodoraichim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For a second when I saw the tile I was like wtf this sounds exactly like a book Ive read then Ive realized shes talking about the book.

  • @ziyuyu3974
    @ziyuyu3974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Stephanie Stephanie ❗❗ you should read "The Cellar" by Natasha Preston!!! It was my favourite years ago and definitely an interesting crime book!! It provides insights in terms of childhood on the murderer and is similar to the book you read except instead of butterflies, the girls are flowers... O.o ❤️

    • @ziyuyu3974
      @ziyuyu3974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Yes, i'm judging you omg 😭😭😭 I'm so happy someone else knows about the book!!! Hopefully she reads it! Cuz the gardener gives me hella vibes of that murderer in the cellar!!

    • @selinalee1077
      @selinalee1077 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a really good book! I first read it on wattpadd

    • @jilliancollom429
      @jilliancollom429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMGGGG!!!! this is the book that really got me into reading!!!! I love it so much! I’m so happy others do too

  • @FeatherBeautiful
    @FeatherBeautiful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    o-m-g. an hour and 40 minutes? when I saw I gasped, i mean it! love you gurl!

  • @sunoo4life
    @sunoo4life 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS WEEK'S BAM IM SO HAPPY 😭🥺

  • @14nickysam
    @14nickysam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The only youtuber i can watch for almost 2hrs love you bissssss!!! ❤️

  • @nightmyg_8867
    @nightmyg_8867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was listening to this while i was doing some assignments and I was shooketh almost all the time.

  • @babyyT
    @babyyT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I AM OBSESSED WITHE THEIS SERIES! I can’t get enough of this. This is original content, guys. Like, I tried seeing if anybody does something similar- No! The concept is SO BASIC, Yet nobody has ever done it.

  • @lildino785
    @lildino785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I clicked so fast 😭 I LOVE YOU BISS ❤️❤️

  • @stupiditeaa735
    @stupiditeaa735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    AAAA ty for posting another BAM!! I was just rewatching some of your Bams whne you posted ❤️❤️

  • @asma8644
    @asma8644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My mOM: u HavE 2 HoUrS mOrE tO dO AnYtHiNg U WAnT on thE cOMpUteR
    mE: ok StEPhAniE HeRe I cOMe
    SoRRy IM a LiTTlE LATe

  • @guessmonster9426
    @guessmonster9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started listening to this series yesterday and i’m obsessed because the way she tells the story i can picture the entire story and i like listening to this in the background of doing my homework 😂

  • @Staceyishere
    @Staceyishere 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    And I'm back again. This is my favorite BAM. I listen to it whenever I'm really bored because Stephanie's story telling it so amazing! I love it 😀

  • @fafaelshiii8132
    @fafaelshiii8132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Omg thank you lord i was literally binge watching all of ttHhhEeseEe 💀💀