Intimidating? Why, Thank You!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 เม.ย. 2017
- During Girl Chat, the ladies discuss whether it's a compliment to call a woman "intimidating." What do you think? Check out this clip in to hear what Tamera, Jeannie, Loni and Adrienne have to say.
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I get called intimidating but in reality I just have a resting bitch face and I'm as soft as a marshmallow 💛
Olivia B Same, first impressions of me always say "I thought you were a bitch at first" 😁😂
Olivia B same!
Olivia B FACTS
Olivia B spirit animal
Olivia B same
Jeannie needs a Ted Talk
right...? and a podcast
shertbertpie Sheeeee doesssss, lol!
YES
Preach.
YES SHE DOOOOEEESSSSS
Jeannie is the most intimidating because not only is she intelligent and well spoken but I feel as though she is mentally strong, down to earth, cheerful, kind and beautiful on the inside and outside. Those charismatic qualities make it hard to dislike her. 😍
so truee
Right! Now that you say it, there are also people who can be intimidating in a positive way, like they're so nice and accomplished and they seem so perfect in every way, which isn't necessarily the case because we're all struggling, but there's also that kinda of intimidating. Like you want to be around them and be their friend but you feel like you're not worthy enough lol
I agree. Jeannie is intimidating to shady, insecure people, like Mup... never mind.
inasexymood 😂😂😂😂😂😎😎😎😎
lmfaoooo
Sometimes your "intimidation" can be mistaken for shyness and serious professionalism.
Faith sometimes its the other way around
Nope snakes are not shy but intimidating!
Thank u 😭😭
Yes I've gotten that all my life. I'm just shy at first
@@kevingithaiga663 lmao
Where are all my black ladies who have been called intimidating for simply breathing in someone's direction? I know every black woman has gotten it once in her life.🙄
Liya Kidane it's really annoying
Tell me about it, like many people I think don't know how to approach black girls/women so they project those insecurities on us by saying we scared them
Liya Kidane right here 😊 im learning to be ok with it lol at first i hated it
It is literally everything used to describe us BUT confident...am a business student and I am terrified of what the corporate world is going to hold for me going forward but hang in there girl!
solstice. Love this! ♥
As an introvert I've been told I'm intimidating and I used to dislike but I quickly realized that I only attracted confident men and ambicious people. I love it now!
Jeannie is very articulate and knowledgeable. To some that can be intimidating. Now I see why Tamar told her that she did not like her at first because she acted like she knew everything.
Loves Yehushua it's funny that Tamar was intimidated by Jeannie's positive qualities, but then she actually became intimidating in a completely different way (her attitude etc), and even in this video they literally described her without naming her lol
Loves Yehushua and she does know!!
it's the capricorn in her. #capricornsquad
Loves Yehushua i
Bovine Lubbux Capricorn’s are known to be intimidating at first..I don’t get it.
Only person I find intimidating on that panel is jeannie...her confident, knowledge, the way she carries herself and talk it's intimidating to me, she's everything I wanted to become when I grow up but my confident level is 0 😏! I admire her a lot
my words😊
I agree
Jeannie needs to write a damn book for advices!!! 👏👏
or they need to gver her an advice segment.. instead of absolutely adrienne & tamera's take.
Why would anyone want to read a book about bad advice?
Jeannie! Write. A. Book. 👏🏾
She should write a devotional book with her stories as examples.
Name of the book please
Why XD with all due respect
if you're intimidated by another human being that says more about you than about them.... some people have strong personalities but if you're afraid of them then that's your problem
Lakia Taylor 💯
That's true. Projection (psychological mechanism) is not considered enough in our society.
preachh!
FACTS!!!
YESSS exactly!! I don't get how people just assume something about you when they haven't even had a conversation with you... But just like you said it's only because of what's going on in their heads
Sometimes people will call you intimidating because they are jealous of you or can't stand in the same light as you. I think its neither a compliment nor an insult but rather an observation and observations depend on perspectives. Perspectives depend on the person so if someone who is insecure or maybe can't handle your personality they might call you intimidating but in reality you're just on a different spectrum. Being arrogant and obnoxious or rude is a totally different story. You can come off as intimidating and still have manners.. You can come off intimidating without even speaking.
Best comment on here, your statement is so true
Yes 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. I agree.
somebody got an A+ in English
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@@lemondropzs lol...
I've being called intimidating because I don't really talk to people unless I want to or when I feel like it, there are people out there who don't know when to shut up cause they think they'll be awkward if they didn't say anything...I however could care less, I'm not easily impressed and I don't kiss no ones ass to be liked.
I'm the exact same way
Guessing your still single
@@TheRealCalijokes01 so??
I think it's empowering for a woman to come off as intimidating. Not in a way where she gives off negative energy and genuinely has an intrusive, ugly personality, but in a way where people value her opinion and want to impress her. It just exudes confidence imo. Not bitchy at all
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I love love love how articulate Jeannie is
Adrienne looks soo beautiful today
alexia gordon She does like beautiful
alexia gordon yea she looks preggo
Shan Goody read my mind!
she looks beautiful everyday 😍😍😍
and lonni
Jeannie, you're missing your calling as a motivational speaker, girl!
Jeanie is so articulate and knowledgeable, very intelligent I guess that's why Tamar didn't like her, she was intimidated
Munesu Munesu 👏🏼
Jeannie looks really pretty
Also, after that JLO episode , Adrienne I find it hard to believe that looking like a groupie worries you lol
Honey Bee 🌴🌴🌴🌴
Honey Bee 🌴🌴🌴🌴
Damn girl that shade 😂😂🔥
a pleasant breeze over here
😂😂😂
"If someone says your lazy, NO your just disconnected to what you're not into"
i think Tamar felt intimidated by Jeannie
Shan Goody I agree
Shan Goody I doubt it. Jeannie is nothing to be intimidated by
In personality right?
.......can Tamar live😂😂😂 she gone, let her go "CAW CAW!"
No she wasn't. She said the only problem she had was that Jeannie wasn't being herself on TV. So that's why Tamar was always eye rolling and lip smacking whenever Jeannie spoke, plus Jeannie offended Tamar FIRST, she talked about her behind her back and Tamar never let it go even though Jeannie apologized.
People who are insecure sometimes label others that way.
When Jeannie speaks you are forced to listen, her voice is strong and convincing
Loni, you tried itttttttt with that Tamar impersonation!
Jeannie is underrated like this woman is amazing. The realest on this show!!!
A co-worker once called me intimidating, and I was, like.... um??? My feelings were hurt.
I come off intimidating because I'm really intense and serious but I can't help it. People do keep their distance from me.
Keep it that way. You will avoid running into fake friends and people who waste your time. People who go out of their way to get to know you regardless of the cover of the book, is a real person.
Coming from someone who's always told I'm intimidating, it's usually people projecting their own insecurities into you. They assume you're rude/snobby because they think you're intimidating. If you really get to know me, you'd know that I'm cool to be around.
That's the thing tho, most successful people ARE intimidating. Being intimidating has little to do with you personality, it takes a while for people to understand you and get to really know you. Successful people will always seem intimidating until you get to know them.
oh tamera i would of sat down next to youuuuuuu and said sister sisterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I don't believe it is what intimidating is ! A shy person can be intimidating to others because that person is mysterious. To me it's only an superficial trait not a personality trait, it's only when you don't know someone that you can say, that person is intimidating.
Hi
Jeannie is hands down the most well spoken one on the table
I think Tamera is intimidating only because she comes of as everything is well put together. I feel like the other hosts are more realistic and relatable
Sometimes when someone says I am intimidated by you it means they’re feeling insecure and they want to blame it on you.
Describing someone as intimidating sometimes says more about you and your insecurities than about who they are.
Loni with the low key shade 😂 That Tamar impression at 1:45 😭 #imalwaysreaching
Cray May I scrolled through specifically for this comment. I caught that too. #You'reNotReaching #Facts
I caught that too
@@Beautyy832 i litterly just did the same thing lol
I thought the sameeee
@@Beautyy832 me too. i saw it!
Michelle Oba..... Beyonce!!!
RandomGus babhahaha lol
I love Beyonce too, but Im not rating her above Michelle Obama! Adrienne sounds like she is running the beehive! lol
I agree with Jeannie, some women have to be intimidating because of their career or professions where most men underestimate and undermine them. Like big executive women on company's boards.
People look at me, first impression is that I'm too serious, I don't talk. when really I'm just shy and introvert.
Adrienne, you can be “intimidating” without being famous or successful. I hear I am “intimidating” all the time, and I am neither successful (work wise) nor am I famous, nor do I have a hot resume. And I smile and I am very friendly and respectful. Intimidating needs to be better defined here.
WHY DOES LONI HAVE TO RELATE EVERYTHING BACK TO SEX!!!!! UGH IT'S SOOOO ANNOYING
butterfly2847 probably because she's not getting none
lmfao! What aaliyah said!
Omg I knoww right. Starting to get annoying
I might be reaching here, but it seems like she's insecure. She feels the need to compete with the married women around her.
butterfly2847 I agree , she needs to fall back
they need to know the difference between intimidating versus being pretentious. Adrienne is describing pretentiousness, and tamera gives off a pretentious air.
Why do you think Tamera seems pretentious?
"I'm intimidating in the bedroom" *rolls eyes*
Adannayah exactly
Me too
People get intimidated on how I look , but when they get to know me ... I'm cool and down to earth.
Nothing beats being kind, down to earth and humble. I agree with Mrs. Houghton
I kinda wish Loni would retire those sex jokes. Seems like the ladies at the table have just started to ignore them lol
Weird when fat girls do it yuck 🤢
I think you need to be confident. If you are confident, and secure in ALL that you are, nobody is intimidating to you.
Jeanie Mai you better preach girl!!!! I swear I always get chills and be ready to shout, "Amen", when she gets on a roll lol.
I'm always told I'm intimidating but it's just I won't put up with bs
No boo 👻 it’s your attitude lol why do ya get on these comments and cap 🧢
I said the same thing!
Jeanie is so wise! You go girl!!!!!
I don't agree bossy=leader. If I feel like you're bossing me around, then I don't consider you a leader and I'm not going to do what you say. The same goes for men and women.
Agree! When you're a leader you don't boss people around, you influence them.
I just feel like being intimidating doesn't always mean that you are a negative or unfriendly person. I think the word Adrienne was thinking of was "arrogant". I think that people can feel intimidated by people that have big personalities or something. I dont know i just feel like being intimidating doesn't have to be a bad thing.
JEANNIE IS SO OPEN MINDED AND I LOVE THE, WAY SHE PUT IT!!! SHE SEES WHAT THE AVERAGE PERSON WON'T SEE BECAUSE THE AVERAGE PERSON ALWAYS LOOKS AT THINGS IN A NEGATIVE PERSPECTIVE... I WOULD LOVE A FRIEND LIKE JEANNIE!!! 💯💯😍😘
I totally can empathize with those ladies because there have been times when I go out to bars and people are very standoffish with me. One time I asked someone why people wouldn't interact with me, and they said, "Because you come off as high maintenance, unapproachable, and intimidating". The truth of the matter is, I'm actually really friendly and totally approachable. In fact people who know me personally know I'm a hugger lol. Yet there's this idea that I'm "intimidating" because of my career. It's ridiculous.
Simply Visual same but I found out a different way
@@killerbeast6866 Oh? In what way did you find out?
Jeannie that statement was absolutely amazing and so grounded in truth. You have so much wisdom and I can see the influence of the "Word" in your life bless you. 👏🏾❤️👏🏾❤️😘
I'm 31 and watched Sister, Sister everyday after school growing up, I still catch the reruns on the weekends, have probably seen every single episode. LOVE LOVE Tamera and Tia!
Intimidating is not a verbal thing. It's a physical attribute. It's also a feeling felt by others, not the person who is classified as intimidating.
Loni " I grew up watching you". Isn't she like 45? Mama, stop.
The best YT update has watching these clips and reading thru the comment section... soo entertaining 😂😅. I love our regulars
Jeanie must have thousands of friends. She always makes reference to one of them
LOL
"I grew up with you" loni aren't you like 10 decades old?
lmao i was just thinking the same thing.
Mariposa I think she means that she grew up watching her in the "industry"
Mariposa Gurl!!! That's what I said. I scrolled looking for this comment.
I'm dead 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Mariposa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
People call me intimidating all the time 75% of the time because of my expressions. But in reality I'm really down to earth and chill.
I find someone intimidating when i think they behave like they're better that everyone else... they act perfect
I get called this a LOT! I just don't suffer foolishness or nastiness. I stand up for what's right and I am not scared of anyone, physically or intellectually, I believe we are equal. I don't judge anyone but if you judge me I'll preach, I know who I am and I sit in it happily. The wise are not affected by praise nor blame, I'm intimidating and people take it as they will. It's not intentional. I am who I am
I'm honestly waiting for the Tamar comments. They bout to crack so hard Whitney herself bout to be in attendance 💀💀💀
swaggpro17 Not Whitney! 😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
swaggpro17 Oh no😂😂😂
swaggpro17 omfg😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmaaaao alright that's enough from you time out gimme your phone 😂😂😂👏🏽
😂😂😂😂😂
I'm intimidating. Cause when I walk, Chile it is with a purpose. Lol
Ok model
Tamera knows she isn't intimidating lmao 🙄
Cosmic Angel 😂
Cosmic Angel She might be to some people. You don't know. Just because she seems sweet and innocent 😇 doesn't mean she isn't intimidating. Just look at her resume. Plus she always said no one would sit next to her and Tia in school.
Exactly, that's why her son don't listen to her. She said in one episode that he has hit her, and she tells him "don't hit mommy"
If I would have walked into my college class and I saw Tia and Tamera I would have sat right next to them. Sister, Sister was my show growing up! And being that my real name is Tamara we would have been the coolest trio lol 😂
Tami A yes girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lol ‘Tia & Tamera squared’
I completely agree with Jeanie and Loni! There is definitely a double standard between men and women in the professional world and I'm glad they're talking about it.
I want to be able to articulate myself as well as Jeannie does. Like I ALWAYS know what she means.
& agreed with Loni & Adrienne I would NOT sit by Tia and Tamera either lmao
You have to learn how to listen and read books I doubt you do either
I get called intimidating and and stuck up looking, but I’m so friendly and welcoming. I don’t like it.
LOLZ. In my experience, women are usually called "intimidating" by people (..often men) who are mentally small and insecure. Shake that sh*t off ladies, and move ON. You can't stop FABULOUS.
Preach Jeannie Mai!
I like how Jeannie thinks. She needs to have her own, blog or podcast. I would listen to her.
I've been told I'm intimidating😉
But really I am naturally a bit shy and guarded. That's all!
Damn why do y'all watch the show 😂😂 all y'all do is complain in the comments.
+Joshua Perez That's what I always say.
Love this comment!! :)
Wisest comment ever
Jeannieb You make this intimidating thing look encouraging-indepth insight into what it means when someone says I've intimidated them.
Been told this on several occasions
why is lonni always talking about sex?
Because her fat self never gets some..lol, she's just pathetic and thinks ,she's funny-- NOT
Melissa Maiga I think she exaggerates about her sex life to make it sound interesting. She spends most of her free time at Tamara's house because she has no life of her own.
Cause she ain't getting any and want some 😂
Christine Munday put a profile picture and I'll be the judge Moron. who are you to be calling her fat? You probably sitting home right now with not even an high school diploma watching Loni on Tv bye you're a fan
Melissa Maiga
Or her brown liquor!
OMG story of my life 😭😭 But, once people get to know me, they're always surprised to find out that I'm super humble, caring and down to earth!
lol Loni "you had your sista for that" 😂
Lots of people think I'm intimidating. I guess it's because I am quiet. But I am kind and I try to be a good friend. Sometimes you should give the intimidating person a chance, they could turn out to be great.
jeannie needs her own segment, she's the wisest of the 4 tbh
I, personally, love when I'm on a date with a guy and I can tell they're intimidated. I love to see how nervous they get when I look at them in the eyes 😭😭😂😂😂😂
I really feel that Men are intimidated by me bc of the way I carry myself as a strong, fierce, and classy woman! I can tell when a guy wants to approach me but doesn’t bc their scared! I’m like come on I’m the sweetest soul! Do you other lady’s out there get that to?
The real comment section is honestly my favourite
here's an idea tamera; why didn't YOU go and sit by someone. Instead of you waiting for them to sit by you..
You make it sound easy, but there is nothing more terrifying than sitting down next to someone you want to get to know and get rejected or just sit an entire hour next to someone and you can't get into any kind of conversation.
heheh92 cause shes a fake.
@@tychowozniaki9269 Sounds like a personal problem. Men don't get to cry about how hard it is to actually approach women.
I loveeee you guys !!! You teach me a lot ! Thank youuuuuuuu love all of you especially all of you ! Intimidating unique🥰❤❤❤❤
Until today, some people find me intimidating because I don't always say what I think or just don't express myself when I don't know certain people. But I agree with Jeannie, for others it might looks like I think I'm superior or better than others people but I actually really don't. It's just that I have to make myself a little bit comfortable and then I'll be chillin' with people. It's just that I'm protecting myself due to people I've known in the past (not like 20 YEARS AGO because I'm 20) but when you have already experienced some things, you will be still okay but very aware of what you might expect. But then, because of that, I'll do my part too meaning I try to make people more comfortable when we meet, it's always great to meet new people :) !
Jeannie really has become my favorite host
Jeannie's style today is so beautiful!!
What I love about the hosts is their individual personalities and the uniqueness each of them brings to the table.
Loni: Has a sense of humour and is always able to make light of any situation whether good or bad.
Adrienne: proud of her culture an her roots and isn't afraid to say it like it is. Direct and upfront.
Jeanie: full of wisdom and knowledge. Incredibly well spoken and intelligent and radiates natural confidence.
Tamera: has a genuine and caring heart. Loves seeing the best in people and is the epitome of grace and elegance.
What's up with Loni always bringing up her sex life...I've never noticed as much as I have lately, but enough already. No one is asking.
I'll sit next to you Tamera and get to know you as an individual not because your a celebrity but because you seem like someone I would like to be friends with regardless if you were an actress or not! 💕
"SISTA SISTUHHHHHHH"
Lol Mai-ty extra. But gotta love it.
I like how they put "Beyonce" in the teaser clip's title for some views. It was literally one sentence her name was in 🙄
I like how Jeannie shut them all up
Great perspective Jeannie!
I got called intimidating and I felt *FANTASTIC* about myself.
I have always taken being called intimidating as a compliment and didn't realize it was supposed to be insulting until recently
Lets keep it 100, if a girl get's called intimidating its more likely she's black because many ppl think if we arent jivin and groovin, we must be up to something 😴
Well that's just prejudice.