That poor kid turned towards the officer as he was walking out. Can you imagine being in such a position that you'd rather the cop put you back in the patrol car and take you with him? I am sad for this young man. He deserves so much more care than he received. Everybody is failing him.
@@japdog9 unfortunately you are so right. And these poor kids need help regardless of their gender. I only have sons and can't imagine my child in this situation. This broke my heart.
I would me more pissed at the health care service. The fact that they refused to open the door or even allowed for the kid and officer to step foot inside the building should be investigated. That is what's failing these people not the police.
@@keywestconch8 yes he acted like he wanted help .it upset me when the woman ran away then the cop left him alone , i hope the boy got help . .... i wish i was wrong , its the same in Australia
I agree with you 100%!!!! How are kids supposed respect the cops if they do things like this? My heart goes out for kids like this teen. I was like him at one point in my teenage years, I got lucky that one of my family wanted to list and love me.
Bingo !!! You hit the nail on the head . This cop is a pos . At least wait with the kid . You left a mental patient alone with out supervision . If he were to harm himself or others , how could you sleep at night
@@NJDRONEMAN No, he didn't "hit the nail right on the head" and the only one that is a POS here is you. It's not the cops fault I don't know if you watched the same video I did but the cop literally says that he is COMMANDED which means by LAW he has to leave the kid there or else he gets in trouble and losses his job for violating his oath he took to uphold the laws of the constitution of the United States. I'm honestly not surprised what you dumb anti-cop losers say anymore you are clearly just nitpicking for any little thing you can hate the police for nowadays and are just a bunch of losers that don't want people to be responsible for their own actions just shut up, please.
@@derek4073 Once again. It's not the cops fault the cop literally stated that he is COMMANDED which means by LAW he has to leave the kid there or else he gets in trouble and losses his job for violating the oath he took to uphold the laws of the constitution of the United States. Also, since you want to talk about "common sense" there is A LOT of that missing in your stupid comment. Also, Judging by your profile picture and account date, you are clearly a troll that has no life and seeks attention on the internet.
I hate how none of them are even talking to the boy. Alone, frightened, no one treating him like a human with feelings. They are treating him like a parcel. 😢
It needs major funding... Before de-institutionalizing, mental hospitals were under funded, under staffed, and buildings falling apart. Hospitals designed to house 500 patients found themselves with over a thousand... Not to mention the abuse that took place in the institutions...
Government control of healthcare has more to do with this oversight. Yet everyone wants government to take over everything and keep screwing things up.
What was wrong with that woman ? Didn't her supervisor leave someone in charge when she left ? Why didn't that woman at the door look at the paperwork after the officer slid it under the door ? I wondered of that poor kid was wondering just what kind of place that was that didn't have their ducks in order. Just didn't seem very professional.
You do not leave a child in a lobby by himself,waiting for services for mental health. Do they know how scared he is or how unstable he is? You both are arguing about him in front of him!!. If I was the kid I would feel unwanted by everyone!!!!
That was rather pathetic, wasn’t it. The facility definitely wasn’t doing its job, but that officer never should have left that building without knowing that young man was safely inside the locked doors. There would definitely have been liability on both side if that boy had walked out of that building and did harm to himself. Sadly we live in a world where the people who can make a difference just don’t care.
@@judystine2783 Did you hear the supervisor say piss on them? Makes me ill, I had problems as a kid myself and now I know how the people talked behind my back. Only difference is I would have been gone by the time that cop got back to see if I was still there!
@@hillbillyohio513 I’m sorry to hear you had some problems when you were younger. Hope life is better now. And I’m with you, I would have been outta there in a nano second.
@One Culture Love Culture xo The officer, under the theory of PROTECT and serve, had an obligation to PROTECT and SERVE that young man. That was his job at the moment, no matter how long it took.
It truly is but from speaking from experience from being a minor and been sent to mental health treatment hospitals multiple times this is sadly normal but sometimes the hospital people and I get sent us too get greeted good sometimes and Ty for speaking up so much and I rlly do agree ❤
@@allthatjazz9000 A: His face is blurred out meaning he's a minor. B: The title of the video is "teen dropped off at mental health facility" C: The officer repeatedly referred to him as "The juvenile". Why would you think he's a man?
I am stunned as well as appalled that this officer would just drive off and leave a vulnerable teenager to fend for himself. My heart goes out to the teenager.
I'm also stunned at the amount of people agreeing with and defending his actions!!! Like how do you not understand that if you took your child or any minor in your care to a mental facility and this happened and you also chose to leave the child behind that you would be in cuffs in by the end of the day charged with child abandonment and neglect and probably all types of other charges endangering the welfare of a child, abuse, etc!!! This child was under his care and he was responsible for him until another adult waived him of it and willingly took responsibility!!! That paperwork that needed to be signed that his superior asked about which by his tone and response makes it seem like he's lying about getting signed was in my opinion the paperwork of him relinquishing his responsibility and yeah he signed them but no one else did, they also should have been signed by a staff member!!!
He actually didn't. He didn't go too far before he called his superior to advise him of what happened, and immediately returned when told to by his superior, so that the transfer could be made... by FORCING the mental health professional who was supposed to intake him to do her job. She obviously had an attitude when he came back to have her speak to his superior, so that his superior could rake her over the coals, because she came out, took one look, and turned immediately around without one word to him.
@@FrankiWhite730 He was transporting the child to the facility. The facility was supposed to intake the child. He sounds like he may be new and may not know procedure, as this doesn't happen to the majority.
I’ll cry about this one for days. Can you imagine the terror? You’re a kid. Found the courage to get help. Legally can’t leave. Already want to end your life- you’re critically Ill. And the two people responsible for overtaking your care & wellbeing, as stated & mandated by the law- are treating you like a wrong address Amazon delivery of Amber Heards bedsheets. For two people so fixated on what their jobs demand of them in this moment, it would seem that they both completely forgot their obligations to patient safety, ethics 101, professional standards & obligations, patient rights. This is a fight for his life. It was this, or his cold, mottled body stored in the morgue. What he should have received was “Hey mate- I know you must be Terrified right now. But you’re doing the right thing okay? I know you won’t believe me, & it doesn’t feel like it- but things are going to get better. I’ve seen a lot of people in the same space you are, & they never thought it could get better…and they’re doing really good now. I’ll be with you the entire time okay? We’ll get you checked in. Make you a warm mug of milo. The nurses are great and will settle you in”. The nurse should have said “hey darling, welcome. You’re safe now. Are you cold? Do you want a blanket? A warm drink? Have you eaten?”. Instead. He got this. Yes we need to focus on the individual police & nurse. But please investigate the hell out of the systemic failures which transpired here. This goes right up the tree, in the police department, in the MH facility. Strength, love, recovery to this boy. I’m living proof that you can make it, & so are countless others in the comment. We love you, believe in you, and care for you. Pick up life’s pen & write your story as you dream it.
To hear them arguing about him as if he isn’t there is heartbreaking. Poor kid. Does any of these adult understand that mental health issues isn’t necessarily “trouble“?? My son has been to a mental facility and has never been in trouble for anything and is the quietest kindest kid. Not that “bad” kids deserve less but there is a difference. 😢
Sadly, most cops in the US have virtually no mental health training, same with other disabilities/differences, especially developmental disabilities and intellectual disabilities. Although, one would think much of this would just be basic common sense and human decency.
Ditto. And they wonder why are prisons are over housed. In the words of Barney Pfife, "Ya got to nip it, nip it in the bud ". Help them and prevent it rather than punish them after the damage is done.
@Nightwatchman 58; I was gonna say the same thing. Those staff members were garbage. The cop guy went beyond the call of duty to lecture and tell the old lady worker that *THEY MUST FOLLOW the Court Order.**The stupid female worker's excuse was that they don't have enough people or proper managers to supervise. Unfortunately this mental health hospital's workplace policy suked badly since it's not the cops job to triage the kid. It was the mental health workers and once handed a *lawfully Court Order document* then it must be *ENFORCED PERIOD.**Hospital policies does not override the land of the law.**It's like having a McDonald's Manager telling a cop that the cop cannot arrest a bad McDonald's employee who just threw hot coffee at the cop due to cop hating.*The Cop legally will have the power to arrest the bad employee PERIOD.**Only difference between my example and the one in this video is that the Judge is the one calling the shots; not the cop or the mental health workers.* Mental health workers fked up.
@@coolgamers2794 OK. Lets say it's a prisoner transfer. The cop would still have a delivery order. He gets to the new facility and the Janitor comes to the door. He says, the intake officer is out at the moment, and he will have to wait. Should he leave the prisoner free at the door? Should he hand him over to the janitor? These people have a chain of custody. If a nurse is not trained or qualified by the institution to accept patients, then she is no different than the jailhouse janitor. Someone must be in custody of the minor at all times. He can't just put the kid in and leave even if he's inside the facility. He would still be the custodian of the kid until he is admitted.
@@dedwardskbd That is the stupidest example ever. No janitor are allowed to open the gates for prison transfer with exceptions of proper direction from guard staff. It's always other prison guards or contracted security officers who will be at the main gates to greet all people. Even if it was a janitor available; the janitor would have to call for a official to open the gates. There is no way any Prison will allow a bus full of convicts to idle freely so the prison guards aren't stupid with how these mental health workers handled this case. In the case for this cop; it was the *Judge* who supersedes the authority of both the cops and mental health worker. It don't matter if the mental health workers don't know how to do their job; they need to execute the *Judge's Order* or that is *obstruction of justice* and the mental health staffs can go to prison for it. The cop guy did his job and that was to deliver the order. Cop is done with his job once he phoned and showed the *Judges Order* to the hospital staff.
@@dedwardskbd are you suggesting that if there is not an intake officer at a prison then no other officer could take custody of or at least supervise a prisoner? So why isn't there anyone at such a large mental health facility that can take custody of or supervise this juvenile?
ayyy, what I wanna hear. which facility? just wondering since I might check myself into one and people's experiences scare me quite a bit .... but I try not to get scared by the stuff they say. last rehab I went to the reviews were HORRIBLE, my experience was good and bad but I didn't nearly die like I'd been expecting to
I agree! That woman there was pea-brained robot. Lazy damned workers wouldn't even come to the door the 2nd time. One thing I don't understand is why this was being done at 5:00 a.m. It should have happened during business hours.
@@maryreynolds8568 It's a mental health facility, they don't have business hours. In your scenario, what would happen if the facility closed at 8 pm and someone needed help 10 minutes later? An hour is a long time for someone who is in crisis to wait, and making them wait 12 hours for any kind of help would simply be inhumane.
@@maryreynolds8568 It's a medical facility. Their business hours are 24/7 just like a hospital. Mental health breakdowns and emergencies can't be timed to a 'better time' for staff. They happen when they happen. This is of no fault of the boys. This medical facility should have been better staffed and prepared for any and all incoming patients at any hour. With that being said, the police shouldn't have just left him there in their lobby either. This boy was suffering a mental health crisis and shouldn't have been left alone, period. Let alone abandoned. The ball was dropped by both parties but the obligation to the boy ultimately falls on the health facility.
There is something sickening to me about that kid being taken to this place, they rejecting him, then the cop abandoning him. Not knowing the issue so far I just want to reach out and take the kid in my arms.
Imagine it! Forcibly removed from his home through a legal order… Denied entry… Witnessing two adults arguing, not wanting to have to deal with you… Abandoned outside…
What she did was completely wrong. But as a parent of a child with complex behavioral issues, I can totally see how people can get to where they feel like they have no other choice. Pediatric mental health is GROSSLY underfunded and parents are left in situations with mentally ill children that sometimes are a threat to the entire family and there’s just no help available. Imagine being told that if you “drop off” your violent child who has been making threats against siblings and parents, you’ll be charged with child abandonment. At the same time, if that child for whom you can get no help, hurts any of his/her siblings, you will lose custody of the other children for not providing them a safe environment. If happens, every day, in the US.
Update: I rewatched the beginning of the video. #1 If any parent would have done this, that cop would have been called to arrest them for abandonment. #2 It can take days or even a week for a bed to open up. Then you need to make sure it is the right one. Not a literal bed but a place in the program, a.k.a. a bed. These aren't shelters where you stick people for the night where ever you can fit them. Some have them by gender or age or issue. A chair in a waiting room is NOT an option. #3 Even here we have to go through the ER. All states have that process as far as I am aware. Last time we did so we were in the room with another juvenile who had been brought there by cops and was waiting (by herself) till a bed opened up somewhere. They are not taken straight to a facility. There are evaluations, paperwork, tests. ‐------------------------ I am in tears watching this video. @Clairez EXACTLY! Have been in that situation. Bought back all the super hard feelings of the first time we had to use short term residential. So many feelings of helplessness, lonliness, failure, wanting to hug the issues away but knowing more was needed, watching someone take your baby away and not being able to go as well. Currently still looking for help. Have been warned of "you will be charged with Child Abandonment if you do/not do xyz" while literally was asking for help and doing a full-time job's worth of effort to find resources; more than "let's see what we can do to help as we are the professionals who work in this field and have contacts." If we don't find help then we risk getting in trouble for not keeping the other kids/people safe which would be child endangerment and we could be charged as well. D*mned if you do. D*mned if you don't. But no worries there are resources out there if you were to have asked. (That was sarcasm.) "Why didn't they get the kid help before this?!" No one wants to hear how help was actively being sought but they were turned away or denied or asked to pay thousands a DAY as insurance wouldn't cover it. Not many people can afford to buy a brand new car every month while still paying for last months brand new car and preparing to buy another new one next month.
You know what's the most upsetting. This kid wanted to end his life, no family there, but the two there that were supposed to show him that love, showed him once again his fears of no one caring. Ahit breaks my heart.
@@smokyquartz5817are you ok? You are worth so much, and a human being that deserves so much love. Unfortunately, like me, some of us feel unloveable. But that isn’t the truth. Be kind to yourself ~
What the actual F*CK?!?!? This is disgraceful! Absolutely disgraceful!!! As the mother of an adult son who has been suffering from schizophrenia for 21 years, since the age of 17, this makes me physically ill and so pissed off I can't see straight. I have had my fair share of dealing with police, the courts, and the mental health system in regard to my son's illness over the years, and I can tell you they are like all other human beings. There are good ones and there are bad ones. That he just drove off and left this kid there is unconscionable and beyond my comprehension. And then he lied! He had no idea if that boy was inside or not!
After watching this video I did some searching for news follow up and Virginia law and their practices with carrying out an emergency psychiatric evaluation order (called a TDO in VA). Couldn't find anything definitive, but seemed to say a physical health evaluation was required before admittance to a psychiatric hospital. In my many dealings with emergency evaluations (all in Maryland), most of them court ordered after filing a petition requesting them, the court order was given to the county police who then carried it out. He was always taken to the nearest hospital emergency room where he was checked physically with basic health evaluation, including urine sample to check for any drugs, and also by psychiatric personnel. They review his current mental state and the behavior reported that caused the judge to issue the emergency eval order. Then they would find where there was a bed available at a psychiatric facility and transfer him there. There were times there were NO beds available anywhere and he would stay at the ER until they can find one. Showing up directly at a psychiatric facility with a court order just wasn't done. And I wondered at the manner in which this order was carried out in this video, by just showing up at their door the way they did. Regardless, the officer should have never left ANYbody, let alone a juvenile, who was under a court ordered emergency eval standing outside the locked doors of a psychiatric facility. Period!
The officer lied he's not in a secured area he's in between the doors of an entry and they're refusing this child into the facility. What's he supposed to do go to sleep in between the doorways there's no bathroom no water. Both those adults were acting like children
You’re correct, the cop did lie. Plus he sounds like a complete doofus. Spouting all this crap about the “constitution“ was completely laughable. Constitution has nothing to do with that. Presumably he had an order signed by a judge/magistrate, and I don’t know if the order actually is binding on the hospital to accept the child or if it’s just binding on the cop to deliver him to the hospital basically giving him permission to force the kid to go to the hospital.
You can’t leave a kid in mental crisis in a unsecured area. He shouldn’t leave until a solution was found. And all I heard was “yes sir” “thank you sir” after he called his boss
@@ipman4715 No? It is a minor who was under the officers control until he was released to a secure facility. We do not know yet why the nurse did not let him in right away. But until that is situated, the child is under the officers control. Why is that so hard to understand? This is a minor.
You realize that getting hospitalized is a disqualification from the military, he could have escaped before they got him in the medical records , tons of people get lied on for having suicidal thoughts
Right! It's like dropping your own child off at a friend's house or a date back home, you don't leave untill you see them going inside, officer seen no such thing, kid could have bolted. It drove me crazy when officer kept getting back in his vehicle to leave. Don't leave until you have confirmation child is inside
As someone who was abandoned in a hospital by a family I was staying with and being transferred to a hospital 3 hours away... it was so traumatic and I feel so sorry for this child. he was so peaceful. I hope he gets the help he needs. i truly hope he is alright today. No one deserves to be just left.....
@@tijuanachaplin313 but they got tons of rooms and help for those crossing the border and being care of,,and we're paying for it but not for this boy that was probably born in the USA the system is corrupt.
We have 8? hospitals in my town. And in the ER you can wait in the waiting room, hooked up to an IV, waiting for as much as 24hrs for an ER or hospital bed because a mental patients are waiting for mental health beds...they can be there for days, until they get a bed, walk out, or simply released. After this last 2 years it must be 5 times worse.
@@kat369-mine Three or four years ago my State closed one of the two State psych facilities and contracted out to the private sector. This matter here is a pity. The hospital staff member is being uncooperative. I can't imagine a medical patient being forced to sit in the lobby with an IV ... omg....
@@baronedipiemonte3990 clearly you haven't been to an ER lately. My mil was taken in by ambulance. They put her in a wheelchair and wheeled her into the waiting room where she waited 12 hours to be seen
If the staff are violating a court order, the correct course is to arrest the staff member. The fact that this would probably involve lots of lawyers, the media, and mountains of paperwork is why this correct procedure was not followed. If you or I violated a court order, we would be in handcuffs.
The lady at the hospital was certainly not violating the court order in any way. The court order the policeman was waving around only covered the initial detention, supervision, transfer and 'handover of care' to the medical facility. The lady at the hospital clearly explained that she could not accept care of the patient on her own and that a colleague was coming in to assist. The child therefore remains in the policeman's legal care until the point at which the hospital accepts transfer of care from the policeman. As soon as the policeman removed himself from the child's care he was himself breaching the court order, committed dereliction of duty and is certain to face a disciplinary process. It would have been illegal for the lady to initially accept care of the child directly from him as she was unqualified to do so. However, as soon as the policeman decided to abandon the child and leave him unsupervised this allowed the lady to let the child enter the building at her own risk under hospital protocol. I hope this explanation makes sense - it is why the policeman is more likely to be in handcuffs and definitely not the lady at the hospital who acted appropriately throughout this incident. I have worked in both juvenile and adult Mental Health Services for many years dealing with compulsory and voluntary admissions and we usually try to use ambulance services for patient admissions as they know what they are doing.
Cops tend to LIE when they are put on the spot! I realized that when a state trooper swore to tell the truth in court before a judge & from the moment she opened her mouth she lied. referring to a traffic stop she had pulled me over for…..she wanted me to just say I was guilty before we went in front of the judge I told her no!
Wow! What a liar! Love how the cop failed to mention that he already left the boy there. Then he lied again when he said they came and got the boy. He doesn't entirely know that this kid didn't walk out as soon as the police vehicle was out of sight! So sad! I feel sho badly for this child!
I really hope that this teen is able to get the help that is needed. So many teens are having trouble coping these days and some are making really bad decisions.
The officer not only remained on the grounds to ensure the young man was taken in, but went back to the state hospital lobby phone and attempted to call the attendant to verify within minutes intake started. In doing so, the Officer laid eyes on the young man inside the building behind a secure door and an employee within sight as well. After this the Officer marked out clear to return back to Covington from Staunton, where the state hospital is
Your missing the whole point of the video!! This officer had no idea if the teen was taken into the facility or if the teen left the building?!!! Then he lies to his boss saying "YES" they took the teen inside because he supposably saw this happen when its obvious the cop did NOT see this happen!! Theres a reason why his boss asked if the cop signed the papers, by signing the papers this cop is liable for the well being of this teen, and the cop knows this but lied about his whereabouts saying he saw the lady take him in!! LIES!! How scary is this!!
@@charmans133 Who said he DID NOT see him inside the locked area? We can not see what is behind the LARGE poster on the left door but he could. I saw sone movement from the area at the bottom of the poster that looked like a hand or arm of someone sitting in a chair.
That is unacceptable That damn cop needed to stay with the young boy... No Matter What! If that rude lady didn't take him in. This young boy would've easily walked out and who knows WHAT could've happened to him. Seeing this young boy like that, and to be treated like that. Is heartbreaking. Disgusting to both of them. Prayers for this young man✝️
It's this officer's duty to remain with that juvenile who is in his CUSTODY until he's accepted and signed for. This boy isn't going to get help at this place, and the new coat of damage has just been layered on
Imagine the fear and anxiousness of just entering one of these places under normal circumstances but then to be rejected by the woman that's suppose to help you and abandoned by a peace officer just to stand there with no where to go would be traumatizing.
Story of my life and many others like him . There are places your held to the floor by 5-8 people cause child got “uppity” . Years ago it was this and worse . Seems systems don’t change
Someone at that facility needs firing and a investigation needs to be conducted as to the efficiency of that place. Disgusting and unprofessional, I hope tax money is not supporting this dump, what a typical example of government responsibility.
You know our taxes pay for this place or it wouldn't be there for a court to order him to go there I don't think the court can order someone picked up and dropped off at a privately funded facility
The nurse or mental health worker fked up. Cops are only obligated to serve orders or junctions; not to babysit. Once the female worker saw the child and saw the order in hand; she had to comply. If she just left the kid hanging; she is now liable since the Cop already informed the female worker as well as all supervisors in charge. No matter who you are whether a government worker, Private store owner, public worker, garbage man, teacher, etc; if you are handed a lawfully court order to enact a specific task then you must comply. Doing so is obstruction of justice. The nurse lady will be 100 percent FIRED and not the nurse supervisor since the nurse supervisor is going to save her own butt instead of the low level female nurse.
Cop lied. The boy wasn't in the lobby. He is responsible until another takes over. The lady refused and he should not have walked away. Irresponsible piece of trash.
@@JbirdL2233 ; Well the cop isn’t. He clearly stated that the judges order was that he be taken to THAT facility. EXACTLY what the cop did and the nurse refused that order. In fact, she could care less.
@@isabellrc it sucks so many parents just stuck their kids here because they didn’t want them or too take care of them and we all know this place is where they test on people and treat them horrible. I’m so sorry you two went through this and anyone going through it. 😓😓
@@user-qk7lh4wl6e We in the US can and should do faaaar better in assuring we have a top notch mental healthcare system, which has well regarded in/outpatient services for ALL! Vetted professionals before hiring. The list is endless!
For those who want an update: internal affairs did an investigation and concluded the officer "acted in good faith" the officer also claimed that he only got in his car and drove out of sight from front door, but he never actually left the premises so he didn't "technically" abandon child. I could not find any information on the child or their current wellbeing, only that they were 16 at the time of this video. Because they were a minor, their identity was not made public.
I'm completely stunned. Why did the officer drive away, instead of staying parked and watching over the young man at the very least? I hope he's ok, prayers for the young man. 🙏🏼
The officer told his superior that they came and got the young man, and picked up the court order he had slipped under the door. He had a COURT ORDER to deliver the young man to that address. He had no other option than take him there. You should listen to the conversation before vilifing the police officer.
@@leahjones8514 recently, the tv station updated this situation, the police dept investigated further. 'Vilify' is a strong word. I don't vilify anyone unless they deserve it. The officer stayed around the vicinity. The center was short-staffed, and it wasn't handled correctly. Regardless, it was stressful for the young man, period.
@@leahjones8514 He was also responsible for making sure he was secure before leaving him and he failed to do that! Don't make excuses for the bad seeds of law enforcement, Karen.
Hey ♥️ I’m so sorry, for everything hiu endured & went through. I went into a facility at 23 & I’ve honestly never been so terrified in my entire life. I was extremely lucky to have a neighbour- who I hardly knew- that I was able to call..she took her day off work as a charge nurse to drive me there, check me in, get me settled- it was a 3 hour round trip for her. It was a time when I had _nobody_ I could call on. I’ll never forget her kindness. Actually, I’m going to write her a thank you letter, and take it out to her (I’ve since moved). She was instrumental in saving my life. The courage that you showed, that your trauma demanded of you to endure & survive 25 years ago, and thrive ever since, is more than what most people will ever show in their lifetimes. Never forget your absolute strength & resiliency, and your ability to pick up life’s pen at any moment & write your story as you dream it. I’m sending you love & healing.
@@ScoobyDoozy what a beautiful woman to help you in your time of need. I bet she will love a letter. I’m proud of your strength and compassion. I also had no one when I went in. Say there for weeks alone. All because my mother didn’t believe what her husband was doing to me. Until the detectives cut up my bedroom and got the rape kit results. Only then did she come and visit me with some lame letter about how she’s “sorry she didn’t believe me”. Nobody wanted to face the brutalities I had been living. All these years later I still don’t have a relationship w my “family”. But I have become a mother myself and love and protect my children the way I should’ve been. Thank you so much for your kind words. Thank you for connecting w me. You are an amazing warrior. Sending you so much love 💜💙
Yeah, the employee of the facility was absolutely at fault here. The officer did his job, attempted to reason with her holding a legal order and she walked off.
The officer lied to his superior though. No woman came to the door and looked out at him, and he implied that he saw the woman let the boy in the door.
@@decafjnr the woman came to the door at 12:56, she was wearing blue scrubs and peeked around the corner, the officer pointed at her with his phone. She immediately walks off.
@@claytonblanchard4451 Haha, BS? What are you having a hard time with Clayton? I laid it out pretty plainly and even linked the time stamp. If you have a learning disablility that is making hard for you to understand, let me know, and I'll try to explain it more simply.
My son was ivcd and he is not suicidal just depressed severe anxiety and idk where this is but avoid holly hills hospital in Raleigh nc at all costs!! If you havd a choice which we didnt
I'm surprised the officer thought it was ok to just leave him. He could've walked off and taken his own life. It's not like the officer had anything else to do. He should have put the child back in his car and made the call that he did.
I’ve been in your shoes young man, it doesn’t get easier. I’ve learned to cope. Sending prayers and love. I’ve been in this same situation and my heart breaks for you
hey. it does. i've also been in these shoes, and it does get easier. not because you can always rely on other people to get what you're going through, but because you learn what to expect. you learn to read yourself. you learn how to help yourself, and who to reach out to if you can't. and as you get older, you're able to react differently. i understand if you're in pain - i am too. but let's not tell kids there's no hope. it's cruel and unhelpful. if someone told me when i was seventeen "it doesn't get easier," i would not be alive today. i would have given up. if you're feeling hopeless, please reach out to your local suicide hotline. the world is so full of so many beautiful things and you're one of them. the world would be worse without you in it.
Don't worry Jordan, it may help make it easier when you find your passion or even a hobby that redirects your attention when those feelings or bad thoughts come over you. I hope you continue to seek positive outlets 🙏🏾
I know he’s trying to “do his job” but a human especially a child should never become a professional pissing contest of “just doing my job”. Regardless of going back and regardless of them taking him inside that child was openly subjected to the embarrassment and ridicule of just being disposable and unwanted. I work in these places and this is exactly why we have communities of hateful broken apathetic people
@@TallMichelleWithTheLongHair yes that’s true, it’s also correct to stay with a juvenile until that child is responsibility signed over to another responsible legally ordered adult. Many things are legal but not ethical.
@@TallMichelleWithTheLongHair I’m a judge and if you think this is following a court order you need to seek a better education, generally and regarding the judiciary. A minor cannot be left that way, technically unsupervised. The facility didn’t accept him yet the cop left. He didn’t communicate to the boy at all, just walked out. If this judge was shown this video, that officer would be held in contempt of my court because he didn’t come close to “doing his job.” He is the agent of the state, into whose temporary custody the child has been placed. He’s lucky he isn’t charged for abandonment or neglect so say nothing of professional charges like failure to discharge duties properly. It’s deeply disturbing to me that you think this could be anyone doing their job.
@@fashiondiva6972 It’s deeply disturbing to me that you would say that she needed a better education. You don’t know what her level of education is lady and you’re not better than her because you’re a judge. I highly doubt you’re a judge anyways (Fashion Diva). I’m sure there’s nothing fashionable about you and I doubt you’re a diva as well. If you are a judge you should be ashamed of yourself for speaking on someone else’s level of education. That is just not okay!
💔 I just want to wrap my arms around this boy and make him feel safe! I know he must be scared and confused. That officer was talking about him like he was a package to be delivered! Disgusting behaviour from both the officer and the woman who turned him away! I truly hope the boy got the help he needed and deserved. 💜
Man this was heartbreaking to watch. You can tell the way he was acting plus turning towards the cop when he left the young man was just sad. I hope he got the help he needs.
As a Mother to a child who's been hospitalized twice, this broke my heart. Bless this poor babies heart. I had my fair share of MHI (mental health institutions) One of the worst of the worst is in Leesburg, VA called North Springs. You may have seen me go viral over the fight I took to get my child out of that facility. How it is still in operation is beyond me. Thankfully, SW VA ERs have taken that facility OFF their transfer list due to us! My God, the LEO just left that boy 😳😲 If that was my child, I would have flipped out! Also, If I was thay child I most likely would have bolted when he left.
I fell so bad for that boy, talking about him like he wasnt there, arguing over who gets him, tossing him back and forth like a hot potato. All he needs is help and for someone to actually care about his well being. I wish him luck and love in the world looks like he's going to need it. 😢
Before dropping the teen and leaving, the officer should have called his supervisor. It's terrible, and if anything bad occurred to the teen, he should have been held accountable.
After reading all the comments I watched as far as the officer trying to let her know he had paperwork and was dropping him off. She continued being a jerk! My adopted siblings came from foster homes and facilities. The sadness I saw in those places. Kids fighting back but it made you wonder why? Sedated by meds. So many of them. The youngest I saw was a 7 or 8 year old. Just broke my heart. So little among older kids. I pray for them. I pray this young man can get the love and support he needs to overcome. God be with him and so many children. ❤
As a former Deputy of 15 years, I would have called my supervisor before just getting back in my unit and leaving. He left a mentally I’ll child in an unsecured area, where he could just walk away and anything that happened would be on HIM the LE.
@One Culture Love Culture xo keep making excuses for incompetent police work. No wonder this profession is in the mess it’s in. Through propaganda people worship and stick up for the police and military no matter what they do and look what we have to show for it.
@One Culture Love Culture xo The officer was required toi hand the boy over securely which clearly did not happen . He acknowledged I need to get the boy to the seat behind this door ! Said fuck it and acknowledged it again when talking to his superiors ! Then had to go back and make sure he did not lie !
@@Cincy_Kid I don't think you have worked a day in your life. You see, people have duties and responsibilities in their jobs. Responsibilities have a beginning and an end. The officers responsibility beings at responding to the call and ends by him dropping off the subject at the institution; and that is where the responsibility of the institution begins...do you see how the world works? Duties and responsibilities. It is not his duty nor his responsibility to sit there and play father or social worker. He did his job. You know who didn't do their job? The "Nurse" who literally closed the door on a mentally ill person which they are supposed to treat. They are the ones who should be sued for medical malpractice for 1. refusing to treat a sick patient at their door step 2. neglecting and putting in harms a minor 3. breaching a probably lawful order / contract which the officer seems to have in his hand.
I agree with you 100%!! That child shouldn't have been left there all alone while this lazy ass cop calls his Sgt. So irresponsible!! I hope the kid ran outta the unlocked door!!!!
@@leahsyl81 - All I'd fault the cop for is moving away from the door when he called his supervisor. He should have sat right outside the door making that call so he could be sure the kid didn't run off. Most of the blame is with the hospital staffer.
@@sienile It was the officer who deliberately left him unattended and would have been in trouble had something bad happened to the boy if he had wandered off or simply disappeared. Frankly, the man doesn't seen very bright. Contact with someone in authority at the hospital should have been made before arrival so that if there were no beds other arrangements could have been made.
This whole event is a training and procedure issue. Everyone involved needs to be addressed and follow the procedure in place. This officer should have never driven away and kept the teen in his sight while calling his supervisor.
Just from his body language, you could tell he felt alone, in this world. He needs to know people love him. He needs to know Jesus loves him. My heart goes out to him, no matter what the charges are, against him. Where is Sheriff Bob Fletcher, when you need him.
@@abundantlyclear The officer did a FANTASTIC job with him it was the NURSE who took a oath to DO NO HARM and didn't follow it by leaving a CHILD in need if help in a lobby when she was ordered by a court to help him.
Tell that to the nurse who outright REFUSED to let them in. She was legally, contractually and morally obliged to do so. She was uncooperative, against her oath, against a lawful order / contract. But yeah, just blame the police because the description of this video told you to do so. I love how common some people's senses are. Unbelievable.
This is so incredibly sad! This boy needs help and he is getting tossed out and left behind because……why? Why? We have some serious issues with how we (as a country) care for those with mental health issues.
This is heartwrenching and tragic. What a terrible way for this child to be treated. Zero regard for his well-being or safety. It is infuriating. I pray that he was able to get the help he needs to start healing.
@@charlyperez1636 Heavily slowed and semi-slurred speech has nothing to do with manners or being polite, no matter how many times you say "yes sir / no ma'am". The cop was exhibiting a lot of behavior that suggests he was in some sort of altered mental state. My work history and experience in the recovery / mental health field tells me it's highly likely the officer had acute benzo intoxication. It makes a lot of sense, because a large portion of law enforcement officers are prescribed anxiolytics like Xanax and Klonopin due to the nature of the job. I'm not going to assume he has a prescription drug problem, but I'm almost certain the way he's acting is caused by an excessive amount of CNS depressants.
The officers supervisor should have been requested to come out and take over, that releases the officer from something like this happening and the Supervisor then has to deal with it, go up the chain of command. The youngster was caught in the middle and there needs to be a review of procedures to insure this doesn't happen again.
Why? The supervisor has his own duties at the station. The court may have overstepped by ordering him there at night, the officer should have stayed until it got sorted out, the attendant should have complied with the court order. There's plenty of blame to go around here.
@@63076topher Who said she was a nurse? Attendant is the term applied to most mental health facility workers who do not have a professional designation.
I dealt with this too except my abusive parents had me thrown in a mental health facility by lying claiming I was suicidal. I had never experienced that at all, just got tired of their abuse and I would usually fight back verbally. I didn’t mind being put in the facility because it gave me a break from the abuse, unfortunately it was only a week. I had even told teachers and called CPS and no one would rescue me.
This is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO My friend. AND her MOM GAVE THE STAFF AT THE ASYLUM FAKE CONTACT INFO AND MOVED HOUSES WHILE she WAS IN THERE. SHE THEN ABANDONED her. She was homeless 3 years after that. DCF allowed her mom to abandon her because of the fake suicide/drug claims and the DCF lady didn't even verify if the mom had a safe place set up for her daughter to go (she didn't.)
The reason people don’t ask for help when they’re having a mental health crisis, is often due to feeling like they’re not seen or loved. Both this cop, and the woman behind closed doors, just failed this young man.
I remember this exact feeling. I was terrified with an anxiety disorder. All it did was make this worse. Worst experience I’ve ever had in my life and it will always stay with me.
This is a perfect example of why we have so many mentally ill patients in our streets. Facilities don’t have room, police don’t have time, and unfortunately, the patient is the only one who suffers. I don’t know the answer but I know what happened here isn’t part of it. Until these peoples families take some responsibility, it’s just going to get worse. And I’m not saying ALL families but as a former cop I know that most families don’t want to deal with the burden and they’d rather them just live on the streets. Sad
I'd say in almost all cases, their families have tried everything they can to responsibly deal with the "burden" of their child or loved one's mental health problems - but they are not trained mental health professionals. I speak as someone who has personally dealt with my adult child with mental health problems; I had to set boundaries and could no longer accept her behavior when living with me, yet I was worried sick every day when she was on the streets &/or couch surfing at times that she wouldn't or couldn't get into an inpatient facility - and there is a huge lack of them that will accept patients on medicaid/public aid. You sound like you have not had the burden of having to personally go through this & are just passing judgment saying you think most families don't want to deal with it & rather let them live on the streets. As a parent who has gone through it, I can attest it is a living nightmare and is very detrimental to the nuclear and even extended family.
@@playhooky perhaps you misinterpreted my response but I wasn’t judging anyone. You also assumed I have never dealt with someone in my family having mental health issues which is incorrect as well. When you say that families are not “healthcare professionals” you’re correct. A family would typically know much more about the patient than a healthcare professional could ever hope to. I get that it’s tough on a family unit, i do. But, There are a lot of free programs out there designed to help families cope and some that are willing to come to you and work inside the home. I know because I’ve been through a lot of them over the last 25 years. Oddly enough, I was the only one in attendance for most of them. Look I’m not passing judgement or professing to know all the answers. Like I said- I just know that what happened here is wrong on a lot of levels.
It's just like any medical system. If you can't pay or prove you can, you're not welcome. The health system in the U.S. is broken. There are so many health and social problems that could be better but no one that can do something cares. Why? Because they don't have to worry about it.
My mom was a Psychiatric RN for 34 years at Southwestern State Hospital here in my hometown Marion, Virginia. I saw and grew up hearing some pretty disturbing things regarding the patient behaviors.. However the sheer incompetence and disrespectful exchanges that I saw here did not go on at Southwestern State, ever I never saw this once. I can hardly believe my eyes and ears.
UNBELIEVABLE! Speechless. Someone please get these institutions running the way they should and help work together with LE to make the intakes easier and a bit more humane. YOU DON'T LEAVE A PERSON JUST HANGING LIKE THAT....PERIOD!
Your outrage is amusing. Where have you been? You think this is bad, just imagine all the individual suffering abuse and neglect by incompetent CNAs, nurses, and administrators in nursing homes across America, especially during the lockdowns when both state and federal governments imprisoned them, preventing their loved ones from checking them for over a year. Thousands wasted away in beds swimming in their own poop, not being changed or turned every one or two hours.
The staff should let him in like ten paperwork; states, they're the ones that have him waiting in the breezeway. No the officer shouldn't of left so soon but it's not his responsibility to babysit him, he did his part.
@@Constitution1789 Now you’re off on a different tangent. Let’s talk about that on a video about that. This is about a unprofessional police officer leaving a minor all alone in between two doors over facility with no adult supervision and shoving the paperwork under the door. Terrible.
I am shocked and disgusted by that facility behavior I think everyone forgets that the children of today are our future and that boy will always remember what happened
Absolutely infuriating!! And I hate that he kept saying “delivering” which is what you do with a package, not a human being who is already struggling. Dehumanizing! People just “doing their job” without actually caring or helping. How do they sleep at night?
This breaks my heart,where has common sense and compassion went these days?? That poor boy didn’t say anything as he stood there he was frightened, then this facility wants to argue w this officer and he argues back and then leaves!!!!! Obviously the kid needed SOMEONE! Why not stay there or find a place that is welcoming or can help him. If this is the way they care for patients,I wouldn’t want him or anyone getting “so to speak help from them” sending lots of lots of love,hugs and prayers to this young man! Please know you are enough and this is a small phase that shall pass! ❤️
This is great. The next time I get pulled over for speeding, I'll just tell the cop my supervisor isn't here and I can't do anything about it and drive off. We'll see how that turns out. (HINT: Really bad for me, I would guess)
Abandonment is a felony, save for if it's done by a god-cop, who are immune from prosecution and well, everything and are required to do nothing whatsoever.
Outrageous disgusting. Where are the pro lifers? Why are churches not opening their doors for children. Stop throwing money at the problem boots on the ground. How vulnerable this young human is when the police can’t even get access to the facility
wow this officer straight up lied to his superior, he didn't know where the boy was he could have walked out right after he left. This cop should lose his job!
Omg. This breaks my heart. That poor kid. He might be a kid whose family and everyone else has always turned their backs on him. You never know the story. How sad.
Clearly the officer should have stayed around to see the outcome HOWEVER the paperwork he had left under the door WAS collected presumably by the staff there and the child had been taken in. Both the facility staff and the officer could have done SO much better for the sake of this young man . Sad
This is outrageous! I suffer from schizoaffective disorder and have been taken to a facility. I cannot IMAGINE being left there like that. What a couple of uncaring, selfish morons! I hope those involved in this pay the consequences they deserve. Young man, I hope you truly get the help you need. Please know that not all of us are as heartless as these two.
It’s a wonder how anyone improves their mental health with these people running these facilities. Mandatory EQ testing before hiring anyone in a position of authority.
I understand we have poor mental health facilities- but why not talk about the fact that we are becoming mentally ill due to outside factors. Our healthcare facilities can’t keep up with the failing health, and what’s sad is pharmaceutical companies, food companies, ect all work hand in hand to keep us sick. Also, officer failed bruh. You aren’t only supposed to go after criminals with this career. You are to serve the community. Went and sat in another parking lot, why not do that with the young man.
When that cop came back and I didn't see this boy my heart panicked. How does the cop know that the boy was taken in if he couldn't get a response from the telephone verifying that??? Disgraceful!!!
That’s what I was thinking, he could have just left after being rejected and left alone. Officer should have made sure the child was definitely taken in 😢
My parents kicked me out at 14 and sent me to a mental health "treatment" facility after they abused me for years and got tired of me. I was abused further, and nearly brainwashed at that facility and I was there 4 years before I turned 18 and left. I truly feel for this kid because these places proclaim to help but usually end up screwing up kids worse than if they'd stayed at home and had a private doctor. As a former LEO this officer should have stayed with his ward the entire time until that door was opened and he was let inside. I'm freaking dumbfounded at how this played out.
In my book, it was abandonment, pure and simple. The facility couldn't accept him, the department said too bad, so even if the building was burning to the ground he had to be accepted by the now enslaved facility. Since they were at loggerheads, he left a minor child in an unsecure location and called it a job well done, but the law rightfully calls abandonment. The lawless enforcement officer's reasoning is, there's a chair right there. If there are no rooms, he's expected to live on a chair. And people wonder why some want to defund such lawless groups!
Everyone’s upset at the Officer and I understand that, however, why didn’t the mental health worker allow him to come in? He had an order to take him there. She’s the responsible party after that, in my opinion. Horrible treatment!!😢
He lied - he has no idea if they took the kid inside. This irresponsible cop needs to be fired immediately for leaving that kid alone and then lying about where he is.
I can tell you if your bringing “anyone” to a locked facility they can’t be left unattended! Ever! Then again I’ve never seen staff refuse a patient! Ever! Both parties are at fault in this case.
I've work as a nurse for over 25 years, many of those years in psych/mental health. And I have never seen an intake like that. Anytime anyone is admitted to a locked facility your have to have a court order. You can be admitted by a DR. but you must get a court order within 72 hours. There are 2 reasons why someone is admitted to a locked mental health facility. The keyword being "locked". One is that you are a danger to yourself, the other is you are a danger to others. Unfortunately, because the patient is a juvenile it is possible that the parents could have influenced the judge in order to get him to sign the court order. I am not saying that is what happened here, just that it does happen. I am assuming that is what the paperwork was (a court order), although I have never quite put the way the officer in the video put it. Regardless, when a Judge does issue a court order to be detained in a mental health facility, there are coordinators that call the facility to make sure there is a bed available and to give an ETA so the nurse can schedule her work in order have time to do an admittance, and a nurse evaluation. It should have been in the officers training that you can't leave someone going into a locked facility alone. It was obviously his first time performing such a duty. So someone should have also told him before hand. As for whoever answered the door she was obviously some untrained person hired because they were understaffed.
The only thing the officer did that he shouldn't have done was to leave the kid in an unsecured area, but that wasn't his fault. I've been through this before and what the lady at the hospital could've been was simply a secretary or some other type of help and she doesn't have the authority to admit this kid. It's OBVIOUS that there is a HUGE breakdown in procedures regarding intake for court ordered holds. If that lady isn't qualified to provide actual care of the patient, that can put LE and the hospital in danger if something happens to him. If he wanders off and gets hurt or commits another offense, the LE is liable. It's really a bit of a nightmare when agencies don't communicate with each other. By the time a parent turns to court for help with their kids, they are desperate, scared and realize they're in over their heads. By the time you're putting them in a hospital, you're broken 💔 and close to crazy yourself. Imagine if they had to call people like that and tell them we misplaced your kid 😳 not good. They need to iron out their procedures before someone gets really hurt
"but that wasn't his fault." dude you said it, the only thing he did wrong was to leave the child unsecured and unsupervised, he did it and of course it is his fault that he did it. As to the underlying problem, I would question whether the home can lawfully operate without a supervisor on site. If the law allows them to operate without a supervisor on site then you change the law to solve the problem.
People are blaming the Officer leaving the minor teen there between 2 door areas, but you have to look at this situation differently. It was the facility's staff member that was ignoring the court order of accepting the teen into the secured building & was "passing the buck" by refusing the teen. At the same time, yes the Officer left the teen in the building, but he did NOT leave the facility's grounds & has a visual on the entrance door.
It doesn't matter that cop is liable leaving a teen in between two doors he could have taken off and he lied about the situation he should have stayed with that teen and waited until it got straightened out that police officer is liable he did not do his job properly
@@nickschwab8983 yes I understand this but a person that has a mental condition being brought into a psychiatric facility is not supposed to be left alone he left that teenager in between the doors and the psychiatric facility did not know this he drove off ended up out of sight it doesn't take much for that teenager to walk out that door in a different direction and he's gone you understand that he could have committed suicide and the cop is off on his high horse not paying attention and being irresponsible about the situation that is no excuse he was being brought in they would have blue papered him since he was being brought in by the police I know I was one of them patients before years ago that cop was very much irresponsible he did not do his job properly
@@nickschwab8983 people should not defend the police when they are incompetent there is many incompetent police officers in this country I know how a police officer is supposed to act due to the fact is I had an uncle in my family that was a police officer any passed away still being a police officer and he was very responsible lot more responsible than that cop that left that minor in between those doors and he could have killed himself it doesn't take much to commit suicide especially when somebody has issues
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That poor kid turned towards the officer as he was walking out. Can you imagine being in such a position that you'd rather the cop put you back in the patrol car and take you with him? I am sad for this young man. He deserves so much more care than he received. Everybody is failing him.
if it was a her ,she would be accepted
@@japdog9 unfortunately you are so right. And these poor kids need help regardless of their gender. I only have sons and can't imagine my child in this situation. This broke my heart.
I would me more pissed at the health care service. The fact that they refused to open the door or even allowed for the kid and officer to step foot inside the building should be investigated. That is what's failing these people not the police.
@@keywestconch8 yes he acted like he wanted help .it upset me when the woman ran away then the cop left him alone , i hope the boy got help . .... i wish i was wrong , its the same in Australia
nobody is attacking the police . police did there job
This is a perfect example of the poor mental health services we have in this Country 😢
Poor police services you mean.
@@JbirdL2233 what did the cop do? Next time the cop should’ve just left the kid to fend for himself
It's no better in Canada, been here 18 years now.
And the poor police services. It was appalling, but no longer surprising.
@@JbirdL2233
Good example of the current social environment of "defund the Police 🚔 "
The most responsible and sane person in this video is the teenager.
I agree with you 100%!!!! How are kids supposed respect the cops if they do things like this?
My heart goes out for kids like this teen. I was like him at one point in my teenage years, I got lucky that one of my family wanted to list and love me.
Bingo !!! You hit the nail on the head . This cop is a pos . At least wait with the kid . You left a mental patient alone with out supervision . If he were to harm himself or others , how could you sleep at night
AMEN
@@NJDRONEMAN No, he didn't "hit the nail right on the head" and the only one that is a POS here is you. It's not the cops fault I don't know if you watched the same video I did but the cop literally says that he is COMMANDED which means by LAW he has to leave the kid there or else he gets in trouble and losses his job for violating his oath he took to uphold the laws of the constitution of the United States. I'm honestly not surprised what you dumb anti-cop losers say anymore you are clearly just nitpicking for any little thing you can hate the police for nowadays and are just a bunch of losers that don't want people to be responsible for their own actions just shut up, please.
@@derek4073 Once again. It's not the cops fault the cop literally stated that he is COMMANDED which means by LAW he has to leave the kid there or else he gets in trouble and losses his job for violating the oath he took to uphold the laws of the constitution of the United States. Also, since you want to talk about "common sense" there is A LOT of that missing in your stupid comment. Also, Judging by your profile picture and account date, you are clearly a troll that has no life and seeks attention on the internet.
I hate how none of them are even talking to the boy. Alone, frightened, no one treating him like a human with feelings. They are treating him like a parcel. 😢
Yes.truly shocking. Poor lad😭
Welcome to America
They do more than that!!!
It’s 0530 in the morning the call probably was around 4ish and they all are tired coming to the end of the shift
@z125bro7 'near the end of your shift' is no excuse for not doing your job well in any job.
THIS is why the mental health system is in need of MAJOR revamping…and why people fall through the cracks
Deinstitutionalization from the system that existed in the 60's has had it's drawbacks, sad to say.
All of the medical systems in the US need a serious overhaul
It needs major funding...
Before de-institutionalizing, mental hospitals were under funded, under staffed, and buildings falling apart.
Hospitals designed to house 500 patients found themselves with over a thousand...
Not to mention the abuse that took place in the institutions...
Government control of healthcare has more to do with this oversight. Yet everyone wants government to take over everything and keep screwing things up.
@@hudsondonnell444 government Healthcare seems to work pretty well for the rest of the world.
That poor young man who's already got issues getting treated like this pisses me off to no end.
AMEN midway
What was wrong with that woman ? Didn't her supervisor leave someone in charge when she left ?
Why didn't that woman at the door look at the paperwork after the officer slid it under the door ?
I wondered of that poor kid was wondering just what kind of place that was that didn't have their ducks in order.
Just didn't seem very professional.
im right there with you.
Even a dog or a cat would realize how worthless others feel they are in this kind of abandonment.
The female at the facility needs to go into another type of work. Possibly S&M cause she has a masochistic nature about her.
You do not leave a child in a lobby by himself,waiting for services for mental health. Do they know how scared he is or how unstable he is? You both are arguing about him in front of him!!. If I was the kid I would feel unwanted by everyone!!!!
That was rather pathetic, wasn’t it. The facility definitely wasn’t doing its job, but that officer never should have left that building without knowing that young man was safely inside the locked doors. There would definitely have been liability on both side if that boy had walked out of that building and did harm to himself. Sadly we live in a world where the people who can make a difference just don’t care.
@@judystine2783 Did you hear the supervisor say piss on them? Makes me ill, I had problems as a kid myself and now I know how the people talked behind my back. Only difference is I would have been gone by the time that cop got back to see if I was still there!
@@hillbillyohio513 I’m sorry to hear you had some problems when you were younger. Hope life is better now. And I’m with you, I would have been outta there in a nano second.
@@judystine2783 It took me a while to get my life straight but everything is great now. I appreciate the kind words and I hope you take care!
@One Culture Love Culture xo The officer, under the theory of PROTECT and serve, had an obligation to PROTECT and SERVE that young man. That was his job at the moment, no matter how long it took.
This is why those who need it most don't ask for help! Disgusting behavior on the part of every adult involved!!
Agree completely!!!
It truly is but from speaking from experience from being a minor and been sent to mental health treatment hospitals multiple times this is sadly normal but sometimes the hospital people and I get sent us too get greeted good sometimes and Ty for speaking up so much and I rlly do agree ❤
This is how psyche facilities operate these days. Callous, narcissistic staff that have absolutely no interest in the patients
100% on the dot!
Disgusting behavior by the mental health facility you mean.
How is it possible for EVERY ADULT in this video to fail this child. Shame on you two for not thinking of this child’s needs!! Just breaks my heart!!!
Agree!
what are his needs?
Child? That's a man!
@@allthatjazz9000 A: His face is blurred out meaning he's a minor. B: The title of the video is "teen dropped off at mental health facility" C: The officer repeatedly referred to him as "The juvenile". Why would you think he's a man?
@allthatjazz9000 a teenager is not a man in america.
I was so heartbroken for the kid. I'm sure he was anxious to begin with then that happened.
I am stunned as well as appalled that this officer would just drive off and leave a vulnerable teenager to fend for himself. My heart goes out to the teenager.
So sick he couldn't even use his 2 braincells to think not to leave a suicidal kid outside the facility. He even sounds brainless
@@brugerper sounds intoxicated too tbh
I'm also stunned at the amount of people agreeing with and defending his actions!!! Like how do you not understand that if you took your child or any minor in your care to a mental facility and this happened and you also chose to leave the child behind that you would be in cuffs in by the end of the day charged with child abandonment and neglect and probably all types of other charges endangering the welfare of a child, abuse, etc!!! This child was under his care and he was responsible for him until another adult waived him of it and willingly took responsibility!!! That paperwork that needed to be signed that his superior asked about which by his tone and response makes it seem like he's lying about getting signed was in my opinion the paperwork of him relinquishing his responsibility and yeah he signed them but no one else did, they also should have been signed by a staff member!!!
He actually didn't. He didn't go too far before he called his superior to advise him of what happened, and immediately returned when told to by his superior, so that the transfer could be made... by FORCING the mental health professional who was supposed to intake him to do her job. She obviously had an attitude when he came back to have her speak to his superior, so that his superior could rake her over the coals, because she came out, took one look, and turned immediately around without one word to him.
@@FrankiWhite730 He was transporting the child to the facility. The facility was supposed to intake the child. He sounds like he may be new and may not know procedure, as this doesn't happen to the majority.
Praying for him and all children suffering that need real support and love! 💙
I’ll cry about this one for days. Can you imagine the terror? You’re a kid. Found the courage to get help. Legally can’t leave. Already want to end your life- you’re critically Ill. And the two people responsible for overtaking your care & wellbeing, as stated & mandated by the law- are treating you like a wrong address Amazon delivery of Amber Heards bedsheets.
For two people so fixated on what their jobs demand of them in this moment, it would seem that they both completely forgot their obligations to patient safety, ethics 101, professional standards & obligations, patient rights.
This is a fight for his life. It was this, or his cold, mottled body stored in the morgue.
What he should have received was “Hey mate- I know you must be Terrified right now. But you’re doing the right thing okay? I know you won’t believe me, & it doesn’t feel like it- but things are going to get better. I’ve seen a lot of people in the same space you are, & they never thought it could get better…and they’re doing really good now.
I’ll be with you the entire time okay? We’ll get you checked in. Make you a warm mug of milo. The nurses are great and will settle you in”.
The nurse should have said “hey darling, welcome. You’re safe now. Are you cold? Do you want a blanket? A warm drink? Have you eaten?”.
Instead. He got this.
Yes we need to focus on the individual police & nurse. But please investigate the hell out of the systemic failures which transpired here. This goes right up the tree, in the police department, in the MH facility.
Strength, love, recovery to this boy. I’m living proof that you can make it, & so are countless others in the comment.
We love you, believe in you, and care for you.
Pick up life’s pen & write your story as you dream it.
A typical pissing competition between two egos. The patient rarely wins. 😔
What the heck is a "warm cup of milo"?
You wrote this beautifully and wish I could have spoken to you as my baby was going through this.
@@suryadas6987 Its only the worlds greatest tea!
My sentiments exactly both of them disgraceful 😡
To hear them arguing about him as if he isn’t there is heartbreaking. Poor kid. Does any of these adult understand that mental health issues isn’t necessarily “trouble“?? My son has been to a mental facility and has never been in trouble for anything and is the quietest kindest kid. Not that “bad” kids deserve less but there is a difference. 😢
Agree wholeheartedly!
And yet we blaming police for this? C’mon now. Is it obvious where system is breaking down and how we blaming the wrong people?
Sadly, most cops in the US have virtually no mental health training, same with other disabilities/differences, especially developmental disabilities and intellectual disabilities.
Although, one would think much of this would just be basic common sense and human decency.
Ditto. And they wonder why are prisons are over housed. In the words of Barney Pfife, "Ya got to nip it, nip it in the bud ". Help them and prevent it rather than punish them after the damage is done.
Cop is obviously not the brightest bulb in the box.
Whole bunch of tax dollars going to that facility, what a waste. Looks like the staff needs more treatment than the teen does.
jeez u weren't kidding
@Nightwatchman 58; I was gonna say the same thing. Those staff members were garbage. The cop guy went beyond the call of duty to lecture and tell the old lady worker that *THEY MUST FOLLOW the Court Order.**The stupid female worker's excuse was that they don't have enough people or proper managers to supervise. Unfortunately this mental health hospital's workplace policy suked badly since it's not the cops job to triage the kid. It was the mental health workers and once handed a *lawfully Court Order document* then it must be *ENFORCED PERIOD.**Hospital policies does not override the land of the law.**It's like having a McDonald's Manager telling a cop that the cop cannot arrest a bad McDonald's employee who just threw hot coffee at the cop due to cop hating.*The Cop legally will have the power to arrest the bad employee PERIOD.**Only difference between my example and the one in this video is that the Judge is the one calling the shots; not the cop or the mental health workers.* Mental health workers fked up.
@@coolgamers2794 OK. Lets say it's a prisoner transfer. The cop would still have a delivery order. He gets to the new facility and the Janitor comes to the door. He says, the intake officer is out at the moment, and he will have to wait. Should he leave the prisoner free at the door? Should he hand him over to the janitor? These people have a chain of custody. If a nurse is not trained or qualified by the institution to accept patients, then she is no different than the jailhouse janitor. Someone must be in custody of the minor at all times. He can't just put the kid in and leave even if he's inside the facility. He would still be the custodian of the kid until he is admitted.
@@dedwardskbd That is the stupidest example ever. No janitor are allowed to open the gates for prison transfer with exceptions of proper direction from guard staff. It's always other prison guards or contracted security officers who will be at the main gates to greet all people. Even if it was a janitor available; the janitor would have to call for a official to open the gates. There is no way any Prison will allow a bus full of convicts to idle freely so the prison guards aren't stupid with how these mental health workers handled this case. In the case for this cop; it was the *Judge* who supersedes the authority of both the cops and mental health worker. It don't matter if the mental health workers don't know how to do their job; they need to execute the *Judge's Order* or that is *obstruction of justice* and the mental health staffs can go to prison for it. The cop guy did his job and that was to deliver the order. Cop is done with his job once he phoned and showed the *Judges Order* to the hospital staff.
@@dedwardskbd are you suggesting that if there is not an intake officer at a prison then no other officer could take custody of or at least supervise a prisoner? So why isn't there anyone at such a large mental health facility that can take custody of or supervise this juvenile?
The lack of compassion is sickening. So glad to report that my experience was so different, and actually positive.
ayyy, what I wanna hear. which facility? just wondering since I might check myself into one and people's experiences scare me quite a bit .... but I try not to get scared by the stuff they say. last rehab I went to the reviews were HORRIBLE, my experience was good and bad but I didn't nearly die like I'd been expecting to
This is absurd that a Mental health facility doesn’t have someone on staff 24/7 to intake patients. Not acceptable!
I agree! That woman there was pea-brained robot. Lazy damned workers wouldn't even come to the door the 2nd time.
One thing I don't understand is why this was being done at 5:00 a.m. It should have happened during business hours.
@@maryreynolds8568 It's a mental health facility, they don't have business hours. In your scenario, what would happen if the facility closed at 8 pm and someone needed help 10 minutes later? An hour is a long time for someone who is in crisis to wait, and making them wait 12 hours for any kind of help would simply be inhumane.
@@maryreynolds8568 It's a medical facility. Their business hours are 24/7 just like a hospital. Mental health breakdowns and emergencies can't be timed to a 'better time' for staff. They happen when they happen. This is of no fault of the boys. This medical facility should have been better staffed and prepared for any and all incoming patients at any hour. With that being said, the police shouldn't have just left him there in their lobby either. This boy was suffering a mental health crisis and shouldn't have been left alone, period. Let alone abandoned. The ball was dropped by both parties but the obligation to the boy ultimately falls on the health facility.
There is something sickening to me about that kid being taken to this place, they rejecting him, then the cop abandoning him. Not knowing the issue so far I just want to reach out and take the kid in my arms.
What? He didn't even want to be there that's why he ran
It is happening everyday in America. Abandoned youth under 18.
Until he stabs ya
Imagine it!
Forcibly removed from his home through a legal order…
Denied entry…
Witnessing two adults arguing, not wanting to have to deal with you…
Abandoned outside…
This is how they steal your inheritance.
That poor kid. I couldn't even imagine what it felt like to be dropped off like that. I'm almost in tears with this video.
Same
What she did was completely wrong. But as a parent of a child with complex behavioral issues, I can totally see how people can get to where they feel like they have no other choice. Pediatric mental health is GROSSLY underfunded and parents are left in situations with mentally ill children that sometimes are a threat to the entire family and there’s just no help available.
Imagine being told that if you “drop off” your violent child who has been making threats against siblings and parents, you’ll be charged with child abandonment.
At the same time, if that child for whom you can get no help, hurts any of his/her siblings, you will lose custody of the other children for not providing them a safe environment. If happens, every day, in the US.
Update: I rewatched the beginning of the video. #1 If any parent would have done this, that cop would have been called to arrest them for abandonment. #2 It can take days or even a week for a bed to open up. Then you need to make sure it is the right one. Not a literal bed but a place in the program, a.k.a. a bed. These aren't shelters where you stick people for the night where ever you can fit them. Some have them by gender or age or issue. A chair in a waiting room is NOT an option. #3 Even here we have to go through the ER. All states have that process as far as I am aware. Last time we did so we were in the room with another juvenile who had been brought there by cops and was waiting (by herself) till a bed opened up somewhere. They are not taken straight to a facility. There are evaluations, paperwork, tests.
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I am in tears watching this video.
@Clairez
EXACTLY! Have been in that situation. Bought back all the super hard feelings of the first time we had to use short term residential. So many feelings of helplessness, lonliness, failure, wanting to hug the issues away but knowing more was needed, watching someone take your baby away and not being able to go as well.
Currently still looking for help. Have been warned of "you will be charged with Child Abandonment if you do/not do xyz" while literally was asking for help and doing a full-time job's worth of effort to find resources; more than "let's see what we can do to help as we are the professionals who work in this field and have contacts." If we don't find help then we risk getting in trouble for not keeping the other kids/people safe which would be child endangerment and we could be charged as well. D*mned if you do. D*mned if you don't. But no worries there are resources out there if you were to have asked. (That was sarcasm.)
"Why didn't they get the kid help before this?!" No one wants to hear how help was actively being sought but they were turned away or denied or asked to pay thousands a DAY as insurance wouldn't cover it. Not many people can afford to buy a brand new car every month while still paying for last months brand new car and preparing to buy another new one next month.
@@sukru6797 so u want the cop to be his parent???
Y ojalá nunca le toque
You know what's the most upsetting. This kid wanted to end his life, no family there, but the two there that were supposed to show him that love, showed him once again his fears of no one caring. Ahit breaks my heart.
How do you know he was suicidal?
@@divahc1he didn't seem delusional psychotic or schizo. So most likely depressed or suicidal
This is my reality now.
@@smokyquartz5817are you ok? You are worth so much, and a human being that deserves so much love. Unfortunately, like me, some of us feel unloveable. But that isn’t the truth. Be kind to yourself ~
What the actual F*CK?!?!? This is disgraceful! Absolutely disgraceful!!! As the mother of an adult son who has been suffering from schizophrenia for 21 years, since the age of 17, this makes me physically ill and so pissed off I can't see straight. I have had my fair share of dealing with police, the courts, and the mental health system in regard to my son's illness over the years, and I can tell you they are like all other human beings. There are good ones and there are bad ones. That he just drove off and left this kid there is unconscionable and beyond my comprehension. And then he lied! He had no idea if that boy was inside or not!
That cop was dumb as a box of rocks and it frosts my ass that he left him there also.
Absolutely
The hospital shares just as much blame.
I think the officer is or at least should be in trouble. Schizophrenia is horrible. I know because I survived it. It doesn’t go away overnight.
After watching this video I did some searching for news follow up and Virginia law and their practices with carrying out an emergency psychiatric evaluation order (called a TDO in VA). Couldn't find anything definitive, but seemed to say a physical health evaluation was required before admittance to a psychiatric hospital. In my many dealings with emergency evaluations (all in Maryland), most of them court ordered after filing a petition requesting them, the court order was given to the county police who then carried it out. He was always taken to the nearest hospital emergency room where he was checked physically with basic health evaluation, including urine sample to check for any drugs, and also by psychiatric personnel. They review his current mental state and the behavior reported that caused the judge to issue the emergency eval order. Then they would find where there was a bed available at a psychiatric facility and transfer him there. There were times there were NO beds available anywhere and he would stay at the ER until they can find one. Showing up directly at a psychiatric facility with a court order just wasn't done. And I wondered at the manner in which this order was carried out in this video, by just showing up at their door the way they did. Regardless, the officer should have never left ANYbody, let alone a juvenile, who was under a court ordered emergency eval standing outside the locked doors of a psychiatric facility. Period!
The officer lied he's not in a secured area he's in between the doors of an entry and they're refusing this child into the facility. What's he supposed to do go to sleep in between the doorways there's no bathroom no water. Both those adults were acting like children
The officer told his supervisor the boy was not in a secure area. He used the term "lobby" because he didn't know it was called a sally port.
@@gribble2979 Actually it is called a vestibule. The outer doors were not locked. I do believe sally ports lock both sets of doors independently.
How ?
You’re correct, the cop did lie. Plus he sounds like a complete doofus. Spouting all this crap about the “constitution“ was completely laughable. Constitution has nothing to do with that. Presumably he had an order signed by a judge/magistrate, and I don’t know if the order actually is binding on the hospital to accept the child or if it’s just binding on the cop to deliver him to the hospital basically giving him permission to force the kid to go to the hospital.
Well one wasn’t because they let the kid in.
You can’t leave a kid in mental crisis in a unsecured area. He shouldn’t leave until a solution was found. And all I heard was “yes sir” “thank you sir” after he called his boss
B.s... Cop fulfilled his duty.
Cult...
@@ipman4715 No? It is a minor who was under the officers control until he was released to a secure facility. We do not know yet why the nurse did not let him in right away. But until that is situated, the child is under the officers control. Why is that so hard to understand? This is a minor.
You realize that getting hospitalized is a disqualification from the military, he could have escaped before they got him in the medical records , tons of people get lied on for having suicidal thoughts
Right! It's like dropping your own child off at a friend's house or a date back home, you don't leave untill you see them going inside, officer seen no such thing, kid could have bolted.
It drove me crazy when officer kept getting back in his vehicle to leave.
Don't leave until you have confirmation child is inside
As someone who was abandoned in a hospital by a family I was staying with and being transferred to a hospital 3 hours away... it was so traumatic and I feel so sorry for this child. he was so peaceful. I hope he gets the help he needs. i truly hope he is alright today. No one deserves to be just left.....
They should be investigating the mental health facility
And the lying cop.
Clayton Blanchard lets see you out there in the cops shoes and see if you do better…I doubt it with your stupid statement..
@@claytonblanchard4451 what did he lie about? lmao
@@claytonblanchard4451 did you not watch the video?? The cop said the kid was in the lobby and not actually inside
The poor boy. To be treat this way if he didn't feel like an unwanted child before he would of done then 😭
Exactly
My thoughts as well.
doors are locked, he couldnt get out
You’re exactly right !!
@@jolenehendrickson8915 11:23 I think they were unlocked
The poor kid is just left hanging?
How is this even possible?
This is unacceptable and totally uncaring. It made the kid feel like discarded trash.
@@Pahrump I think I heard her say that they didn't have a bed available.
@@tijuanachaplin313 but they got tons of rooms and help for those crossing the border and being care of,,and we're paying for it but not for this boy that was probably born in the USA the system is corrupt.
We have 8? hospitals in my town. And in the ER you can wait in the waiting room, hooked up to an IV, waiting for as much as 24hrs for an ER or hospital bed because a mental patients are waiting for mental health beds...they can be there for days, until they get a bed, walk out, or simply released. After this last 2 years it must be 5 times worse.
@@kat369-mine Three or four years ago my State closed one of the two State psych facilities and contracted out to the private sector. This matter here is a pity. The hospital staff member is being uncooperative. I can't imagine a medical patient being forced to sit in the lobby with an IV ... omg....
@@baronedipiemonte3990 clearly you haven't been to an ER lately. My mil was taken in by ambulance. They put her in a wheelchair and wheeled her into the waiting room where she waited 12 hours to be seen
I’m never talking about my mental health with a doctor again. I’ve been there, it’s worse than jail.
If the staff are violating a court order, the correct course is to arrest the staff member. The fact that this would probably involve lots of lawyers, the media, and mountains of paperwork is why this correct procedure was not followed. If you or I violated a court order, we would be in handcuffs.
based
Fire the cop. He left a child unsecured. Poor decision making skills.
@@kevincinnamontoast3669 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
The lady at the hospital was certainly not violating the court order in any way. The court order the policeman was waving around only covered the initial detention, supervision, transfer and 'handover of care' to the medical facility. The lady at the hospital clearly explained that she could not accept care of the patient on her own and that a colleague was coming in to assist. The child therefore remains in the policeman's legal care until the point at which the hospital accepts transfer of care from the policeman. As soon as the policeman removed himself from the child's care he was himself breaching the court order, committed dereliction of duty and is certain to face a disciplinary process. It would have been illegal for the lady to initially accept care of the child directly from him as she was unqualified to do so. However, as soon as the policeman decided to abandon the child and leave him unsupervised this allowed the lady to let the child enter the building at her own risk under hospital protocol. I hope this explanation makes sense - it is why the policeman is more likely to be in handcuffs and definitely not the lady at the hospital who acted appropriately throughout this incident. I have worked in both juvenile and adult Mental Health Services for many years dealing with compulsory and voluntary admissions and we usually try to use ambulance services for patient admissions as they know what they are doing.
@@kevincinnamontoast3669 The nurse was there at the door.
This cop tells his supervisor that the woman took the child in, but he wasn’t there and he doesn’t know that. The child could very easily have left. 🤬
I thought that too!! He lied or parts of that was edited out
I think he could see the boy in there
Huh? You can see the kid inside the facility.
Cops tend to LIE when they are put on the spot! I realized that when a state trooper swore to tell the truth in court before a judge & from the moment she opened her mouth she lied. referring to a traffic stop she had pulled me over for…..she wanted me to just say I was guilty before we went in front of the judge I told her no!
Wow! What a liar! Love how the cop failed to mention that he already left the boy there. Then he lied again when he said they came and got the boy. He doesn't entirely know that this kid didn't walk out as soon as the police vehicle was out of sight! So sad! I feel sho badly for this child!
I really hope that this teen is able to get the help that is needed. So many teens are having trouble coping these days and some are making really bad decisions.
The officer not only remained on the grounds to ensure the young man was taken in, but went back to the state hospital lobby phone and attempted to call the attendant to verify within minutes intake started. In doing so, the Officer laid eyes on the young man inside the building behind a secure door and an employee within sight as well. After this the Officer marked out clear to return back to Covington from Staunton, where the state hospital is
Your missing the whole point of the video!! This officer had no idea if the teen was taken into the facility or if the teen left the building?!!! Then he lies to his boss saying "YES" they took the teen inside because he supposably saw this happen when its obvious the cop did NOT see this happen!! Theres a reason why his boss asked if the cop signed the papers, by signing the papers this cop is liable for the well being of this teen, and the cop knows this but lied about his whereabouts saying he saw the lady take him in!! LIES!! How scary is this!!
@@charmans133 Who said he DID NOT see him inside the locked area? We can not see what is behind the LARGE poster on the left door but he could. I saw sone movement from the area at the bottom of the poster that looked like a hand or arm of someone sitting in a chair.
@notfiveo He was in the custody of the nurse when the officer left she had the paperwork.
@@charmans133 where is this at? ( Covington, kentucky ) ??
How unprofessional of this facility either way!
That is unacceptable
That damn cop needed to stay with the young boy...
No Matter What!
If that rude lady didn't take him in.
This young boy would've easily walked out and who knows WHAT could've happened to him.
Seeing this young boy like that, and to be treated like that.
Is heartbreaking.
Disgusting to both of them.
Prayers for this young man✝️
Lay Crisis Counselor/First Responder 45yrs in Seattle area! I disagree! The officer did his job, the facility did not, & the gal is very rude!
It's this officer's duty to remain with that juvenile who is in his CUSTODY until he's accepted and signed for. This boy isn't going to get help at this place, and the new coat of damage has just been layered on
To be honest i wouldn't drive away till i see her take him in. He could of ran out the front door and be missing.
@@cristineconnell7803maybe so but leaving that kid alone? And he was left alone! Not safe. 😑😬
Maybe life in a foyer is better than inside a building with nurse Ratchet. What a nasty cow.
Imagine the fear and anxiousness of just entering one of these places under normal circumstances but then to be rejected by the woman that's suppose to help you and abandoned by a peace officer just to stand there with no where to go would be traumatizing.
“peace” officer my a**….
So what I take from this as I look from that child's point of view ..... "No Body gives a Shit about me"
Story of my life and many others like him . There are places your held to the floor by 5-8 people cause child got “uppity” . Years ago it was this and worse . Seems systems don’t change
@@maxzomick8733 As rough as the BS you went through, glad your still with us Max. May you persever and prosper in your adventure in life brother.
My heart breaks for any human feeling like that... may God keep those who feel unwanted 💙💙💙
Yeah man, when you try to imagine the situation from the view from the child... It's really really heartbreaking.
This is why so many people are scared to ask for help. That is including children as well as adults.
Someone at that facility needs firing and a investigation needs to be conducted as to the efficiency of that place. Disgusting and unprofessional, I hope tax money is not supporting this dump, what a typical example of government responsibility.
Everyone visible but the teen should be in trouble. "Fire them all and let the court sort it out."
Of course or HARDEARED taxes are paying for this disgusting place 🙄
You know our taxes pay for this place or it wouldn't be there for a court to order him to go there I don't think the court can order someone picked up and dropped off at a privately funded facility
@@claytonblanchard4451 Not the officer he left the child in the care of the NURSE after giving her the paperwork
The nurse or mental health worker fked up. Cops are only obligated to serve orders or junctions; not to babysit. Once the female worker saw the child and saw the order in hand; she had to comply. If she just left the kid hanging; she is now liable since the Cop already informed the female worker as well as all supervisors in charge. No matter who you are whether a government worker, Private store owner, public worker, garbage man, teacher, etc; if you are handed a lawfully court order to enact a specific task then you must comply. Doing so is obstruction of justice. The nurse lady will be 100 percent FIRED and not the nurse supervisor since the nurse supervisor is going to save her own butt instead of the low level female nurse.
Cop lied. The boy wasn't in the lobby. He is responsible until another takes over. The lady refused and he should not have walked away. Irresponsible piece of trash.
He explained clearly that he was "between the two doors". However, he should not have left him there!
The nurse was unable to take him in until there was a professional provider there. The nurse if not the piece of trash in this situation.
@@JbirdL2233 ; Well the cop isn’t. He clearly stated that the judges order was that he be taken to THAT facility. EXACTLY what the cop did and the nurse refused that order. In fact, she could care less.
the first "lobby" was not secured
I do not see the boy in the lobby anymore-
My heart goes out. Ive struggled with this when I was younger, i remember the feeling. God bless this boy
I have Institutional abuse due to the mental healthcare and the horrors I’ve seen, and went through. I will NEVER BE THE SAME!
My heart is with you.
@@isabellrc it sucks so many parents just stuck their kids here because they didn’t want them or too take care of them and we all know this place is where they test on people and treat them horrible. I’m so sorry you two went through this and anyone going through it. 😓😓
@@user-qk7lh4wl6e We in the US can and should do faaaar better in assuring we have a top notch mental healthcare system, which has well regarded in/outpatient services for ALL! Vetted professionals before hiring. The list is endless!
Same 😢
For those who want an update: internal affairs did an investigation and concluded the officer "acted in good faith" the officer also claimed that he only got in his car and drove out of sight from front door, but he never actually left the premises so he didn't "technically" abandon child. I could not find any information on the child or their current wellbeing, only that they were 16 at the time of this video. Because they were a minor, their identity was not made public.
Of course internal affairs found nothing wrong!
Man, I hope this facility isn’t connected with Carilion!
G-d knows who he is..
Uh his own camera caught his lie of not leaving the facility!!
I'm completely stunned. Why did the officer drive away, instead of staying parked and watching over the young man at the very least? I hope he's ok, prayers for the young man. 🙏🏼
@@elliesmith8139 💯
The officer told his superior that they came and got the young man, and picked up the court order he had slipped under the door. He had a COURT ORDER to deliver the young man to that address. He had no other option than take him there. You should listen to the conversation before vilifing the police officer.
@@leahjones8514 recently, the tv station updated this situation, the police dept investigated further. 'Vilify' is a strong word. I don't vilify anyone unless they deserve it. The officer stayed around the vicinity. The center was short-staffed, and it wasn't handled correctly. Regardless, it was stressful for the young man, period.
@@leahjones8514 He was also responsible for making sure he was secure before leaving him and he failed to do that! Don't make excuses for the bad seeds of law enforcement, Karen.
@@leahjones8514 Absolutely!
As a teen who was put in a mental health facility, I remember how scared I was back then. This video brings it all back 25 years later
I’m very sorry you went thru your traumas. We live in a created society that should teach compassion at the forefront but does not.
Hey ♥️ I’m so sorry, for everything hiu endured & went through. I went into a facility at 23 & I’ve honestly never been so terrified in my entire life. I was extremely lucky to have a neighbour- who I hardly knew- that I was able to call..she took her day off work as a charge nurse to drive me there, check me in, get me settled- it was a 3 hour round trip for her.
It was a time when I had _nobody_ I could call on. I’ll never forget her kindness.
Actually, I’m going to write her a thank you letter, and take it out to her (I’ve since moved). She was instrumental in saving my life.
The courage that you showed, that your trauma demanded of you to endure & survive 25 years ago, and thrive ever since, is more than what most people will ever show in their lifetimes.
Never forget your absolute strength & resiliency, and your ability to pick up life’s pen at any moment & write your story as you dream it.
I’m sending you love & healing.
In Florida they would put you in with adults. I was around 10 years old and it was a crazy experience
@@ScoobyDoozy what a beautiful woman to help you in your time of need. I bet she will love a letter. I’m proud of your strength and compassion. I also had no one when I went in. Say there for weeks alone. All because my mother didn’t believe what her husband was doing to me. Until the detectives cut up my bedroom and got the rape kit results. Only then did she come and visit me with some lame letter about how she’s “sorry she didn’t believe me”. Nobody wanted to face the brutalities I had been living. All these years later I still don’t have a relationship w my “family”. But I have become a mother myself and love and protect my children the way I should’ve been. Thank you so much for your kind words. Thank you for connecting w me. You are an amazing warrior. Sending you so much love 💜💙
I am sorry that happened to you♥️
Yeah, the employee of the facility was absolutely at fault here. The officer did his job, attempted to reason with her holding a legal order and she walked off.
The officer lied to his superior though. No woman came to the door and looked out at him, and he implied that he saw the woman let the boy in the door.
@@decafjnr the woman came to the door at 12:56, she was wearing blue scrubs and peeked around the corner, the officer pointed at her with his phone. She immediately walks off.
@@TheDuddy99 BS
@@claytonblanchard4451 Haha, BS? What are you having a hard time with Clayton? I laid it out pretty plainly and even linked the time stamp. If you have a learning disablility that is making hard for you to understand, let me know, and I'll try to explain it more simply.
@@decafjnr um he slid the papers under the door.
WHERE ARE his parents??? Why is he just being dumped on their doorstep like a bag of trash? Disgusting!
When taken for mental, the parents cannot bring child themselves. They can't even follow or see the child till days later. 😢
Dude this is exactly why people refuse help. Like I don't wanna die, I just can't live like this. Good God. That poor kid.
Exactly
My son was ivcd and he is not suicidal just depressed severe anxiety and idk where this is but avoid holly hills hospital in Raleigh nc at all costs!! If you havd a choice which we didnt
Please follow up on this case. Don’t abandon the teen. Fight for him and demand answers and justice. Please keep us posted! Thank you!
I agree, please follow up....the Officer and Staff should both be reprimanded .....
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I'm surprised the officer thought it was ok to just leave him. He could've walked off and taken his own life. It's not like the officer had anything else to do. He should have put the child back in his car and made the call that he did.
I’ve been in your shoes young man, it doesn’t get easier. I’ve learned to cope. Sending prayers and love. I’ve been in this same situation and my heart breaks for you
hey. it does. i've also been in these shoes, and it does get easier. not because you can always rely on other people to get what you're going through, but because you learn what to expect. you learn to read yourself. you learn how to help yourself, and who to reach out to if you can't. and as you get older, you're able to react differently.
i understand if you're in pain - i am too. but let's not tell kids there's no hope. it's cruel and unhelpful. if someone told me when i was seventeen "it doesn't get easier," i would not be alive today. i would have given up.
if you're feeling hopeless, please reach out to your local suicide hotline. the world is so full of so many beautiful things and you're one of them. the world would be worse without you in it.
@@zubetpOh my God, you brought tears to my eyes with your compassion and positive energy. Thank you, definitely need you in this world ❤🙏🏾
Don't worry Jordan, it may help make it easier when you find your passion or even a hobby that redirects your attention when those feelings or bad thoughts come over you. I hope you continue to seek positive outlets 🙏🏾
@@zubetp i'm 33 now. it doesn't get better.
I know he’s trying to “do his job” but a human especially a child should never become a professional pissing contest of “just doing my job”.
Regardless of going back and regardless of them taking him inside that child was openly subjected to the embarrassment and ridicule of just being disposable and unwanted.
I work in these places and this is exactly why we have communities of hateful broken apathetic people
It’s illegal for him not to follow the judges order ma’am.
@@TallMichelleWithTheLongHair yes that’s true, it’s also correct to stay with a juvenile until that child is responsibility signed over to another responsible legally ordered adult.
Many things are legal but not ethical.
Being left in that area he can't go to the bathroom or get water.
@@TallMichelleWithTheLongHair I’m a judge and if you think this is following a court order you need to seek a better education, generally and regarding the judiciary. A minor cannot be left that way, technically unsupervised. The facility didn’t accept him yet the cop left. He didn’t communicate to the boy at all, just walked out. If this judge was shown this video, that officer would be held in contempt of my court because he didn’t come close to “doing his job.” He is the agent of the state, into whose temporary custody the child has been placed. He’s lucky he isn’t charged for abandonment or neglect so say nothing of professional charges like failure to discharge duties properly. It’s deeply disturbing to me that you think this could be anyone doing their job.
@@fashiondiva6972 It’s deeply disturbing to me that you would say that she needed a better education. You don’t know what her level of education is lady and you’re not better than her because you’re a judge. I highly doubt you’re a judge anyways (Fashion Diva). I’m sure there’s nothing fashionable about you and I doubt you’re a diva as well. If you are a judge you should be ashamed of yourself for speaking on someone else’s level of education. That is just not okay!
💔 I just want to wrap my arms around this boy and make him feel safe! I know he must be scared and confused. That officer was talking about him like he was a package to be delivered! Disgusting behaviour from both the officer and the woman who turned him away!
I truly hope the boy got the help he needed and deserved. 💜
I don't know what he has gone through but if its verbal abuse and bullies then i would tell him that it indeed " Gets better ".
Man this was heartbreaking to watch. You can tell the way he was acting plus turning towards the cop when he left the young man was just sad. I hope he got the help he needs.
Do you really think that he did?
@@jeynjohnston8085 Hopefully the manager at least had some sense. 🙄
@@jeynjohnston8085praying he did. We can't say everyone's bad in that mental health facility or police department bc of these two idiots
This cop had no proof the child was inside and didn't run off. He was lying through his teeth. Disgusting.
As a Mother to a child who's been hospitalized twice, this broke my heart. Bless this poor babies heart. I had my fair share of MHI (mental health institutions) One of the worst of the worst is in Leesburg, VA called North Springs. You may have seen me go viral over the fight I took to get my child out of that facility. How it is still in operation is beyond me. Thankfully, SW VA ERs have taken that facility OFF their transfer list due to us!
My God, the LEO just left that boy 😳😲 If that was my child, I would have flipped out! Also, If I was thay child I most likely would have bolted when he left.
please investigate the hospitals before sending them. They can be REAL bad. Some of them aren't.
Wow! Good for you!! That's awesome!!!
I realize this was a year ago but can you give me the information in your viral so I can watch it
I fell so bad for that boy, talking about him like he wasnt there, arguing over who gets him, tossing him back and forth like a hot potato. All he needs is help and for someone to actually care about his well being. I wish him luck and love in the world looks like he's going to need it. 😢
Exactly! Like he’s not even there “you’re problem” 😪 that witch couldn’t even be bothered to open the door to speak.😡
Sounds familiar.. sounds just like a typical dysfunctional divorced "family".
What is stopping you from finding him?
Before dropping the teen and leaving, the officer should have called his supervisor. It's terrible, and if anything bad occurred to the teen, he should have been held accountable.
What a very quiet & patient teenager who should be praised for maintaining his composure. Lad should be well proud of himself.
After reading all the comments I watched as far as the officer trying to let her know he had paperwork and was dropping him off. She continued being a jerk! My adopted siblings came from foster homes and facilities. The sadness I saw in those places. Kids fighting back but it made you wonder why? Sedated by meds. So many of them. The youngest I saw was a 7 or 8 year old. Just broke my heart. So little among older kids. I pray for them. I pray this young man can get the love and support he needs to overcome. God be with him and so many children. ❤
As a former Deputy of 15 years, I would have called my supervisor before just getting back in my unit and leaving. He left a mentally I’ll child in an unsecured area, where he could just walk away and anything that happened would be on HIM the LE.
@One Culture Love Culture xo keep making excuses for incompetent police work. No wonder this profession is in the mess it’s in. Through propaganda people worship and stick up for the police and military no matter what they do and look what we have to show for it.
Exactly, it's common sense.
@One Culture Love Culture xo The officer was required toi hand the boy over securely which clearly did not happen . He acknowledged I need to get the boy to the seat behind this door ! Said fuck it and acknowledged it again when talking to his superiors ! Then had to go back and make sure he did not lie !
Who created this problem? Also, what is the officers obligation?
@@Cincy_Kid I don't think you have worked a day in your life. You see, people have duties and responsibilities in their jobs. Responsibilities have a beginning and an end. The officers responsibility beings at responding to the call and ends by him dropping off the subject at the institution; and that is where the responsibility of the institution begins...do you see how the world works? Duties and responsibilities. It is not his duty nor his responsibility to sit there and play father or social worker. He did his job. You know who didn't do their job? The "Nurse" who literally closed the door on a mentally ill person which they are supposed to treat. They are the ones who should be sued for medical malpractice for 1. refusing to treat a sick patient at their door step 2. neglecting and putting in harms a minor 3. breaching a probably lawful order / contract which the officer seems to have in his hand.
I dont know who is at fault legally , but morally both are in the wrong, the safety of the kid is, or should, be paramount to both.
I agree with you 100%!! That child shouldn't have been left there all alone while this lazy ass cop calls his Sgt. So irresponsible!! I hope the kid ran outta the unlocked door!!!!
@@leahsyl81 - All I'd fault the cop for is moving away from the door when he called his supervisor. He should have sat right outside the door making that call so he could be sure the kid didn't run off. Most of the blame is with the hospital staffer.
@@sienile The officer's responsibility was to "deliver"the kid to the facility. That didn't happen. Dumping the kid at the entrance doesn't count.
@@worrywart1311 - He brought him there and alerted the staff of the court order. The staff was being negligent to their duty, not the officer.
@@sienile It was the officer who deliberately left him unattended and would have been in trouble had something bad happened to the boy if he had wandered off or simply disappeared. Frankly, the man doesn't seen very bright. Contact with someone in authority at the hospital should have been made before arrival so that if there were no beds other arrangements could have been made.
This whole event is a training and procedure issue. Everyone involved needs to be addressed and follow the procedure in place. This officer should have never driven away and kept the teen in his sight while calling his supervisor.
Yup despicable behavior. Do we really know the boy was let in or was he lying for sure on the third call?
Here is a kid needing help and being left by the adults, shameful.
officer followed state issued instructions mental health lady did not
Just from his body language, you could tell he felt alone, in this world. He needs to know people love him. He needs to know Jesus loves him. My heart goes out to him, no matter what the charges are, against him. Where is Sheriff Bob Fletcher, when you need him.
@@abundantlyclear The officer did a FANTASTIC job with him it was the NURSE who took a oath to DO NO HARM and didn't follow it by leaving a CHILD in need if help in a lobby when she was ordered by a court to help him.
Tell that to the nurse who outright REFUSED to let them in. She was legally, contractually and morally obliged to do so. She was uncooperative, against her oath, against a lawful order / contract. But yeah, just blame the police because the description of this video told you to do so. I love how common some people's senses are. Unbelievable.
Wtf?! You can’t just leave him there without making sure he’s inside! That boy is in that cop’s custody until he is in someone else’s custody!
This is so incredibly sad! This boy needs help and he is getting tossed out and left behind because……why? Why? We have some serious issues with how we (as a country) care for those with mental health issues.
No. Not as a country. It's government facilities. All around. In case you haven't seen, the govt sucks at everything it does
Mental hospital is basically prison without being convicted
This is heartwrenching and tragic. What a terrible way for this child to be treated. Zero regard for his well-being or safety. It is infuriating. I pray that he was able to get the help he needs to start healing.
This cop doesn’t sound too bright and almost fearful of his superiors, he does seem to be kind observing this video only
to be polite is not yo be bright??? awesome!!!! LOL
I thought so too or he was being the biggest "teachers pet" known to man lol
@@charlyperez1636 Heavily slowed and semi-slurred speech has nothing to do with manners or being polite, no matter how many times you say "yes sir / no ma'am". The cop was exhibiting a lot of behavior that suggests he was in some sort of altered mental state. My work history and experience in the recovery / mental health field tells me it's highly likely the officer had acute benzo intoxication. It makes a lot of sense, because a large portion of law enforcement officers are prescribed anxiolytics like Xanax and Klonopin due to the nature of the job. I'm not going to assume he has a prescription drug problem, but I'm almost certain the way he's acting is caused by an excessive amount of CNS depressants.
The officers supervisor should have been requested to come out and take over, that releases the officer from something like this happening and the Supervisor then has to deal with it, go up the chain of command. The youngster was caught in the middle and there needs to be a review of procedures to insure this doesn't happen again.
The officer NEVER left the property by going outside and driving a few feet he made the hospital staff DO THEIR JOBS
Why? The supervisor has his own duties at the station. The court may have overstepped by ordering him there at night, the officer should have stayed until it got sorted out, the attendant should have complied with the court order. There's plenty of blame to go around here.
@@johnkidd1226 Nurses are not called attendants.
@@63076topher Who said she was a nurse? Attendant is the term applied to most mental health facility workers who do not have a professional designation.
@@johnkidd1226 The stethoscope i saw around her neck.
I dealt with this too except my abusive parents had me thrown in a mental health facility by lying claiming I was suicidal. I had never experienced that at all, just got tired of their abuse and I would usually fight back verbally. I didn’t mind being put in the facility because it gave me a break from the abuse, unfortunately it was only a week. I had even told teachers and called CPS and no one would rescue me.
Yup
This is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO My friend. AND her MOM GAVE THE STAFF AT THE ASYLUM FAKE CONTACT INFO AND MOVED HOUSES WHILE she WAS IN THERE. SHE THEN ABANDONED her. She was homeless 3 years after that. DCF allowed her mom to abandon her because of the fake suicide/drug claims and the DCF lady didn't even verify if the mom had a safe place set up for her daughter to go (she didn't.)
CPS literally doesnt give a fuck about children.
I believe you.
Same dude x-x
I've seen police officers being kinder to criminals.
The reason people don’t ask for help when they’re having a mental health crisis, is often due to feeling like they’re not seen or loved.
Both this cop, and the woman behind closed doors, just failed this young man.
I remember this exact feeling. I was terrified with an anxiety disorder. All it did was make this worse. Worst experience I’ve ever had in my life and it will always stay with me.
Idiot
@@blind_surgeon -_-
Why exactly? Honestly asking.
Hope your doing well.
@@terriecampbell9936 you're *!!!
This is a perfect example of why we have so many mentally ill patients in our streets. Facilities don’t have room, police don’t have time, and unfortunately, the patient is the only one who suffers. I don’t know the answer but I know what happened here isn’t part of it. Until these peoples families take some responsibility, it’s just going to get worse. And I’m not saying ALL families but as a former cop I know that most families don’t want to deal with the burden and they’d rather them just live on the streets. Sad
I'd say in almost all cases, their families have tried everything they can to responsibly deal with the "burden" of their child or loved one's mental health problems - but they are not trained mental health professionals. I speak as someone who has personally dealt with my adult child with mental health problems; I had to set boundaries and could no longer accept her behavior when living with me, yet I was worried sick every day when she was on the streets &/or couch surfing at times that she wouldn't or couldn't get into an inpatient facility - and there is a huge lack of them that will accept patients on medicaid/public aid. You sound like you have not had the burden of having to personally go through this & are just passing judgment saying you think most families don't want to deal with it & rather let them live on the streets. As a parent who has gone through it, I can attest it is a living nightmare and is very detrimental to the nuclear and even extended family.
@@playhooky perhaps you misinterpreted my response but I wasn’t judging anyone. You also assumed I have never dealt with someone in my family having mental health issues which is incorrect as well. When you say that families are not “healthcare professionals” you’re correct. A family would typically know much more about the patient than a healthcare professional could ever hope to. I get that it’s tough on a family unit, i do. But, There are a lot of free programs out there designed to help families cope and some that are willing to come to you and work inside the home. I know because I’ve been through a lot of them over the last 25 years. Oddly enough, I was the only one in attendance for most of them. Look I’m not passing judgement or professing to know all the answers. Like I said- I just know that what happened here is wrong on a lot of levels.
Facts
This is why people should have to test to be parents.
It's just like any medical system. If you can't pay or prove you can, you're not welcome. The health system in the U.S. is broken. There are so many health and social problems that could be better but no one that can do something cares. Why? Because they don't have to worry about it.
My mom was a Psychiatric RN for 34 years at Southwestern State Hospital here in my hometown Marion, Virginia. I saw and grew up hearing some pretty disturbing things regarding the patient behaviors.. However the sheer incompetence and disrespectful exchanges that I saw here did not go on at Southwestern State, ever I never saw this once. I can hardly believe my eyes and ears.
... and I haven't even mentioned this poor kid yet!
This broke my heart to see this kid go through this. I hope things got better for him. Sure this kid wants to be just loved like all kids should be
UNBELIEVABLE! Speechless. Someone please get these institutions running the way they should and help work together with LE to make the intakes easier and a bit more humane. YOU DON'T LEAVE A PERSON JUST HANGING LIKE THAT....PERIOD!
Your outrage is amusing. Where have you been? You think this is bad, just imagine all the individual suffering abuse and neglect by incompetent CNAs, nurses, and administrators in nursing homes across America, especially during the lockdowns when both state and federal governments imprisoned them, preventing their loved ones from checking them for over a year. Thousands wasted away in beds swimming in their own poop, not being changed or turned every one or two hours.
@@Constitution1789 Not to mention LE. Embarrassing all the way around.
The staff should let him in like ten paperwork; states, they're the ones that have him waiting in the breezeway. No the officer shouldn't of left so soon but it's not his responsibility to babysit him, he did his part.
@@Constitution1789 Now you’re off on a different tangent. Let’s talk about that on a video about that. This is about a unprofessional police officer leaving a minor all alone in between two doors over facility with no adult supervision and shoving the paperwork under the door. Terrible.
@@Scorpio-tn4vy It absolutely is his job to babysit him - that was his only job. Deliver him safely to another adult. And he didn’t do it. He failed.
I am shocked and disgusted by that facility behavior I think everyone forgets that the children of today are our future and that boy will always remember what happened
lol, no one cares about the kids of today, and we have no reason to.
@@iamReddington Why is that?
Absolutely infuriating!! And I hate that he kept saying “delivering” which is what you do with a package, not a human being who is already struggling. Dehumanizing! People just “doing their job” without actually caring or helping. How do they sleep at night?
Wow, way to make a kid feel like he’s important and that his life is precious. 🙄 Poor thing.
This breaks my heart,where has common sense and compassion went these days?? That poor boy didn’t say anything as he stood there he was frightened, then this facility wants to argue w this officer and he argues back and then leaves!!!!! Obviously the kid needed SOMEONE! Why not stay there or find a place that is welcoming or can help him. If this is the way they care for patients,I wouldn’t want him or anyone getting “so to speak help from them” sending lots of lots of love,hugs and prayers to this young man! Please know you are enough and this is a small phase that shall pass! ❤️
This is great. The next time I get pulled over for speeding, I'll just tell the cop my supervisor isn't here and I can't do anything about it and drive off. We'll see how that turns out. (HINT: Really bad for me, I would guess)
Abandonment is a felony, save for if it's done by a god-cop, who are immune from prosecution and well, everything and are required to do nothing whatsoever.
🤣🤣🤣yes it would be bad for you, I get that though wanting to take off and wanting to say that! no consequences lol 🤣🤣
Outrageous disgusting.
Where are the pro lifers?
Why are churches not opening their doors for children. Stop throwing money at the problem boots on the ground.
How vulnerable this young human is when the police can’t even get access to the facility
wow this officer straight up lied to his superior, he didn't know where the boy was he could have walked out right after he left. This cop should lose his job!
HOW could that officer just LEAVE that child there like that!! OMG so heartless and cruel!! 😭💔
Omg. This breaks my heart. That poor kid. He might be a kid whose family and everyone else has always turned their backs on him. You never know the story. How sad.
the nurse was in the wrong and should lose her license
Clearly the officer should have stayed around to see the outcome HOWEVER the paperwork he had left under the door WAS collected presumably by the staff there and the child had been taken in. Both the facility staff and the officer could have done SO much better for the sake of this young man . Sad
Unfortunately it's all about paychecks
We only have his word for both.
The woman took the paperwork when he slid it under the door. He has no idea if the young man was brought in or not.
This is outrageous! I suffer from schizoaffective disorder and have been taken to a facility. I cannot IMAGINE being left there like that. What a couple of uncaring, selfish morons! I hope those involved in this pay the consequences they deserve. Young man, I hope you truly get the help you need. Please know that not all of us are as heartless as these two.
@aronmeag4890 huh? He was a minor and they are 100% responsible for his safety.
It’s a wonder how anyone improves their mental health with these people running these facilities. Mandatory EQ testing before hiring anyone in a position of authority.
EQ??
@@midixiewrecked7011 yeah man gotta test your sound system before getting hired
@@midixiewrecked7011 Emotional Intelligence testing.
@@AmericanBadger and EQ stands for "emotional intelligence testing"??
@@midixiewrecked7011 Google’s your friend. 👍
I understand we have poor mental health facilities- but why not talk about the fact that we are becoming mentally ill due to outside factors. Our healthcare facilities can’t keep up with the failing health, and what’s sad is pharmaceutical companies, food companies, ect all work hand in hand to keep us sick.
Also, officer failed bruh. You aren’t only supposed to go after criminals with this career. You are to serve the community. Went and sat in another parking lot, why not do that with the young man.
When that cop came back and I didn't see this boy my heart panicked. How does the cop know that the boy was taken in if he couldn't get a response from the telephone verifying that??? Disgraceful!!!
Yeah, I didn't see the kid in the chair or on the couch.
The kid never said he was suicidal
He lied.
@@wertiaaudit5746 how do you know that? And what does that have to do with anything anyway!
That’s what I was thinking, he could have just left after being rejected and left alone. Officer should have made sure the child was definitely taken in 😢
My parents kicked me out at 14 and sent me to a mental health "treatment" facility after they abused me for years and got tired of me. I was abused further, and nearly brainwashed at that facility and I was there 4 years before I turned 18 and left. I truly feel for this kid because these places proclaim to help but usually end up screwing up kids worse than if they'd stayed at home and had a private doctor. As a former LEO this officer should have stayed with his ward the entire time until that door was opened and he was let inside. I'm freaking dumbfounded at how this played out.
My parents kicked me out at 14 also. It was a tough life that I still pay for with no education and had children at 16
Sounds like your just a victim.
Should have just behaved at home then ha
So true about these treatment facilities. Sometimes kids are abused more in them than they were at home.
In my book, it was abandonment, pure and simple. The facility couldn't accept him, the department said too bad, so even if the building was burning to the ground he had to be accepted by the now enslaved facility.
Since they were at loggerheads, he left a minor child in an unsecure location and called it a job well done, but the law rightfully calls abandonment.
The lawless enforcement officer's reasoning is, there's a chair right there. If there are no rooms, he's expected to live on a chair.
And people wonder why some want to defund such lawless groups!
This is horrible. You do not abandon anyone in crisis like that. Inhumane.
Everyone’s upset at the Officer and I understand that, however, why didn’t the mental health worker allow him to come in? He had an order to take him there. She’s the responsible party after that, in my opinion. Horrible treatment!!😢
I feel so sorry for this young man I hope he will get the help he needs
He lied - he has no idea if they took the kid inside. This irresponsible cop needs to be fired immediately for leaving that kid alone and then lying about where he is.
Liar!
Amending my comments with a call for this officer to be investigated
@@Pahrump you didn’t notice how far away he drove? He couldn’t see the kid.
If a kid is suicidal they need to be placed on observation take them to an ER?
Wtf did that paper say
I can tell you if your bringing “anyone” to a locked facility they can’t be left unattended! Ever! Then again I’ve never seen staff refuse a patient! Ever! Both parties are at fault in this case.
Both the medical worker and the cop should be fired.
I've work as a nurse for over 25 years, many of those years in psych/mental health. And I have never seen an intake like that. Anytime anyone is admitted to a locked facility your have to have a court order. You can be admitted by a DR. but you must get a court order within 72 hours. There are 2 reasons why someone is admitted to a locked mental health facility. The keyword being "locked". One is that you are a danger to yourself, the other is you are a danger to others. Unfortunately, because the patient is a juvenile it is possible that the parents could have influenced the judge in order to get him to sign the court order. I am not saying that is what happened here, just that it does happen. I am assuming that is what the paperwork was (a court order), although I have never quite put the way the officer in the video put it. Regardless, when a Judge does issue a court order to be detained in a mental health facility, there are coordinators that call the facility to make sure there is a bed available and to give an ETA so the nurse can schedule her work in order have time to do an admittance, and a nurse evaluation. It should have been in the officers training that you can't leave someone going into a locked facility alone. It was obviously his first time performing such a duty. So someone should have also told him before hand. As for whoever answered the door she was obviously some untrained person hired because they were understaffed.
I agree! Finally a comment from someone with a brain.
Thank you for your comment! Some real meat in what you say! Hope others read it.
That poor baby. I just want to hug him. This is why people should be required to test in order to be parents.
The only thing the officer did that he shouldn't have done was to leave the kid in an unsecured area, but that wasn't his fault. I've been through this before and what the lady at the hospital could've been was simply a secretary or some other type of help and she doesn't have the authority to admit this kid.
It's OBVIOUS that there is a HUGE breakdown in procedures regarding intake for court ordered holds. If that lady isn't qualified to provide actual care of the patient, that can put LE and the hospital in danger if something happens to him. If he wanders off and gets hurt or commits another offense, the LE is liable. It's really a bit of a nightmare when agencies don't communicate with each other. By the time a parent turns to court for help with their kids, they are desperate, scared and realize they're in over their heads. By the time you're putting them in a hospital, you're broken 💔 and close to crazy yourself. Imagine if they had to call people like that and tell them we misplaced your kid 😳 not good. They need to iron out their procedures before someone gets really hurt
Fire the cop. He left a child unsecured. End of story.
Well said👍
"but that wasn't his fault." dude you said it, the only thing he did wrong was to leave the child unsecured and unsupervised, he did it and of course it is his fault that he did it.
As to the underlying problem, I would question whether the home can lawfully operate without a supervisor on site. If the law allows them to operate without a supervisor on site then you change the law to solve the problem.
Amen
yes it's his fault, he should have waited there with the kid. He's an irresponsible officer.
Everyone is blaming the officer but this is the fault of our horrible mental health system
People are blaming the Officer leaving the minor teen there between 2 door areas, but you have to look at this situation differently. It was the facility's staff member that was ignoring the court order of accepting the teen into the secured building & was "passing the buck" by refusing the teen.
At the same time, yes the Officer left the teen in the building, but he did NOT leave the facility's grounds & has a visual on the entrance door.
It doesn't matter that cop is liable leaving a teen in between two doors he could have taken off and he lied about the situation he should have stayed with that teen and waited until it got straightened out that police officer is liable he did not do his job properly
I'm tired of all these stupid acab people.
@@timothyp1937 the cop pulled away into the back of the parking lot, he didn’t even leave fully. You sound silly
@@nickschwab8983 yes I understand this but a person that has a mental condition being brought into a psychiatric facility is not supposed to be left alone he left that teenager in between the doors and the psychiatric facility did not know this he drove off ended up out of sight it doesn't take much for that teenager to walk out that door in a different direction and he's gone you understand that he could have committed suicide and the cop is off on his high horse not paying attention and being irresponsible about the situation that is no excuse he was being brought in they would have blue papered him since he was being brought in by the police I know I was one of them patients before years ago that cop was very much irresponsible he did not do his job properly
@@nickschwab8983 people should not defend the police when they are incompetent there is many incompetent police officers in this country I know how a police officer is supposed to act due to the fact is I had an uncle in my family that was a police officer any passed away still being a police officer and he was very responsible lot more responsible than that cop that left that minor in between those doors and he could have killed himself it doesn't take much to commit suicide especially when somebody has issues