You could and then him and his bride can resent you for the rest of their marriage she knows her he loves her he agreed to marry her some pretty sure he already knows how this is going to go. I do understand what you're saying though she is not taking his feelings in consideration at all if he was smart and run away from her
Can't really say that, maybe communication is off, maybe she's stressed out. We planned our mother's Birthday party and it was non-stop arguing, doesn't mean we don't love our family.
Sexism, society thinks that the wedding day is only for the bride, society teaches to think only about themselves and undermine the groom. I love how the wedding planner and the bride don't want him wearing white...but they have no problem with the bride choosing whatever she wants without consulting the gro nor the wedding planner.
@@enibeni2071 I understand that yup exactly 💯 I don't understand what is wrong with today's society with the bride getting everything she wants and the groom he doesn't get what he wants like I don't know what's up with that
Yes the bride and her family are absolutely awful but to be honest I'm not really a fan of that wedding planner either. She ignored the groom's feelings not once but twice probably 3 times....
The wedding planner is terrible. She is supposed to represent the bride and groom and protect the budget and not let the bride go crazy and make the husband feel horrible.
All these people telling him budget doesn’t matter aren’t opening their wallets. Jeff deserves so much better. I know this show is old, so it’s too late for him to dodge this bullet, but I hope he got out.
yet he is the one going way over budget. 1500 too much for fireworks but 1500 for a sports car for him? fine. $1500 for the boys to fly around in helicopters? fine. he was happy to discard budget when suited him
Dude!!! RUNNN!!! She and her family are mad disrespectful, it's mind blowing. It's the wedding now, but it'll be a house then how to raise the kids. You sir, will have NO SAY and she and her nasty family will bulldoze over your words. I doubt they're married and if they are, he's an abused man.
@@EwYoureCringe yessss. all these shows are for our entertainment. Maybe they are Even the real bride and groom, but watch on every one of these someone has a smirk on their face just about ready to bust out laughing.
So Mr Man after the babies. Your wallet will be empty as she will put a court order protection on you and ban you from children's life. .same old same story world wide. Honey girl you are cheap crass valguar
The bride and her family are a nightmare and the wedding planner is terrible, too. She dismissed and belittled the groom's every suggestion. The bride continually went behind the groom's back and she has the audacity to act shocked and offended. How long were they together before he proposed? Her spending habits and selfishness would have been on full display after a year or so into dating. Unless he's totally whooped, I can't see the marriage lasting. She seems like the type of woman who wants a wedding, not a marriage. I hope he finds someone better. 😑
When they were in the bakery, and she asked him, “Are you really going to act like that?”, it blew my mind. The audacity! She truly is what I think of when I hear the word bridezilla.
@Jess Stone They already said he's paying for most of it with a little help from their families. That means him and his family are actually paying for most of it.
I have been in education..public education as a para- educator..for over two decades..and sadly..based on my own experience..she is fairly typical of what a typical " teacher" is... sorry.. not sorry.
Yes! I've been wondering the same thing the whole time. There's 50 instances so far already where I would have called it quits. He sure is taking one for the team.
My husband and I have been married 50 years and probably spent less then 400 dollars on our wedding. This couple will be divorced within 5 years max. For them it is all show and no substance. ( No concept of what a marriage is suppose to be) but then children do learn what they live.
It’s the woman who is selfish and acts like it’s her day only. She acted like a brat. She never considered her husband feelings or what he wanted. Made me think she doesn’t even love him. Hurt to watch this. Felt bad for him.
This bride is not even remotely mature enough to be married. She talks over everyone, refuses to accept any opinion but her own, and throws a verbal tantrum if anyone tries to cross her. Sheesh!
Bride: I don't care what it costs as long as I get what I want. Bride in 7 years: I don't care if he's a disabled police officer as long as I stay in the fancy house, the kids go to private school and my clothing allowance goes up every year.
I am so happy she isn't my children's teacher. She is exactly what I wouldn't want to set an example and teach values and morals to children. Wonder when the hubbie dumps her?
I noticed the rude comments to your comment and can’t keep my mouth shut. After 20 years in education and a PhD, I just want you to be comforted in the fact that those negative comments about how parents should be teaching values and morals is a liberal cop out that teachers learn to say while they blatantly teach values that undermine what parents teach at home. This bride displays the exact behavior that teachers and teachers’ unions display and teach- throw a fit when you don’t get your way because you deserve it. This is why I left the profession and now homeschool my kids.
@@sophienienow4308 , great. People got to stop going crazy over the color white!! No other people are going to outshine the bride!! The brides should have more confidence in themselves - no matter what color they wear, they should still feel great and special about themselves!!! If they can't, then they shouldn't blame other people for not making them feel special. No one in this world is responsible to make anyone feel great about his/herself!!!
@@tinjmail Right 😂😂 Agreed. Besides, it's not ABOUT the bride alone, it is literally about the union of these two people!! So if anyone to be worried about "outshining" it shouldn't be a groom -- cuz it's his day too! Just as equally!!
Does anyone actually think these couples are real? I can’t see a normal person putting up with that bride and her family. The planner was also terrible!
The planner sees dollar signs. the more the bride spends, the higher the planner's take. Of course she's going to listen to the bride and dismiss the groom. But I'm absolutely with you. It's absurd to be so dismissive of the groom's concerns.
Traditionally, the wording on an invitation is “Mr. and Mrs. (Bride’s parents) request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter (bride’s name) to (groom’s name)
These brides make me sick. The groom needs to take her house hunting and show her what the money they will spend on wedding could be put towards a down payment on a beautiful home.
This world is crazy. I got married in the sixties. My mom ordered my dress, the brides maid dresses and the flower girl dress from a J.C. Penneys catalogue. She baked cakes and made ham salad out of spam. Rented the town hall. My husband and his best man wore white tux. Not once did I object to anything. I was so appreciative of my parents. And deciding what the men should wear never even entered my mind. Two other girls borrowed my wedding dress for their ceremonies. It cost 90 dollars.
It is. I married in 2011 and didn't pay more than 2k which includes my dress. There's no WAY I was paying more for one dang day. And believe it or not it worked and was fine. I borrowed a lot and made due with what I had because I was paying for it all
My mom got bridesmaids dresses from J.C.Penney's in the 90's,got her wedding dress on sale for 100$ at David's bridal, and my grandmother baked her wedding cake.But I don't who of the many groomsmen I've seen picked their tuxes.Maybe because some guys neglect to try things on,forget certain items i.e socks,bout,ties.I guess it's been easier to take care of it for them if they don't show interest.If their responsible and consider it an honor good on them...go for it. It's neat knowing what you had in the day, think more girls into decades styling nowadays can appreciate the history and ideas.😍
I remember looking through those JCP bridal catalogues. And dreamed. I was fortunate enough to wear the dress of a sweet friend and the style was exactly what I'd wanted.
We got married 37 years ago [1984]. I wore my Mom's dress, had a matron of honour and I let her buy whatever kind of dress she wanted. Hubby & brother rented tuxes. We had dinner for 63 in a park pavilion after we were married outside in the park. My grandmother made our cake. My friend's husband, who didn't know anyone volunteered to take pictures. He was by no means a professional but he promised to get a pic of everyone there. We have so many amazing candid shots of everyone enjoying themselves throughout the wedding, it's amazing. So many moments we didn't witness while doing "official wedding stuff" that we've had memories of for all these years. One of my favourite photos is of hubby and I having a serious discussion about something between the ceremony and walking to the pavilion. We were totally oblivious to the camera and were just relaxed and so much "us". We spent one thousand dollars. The biggest expense was for the city ballet company to make a crinoline for me to go under Mom's dress that she wore over hoops in the 1950s. My seamstress grandmother steered us to the ballet company. They were modestly priced, [way, way less than any wedding shop wanted to do alterations] they enjoyed the challenge, we had a lot of fun with them and it was an awesome result. The costume maker also suggested a few other alterations, at no extra cost, to modernize the dress. Thank goodness I don't have typical '80s fashion in my wedding pictures LOL 😏
That wedding planner sees nothing but dollar signs, and ignores anything the groom wants, When the bride was handing over the envelope containing her budget, the planner was rubbing her hands together. Fire her. She doesn’t care, she just wants money
I am a mother and to be ignored on the invitation and not being told I would have been so hurt. The parents of the bride should be on that invitation. Not their fault that there is all the divorces on the other side. This was hurtful to the mother but expecting her to pay. Brat. This guy is in a world of hurt.
Ik she is not compromising about what they both want for the wedding party omg the bride is making me angry like it's not only your day 😂😂😂😂 it's his too
Actually the episode called "is this rustic wedding worth it?" has a super lovely couple in it. The bride made sure to always get the grooms opinion on things, and he wanted to make sure she got the flowers that she liked, budget be damned. They even splurged for his groomsmen gifts. They were honestly just the sweetest freaking couple. No bridezillas, no dismissing the groom.
No way I would have paid one-half for invitations. I would tell her to get a new invitation and if it was labeled correctly, then I would pay. Heidi needs to consider both bride and groom. She consistently was against Jess and listened to bride and her family.
@@LQOTW Actually any menu changes depending from the region where is the wedding and also depends from the origin of the bride and groom. You can really have anything as far as I know. What I just can say, based on my experience of weddings in Italy (I’m Italian and I’m 52, so I had the chance to participate to many weddings…) is that I never had tiramisú as a cake. Most of the times is Pan di Spagna with cream and fruit…. This is my simple experience, but I might be wrong…. Have a nice day to everyone 🇮🇹🎂. Saluti e baci
Our wedding (including the dress and food) was $2,000 30 years ago, and we had a wonderful time. If anyone expected fireworks, they were at the wrong place. The day was about sharing time with family and friends. Still going strong 30 years later.
Lots of people spend loads of money for over the top weddings to impress others. It’s sad that they don’t realize it’s only for a day . That money could be used for their future instead.
Italian Cream Cake makes more sense than Tiramisu 🤣 I say give him a white tux if he wants it. I just didn't like that particular white one 🤣😂🤣 My husband and I got married, we paid for it. He wanted a Mickey mouse cumber bunn, but not anyone else. I purchased the cumber bunn and bow tie for him, and it was a wonderful gift. We paid 5000.00 for everything!
I’m sorry but I don’t see much compromising going on with this wedding. She seems awfully bossy about needing her way. This poor groom may as well sign away his dreams at the alter.
I’m Italian and have been to countless Italian weddings - and never once been served tiramisu for the wedding cake. The bride completely made that up, it’s what she wanted and he didn’t know any better.
I agree with him so much. My husband is a member of a big Italian family too. We heard you need to do this we need that. No, you want not need. Our wedding cost approx. $2000.00, we had 14 attendants, thr men wore their Army Dress Greens and I purchased my 7 bridesmaids dresses. I got my gown at a small store that had a layaway, but if you paid a quarter of the price, you could take the gown home that day. My gown cost $275.00 and the shop filed for bankruptcy a week after I bought my gown. My brother and I are both chefs so we catered, I made the wedding cake, flower arrangements, bouquets and boutaneers. Corsages too. Wedding for 275 people with a huge buffet dinner, snacks at 10pm and all the alcohol you could drink. That was 30 years ago.
We're only having 20 people at our wedding, and my fiance and I are paying for everything. We want it to be tasteful, and memorable, with our closest family around us. I cannot imaging going through this much time, stress, and money, planning for ONE DAY. These people will probably spend more TIME planning their wedding than their retirement.
Why are people so invested in impressing other people when they're getting married ? if friends and family's feelings are sincere, there's no need to impress them.
I’m planning a simple wedding for next summer. My sweetie knows what color my dress is and I think he is perfectly capable of choosing his own clothing.
It is no wonder that children coming out of school are behaving they way are. When the teacher as behaving as self-centered as the students they are teaching,
As a teacher, I have to say that 98% of my students are wonderful, as are their parents! But that tiny minority gets all the attention. Thank goodness I don’t know any teachers who act like this one!
The most obnoxious one was Sonia: a real spoiler but trying on your sister's wedding dress is beyond the pale: definitely no class which is difficult to achieve in this bride's family. She was fantasizing herself as the bride either because she it dying to get married or has a crush on the groom as being in love with love. I don't understand why these brides have to have such huge weddings when neither they nor their grooms have the kind of money it takes to do this. They are neither royalty or independently wealthy. I think the bride was a monster and I seriously doubt this marriage will survive.
@@shelleyharris4176 fr I'm like 😳 your mom gave birth to you she raised you your whole life and you don't add her in your invitations wow so disrespectful
I’m a woman and I feel sorry for Jeff. Life choices in marriage is congruent with equitable compromise, and I haven’t seen that in most of these episodes.
Couples need to approach negotiations with a win-win mind. How can we both get what we want and need in this situation? This bride thinks only one person gets what they want, and it’s going to be her. Period.
Half the fun of our Medieval Scottish wedding was planning and creating things ourselves (invites, cake topper, gowns, the priest's embroidered stole - it has now been passed down to our niece for her wedding). We planned it around his family's heritage. It was a blast and people still say it was the best wedding they'd ever been to. The best thing about my day? My husband in a kilt - gorgeous!
Love the tiramisu idea! I got married on a friend's boat (her gift), had carrot cake cupcakes with the icing inside like a Twinkie. Spent $600 on champagne, beer & cupcakes. I never wanted a big, stressful wedding.
“I want a grand entrance! I want a grand entrance! I want a grand entrance!” Is she two years old? This girl has absolutely no concept of what marriage is.
I think every potential groom should watch this episode and realize this is what you have to look forward to!! If the Bride and her family act like this BEFORE the wedding, these are indications you may NOT want to get involved with people like this for the rest of your life? Lies, manipulation, and deceit are no ways to start a marriage, for anyone!! If the bride or her family wants to pay for the wedding have the time of your life spend until the credit cards melt but don't expect someone else to absorb the cost!? especially, when it's only to please the bride and her family... The Wedding planner is pretty useless and clearly OVERSTEPS her boundaries when speaking to the groom and should rethink her tactics...
Yes, planning the wedding is a good indicator of how the marriage will be. She is egocentric. She doesn't care about how much they will have to work in order to pay the bills. She doesn't care about his feelings and his thoughts. She isn't prepared for marriage. She won't be a good wife.
my cousin made her own wedding dress and helped her bridesmaids make theirs after she bought the fabric. they got married in the university chapel and had their reception in the university hall and the next year they both did their teacher's certificates. they're still married and just celebrated their 50th anniversary. They agreed on everything in the wedding and he wore a white dinner jacket. this couple won't last that long.
This show has the weakest men on it minus a few guys. I did get delight of Jeff leaving the swamp monster twice and getting the vehicle. Kudos to you Jeff. ..
I married at the justice of the peace. My dress cost $40 (in 1987), our marriage certificate was $25, the cake was $30. We had $25 in the bank. I always thought we should have had a "real" wedding, but I wanted to avoid all these different opinions and after seeing this I'm glad we got married at the JP!
You made the right choice. My family and my husband's family made most of the stuff for our wedding reception after we saw how much professionals wanted to charge, but it was a lot of work! If I had to do it over, I would have had a much smaller wedding.
The theme of this sad wedding, "It's a Done Deal". This groom needed to say, then let's NOT GET MARRIED! In response to this brides selfish demands. I feel the worst for simply because. You can see the pain in his eyes from being ignored & being walked all over. A tux with black pants & a white jacket would've looked regal. WHY was Hiedi wearing white. When it was clearly stated earlier. That only the bride was to wear white, not even the groom? The train wrist hoop off the under petticoat; is easier fix than sewing on a button. I do agree that besides the parents. The other guest quickly throw the invites in the trash. The drum line entrance & the first dance smoke was tacky! The smoke overwhelmed the couple first dance.
If Jeff were my son, I'd be asking him if he wanted to be treated like that for the rest of his life.
remember women turn into their mothers
You could and then him and his bride can resent you for the rest of their marriage she knows her he loves her he agreed to marry her some pretty sure he already knows how this is going to go. I do understand what you're saying though she is not taking his feelings in consideration at all if he was smart and run away from her
She was ridiculous with her price. I would of said get more reasonable or it's not going to happen.
She would have got a seven piece from Church's Chicken.
This is going to be a constantly warring marriage.
Hate the woman, hate her family, hate the wedding planner the most. Dude...RUN 😭😭😭😭😭😭
The sister... If I was jeff... I am at that moment when Sonia did that joke with the tiny car. I would have slammed it in her face.
Same. Unbearable.
The bride totally disregards the groom.....not a love relationship. Sad
Can't really say that, maybe communication is off, maybe she's stressed out. We planned our mother's Birthday party and it was non-stop arguing, doesn't mean we don't love our family.
I love that the wedding planner ignores the budget for centre pieces but won’t let the groom have the one thing he wants (the car) horrible.
Well the Center pieces were covered by the sister and the groom got his car XD WINWIN
Sexism, society thinks that the wedding day is only for the bride, society teaches to think only about themselves and undermine the groom.
I love how the wedding planner and the bride don't want him wearing white...but they have no problem with the bride choosing whatever she wants without consulting the gro nor the wedding planner.
The flowers they paid for were in budget. He wanted extra 1500 on a car, big difference
@@enibeni2071 I understand that yup exactly 💯 I don't understand what is wrong with today's society with the bride getting everything she wants and the groom he doesn't get what he wants like I don't know what's up with that
@@ayla9905 yeah, it's sad
Yes the bride and her family are absolutely awful but to be honest I'm not really a fan of that wedding planner either. She ignored the groom's feelings not once but twice probably 3 times....
I don't think anyone that watched this would hire or recommend her. She is awful.
100% agree with you. Thank you!
I was about to say that too
I totally agree with you but for her, the higher the budget the more money she makes.
Your marriage will not last if you are all fighting now BEFORE , YOU ARE EVEN MARRIED.
The wedding planner is terrible. She is supposed to represent the bride and groom and protect the budget and not let the bride go crazy and make the husband feel horrible.
Thats what I was thinking! How did she allow a 38k budget go to 52k?!
Bride is the problem. She does not give a damn what her groom wants as long as she gets whatever she wants
@@eileenmcdonald1599 well it's her wedding why would the groom 😂 want to wear a white tux
@@ayla9905because he wants to and it makes him happy. There are many grooms who wear white. Are you like the bride too?😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
She’s the worst wedding planner of the bunch, always takes the bride’s side.
I want a recap 10 years later to see if any of these couples are still married lol
I think they still are
Wow is Jeff even in the wedding? The bride and HER family have made the decisions all by themselves! Ridiculous
@jbergerson91
Let’s say 5 years.
Bridezilla
I couldn't find them as a couple except for a blurry pinterest profile
With two little girls. Vicki-Jeff Inch
All these people telling him budget doesn’t matter aren’t opening their wallets. Jeff deserves so much better. I know this show is old, so it’s too late for him to dodge this bullet, but I hope he got out.
The best way is now to get out before he commits
i dont wanna know how much he had to pay for the engagement ring to satisfy this woman
yet he is the one going way over budget. 1500 too much for fireworks but 1500 for a sports car for him? fine. $1500 for the boys to fly around in helicopters? fine. he was happy to discard budget when suited him
In Italian weddings they give cash
@@melissaadrian8591
He gets two things... I can tell you're just as shallow as she is!!!
Dude!!! RUNNN!!! She and her family are mad disrespectful, it's mind blowing. It's the wedding now, but it'll be a house then how to raise the kids. You sir, will have NO SAY and she and her nasty family will bulldoze over your words. I doubt they're married and if they are, he's an abused man.
I agree! I cannot believe she bought the out of budget cake without him and then had the GAUL to be upset at him for being upset!
I am like 98% sure this show is scripted lol
I can't believe these men just don't say the wedding is off.
@@EwYoureCringe yessss. all these shows are for our entertainment. Maybe they are
Even the real bride and groom, but watch on every one of these someone has a smirk on their face just about ready to bust out laughing.
So Mr Man after the babies. Your wallet will be empty as she will put a court order protection on you and ban you from children's life. .same old same story world wide. Honey girl you are cheap crass valguar
Only time Jeff smiled was behind the wheel of the sport car. He should dump the bride, find a nice lady and get a sport car.
Really liked the idea of the exotic car. The ONE thing he might have gotten out of the deal. Lol, of course he gets to keep the bride!
The bride and her family are a nightmare and the wedding planner is terrible, too. She dismissed and belittled the groom's every suggestion. The bride continually went behind the groom's back and she has the audacity to act shocked and offended. How long were they together before he proposed? Her spending habits and selfishness would have been on full display after a year or so into dating. Unless he's totally whooped, I can't see the marriage lasting. She seems like the type of woman who wants a wedding, not a marriage. I hope he finds someone better. 😑
Because the groom was a cheap Canadian that went to a sub shop to order a cake …. LOSER
and the question is ... are they still married?
Idk if they are still married
“You don’t have a choice in the matter” poor groom :( literally bought the cake without the groom, this whole thing pisses me off.
When they were in the bakery, and she asked him, “Are you really going to act like that?”, it blew my mind. The audacity! She truly is what I think of when I hear the word bridezilla.
More like a narcissist
@@GameChanger597
That, too.
And the sister! Move far, far away!
It is sad that people do marry ones like that!
Bride: “I want, I want, I want…”
Groom thinking: you want a divorce?
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Good One 🤣🤣🤣
@@DroppinJewelzz looks like it worked out, they have three kids
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He is making a big mistake in this pushy gold digger
Yep, she usurped his headship, not good!
Most satisfying moment of the episode is when the groom left the bride stranded in the parking lot.
Poor bloke even the wedding planner dismisses his opinion
I can't believe he is a cop his voice is not being heard.
Shes atrocious!
Everyone dismisses his opinion. 🤷🏻♀️
@Jess Stone They already said he's paying for most of it with a little help from their families. That means him and his family are actually paying for most of it.
It's probably harder for her to deal with an unhappy bride and mother of the bride and an unhappy groom
I have never seen anyone so self-centered, selfish, and spoiled. Shame on her. If I was him I would run.
The sister enabled her too ugh horrible
This family is like a pack of witches
She’s a teacher? Are you sure she’s not one of the brats she’s teaching?
I have been in education..public education as a para- educator..for over two decades..and sadly..based on my own experience..she is fairly typical of what a typical " teacher" is...
sorry..
not sorry.
@@sissyrayself7508probably teach in catholic school
She’s so condescending to him! Treats him like he’s an idiot. I’d be devastated if my son brought someone like that home.
What
Agreed- this is sad.
They are still married with kids
Why is he marrying this woman?
Yes! I've been wondering the same thing the whole time. There's 50 instances so far already where I would have called it quits. He sure is taking one for the team.
WOW! The wedding planner really gives her opinion a lot! She should be a neutral party. She obviously gets a cut if they spend more.
Commissions on everything
coordinator ka-ching ka-ching
She could still handle it better.
My husband and I have been married 50 years and probably spent less then 400 dollars on our wedding. This couple will be divorced within 5 years max. For them it is all show and no substance. ( No concept of what a marriage is suppose to be) but then children do learn what they live.
Her not Them.... sadly
It’s the woman who is selfish and acts like it’s her day only. She acted like a brat. She never considered her husband feelings or what he wanted. Made me think she doesn’t even love him. Hurt to watch this. Felt bad for him.
You give plenty years I give them 2 years no communication I see and no compromise she is not realistic high maintainance that all she is
1979, dress: $175, wedding $4,000 it what comes after that counts; 42 years
Lol girl that's a lot back in that day 😂 stap playing @@barbarafischbach8480
This bride is not even remotely mature enough to be married. She talks over everyone, refuses to accept any opinion but her own, and throws a verbal tantrum if anyone tries to cross her. Sheesh!
And the fact shes a teacher?!?!?!?!
Lol she got it from her mother
Poor man. Wonder how long marriage will last. Can't see what he sees in her!
Guess
!Hilarious 🤣
In all fairness, every woman has one so he's not a very good decision maker lol
The bride and wedding planner need to get married! Run, Jeff, RUN!
😂👏
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
Bride: I don't care what it costs as long as I get what I want.
Bride in 7 years: I don't care if he's a disabled police officer as long as I stay in the fancy house, the kids go to private school and my clothing allowance goes up every year.
😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂
I am so happy she isn't my children's teacher. She is exactly what I wouldn't want to set an example and teach values and morals to children. Wonder when the hubbie dumps her?
Now we know why 50% of marriages end in divorce
Why would you leave the teaching of values and morals to the school teacher? Shouldn’t that have started at home long before school age?
@@lilys7431 let's hope she's only talking about outside influence
@@lilys7431 Excellent, excellent comment!!
I noticed the rude comments to your comment and can’t keep my mouth shut. After 20 years in education and a PhD, I just want you to be comforted in the fact that those negative comments about how parents should be teaching values and morals is a liberal cop out that teachers learn to say while they blatantly teach values that undermine what parents teach at home. This bride displays the exact behavior that teachers and teachers’ unions display and teach- throw a fit when you don’t get your way because you deserve it. This is why I left the profession and now homeschool my kids.
If I get pulled over by a cop, I hope it's Him. I would argue with him and win, maybe even get him to pay ME for the inconvenience.
we need a 'where are they now' series. I can bet most are divorced.
I’d bet money they are divorced by now. Over half of the couples on this show most likely are!
They are still married, quite happily, it appears (July 2022) and just had a wedding anniversary trip together from the looks of it.
She's so disrespectful to her Mother
And everyone else...
He has the right to wear white too!
My Dad wore a white tux 🤷♀️
@@sophienienow4308 , great. People got to stop going crazy over the color white!! No other people are going to outshine the bride!! The brides should have more confidence in themselves - no matter what color they wear, they should still feel great and special about themselves!!! If they can't, then they shouldn't blame other people for not making them feel special. No one in this world is responsible to make anyone feel great about his/herself!!!
@@tinjmail Right 😂😂 Agreed. Besides, it's not ABOUT the bride alone, it is literally about the union of these two people!! So if anyone to be worried about "outshining" it shouldn't be a groom -- cuz it's his day too! Just as equally!!
Does anyone actually think these couples are real? I can’t see a normal person putting up with that bride and her family. The planner was also terrible!
They actually are real. Bridezillas are very, very real. Especially when they've been spoiled their entire life.
The planner sees dollar signs. the more the bride spends, the higher the planner's take. Of course she's going to listen to the bride and dismiss the groom. But I'm absolutely with you. It's absurd to be so dismissive of the groom's concerns.
Maybe the TV programs select the most dysfunctional (toxic) couples because this type of couples "gives a good show".
To leave her mothers name off the invitations is so horrible! And then expected mom to pay for them ? WOW nasty bride Run Jeff Run 🏃♀️
Lots of people don't mention their families on the invitation, just the Bride & Groom
Yup bride just stomped on family tradition. Mom should not pay for invites.
I was kinda confused by this. No one I know has the family name on their invite but maybe its a family tradition
Traditionally, the wording on an invitation is “Mr. and Mrs. (Bride’s parents) request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter (bride’s name) to (groom’s name)
I agree run Forest run!!
Their marriage is off to a great start. NOT😡
These brides make me sick. The groom needs to take her house hunting and show her what the money they will spend on wedding could be put towards a down payment on a beautiful home.
Can you imagine going house hunting with this crazy woman? She would want a castle complete with servants and white horses.
This world is crazy. I got married in the sixties. My mom ordered my dress, the brides maid dresses and the flower girl dress from a J.C. Penneys catalogue. She baked cakes and made ham salad out of spam. Rented the town hall. My husband and his best man wore white tux. Not once did I object to anything. I was so appreciative of my parents. And deciding what the men should wear never even entered my mind. Two other girls borrowed my wedding dress for their ceremonies. It cost 90 dollars.
It is. I married in 2011 and didn't pay more than 2k which includes my dress. There's no WAY I was paying more for one dang day. And believe it or not it worked and was fine. I borrowed a lot and made due with what I had because I was paying for it all
My mom got bridesmaids dresses from J.C.Penney's in the 90's,got her wedding dress on sale for 100$ at David's bridal, and my grandmother baked her wedding cake.But I don't who of the many groomsmen I've seen picked their tuxes.Maybe because some guys neglect to try things on,forget certain items i.e socks,bout,ties.I guess it's been easier to take care of it for them if they don't show interest.If their responsible and consider it an honor good on them...go for it.
It's neat knowing what you had in the day, think more girls into decades styling nowadays can appreciate the history and ideas.😍
I remember looking through those JCP bridal catalogues. And dreamed. I was fortunate enough to wear the dress of a sweet friend and the style was exactly what I'd wanted.
We got married 37 years ago [1984]. I wore my Mom's dress, had a matron of honour and I let her buy whatever kind of dress she wanted. Hubby & brother rented tuxes. We had dinner for 63 in a park pavilion after we were married outside in the park. My grandmother made our cake.
My friend's husband, who didn't know anyone volunteered to take pictures. He was by no means a professional but he promised to get a pic of everyone there. We have so many amazing candid shots of everyone enjoying themselves throughout the wedding, it's amazing. So many moments we didn't witness while doing "official wedding stuff" that we've had memories of for all these years. One of my favourite photos is of hubby and I having a serious discussion about something between the ceremony and walking to the pavilion. We were totally oblivious to the camera and were just relaxed and so much "us".
We spent one thousand dollars. The biggest expense was for the city ballet company to make a crinoline for me to go under Mom's dress that she wore over hoops in the 1950s. My seamstress grandmother steered us to the ballet company. They were modestly priced, [way, way less than any wedding shop wanted to do alterations] they enjoyed the challenge, we had a lot of fun with them and it was an awesome result. The costume maker also suggested a few other alterations, at no extra cost, to modernize the dress. Thank goodness I don't have typical '80s fashion in my wedding pictures LOL 😏
Beautiful ♥️
That wedding planner sees nothing but dollar signs, and ignores anything the groom wants, When the bride was handing over the envelope containing her budget, the planner was rubbing her hands together. Fire her. She doesn’t care, she just wants money
Well tbh who's wedding is it ????? It's the brides
I feel sorry for the groom. He was outgunned and outmanned
Poor guy is doomed for the rest of his life
Outnumbered and out-planned too
I am a mother and to be ignored on the invitation and not being told I would have been so hurt. The parents of the bride should be on that invitation. Not their fault that there is all the divorces on the other side. This was hurtful to the mother but expecting her to pay. Brat. This guy is in a world of hurt.
Our money? 🤔... I hope she knows after they're married it will be 'our debt'
Oh dear Jesus! I would divorce her before I even marry her! He has to love her because I would have walked out a long time ago on that spoiled brat!
Ik she is not compromising about what they both want for the wedding party omg the bride is making me angry like it's not only your day 😂😂😂😂 it's his too
Does anyone listen to the groom?
Very rarely
I think that much money for a wedding is absolutely ridiculous.
This freaking show pisses me off! The groom never gets any say or anything they want in their wedding.
It pisses me off to. I can't watch anymore, she's a total self absorbed B.....ugh I can't even. Poor guy !!!! RUN DUDE, RUN
And that sister is a huge B
Actually the episode called "is this rustic wedding worth it?" has a super lovely couple in it. The bride made sure to always get the grooms opinion on things, and he wanted to make sure she got the flowers that she liked, budget be damned. They even splurged for his groomsmen gifts. They were honestly just the sweetest freaking couple. No bridezillas, no dismissing the groom.
He’s a weak man!!!
Half way in and I’m out. This family is giving me heart palpitations. That sister….🤔🤔🤬🤬
It was her scathing, “You know!! Drum line!!!! Brrrrr!!!” that did me in. Had to stop watching this snotty shrew.
She's a real peach ain't she???? Wonder why she's still single.......
and to put on the wedding dress of her sister!!
Wow if my sister had on my wedding dress I would be livid
The wedding planner is horrible and needed fired by the groom .
Why is this guy marrying into this family???
I always wonder if they are still married. People need to concentrate less on the wedding and work on their marriage.
No way I would have paid one-half for invitations. I would tell her to get a new invitation and if it was labeled correctly, then I would pay. Heidi needs to consider both bride and groom. She consistently was against Jess and listened to bride and her family.
The mom was a complete enabler.
Why? When the bride does not care what the groom wants
17:34 Poor Jeff. You can hear the hurt in this voice. Getting the cake without his input clearly affected him.
Ik and the brides family are terrible
Actually in Italy it is very rare to have Tiramisù as a wedding cake …. Saluti e baci from Italy 🇮🇹
LMAO yes I agree
What is your traditional menu and wedding cake?
Elisa Sagramoso, could you share with us what a traditional Italian menu and wedding cake might be?
@@LQOTW Actually any menu changes depending from the region where is the wedding and also depends from the origin of the bride and groom. You can really have anything as far as I know. What I just can say, based on my experience of weddings in Italy (I’m Italian and I’m 52, so I had the chance to participate to many weddings…) is that I never had tiramisú as a cake. Most of the times is Pan di Spagna with cream and fruit….
This is my simple experience, but I might be wrong…. Have a nice day to everyone 🇮🇹🎂. Saluti e baci
@@Whitemoon548 Thank you for letting us know! That’s super interesting! Greetings from Canada🇨🇦
Our wedding (including the dress and food) was $2,000 30 years ago, and we had a wonderful time. If anyone expected fireworks, they were at the wrong place. The day was about sharing time with family and friends. Still going strong 30 years later.
same here $3200 in the 90s
There are a massive amount more divorces now too "surprise" 😶😁
I seriously feel bad for these men in this show. These women are all about what other people think. Not about their love or life.
Don't these people realise they are spending a potential house deposit for just one day. An how she says its their money but its her day.
She would have been left at the altar.
Before. Long, long before.
$52k could have been a down payment on a house. What a waste of money for just one day.
How are these two ever going to stay married?
Lots of people spend loads of money for over the top weddings to impress others. It’s sad that they don’t realize it’s only for a day . That money could be used for their future instead.
And here we have the queen of bridezillas. "Italians need tiramisù" NOT FOR A WEDDING!!
The luxury car could have been their grand entrance, BOOM they both get what they want
Italian Cream Cake makes more sense than Tiramisu 🤣
I say give him a white tux if he wants it. I just didn't like that particular white one 🤣😂🤣
My husband and I got married, we paid for it. He wanted a Mickey mouse cumber bunn, but not anyone else. I purchased the cumber bunn and bow tie for him, and it was a wonderful gift. We paid 5000.00 for everything!
Mackey Mouse? Your a good wife 🤣
No he should be in black 🖤
I’m so sick of brides saying “it’s my day”. BS.
I’m sorry but I don’t see much compromising going on with this wedding. She seems awfully bossy about needing her way. This poor groom may as well sign away his dreams at the alter.
Seems to be the regular theme on many of the episodes
It would be interesting if they had a show 5 years later to see if they were still married. I think this couple is likely divorced by now.
Absolutely agree
How dare that Sonia change the centrepieces ! What gall! She’s trouble going to interfere in their lives . Nasty woman.
And the sister trying on the dress! Sick.
Another disrespect to the groom
I’m Italian and have been to countless Italian weddings - and never once been served tiramisu for the wedding cake. The bride completely made that up, it’s what she wanted and he didn’t know any better.
He should never marry into that family.
A prime example of a woman who wants a wedding rather than a marriage.
That poor groom, he didn’t get anything his way. Bossy bride.
I agree with him so much. My husband is a member of a big Italian family too. We heard you need to do this we need that. No, you want not need. Our wedding cost approx. $2000.00, we had 14 attendants, thr men wore their Army Dress Greens and I purchased my 7 bridesmaids dresses. I got my gown at a small store that had a layaway, but if you paid a quarter of the price, you could take the gown home that day. My gown cost $275.00 and the shop filed for bankruptcy a week after I bought my gown. My brother and I are both chefs so we catered, I made the wedding cake, flower arrangements, bouquets and boutaneers. Corsages too. Wedding for 275 people with a huge buffet dinner, snacks at 10pm and all the alcohol you could drink. That was 30 years ago.
Sounds beautiful!
Are they still married?
Good question!
We're only having 20 people at our wedding, and my fiance and I are paying for everything. We want it to be tasteful, and memorable, with our closest family around us. I cannot imaging going through this much time, stress, and money, planning for ONE DAY. These people will probably spend more TIME planning their wedding than their retirement.
Put the money towards a down payment on a home ! Small & no chaos is best .
If I'd hired that wedding planner she would have been kicked to the curb.
Why
@@rlast4698 , her job is to plan a wedding for BOTH the bride and groom. She kept blowing him off.
The trigger bride should have been dumped
5 minutes in and I can't stand it. This guy should have run!
This wedding planner sucked. She didn't consider his feelings at all.
Leave Heidi alone
NOBODY considered his feelings.
Why should she.. The bride didn't
Why are people so invested in impressing other people when they're getting married ? if friends and family's feelings are sincere, there's no need to impress them.
I’m planning a simple wedding for next summer. My sweetie knows what color my dress is and I think he is perfectly capable of choosing his own clothing.
I swear "TEACHERS" on this show are always the MOST insane!
She sounds like a 21 year old. She can't be a mature 33 year old.
This woman is a teacher? ?
That’s exactly what I was thinking - I’m utterly shocked! 😮
That’s why I homeschool my daughter
It is no wonder that children coming out of school are behaving they way are. When the teacher as behaving as self-centered as the students they are teaching,
As a teacher, I have to say that 98% of my students are wonderful, as are their parents! But that tiny minority gets all the attention. Thank goodness I don’t know any teachers who act like this one!
More like witch.. With a B
That giant cake looked like tissues😂
It looked nice 🙂 the one at the sub shop was too overrated
I highly doubt the men didn't know these women money habits before the wedding
We don’t make tiramisù as a wedding cake in Italy lady!!! You’re crazy with a capitol C period!!🇮🇹🇮🇹
The most obnoxious one was Sonia: a real spoiler but trying on your sister's wedding dress is beyond the pale: definitely no class which is difficult to achieve in this bride's family. She was fantasizing herself as the bride either because she it dying to get married or has a crush on the groom as being in love with love. I don't understand why these brides have to have such huge weddings when neither they nor their grooms have the kind of money it takes to do this. They are neither royalty or independently wealthy. I think the bride was a monster and I seriously doubt this marriage will survive.
I would have slapped her silly and she not putting mom's name is so disrespectful I would not attend and no money from me
Yeah. The sister was out of pocket for trying on the wedding dress. The sister lucky she didn't get a beatdown in the store.
@@shelleyharris4176 fr I'm like 😳 your mom gave birth to you she raised you your whole life and you don't add her in your invitations wow so disrespectful
I’m a woman and I feel sorry for Jeff. Life choices in marriage is congruent with equitable compromise, and I haven’t seen that in most of these episodes.
Couples need to approach negotiations with a win-win mind. How can we both get what we want and need in this situation? This bride thinks only one person gets what they want, and it’s going to be her. Period.
This marriage will not make it. I hope they don't have kids!!!
I hope not either, but if they do end up having kids, she is going to teach those kids that having expensive things is everything
@@seniorqueen08 and that it’s OK to treat your husband like crap
I heard they have 3 kids now.
"today they call that stalking" LMAO I love that couple
Half the fun of our Medieval Scottish wedding was planning and creating things ourselves (invites, cake topper, gowns, the priest's embroidered stole - it has now been passed down to our niece for her wedding). We planned it around his family's heritage. It was a blast and people still say it was the best wedding they'd ever been to. The best thing about my day? My husband in a kilt - gorgeous!
I wanna get married at the local Renaissance fair, Celtic theme all the way, 7,000$ average, almost nothing compared to these crazy shows
Wow that's nice 😊 I envision my wedding day to be big but it can be what you make it
Love the tiramisu idea! I got married on a friend's boat (her gift), had carrot cake cupcakes with the icing inside like a Twinkie. Spent $600 on champagne, beer & cupcakes. I never wanted a big, stressful wedding.
Usually a sweet table so lots of fruits and cakes and chocolate fountain
I would have left her. She is such a...
Witch
“I want a grand entrance! I want a grand entrance! I want a grand entrance!” Is she two years old? This girl has absolutely no concept of what marriage is.
I hate when brides think it’s JUST their wedding day.. like the groom doesn’t have a voice 🙃
Well he kind of doesn't cause it's all about the bride 😂😂😂😂😂 apparently it's all about the bride 😂😅 about what she wants
If she acts like that infront of people I can’t even imagine the emotional abuse behind doors.
I think every potential groom should watch this episode and realize this is what you have to look forward to!! If the Bride and her family act like this BEFORE the wedding, these are indications you may NOT want to get involved with people like this for the rest of your life? Lies, manipulation, and deceit are no ways to start a marriage, for anyone!! If the bride or her family wants to pay for the wedding have the time of your life spend until the credit cards melt but don't expect someone else to absorb the cost!? especially, when it's only to please the bride and her family... The Wedding planner is pretty useless and clearly OVERSTEPS her boundaries when speaking to the groom and should rethink her tactics...
Yes, planning the wedding is a good indicator of how the marriage will be.
She is egocentric.
She doesn't care about how much they will have to work in order to pay the bills.
She doesn't care about his feelings and his thoughts.
She isn't prepared for marriage.
She won't be a good wife.
Why didn't he run for the nearest exit!!
my cousin made her own wedding dress and helped her bridesmaids make theirs after she bought the fabric. they got married in the university chapel and had their reception in the university hall and the next year they both did their teacher's certificates. they're still married and just celebrated their 50th anniversary. They agreed on everything in the wedding and he wore a white dinner jacket.
this couple won't last that long.
This show has the weakest men on it minus a few guys. I did get delight of Jeff leaving the swamp monster twice and getting the vehicle. Kudos to you Jeff. ..
I can’t believe she left her mom off of the invitations.
Completely disrespectful and disgraceful
She should not give or pay anything and not go and tell everyone
Wholly Bratty Bride! Run dude! Don't look back!
I married at the justice of the peace. My dress cost $40 (in 1987), our marriage certificate was $25, the cake was $30. We had $25 in the bank. I always thought we should have had a "real" wedding, but I wanted to avoid all these different opinions and after seeing this I'm glad we got married at the JP!
You made the right choice. My family and my husband's family made most of the stuff for our wedding reception after we saw how much professionals wanted to charge, but it was a lot of work! If I had to do it over, I would have had a much smaller wedding.
The wedding planner is as bad as the bride. Get a grip!
The theme of this sad wedding, "It's a Done Deal". This groom needed to say, then let's NOT GET MARRIED! In response to this brides selfish demands. I feel the worst for simply because. You can see the pain in his eyes from being ignored & being walked all over. A tux with black pants & a white jacket would've looked regal. WHY was Hiedi wearing white. When it was clearly stated earlier. That only the bride was to wear white, not even the groom? The train wrist hoop off the under petticoat; is easier fix than sewing on a button. I do agree that besides the parents. The other guest quickly throw the invites in the trash. The drum line entrance & the first dance smoke was tacky! The smoke overwhelmed the couple first dance.
Agreed!
I find people who have extreme differences on financial issues, they will end up divorced court fighting over property. Crazy.