Judging CONTROVERSIAL "Am I The A__hole?" Posts - r/AITA | Ep 131
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Today we scour Reddit for the juiciest and most controversial posts in the subreddit AITA (Am i the A__hole?), and judge them ourselves! Does our input align with the masses? Let's find out and have so much fun reading these posts in r/AITA.
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#AITA I have a coworker that repeatedly failed to make her car payments on time and had her vehicle repo'd twice. I was nice and gave her and her grown adult mid-20s son rides to and from work for months. I work in a warehouse where we process items to ship to America's hat. One day her son was on our side of the building processing when I glanced over and saw him with his hand down the back of his underwear and then he looked at his hand to see if anything was on it. I was gagging at this point. I had heard stories of his "bathroom etiquette" from males at work but gave him the benefit of the doubt UNTIL I saw it for myself. Back to the specific day, after checking his hand he proceeded to touch the keyboard, mouse, scanner...everything on the station including customer items. I went a head and took them home that day and disinfected anything he would've touched. When I got home I texted my friend saying I was sorry and explained what led up to it. I was immediately hit with "Don't worry about it, we have a ride." And was blocked. However she and her son didn't even make it to work the next day. But the second day she was so cold and had no problems talking to anyone that would listen and I could tell it was about me because the people she was talking to would glance at me. I have still managed to keep my composure and not share my side. I can only imagine for her to act that way that she assumes what he did was acceptable and she raised him like that. She's extremely country. I'm not one to be a germaphobe, I ate a gummy bear off the pavement after I dropped it lol. But if it has to do with sanitary conditions, it's a problem. So AITA for making the situation known to her and leaving them without a ride?
Ok so in the comments of the first story op clarified some accusations thrown at her from Amy about op having money Op replied “I grew up pi*s poor. I ate bread and ketchup for lunch. When I graduated, I had -$40k to my name. Amy doesn’t mention that I started a new job less than a year ago, and my $35k bonus was the first time I’ve ever seen that amount of money in my life.”
Then Amy commented “maybe i am wrong for always forgetting my wallet but it’s not fair that she always pays for her own sisters but not for me. she would never take her sisters wallet and embarrass her at a restaurant trying to make her pay. taking my wallet and sneaking it to the restaurant when she can afford to pay for things is so messed up." She also complained that op has made her husband “cheapskate.”
Op’s reply to Amy’s comment “"Wow, I can’t. My sisters are in university working their as*es off to pay their own tuition, so yes I treat them occasionally. They don’t come to my house expecting me to pay for everything.
How much money I earn is not anyone’s damn business. How I spend my money is not anyone’s damn business. My husband is “cheap” now because we have a mortgage to pay and a child to take care of.
I also didn’t have much money to my name at a time in my life, but I never mooched off of anyone or expected anyone to pay my way. Not even my own parents. You figure that out on your own.”
When asked why her husband didn’t say anything op said “he has always been expected to pay for nice things for the females in his family. He's also been kind of scammed out of large sums of money by his family. That's slowly been shut down over times, and we're working on shutting down this dinner/outings thing. He allows this because he feels bad that they don't have a lot of money.”
These episodes are the highlight of my week bc I know I am guaranteed an hour of laughter. Zach, I am so with you on the credit card scenario. I was at home saying “Nope” right along with you when they were trying to create scenarios to change your answer! Next time, just remind them that “no means no” lol
That second story about the teenage girl with the disabled 12 yr old sister is so sad, her parents have put too much on her young shoulders, she's not her child its her sister - that girl should go to college, get a degree, get a fantastic job and move several states away...
Those parents are horrible. I can't believe all the lies and all the crap they heaped on that young lady. I hate that parents do not show equality to both children (in the case of missing one child's wedding) What the heck. And how exactly will they (make it up to them)
I've watched, literally, every episode! I've been waiting for a new one🤣
#AITA loved this EPP!! I had a similar thing to Chris’ wedding photos. My mother (Toxic AF) didn’t smile in any of my wedding photos and refused to take off her sunglasses even after being asked to by the photographer. She pulled lots of other sh#t at my wedding so we no longer have contact with her. 5 years later we laugh at the wedding photos and call her a bulldog (that’s the face she is pulling in every photo)
My favorite day of the week now 💙💙💙💙💙
Imagine being a regular customer and seeing the same two guys get fired repeatedly
Been waiting all week for this
Do more of these!😂😂😂
First thing you talked about. The sister in law made the reservation. She knew what she was doing. I’d tell her next time since you made the reservation you must be paying
My older sister got pregnant at 15, turned 16 just before giving birth....then expected everyone else (mainly me) to raise him.... I did everything from giving him his bottles to changing nappies and everything in between.... I even gave up my education to look after him.... after 4 years of this, I moved out coz I was sick of being taken for granted.... I was called a selfish b***h.... I was only 14 when my nephew was born
9:09 I love Zach’s simple blunt responses. They are hilarious b/c I would think and respond just the same.
#askmen. I would like to know if all men hate it when their spouse or significant other asked “what is wrong “ when they are in a bad mood. My husband snaps every time I ask, but I continue to do so with the hopes that we can work on our communication. I told him that communication is important and it would be nice that he can reciprocate by asking me what is wrong when my day is bad. He just said he doesn’t want to know so he won’t ask. Is this a topic that needs to be left alone for men? Should they be left to vent in peace?
I enjoyed this episode very much. It was great! I can empathize with the girl who has a sister with a disability. My parents never expected me to be my sibling's caregiver after they die. I've always felt equally loved and cared for by my parents. I hope the girl will have a good life. Please do another one of these. Thank you for another great episode of your podcast.
Love this would love to see you guys do it again😁
I’ve been staining a giant bookcase for the past week and listening to old podcasts on repeat. I’m so happy to have a new episode 🤣🥰
Do more, please! And I agreed with y'all on AITA.
With the sister-in-law that forgets the wallet, I would've been like what kind of credit card is in here and paid with her credit card
OMG you guys are hysterical 😂😂
BTW I loved the dad joke.
#tbc I have cancer and wish Zach all the best and am praying for him
Please continue these!!! Y’all are a great distraction!!
Best Intro thus far !! Lmao
Absolutely need to do another #AITA , it was great
Wish this had gone on longer because that was fun episode! I'd like to hear more of these stories. But that second story with the girl and her sister, I feel bad for both the siblings. Worse for the eldest, that is no way to live, but it also sounds like the younger sister isn't getting the proper care she should be getting. It just sounds like the parents are letting the girl just run around riot and break things. Probably would have blamed the eldest if anything had gone wrong. I am glad though Chris pointed out the misdirected hatred though, and I'm glad she did too with her update!
But definitely you guys should do this again!
OP should not go to the funeral. My nephew died due to a heroin overdose. It was laced with Fentanyl. The person who got him hooked would not be welcomed at his funeral. My niece probably would have gone to jail if that guy ever showed up.
We need more of these videos , I was laughing so hard at y'all goodness. .
Please continue with this them #AITA loved it had me laughing.
Definitely have to do more, this was great
Definitely need more of these!! Awesome episode guys!
I loved this one!! I don't remember what the hashtag was already.... 😂
Another great podcast! ❤
I have a question. I know that an earlier podcast ( I think the first year), Cam and Zack said they have a lot of stories to tell from their missions they did. I am just curious, is there going to be and podcast about that or anything more that topic?
I'd like to see that. They've also done a few Top 10s, and I'd like them to go into more detail on some of Zach's from the Top 10 Mysteries he did a while ago.
#AITA my dad asked my opinion on his new lady friend. I told him what I thought based on what had been happening to that point in time and my dad took offence, so much so that he's barely spoken to me since, and this happened in 2016. He didn't even send me a birthday card when I turned 40 back in June this year. I've not stopped sending him birthday and Christmas cards. He's all I've got left and he's refusing to talk to me.
Love you guys I had hear all but one of these story’s but still a great episode
Second one- the parents are the a holes
#AITA I loved this so much😂
also, my #askmen question is still “How do you feel about your wives being ‘stay at home wives/moms?’ As well as a follow up, if you’ve ever experienced any type of resentment because of that what are some of the ways you’ve worked through that in your marriages?” Wishing you all the best and I hope the pod continues for a long time!!!🩶🩶🩶
For the heroin story, I would wonder what the decedent would want - maybe their is grace for the person who got her started and even if it was for themselves that may not be the most horrible thing. I'd ask the sister of the decedent what her opinion is and go off of that.
Evening all. Love from the UK. Listening to this while playing Disney dreamlight valley lol. 😁 Xx
#askmen Will you do a remote for an October haunted House or a Haunted graveyard this year. #askmen Chris how is the bullying situation going with Alden? Thank you for another great podcast.
I love this episode!!! #AITAH !!!!
#AskMen Why do all men not know about the "evac button" you can press and get the last dribble of pee out before you zip up?! 😂
Sorry but you do attract bees with honey see what happens when you deal with your beehives.