Although it's always necessary to be kind and compassionate, being her "shoulder to cry on" without her already being committed to you will only lead to the friendzone. She has no reason to invest in you as a potential mate if she's already getting all the emotional support she wants from you. It's like guys wanting to be "friends with benefits" with a girl. He has no reason to consider a relationship with her if he's already getting laid.
Unless you're already hooking up, this is just going to get you friendzoned for life. She will value you so much that she won't want to risk losing the best therapist ever by making the relationship physical. Stay clear of this trap boys!
@@pablor491 Unless you have an emotional connection with a woman as a base you'll never get past being a hook up or friend. Also, that's why you make your interest known as early on as possible. It's a dance. You have to multitask your approach without being overbearing and clingy.
Well, thanks Anna! You just described how I handled all my female friends for years. In return none of them were interested in a romantic relationship with me. After years I found someone out of the group, we got together and she enjoyed the same handling. So she left me after 5,5 years. En my current girlfriend decided we need a break (for the 3rd time), despite I am her confidant, support and all the things you just described. I would say this works the opposite way with girls having fear of commitment. I am also wondering if it ever works looking at my track record…
Nope. Just another example of women not actually understanding what they're attracted to. Normal women are attracted to men, plain and simple. Be a man at all times. Because women are naturally insecure, they look for a strong man to latch onto for security. As a man, nobody actually cares about your feelings. A woman may say she does, but becoming emotionally vulnerable around her will instantly make you less attractive in her eyes. Being funny actually does work because it's an easy way to keep her engaged in conversation early on. However, make your intentions known quick. You're not looking for another friend and that needs to be made clear even at the risk of rejection. Keep in mind that loitering in the friendzone is nothing more than long form rejection. Better to be shot down in minutes and move on several times than to waste years of your life slowly being shot down by one woman.
Thanks for the empathy and advice! But if in 8 years only one girl responds my feelings, it is not like I had much chance on being selective. And it's also not like she showed this behaviour or talked about her trauma from the start. Which I understand. It is a difficult thing to bring up and most guys just run when you tell them I guess. When she told me, I decided to stay and support her and that went well till this year. Avoidant attachment is hard to conquer, if it is even possible.@JustinArut
These works both ways, It's all about the human side of engagement, I'm personally looking for someone with a conscious as in my world view most lack now
All of these things go both ways. We both need these things not women only. We both need good words of encouragement as well as the other things you have talked about as well.
Being supportive is important however Mr. Nice Guy has a good chance of finishing last, being the friendzone guy, and does NOT create the gut level masculine attraction females want. There's a fine line and dance to female attraction. Don't get in the friendzone. Only with some experience you may figure it out.
Ok.. good video.. good advice.. my question is, does all the advice you give in multiple videos work on you?? Hypothetically, if i were interested in starting a relationship with you Anna, should i use all the advice you give to make you attracted to me?? And what would i be able to expect from you at that point?? Maybe your next video could give advice to guys like me that are extremely nervous when approaching beautiful women like yourself.. so putting those two together, how would a guy approach a lady like you and how would he implement all of your advice and what could he expect in return?? Love you and your content.. Happy New Year from Texas Anna..
I am about halfway through the video, and it is very informative and helpful; another amazing video among many :) I would really appreciate it if the Joyanima team could make time stamps in the video's description or in a different comment so (for example, I) can get back to a certain point instead of searching for it somewhere in the video. Again, thank you for your amazing videos.
Hi Anna. Thanks so much for this advice. It never goes unappreciated. On the topic of advice, do you think you could by any chance please consider making some content on the subject of “Fake Flirting” as it is something that I struggle with recognising and dealing with personally?
cuzzy rory aka cuzzy rory aka cuzzy customs aka cuzzy rory aka uncle rory is here in the comments section my loveley anna joyanima aka anna joyanima where have u been in the comments section too rory driftman hes been have rough asf few days in bed sick an not too good an fleeing like shit and my new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog is doing pretty goods too as well idk am still pretty upset asf tho as i lost my another dog as it die an i still missing him every much and still dealing with it its been pretty fucking rough asf year for me too saying too u anna joyanima idk have walked away from my relationship from my crush aka new lady freind aka new gf aka new girlfreind aka wife too me maybe soome day soon ive come into content with her on few times tho bitt ive not talked too her over few past months tho i still am keen too been back with her tho if shes not with anyone at the mo or been cheating on me with another new guy after me guy freind or new bf or been lieing too me about her past realthiship with her ex boyfreind i knwoing about her an her in there realtionship @@Joyanima idk still dont knowing where iam fucking at with her she owns me big time coffee dates an going out few few cold drinks off beers at my local pub in town an owns me big time incoming new year off 2024 as iam now a lawyer an going too been coming after her for my pay mitt for what she owns me and iam bads bad boy she dose not what too fucking me off or piss me fucking off or piss me around an around as ive got my bads bad boy mates an contents for me for my support crew team for cuzzy rory aka cuzzy rory aka cuzzy customs aka uncle rory
Matthew 18:19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
yeah ive just been hanging out with my homies an few mates today in mot town ship an seening few off my mates as well ive got an come into content with on day too day base idk was going too takeing my 7week old baby puppy puppy dog for trip into town with me today on sunday 31st off december 2023 i did getting anytime too takeing him with me today soo he stad home for the day with my mum an sis today an when i come back home from town today i whent for along asf walk with myslfe an my 7week old baby puppy puppy dog with the puppy puppy dog this afternoon an had a play dates with this daddy an i had few cold drinks off beer on my walk too an seat down an rolling around on the ground with my puppy puppy dog for this afternoon walk an hadd dinner too an another walk too for the end off the day idk dont know whats on this week coming up every soon on monday or tuesday or wednesday or thursday or friday or saturday or sunday
So ive been divorced almost 10 years. Im 50 years old. I thought I found someone to go to meals with, we meet up, eat, pay, then go our seperate ways. Then he texted, said he would like to help me "get over my hatred of men". I said ok, that I would let him know if i ever date for companionship again. So im disappointed, I thought our arrangement was PERFECT. No attachments. So, im sad because...why cant men leave well enough alone? I dont want to date anyone. I dont hate men, I love men, im just not ready to date. Good lord.
after getting this new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog myslfe an my condfidens skills an talking skills is coming upp pretty awesome as well too etc. as come upp pretty awesome and alot off spicy asf younger looking women or younger looking girls are coming up too me an approaching me too talking too me about my new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog everywhere i going with him into town for few hours jobs or the worksite for working over at the local cafe coffee shop we own it
u just needed too getting back out there my freind dont give upp on looking for a new gf aka new crush aka new lady freind aka new girlfreind or new partner
Responsive communication is great, but I am with someone who would have her feelings hurt if I did not respond to a text right away. I manage a $30 million health clinic. A non urgent text while I am at work is likely to be ignored. How would one handle this?
It's not really emotion it's hard-wired Instinct to go after the boss's boss Chad .. the only emotions I can think of that they have is maybe anger, jealousy, envy
The art of creation, you cannot create something new from the same sort of consciousness. You have gained knowledge from all kinda different paths, piece these together into One Piece. Let's take a Twinflame Union metaphorically speaking. It's not 1 soul in 2 bodies, it's getting in perfect Union with your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine Energie in your current body. 1 side of the brain is masculine the other side is feminine, when you only use 1 half. You have people looking for their other half, 1 side is narcissistic the other side is empathic. That's why they always run to each other, both sides are victims that need to learn to blend their own energies into oneness. Thus that's how you create a real Sigma. We have 3 brains the upper, the middle and the lower reptilian brain. We have 3 meridians, energy centers the upper, the middle and the lower meridian. What a coincidence all 3 work in the same way, lower basic survival mode. The Middle is all about emotions, and the upper is the union. Simply said when you stop wasting your energy/life essence Chi. You build up more pure Energy in the lower meridian, which goes up to the middle meridian. Your emotions will improve which result even in your health and mental state Will heal after some time. And after that it goes up and blend the 2 hemispheres of the brain and fuse them into oneness. This result in a healed version of also narcissists, just simply fast said now. And honestly I'm not even interested in figuring this out it's just a byproduct from what I truly want👀
There's a lot of truth in what you say however there are some errors. I will state only 1 main error. A half soul cannot exist. A twin flame soul undergoes a division as a cell does creating two separate cells meaning two souls are created from one. Even though twin flames are meant to be, and can be together it's NOT necessary, as each soul can find it's unique happiness from within, as one is always all.
And while you are dooing all this try not to loose your own Identity and mental health.... :D good luck guys, and remember girls pity guys who do everything for them! :) Now that you know this just give a heck and do not break your necks while trying to please them!
an just needed a bads bad boy motorbike too going ride on around town watching the spicy asf younger looking ladys or younger looking women or younger girls chaseing after me on my brand new motorbike all dress up in my brand new leather Jacket with tank top singelt on an few bads bad boy outfits an some sunglasses too wearing with my helment on as well when i ride past them effortlessly chasing after mefor ride on the back off my motorbike with few bads bad boy rings an watchs bracelets few leather necklaces necklaces leather jeans or jeans with few rips in them as bads bad boy style look
idk fucking love going fishing for few spicy asf younger looking women or younger looking girls thats how i fish too catch a fish ahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahaahahahahahahahahah theres more fish in the sea its all about fishing for the fish in the sea pretty much the same think with women or girls
@@winfriedmaus disagreed. There's nothing wrong with being friends before lovers. That's encouraged. But there's clearly a line that's crossed where the woman loses their attraction to the man because they perceive the guy as not relationship material and gets put in the friend zone. I'd prefer a balanced approach that shows a woman you care and is interested in a relationship without being put in friend zone.
yeah ive been saveing up some pocket money too buying myslfe brand new bads bad boy dirt bikes or dirt bike or motocross bike an another bads bad boy motorbike for the street an road bike too as well ahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahha
This seems to be a guide to get a girl to ghost you. Women dont want this type of guy in the real world. I used to be this guy and now become unavailable, and they are knocking at my door. Women do not think logically.
I must say I have the same experience. Some of them litteraly boosting I would be the perfect boyfriend. 'Would' being the keyword. It's like they were all afraid to loose a helpful friend.
Although it's always necessary to be kind and compassionate, being her "shoulder to cry on" without her already being committed to you will only lead to the friendzone. She has no reason to invest in you as a potential mate if she's already getting all the emotional support she wants from you. It's like guys wanting to be "friends with benefits" with a girl. He has no reason to consider a relationship with her if he's already getting laid.
Unless you're already hooking up, this is just going to get you friendzoned for life. She will value you so much that she won't want to risk losing the best therapist ever by making the relationship physical. Stay clear of this trap boys!
My thinking too.
Relationships aren't just physical and superficial.
@@jhamilton1007 right, but this video is literally about getting a woman to be more than friends.
@@pablor491 Unless you have an emotional connection with a woman as a base you'll never get past being a hook up or friend. Also, that's why you make your interest known as early on as possible. It's a dance. You have to multitask your approach without being overbearing and clingy.
@@jhamilton1007 I agree but that's not what the video is saying to do. Usually she provides decent advice but not here (in my opinion)
Well, thanks Anna! You just described how I handled all my female friends for years. In return none of them were interested in a romantic relationship with me. After years I found someone out of the group, we got together and she enjoyed the same handling. So she left me after 5,5 years. En my current girlfriend decided we need a break (for the 3rd time), despite I am her confidant, support and all the things you just described. I would say this works the opposite way with girls having fear of commitment. I am also wondering if it ever works looking at my track record…
Nope. Just another example of women not actually understanding what they're attracted to. Normal women are attracted to men, plain and simple.
Be a man at all times. Because women are naturally insecure, they look for a strong man to latch onto for security. As a man, nobody actually cares about your feelings. A woman may say she does, but becoming emotionally vulnerable around her will instantly make you less attractive in her eyes.
Being funny actually does work because it's an easy way to keep her engaged in conversation early on. However, make your intentions known quick. You're not looking for another friend and that needs to be made clear even at the risk of rejection.
Keep in mind that loitering in the friendzone is nothing more than long form rejection. Better to be shot down in minutes and move on several times than to waste years of your life slowly being shot down by one woman.
@JustinArut 100%
Thanks for the empathy and advice! But if in 8 years only one girl responds my feelings, it is not like I had much chance on being selective. And it's also not like she showed this behaviour or talked about her trauma from the start. Which I understand. It is a difficult thing to bring up and most guys just run when you tell them I guess. When she told me, I decided to stay and support her and that went well till this year. Avoidant attachment is hard to conquer, if it is even possible.@JustinArut
These works both ways,
It's all about the human side of engagement,
I'm personally looking for someone with a conscious as in my world view most lack now
You don’t get friend zoned if she’s sexually attracted to you.
Exactly
Only works if you are physically attractive but even then that fades
Now exactly @@lillpoetboy Wish that was true but life ain't a Disney movie
@@daveallen6611 good looking dudes get dumped and cheated on every day. "Looks" don't matter much, it's a terrible lie men tell themselves
5 Body Language Signs she wants u too approach her too talking too her or make eye content with her or smily
All of these things go both ways. We both need these things not women only. We both need good words of encouragement as well as the other things you have talked about as well.
Being supportive is important however Mr. Nice Guy has a good chance of finishing last, being the friendzone guy, and does NOT create the gut level masculine attraction females want.
There's a fine line and dance to female attraction.
Don't get in the friendzone.
Only with some experience you may figure it out.
Ok.. good video.. good advice.. my question is, does all the advice you give in multiple videos work on you?? Hypothetically, if i were interested in starting a relationship with you Anna, should i use all the advice you give to make you attracted to me?? And what would i be able to expect from you at that point?? Maybe your next video could give advice to guys like me that are extremely nervous when approaching beautiful women like yourself.. so putting those two together, how would a guy approach a lady like you and how would he implement all of your advice and what could he expect in return?? Love you and your content.. Happy New Year from Texas Anna..
I am about halfway through the video, and it is very informative and helpful; another amazing video among many :)
I would really appreciate it if the Joyanima team could make time stamps in the video's description or in a different comment so (for example, I) can get back to a certain point instead of searching for it somewhere in the video. Again, thank you for your amazing videos.
Aiiigghhhh we got you bro 😎
This video explains some more information that I am looking for. Thank you 🙏 Joyanima ❤
Hi Anna. Thanks so much for this advice. It never goes unappreciated. On the topic of advice, do you think you could by any chance please consider making some content on the subject of “Fake Flirting” as it is something that I struggle with recognising and dealing with personally?
I'll see if I can take a look into it. Thank you for the support!
cuzzy rory aka cuzzy rory aka cuzzy customs aka cuzzy rory aka uncle rory is here in the comments section my loveley anna joyanima aka anna joyanima where have u been in the comments section too rory driftman hes been have rough asf few days in bed sick an not too good an fleeing like shit and my new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog is doing pretty goods too as well idk am still pretty upset asf tho as i lost my another dog as it die an i still missing him every much and still dealing with it its been pretty fucking rough asf year for me too saying too u anna joyanima idk have walked away from my relationship from my crush aka new lady freind aka new gf aka new girlfreind aka wife too me maybe soome day soon ive come into content with her on few times tho bitt ive not talked too her over few past months tho i still am keen too been back with her tho if shes not with anyone at the mo or been cheating on me with another new guy after me guy freind or new bf or been lieing too me about her past realthiship with her ex boyfreind i knwoing about her an her in there realtionship @@Joyanima idk still dont knowing where iam fucking at with her she owns me big time coffee dates an going out few few cold drinks off beers at my local pub in town an owns me big time incoming new year off 2024 as iam now a lawyer an going too been coming after her for my pay mitt for what she owns me and iam bads bad boy she dose not what too fucking me off or piss me fucking off or piss me around an around as ive got my bads bad boy mates an contents for me for my support crew team for cuzzy rory aka cuzzy rory aka cuzzy customs aka uncle rory
Matthew 18:19
Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
Another awesome vid! Very interesting and informative! Happy new year!
insightful!
yeah ive just been hanging out with my homies an few mates today in mot town ship an seening few off my mates as well ive got an come into content with on day too day base idk was going too takeing my 7week old baby puppy puppy dog for trip into town with me today on sunday 31st off december 2023 i did getting anytime too takeing him with me today soo he stad home for the day with my mum an sis today an when i come back home from town today i whent for along asf walk with myslfe an my 7week old baby puppy puppy dog with the puppy puppy dog this afternoon an had a play dates with this daddy an i had few cold drinks off beer on my walk too an seat down an rolling around on the ground with my puppy puppy dog for this afternoon walk an hadd dinner too an another walk too for the end off the day idk dont know whats on this week coming up every soon on monday or tuesday or wednesday or thursday or friday or saturday or sunday
Why not make those sleeves even? It's either you roll them both up or down.🤝🏼
I ran away at fukk speed, but it didn't go me any good. All I wanted was to be "just good friends". but we have been married now for 52 years.
Hello, Great video. I really do appreciate your great efforts in year2023, wishing you all Happiness prosperity and success in year2024 🙏❄️🎇🎆🎄🎄🎄
I'm on board, even with sixty foot seas !! That's a given !!! 😊
So ive been divorced almost 10 years. Im 50 years old. I thought I found someone to go to meals with, we meet up, eat, pay, then go our seperate ways. Then he texted, said he would like to help me "get over my hatred of men". I said ok, that I would let him know if i ever date for companionship again. So im disappointed, I thought our arrangement was PERFECT. No attachments. So, im sad because...why cant men leave well enough alone? I dont want to date anyone. I dont hate men, I love men, im just not ready to date. Good lord.
Im good with that choice.
💡 enlightened. Success rate with the ladies in 2024 is definitely ⬆️
after getting this new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog myslfe an my condfidens skills an talking skills is coming upp pretty awesome as well too etc. as come upp pretty awesome and alot off spicy asf younger looking women or younger looking girls are coming up too me an approaching me too talking too me about my new 7week old baby puppy puppy dog everywhere i going with him into town for few hours jobs or the worksite for working over at the local cafe coffee shop we own it
Yap, I know. I'm sleeping on your bed today. Wake me up when you finish talking to them.😊
When I saw the thumbnail title, my intrusive mind immediately went to: "Steal her handbag..." 🤔
👜🏃🏃🏼♀️
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Hi Anna: interesting video.. you popped up on my phone again.... Oddly!
Jack: Colorado...
Hmmm🤔
But Ana, why is it its all abt her ?
I don't have partner even I don't do anything wrong with anyone and i am also good looking person
u just needed too getting back out there my freind dont give upp on looking for a new gf aka new crush aka new lady freind aka new girlfreind or new partner
Baby any events you want me to start with iam ready baby for any events you choose to do ism ready baby
Responsive communication is great, but I am with someone who would have her feelings hurt if I did not respond to a text right away. I manage a $30 million health clinic. A non urgent text while I am at work is likely to be ignored.
How would one handle this?
By getting your priorities right. Besides, a 30 million dollar health clinic is not as impressive as you hope it sounds - it's still a small business.
@@winfriedmaus thank you. I am in no way saying it is large. It is just what i do for work without going into major detail.
I had a lady like this. Tell her straight up your working. If she still complains ditch her. She doesn't value your time or career.
Probably go on a date
This is coming across very friend zone ish
It's not really emotion it's hard-wired Instinct to go after the boss's boss Chad .. the only emotions I can think of that they have is maybe anger, jealousy, envy
The art of creation, you cannot create something new from the same sort of consciousness.
You have gained knowledge from all kinda different paths, piece these together into One Piece.
Let's take a Twinflame Union metaphorically speaking.
It's not 1 soul in 2 bodies, it's getting in perfect Union with your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine Energie in your current body.
1 side of the brain is masculine the other side is feminine, when you only use 1 half.
You have people looking for their other half, 1 side is narcissistic the other side is empathic.
That's why they always run to each other, both sides are victims that need to learn to blend their own energies into oneness.
Thus that's how you create a real Sigma.
We have 3 brains the upper, the middle and the lower reptilian brain.
We have 3 meridians, energy centers the upper, the middle and the lower meridian.
What a coincidence all 3 work in the same way, lower basic survival mode.
The Middle is all about emotions, and the upper is the union.
Simply said when you stop wasting your energy/life essence Chi.
You build up more pure Energy in the lower meridian, which goes up to the middle meridian.
Your emotions will improve which result even in your health and mental state Will heal after some time.
And after that it goes up and blend the 2 hemispheres of the brain and fuse them into oneness.
This result in a healed version of also narcissists, just simply fast said now.
And honestly I'm not even interested in figuring this out it's just a byproduct from what I truly want👀
There's a lot of truth in what you say however there are some errors. I will state only 1 main error.
A half soul cannot exist. A twin flame soul undergoes a division as a cell does creating two separate cells meaning two souls are created from one.
Even though twin flames are meant to be, and can be together it's NOT necessary, as each soul can find it's unique happiness from within, as one is always all.
And while you are dooing all this try not to loose your own Identity and mental health.... :D good luck guys, and remember girls pity guys who do everything for them! :) Now that you know this just give a heck and do not break your necks while trying to please them!
an just needed a bads bad boy motorbike too going ride on around town watching the spicy asf younger looking ladys or younger looking women or younger girls chaseing after me on my brand new motorbike all dress up in my brand new leather Jacket with tank top singelt on an few bads bad boy outfits an some sunglasses too wearing with my helment on as well when i ride past them effortlessly chasing after mefor ride on the back off my motorbike with few bads bad boy rings an watchs bracelets few leather necklaces necklaces leather jeans or jeans with few rips in them as bads bad boy style look
This only works if you're a Chad.
Asking the fish how to catch a fish....
idk fucking love going fishing for few spicy asf younger looking women or younger looking girls thats how i fish too catch a fish ahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahaahahahahahahahahah theres more fish in the sea its all about fishing for the fish in the sea pretty much the same think with women or girls
No thanks. This puts you into friendzone. Hard pass
You just demonstrated that you have zero understanding of how an actual deep relationship that lasts decades works.
@@winfriedmaus disagreed. There's nothing wrong with being friends before lovers. That's encouraged. But there's clearly a line that's crossed where the woman loses their attraction to the man because they perceive the guy as not relationship material and gets put in the friend zone. I'd prefer a balanced approach that shows a woman you care and is interested in a relationship without being put in friend zone.
yeah ive been saveing up some pocket money too buying myslfe brand new bads bad boy dirt bikes or dirt bike or motocross bike an another bads bad boy motorbike for the street an road bike too as well ahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahha
I`m doing it now hun ;) i`ll see you down the fizog n firkin, in half hoyr ;) lol x
Seriously? She makes these videos to help guys like us, have some respect and leave her alone.
@@thetimeshadow6769 seriously! it`s no sense of humour, is one of the reasons why :) lmfo ha ha
This seems to be a guide to get a girl to ghost you. Women dont want this type of guy in the real world. I used to be this guy and now become unavailable, and they are knocking at my door. Women do not think logically.
I must say I have the same experience. Some of them litteraly boosting I would be the perfect boyfriend. 'Would' being the keyword. It's like they were all afraid to loose a helpful friend.
everything you said here was False and Feminist.
doing the things you mention here will also cause your relationship to Fail.
Women are emotional not men, men understand logic and reason.
Look up all 12 episodes of the black phillip show
The entire video is laughable.