Meanest Thing You Have Said To A Man... | ShxtsNGigs Podcast
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'Meanest Thing You Have Said To A Man...'
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Men hurt women with their actions, women hurt men with their words. Both sides play to their strengths
took the words out of my mouth.
That's actually true
Exactly lol
I feel you, but hear me out. I think men are just selfish whereas women are intentional with what words they use.
@@TumaH ofc it would be intentional if they are being disrespected time and time again.
"I'd choke her with both hands"
As she is struggling for air she sneaks in
"Should have put that same energy into catching the football"
💀💀💀
I'm literally crying 😂
That may make the man cry
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh Shit that's the final blow 😂😂😂
The "if your daddy didn't stay, why should I" slapped me into an ad😂
Did me the same way
😂😂😂😂
Lmaoo samee😂😂
Same
Sameeee🤣😭
James’ reactions to some of these like he took them personally 😂😂😂
Well as a short I can say.. I might not grow but you ain't looking better than you did before the comment( purely a joke for the butt hurt people)
Especially the hairline onee😭
We’ve empathy we’ve all been there 😂
Watchu mean, James is not the only one! The nerve of this betches to speak these things!
James be _feelin'_ these strangers' pain, in real time! 😂😂
The fact that you dont feel it as well for these people says everything
facts@@shomarinangwaya-walker8295
@@shomarinangwaya-walker8295you can have empathy without taking it personally like James has 😂
@jessicarichter6436 i dont think he takes them personally but he does put himself in their shoes for the responses, as if he didn't we wouldnt BE HERE we could just read the thread's on twitter and Instagram. FAAAÀCTS 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love the NFL one. He tried to treat her like an option, she reminded him that he is an option too
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That part. Why can’t I think of shit like this when I’m insulted
But he is still a NFL player literally being there means u inherently are one of top players in the world but who is she
@@shammybarnthe woman whom he wanted, but who didn't want him. Were you not paying attention?
@@shammybarn World? The NFL is only in 1 country
That first one about the NFL player wasn't a roast, that was an explosion. There were like 3 or 4 things she got him on, killing 3 birds with one stone. 😂
Thinkin' that this is what happens when the "quiet" person holds in _all_ of their emotions, like anger, for way too long.
Tick - - tick - - tick - - - - - - - - - - *KA BOOM!* 😂😂
She left no stone unturned in her entire statement! She demolished his entire persona he had built up in his head. She didn’t just bring him back down to earth, she buried him. He blocked her because he wouldn’t be able to stand if she wrote any of those things on any of his social platforms. He needed counseling after this!!! Still funny af!!!😂🤣😂🤣
It's really not that bad. Bros in the NFL - she's just some doorknob
Remember the perspective
@@roninhubbard9059 Bro sounds like he's barely in the NFL. More like the NFL's foster kid. They sound like they're about ready to send him back any day now.
@@ZariDV doesn't matter. He's in the NFL huge achievement.
“If your daddy didn’t stay then why should I?” That’s a VIOLATION
She's evil, that was wrong, on so many levels
We don't know the whole story. You don't know what he did to her. @@monasthoughts9093
I paused my entire life to absorb that💀
As a woman, I can confirm. I have a laundry list of things that I have stored for people (men and women) who attempt to shame me.
Same here! Store on my Google doc!!😂😂
Also as a woman, we be mad brutal to random strangers, but guys don't see the 10 men that came before them that don't take the 5th "no thank you" for an answer. So we just try to be as firm as possible initially so it's extremely clear how we feel. I do feel bad for respectful men in that regard, but maybe try to inform your brothers to not be so persistent...🙄
@@ljeans531AMEN 🙏🏼
pls share them with me
@@i_li1Seconding this
I wanna know how tall James is because he gets HEATED about the height ones 😂
They're both 5'9"
James is 5'11"
Maybe he is like my brother who was the shortest for 20 years then at 21 he had a sudden growth spur. Now he is taller than most. Lol
Lol. I didnt know that he did
@@mercymueni6008Fuhad is 5'9" and James 5'11".
James says he couldn't hurt someone's feelings on purpose...
Something tells me if he saw Fuhad and Tobi hanging out without him... he'd find the words. 😅
Definitely 😂😂
Oh my life LMAOOO
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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There was this bald guy at my old job who kept bumping into me on purpose because he thought it was cute. One day during lunch time, he did it again and I say " HR told me, if you keep bumping into me, your hairline will keep receding"
He was fuming while my 2 supervisors were laughing loud AF.
It's so funny seeing how James takes these so personally - man brings all the drama you would ever need in a relationship, I could never 😂😂😂
They are vicious and heinous insults and he's imagining them being said to him. Women take the most random shit offensively because most men aren't evil enough to say it to someone.
Fuhad’s reaction @ 6:09 to the women rolling over looking at wedding dresses is pure gold.😂😂😂😂😂
I had to go watch the movie 😂
Well if you just made her a glazed cinnamon roll that still has her toes curled she shouldn't be looking for somebody else right now.
“Im not arguing with a man thats looking at me at eye level”
😅
Your rather be talked down to instead of seeing eye-to -eye 😢???
"I'm not arguing with a woman that is eye level with me and still weighs more"
"I've never said anything to intentonally hurt someone" but you had a whole cheating era?! Siiiirrr
He has a whole heap of audacity. A great example of how little self awareness men have where they don't even realise that they have hurt women and think that our responses are just us being evil and unprovoked.
And in this vid they were so butthurt n shit as if they haven’t said worse things about gals
The “woman can’t conceptualise consequences” had me thinking. I am gasping so hard, cause yeah we really don’t 😩
For 😂😂😂
Why do you think that is tho?
No we conceptualize consequences it’s just that often time the consequences men impose on us are often unnecessary and overblown.
When y'all start getting backhanded, that mindset will change.
@@ulquiorracifer5493 Facts 😂
Not gonna lie this made me reflect...I told my ex he came from a f-Ed family that's why he doesn't know how to be a man...he choked me out...granted DV is never ok but I had 10 more insults in the charmber that would've brought him to his knees if I was conscious...watch your words ladies
“Youre 5’4 talking to me with a 6’2 attitude”
"I'd ask if you think you can just walk away after saying that, but we all know you're rolling away"
"If your daddy didn't stay, why would I?" 😢 That was so hurtful. I got hot in the crossfire.😮
Just gonna note that for the most part, every comment they read was a response to a man doing/saying some shit. Maybe these women that say mean shit aren't just going around fucking up men's feelings for fun, but will respond if a dude comes for them. Just a thought. With a strong exception for "if your daddy didn't stay why should I" and "you're a stepping stone for a woman to find her husband after you" because those 2 are crazyyyyy bro
Savage😂😂😂
Nah some women just like to be hurtful to men. It's not always a response. The first one girl was just getting approached and she felt the need to talk about his hairline.
As a man, while responses like the last two are horrible, I do not think too bad of them of the person they are directed towards are terrible. Sometimes break ups or relationships are just that bad, which is why people need to leave them if they can. I remember my sister would talk shit about her in laws parenting skills right to her husband's face, their lack of education and she almost said that she knows why his mother got physically abused.
The dad one made me get serious. I was like oh no! that is not right.
Nah this is the woman natural state.
I actually don't store anything. But, I can come up with things on the spot. Especially when it seems someone is purposely trying to hurt me
When women are being mean, they've had enough and feel you've been mean, for a long time. They're hurt and trying to hurt you BACK.
Or your could express yourself before a fight and not repress shit
Nah bruh you can just be at the wrong place at the wrong time and women will be on some loaded lux timing.
@@rickylukecage4215 that comes from people not being taught to not redirect their frustrations towards an innocent party. I grew up being taught to be upset only at the offending party thinking this is a common lesson only to find that the majority of people will absolutely take out their bad day, fights, arguments, frustrations, etc on everyone regardless if they had anything to do with the problem(s).
Nah man it’s not the same. A man’s inaction is seen as “mean” but their meanness is unintentional. These women go for the THROAT and use their boyfriends’ insecurities to absolutely destroy them. To hurt them so badly that they’ll never make the mistake of being vulnerable again. That’s disproportional hurt, and verbal abuse. A woman’s hurt feelings isn’t justification for the dehumanization of a man’s entire being.
@@RT-zn9bj Often times, a man knows his inaction is hurtful and chooses to do it anyway.
He took me to a café and bought me the cheapest thing on the menu for the first date. Later that day when I said no to the second date, he told me to pay the money he had paid for the coffee to a charity! I paid 10 times the coffee price and sent him the receipt and told him he can now stop asking the next nine women he would go on the first date to do the same.
Absolutely brilliant 😂
Why would he buy you something expensive
@@mariams3879 firstly because he bragged knowing the best coffee in town and secondly I offered to pay for myself
Nah i love that NFL one. She just kept going and going😂😂
PLWEASEEEE the silence and low " Jesus christ" James let out after the "if your daddy didn't stay, why should I" 😂😂😂
The "if your daddy didn't stay then why would I" would hurt!! 😭🤣
i’m writing that down ✍🏻 🤣🤣
I can never think of these on the spot and it pains me 😂It's always 3 hours later and suddenly I can come up with all these genius clap backs
Same 😭😭
Same
Women are quick to retaliate and late to think about the lasting outcome.
Its not funny or cute...its childish. Be the bigger person, tell them what theyre doing is the wrong way to trewt a human, and leave.
Verbal or Physically violence is NOT the answer. It just keeps the wound open
you do realise you're not supposed to attack people personally right? Women love to act like the more empathetic sex but men would rarely ever say heinous shit like this to another person.
It's weird how some people can say hurting things first. Then when someone responds it's "out of nowhere" 🤦🏾♀️ I have said to this guy "I'll f*ck your dad and give him a son he can FINALLY be proud of"....but that was only AFTER he called me the n word when he lost against me online in Mortal Kombat. After that, he started crying about how his dad left and he never knew him 😒🙄🤦🏾♀️.
Oh hell no! I hope you never talked to him again!
@Carpathianpixie195 it's online gaming. Unless he sends me a friend request or is on my team, I rarely come across the same players. I would have to stay online, and rank up to MAYBE fight the same people in the SAME day. Other than that ......
OMG I think you dropped these🏆🥇🥇🥇
Cuz that was BRUTAL😂😂😂😂
If you can't take the trashtalk in gaming, then don't start trash talking. The dude kinda had it coming for that lol
Aight, I feel you since it's MK, the fatality is thematic. But damn, talk about the punishment is far damaging more than the crime. What do you think about the new one, you still play, will you play?
I remember telling a man "ya mother raised a bitch and ya father was ok with that" he never spoke to me again and had to fight his cousis
James’ facial expression’s in real time is THEEEE funniest shit ever 😂😂😂
Nah the vibrator and hairline ones are my favourite already. I love a good passive aggressive and calm clapback... with a smile. I'm just a girl
As someone working through my own avoidant attachment healing, James' ex is 100% spot on. The impact your parents have on your ability to healthily confront, feel, and express your emotions can not be understated. She still shouldn't have said it like that...
Especially because if he called her emotional and she wasn't actually being emotional, her response may have been a factual answer 😬 but yeah, throwing something someone said at a vulnerable time isn't right
Maybe it’s a cultural thing (I’m American 🇺🇸) but I didn’t think her saying he wasn’t emotional and why was all that bad. If she’s trying to get thru to him on something, maybe she was pointing it out to explain why he wasn’t understanding her. Idk…
Dude you’ve got no idea whether or not he was the one in the wrong when she said that. You’ve got no idea if he was communicating healthy or not. If she was the type to escalate every conflict. If she WAS too emotional. You’ve got no idea, but you want to post that she’s right? You missed his entire point about not using a man’s vulnerability to win an argument.
Yeah I dont see an issue with what she said. He admits that he called her "emotional." She just got him to question how he himself measures emotion. She said it like it was. I thought men liked that? Oh wait... only when THEY do it.
@@RT-zn9bj but he called her "emotional" 100% it was because he didn't approve of her reaction to something. You can't really be saying that he is allowed to call her hurtful things because he's mad but she isn't? Please.
when i was 19, i was with a guy who was super manipulative and took advantage of me in every way he could. i reached my breaking point and went off on him and then blocked him on everything.
a few months go by and he had his sister try to reach me so he can talk to me. i unblock him for a little bit and he calls me saying that he missed me so much, he thought about my every single day and then asked me how i felt about him. i flat out said “i haven’t thought about you at all.”. i remember hearing him painfully exhale and trying to hold back tears. it felt so good.
imagine admitting some monstrous shit like that and thinking you're morally right.
The first one made me not feel so bad about telling my ex him buying magnums is like a anorexic buying a 2x shirt.
😂😂😂😂
Oooooohhh My!!!!
Bravo 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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@@tuscan4174 after he cursed me out 😆
2:54 my favorite part 😂😂😂😂😂 Fuhad saying FACTTTTTSSS !!! I’m so weak
These were brutal lol......especially the water on his head so he can grow one. VIOLATION! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That hairline comment is RUTHLESS 😂😂😂
Once back when I was in colly (college) a girl I liked rejected me in a very rude manour and I said *"relax yourself and watch how you chat to me"* and she said *"you know what?, I'm not gonna go there your boys told me your soft and now that I've seen you they were right you don't fit the criteria for a man"* I stayed silent whilst everyone erupted because all I could think is how my "boys" spoke shit about me to a girl I liked.
Aw man on their behalf I apologize. Perhaps you will forgive them and yourself, if need be.
Sometimes people don’t think.
I’d hope you’re still a lovely person. ❤❤
@@AmorDia-GOAT Thanks 🙏🏾❤
I had an ex guy friend insult me for weeks. I kept my mouth shut to keep the peace. But when I decided I was going to cut him off I told him the real reason why I would NEVER date him. I told him he’s so freaking ugly, just the thought of being with him disgusts me. I feel like vomiting just thinking about kissing him. He would insult me like if he was the sexiest man in the world. I had to bring him down to earth lol
I worked with a lady who said to a very sexist and crass co-worker: "looking at you makes my stomach hurt". 😂
I once had to pull aside a coworker for being an asshole and he tried to use the “you don’t know where I come from, what I’ve been through” and I answered “neither do you.” I don’t think it was particularly mean or clever, just that it was frustrating that he thought his supposed struggles let him disrespect other people, or that he thought no one else had a tragic past. But the look on his face was like I’d broken him. I’ll never know why.
Cause he's hurting. A lot of folks need to talk to a therapist, get things off their chest and start recovering from past pains. I used to be quick with the comebacks when I had a lot more hurt I was dealing with. Not so much anymore cause I've been able to heal from the past and move on- not stay replaying all my grievances, ready to hand them back out. Hurt people, hurt people. Not saying I'm perfect, but ik I'm in a lot better place when things just slide off the ego now and not staying constantly triggered
So he was basically using his backstory as an excuse to hurt people. Perpetuates the cycle
You gotta be able to fight like Tyson to speak like this 😂
Meanest thing I’ve said (which I still stand by btw) was to my ex who had lost 2 jobs in 4 months and stopped paying his half of rent. When we broke up & he belittled my plans for the future, I told him “unlike you, my plans just might work”
I had a similar situation where a NFL guy tried to belittle me then I told him “Sir you’re an undrafted free agent, humble yourself”
On one hand i dont get why that would hurt. Hes still literally one of the best athletes alive
On the other hand thats a dude that's probably played the sport since he was 5 or 6 its a literal part of him and though it may seem trivial he isnt quite where he wants to be for the work and time he's put in.
Basically whike for most it would seem like a scratch on tank armor its likely a bit more to him
That pouring water on his head is an absolutely violation of human rights 😭🤣
I firmly believe that these men had it coming because each and every woman was taken there. Men don't realize the harm they do to women on an everyday level. Each and every one of these men deserves it!
Right?! Men really don’t care about our feelings, but we do + we have to care about their fragile egos. So if we’re letting things out like this it’s because they had it coming for a loooooong time!
The difference between the men who don’t realize the harm they cause and the women who go for the jugular everytime they’re upset is that the former may hurt you involuntarily, while the latter hurts you on purpose. You’ve got no reason to believe these men “had it coming”, and even if they did make their partner unhappy, nothing justifies verbal abuse. I mean, fuck, pouring water on someone’s head and telling them to grow? How dehumanizing can you get? James is right. Women cannot conceptualize consequences. If you think these men deserved verbal abuse, then these women certainly deserved retaliation as well. But women are protected both legally and socially from receiving retaliation, so they often don’t understand what it means to go too far. Seems like you don’t understand, either.
You can't really blame someone for something when you don't know the full story. Maybe some deserved it, maybe some of these women are just evil
1. Fuhad is fine.
2. This was a quiet one, due to the intensity of the responses.
3. I feel like James deserves hugs.
4. It’s so evident that they’re best friends. They communicate without saying words quite often.
5. I want to give James a really good southern mama hug.
1. He’s too fine 😭😭😭
@@pulithesouthafrican7869 girrrrlllllll every time I see those hands and lips I blush. 🤣🤣🤣
I caught an ex chatting with a lady when we were together. He tried to gaslight me I said "wow was she the best you could do? You just made me realise my standards are way too low. I can-do better than this(him)"
Till date he still asks why I said that 😂
As a woman with a very slick mouth, I say things I know will hurt you cus I’ve been pushed to the point where I genuinely do not care about how you feel anymore 😂
No, you just say things to hurt someone. Don't justify weaponize offenses to tear someone down. I have a slick mouth but i don't weaponize it bc the power of the tongue is serious.
@@yolandawilson6619I said what I said, Yolanda. I have a slick tongue & hold it unless I feel like it’s what you deserve. We all have a breaking point & do things in retaliation so don’t compare yourself to me nor try to speak for me. I said exactly what I meant, thank you.
@@gnelove3601 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stop practicing!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@yolandawilson6619nah fam. We get tired of being pushed around. Yall fuck around and you will find out. Don't pretend to be a victim when you throw shit going to catch shit
@brookelynnenewcomer943 Who's getting pushed around, and who's doing the pushing?
Hairline jokes hit different 😂😂😂
9 minutes of these two on a rainy Friday morning, elated🎉🎉
Thanks for the great start to the weekend❤❤❤
as someone who has gotten into a physical fight with a dude over shit i've said about them, i can confirm that it only made me meaner. if i'm gonna end up fighting you anyway, i'll give you something to fight about.
*edit:* full disclosure, i know the shit i say will start a fight. if i'm going out of my way to say it, then think about what you had to do for me be down enough to potentially engage in fisticuffs with someone.
8:29 true friendship is hearing a new story one time and know exactly who we talking bout 😂😂😂
They can't conceive consequences 😂😂😂😂
"They can't conceive consequences"
That's so true. We definitely have no fear of consequences 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
that 1st one was clearly a 4th degree burn... that burn that roasts your soul...
Some women have no filter😭. They are willing to say things to you that even your opps wouldn't dare say.
I call it destroying someone's self esteem 😂😂 you go low I go lower.
@@Myvillageheaven😂😂😂 I know everytime my son's father sees me he's gets sick
the silence after “your daddy didn’t stay, why would i?” it got silent at my house too-
I’ve had males throw up my personal stuff in my face. It’s not just a female thing.
It's a thing that people do period. They'll have you thinking it's just women though.
Literally, in other videos they react to men say this typa shit n they won’t say shit.
The way I listened to this without AirPods so my man who pissed me off today could hear 😂
We cannot be physical, so this is how we can hurt you. I got trampled by a man, left quietly and changed my info to get away. Never said a bad word to him EVER. He finds me a year later and I agree to coffee to talk about what happened, and he stands me up. I just wanted a little closure. He then texts me. I understand the weight of saying something heavy when you have only ever been kind. I kept it short and said three sentences which would shatter all armor. He was trying so hard to be friendly when I ran into him and his girl at a friend’s show (we are both musicians, he was my guitar player). I have a clunky cheers to his girl who didn’t know who I was, and did not speak to him. He is her nightmare now. Poor thing.
Jame couldn’t hold it in the time. These girl are ruthless. They came to make the men curl up In the corner😂
"These lots genuinely believe I won’t STRIKE them" took me out
Women say the things they say because we want men to feel the same hurt that they inflicted on us. That is why we dig deep to make you feel the same pain.
This is the thing I quote the most, it's from a movie called "drive me crazy."
"When men fight you just throw punches and you get over it, when women fight its art"
This video perfect example, these words have no other meaning then to hurt you geez
I mean, women do it to women too, but I don’t think it is throwing it in your face. I think it’s holding you accountable for the actions that we are arguing about. If you are arguing with somebody or don’t agree with them, you have to give reasons as to why you don’t and a lot of the reasons are past behaviors so it’s not taking a jab, people’s just can’t accept accountability for the things that they’ve done that have led up to that point.
“They can’t conceive consequences”. This was it for me. Think you can just get away with that? 😂😂
To answer the question it comes as a response. Every single one of the things you read; the scenarios given it was a response to something being said or done to them. Why y'all acting like it comes out of thin air lol!!! James saying he would strike them/choke them up, I believe was said in just(meaning as a joke) but there are a lot of men would and do just that for less. Ego is a dangerous thing...
THANK YOU! I was waiting for a comment like this (had to scroll for a while though)!
You don’t “choke” or “strike” someone because they replied with the same energy you gave them beforehand! Accept the consequences of your as*hollery and move on.
Women don’t go out of their way to just harm people, we really need to be pushed out of our limits to do so! We’re raised to be caregivers and think about everyone else and pressuring down our desires and take the heat so don’t be surprised if at one point we explose at your face if you said something really mean, you deserved it. Plenty at that.
It triggered me to see James reacting and saying things like that when he just laughs off what’s being done to women in other videos.
I grew up in Brooklyn in the 90s . We would compete to see who what's best at hurting feelings.
James always has the best reactions!
We go for the jugular when men burn us! We pay attention to too much and have concoctions in our head ready! I've seen wayy too many men act like they don't care about how their women feels soo when it comes to comebacks, we go low down, hellish cusses!
I've said some awful stuff but my brain just flings these words out my mouth and even I'm shocked sometimes! 😅
I grew up with a mother who had a fiery tongue! Practiced comebacks in the mirror for yearrrss!
“😡 I AM A HUMAN BEING!!!!😡” James is hilarious!😂😂😂😂😂
It comes from years of abuse, belittling, being hurt, constant attacks.
I mean "You're too emotional" James, don't you see how hurtful that is.
for real, they really don't see how we get to this point? it dosen't just come out of nowhere 🤣🤣. But they're right tho, when we strike we go for the throat ahaha.
Most of them are from the mindset that they are too hot to be spoken to in a certain way not abuse.
@@terseandtiny1746 Seems the guys are mad about the mean responses, because they also feel like they're too hot to be spoken to that way.
My point is the meanness is always a reaction to hurt, Never a standalone action
@@LM-he7ebyah but usually they got hurt by someone else
@@LM-he7ebYou say that... No mean people exist in this world?
I told a dude he was just like his father 😭 he used to tell me that he was scared of being like his dad who was a serial cheater. 😮💨 that cut reallllll deep
I would reflect on your thinking there. Is this really the best version of yourself
@@felixkemp2122 of course not. Happened as a teen and i ended up apologizing. 🤷🏾♀️ He apologized years later.
James is such an empath 😂
01:17 felt this in my soul😭😭
Serious negging.
“they can’t conceive consequences.” lmao and don’t. going for the guzzler anyway.
James reactions are just sending me 😂😂 he took that short one so personally
I think it is genuinely hilarious that James doesn’t think that a woman would strike back.
this vid made me feel so bad for James 😭😭😭 i wasn’t expecting such a story
“This woman’s work, this woman’s work. Ooooh it’s hard on a man.”
When you’re cat called or disrespected daily for saying no even, you learn to have quick replies .
I had to take a break after the first one. I felt myself evaporating 😭😭😭
Tbh if im being emotional because im hurt or upset at something
And the person infront of me goes like "you're just being emotional" it would make me feel like my feelings are being disregarded
Being emotional about something IS being vulnerable as well. If you just brush that away or belittle someone's feelings like oh you're so damn emotional, like most men do
You can sure as hell expect the other person to give it to you straight like your ex did
Love the humour. Can’t stand the comments about physical violence in retaliation. Let’s elevate the responses men. ✌️
if your daddy didnt stay why would I ... The silence was LOUD 🤣
We can't beat you physically so we must injure with vocabulary
When it comes to interactions with men, I think it is the context that determines how brutal a woman is. Some women really have to experience danger in order to understand it, and some have taken in the information they have been exposed to.
I love the way james and fuhad say FAAAAMM in that high pitched voice always kill me 🤣🤣😂😂
As soon as I saw the title I started smiling ☺️
Honestly, I have had a partner that used personal things I told him in confidence on mad day to hurt me deeply. I don't think it's a woman thing. It's definitely an individual thing. I haven't been able to open up to anyone else on that level. I am guarded at all times because of this one guy. Some people just have a gift for using your personal information against you.
I LIVE for your reactions to any and everything. I could watch a mashup of nothing but facial expressions and different octaves of "FAAAAAAAM" with no context whatsoever. 😂😂😂
People have bitter, nasty responses backed up ready to go because of the hurt (real, perceived or otherwise) they’ve experienced previously. Often it’s retaliation they think of afterward a hurtful experience that the never expressed. Balanced people or people who let out their anger at the time don’t store up retorts like this.
I think one of the meanest things I said to a guy was, "that tickled". I was in my early twenties and he was a not a nice person and tried to shame me for something but I wasn't having it. He left like a hurt puppy.
😂😂 my ex texted me randomly and asked “When you taking me out?” , I politely responded and said “Shit, it don’t matter to me. We can go the life after next.” I got a laughing emoji and a thumbs up.
Sometimes we say the things you need to hear, in every relationship you get an opportunity to explore different aspects of yourself so in that moment you might not even realize that you're stunted emotionally and she reflected that to you going through that you can now grow to learn how you can be more empathetic
Some people use a truth about you that they have learned on order to attack you.
The whole point of empathy is to be able to understand someone else's emotions and put yourself in their shoes.
What you are saying, in a way to try and make it sound nice, is the fact that some men need to be humbled.
@@chewdoom8415 I agree that's where it's despicable when you only state something to hurt someone not because you really care. But in that particular situation or circumstance she reflected a part of him that he needed addressed and he seems to have been unaware. He just takes it as a lesson to better himself and move forward. Sometime unfortunately when you get truth revealed is when someone is angry 🤷🏿♀️
Man, everyone needs to be humbled but there are ways. I know life humbles and has humbled me enough, being rude to me when I did wrong or just wasn't doing right only re-enforced certain things in me that I've had to UNLEARN as truths and more as things that happen.
@@chillaxboi2109 Eh. I think the issue is that the rudeness is an indication that person thinks to highly of themselves and or needs to reflect on themselves and how they act. Whereas anger fueled rebuttal that attacks the flaws and our behavior would at least give a clear mention of what we did wrong.
It because more of an issue when you approach someone and they give a rude response simply because they are no interested, like with the much older man mentioned in the video
@@chewdoom8415 I've done things that warranted a rebuttal. I've done things that did not deserve rudeness. I am glad I am not bitter or "hurt" to hurt others, I have processed these things candidly. However, I know for a fact rudeness affected negatively far more than rebuttals since those were deserved.
The thing with women is in arguments we think things through. We know what to say.
the hairline one was JARRING man😭😭 would never recover icl
When you're mid argument and something is said (even unintentionally) as a personal attack, you're opening yourself up to this kind of tongue lashing. Is it right? Not really. The mature thing to do would be to interpret what they said with the best intention while letting them know that they _did_ hurt or trigger you. That way you could try to get back to the actual issue or ask to take a break from the conversation until you're both in a more constructive head space. Most of us (men AND women) aren't that mature though. We'll assume the intention was to hurt us so we feel no remorse going for the jugular 😅
(Edit: women are just better at it because practice; we rarely result to physical violence like men, so we've honed these skills 🤣)
I need to start writing these down. These be too good!
I wonder where James gets his Jujitsu Kaisen shirts. I need one.
Lololololol James is sooooooo offended FOR these guys 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"They can't conceive consequences" I'm dying 😭😭😭😭 💀
The water to grow comment is wild.