What an insightful segment! Brenda and Bolin should have their own segment because I feel like they bounce off each other quite well, like two peas in a pod. Incredibly entertaining! LOVED IT and looking forward to more advice from them! 👏🏼
I really like Bolin's idea of writing 10 things I like about my partner and 10 things I dont. I might actually KIV that and use it in the future hahahaha
I love how Bolin and Brenda’s energy and personalities bounce off really well, I love seeing their interactions, reactions and opinions in this video!! Especially Bolin, I love how his responses are really matured and he is really funny to watch LMAO. Please put them together in more of these segments!! 💖
I think it's very tiring to have to always craft what you're gonna say, especially if *you're constantly in fear of how he / she will react* . I find that's bordering on abuse already.
For confession 1, I think the issue she is feeling maybe the fact that her bf may not have the capability or knowledge to support himself if he loses the support from his parents one day. There could be many possibilities of losing money however much you may have, such as medical bills, wrong decisions in investments, or whatever other freak accidents. What happens then? Will he be able to secure a job to support himself? Or will she have to start supporting him financially because all he has no actual career experiences? The point here is that he is and always have been living off his parents, and I don't think anyone would be proud to share that. For confession 2, if you think of it from another angle, maybe her bf had negative experiences with his ex sharing photos of them on social media and therefore is against that happening again from then on, but what was found by her was left there since it's in his ex's account and he can't really control whether she removes it or not. Also, perhaps there was a mistranslation/miscommunication and her bf's idea of "manipulate photo" is toxic people manipulating what people think of you through gossips just based off what they see from the photos.
Confession 1 sounds like a humble brag. Either that or she is so kiasu that her bf must have a job that is perceived by the Singaporean society as a good and respected job. In western countries, doing philanthropy work is the ultimate humble brag
ya- i feel like either she legit bragging about her bf money or she only dates him because of the money- like i feel like if u truly love him u will look past the money and what money can get, if he wants to do volunteer work and it is his passion then why not? if her concern is about getting a good job and not about financial issues then id want to know what defines a "good job"
13:40 i got a friend who really crazy about his own privacy. He dont have facebook account, he dont let us take his photo, not appearing on a group photo, he will block his face whenever there's people trying to take photo, he will go mad if someone take his photo, and he even used tapes to cover his phone's selfie camera!
About the first confession, tbh I think she feels maybe a sense of shame about what her bf is doing despite his capability to do more and coming from a rich background is probably because she cares about how people would view her (Just as what Brenda has more or less said). I think what she needs to do is to think about why that insecurity is there and why there is a need for her to impress the people around her cause that can stem from a multitude of factors such as upbringing, influence etc. If i were her, I would support him regardless of what he chooses to do with his life. If he gets satisfaction from it or he is just happy to be able to help people around him then I think thats fine. Financial status, careers and superficial aspects can only go so far. No one will really remember you for it when you're say what? 70-80 years old? Morals and character, being able to make a difference to other peoples' lives are more important imo.
Trust me if you reveal yr rich bf status, those hao liao girlfriends of yours will be envy you more. You no need work leh can live comfortably rest of life. I will be worry if yr bf spend time on spending luxury items instead.
True! They are actually on a totally different level from the friends alrdy. While the boyfriend isn’t a high paying manager or director, both of them can afford to do whatever they want for the rest of their lives and live very comfortably. The ultimate level one should admire or envy in this case.
@@Chloe-dl3lh haha gaming way to describe it ultimate level aka reach boss stage alrd. But i be wary of revealing too much for fear of potential got financial woes find you or yr gfs wants you to pay for everything when gg out.
Living comfortably is great, yes, but I can completely understand the gf wanting some sort of ambition and success in one way or another for the two of them.
Ikr, like literally this girl can't recognize that she basically won the lottery. Come on, it is such a luxury to be able to pursue your passions instead of being stuck in a job you hate just to earn money. And like, why are her and her friends discussing this kind of stuff during meet-ups, just seem kinda wrong to be flaunting trophy boyfriends. Seriously, being in such a comfortable situation is the envy of many, so many people work like crazy during their youth just for the sake of retiring early anyway, and this couple can literally skip to the retirement phase, what more is there to ask for? And the boyfriend really has a heart of gold, please appreciate him more.
I like this segment! But maybe you guys should also have your own confession submission link because some confessions on NUS whispers are written by trolls and it’s really full of them hahaha
I think for confession 1, maybe *ambition* in a partner is more important than wealth for her. Like, would she rather date someone wealthy who doesn't need to get caught up in the rat race, or would she rather date someone from a less well-to-do family but very ambitious Type-A go-getter? Not saying she's wrong or anything, but on her list of priorities maybe she's more attracted to ambition than wealth lor.
Actually about the Boyfriend does not post about relationship on Social Media part: The more you expose your relationship, the more people will see. And you don't know what they think about you or your S/O. Say what if they don't like you for some funny reason or they single and jealous because you're in a relationship? They can just pass a few bad word to either one of you or your friends and your trust in each other maybe jeopardize because of this.
for the last confession, i think she shouldve spoke to him abt how she feels before her feelings dropped. it was too late alr so even if he 180° change, its not enough for her....
Why does it sound like social work is such a “crime” in SG? What’s wrong with living simple and helping people (even if he’s not from money). I think that should be the main question. Social work is work. Volunteering is work. It is a career. I think that’s the point. He has a career and he’s passionate about it. Shouldn’t matter how much it pays. Or perhaps I’ve been out of asia for too long to understand this kind of things… 😔
Relationships are hard. Relationships are like owing a Tasmania Devil as a pet. Its seems cute and cuddly in the beginning but its entire function is to tear you apart. And it can take 1 minute, 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year, 10 years or even more....relationships can end and sometimes for the most stupid reasons ...like ego....or on the most unforeseen cause...like one extra bottle of beer....and your senses dull, temptation sets in.... and its over. You have to *want* a relationship so badly and work so hard to make it even work...let alone making it worthwhile. Because there is no science to securing a relationship. What works for Peter doesn't necessarily work for Paul. All relationships are are 2 people crossing their fingers and taking a plunge. Work hard and hope for the best and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. If it lasts a lifetime, then rejoice that you have been blessed. if it fails, cross your fingers and jump again. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Just believe you should never be deprived of happiness and try again.
Lol, the gangster girl had insecurities and issue to her own, and only she can fix it if she really care duhh 🙂, there is always a healthy way to vent your anger or stress.
the rich boyfriend one… the girlfriend is so fucking ew… just say you don’t feel comfortable bc he doesn’t have a decent job and that you can’t show him off to other friends. money doesn’t even matter here it’s just your pride lmao.
The gf of the second story is SH$% in a relationship. I mean she might be nice and kind too but what when wrong is the part where she is not understanding and supportive as a gf. She cares more about boosting her ego when shes out introducing her bf. Whats the problem? Is he a sloth or useless person that just sits at home and doesn't know what is going on outside his own world? No. He have more then enough money in this life time to do volunteer work. If i have a gf that does that i would be proud at the same time i will still work because i need to. End of the day be it married or just in a relationship. She is she me is me. She do what she likes as long as its not something bad. Even if something that is making me uncomfortable discuss and understand the circumstance and reasoning and move on. Stop having your own opinion on my BF must this and that else i lose face.
For the third one about not posting the gf's pics on social media, he's actually not wrong😂 It's the younger generation nowadays (I'm part of it too) who think that the Internet is safe
But I guess the strange thing is that he allows his ex-gf to post photos of him on her social media so it makes people wonder why his current gf cannot post but his ex-gf can?
LOL brenda acting like she knows shit but actually really shitty advice???? can you get someone else to host this segment? brenda's voice really irks me sia
Hope you guys enjoy our new segment! Let us know what other confessions we should react to in future episodes!
Bolin got more matured with his answers than previous videos
brenda x bolin energy VS bobocharchar energy
Bolin is that guy who is actually really mature, but so good at doing contents and so funny until people think he actually dumb piak piak only.
@@GarryChenYT how much did bolin pay u for this
What an insightful segment! Brenda and Bolin should have their own segment because I feel like they bounce off each other quite well, like two peas in a pod. Incredibly entertaining! LOVED IT and looking forward to more advice from them! 👏🏼
I really like Bolin's idea of writing 10 things I like about my partner and 10 things I dont. I might actually KIV that and use it in the future hahahaha
I feel like this can actually be a podcast. I wld love to be listening to this on the way to sch and during breaks!
WE WANT BOLIN!!
I love how Bolin and Brenda’s energy and personalities bounce off really well, I love seeing their interactions, reactions and opinions in this video!! Especially Bolin, I love how his responses are really matured and he is really funny to watch LMAO. Please put them together in more of these segments!! 💖
wah i like this NUS whispers series, finally some tea in my life.
love this new segment! brenda and bolin are both really entertaining and funny, looking forward to more :)
I think it's very tiring to have to always craft what you're gonna say, especially if *you're constantly in fear of how he / she will react* . I find that's bordering on abuse already.
LETS PIN THIS UP!
WE WANT THE REAL U... NOT THE FAKE U
hits home 😢😢
I like that you put the captions for the posts while they read them! appreciate it!
Really great segment! Brenda’s and Bolin’s answers were very entertaining and insightful!
Love this new segment!!
Finally, we can see Bolinnnn!!
For confession 1, I think the issue she is feeling maybe the fact that her bf may not have the capability or knowledge to support himself if he loses the support from his parents one day. There could be many possibilities of losing money however much you may have, such as medical bills, wrong decisions in investments, or whatever other freak accidents. What happens then? Will he be able to secure a job to support himself? Or will she have to start supporting him financially because all he has no actual career experiences? The point here is that he is and always have been living off his parents, and I don't think anyone would be proud to share that.
For confession 2, if you think of it from another angle, maybe her bf had negative experiences with his ex sharing photos of them on social media and therefore is against that happening again from then on, but what was found by her was left there since it's in his ex's account and he can't really control whether she removes it or not.
Also, perhaps there was a mistranslation/miscommunication and her bf's idea of "manipulate photo" is toxic people manipulating what people think of you through gossips just based off what they see from the photos.
I agree with your confession 1 point of view.
Confession 1 sounds like a humble brag. Either that or she is so kiasu that her bf must have a job that is perceived by the Singaporean society as a good and respected job. In western countries, doing philanthropy work is the ultimate humble brag
ya- i feel like either she legit bragging about her bf money or she only dates him because of the money- like i feel like if u truly love him u will look past the money and what money can get, if he wants to do volunteer work and it is his passion then why not? if her concern is about getting a good job and not about financial issues then id want to know what defines a "good job"
This new pair are love!!
if no Leah, Brenda sure TSL's #1 Lianzz!! #YOUMEIYOU
13:40 i got a friend who really crazy about his own privacy. He dont have facebook account, he dont let us take his photo, not appearing on a group photo, he will block his face whenever there's people trying to take photo, he will go mad if someone take his photo, and he even used tapes to cover his phone's selfie camera!
Not gonna lie, the thumbnail had me expecting some news of BolinXBrenda ship
These has been really insightful and entertaining!! Please do more ☺☺
We may want Bolin, but the real question is do you want Bolin? ;)
About the first confession, tbh I think she feels maybe a sense of shame about what her bf is doing despite his capability to do more and coming from a rich background is probably because she cares about how people would view her (Just as what Brenda has more or less said). I think what she needs to do is to think about why that insecurity is there and why there is a need for her to impress the people around her cause that can stem from a multitude of factors such as upbringing, influence etc.
If i were her, I would support him regardless of what he chooses to do with his life. If he gets satisfaction from it or he is just happy to be able to help people around him then I think thats fine. Financial status, careers and superficial aspects can only go so far. No one will really remember you for it when you're say what? 70-80 years old? Morals and character, being able to make a difference to other peoples' lives are more important imo.
enjoyed this segment!! would gladly watch another 30mins of the double Bs just talking abt rs confessions
Trust me if you reveal yr rich bf status, those hao liao girlfriends of yours will be envy you more.
You no need work leh can live comfortably rest of life.
I will be worry if yr bf spend time on spending luxury items instead.
True! They are actually on a totally different level from the friends alrdy. While the boyfriend isn’t a high paying manager or director, both of them can afford to do whatever they want for the rest of their lives and live very comfortably. The ultimate level one should admire or envy in this case.
@@Chloe-dl3lh haha gaming way to describe it ultimate level aka reach boss stage alrd.
But i be wary of revealing too much for fear of potential got financial woes find you or yr gfs wants you to pay for everything when gg out.
Living comfortably is great, yes, but I can completely understand the gf wanting some sort of ambition and success in one way or another for the two of them.
Ikr, like literally this girl can't recognize that she basically won the lottery. Come on, it is such a luxury to be able to pursue your passions instead of being stuck in a job you hate just to earn money. And like, why are her and her friends discussing this kind of stuff during meet-ups, just seem kinda wrong to be flaunting trophy boyfriends. Seriously, being in such a comfortable situation is the envy of many, so many people work like crazy during their youth just for the sake of retiring early anyway, and this couple can literally skip to the retirement phase, what more is there to ask for? And the boyfriend really has a heart of gold, please appreciate him more.
I like this segment! But maybe you guys should also have your own confession submission link because some confessions on NUS whispers are written by trolls and it’s really full of them hahaha
Great insights, enjoyed the video~
I think for confession 1, maybe *ambition* in a partner is more important than wealth for her. Like, would she rather date someone wealthy who doesn't need to get caught up in the rat race, or would she rather date someone from a less well-to-do family but very ambitious Type-A go-getter? Not saying she's wrong or anything, but on her list of priorities maybe she's more attracted to ambition than wealth lor.
Or just a gold-digger
Wah Bolin actually quite deep and mature....
Actually about the Boyfriend does not post about relationship on Social Media part: The more you expose your relationship, the more people will see. And you don't know what they think about you or your S/O. Say what if they don't like you for some funny reason or they single and jealous because you're in a relationship? They can just pass a few bad word to either one of you or your friends and your trust in each other maybe jeopardize because of this.
I feel like we’re seeing a different side of bolin! A more mature side :)
for the last confession, i think she shouldve spoke to him abt how she feels before her feelings dropped. it was too late alr so even if he 180° change, its not enough for her....
Why does it sound like social work is such a “crime” in SG? What’s wrong with living simple and helping people (even if he’s not from money). I think that should be the main question. Social work is work. Volunteering is work. It is a career. I think that’s the point.
He has a career and he’s passionate about it. Shouldn’t matter how much it pays. Or perhaps I’ve been out of asia for too long to understand this kind of things… 😔
Social work volunteering work take pay alr not helpful but motive n evil intentions alr lor
@@peilee7510 no. You act as if NGO has no salaried employee. Is UNICEF not paying any of their employees? How about orphanage? What a small view.
Action
It’s unesco
Ong
For confession 2: I think it may be a very bad break up or he may be very traumatized
Tips in finding a really rich bf: Join volunteering works xD
Bocharchar - fun and crazy couple
Boda(bolinbrenda) - mellow and cute couple
Relationships are hard. Relationships are like owing a Tasmania Devil as a pet. Its seems cute and cuddly in the beginning but its entire function is to tear you apart. And it can take 1 minute, 1 hour, 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year, 10 years or even more....relationships can end and sometimes for the most stupid reasons ...like ego....or on the most unforeseen cause...like one extra bottle of beer....and your senses dull, temptation sets in.... and its over. You have to *want* a relationship so badly and work so hard to make it even work...let alone making it worthwhile. Because there is no science to securing a relationship. What works for Peter doesn't necessarily work for Paul. All relationships are are 2 people crossing their fingers and taking a plunge. Work hard and hope for the best and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. If it lasts a lifetime, then rejoice that you have been blessed. if it fails, cross your fingers and jump again. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Just believe you should never be deprived of happiness and try again.
I LOVE !!! THIS !!! SEGMENT!!!!
6:00 That touch 😉😏
wow bolin changed. he talk softly , mellow mellow style...
Is it just me or does Brenda look cuter
luv your bangs hehhee
Interesting episode omg
Lol, the gangster girl had insecurities and issue to her own, and only she can fix it if she really care duhh 🙂, there is always a healthy way to vent your anger or stress.
Too little too late for the girl who lost feelings already.. damn
I prioritize Bolin.
Why Bolin like this. Is it because its Zula? Or Brenda? Or is this really him (and not the one with Sew)? Which is the real Bolin?
i stalk nuswhispers so much i've seen all these posts HAHAH
the rich boyfriend one… the girlfriend is so fucking ew… just say you don’t feel comfortable bc he doesn’t have a decent job and that you can’t show him off to other friends. money doesn’t even matter here it’s just your pride lmao.
Bolin so wise and mature sia 🥺🥺
Not really
I meet a more mature one
Petty one
Actually all hvnt hv yet la
Wad u talking ah
Interesting thanks.
I think long hair suits Brenda more.
We do want him lah :D #Bolinasacohost
The gf of the second story is SH$% in a relationship. I mean she might be nice and kind too but what when wrong is the part where she is not understanding and supportive as a gf. She cares more about boosting her ego when shes out introducing her bf. Whats the problem? Is he a sloth or useless person that just sits at home and doesn't know what is going on outside his own world? No. He have more then enough money in this life time to do volunteer work. If i have a gf that does that i would be proud at the same time i will still work because i need to. End of the day be it married or just in a relationship. She is she me is me. She do what she likes as long as its not something bad. Even if something that is making me uncomfortable discuss and understand the circumstance and reasoning and move on. Stop having your own opinion on my BF must this and that else i lose face.
I like this episode 👍
Sparring sessions is basically fight in bed u know HAHAHAHAHAH
why no subtitle
You want a rich and nice boyfriend. But, what do you have to offer in return?
I came here just to see bolin. I miss bobochacha...
"then you want to fight"
they have very similar mindsets no wonder bolin is into brenda.
Ahya...the aircon in the room to powerful 😂
Bobo! Support!
For the third one about not posting the gf's pics on social media, he's actually not wrong😂
It's the younger generation nowadays (I'm part of it too) who think that the Internet is safe
But I guess the strange thing is that he allows his ex-gf to post photos of him on her social media so it makes people wonder why his current gf cannot post but his ex-gf can?
BODA BO LAM PAH
LOL brenda acting like she knows shit but actually really shitty advice???? can you get someone else to host this segment? brenda's voice really irks me sia
发福了吗哈哈哈
no chemistry between the 2
this isn't a rom-com lmao
damn boring