Once I got the opposite effect of that whole "haha accidentally reaffirming transmen by forgetting that they exist" thing. Was working on a research project with a prof and another student. The project was actually about how gender identity and race intersect in juror decisions. Prof knew I'm trans, but I didn't end up mentioning it to the other student until like halfway through the project. She went :OOO "You don't look trans!!!" I'm DFAB and can't pass to save my life. I just quietly whispered "I know..."
There was a transgender guy in my class who told us his story. His parents kicked him out when he came out, they called him a weird he she and hated him. He said his parents are very religious and they thought he had serious mental problems. I don't understand people with so much hate in them for something people they have no control of. He was taken in by a friend and the friends parents helped him transition and gave a roof over his head for 2 years.
My family lives in the Bible Belt. Half Roman Catholic, half southern Baptist. My brother finally came out to us as gay. He was convinced we would be upset. He came out by telling us he was in this LGBT group. We're like, "That's awesome!" He was like, "Um...it's an LGBT group." "Yeah, and...?" He was so surprised that we were all so chill about it. We just told him that we love him for him. Our dad was a military officer for almost 2 and a half decades, and he was born and raised in the south in a Baptist family in the 1930s. He was so great about it. He just worried my brother would get AIDS, and he was really scared for him. My mom explained that even if he gets HIV and develops AIDS, it's not a death sentence anymore. Thankfully, my parents have always been super supportive of him.
Oof- If i told my family im bi and that i have an online gf im probably gonna get kicked out too- :") They are very religious- Anyways told the trans guy in ur class he's amazing :DD
My friend at school is closeted trans because of his dad (ftm) and I just hope he gets through okay. My friend bought him a binder for Christmas and he seemed so happy.
The last one made me cry 😢 I’ve been hiding the fact I’m trans and I recently came out to my mum. She’s Christian and is trying to be supportive but keeps trying to get me to reconsider properly starting my transition. Hearing how genuine that man was about being happy for his child took my breath away. I hope that man is given the love and appreciation he deserves. We need more like him in this world!
i live with a mixed bag of people, so i can't start my transition. my grandfather is totally cool with me being trans, but still uses feminine pronouns for me because i'm still mostly in the closet. why? because my grandmother is most decidedly *very* against LGBTQ+ things. she sees a gay couple on TV and is disgusted. if i'd gotten married to my (now ex) girlfriend, she'd probably have disowned me, even though, to me, it was a straight relationship. my aunt... might know? she did know, anyway, and said as long as i'm still wearing dresses (duck you, clothing doesn't have gender, i wear what i like) she refuses to acknowledge me being a dude. that was years ago. she's probably forgotten that i'm actually her nephew, not her niece. my mother, when i told her, acted supportive, but i think she was trying to shame me out of it, because she spent the first year after i came out telling everyone that i was her son... while i was making zero attempt to pass. didn't even have a binder at that point, so BOOBS. only reason my grandfather knows is because she outed me to him. so that was fun.
@@RenAsterion That sounds awful. At least you've got your grandfather. I hope you'll come to know more supportive people and that the other members of your family will come around.
I didn’t cry.. Until the last one “my son started his transition today” he was so happy. AND it’s not like his son was like “I started my transition and my dad is so proud!” His dad went to share how proud he was to the people who would see and that was so sweet I can’t.
@@PepsiCubes How do you even know that his son is a minor? Even if we disregard all your other comments, and other points. How do you know the person undergoing treatment is a minor?
I don’t even have Tiktok downloaded on my phone. But when I’m having a bad day or my dysphoria is particularly bad I just watch trans Tiktok compilations and it really makes me feel like I’m not alone and helps me be proud of being trans! Can recommend!
I always check LGBT tik toks when I feel shitty or my family gets homophobic I hope they keep making them and know how confortable and happy they make other LGBT people
ok yesterday I was eavesdropping on my parents and sister who were arguing about me being trans and my parents were saying it was a phase and stuff but my sister was AMAZING and she was saying about ‘let her wear the school trousers’, ‘let her cut her hair’, ‘if you’re so worried get her a therapist’, ‘you’re building a bad relationship with her, you have to stop this’, ‘I’m only calling her she/her pronouns because you won’t let me use he/him’, I couldn’t ask for a better and more supportive sister :3
I have a son... He likes me to do his nails or makeup when he sees me do it... He asked for pink and yellow cupcakes for his birthday... I let my kid live
Elpresador Jr. how is their anything wrong with the son liking feminine things? how is it child abuse? he’s literaly just expressing himself and she’s doing what a parent should do, support their child.
@@elpresadorjr.6620 Yeah right, letting your kid be happy with themself and express themself is ChilD AbUSe. Their actions are not negitively effecting ANYONE.
I couldn't be prouder when my trans child came and told me he wanted to become my son,we are now waiting for the first appointment at the gender clinic!I'm with him every step of the way @Jammidodger u truly are an inspiration and such a good source of information, anyone who asks me about how my sons transition will happen,I always tell them to watch your videos Much love to u xxxx
Mayrooo you're such an amazing and strong girl, and I have so much respect and admiration for you. I can't imagine what it's like since I'm just a cis gay guy but you have my full support. Thanks for brightening my day with Quagsire and all your videos! Hope you're doing well ❤️
I'm so envious of what hrt does for transmen's voices. If only taking estrogen made your voice more feminine, that would save transwomen so much heartache. *sigh*
a lot of Voice Gender is intonation-if you speak with your chest or your head, where you put your tongue in your mouth, accents, etc! what I mean is: if you want to make your voice more feminine/masculine, there are youtube tutorials and articles about it, if you dig around! meaning even if your voice is a little higher/lower, you can still have your voice pass!
Im currently getting therapy for anxiety and when I was told to do a certain project about how I feel about myself I started looking back and realized I've wanted to be a guy since I was little. I am an art student and I also realized I was projecting who I wanted to be in my original character that I've had since I was very little.(Who is a guy) Today I told my mother and she was very accepting she even told me she was expecting it since Ive acted like a boy since before I could talk. As a 16 year old I just believed I was being silly and should burry my true feelings. You're video's are helping me learn and come to accept that im not weird im just expressing my true self. So thank you.
I didn't realize until recently that I've always been agender, i just lacked the words for it. I'm 31 and came out about a year ago. Good luck and have a great day!
as a cis girl I'll never experience what you did, but every time I see this kind of videos I feel I wanna cry because I'm happy when I see trans people getting support or being happy
PepsiCubes yes there is, stop commenting on each comment and let people be happy and share that happiness with others, for once. Cis means that you identify with the gender you were born as, basically the opposite of trans, so yes it is a thing
I’m Agender (female at birth) and in the closet Me: I’m Tarzan! Dad: wouldn’t you be Jane? Me: no. Dad: ok, you can be Tarzan if you want to be I love my family
I have a trans friend and he has been struggling with his parents because his mum thinks he is “too young” to decide these kinds of things... I was going to take him shopping to get some mask/gender neutral clothes but quarantine happened... Any tips? Either to help convince his mum or any other things?
It’s tricky to try and convince people, sometimes they just need time and space, and maybe gentle education. As something more immediate you could always do an online shopping thing, where you guys chat on the phone etc. Whilst browsing stuff online? Don’t know if that would work. But I’m sure having your support (you sound like an awesome friend) is super helpful for him.
I'm not sure exactly what their mom's ideas are, but I know my mom. She's similar and respects chosen pronouns but thinks that there's a good chance a minor doesn't know what they're talking about (cuz having literal panic attacks over your body obviously means nothing), but like I said she uses pronouns and just thinks that they shouldn't be allowed to have gender reassignment surgery. If his mom isn't yet respecting his pronouns/letting him wear more boyish clothes, I think to convince her you should say that these things aren't permanent, and if he is wrong, don't you want him to find out now by seeing that being a boy isn't right for him, instead of him going out into the world without knowing and having the possibility of screwing up much more permanently (grs)? Also, I'm not sure I hold my mother's opinion but I think it's a valid opinion to have. I think more along the lines of, "You should want it consistently for 1-3 years before getting it," I think. That's my mom's opinion on tattoos, so I guess our opinions are flipped lol.
Study. Study massively. They will probably appreciate it at some point. Clothes, methods for changing voice pitch, ways to help with dysphoria. The lot. If you are educated about stuff, you are less likely to offend them and be more able to help.
I understand that actually. My father also thinks I'm too young. He doesn't know I'm Trans ( FtM ) but he knows I'm Bi and says it's a phase because he thinks I'm too young to notice. So I know he won't understand that I'm Trans. I don't have any tips sadly exept maybe trying online shopping ? That's what I'm trying to do with my bro to get stuff so that's kind of my advice. Hope you have a great day.
I didn't get any support, I was homeless and I'm crying on my kitchen floor right now bc its hurts but im SOOOO happy other people are getting this support.
I'm sorry your family wasn't as supportive as they should be, but you can build your own family now out of the supportive people who will prop you up and stand with you on the rest of your journey. I'll be your third cousin, twice removed.
@@JorgensZelda Thanks but I found my family. While being homeless I went to college and found a part time job, met my future husband and eventually our partner (I'm polyamorous). We are getting ready to buy our first home. Every year we donate to a LGBT homeless youth programs and to Pitbull rescues in the name of my Pittbull Krew who survived the same mistreatment I did. She sadly passed away 3 years ago. My story is not anything new but it's something that still needs to be said. People forget that just because we can marry doesn't stop the hate. I'm so happy for people that dont have to experience what I did and it's a goal of mine to help those that were pushed on to the same path I was.
to all the gender confused people out there. nonbinary, genderfluid, bigender, agender, trans, cis, etc. those labels may be what youre looking for and it also may seem foreign and not fit what you feel, and both is ok. experiment, find your best way of referring to you and thats all. because i'm confused too, and thats ok
26.5 here. Questioning/NB since 2013. But I knew back in 1998-1999 I was a boy, meant to be one. Came out to some friends this month, slowly working on a name, likely never truly coming out to my family beyond NB. You always have time to come out. It may be at 26.5 and that’s okay. I buzzed my hair on Easter and I feel so good and euphoric and it’s honestly so insane. I want top surgery but that’s.... unlikely to happen. It’s expensive. But one day!
Also, never be afraid to go with a label for a bit, theres nothing permanent about the human experience, and that includes what words we use to describe ourselves, labels can change and using whatever makes you comfortable and then moving on if you find one that suits you better, or just not using labels is valid as all fuck and a massively integral part of being queer and being human :)
My mom is one of thoses moms that wears a "free mom hugs" t-shirt to a pride parade Update: my mom isnt really the best, she dosent support me for being trans :) Edit: thank you for all of the nice comments : ]
@@babyyodawnjs6826 Trans are the people who aren't happy being the gender they are born with, it could be a guy who wants to be a girl or a girl who wants to be a guy
My brain: 99 bottles of testosterone on the wall, 99 bottles of testosterone, take one down, pass it around, now you got 98 bottles of testosterone on the wall!
@@Tizer25911 nah, i know, i am ready and more than awaiting to become a house dad who Will complain about the old times while making bread and then dinner
The moment Jamie sees Aiden’s beard so early on T....... jealousy face 😲😦😯........... then Jamie’s face trying to reconcile how long it took for his beard to come in ☹️🙁😕😬🙂😀 That Moment and facial expressions were hilarious!
some of my friends went on T during college and coming back from breaks and hearing their voice changes was so exciting. It's tougher to notice when you talk to them every day but then you spend a couple weeks or months apart and it seems so significant! Also commenting "damn your voice!" excitedly will make your trans masc friends on T smile. There are so many little daily things you can do to show support for your trans friends and there is no excuse not to do them.
🇭🇲 Hi everyone . I'm Eleonora, a transgender girl in pre therapy. Here in Italy being what you want to become is difficult because the population is still too old-minded. However, all together, they manage to counteract the offenses. You just need to be yourself. Sorry if he is not a beautiful English .. 😒 🇮🇹 ciao a tutti . Sono Eleonora, una ragazza transgender in pre terapia. Qui in italia essere ciò che si vorrbbe diventare è difficile perché la popolazione è ancora con la mentalità troppo antica. Comunque , tutti inseme , si riescono a contrastare le offese . Basta solo essere se stessi. scusatemi se non è un bellissimo inglese.. 😒
Ciao Eleonora. Ho presente com'e' la popolazione in Italia, e come donna CIS non riesco neanche a immaginare cosa stai passando. Ti auguro buona fortuna e spero tu abbia amici o famiglia che ti danno tutto il supporto di cui hai bisogno (il tuo inglese e' perfetto tra l'altro)
Evviva! Spero sempre di trovare qualche rappresentanza italiana della popolazione trans su TH-cam! L'italia sulla questione trans... È un disastro. Ti auguro tutto il bene possibile 💖
It has nothing to do with what you say BUT I don't speak Italian but I'm French and I learned a little bit of Spanish, these languages have common roots so I understand a few words of your text in Italian, I like to think I'm a genius even if it's just logic 😭 Anyway, I hope that mentalities of closed-minded people will change ♡
@@palomac4408 Spanish and Italian are very similar, my first language is Spanish and I started learning Italian at 5 it was kinda tricky to learn it because the words are exactly the same but the meaning is different 😅, I still struggling with it even though I'm almost 20. But yeah I know the feeling, I get it when I read Catalan I feel like a genius too 😂.
@Logan Roof Imagine being an asshole for no reason. I'll let your rudeness slide because you seem like a kid, but please learn more about this kind of stuff before insulting an entire minority. edit: wait nvm you seem like a troll account
Makes me want to go through to my trans male-female sister and reminded her how much I respect her.. after our parents not respecting her decision of becoming the strong woman she was meant to be. I’ll love her forever and will always be there for her always have and always will
I'm so happy that my parents are so accepting too. I'm not trans (I'm bisexual) but I remember my dad saying *you can become everything you want. Even a boy* Like... Not everyone has that... I'm sorry for all of you who don't have this luck :/
My parents were the same way with me being pansexual. My dad even made sure that my proper pronouns were the ones I was currently using to make sure I was comfortable. My heart really goes out to the people who don't get that and I know it will get better at some point:
@@madisonelizabeth3813 I'm glad for you! That should be a normal thing but for some reasons parents think that their oppositions are more important than the child's well being
on the one hand, thats great...on the other hand...I do hope that she'll actually accept you one day. I'm sorry, I had to do it. that typo was to glaring to ignore XD
Alexander Chinchilla I’m sorry to be the buzzkill explaining the comment. But it’s like saying that the dream of getting a billion dollars can be compared to the dream of becoming a fully transitioned woman. Just because a billion dollars seems quite unattainable (unless your Steve Jobs), it still wouldn’t hurt to have a million dollars (a value significantly below a billion, but still higher than most people’s net worth). So, when comparing to transitioning, just because someone will never become a “real” woman (in society’s highly subjective standards), it doesn’t hurt to pursue their dreams to the highest possible extent
I just saw your Instagram Story Jamie :(( I'm so, so sorry!!that person is absolutely horrible, nobody gave them the right to post that and be so hateful!!
@@LoreCatan A transphobic podcast was promoting themselves using one of Jamie's old photos of him shortly after he had top surgery (it's on Twitter as well). He demanded they take it down, they've just cropped out his face instead. Edit: Still hasn't been removed.
Why did my school say no to gender neutral toilets? Because they didn’t have enough bathrooms? No. Because they didn’t care for the Trans, Gender-fluid, Bigender, And non-binary (i know I missed some) people? Yes. Also I was the only kid who had that idea and one of the only people to help and try to convince my school to give us Gender Neutral toilets. It didn’t happen. Edit: Y’all are so supportive of this, like why did this single comment get 73 likes and 8 replies? Edit 2: I have a question, do I have to find a gender to identify with? Like- I know pronoun wise, but labeling my gender doesn’t really feel right- it never has for me-
Keep fighting!! A group of students at my high school were able to change one of the staff bathrooms into a gender neutral bathroom. It took nearly a full year but it was worth it. Start small, talk to other students and get support from the student body. Find teachers that you can trust and get them on board, they will also be able to direct you to the people who will make the actual changes (not always the principal). Then start presenting the idea to the people in charge, show then the support that you have and give them a plan for how they can make it happen. One person can make a difference but you have to start small. Good luck!
So, this hits close to home, not because I'm trans, but because Im dating a trans male. His parents dont completely support him, they deadname him, call him by the wrong pronouns, and dont seem to put an effort at home to make him feel safe. I've been with him for 2 months now, today's our 2 months anniversary. His deadname is as dead to me as it is to him. I never even use his deadname in a phrase, no words that even have the word in any way. I support him in every way, anything that makes him happy, I support. To he with him irl, I have to sacrifice contact with my whole family, my father knows and only somewhat accepts me being this way because hes a doctor, he told me "If your mother knows, shes either going to kick you out, starve you, or kill you on the spot." I'm living life on the edge, but no time have I EVER considered leaving him, and I will NEVER consider that. Seeing him so happy makes me the happiest person on Earth. Edit: There is one thing we tell eachother, which is one I made when we were talking. I told him, that together we're going up the steps of success, and if he were to ever fall down some steps, or even fall down back to the start, I'm going down those steps and taking him back up to the path of happy living. The one thing we tell eachother when we're sad is "Step by Step". It makes me smile when I say it and he says it back with a slight laugh and confidence. It warms my heart.
@@Celeste9309 I'd never in my life consider leaving him, he is the pillar to my life, and the base of my confidence. He's done so much for me that I couldnt explain it with words. He is the love of my life. He really is.
When I first realised I was trans I thought my mom was okey, she didn't make a fuss and she didn't disown me at least but seeing these parents made me realise how it could have been instead and it bumms me out a bit... She isn't like more hateful than normal but you know... she could be supportive as well...
Samee tbh, that sounds alot like how my mum is, she doesn't really make a huge fuss about me being trans or anything, but at the same time she doesn't really try to use she/her pronouns, or to not deadname me. Im glad my dad seems to be cooler about it tho. I hope your mom comes around sooner or later.
I barely love to talk about myself.. but I saw a lot of beautiful comments and a lot of supportive people here, so I kinda wanted to say a little bit about me Well.. I mean, about my gender and my opinion I'm Genderfluid. Yeah, it's what I am. But that doesn't mean I'm happy with it. I wished a lot to be just a normal girl (because I was born as a female) or a ftm at least But life punched in my face "nah my dude, all your life you'll be stuck trying to fit in the general's boxes" I'm not mad at what I am, that's telling me that I'm unique and special. But if I had the choice, I'll love to change that I still didn't tell my parents. They wouldn't believe it anyway. But I appreciate them, they're pretty fine with the usually LGBT (Gay, lesbian, trans and bisexual) but that's it, nothing more for them I tried to told my mother I was Pansexual.. she gave me that looks- I can't describe it. It was like she thought I was making a joke or something And my dad- He doesn't even really tried to understand. I think he forgot about it five minutes after I told him The only person I told I was Genderfluid is my grandmother.. she was perfect. I mean, the first time my dysphoria started hitting hard, I thought I was trans. So I told my grandmother I was trans, but she said to me "no you're not". Not gonna lie, that was very painful to heard because she always been supportive and helped me with my depression. After a month, I was back as a girl. I never been so confused in myself. I thought I was just a lie. I felt so bad.. until I became a guy again. And after a couple of time, I discovered the gender.. Genderfluid. And then again, I ran back to my grandmother and told her I wasn't Trans, I was Genderfluid. And then.. she said "I always knew it. I couldn't find the perfect word to told you what I thought you were. From since we adopted you, I knew you weren't just a little girl." I was in shock, for real Knowing someone knew what I was before I knew it myself- It was good to hear.. BUT I'm still mad at my gender tho ahah Love y'all, hope you'll have an happy life
Your grandmother is a wonderful person. When I came out as genderfluid as well to my mom, my family is very big lgbtq+ supporters, she was very cool about it. I hope you can come to be at peace with your genderfluidity and enough with the ramble. All I wanna say is, be who you are.
@@archerhitthetarget Oh, its different for everyone ! I'm the kind of person that doesn't really care about their own genders anymore. I mean, when I become a guy, I will not do anything about it, I'll just stay the same person and live my normal life. I still tell some people that I'm genderfluid, but I suggest them to only use "she/her" because I know its hard to see when I'm a guy or a girl, and luckily, I'm not feeling bad anymore when people are misgendering me.. (just a little bit sometime-). But ! There's people that have more difficulty with their genders. Those kind of people usually when their gender change, they also change their styles about their clothes.. and other stuffs. But there's always other different kind of people. Sadly, I choose to stay and hide the fact I'm genderfluid because the people at my place isn't ready to hear that. And for me, I think the best think is to stay who I am, without feeling the pressure to wear man's clothes when I'm a guy
I get I am a Ftm , not transitioned and I get that a lot.....so much that now I am starting to consider giving up. I dont want to loose my family over this and make them unhappy. I dont think I can be that selfish.
Well, I got this notification while watching “how bad can I be but I’m screaming the lyrics” , and tbh I am looking forward to this, my ears are confused lmao Edit: awww I wasn’t disappointed these were so wholesome (even though I’ve already seen most of them lol)
Same they’re soo pureee! I used to watch these when I identified as trans and they made me feel so much better about myself. Even though I have since realized I’m not trans these sorts of things are still so wholesome and I love seeing how happy all these people are ^-^
@Logan Roof talk about brainwashed ppl when you actually get your head out of the gutter and see things rationally. Have a great day. Hope your favourite T shirt ends up tattered
Look out for the usernames"itsme theherpes" and "vlad the terrible impaler"(spelled something like that). Two transphobes trying to get into an argument.
I came out as trans I told my mom and she supports but starting off calling me they/them because for 18 years she had 2 daughters but now she has 1 daughter and 1 son. But my dad is a different story.. I told him and he just goes "your not boy like" come on dad I'm friends with more feminine guys then me. My dad isn't even making an attempt to call me he/him. But something kinda funny with this transition is I'm in a gay relationship with my straight boyfriend. Even though he's straight and I came out as trans he doesn't care. He is calling me by my new name and he/him but he doesn't find interest in guys. I'm happy I found my boyfriend 5 years ago when I still believed I was female to have met him and started dating him for almost a year now.
oh my god this comment gave me some goosebumbs! (sorry for my bad english) I feel so happy and excited for you! having a healthy relationship really helps you through things. I hope your dad will understand and change his mind about you. You're a brave man.
I just freak out everytime you post, Jammi.. You actually gave me the courage to come-out to my dad the other day (ftm) :) Keep up the wholesome videos.. they make me smile. :D
It did! I actually came-out during a game.. I set it as my profile in the game.. but everyone else in my house had already known.. I felt like I was going to cry..
This was amazing. I love yours and OT's reactions videos altogether, they are so funny and light my days. But this one man ... this was so many feels. I am a trans man (10 yrs down) and seeing people voicing out things that used to be so hard and are still everyday stuggles or showing their progresses, etc are so wholesome. The last one had me crying. I lost my mom the day I came out (long story short it went really bad so I had to cut ties in the end) and haven't told my dad yet (yes 10 yrs on testosterone and he hadn't realized it seems ahah). Seeing some parents out there make me so happy and proud. I am happy to see other trans not going throught the same things I did, it makes me really happy. There is nothing better than seeing someone being finally able to be their real self and to see them have support from their loved ones is even better. Thanks for sharing these. We rarely see the good sides of things that can happen. Let it be good examples for people =)
as a closeted trans boy who's menstruating this has made me so hopeful for when I can have a binder and start T thank you !!! Also if anyone has tips for how to feel masc on your period that would be wonderful, thank you in advance !
With the blood and cramps I try to act as if it’s like a big wound or something, or like I got hurt by being a dumbass instead of being alive. Otherwise, distraction, netflix, snacks, videocalling friends is nice because you get to hang out without having to leave your house.
Call the period Shark Week. And if you're okay with it, you can cope by making jokes. Just please don't ignore your health, remember that periods aren't just a women thing. Stay strong, brother!
this is a strange one but I would consider going on a contraceptive pill to make shark week shorter and you can skip months by taking them back to back without a break but doctors usually only want you to do this every other month. Its still alot of help to only have shark week every other month rather than every month.
if you're motivated, exercising really helps and can make it go away faster! Also try to trick your brain by realising that having to endure this physical pain is manly as heck. Those two always help me at least :)
1. wear boxers (with or without using tampons, you can have double underwear if u r not using them) 2. drink a lot 3. do very light exercise 4. hoodies or flaneles 5. reminding that even tho u have menstruation, it doesn´t mean you are not a man 6. hugs? 7. don´t push urself too hard (u know, like I gotta be friking manly now because I don´t feel completely fine), it will pass soon (sorry for english)
That last one made me tear up ❤ To everyone who doesn't have supportive parents like that wonderful man, I see you and you're valid and deserve all the love and acceptance in the world.
Hello from the Black Forrest in Germany, Jamie! 🌲🌳🌳🌲🌲🦔🌳🌲🌲🌲 I‘ve been watching you for years now, and I just wanted to tell you two things: 1) I am so happy for you - your life, Shaba, your family 🌻 2) Thank you for showing me a whole new world. 🌈🌍 I wish you all the best. 💗
Cake lover thank you! transmasc is short for transmasculine and enby means non-binary. so i like to present masculine and all that. don’t worry you’re not dumb lol! 💙
I’m not trans but I am crying because I love how brave, proud and happy these people are. It makes me so happy seeing people become who they truly are. And it’s even more amazing when the parents stand behind, fully support, believe and help their child become happy with who they feel like they are meant to be. 💜 I love this.
The last one got me, mainly cause I wish my dad was like that, but I’m happy for everyone that have supportive parents, it’s no less than you deserve ❤️
You're amazing, Jamie. Everytime I stray from your channel for a bit, I come back and am reminded of how wonderful of a guy you are. Thank you so much for what you're doing and for living your life otherwise we wouldn't get...this. Thanks for being part of the wholesomeness of TH-cam.
Your reactions are so cute and wholesome. You’re so cute and wholesome. These TikToks are so cute and wholesome. This whole video is W H O L E S O M E.
Tip :
Never say to a trans person that they dont look trans
Say that they got a glow up. Boom , respect + new friend.
@@allykulhmann508 by having a pair of glasses that say 'gay' on them?
“You don’t look trans”
I’m not trans and I understand that, that’s the point Debra
@@allykulhmann508 **shapeshifts into a paper with gay written on it**
Is this gay? idk....
Once I got the opposite effect of that whole "haha accidentally reaffirming transmen by forgetting that they exist" thing.
Was working on a research project with a prof and another student. The project was actually about how gender identity and race intersect in juror decisions. Prof knew I'm trans, but I didn't end up mentioning it to the other student until like halfway through the project. She went :OOO "You don't look trans!!!"
I'm DFAB and can't pass to save my life.
I just quietly whispered "I know..."
@@allykulhmann508 right
There was a transgender guy in my class who told us his story. His parents kicked him out when he came out, they called him a weird he she and hated him. He said his parents are very religious and they thought he had serious mental problems. I don't understand people with so much hate in them for something people they have no control of. He was taken in by a friend and the friends parents helped him transition and gave a roof over his head for 2 years.
My family lives in the Bible Belt. Half Roman Catholic, half southern Baptist. My brother finally came out to us as gay. He was convinced we would be upset. He came out by telling us he was in this LGBT group. We're like, "That's awesome!" He was like, "Um...it's an LGBT group." "Yeah, and...?" He was so surprised that we were all so chill about it. We just told him that we love him for him. Our dad was a military officer for almost 2 and a half decades, and he was born and raised in the south in a Baptist family in the 1930s. He was so great about it. He just worried my brother would get AIDS, and he was really scared for him. My mom explained that even if he gets HIV and develops AIDS, it's not a death sentence anymore. Thankfully, my parents have always been super supportive of him.
Oof-
If i told my family im bi and that i have an online gf im probably gonna get kicked out too- :")
They are very religious-
Anyways told the trans guy in ur class he's amazing :DD
My friend at school is closeted trans because of his dad (ftm) and I just hope he gets through okay. My friend bought him a binder for Christmas and he seemed so happy.
I see your comments under so many videos, you’ve got a great taste of content.
The people are finally changing
The last one made me cry 😢 I’ve been hiding the fact I’m trans and I recently came out to my mum. She’s Christian and is trying to be supportive but keeps trying to get me to reconsider properly starting my transition. Hearing how genuine that man was about being happy for his child took my breath away. I hope that man is given the love and appreciation he deserves. We need more like him in this world!
i live with a mixed bag of people, so i can't start my transition. my grandfather is totally cool with me being trans, but still uses feminine pronouns for me because i'm still mostly in the closet. why? because my grandmother is most decidedly *very* against LGBTQ+ things. she sees a gay couple on TV and is disgusted. if i'd gotten married to my (now ex) girlfriend, she'd probably have disowned me, even though, to me, it was a straight relationship.
my aunt... might know? she did know, anyway, and said as long as i'm still wearing dresses (duck you, clothing doesn't have gender, i wear what i like) she refuses to acknowledge me being a dude. that was years ago. she's probably forgotten that i'm actually her nephew, not her niece.
my mother, when i told her, acted supportive, but i think she was trying to shame me out of it, because she spent the first year after i came out telling everyone that i was her son... while i was making zero attempt to pass. didn't even have a binder at that point, so BOOBS. only reason my grandfather knows is because she outed me to him. so that was fun.
Mitarai Ren surround yourself with supportive ppl, at the very least they will help you even if things are tough at home. Much love 😘
@@RenAsterion That sounds awful. At least you've got your grandfather. I hope you'll come to know more supportive people and that the other members of your family will come around.
Itd be cool if my parents were remotely supportive
I didn’t cry..
Until the last one “my son started his transition today” he was so happy. AND it’s not like his son was like “I started my transition and my dad is so proud!”
His dad went to share how proud he was to the people who would see and that was so sweet I can’t.
I read this in one topic's voice (reddit/tumbler reader) and that accentuated the feelings
Joey Velvet I wish my dad was like that
Joey Velvet same ugh
Child abuse
@@PepsiCubes How do you even know that his son is a minor? Even if we disregard all your other comments, and other points. How do you know the person undergoing treatment is a minor?
I don’t even have Tiktok downloaded on my phone. But when I’m having a bad day or my dysphoria is particularly bad I just watch trans Tiktok compilations and it really makes me feel like I’m not alone and helps me be proud of being trans! Can recommend!
Me too
I thought I was alone..-
Then I scrolled through comments.. lol
I do that tooo
Mood!
I always check LGBT tik toks when I feel shitty or my family gets homophobic
I hope they keep making them and know how confortable and happy they make other LGBT people
ok yesterday I was eavesdropping on my parents and sister who were arguing about me being trans and my parents were saying it was a phase and stuff but my sister was AMAZING and she was saying about ‘let her wear the school trousers’, ‘let her cut her hair’, ‘if you’re so worried get her a therapist’, ‘you’re building a bad relationship with her, you have to stop this’, ‘I’m only calling her she/her pronouns because you won’t let me use he/him’,
I couldn’t ask for a better and more supportive sister :3
Your sister sounds awesome! Keep her in your life.
Miserable pumpkin yea she’s awesome!
Tell her that a random stranger on the internet thinks she’s amazing
I'm happy for you that you have an amazingly supportive sister!! I hope your parents will come to accept you as every parent should.
❤️❤️❤️
From a closeted trans boy from a transphobic country, thank you deeply for your work
Hang in there, buddy.
All the best to you! After 2020, things can only get better. 🌻
Me too
I'm here if you need to talk!
I assume we’re from the same country, and I as a gay person from a homophobic country support you
I have a son... He likes me to do his nails or makeup when he sees me do it... He asked for pink and yellow cupcakes for his birthday... I let my kid live
you're an amazing parent. thank you, we need more people like you in the world.
That’s great! Let him do what he wants. They might be trans, might not be, but it’s good to let him figure it out. You’re doing great.
Elpresador Jr. how is their anything wrong with the son liking feminine things? how is it child abuse? he’s literaly just expressing himself and she’s doing what a parent should do, support their child.
@@elpresadorjr.6620 Yeah right, letting your kid be happy with themself and express themself is ChilD AbUSe. Their actions are not negitively effecting ANYONE.
@@elpresadorjr.6620 The fact that some people liked your comment really worries me.
I couldn't be prouder when my trans child came and told me he wanted to become my son,we are now waiting for the first appointment at the gender clinic!I'm with him every step of the way
@Jammidodger u truly are an inspiration and such a good source of information, anyone who asks me about how my sons transition will happen,I always tell them to watch your videos
Much love to u xxxx
My mom would never lol. You're a good parent :)
Awe so kind of you to be so accepting towards your child!! We need more parents like you
@@idiomatic444the way I see it,he is my child regardless so that means I love him unconditionally xxx
@@slushiethecheetah2276 I love him, regardless of gender and that would never change xxxx
You’re awesome Mel 😘
trans tiktok brings me joy
OhhiMayrowouldyoulikeaQuagsire
Logan Roof -
Logan Roof give me one reason your argument is true?
@Logan Roof i reported you 😂😜😝
Mayrooo you're such an amazing and strong girl, and I have so much respect and admiration for you. I can't imagine what it's like since I'm just a cis gay guy but you have my full support. Thanks for brightening my day with Quagsire and all your videos! Hope you're doing well ❤️
Warning: do NOT take a shot every time he says Tik Tok.
I’m taking a T shot every time he says tik tok now I have a beard
Yehudit Emerald what type of shot 😳
correct
instead, take a shot for every word but tik tok
xCookie Finnx alcohol? Lmao
Racetrack Higgins i am LIVING for your name and profile pic
I'm so envious of what hrt does for transmen's voices. If only taking estrogen made your voice more feminine, that would save transwomen so much heartache. *sigh*
@@archerhitthetarget And maybe enby people could just exchange certain parts
@@racheldevito dibs on the dragon wings
Yeah.
a lot of Voice Gender is intonation-if you speak with your chest or your head, where you put your tongue in your mouth, accents, etc! what I mean is: if you want to make your voice more feminine/masculine, there are youtube tutorials and articles about it, if you dig around! meaning even if your voice is a little higher/lower, you can still have your voice pass!
@@midnight4685 enby here yes hello can i have dragon wings too
I think the general consensus of this comments section is that we need a part 2...
Haha, I’ll likely do this as a series 😁
Jammidodger yay!
Jammidodger YES PLEASE!
I second this
Jammidodger yay!
*Watches Dadtiktok*
Both me and jamie: "don't cry, don't cry, don't cry"
Me: 😭
Misery ikr??
Same. That dad at the end. So cute!
Samee, I teared up a bit cuz my fam is half supportive
Ey jamie hearted ya comment :D
im crying rn ngl
Im currently getting therapy for anxiety and when I was told to do a certain project about how I feel about myself I started looking back and realized I've wanted to be a guy since I was little. I am an art student and I also realized I was projecting who I wanted to be in my original character that I've had since I was very little.(Who is a guy)
Today I told my mother and she was very accepting she even told me she was expecting it since Ive acted like a boy since before I could talk. As a 16 year old I just believed I was being silly and should burry my true feelings. You're video's are helping me learn and come to accept that im not weird im just expressing my true self.
So thank you.
I didn't realize until recently that I've always been agender, i just lacked the words for it.
I'm 31 and came out about a year ago.
Good luck and have a great day!
@@OriginalCreatorSama What does agender mean?
@@30ratsstackedinatrenchcoat91 Late answer, but it means you don't identify with any gender
as a cis girl I'll never experience what you did, but every time I see this kind of videos I feel I wanna cry because I'm happy when I see trans people getting support or being happy
Same girl, *same*
Me too! But I want to be the best trans ally that I can.
No such thing as “cis” lol
@@PepsiCubes yes there is 💀
PepsiCubes yes there is, stop commenting on each comment and let people be happy and share that happiness with others, for once. Cis means that you identify with the gender you were born as, basically the opposite of trans, so yes it is a thing
Hi I literally refreshed the page and this came up YAY
{Lukutoukka} samee
Nushi Panda :)
Same for me
Gray Mason :)
Sameee :::)))
I’m Agender (female at birth) and in the closet
Me: I’m Tarzan!
Dad: wouldn’t you be Jane?
Me: no.
Dad: ok, you can be Tarzan if you want to be
I love my family
Cute uwu
Aaaaw
I WISH I HAD YOUR PARENTS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I'm sorry, can I adopt your dad? My parents are supportive too, I would just like to borrow your dad for one of my friends who isn't as lucky
As long as you're not Clayton.
I have a trans friend and he has been struggling with his parents because his mum thinks he is “too young” to decide these kinds of things... I was going to take him shopping to get some mask/gender neutral clothes but quarantine happened... Any tips? Either to help convince his mum or any other things?
It’s tricky to try and convince people, sometimes they just need time and space, and maybe gentle education. As something more immediate you could always do an online shopping thing, where you guys chat on the phone etc. Whilst browsing stuff online? Don’t know if that would work. But I’m sure having your support (you sound like an awesome friend) is super helpful for him.
I'm not sure exactly what their mom's ideas are, but I know my mom. She's similar and respects chosen pronouns but thinks that there's a good chance a minor doesn't know what they're talking about (cuz having literal panic attacks over your body obviously means nothing), but like I said she uses pronouns and just thinks that they shouldn't be allowed to have gender reassignment surgery.
If his mom isn't yet respecting his pronouns/letting him wear more boyish clothes, I think to convince her you should say that these things aren't permanent, and if he is wrong, don't you want him to find out now by seeing that being a boy isn't right for him, instead of him going out into the world without knowing and having the possibility of screwing up much more permanently (grs)?
Also, I'm not sure I hold my mother's opinion but I think it's a valid opinion to have. I think more along the lines of, "You should want it consistently for 1-3 years before getting it," I think. That's my mom's opinion on tattoos, so I guess our opinions are flipped lol.
Study. Study massively. They will probably appreciate it at some point. Clothes, methods for changing voice pitch, ways to help with dysphoria. The lot. If you are educated about stuff, you are less likely to offend them and be more able to help.
Thanks for the suggestions! I will try to help my friend with this new advice, hope it works! TwT
I understand that actually. My father also thinks I'm too young. He doesn't know I'm Trans ( FtM ) but he knows I'm Bi and says it's a phase because he thinks I'm too young to notice. So I know he won't understand that I'm Trans. I don't have any tips sadly exept maybe trying online shopping ? That's what I'm trying to do with my bro to get stuff so that's kind of my advice. Hope you have a great day.
The people who disliked obviously weren't wearing their glasses
or they were jealous that they couldn't look as good as jamie does in his glasses
Their hands were shaking from all the emotion
australians...
Because I disagree with him. These tiktoks are so childish and glamorize the problem of transsexuality.
should've gone to specsavers
Jamie: *is younger than me
Also jamie: “I AM OLD”
How old is he?
26, i think
the rainbow binder is from gc2b, it was a limited edition they did last year!!!!!! i have one too and love it so much 🥰🥰
That’s awesome 🏳️🌈
dude I love your profile picture
lylah I do too lol
I have one too! :) Also, this year they have trans flag ones
Jammidodger Hey Jamie come back we got a situation
I didn't get any support, I was homeless and I'm crying on my kitchen floor right now bc its hurts but im SOOOO happy other people are getting this support.
@@itsMe_TheHerpes Their transition/being trans
I'm sorry your family wasn't as supportive as they should be, but you can build your own family now out of the supportive people who will prop you up and stand with you on the rest of your journey. I'll be your third cousin, twice removed.
@@JorgensZelda Thanks but I found my family. While being homeless I went to college and found a part time job, met my future husband and eventually our partner (I'm polyamorous). We are getting ready to buy our first home. Every year we donate to a LGBT homeless youth programs and to Pitbull rescues in the name of my Pittbull Krew who survived the same mistreatment I did. She sadly passed away 3 years ago. My story is not anything new but it's something that still needs to be said. People forget that just because we can marry doesn't stop the hate. I'm so happy for people that dont have to experience what I did and it's a goal of mine to help those that were pushed on to the same path I was.
@@fallenangelincolor I am
so glad you found your family.
Sunfire Samurai, probably doesn’t mean anything but I support you. 😊😊😊
to all the gender confused people out there.
nonbinary, genderfluid, bigender, agender, trans, cis, etc. those labels may be what youre looking for and it also may seem foreign and not fit what you feel, and both is ok. experiment, find your best way of referring to you and thats all. because i'm confused too, and thats ok
@Isabela Bardocz good luck on your road to gender discovery!
I've been questioning my gender for a while now, and really needed this.
Thank you.
26.5 here. Questioning/NB since 2013. But I knew back in 1998-1999 I was a boy, meant to be one. Came out to some friends this month, slowly working on a name, likely never truly coming out to my family beyond NB. You always have time to come out. It may be at 26.5 and that’s okay. I buzzed my hair on Easter and I feel so good and euphoric and it’s honestly so insane. I want top surgery but that’s.... unlikely to happen. It’s expensive. But one day!
Also, never be afraid to go with a label for a bit, theres nothing permanent about the human experience, and that includes what words we use to describe ourselves, labels can change and using whatever makes you comfortable and then moving on if you find one that suits you better, or just not using labels is valid as all fuck and a massively integral part of being queer and being human :)
Everyone's gender journey is different. Your journey is valid, even if you end up in the same place you started.
Jammie is literally the 🥺 everytime
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I cried at the "what did your mom say when you came out as trans" one. So... pure and beautiful. Such a good parent.
My mom is one of thoses moms that wears a "free mom hugs" t-shirt to a pride parade
Update: my mom isnt really the best, she dosent support me for being trans :)
Edit: thank you for all of the nice comments : ]
I don't even know your mom and I already love her. I've got my own amazing mom but can I borrow your mother if I need an emergency mom?
Can you hug your mom for me please? I love how supportive she is 💜💜💜💜
@@tuesdaywithanh sure :3
@@nekothecat8418 thanks :D
you are so lucky 🥺
As a parent of a toddler and 7 mo old, seeing the parents who are so accepting makes my heart so happy.
I once saw a testosterone voice update video where he sang both Ken and Barbie's parts in Barbie girl and it was iconic
I need to see this!
How you gonna tell us this extraordinary news and not provide us with the link??
@@residentcryptid7601 Exactly, I wanna see it!
I'm just replying in case someone links it 👁👄👁
@@absoluteunit8027 same here-
See you can pinpoint the exact moment Jamie’s heart pops from too much wholesomeness 😂😂
I wanna like this but it's at 69 and my idiot brain won't let me
@@OriginalCreatorSama I approve of your idiot brain lol
i’m the guy at 5:45 !! i’ve been watching you for so many years Jamie and to see you react to my video gave me the BIGGEST smile 😄❤️
laughingalex that was such a cool idea!
I loved this video. I saw it on Tik Tok.
You’re hella creative and very good with your hands
wait-
wHaT-
im.... IM AMAZED-
i cant do that stuff, i can barely make a paper airplane ;w;
"the tik toks of transness"
“I’m old” 😂😂😂
Yes indeed
@Logan Roof imagine thinking like a 9 year old with mommy issues
@Logan Roof also, you don't have to have an Illness to be trans.
Logan Roof you literally don’t, it’s proven.
"Here another plastic bottle for the collection" why i'm laughing soo hard
So trans are guys are girls who wanted to be the opposite
Baby Yoda Wnjs no one wants to be the opposite gender, you’re born with it, it’s not a choice
@@babyyodawnjs6826 Trans are the people who aren't happy being the gender they are born with, it could be a guy who wants to be a girl or a girl who wants to be a guy
My brain: 99 bottles of testosterone on the wall, 99 bottles of testosterone, take one down, pass it around, now you got 98 bottles of testosterone on the wall!
no one:
jamie: "wHeN i WaS bInDInG, wE hAd OnLy TwO cOlOrS"
like, ok granpa
jk jk, we love u, old man
Даня Кот y is ur last name cat
Tough love
@@isanya1548 true
Don't worry give yrself a few years and yiulk6be at that stage too. Not jk
@@Tizer25911 nah, i know, i am ready and more than awaiting to become a house dad who Will complain about the old times while making bread and then dinner
The moment Jamie sees Aiden’s beard so early on T....... jealousy face 😲😦😯...........
then Jamie’s face trying to reconcile how long it took for his beard to come in ☹️🙁😕😬🙂😀
That Moment and facial expressions were hilarious!
Jojo Love I was totally jealous of his beard, myself. Then Jamie said it like he read my damn mind...lol!
let’s be honest- everyone teared up at that dad
I felt that "don't cry don't cry don't cry don't-" like directly into my heart then I c r i e d
Jamie: "Aw I love supportive parents"
Me: **Cries in closeted trans guy with transphobic parents**
aw jeez itll get better soon i hope
Aw, I hope your life takes a turn for the better :)
It's all going to be 1000 times better. Just remember to do what makes you happy!
*cries in closeted bi with an anti-lgbt dad and a bi/pan phobic mom*
Cries in closeted non-binary asexual with parents who hate all lgbtq people
some of my friends went on T during college and coming back from breaks and hearing their voice changes was so exciting. It's tougher to notice when you talk to them every day but then you spend a couple weeks or months apart and it seems so significant! Also commenting "damn your voice!" excitedly will make your trans masc friends on T smile. There are so many little daily things you can do to show support for your trans friends and there is no excuse not to do them.
Me finishing a Fanta bottle: "here's another bottle for the collection" (I've switched to cans now so it's okay)
Do you mean panta?
Me finding a new Hell Energy falvor😂
I collect cans and bottles :^
😂😂😂😂
I love how that was said! I've rewatched that part only 10 times now xD
You need to look up mammajillwallace. She is a straight Christian mom who is being the TikTok mom for anyone on the LGBTQIA+ community
She is fucking phenomenal, I live for her tiktoks
YES!!!! I love her so much, I cried the first time I saw one of her tiktoks
Yas! She’s amazing 🥺💜
I second this
omg, she is absolutely AMAZING. I cried the first time I saw one of her tiktoks, and I still have to hold back tears watching them XD
🇭🇲 Hi everyone . I'm Eleonora, a transgender girl in pre therapy. Here in Italy being what you want to become is difficult because the population is still too old-minded. However, all together, they manage to counteract the offenses. You just need to be yourself.
Sorry if he is not a beautiful English .. 😒
🇮🇹 ciao a tutti . Sono Eleonora, una ragazza transgender in pre terapia. Qui in italia essere ciò che si vorrbbe diventare è difficile perché la popolazione è ancora con la mentalità troppo antica. Comunque , tutti inseme , si riescono a contrastare le offese . Basta solo essere se stessi.
scusatemi se non è un bellissimo inglese.. 😒
Your English is AMAZING! I wish you a lot of luck and hope on the beginning of your journey. Sending you lots of love ❤️
Ciao Eleonora. Ho presente com'e' la popolazione in Italia, e come donna CIS non riesco neanche a immaginare cosa stai passando. Ti auguro buona fortuna e spero tu abbia amici o famiglia che ti danno tutto il supporto di cui hai bisogno (il tuo inglese e' perfetto tra l'altro)
Evviva! Spero sempre di trovare qualche rappresentanza italiana della popolazione trans su TH-cam! L'italia sulla questione trans... È un disastro. Ti auguro tutto il bene possibile 💖
It has nothing to do with what you say BUT I don't speak Italian but I'm French and I learned a little bit of Spanish, these languages have common roots so I understand a few words of your text in Italian, I like to think I'm a genius even if it's just logic 😭
Anyway, I hope that mentalities of closed-minded people will change ♡
@@palomac4408 Spanish and Italian are very similar, my first language is Spanish and I started learning Italian at 5 it was kinda tricky to learn it because the words are exactly the same but the meaning is different 😅, I still struggling with it even though I'm almost 20. But yeah I know the feeling, I get it when I read Catalan I feel like a genius too 😂.
After binging TikToks all afternoon this is the perfect end (although let's be honest I'm going to carry on)
Bro tell me why exactly same
Same, I was literally watching a lesbian TikTok compilation when I got the notification
@Logan Roof Imagine being an asshole for no reason. I'll let your rudeness slide because you seem like a kid, but please learn more about this kind of stuff before insulting an entire minority.
edit: wait nvm you seem like a troll account
@Logan Roof why tho
The guy documenting his progress on T made me tear up. I'm so happy for him! He was absolutely glowing.
i found that to be disgusting
@IvanThe TerribleImpaler
*then leave.*
IvanThe TerribleImpaler why?
@@pancakespancakes4781 and I find you to be disgusting. Have a great day. Hope you drop your phone.
Makes me want to go through to my trans male-female sister and reminded her how much I respect her.. after our parents not respecting her decision of becoming the strong woman she was meant to be. I’ll love her forever and will always be there for her always have and always will
People Party People aren’t trying to convince you they’re just expressing themselves and living there life how they want.
I'm so happy that my parents are so accepting too.
I'm not trans (I'm bisexual) but I remember my dad saying *you can become everything you want. Even a boy*
Like... Not everyone has that... I'm sorry for all of you who don't have this luck :/
Dang. I’m happy for you but yeah I do wish I had that.
My parents were the same way with me being pansexual. My dad even made sure that my proper pronouns were the ones I was currently using to make sure I was comfortable. My heart really goes out to the people who don't get that and I know it will get better at some point:
@@madisonelizabeth3813 I'm glad for you! That should be a normal thing but for some reasons parents think that their oppositions are more important than the child's well being
I’m trans ftm but I’m not out to anyone and I’ve convinced my mum to let me have a short haircut so I literally can’t wait I’m so excited
Sophie and Kaitlyn you’ll get there eventually ^-^ haircuts are always a very big step and I’m glad you’re getting that ^-^
Sophie and Kaitlyn i (think) I’m enby and my mum said I could get a pixie cut before i knew i was enby so I’m exited
:D
have u gotten it yet
cupcake not yet but soon :)
my mother finally excepted me as a trans male last week
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳
:OO
CONGRATS DUDE!! :D
Even though it's been 3 months since this comment was posted
CONGRATSS
FriCK YEAH BRO
on the one hand, thats great...on the other hand...I do hope that she'll actually accept you one day.
I'm sorry, I had to do it. that typo was to glaring to ignore XD
Did anyone else start BAWLLING after the “ mama said it was OK mama said it was quite all right” one? Just me?? 😭 😭 😭
1 dislike on this video.
Who the hELL-
they must’ve been watching it upside down
@@whatgenderami frikin Australian
must be Kaitlin Bennett smh
4 now
It's 4 now..I'm sure it's Kaitlin from different accounts
"Transitioning won't make you a real woman"
Well, a million dollars is no where close to a billion, but it's better than having zero.
That makes no fucking sense
Alexander Chinchilla listen, you can just admit you are transphobic. Instead of commenting stuff like that💀
@Thisthiccjuicybussy 00. I think they were just confused by what was commented?
Alexander Chinchilla I’m sorry to be the buzzkill explaining the comment. But it’s like saying that the dream of getting a billion dollars can be compared to the dream of becoming a fully transitioned woman. Just because a billion dollars seems quite unattainable (unless your Steve Jobs), it still wouldn’t hurt to have a million dollars (a value significantly below a billion, but still higher than most people’s net worth). So, when comparing to transitioning, just because someone will never become a “real” woman (in society’s highly subjective standards), it doesn’t hurt to pursue their dreams to the highest possible extent
@@sydy9742 analogies are quite useful to introduce a complex issue.
Some of those were so wholesome that I melted inside.
Ugh same
Ya ever just
*melting noises*
from wholesomeless?
I just saw your Instagram Story Jamie :(( I'm so, so sorry!!that person is absolutely horrible, nobody gave them the right to post that and be so hateful!!
what happened, I don't have instagram and I'd like to know
@@LoreCatan A transphobic podcast was promoting themselves using one of Jamie's old photos of him shortly after he had top surgery (it's on Twitter as well). He demanded they take it down, they've just cropped out his face instead.
Edit: Still hasn't been removed.
@@cameronhansen4228 it's not been removed on instagram :(
@@cameronhansen4228 Not removed on Twitter yet I just went and reported it.
Hopefully it's taken down soon.
@@cameronhansen4228 I still saw it on Instagram a couple minutes ago. they haven't removed it.
Why did my school say no to gender neutral toilets?
Because they didn’t have enough bathrooms? No.
Because they didn’t care for the Trans, Gender-fluid, Bigender, And non-binary (i know I missed some) people? Yes.
Also I was the only kid who had that idea and one of the only people to help and try to convince my school to give us Gender Neutral toilets. It didn’t happen.
Edit: Y’all are so supportive of this, like why did this single comment get 73 likes and 8 replies?
Edit 2: I have a question, do I have to find a gender to identify with? Like- I know pronoun wise, but labeling my gender doesn’t really feel right- it never has for me-
At my high school all the toilets were genderneutral, all stalls with floor to ceiling doors
okay, but the thing is, if my school would only put toilet paper in the restroom it would be good
Moumou same-
aroiL Liora I am very curious which do you use?
Keep fighting!! A group of students at my high school were able to change one of the staff bathrooms into a gender neutral bathroom. It took nearly a full year but it was worth it. Start small, talk to other students and get support from the student body. Find teachers that you can trust and get them on board, they will also be able to direct you to the people who will make the actual changes (not always the principal). Then start presenting the idea to the people in charge, show then the support that you have and give them a plan for how they can make it happen. One person can make a difference but you have to start small. Good luck!
So, this hits close to home, not because I'm trans, but because Im dating a trans male. His parents dont completely support him, they deadname him, call him by the wrong pronouns, and dont seem to put an effort at home to make him feel safe. I've been with him for 2 months now, today's our 2 months anniversary. His deadname is as dead to me as it is to him. I never even use his deadname in a phrase, no words that even have the word in any way. I support him in every way, anything that makes him happy, I support. To he with him irl, I have to sacrifice contact with my whole family, my father knows and only somewhat accepts me being this way because hes a doctor, he told me "If your mother knows, shes either going to kick you out, starve you, or kill you on the spot." I'm living life on the edge, but no time have I EVER considered leaving him, and I will NEVER consider that. Seeing him so happy makes me the happiest person on Earth.
Edit: There is one thing we tell eachother, which is one I made when we were talking. I told him, that together we're going up the steps of success, and if he were to ever fall down some steps, or even fall down back to the start, I'm going down those steps and taking him back up to the path of happy living. The one thing we tell eachother when we're sad is "Step by Step". It makes me smile when I say it and he says it back with a slight laugh and confidence. It warms my heart.
damn, commitment. we stan
That, ladies and gentlemen and non- binary pals, is true love and loyalty
@@Celeste9309 I'd never in my life consider leaving him, he is the pillar to my life, and the base of my confidence. He's done so much for me that I couldnt explain it with words. He is the love of my life. He really is.
I’m not crying,.. you are. “Step by step” omg that’s so sweet i can’t🥺
you and your boyfriend are amazing and i wish you both all the happiness in the world. i really wish i had a partner like you.
When I first realised I was trans I thought my mom was okey, she didn't make a fuss and she didn't disown me at least but seeing these parents made me realise how it could have been instead and it bumms me out a bit...
She isn't like more hateful than normal but you know... she could be supportive as well...
Samee tbh, that sounds alot like how my mum is, she doesn't really make a huge fuss about me being trans or anything, but at the same time she doesn't really try to use she/her pronouns, or to not deadname me. Im glad my dad seems to be cooler about it tho. I hope your mom comes around sooner or later.
Same. I don’t know if some people are capable of more than that. It’s been a few years now but it’s the same. I hope you don’t have to deal with that.
When Jamie says tick tok and wholesome take a shot
Of water...
Wat chu tink I was goona say?!
Okay but now I wish i hadnt drank all my water already
Perfect to be distracted from, well, **gestures around**
YAY
‘^’ you are so wholesome I love your reactions
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AutumnCreeper Gacha :D
I barely love to talk about myself.. but I saw a lot of beautiful comments and a lot of supportive people here, so I kinda wanted to say a little bit about me
Well.. I mean, about my gender and my opinion
I'm Genderfluid. Yeah, it's what I am. But that doesn't mean I'm happy with it. I wished a lot to be just a normal girl (because I was born as a female) or a ftm at least
But life punched in my face "nah my dude, all your life you'll be stuck trying to fit in the general's boxes"
I'm not mad at what I am, that's telling me that I'm unique and special. But if I had the choice, I'll love to change that
I still didn't tell my parents. They wouldn't believe it anyway. But I appreciate them, they're pretty fine with the usually LGBT (Gay, lesbian, trans and bisexual) but that's it, nothing more for them
I tried to told my mother I was Pansexual.. she gave me that looks- I can't describe it. It was like she thought I was making a joke or something
And my dad- He doesn't even really tried to understand. I think he forgot about it five minutes after I told him
The only person I told I was Genderfluid is my grandmother.. she was perfect. I mean, the first time my dysphoria started hitting hard, I thought I was trans. So I told my grandmother I was trans, but she said to me "no you're not".
Not gonna lie, that was very painful to heard because she always been supportive and helped me with my depression.
After a month, I was back as a girl. I never been so confused in myself. I thought I was just a lie. I felt so bad.. until I became a guy again. And after a couple of time, I discovered the gender.. Genderfluid.
And then again, I ran back to my grandmother and told her I wasn't Trans, I was Genderfluid. And then.. she said "I always knew it. I couldn't find the perfect word to told you what I thought you were. From since we adopted you, I knew you weren't just a little girl."
I was in shock, for real
Knowing someone knew what I was before I knew it myself- It was good to hear.. BUT I'm still mad at my gender tho ahah
Love y'all, hope you'll have an happy life
Your grandmother is a wonderful person. When I came out as genderfluid as well to my mom, my family is very big lgbtq+ supporters, she was very cool about it. I hope you can come to be at peace with your genderfluidity and enough with the ramble. All I wanna say is, be who you are.
@@archerhitthetarget Oh, its different for everyone ! I'm the kind of person that doesn't really care about their own genders anymore. I mean, when I become a guy, I will not do anything about it, I'll just stay the same person and live my normal life. I still tell some people that I'm genderfluid, but I suggest them to only use "she/her" because I know its hard to see when I'm a guy or a girl, and luckily, I'm not feeling bad anymore when people are misgendering me.. (just a little bit sometime-). But ! There's people that have more difficulty with their genders. Those kind of people usually when their gender change, they also change their styles about their clothes.. and other stuffs. But there's always other different kind of people. Sadly, I choose to stay and hide the fact I'm genderfluid because the people at my place isn't ready to hear that. And for me, I think the best think is to stay who I am, without feeling the pressure to wear man's clothes when I'm a guy
I get I am a Ftm , not transitioned and I get that a lot.....so much that now I am starting to consider giving up.
I dont want to loose my family over this and make them unhappy.
I dont think I can be that selfish.
I love your story!
You really need to react to this short video about a soldier coming home to find his son is now his daughter it is SO SWEET I CRIED
MH Van Mol link¿
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I KNOW RIGHT I LOVE THAT VIDEO
I GOT A TRUMP ADD IN THIS VIDEO AND I DONT THINK IVE EVER LAUGHED SO HARD
I got three of them😂 TH-cam has yet to fix the ads at all. I got a Trump ad where he was trashing the protesters ON A BLM VIDEO😂
*ad
@Logan Roof nah
Logan Roof you dropped this king 👑 😌🧚💞✨ never pick it up again 😍🧚✨💞
thank GOD ads are regional and you dont get political ads in the uk
First off: so wholesome, please do this again, second off: that is a WONDERFUL shirt it looks SO SOFT and PASTEL and I NEED IT
Well, I got this notification while watching “how bad can I be but I’m screaming the lyrics” , and tbh I am looking forward to this, my ears are confused lmao
Edit: awww I wasn’t disappointed these were so wholesome (even though I’ve already seen most of them lol)
"Not just like extra large t-shirts but also hoodies"
me wearing a large hoodie: •-•
I teared up on the last one. Ugh, now I want a dad even more. Have a nice day y'all!
im not trans but these were so wholesome im 🥺🥺 im soft
Same they’re soo pureee! I used to watch these when I identified as trans and they made me feel so much better about myself. Even though I have since realized I’m not trans these sorts of things are still so wholesome and I love seeing how happy all these people are ^-^
@Logan Roof troll. Don't worry about him people
@Logan Roof talk about brainwashed ppl when you actually get your head out of the gutter and see things rationally. Have a great day. Hope your favourite T shirt ends up tattered
Look out for the usernames"itsme theherpes" and "vlad the terrible impaler"(spelled something like that). Two transphobes trying to get into an argument.
Anohita Dutta yup
Anohita Dutta 'Logan Roof' replied to my comment on here - I reported him.
With those kinds of names of course they're transphobes. OF COURSE.
Those are all such douchebag names tbh
I came out as trans I told my mom and she supports but starting off calling me they/them because for 18 years she had 2 daughters but now she has 1 daughter and 1 son. But my dad is a different story.. I told him and he just goes "your not boy like" come on dad I'm friends with more feminine guys then me. My dad isn't even making an attempt to call me he/him. But something kinda funny with this transition is I'm in a gay relationship with my straight boyfriend. Even though he's straight and I came out as trans he doesn't care. He is calling me by my new name and he/him but he doesn't find interest in guys. I'm happy I found my boyfriend 5 years ago when I still believed I was female to have met him and started dating him for almost a year now.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Awww that’s great!
oh my god this comment gave me some goosebumbs! (sorry for my bad english) I feel so happy and excited for you! having a healthy relationship really helps you through things. I hope your dad will understand and change his mind about you. You're a brave man.
Thats quite interesting of a story.
He loves you for who you are not for your gender identity or how you look🥺✨❤️
I’ve recently watched so many of these after realizing I myself am nonbinary and I’ve been waiting for this! Ty Jamie!
For a second I thought he wasn't going to say "Hey Spuds" and I was very sad because I like being a potato
I’m trans and I’ve been on T for just over a month and I’m already starting to grow a moustache 😊 I love your videos!!!
I just freak out everytime you post, Jammi..
You actually gave me the courage to come-out to my dad the other day (ftm) :)
Keep up the wholesome videos.. they make me smile. :D
Aww big congrats on taking that step! I hope it went well!
It did! I actually came-out during a game.. I set it as my profile in the game.. but everyone else in my house had already known.. I felt like I was going to cry..
If I was trans, I would just yell every month and record it and just edit it into a long yell of my voice changes throughout my transition
ima tell my brother to do that thx for the idea XD
I. Will. Do. This!
Omg
@@johnlaurens4727 I guide others to a treasure I cannot possess
Thanks for the ideaaa
This was amazing. I love yours and OT's reactions videos altogether, they are so funny and light my days. But this one man ... this was so many feels. I am a trans man (10 yrs down) and seeing people voicing out things that used to be so hard and are still everyday stuggles or showing their progresses, etc are so wholesome. The last one had me crying. I lost my mom the day I came out (long story short it went really bad so I had to cut ties in the end) and haven't told my dad yet (yes 10 yrs on testosterone and he hadn't realized it seems ahah). Seeing some parents out there make me so happy and proud. I am happy to see other trans not going throught the same things I did, it makes me really happy. There is nothing better than seeing someone being finally able to be their real self and to see them have support from their loved ones is even better. Thanks for sharing these. We rarely see the good sides of things that can happen. Let it be good examples for people =)
If he thinks these are wholesome he should watch the Christian mom that says she's the new mom for anyone that's been disowned
mamajillwallace!!
I was already watching some of your videos and then you uploaded this!
The “i cant stop my smile and I don’t want to” look on that dad in the last one had me😭🥰💖
The face of concern in the thumbnail
Uh oh if Jamie had that reaction to the last one just imagine the reaction he'll have to MamaJillWallace lmao
HE NEEDS TO WATCH HER I NEED THAT
@@non-corporealentity67 IKR LMAO
The Emo Gay One ahggg your name is so relatable lmao... and YESSSS WE NEED MAMAJILLWALLACE
I literally started crying at the last one I would love to have a dad like that I'm so happy for you 😭
as a closeted trans boy who's menstruating this has made me so hopeful for when I can have a binder and start T thank you !!!
Also if anyone has tips for how to feel masc on your period that would be wonderful, thank you in advance !
With the blood and cramps I try to act as if it’s like a big wound or something, or like I got hurt by being a dumbass instead of being alive. Otherwise, distraction, netflix, snacks, videocalling friends is nice because you get to hang out without having to leave your house.
Call the period Shark Week. And if you're okay with it, you can cope by making jokes. Just please don't ignore your health, remember that periods aren't just a women thing. Stay strong, brother!
this is a strange one but I would consider going on a contraceptive pill to make shark week shorter and you can skip months by taking them back to back without a break but doctors usually only want you to do this every other month. Its still alot of help to only have shark week every other month rather than every month.
if you're motivated, exercising really helps and can make it go away faster! Also try to trick your brain by realising that having to endure this physical pain is manly as heck. Those two always help me at least :)
1. wear boxers (with or without using tampons, you can have double underwear if u r not using them)
2. drink a lot
3. do very light exercise
4. hoodies or flaneles
5. reminding that even tho u have menstruation, it doesn´t mean you are not a man
6. hugs?
7. don´t push urself too hard (u know, like I gotta be friking manly now because I don´t feel completely fine), it will pass soon
(sorry for english)
When Jamie's eyes get big like that it's the cutest thing ever and just warms my heart every time
That last one made me tear up ❤ To everyone who doesn't have supportive parents like that wonderful man, I see you and you're valid and deserve all the love and acceptance in the world.
Hello from the Black Forrest in Germany, Jamie! 🌲🌳🌳🌲🌲🦔🌳🌲🌲🌲
I‘ve been watching you for years now, and I just wanted to tell you two things:
1) I am so happy for you - your life, Shaba, your family 🌻
2) Thank you for showing me a whole new world. 🌈🌍
I wish you all the best. 💗
Hello! Thank you 💛
hi jamie, i’m a transmasc enby and your videos have helped me so much. thank you 💙
I support you but kinda confused what's transmasc and what's envy sorry I'm pretty dumb
Cake lover thank you! transmasc is short for transmasculine and enby means non-binary. so i like to present masculine and all that. don’t worry you’re not dumb lol! 💙
@@cowboylikeana thank you❤️
@@itsMe_TheHerpes nice username, and thank you
Cake lover be careful when talking to “it’sMe TheHerpes, the person is transphobic and appears in the comment sections of a lot of Jammie’s Videos
I’m not trans but I am crying because I love how brave, proud and happy these people are. It makes me so happy seeing people become who they truly are. And it’s even more amazing when the parents stand behind, fully support, believe and help their child become happy with who they feel like they are meant to be. 💜 I love this.
I came here for wholesomness and i was NOT disappointed. Loved the video btw keep being you
i’m so excited for this :))
Jamie: "I love supportive parents!"
Me: *cries in my parents are straight allies but I'm still scared to come out*
Innocent Murderer sending you love. Hope you get through to them 💙
The last one got me, mainly cause I wish my dad was like that, but I’m happy for everyone that have supportive parents, it’s no less than you deserve ❤️
i never knew he was transgender until i saw this 😹
how?? Is this your first video as well?
@@itsMe_TheHerpes lemme guess youre nine years old
it'sMe TheHerpes Thats not a women to me
@@maisierose654 look at their other comments lmfaoo
Agreed I didn’t even notice he was trans until he said so, he passes so well! 🥺🥰😅💜
I' not even trans, but that last one made me cry. So wholesome.
We love supporting parents! We love trans people living their happy lives!
The last one was amazing!
"trans tic tok? tra- tran- trans tic toks - IM OLD" lol
You're amazing, Jamie. Everytime I stray from your channel for a bit, I come back and am reminded of how wonderful of a guy you are. Thank you so much for what you're doing and for living your life otherwise we wouldn't get...this. Thanks for being part of the wholesomeness of TH-cam.
I’m cis but I still love trans tik tok. It’s just so wholesome! 🥺
Your reactions are so cute and wholesome. You’re so cute and wholesome. These TikToks are so cute and wholesome. This whole video is W H O L E S O M E.
That last one I almost cried!!!
Also, I just found your channel yesterday. And I love your videos. They are funny and you are amazing.
"Don't cry don't cry don't cry"
Me: crying as soon as the father said, he's proud of his son