Guys at this point I'm watching the channel for pure entertainment because those 2 guys literally became FAMILY 🦈 My ex came back after 9 months PRECISELY how they are explaining it.... Thank GOD I bumped into Black Book Basics 2 weeks after the breakup...I had the time to work on myself.... She told me 2hours ago dating me again feels "weird and exciting" because she" knows me, but doesn't know the brand new me " 😈 🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈
@@opusandtarquez my brothers! Hey you never know if she keeps being as submissive as she is now , I might let her have the 1st Black Book Baby ....and no I won't call him Murphy 🤣
Shes mad at her decision, then regrets it and let's her dumbass friends whisper in her ear. She goes to bed at night all alone and miserable, and she can't control how you move, or who you move with. Thats what I think.
Oh yeah, i hear my ex crying herself to sleep in my bed every night. Sleeping with my Son now, clearly stated she Will forever Come on last place if she is serious about the breakup... "Yes, I am SUUUUUURE!" -allright, no problem Love, have a good life. 3 weeks later; "could you possibly consider moving to the ghetto so I can afford rent?" -No. "What the hell is wrong with you?" - I Just know were i do not belong, besides, my carrer, family life and everything has improved, Even my Luck of Fortune has been spinning lately. Going to be NO. "Well, you can have that whenever you want;) - I know, thats why I dont want it, everyone Else is hearing the same thing. Street's are talking. 🤷🏻♂️
Do yourself a massive favour and delete social media too. If you have your circle on what’s app or message then defo no need to be on social media. It will help you feel better.
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
So True My Ex Is Cruel Wth Me After Breaking up with me...N I've Been Cool Wth It All This Time He Sees Pple N Still I'm Fine Wth It...Y Cnt He Just Let Me Be
I thanked my ex wife, omg was she mad as a wet hen, she still thinks we should get back together though I've made it clear it is never going to happen.
My manliest response to her tantrum while in no contact, "I can understand why you feel this way, and at the same time, I know you're better than this"
This is actually an easy answer.... The real reason why your Ex is angered when they left you is because of Triangulation! They didn't want to leave you, but some 3rd party influenced or convinced them to dump you and get you out of the picture. They sided with 3rd party and then realized it was a big mistake! This is very true!
Hey my ex dumped me … I just turned around I went beyond no contact .. I shut down my Social media accounts never looking back .. EVER… I’m am a 50 year old woman who has know problem getting a date older or younger men.. I did the classiest thing turned around and walked away…Good job guys from Australia💯❤️🇦🇺
So my ex has borderline and acts like this. She even started bragging about how much better she’s doing in life and how much happier she is single. When I didn’t react negatively she kept trying.
Same here. My ex is bragging about how better her life is now and how happy she is. I told her that’s great then she unfollowed me on Instagram a few days later lol
@@WishesandWonder same but also talking about all the men shes talking to/ hitting on her breaking up with you isn't enough they want to see your pain so evil for somebody you loved/still have feeling for say these things i asked her why what more do you want from me she said its bcos i dont like seeing you happy or content sheet
@@lucasaveyard6282 Smh. They are narcissistic. Facts breaking up is not enough for them. They get a thrill out of intentionally trying to hurt us. Hoping to get a reaction. I ignored my ex then she was trying to get my attention on social media. I didn’t react then she blocked/unfollowed me on everything possible including Spotify lol. They get annoyed when we aren’t giving them the attention they want. Stay strong and ignore her. Hopefully they will eventually get tired and stop this BS.
@@WishesandWonder even Spotify lol yh even tho they broke up with you and apparently hate your guts they still crave that attention and reactions there mentally unstable for real keep on trucking brother 👊
These people are mentally Ill. And the way they act really hurts. So if she ghosted you and monkey branched immediately - fine. But why she is so mad smearing you indirectly on social networks? Why not just be happy with her new supply? That's just insane
My girlfriend called me one morning crying and said "I don't want to do this anymore." I said "OK then don't, I want my ring back, I have to go." Blocked her number and never looked back, and never will. Its not hard, just do it.
@@westcoastorbust2462 Yes, of course, there always is. We were together 5 1/2 years and never fought, always did new fun things together, had similar likes. She went back to her home town for a "vacation". Her sister fixed her up on a with one of her friends who had money and they spent the day out on his boat. And no doubt their nights in his bed. She came back from that trip and was cold as a fish to me. Then about a month later she said she was moving back to her home town, out of the blue. I was loyal to her, loved her in spite of her issues and she had many. It meant nothing to her, after she told me she was leaving, she said where are we going for breakfast. My head was spinning like I was going to pass out, and all she was concerned with was where are YOU taking ME for breakfast.
@Nick F I had a similar experience. Girlfriend for nearly 6 years breaks up with me out of the blue no reason other than me finding out later she was messing around with a fraternity brother. I eventually moved on and quit contacting her and ended up with a new woman that I eventually married. The ex calls out of the blue asking why I didn't buy her any roses for Valentines Day? I'm sitting here confused like what? I was happy to tell her I won't be doing that, I am with someone new and don't call me back. It felt so good after years being played around on and taking for granted after everything I did for her to see her mouth dropped on her lap. Years later she never married or had kids and still extremely bitter towards me. Her sister and family see me out and just say they don't know what her problem was and why she would ruined a relationship with such a good man. My wife and I have 2 kids, me making 6 figures, traveling the world. I won!
Man women that do this kind of stuff u never take them back. And I mean never. Let them live with their decision. If u didn't cheat on her or were abusive then u don't deserve to be treated that way. Just forget it. I don't care what she says. Why she says she did it, or any of that nonsense. There is no justification. Now that doesn't mean u hate her or have hard feelings but never entertain being with her again. It ain't worth it. Those thoughts will never leave your head.
💯 This applies to men as well. Getting angry and asked me to move on over my constructive critism, that doesn't make sense at all. Sounds like he has other option but IDGAF nomore!
I haven’t heard a single thing from her but I have improved. Got back in the gym lost about 15 pounds of body fat and build some solid muscle, im making more money 💰 everything is just going in my favor im right now 2 months into no contact and she watches my socials. Lol
I appreciate you making this video. I've been wrestling with my emotions for a year during the separation, where I was crying, hoping she'd change her mind of breaking up etc.... last month she completely attacked me verbally, physically, emotionally and the divorce is about to begin and I'm going NO CONTACT except to discuss our son. I found your video yesterday and feel much better about moving forward. Thank you!
Focus on self , move completely out the way and let them have each other . That rebound ain’t nothing but a pain killer and it’s going to wear off quick . Boss up now you have the upper hand to decide if you even won’t them back .
I had a good co-parenting relationship with my kids mom up until she saw my new girl bought our kid some outfits and a little bike. My ex has been angry, toxic and overall impossible to communicate with since then.
@@nikkig4847 She saw it in my trunk when I was picking our kid up, and she sees the clothes our kid wears. We're cool again at this point, but occasionally get on each other's nerves. Co-parenting takes effort on both sides, it's not always easy, but worth it for obvious reasons.
@@nikkig4847 he ain't flaunting it. He moved on. It's his kid as well. He don't need to hide his new girl everytime his kid's mother comes around. That's life. Sounds to me like his new girl loves his children and supports them. Women that get mad at petty shit like this need to grow up. Especially women that ended the relationship and now they mad their ex moved on with someone who treats them right.
Together for 9 years, married for 4 years. Broke up 4 months ago. Went into minimum contact after she told me she was seeing someone else (we have a daughter together), she filed for divorce 2 months ago, I reached the acceptance stage of grief and found peace with myself. She moved in with her boyfriend a month ago. I been trying to be cordial with her. How come every time I have to deal with her she is so angry? Like if she is so happy wit her new bf, why does she treat me like I did her wrong, when in reality she betrayed me?
She's also in pain, even while seeing someone else. Most women don't take responsibility for the poor situations they create, so they project the anger and pain onto you. This is especially the case when you have moved on and are living a better life without them. Your elevation causes her to doubt her decision.
Yeah similar to my Ex wife, she treats me like we never existed, she is mean and with attitude, like I was the one that wronged her, but she was the one out every night and monkey branching, took all my money, house new car. I have always wanted to work it out with her . I have been kind and respectful since she broke up with me, near 3 years ago. 23 years together
@@reginaldsmith6949 Hi I need women advice if can help me out.. I wish to know how we Man should react with words or respond with action 1) on my Birthday my gf did not get me a Birthday Gift and only a Slice cake that clearly she didnt prepare in advance I react badly by saying where is my Birthday present and why my Birthday is miserable with just a slice cake… What i did for her Birthday I spend $$$ and a proper Birthday with fireworks candle ..by the sea front …she was very happy …but I told her I didnt buy her any Birthday gift because she didnt even bother to reciprocate I know I feel like Shit and act like Shit What should I had said and do? 2) One day I went haircut she got herself a Take Out fast food for herself ..she used to include dinner for me but this comeback together after the breakup..she didn’t invest much on me and put little effort. I called her out where is my dinner that she got for herself only …I felt so bad she used to share and we eat together Take Out but this time unlike all our 7 years she prefer to go home and eat alone ….leaving myself to eat alone and get my own take out..I am ok but I felt Bitter why she said she love me but her action is Not much In the past 7 years it very natural to date and text her …but now she withdraw 80% .. 3) she told me she would be sociable when I saw one her picture in her phone she with a guy in the gym What would a Alpha Musculine man do ? Please help..Thank you
@@fj4731 It appears she is not committed to you as she once was. You have to be your own advocate and act in your best interest. I'm not saying to mistreat or to do things at the expense of others. You must always display respect for yourself before you can earn it from others. You need to move on if this behavior from her continues.
@@reginaldsmith6949 Hi ...Thank you for your reply... My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 22days She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age… Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ? I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own.. How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ? Today is Day 23 No Contact She said if she miss me she will contact me
She got mad at me after I asked for my things back the day after getting dumped. She declined one of my two calls and all my messages with the things I needed (most weren't items weren't petty and of high value). I asked if we could please be adults about this and she said fuck you and that she'll give me my things back. Next day I left her stuff on her driveway. A week later she asks what I need and where to drop it off (already told her a week before) and I stated the things I needed and she ignored me again. It's been almost a month since the dumping, and almost a month of NC. I have no idea what her issue is. I only begged for a day and that was when I was dumped. If only things were done more maturely
I always wondered if I was the rebound from someone else and if no contact is counterintuitive. Like how do I know if I was truly #1, it felt like I was but she has a past that I don’t fully know about
I showed anger when my ex broke it off with me . I realized it was weak behavior, also it gave her more of a reason to leave . After that I went no contact as far as calling/texting her, payed her no mind at work except for being cordial . She went into a rebound, I payed it no mind, stayed positive and she became so miserable . She eventually tried work things out with me . You gotta maintain your dignity and walk away when they leave you .
I like your points because I have been wondering about this a lot lately! I was with my soon to be ex wife for 11 years. She was super happy a month or two after she asked for a divorce. Now she is so angry at me all the time but will ask me questions that are not important or will try to get me to argue with me. Thanks for your guys thoughts
He played hot and cold for 6 months after the breakup and then told me he doesn’t feel close anymore yet says he loves me and calls me pet names. Get angry at the drop of a hat. Makes excuses to not mature. I’m so done. Finally.
when you go no contact and move on with your life and m better yourself in tne Gym,Read some books ,start a business and buy better fitted clothes and date beautiful women ,shes gonna be mad because your doing so much better than you were with her ,The dumper expects you to run after them and when you dont and better yourself its honestly the best revenge .
Well my girlfriend broke with me yesterday and she said she wasn’t ready for a serious relationship she said I haven’t done nothing wrong and she wants be friends I want her back but y’all helped me out brothers 💪🏽
She broke up with me over compatibility it’s been three years and she will still look at my social media and actually unblocked my number on accident supposedly but still refuses to talk to me till this day I don’t understand it. I have no ill feelings towards her.
Well I think not giving her space and trying to talk to her constantly for 2 months and sending her many texts make her hate me and not want to talk to me. But I just want to talk to her cuz I miss her and want her to know I’m sorry for mistakes I’ve made
Go no contact for yourself mate and get your self respect back. Improve yourself try to be positive and reach out to your family and friends. If she loves you she will miss you and reach out if not no contact will help you heal. Best of luck
Thank you sooo much. I left him alone and at first to stay friends which backfired and I decided to ditch that. I then have been in no contact and the he went to a rebound relationship. She tried to be friends with me while she started to go out with him and they kept it a secret. Then she reached out to me after 5 month dating in secret and she asked me to be friends because she really liked me. I rejected and said that I don't wanna know anything from her. Since he reached out and calle d me like crazy. Then after 6 weeks I gave him a chance to receive a call and he shouted and then I stopped the call. He them blew up my phone with 13 messages and admitted to having shouted at the rebound and I am acting unreasonable. I went no contact though 😂😂😂.
I don’t know if she’s “mad” at me. But I have made a lot of progress since then (lost weight, quit bad habits, got a promotion, fixed the issue. She watches all my socials and has been mirroring my socials - like most of them. If I post something, she posts something similar. She saw my weight loss and has now begun the same thing. Thoughts on this? Also if you could do a video on an ex mirroring the dumpee social media that would be awesome!
Just keep improving sean and dont worry what she's up to. If she wants back she will holler. Put yourself first bro. Was in your same situation made the same improvements she watched all my socials 4 months on still nothing from her. But I'm a way better person more positive and love the changes i made if she dont appreciate you after you made the effort plenty other girls will. Understand you want her but over time if she dont reach out you will see what I'm saying best of luck. It's a 50/50
Thanks Sean. I know your in a dark place now bro always thinking bout her it will get easier trust me. When you feel the need to reach out to her or your trying to think of things to do to win her back watch these guys old videos. Helped me a lot and if your unfortunate enough to go months with no progress like me your mind shifts from what can I do to f that bitch for doing this to me 😂. Cant force people to be with us but can improve ourselves and learn from our mistakes.
Okay answer this one for me. I moved on and was perfectly fine. He got his relatives to get me back and after I went back assuming that there was going to be a reconciliation, he never spoke to me again and just sent out. Angry hateful memes about having better options now
She's upset you haven't chased her. She think you never cared because you haven't chased or begged her. Guess what, if you begged, she will brag to her friends about how she got you acting over her. Her friends are not making it any better by cheering on her behavior. It's very vital to know who she hangs with (women have a hard time seeing that misery loves company, even if her friend's are in a relationship of their own). Thats why grandma used to keep everyone out her personal business, especially, her business with her man. Anyways, Instead of your ex stepping out of her pride, and pull up on your doorstep, she rather have a toddler moment (crying on the floor waiting on someone to pick her up). Don't play the friend zone, or the jealousy games. It's crazy how some of us never noticed how immature they are until a breakup. But you have to remember some of these women have been catered to their whole lives, and they can't turn it off. Plus, their other exes have chased them, and probably continue to, so, you have to move differently. She will respect that you haven't blew her phone up. Even if shes prideful, stubborn, etc.. She will eventually break. If you truly love her. PRAY for her and love her from a distance. Like a toddler, they will cry themselves out til they realize no one (mainly you) is coming to pick them up off the floor. Once she does eventually calm down, see if she's ready to have a mature conversation. No extra emotion, just real talk. See if she'll listen to your side of the story and make strides to change as well. We men will do anything to keep the ones we love, but it cant be a one-way street. The cycle will continue, if she doesn't meet you half way, because, if you sneeze wrong she will break up with you again.
@@maglyntips Well he needs to man up and actually speak without emotions. Yea he expected you to be a Lil more down on the situation so he definitely feels like you don't care. But obviously you do or you wouldn't be on here. But send him a simple text letting him know you're only respecting what he asked for. See how he responds. Teach him how to respect you, unless you had did something disgraceful to make him say those things.
@@1dawg243 I did everything I could to save the relationship, he would brag to his friends that he could cheat and I kept forgiving him, he never remember my special days, never bought me gift because I wasn't asking for one but I always expected a thoughtful one. I would walk into his house to see different girls in compromising situations. Guess what he would do? He never said sorry instead he'll ignore me and make me hurt till I be the one to beg for what he did. I decided to leave this last time after 4yrs of going through this with him. He never changed after I gave him chances. Now he's on calling me a loser, telling me I'll never find a faithful man either. I can go on and on...
You guys are entertaining as Hell.. But here is the thing : she left me by text,i directly went NC (as i mentioned in other comments)..after 3 months NC she blocked me (i didnt even try to contact her)..WTF is that?
Well I tried working out things when she broke up with me then she was with another dude i just got to the point i wanted her stuff out my garage then i stopped all contact with her just only business to have her belongings out of my garage.. then she went nuts when i blocked her tore my garage up was trying to kick in my door then coming to my job.. at the end of the day we pushed each other away i was able to accept the breakup finally and focus on myself
Okay, I went through the no contact rule. He left me because he claimed he was too busy. I know that was not the real reason. 7 months of everything being ok. Met mom other family members, friends even ex wife. Keys to the house. I honestly don't know what happened. So how do I deal with him calling and wanting to get with me? I gave in once but I feel like I am not good enough to be in a relationship but good enough for all the extra. How do I deal with that? It has been 6 months now.......
Bro my x left me for another dude she prego she da 3rd baby now . I got no kids she had potential me and her could of made some serious money but ima do it on my own I didn’t want that go kuz but it is what it is I don’t want her back she could be my friend but I’m good
I never tried getting bk with my ex I just tried been friends with her after she left me but she went cold and ignored me like a disease 🙄...she wont delete my number though
I never called her or anyone? But I was trying to talk to her but she keeps blocking me every i try to talk to her at the gym she was so mean and rude to me and i tell her goodbye. After three months of begging and texting her too much. Can I ever get her back?
Your videos are really inspiring. I see you preach no contact and all its benefits which I totally understand. Im curious as to how no contact will work to re attract an ex if the reason they gave for the breakup was they felt like they were giving more than they were getting back? (ie, they felt neglected or taken for granted) It seems like this is a very common reason for many breakups where one party becomes complacent or the ex just didnt feel like they got the same support they were giving you in the relationship. In my case, I was going through a really tough time with stress and work during the pandemic and failed to recognise I wasnt meeting my exes needs towards the end. I wasnt validating and supporting her through her own stresses and struggles. This was never intentional though, I was just so caught up I failed to read the signs and act on it before it was too late. Looking back, I feel awful for not recognising she was unhappy but after some time apart, I have learned a lot through reading and therapy about my shortcomings. How do you showcase you have worked on improvng yourself on an emotional intelligence sort of level? How would no contact work to re-attract an ex in cases like this? Wouldn't going no contact for months just reaffirm the belief they created in their mind that you didnt care?? It would be a really interesting topic for you guys to cover. I just dont see how permanent no contact will reattract an ex even if you level up physically and socially because showcasing emotional intelligence improvements is much harder than showcasing physical improvements through social medias etc. How will they ever know you have learned from this sort of oversight? I'm yet to find a decent video covering this topic and it would be super cool if you covered it. Cheers Guys
Damn, it’s like you read my mind lol. I think that that’s a topic that a lot of people don’t talk about. Also, there are some that this is not their first breakup with the same person. How does it apply to a 2nd or 3rd breakup? I totally agree with your POV, and I’d really like for them to answer your questions.
Literally I was like this to my ex towards the end but me and her knew each other since highschool and started dating then, it’s been 3 years since then and i’m on 9 days of No contact. And she ended it like 4 days before I started no contact. But what you have to do is call and show a clean slate, you can sort of show her on call that you want her back and you had your own situations such as family and you was so stressed you wasn’t able to give attention. But while saying that also mention good memories and reassure her abt how you two used to have good times. and then say you respect her decision she made and you have love for her and tell her i hope you look after yourself because looking after you was my responsibility. which will mess with her mind and give her all sorts of confusion whether she made the wrong decision. But my ex has numerous times posted stuff to sort of have my contact her or reach out or tease me or sort of revenge me, and numerous times blocked and unblocked me on different social media apps. and i also saw that she’s being extra on social media but i can also see what she’s liking on twitter so i can see self doubt in her decision. If your in my situation try do the same, give her a clean slate and then start your no contact !
As someone who broke up with my ex for this very reason, i can tell you what will probably work. Lead with an apology and take accountability for what you did. This is the situation where you actually should come crawling a little bit. That would probably chill out her anger. Tell her that you went to therapy and that you now see where you messed up, and that you regret what you did.
I tried to figured out wtf was my exes problem, when we were together she was always angry. Taking off, starting fights, looking for any reason to be mad. Clearly just wanted to go out with her friends and obviously another male option , me tagging along would screw that up. After to she broke up with me again, for another guy. I was done. I decided to move on n let go, n she was pissed the fuck off about this. It wasn't that I was moving on with another woman, just with life, bettered my health n career. Stopped drinking n partying. N this mad her extremely mad, n no wonder, she threw me away like a dud, like I was nothing. Then once my success was shining, she wanted to fuck me up, she wanted to see fail. She did everything to destroy me, I had to pay hey child support just to get her to leave me alone, and even then she's still mad
yes My X bagged me to come back. I do not want him back again I have made this this perfectly clear. and yes I am very angry. I just want him to leave me alone. stay out of my life for good. he doesn't want me then he can keep away from me.
Question with a twist. First love who dumped me showed anger towards me. The twist is its been 20 years. Except for the 1st 4 years we have maintained contact once a year thru email. Very cool and respectful ect. Both married. We finally bumped into each other. I was happy to c her. All smiles. Yea, no smiles for me. Then she said, Darren, what r u DOIN Here. Very aggressive. Not happy 2 c me at all. Then later she snipped at me. I felt full of turmoil. Awful feeling. We had just spoke theu email 2 months earlier. That was 4 years ago and not a peep since. Any ideas. So confused
We have dated for 8 years and we broke up about 5 month ago, when he brokeup with me, out of no where, I Didn't say i word when we brokeup. Just Spend good time, and leave. A month later he asks for help, i did. Than he sent me pictures of his new house. I respond with good manner. Than he asked me for another favar. I did it Again. Than i asked is he dating someone, he said if anyone doing is nobody gonna say this to an ex. I got my point. And say nothing. And sometime he knocked me for no reason. So i told him Don't want to talk to him. But a month later he knock me again. And ask, is i got married or not, so i told him, about his female friends he said we Don't have anything ( means we are ex now) so i told him than stop text me. He got upset, started rising his voice, saying he is a bad character person 😑 he is a womanizer, he did a big mistake to text me. And blocked me. 😑 Didn't beg at all, Didn't, initiate any contact after the breakup but still he is angry 🤣 It's been 5 month we are brokeup... And a month and more in his block list 🤣
My ex will not talk to anyone. He lefted & me. He's not talking to friends & if he is then he yelling at them. He so happy Now but hes yelling at 2 Poeple and I just say I don't know.
I said I respect your decision and then ghosted him he’s still wants me to come back … I love him but I love me more …. I won’t go back to the same man …. So he better become better…him “I’ve never felt this way about anyone else in my life- I tried to replace you but no one makes me feel like you do”(he left me mind you it was a power play) …. Then
I'm going through a third party either my father or sister in law could pick up my kids every other week which feels like a long time to see my kids cause of court and stuff and then restraining order like any little thing she'll go to her a lawyer to try and get me in trouble and I'm over here trying to better my self and I workout almost everyday at gym and she already has a boyfriend so why does she do her best to try and get me in trouble that's an answer I would like to know cause it is confusing as fuck and she was the one that dumped me plus she has cheated on me before and I never done any of that! I only hurt her with words but I have reasons to cause of the cheating from the past like it still hurted me that she did that to me but I feel like maybe she's miserable I don't know cause I think it's gonna be a year with this person that she's with so why for any little thing she goes to her lawyer to try and get me in trouble like it doesn't make any sense? There has to be a video on TH-cam what if your not allowed to contact your ex cause of court orders and restraining orders like sometimes I think does she still cares even though it doesn't seem like she does and we have 4 kids together and we been in an 8 and a half year relationship...
Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks
My wife stated that she wanted a divorce but wont file anything. Her social media profile pics still have photos of me and her up. Said she want space and I’ve been no contact for like 2 weeks. Anybody have any advice on what’s wrong?
@@inserter400 I mean I think the same because if I want out of something I’m going to free myself. However, I’ll just wait it out. Been 29 days no contact so I’ll see. Just confusing to me
I smile if I see her in the street and say hi...I really have no f..cks to give...she still ignores me and pretends I'm not there.. I should of done no contact straight away🙄 but I wanted to show her I didn't care and showed her I didn't..that was when she went cold ignored me and now I keep away no texting no communication nothing...haha
He cheated on me let me to go with her. You hurt me like he honestly thinks I'm going to take him. back. I am a very loyal person if you got problems in your relationship you should talk about things not cheat.
Then you are an immature, disrespectful &, in your own words, abusive individual who intentionally treated another human being like garbage. Someone needs to tell you this & it should’ve been your father to do so.
Guys at this point I'm watching the channel for pure entertainment because those 2 guys literally became FAMILY 🦈
My ex came back after 9 months PRECISELY how they are explaining it....
Thank GOD I bumped into Black Book Basics 2 weeks after the breakup...I had the time to work on myself....
She told me 2hours ago dating me again feels "weird and exciting" because she" knows me, but doesn't know the brand new me "
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It’s comments like this that keep us doing this brother. Good sh*t !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈 -Opus-
@@opusandtarquez my brothers!
Hey you never know if she keeps being as submissive as she is now , I might let her have the 1st Black Book Baby ....and no I won't call him Murphy 🤣
@@thierryngoyi3188 😂😂😂
Shes mad at her decision, then regrets it and let's her dumbass friends whisper in her ear. She goes to bed at night all alone and miserable, and she can't control how you move, or who you move with. Thats what I think.
You spitting that heat 🔥
I'm going thru that right now fam
Just keep your head up my dude. Im to the point where I don't even want my ex fiance of 6 years back. She's a stranger to me. And I like it that way.
Yessir
Oh yeah, i hear my ex crying herself to sleep in my bed every night. Sleeping with my Son now, clearly stated she Will forever Come on last place if she is serious about the breakup... "Yes, I am SUUUUUURE!" -allright, no problem Love, have a good life.
3 weeks later; "could you possibly consider moving to the ghetto so I can afford rent?" -No.
"What the hell is wrong with you?" - I Just know were i do not belong, besides, my carrer, family life and everything has improved, Even my Luck of Fortune has been spinning lately. Going to be NO. "Well, you can have that whenever you want;) - I know, thats why I dont want it, everyone Else is hearing the same thing. Street's are talking. 🤷🏻♂️
my ex is continuing playing victim to get attention in social media. i'll just ignore her and focus in my self development.
You got it!
Do yourself a massive favour and delete social media too. If you have your circle on what’s app or message then defo no need to be on social media. It will help you feel better.
It’s amazing how the ex cannot handle no contact.
Facts, there mad cause it didn’t play out how they thought it would, that’s the beauty of how they think.
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Guys just sit back and watch poetic justice .
@@garysavala665That is truly the real reason right there! I was thinking that and you said it! Facts bro! Facts! 💯
Forgive them for leaving and see how fast they get angry, lol
@@mikejohn5494 no thanks l don't like sloppy seconds are who knows how many she was with before she ran out of options and came back.
@@georgespangler1517 just message him on WhatsApp
So True My Ex Is Cruel Wth Me After Breaking up with me...N I've Been Cool Wth It All This Time He Sees Pple N Still I'm Fine Wth It...Y Cnt He Just Let Me Be
@0whatsapp950 no I'm not having trouble but after seeing your picture I would message you
I thanked my ex wife, omg was she mad as a wet hen, she still thinks we should get back together though I've made it clear it is never going to happen.
You guys don’t even know the healing y’all bring I to peoples lives… thankyou
Much appreciated Kea.
My manliest response to her tantrum while in no contact, "I can understand why you feel this way, and at the same time, I know you're better than this"
This is actually an easy answer.... The real reason why your Ex is angered when they left you is because of Triangulation! They didn't want to leave you, but some 3rd party influenced or convinced them to dump you and get you out of the picture. They sided with 3rd party and then realized it was a big mistake! This is very true!
Hey my ex dumped me … I just turned around I went beyond no contact .. I shut down my Social media accounts never looking back .. EVER… I’m am a 50 year old woman who has know problem getting a date older or younger men.. I did the classiest thing turned around and walked away…Good job guys from Australia💯❤️🇦🇺
So my ex has borderline and acts like this. She even started bragging about how much better she’s doing in life and how much happier she is single. When I didn’t react negatively she kept trying.
Same here. My ex is bragging about how better her life is now and how happy she is. I told her that’s great then she unfollowed me on Instagram a few days later lol
@@WishesandWonder same but also talking about all the men shes talking to/ hitting on her breaking up with you isn't enough they want to see your pain so evil for somebody you loved/still have feeling for say these things i asked her why what more do you want from me she said its bcos i dont like seeing you happy or content sheet
@@lucasaveyard6282 Smh. They are narcissistic. Facts breaking up is not enough for them. They get a thrill out of intentionally trying to hurt us. Hoping to get a reaction. I ignored my ex then she was trying to get my attention on social media. I didn’t react then she blocked/unfollowed me on everything possible including Spotify lol. They get annoyed when we aren’t giving them the attention they want. Stay strong and ignore her. Hopefully they will eventually get tired and stop this BS.
@@WishesandWonder even Spotify lol yh even tho they broke up with you and apparently hate your guts they still crave that attention and reactions there mentally unstable for real keep on trucking brother 👊
These people are mentally Ill. And the way they act really hurts.
So if she ghosted you and monkey branched immediately - fine.
But why she is so mad smearing you indirectly on social networks? Why not just be happy with her new supply? That's just insane
My girlfriend called me one morning crying and said "I don't want to do this anymore." I said "OK then don't, I want my ring back, I have to go." Blocked her number and never looked back, and never will. Its not hard, just do it.
It’s makes you feel a hell of a lot betting knowing you got the upper hand and you still have your self respect as a man doesn’t it ?? 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
@@opusandtarquez I give it everything I have, if thats not good enough then I have no problem saying get lost.
There has to be more to this story
@@westcoastorbust2462 Yes, of course, there always is. We were together 5 1/2 years and never fought, always did new fun things together, had similar likes. She went back to her home town for a "vacation". Her sister fixed her up on a with one of her friends who had money and they spent the day out on his boat. And no doubt their nights in his bed. She came back from that trip and was cold as a fish to me. Then about a month later she said she was moving back to her home town, out of the blue. I was loyal to her, loved her in spite of her issues and she had many. It meant nothing to her, after she told me she was leaving, she said where are we going for breakfast. My head was spinning like I was going to pass out, and all she was concerned with was where are YOU taking ME for breakfast.
@Nick F I had a similar experience. Girlfriend for nearly 6 years breaks up with me out of the blue no reason other than me finding out later she was messing around with a fraternity brother. I eventually moved on and quit contacting her and ended up with a new woman that I eventually married. The ex calls out of the blue asking why I didn't buy her any roses for Valentines Day? I'm sitting here confused like what? I was happy to tell her I won't be doing that, I am with someone new and don't call me back. It felt so good after years being played around on and taking for granted after everything I did for her to see her mouth dropped on her lap. Years later she never married or had kids and still extremely bitter towards me. Her sister and family see me out and just say they don't know what her problem was and why she would ruined a relationship with such a good man. My wife and I have 2 kids, me making 6 figures, traveling the world. I won!
Man women that do this kind of stuff u never take them back. And I mean never. Let them live with their decision. If u didn't cheat on her or were abusive then u don't deserve to be treated that way. Just forget it. I don't care what she says. Why she says she did it, or any of that nonsense. There is no justification. Now that doesn't mean u hate her or have hard feelings but never entertain being with her again. It ain't worth it. Those thoughts will never leave your head.
💯 This applies to men as well. Getting angry and asked me to move on over my constructive critism, that doesn't make sense at all. Sounds like he has other option but IDGAF nomore!
Sadly there’s a lot of unaccountable people that lack self awareness out there
I haven’t heard a single thing from her but I have improved. Got back in the gym lost about 15 pounds of body fat and build some solid muscle, im making more money 💰 everything is just going in my favor im right now 2 months into no contact and she watches my socials. Lol
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
I just watch these videos for the laughs now!🤣 Thanks guys!
😂😂
I appreciate you making this video. I've been wrestling with my emotions for a year during the separation, where I was crying, hoping she'd change her mind of breaking up etc.... last month she completely attacked me verbally, physically, emotionally and the divorce is about to begin and I'm going NO CONTACT except to discuss our son. I found your video yesterday and feel much better about moving forward. Thank you!
Focus on self , move completely out the way and let them have each other . That rebound ain’t nothing but a pain killer and it’s going to wear off quick . Boss up now you have the upper hand to decide if you even won’t them back .
She blocked me on everything and told me she’s moved on, I was an idiot and kept trying but now about 10 days into no contact, we move💪🏼
I love you guys humor in the middle of giving information. Your timing is impeccable. 💯🤣🤣🤣
Thanks. No matter how dark things get, you always have to laugh.
My ex gets angry at me because i ignore her.
I had a good co-parenting relationship with my kids mom up until she saw my new girl bought our kid some outfits and a little bike. My ex has been angry, toxic and overall impossible to communicate with since then.
She’s Jealous af bro lol anger is an emotion she’s expressing cause she can’t control what your new cool chick buys your child/children
Hahahahahahajaja yeesssss. She hatin
Next time dont flaunt it and apologize its HER daughter
@@nikkig4847 She saw it in my trunk when I was picking our kid up, and she sees the clothes our kid wears.
We're cool again at this point, but occasionally get on each other's nerves. Co-parenting takes effort on both sides, it's not always easy, but worth it for obvious reasons.
@@nikkig4847 he ain't flaunting it. He moved on. It's his kid as well. He don't need to hide his new girl everytime his kid's mother comes around. That's life. Sounds to me like his new girl loves his children and supports them. Women that get mad at petty shit like this need to grow up. Especially women that ended the relationship and now they mad their ex moved on with someone who treats them right.
Together for 9 years, married for 4 years. Broke up 4 months ago. Went into minimum contact after she told me she was seeing someone else (we have a daughter together), she filed for divorce 2 months ago, I reached the acceptance stage of grief and found peace with myself. She moved in with her boyfriend a month ago. I been trying to be cordial with her. How come every time I have to deal with her she is so angry? Like if she is so happy wit her new bf, why does she treat me like I did her wrong, when in reality she betrayed me?
She's also in pain, even while seeing someone else. Most women don't take responsibility for the poor situations they create, so they project the anger and pain onto you. This is especially the case when you have moved on and are living a better life without them. Your elevation causes her to doubt her decision.
Yeah similar to my Ex wife, she treats me like we never existed, she is mean and with attitude, like I was the one that wronged her, but she was the one out every night and monkey branching, took all my money, house new car.
I have always wanted to work it out with her .
I have been kind and respectful since she broke up with me, near 3 years ago.
23 years together
@@reginaldsmith6949 Hi
I need women advice if can help me out..
I wish to know how we Man should react with words or respond with action
1) on my Birthday my gf did not get me a Birthday Gift and only a Slice cake that clearly she didnt prepare in advance
I react badly by saying where is my Birthday present and why my Birthday is miserable with just a slice cake…
What i did for her Birthday I spend $$$ and a proper Birthday with fireworks candle ..by the sea front …she was very happy …but I told her I didnt buy her any Birthday gift because she didnt even bother to reciprocate
I know I feel like Shit and act like Shit
What should I had said and do?
2) One day I went haircut she got herself a Take Out fast food for herself ..she used to include dinner for me but this comeback together after the breakup..she didn’t invest much on me and put little effort.
I called her out where is my dinner that she got for herself only …I felt so bad she used to share and we eat together Take Out but this time unlike all our 7 years she prefer to go home and eat alone ….leaving myself to eat alone and get my own take out..I am ok but I felt Bitter why she said she love me but her action is Not much
In the past 7 years it very natural to date and text her …but now she withdraw 80% ..
3) she told me she would be sociable when I saw one her picture in her phone she with a guy in the gym
What would a Alpha Musculine man do ?
Please help..Thank you
@@fj4731 It appears she is not committed to you as she once was. You have to be your own advocate and act in your best interest. I'm not saying to mistreat or to do things at the expense of others. You must always display respect for yourself before you can earn it from others. You need to move on if this behavior from her continues.
@@reginaldsmith6949 Hi ...Thank you for your reply... My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 22days
She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age…
Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out
She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ?
I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own..
How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ?
Today is Day 23 No Contact
She said if she miss me she will contact me
Big brothers I never had,I love y'all energy. May Abundance be plentiful for y'all 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Much Respect !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
Need another video dealing with a breakup with kids involved when you want your family back fellas!!!
If she is angry then leave her to boil in it,
ex's stay exed.....
Forward!!
Most definitely!
She got mad at me after I asked for my things back the day after getting dumped. She declined one of my two calls and all my messages with the things I needed (most weren't items weren't petty and of high value). I asked if we could please be adults about this and she said fuck you and that she'll give me my things back. Next day I left her stuff on her driveway. A week later she asks what I need and where to drop it off (already told her a week before) and I stated the things I needed and she ignored me again. It's been almost a month since the dumping, and almost a month of NC. I have no idea what her issue is. I only begged for a day and that was when I was dumped. If only things were done more maturely
Another spot on video
Dealing with this situation now everything you describe is accurate
±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup-.,
I always wondered if I was the rebound from someone else and if no contact is counterintuitive. Like how do I know if I was truly #1, it felt like I was but she has a past that I don’t fully know about
I showed anger when my ex broke it off with me . I realized it was weak behavior, also it gave her more of a reason to leave . After that I went no contact as far as calling/texting her, payed her no mind at work except for being cordial . She went into a rebound, I payed it no mind, stayed positive and she became so miserable . She eventually tried work things out with me . You gotta maintain your dignity and walk away when they leave you .
I kept going no contact and she kept hitting me for silly stuff also lol
Crazy.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
I like your points because I have been wondering about this a lot lately! I was with my soon to be ex wife for 11 years. She was super happy a month or two after she asked for a divorce. Now she is so angry at me all the time but will ask me questions that are not important or will try to get me to argue with me. Thanks for your guys thoughts
This screams personality disordered ex for days
Definitely.
Like a narc
If they still won't feelings for you they will always be angry I have exes of 30 years that are still angry
Still angry.
He played hot and cold for 6 months after the breakup and then told me he doesn’t feel close anymore yet says he loves me and calls me pet names. Get angry at the drop of a hat. Makes excuses to not mature. I’m so done. Finally.
when you go no contact and move on with your life and m better yourself in tne Gym,Read some books ,start a business and buy better fitted clothes and date beautiful women ,shes gonna be mad because your doing so much better than you were with her ,The dumper expects you to run after them and when you dont and better yourself its honestly the best revenge .
Thanks guys. I appreciate your videos. Shout outs from Australia.
Thanks homie!!! Much Respect!!!
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
Well my girlfriend broke with me yesterday and she said she wasn’t ready for a serious relationship she said I haven’t done nothing wrong and she wants be friends I want her back but y’all helped me out brothers 💪🏽
She broke up with me over compatibility it’s been three years and she will still look at my social media and actually unblocked my number on accident supposedly but still refuses to talk to me till this day I don’t understand it. I have no ill feelings towards her.
Well I think not giving her space and trying to talk to her constantly for 2 months and sending her many texts make her hate me and not want to talk to me. But I just want to talk to her cuz I miss her and want her to know I’m sorry for mistakes I’ve made
Go no contact for yourself mate and get your self respect back. Improve yourself try to be positive and reach out to your family and friends. If she loves you she will miss you and reach out if not no contact will help you heal. Best of luck
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Remember that bottle of Tylenol I bought you? I want it back....🤣🤣🤣
Lol
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
Dude-that is funny!!
Great advice as always. That grandma joke had me dying
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Guard your heart and your wallet at all costs fellas...
This will never make sense! Because it doesn't make sense. Period!
Dem boyz O.G ś.
Love and Respect Kingz.
#UpTopKingZ 407 🇬🇾
Thank you sooo much. I left him alone and at first to stay friends which backfired and I decided to ditch that. I then have been in no contact and the he went to a rebound relationship. She tried to be friends with me while she started to go out with him and they kept it a secret. Then she reached out to me after 5 month dating in secret and she asked me to be friends because she really liked me. I rejected and said that I don't wanna know anything from her. Since he reached out and calle d me like crazy. Then after 6 weeks I gave him a chance to receive a call and he shouted and then I stopped the call. He them blew up my phone with 13 messages and admitted to having shouted at the rebound and I am acting unreasonable. I went no contact though 😂😂😂.
I don’t know if she’s “mad” at me. But I have made a lot of progress since then (lost weight, quit bad habits, got a promotion, fixed the issue. She watches all my socials and has been mirroring my socials - like most of them. If I post something, she posts something similar. She saw my weight loss and has now begun the same thing. Thoughts on this? Also if you could do a video on an ex mirroring the dumpee social media that would be awesome!
Just keep improving sean and dont worry what she's up to. If she wants back she will holler. Put yourself first bro. Was in your same situation made the same improvements she watched all my socials 4 months on still nothing from her. But I'm a way better person more positive and love the changes i made if she dont appreciate you after you made the effort plenty other girls will. Understand you want her but over time if she dont reach out you will see what I'm saying best of luck. It's a 50/50
Malcky thanks man! Really appreciate it. Also, but props to your progress!
Thanks Sean. I know your in a dark place now bro always thinking bout her it will get easier trust me. When you feel the need to reach out to her or your trying to think of things to do to win her back watch these guys old videos. Helped me a lot and if your unfortunate enough to go months with no progress like me your mind shifts from what can I do to f that bitch for doing this to me 😂. Cant force people to be with us but can improve ourselves and learn from our mistakes.
Okay answer this one for me. I moved on and was perfectly fine. He got his relatives to get me back and after I went back assuming that there was going to be a reconciliation, he never spoke to me again and just sent out. Angry hateful memes about having better options now
Maybe the family lied to you.
Quit wasting your time.
What if they dumped you and you are moving on without begging them, but out of no where they come calling you names, calling you s disgrace and so on
She's upset you haven't chased her. She think you never cared because you haven't chased or begged her. Guess what, if you begged, she will brag to her friends about how she got you acting over her. Her friends are not making it any better by cheering on her behavior. It's very vital to know who she hangs with (women have a hard time seeing that misery loves company, even if her friend's are in a relationship of their own). Thats why grandma used to keep everyone out her personal business, especially, her business with her man. Anyways, Instead of your ex stepping out of her pride, and pull up on your doorstep, she rather have a toddler moment (crying on the floor waiting on someone to pick her up). Don't play the friend zone, or the jealousy games. It's crazy how some of us never noticed how immature they are until a breakup. But you have to remember some of these women have been catered to their whole lives, and they can't turn it off. Plus, their other exes have chased them, and probably continue to, so, you have to move differently. She will respect that you haven't blew her phone up. Even if shes prideful, stubborn, etc.. She will eventually break. If you truly love her. PRAY for her and love her from a distance. Like a toddler, they will cry themselves out til they realize no one (mainly you) is coming to pick them up off the floor. Once she does eventually calm down, see if she's ready to have a mature conversation. No extra emotion, just real talk. See if she'll listen to your side of the story and make strides to change as well. We men will do anything to keep the ones we love, but it cant be a one-way street. The cycle will continue, if she doesn't meet you half way, because, if you sneeze wrong she will break up with you again.
@@1dawg243 it's a he actually... I'm a woman
@@maglyntips oh I'm sorry!
@@maglyntips Well he needs to man up and actually speak without emotions. Yea he expected you to be a Lil more down on the situation so he definitely feels like you don't care. But obviously you do or you wouldn't be on here. But send him a simple text letting him know you're only respecting what he asked for. See how he responds. Teach him how to respect you, unless you had did something disgraceful to make him say those things.
@@1dawg243 I did everything I could to save the relationship, he would brag to his friends that he could cheat and I kept forgiving him, he never remember my special days, never bought me gift because I wasn't asking for one but I always expected a thoughtful one. I would walk into his house to see different girls in compromising situations. Guess what he would do? He never said sorry instead he'll ignore me and make me hurt till I be the one to beg for what he did. I decided to leave this last time after 4yrs of going through this with him. He never changed after I gave him chances. Now he's on calling me a loser, telling me I'll never find a faithful man either. I can go on and on...
You guys are entertaining as Hell..
But here is the thing : she left me by text,i directly went NC (as i mentioned in other comments)..after 3 months NC she blocked me (i didnt even try to contact her)..WTF is that?
To get a reaction out of you, she’s upset. It’s actually a good sign
@@floaterhill1848
Well,havn't heard from her for 8 months..still a good sign?
@@zaijnt381 same here.
I'm moving forward ⏩
Thank you for all the great videos
Well I tried working out things when she broke up with me then she was with another dude i just got to the point i wanted her stuff out my garage then i stopped all contact with her just only business to have her belongings out of my garage.. then she went nuts when i blocked her tore my garage up was trying to kick in my door then coming to my job.. at the end of the day we pushed each other away i was able to accept the breakup finally and focus on myself
Okay, I went through the no contact rule. He left me because he claimed he was too busy. I know that was not the real reason. 7 months of everything being ok. Met mom other family members, friends even ex wife. Keys to the house. I honestly don't know what happened. So how do I deal with him calling and wanting to get with me? I gave in once but I feel like I am not good enough to be in a relationship but good enough for all the extra. How do I deal with that? It has been 6 months now.......
So you are asking us what happened but we was not there.so did you oay attention to other signs
Don't go back.
Move forward.
he really just doesn't understand he walk away from me. I have tried to make him understand I do not want him to contact me.
Bro my x left me for another dude she prego she da 3rd baby now . I got no kids she had potential me and her could of made some serious money but ima do it on my own I didn’t want that go kuz but it is what it is I don’t want her back she could be my friend but I’m good
Don't even be friends.
@@johnathandavis9098 why
@@Jrshowuncensored1 dude being friends is a sign of weakness. She disrespected you so cut her off completely and move on.
@@wilfridjoseph6172 thank you bruh you right you save my life she going to regret leaving me one day
I never tried getting bk with my ex I just tried been friends with her after she left me but she went cold and ignored me like a disease 🙄...she wont delete my number though
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
I never called her or anyone? But I was trying to talk to her but she keeps blocking me every i try to talk to her at the gym she was so mean and rude to me and i tell her goodbye. After three months of begging and texting her too much. Can I ever get her back?
2:41😂😂😂😂
Your videos are really inspiring. I see you preach no contact and all its benefits which I totally understand. Im curious as to how no contact will work to re attract an ex if the reason they gave for the breakup was they felt like they were giving more than they were getting back? (ie, they felt neglected or taken for granted)
It seems like this is a very common reason for many breakups where one party becomes complacent or the ex just didnt feel like they got the same support they were giving you in the relationship. In my case, I was going through a really tough time with stress and work during the pandemic and failed to recognise I wasnt meeting my exes needs towards the end. I wasnt validating and supporting her through her own stresses and struggles. This was never intentional though, I was just so caught up I failed to read the signs and act on it before it was too late. Looking back, I feel awful for not recognising she was unhappy but after some time apart, I have learned a lot through reading and therapy about my shortcomings. How do you showcase you have worked on improvng yourself on an emotional intelligence sort of level?
How would no contact work to re-attract an ex in cases like this? Wouldn't going no contact for months just reaffirm the belief they created in their mind that you didnt care?? It would be a really interesting topic for you guys to cover. I just dont see how permanent no contact will reattract an ex even if you level up physically and socially because showcasing emotional intelligence improvements is much harder than showcasing physical improvements through social medias etc. How will they ever know you have learned from this sort of oversight? I'm yet to find a decent video covering this topic and it would be super cool if you covered it.
Cheers Guys
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Damn, it’s like you read my mind lol. I think that that’s a topic that a lot of people don’t talk about. Also, there are some that this is not their first breakup with the same person. How does it apply to a 2nd or 3rd breakup? I totally agree with your POV, and I’d really like for them to answer your questions.
Literally I was like this to my ex towards the end but me and her knew each other since highschool and started dating then, it’s been 3 years since then and i’m on 9 days of No contact. And she ended it like 4 days before I started no contact.
But what you have to do is call and show a clean slate, you can sort of show her on call that you want her back and you had your own situations such as family and you was so stressed you wasn’t able to give attention. But while saying that also mention good memories and reassure her abt how you two used to have good times. and then say you respect her decision she made and you have love for her and tell her i hope you look after yourself because looking after you was my responsibility. which will mess with her mind and give her all sorts of confusion whether she made the wrong decision.
But my ex has numerous times posted stuff to sort of have my contact her or reach out or tease me or sort of revenge me, and numerous times blocked and unblocked me on different social media apps. and i also saw that she’s being extra on social media but i can also see what she’s liking on twitter so i can see self doubt in her decision.
If your in my situation try do the same, give her a clean slate and then start your no contact !
I agree with you, no contact only works when your ex has moved on and doesn’t want anything to do with you.
As someone who broke up with my ex for this very reason, i can tell you what will probably work. Lead with an apology and take accountability for what you did. This is the situation where you actually should come crawling a little bit. That would probably chill out her anger. Tell her that you went to therapy and that you now see where you messed up, and that you regret what you did.
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I'm on no contact and its only 25days of it. But now she got COVID-19 should I break the no contact and ask her how she is?.... Plz answer
No. They left you. You’re not obligated to them anymore.
I tried to figured out wtf was my exes problem, when we were together she was always angry. Taking off, starting fights, looking for any reason to be mad. Clearly just wanted to go out with her friends and obviously another male option , me tagging along would screw that up.
After to she broke up with me again, for another guy. I was done. I decided to move on n let go, n she was pissed the fuck off about this. It wasn't that I was moving on with another woman, just with life, bettered my health n career. Stopped drinking n partying.
N this mad her extremely mad, n no wonder, she threw me away like a dud, like I was nothing. Then once my success was shining, she wanted to fuck me up, she wanted to see fail. She did everything to destroy me, I had to pay hey child support just to get her to leave me alone, and even then she's still mad
yes My X bagged me to come back. I do not want him back again I have made this this perfectly clear. and yes I am very angry. I just want him to leave me alone. stay out of my life for good. he doesn't want me then he can keep away from me.
Question with a twist. First love who dumped me showed anger towards me. The twist is its been 20 years. Except for the 1st 4 years we have maintained contact once a year thru email. Very cool and respectful ect. Both married. We finally bumped into each other. I was happy to c her. All smiles. Yea, no smiles for me. Then she said, Darren, what r u DOIN Here. Very aggressive. Not happy 2 c me at all. Then later she snipped at me. I felt full of turmoil. Awful feeling. We had just spoke theu email 2 months earlier. That was 4 years ago and not a peep since. Any ideas. So confused
You two funny lol
Because you are living a better life without her, and she wanted you to be miserable.
I am truly hoping this isn't the answer. I'll never understand how someone could wish misery on others.
We have dated for 8 years and we broke up about 5 month ago, when he brokeup with me, out of no where, I Didn't say i word when we brokeup. Just Spend good time, and leave. A month later he asks for help, i did. Than he sent me pictures of his new house. I respond with good manner. Than he asked me for another favar. I did it Again. Than i asked is he dating someone, he said if anyone doing is nobody gonna say this to an ex. I got my point. And say nothing. And sometime he knocked me for no reason. So i told him Don't want to talk to him.
But a month later he knock me again. And ask, is i got married or not, so i told him, about his female friends he said we Don't have anything ( means we are ex now) so i told him than stop text me. He got upset, started rising his voice, saying he is a bad character person 😑 he is a womanizer, he did a big mistake to text me. And blocked me. 😑 Didn't beg at all, Didn't, initiate any contact after the breakup but still he is angry 🤣 It's been 5 month we are brokeup... And a month and more in his block list 🤣
They got me dying 😂😂😂😂😂
My ex will not talk to anyone. He lefted & me. He's not talking to friends & if he is then he yelling at them. He so happy Now but hes yelling at 2 Poeple and I just say I don't know.
Who gives a fuk move on love yourselves so you don't need anyone else and go live your life to the fullest with no regrets man
The 6 month rule was your dad’s generation. My “extensive” research has determined it is 90 days in modern dating.
Sounds about right.
I said I respect your decision and then ghosted him he’s still wants me to come back … I love him but I love me more …. I won’t go back to the same man …. So he better become better…him “I’ve never felt this way about anyone else in my life- I tried to replace you but no one makes me feel like you do”(he left me mind you it was a power play) …. Then
What time base are you baseing this on ?
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I'm going through a third party either my father or sister in law could pick up my kids every other week which feels like a long time to see my kids cause of court and stuff and then restraining order like any little thing she'll go to her a lawyer to try and get me in trouble and I'm over here trying to better my self and I workout almost everyday at gym and she already has a boyfriend so why does she do her best to try and get me in trouble that's an answer I would like to know cause it is confusing as fuck and she was the one that dumped me plus she has cheated on me before and I never done any of that! I only hurt her with words but I have reasons to cause of the cheating from the past like it still hurted me that she did that to me but I feel like maybe she's miserable I don't know cause I think it's gonna be a year with this person that she's with so why for any little thing she goes to her lawyer to try and get me in trouble like it doesn't make any sense? There has to be a video on TH-cam what if your not allowed to contact your ex cause of court orders and restraining orders like sometimes I think does she still cares even though it doesn't seem like she does and we have 4 kids together and we been in an 8 and a half year relationship...
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
Ignore her, move on.
She's trying to have fun while you wait.
Then, she will reenlist you.
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My wife stated that she wanted a divorce but wont file anything. Her social media profile pics still have photos of me and her up. Said she want space and I’ve been no contact for like 2 weeks. Anybody have any advice on what’s wrong?
She is still weighing up her options by the sounds of it to me.
@@inserter400 I mean I think the same because if I want out of something I’m going to free myself. However, I’ll just wait it out. Been 29 days no contact so I’ll see. Just confusing to me
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I smile if I see her in the street and say hi...I really have no f..cks to give...she still ignores me and pretends I'm not there.. I should of done no contact straight away🙄 but I wanted to show her I didn't care and showed her I didn't..that was when she went cold ignored me and now I keep away no texting no communication nothing...haha
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
He cheated on me let me to go with her. You hurt me like he honestly thinks I'm going to take him. back. I am a very loyal person if you got problems in your relationship you should talk about things not cheat.
the reason why I was angry and and abusive because I to not want them back . so I did that for that reason
Then you are an immature, disrespectful &, in your own words, abusive individual who intentionally treated another human being like garbage. Someone needs to tell you this & it should’ve been your father to do so.