The Psychology Of No Contact On Your Ex

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  • @ilarryshe6861
    @ilarryshe6861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    “Somethings will break your heart but correct your vision”. Felt that.✊🏽

  • @Alex-kr7vk
    @Alex-kr7vk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This is all true. Currently 5 months into no contact and my ex started snooping around. She has been asking around about me at the gym, checking my feeds, blocking and unblocking on insta. I don't even want her at this point. Call me petty, but it's nice to have the upper hand again. I'm not saying I don't miss her sometimes, but better is out there. Thanks for the content.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You’re welcome Alex.

    • @02314066
      @02314066 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you know she's blocking and unlocking you on Instagram? I think mine is but not sure how to check

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's work I can't believe am with my lover again message her she can you too ..........
      Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divorce or break up
      Hello it's work I can't believe am with my lover again message her she can you too ..........

  • @jacekbil
    @jacekbil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    1. Gym
    2. Tatoos
    3. Ice baths
    4. Side hustle
    5. Bigger flat
    6. Meditation

  • @JPFRANCHISE87
    @JPFRANCHISE87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can’t believe Opus is no longer with us!! That really sucks!! These guys really got me through a difficult and dark time!!

    • @generationalcursebreaker5397
      @generationalcursebreaker5397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean? What happened with Opus?

    • @JPFRANCHISE87
      @JPFRANCHISE87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@generationalcursebreaker5397 he passed away this past March. Don’t know how.

    • @franklujan8304
      @franklujan8304 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JPFRANCHISE87😢

  • @chancewilkerson63
    @chancewilkerson63 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The energy in the video is like a dad or uncle telling you facts , love it , thanks amigos 🤟🏻

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Respect !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @jardenevenerable490
    @jardenevenerable490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    TIME is the key! Either you move on or bringing her back!

  • @joesett1394
    @joesett1394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You guys are the TRUTH 👍, me ex broke up with me exactly one month ago. Applied the no contact rule, went as far as changing my number and low and behold this morning she's knocking on my door. No contact rule works! Thank you BBB✊

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's work I can't believe am with my lover again message her she can you too ..........

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divorce or break up

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can message the great man who helped me to manifest my love back after many years

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can message the great man who helped me to manifest my love back after many years

  • @Ezybeatz
    @Ezybeatz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bro it’s been almost six months and I’d be lying if I said that I was not on the brink of reaching out, but this video reaffirmed my approach to not reaching out and being disciplined on no contact… Thanks 🙏🏾 🤴🏾💯

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you.And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr James, he helped me restore my broken relationship. Also Dr James always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek help thanks.

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @jmofromjside
      @jmofromjside 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hell nah don’t reach out. I know how you feel but fuck that. Stay strong brotha 👌🏾

    • @everready2903
      @everready2903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jmofromjside Yeah never give more then she is! So if she dumped you and ain't contacting you NEVER contact her. Work on yourself because that's the ONLY place your happiness lies AND the ONLY place you have control of! 💪👍

  • @DeepPoeticSociety
    @DeepPoeticSociety 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all are the two big brothers I never had. Much love from TN.

  • @brendanvasquez
    @brendanvasquez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My ex called me about 2-3 weeks ago out of the blue but I didn’t answer. Idk what she called for but I didn’t answer or call back. She made her choice 💯🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, Elijah get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you.And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr James, he helped me restore my broken relationship. Also Dr James always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek help thanks.

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2349029353859⏯⏯(☉。☉)!✨❤️

    • @RealFinalCionide
      @RealFinalCionide ปีที่แล้ว

      Well you shouldn’t ignore her. That’s just silly. If you still love them

  • @GoldLeafPress
    @GoldLeafPress 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I will say, I was a dumper and I had a crazy ex who would.not.let.me.go! It wasn’t cute from the beginning and it wasn’t cute at the end! It was legit psychotic! It was worse than a puppy with attachment issues! He cried on the phone, threw his phone against a wall I could hear! Told me he was gonna kill himself, called me 150 times that night while I was sleeping and my phone was turned off! Texted me non stop! It’s.not.one.bit.attractive! It’s scary! Leave the dumper alone, and grow as a person! It’s very attractive when you say “ok bye” and respect our space! It’s more suffocating when you call us non stop! I’m in no contact for a month (new guy who is amazing) and been broken up for Month also, I went no contact when I realized “I know what it was like to be a dumper and allllll I wanted was silence and peace to figure out if this is the right move”. So I stopped texting! I don’t wanna be looked at as the crazy ex who won’t leave em alone! It’s not dignifying, charming,cute, it’s childish! You have to make em realize you’re an adult, and can live without them! Dumpers will sometimes watch from the sideline (stalk on social media) and see if you’ve improved and say “ya know, even when I’m gone they’re doing great! It’s attractive! They’re not sulking, being sad! They’re being mature! That’s what I want”…not all the time but you have a better hand if you treat the breakup the way the dumper wants! GIVE THEM THE BREAKUP! LET THEM EXPERIENCE THE BREAKUP! “You want a breakup without actually trying to resolve it? Fine, bye!” And watch them maybe think “hey woah….they’re gone! The things that were bad don’t seem at all that bad! Wait let’s fix this!”…not all the time but you are looked at more of being mature and RESPECTFUL if you let go!

  • @fitforfreelance
    @fitforfreelance 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Definitely gotta get on your health and business goals!

  • @TravelJones.
    @TravelJones. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Most excellent video, guys. No contact is not only about silence but an opportunity to rebuild and be a better person for YOU and your ex (or next depending on how you decide to move forward in the future). As a very cerebral individual, I enjoyed this break down. Hope to see more videos like this. Cheers! ✈

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely. No contact is not about your ex, it's about YOU. Always well said. 🤙🏾

  • @Adrian_1988.
    @Adrian_1988. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Home gyming an focussing on goals! And getting that bag!

  • @brandone4446
    @brandone4446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    In the gym listening to y'all right now!! 💪🏾

  • @carldaniels4213
    @carldaniels4213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the truth some people you care about and you walk away now They looking for you.

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You spoke to my heart....i thank the Lord for you❤

  • @Adrian_1988.
    @Adrian_1988. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Welcome back team!🦈✅💯🔥

  • @flexx4867
    @flexx4867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needed this, was going to reach out . But staying strong

  • @chatanp
    @chatanp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been missing you guys. Welcome back 👊

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Respect !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @harrisonayodi1529
    @harrisonayodi1529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video guys. I've been in no contact now for 2 months going strong

  • @cbcarlson5008cc
    @cbcarlson5008cc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well , well , well .love you both , again that's what I'm talking about great vid brother . So to all the ones out there worrying about their ex . DONT . you have a life go live it , fix yourself and do you . Life is fucking short. So let see how many month limited contact don't know who cares , I'm looking good , smelling good , I'm financially safe , mentally sound and emotionally grounded . MURPHY IS BACK BABY, let's go , sharks this is our year M.E.A.T baby

  • @chrisschlagel6183
    @chrisschlagel6183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Right now im working out almost every day and eating better in 2 months I've lost almost 50 pounds, I've broken no contact but now it's been 2 weeks and been posting to my story and she's been typically the first one to look at them. I want her to see what she lost

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay consistent. Keep doing what you’re doing !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @proTheologist
    @proTheologist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for your wisdom and help

  • @amarauzirul7152
    @amarauzirul7152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absence is the best gift you can give to a woman.

  • @h2oboi531
    @h2oboi531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    10:09 “Your ex has now to experience the same stages of a break up you’ve experienced.”
    Gentlemen of Black Book Basics, you are genuine poets and wingmen. If I ever meet the both of you , I’m buying your meal. Shots on me. Your words have brought me up to a point self improvement where I can’t be believe I’m this man wearing a suit & tie. Cheers to you

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Respect !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @Hmb93995
    @Hmb93995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Been in no contact now for 30 days, she dumped me 8th of december before her birthday and christmas. The pains still there. I want her to reach out but im losing hope more every day 😔 will be sticking to no contact. Maybe the 1500 word letter i written to her before christmas has some meaning to her some point. Time to soldier on 👍👍

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397
    @generationalcursebreaker5397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man I’m sorry!! I just found out opus isn’t here with us. 😢I’m so sorry for your loss!!!! I’m sending love and positive energy your way!! Rip Opus my king!

  • @elle9633
    @elle9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Surprisingly, though an AA, I’m doing well and investing in ME because I matter. If someone can’t value your presence, give them the gift of your absence. ♥️ 💪 #next #ME

  • @jerrycundiff6748
    @jerrycundiff6748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Went to Vegas for the Raiders/Chargers game. Somehow my ex brother in law found out...I wonder how he knew?

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fantastic wisdom as always!

  • @jayparks7685
    @jayparks7685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great to have you back !!

  • @Kerboripx
    @Kerboripx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Currently on day 3.
    She went off on me 3 hours into no contact. Wrote alot of paragraphs day 2 and blocked me day 3. We were around each other alot in person or otp an ate together alot but she's to flip floppy an I need some room. That flip floppy stuff pisses me off an it's selfish. I know no contact is going to work because she knows I was the best thing she ever had 💯🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @kadenpackard1345
    @kadenpackard1345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a situation I need advice on: my ex broke up with me a week ago after a 3 year relationship saying she was confused and didn’t know what to do but I begged for 3 days to stay together which didn’t work so I waited around 4 days an send “Hey, sorry I was acting the way I did a few days ago. That wasn’t me. I honestly feel just as stressed about other things in my life too and it won’t happen again. Wish you well.” She responded “It’s okay, I’ve been bitchy and angry lately too, I think it’s just stress and trying to deal with emotions. “ I then said “I’m open again to try again in the future but my mind has changed a lot sense we talked last and I need to work on myself for me and if I move on I move on” which she than said “That’s exactly where I’m at, focus on myself and ensure that I’m happy, let time heal a little bit and then if we find each other we find each other” Did I blow my chances of getting back together and will no contact work?

    • @mahadahmed8427
      @mahadahmed8427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your chances are never blown I was exactly where you’re at trust me she’ll be back use this time to work on yourself by going gym and keeping busy

    • @ashbennett261
      @ashbennett261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah all duck shit.. never try with woman. If they look up to you they’ll be the one trying. Don’t drive yourself crazy over any woman. Never worth it

    • @hauwauabubakar8011
      @hauwauabubakar8011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

    • @hauwauabubakar8011
      @hauwauabubakar8011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wh atsA p p👆him now

  • @charltoncooper4128
    @charltoncooper4128 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    On day 1 of no contact. It's not easy but hope it's worth it

  • @preciselimit5618
    @preciselimit5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really love you guys man

  • @markvincentr.degrano8901
    @markvincentr.degrano8901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been waiting your videos. Thanks for this 😎🔥

  • @richardsullivan2749
    @richardsullivan2749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No contact for 5 weeks separated 2 months, hitting the gym got a nice 6 pack now at age 57, spending time with friends and working on what I believe caused the breakup of our almost 20 year marriage, wife contacted me for the first time 3 days after no contact and continues to do so every day or 2 but im being casual she can come to me, I'm not fixing what she broke but I am looking and feeling good but I do hope we can reconcile although I'm not telling her that

  • @TheNlinger
    @TheNlinger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is a whole world outside of your ex. Focus on YOU

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Nathan, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you.And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr James, he helped me restore my broken relationship. Also Dr James always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek help thanks.

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @Beettt-nq3dp
    @Beettt-nq3dp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here my story she broke up with me around 1 month ago i begged plead give her favourite colour hoodie done everything but after breaking up she get in relation with new guy after 4 hours i was shocked attempt to cut my veins hospitalised cried drink alot but accepted the fact and today kinda miss her but happy goes out with mah frnds.mah dear frnds i know its tough during first 2-3 weeks but time heals love ur parents these girls can give u one hole for that hole u shouldnt waste ur life whole❤️❤️good luck

  • @bubbasmithie1970
    @bubbasmithie1970 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm already fit but I'm but I'm hitting it harder, deactivated my social media accounts, and working more to keep from caving in. She dumped me but never deleted me on fb so she could keep an eye on me.

  • @danielhartney2692
    @danielhartney2692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I done 45 days of no contact, I reached out to her to collect my stuff from her house. She said she would leave it out side for me the next day and I told her I wouldn't be able to make it because I was at work.. She Ended up agreeing to meeting for a coffee to make the exchange on Friday and I'm a bit nervous but I know the work that I put into myself over this time apart I can re attract her, but I need some advice on what to say or do

    • @jamesd4267
      @jamesd4267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay kind but don’t make any moves. Just be friendly and chill. Warm, not cold, but def not hot. She’s going to wonder if it’s just a way for you to make a move. Let her make it.

    • @danielhartney2692
      @danielhartney2692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jamesd4267 thank man, the meet up went very well, I secured a second meeting already

    • @jamesd4267
      @jamesd4267 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielhartney2692 good to hear!

    • @tyleryoung306
      @tyleryoung306 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@danielhartney2692how’d it end up going?

  • @charleanaroberts5477
    @charleanaroberts5477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What if the Narc is my husband of 21 years and he went to jail behind tickets and alcohol. I feel relieved but at a stand still right now. I’m working on me but yet kinda miss him.

  • @antilaw9911
    @antilaw9911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Try being Monkey branched after 7 years live together. Then she gets married right away, they bought house... Then constanly contacts me by texts, her mom leaves me voice mails how she hurting about me severe depression. Been just over 1 year now, and i never answer her. No contact. Betrayal is the worst. Lost trust. This stuff is very real. We are both 58

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi,Anti law get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you.And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr James, he helped me restore my broken relationship. Also Dr James always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek help thanks.

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2349029353859⏯⏯(☉。☉)!✨❤️

  • @tyreewilliams9502
    @tyreewilliams9502 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    have you guys ever considered getting into the red pill space ? I think yall would get really big.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah but that’s definitely not our style.

  • @amiravdic7451
    @amiravdic7451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t want a girl to restore attraction only after I walk away. I want one who’s always attracted to me while she’s there :)

  • @Ajan4700
    @Ajan4700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What if shes in a 6 month relationship now that its a year passed after our breakup… and she seems happy and content.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don’t put your life on pause for anyone. Make your life better. Give her a reason to want to come back to you, but do it for you.

    • @Ajan4700
      @Ajan4700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opusandtarquez She dont see a future with me man thats why we broke up… Now her new bf is a rich and financially stable guy… Fit for her expectations :) I can find someone more compatible with me when da time comes.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Money means nothing. Trust what women do and not what they say. Focus on you man.

  • @melomaserati9507
    @melomaserati9507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best thing I've done was not blow up her phone making myself look like a succa...cause now she hit me to ask me about irrelevant shit...to me the ultimate slap in the face was her telling me..she knows ima good guy...she just got too wrapped up in her emotions cause of her past...and it made her look at men differently...and she was sorry....I said is that all you called for?? And she Said no..that she actually wanted to give the relationship another shot and she realizes that she was being unfair to me...I simply laughed at her and hung up...now she won't shut up and keeps saying that if she can't have me as her man me being her friend is something she'll accept even though she realizes it's more then she deserves...but not having me in her life...isn't something she can accept even though she knows it's her fault in the first place......if you ask me...it's just a simple case of women being egotistical because they have that thing between they legs... and they think it's a power tool for control

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello it's work I can't believe am with my lover again message her she can you too ..........

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divorce or break up

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can message the great man who helped me to manifest my love back after many years

    • @peterebosetale1277
      @peterebosetale1277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What..sa.ppp hiM

  • @KarelChytilArt
    @KarelChytilArt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats right bros

  • @AdrianaCowart
    @AdrianaCowart 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are great

  • @clashofclams19
    @clashofclams19 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need some assistance bros! Too crazy to public post 😂 y'all got an email or some shit

  • @rainerneumeister5239
    @rainerneumeister5239 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it too late to go no contact after 8 weeks of being broken up with.she broke up with me 12 weeks ago. I stayed in contact every 10 days or so for the first 8 weeks. I’ve gone into no contact now for a month

  • @billyguadarrama5139
    @billyguadarrama5139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would you recommend Radio Silence over No Contact?

  • @fantasiazplatkami
    @fantasiazplatkami ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey. What if someone rejected me? He offered me in the meantime being friend sex but i refused. He says he doesnt love me. The more i tried, the more he was nasty to me. I have enough and plan to go no contact.

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397
    @generationalcursebreaker5397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHERE ARE YOU GUYS!!!!!!!!! 8 months??!!

  • @leonardoscamparini1455
    @leonardoscamparini1455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach t/opus, quick question.
    54 days of nc. I had blocked them in the beginning because i was looking their social media etc every day. I decided to unblock. But havent reached out. Do this messes up no contact? Thank you for the amazing work u guys do

    • @stellaalimianga6690
      @stellaalimianga6690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was ones lost and could not even think straight before a great man helped me spiritually and I got back my ex

    • @stellaalimianga6690
      @stellaalimianga6690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Via👌whatsapo

  • @krest2012
    @krest2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But what it said person have ptsd, dissociate and delusions? How does no contact work ?

  • @therealrah6119
    @therealrah6119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it hope to get her back going no contact after begging pleading and saying things I didn’t mean out of anger?

  • @TheBalancePod
    @TheBalancePod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sushi place in Dearborn?

  • @laurencelander1508
    @laurencelander1508 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I had a success story to share. Have been in no contact for 10 months and my former lover/client just told me she had just returned from Europe with her new boyfried.

    • @JBCori452
      @JBCori452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As a woman, you need to hardcore block all personal messages from her. She should be dead to you. That’s some manipulative toxic bullshit. And she’ll do the same to her new shiny object.

    • @laurencelander1508
      @laurencelander1508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JBCori452 You are correct, and I have done that. She is still a client, and I now only communicate with her via email and it is strictly business.

  • @snowfirex2385
    @snowfirex2385 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What should I do in my situation she broke up with me and left on December 8, and is in a rebound relationship and I tried to look for her didn't work she put a restraining order on me so ever since January 4 I haven't looked for her or even mentioned her or posted on it or Facebook at all but I found out she's been talking shit about me why tho if she broke up with me can you guys help and explain that to me

  • @poteznywarmianin5840
    @poteznywarmianin5840 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if we work together (really close), and we act like we are invisible

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just keep it about work only. Emotional discipline is key.

  • @solb303
    @solb303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yo boys, she blocked me off whatsapp but kept my on insta and watches my stories everyday. should i block her off insta to make her feel the absence of me?

  • @zikwamkpah
    @zikwamkpah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seed retention is the 🔑

  • @natashanadia105
    @natashanadia105 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got dumped and doing NC for 3 days
    Ex reaching out for me but keeps saying we cant get back together for now, but he still want to keep in touch with me.
    What should i do? Keep doing the no contact or being "friendly" ?
    Note: i wanna get back together with him :/

    • @laimismalp5049
      @laimismalp5049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a Man I will tell you he's thinking you not good enough, ore there is more opportunities for him, but he wants to keep you on the side just in case he wants to come back. You need to ask yourself if you want to be a second option. Stay strong and act casual, put your boundaries and say that you not interested in friendships because he just will friendzone you. Always love yourself first don't be a second option!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Friendship never works. You’ll only endure more pain.

  • @lukepaw8274
    @lukepaw8274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Goal of no contact… is no contact.:: when the punanie too good makes it harder. Hahaha

  • @Thebmorekidd
    @Thebmorekidd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What’s the reality to know when to let go officially or still have hope?

  • @seangabriel91
    @seangabriel91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ll admit I was acting needy after she broke up with me but I put a stop to that. Deleted her on IG and FB she noticed and blocked me on everting but iMessage and WhatsApp. It’s been a month without communication and I’m honesty ok with it. Love her but I know my worth now. Back in the gym, school and a new job life is good minus her absence.

  • @dnajee8805
    @dnajee8805 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✊🏿

  • @lukefoster6122
    @lukefoster6122 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learn a new language, diet, Karate and exercise.

  • @Gbe349
    @Gbe349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey guys. Followed black book basics . my ex brok up wth me and blockd me and send her i respect your choice .And if you want to talk, I'm with you
    and i do N.C and 1 week she unblockd me and send me i miss you and Why didn't you call me?

    • @l.franfort6340
      @l.franfort6340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1 week you call that a break up
      Please.

    • @Gbe349
      @Gbe349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@l.franfort6340 She's the one who told me we're done and I didn't talk to her and didn't beg her If I had begged her she wouldn't come back so quickly

    • @l.franfort6340
      @l.franfort6340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gbe349 true

  • @EricOWilliam
    @EricOWilliam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for all your help