Hi John and Mandy, I was so shocked to hear about your news, I hope this gives you both a bit of hope. I was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in 2020. Now after 3 years of fight I got news I am now in remission and the hospital are signing me off.. Mandy staying positive helps it helped me and I feel that you will pull through. All my love guys.
@@juliadevlin7815 yes I know that they are completely different, but the experience of having cancer, chemotherapy for 6 months was a hard journey for myself and my family, I stayed positve throughout and I found this helped alot. I am sure Mandy and John will stay positive as this horrible illness can be beaten back and they can have a happy and fun filled life together.
Hey guys x I was diagnosed with incurable brain cancer in November 2023. So I know the shock that you are going through. I think it’s great that you are sharing your journey on here, awareness is key! I am doing radiotherapy and chemo and plan on exceeding the prognosis the Drs have given me! Sending you positive thoughts, and healing energy. You got this!!! ❤
Such a shock for both of you. Eighteen months after I lost my beloved huband to cancer in 2019, I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer. This was during covid. Following surgery, I had chemo, radiotherapy and brachytherapy. I am now on a six month check up. I was also treated at the Queens Centre, Castle Hill, Cottingham, a place giving great positivity and care. I trust that Mandy will have good care, and come through smiling. Best wishes from Susan.
When I got breast cancer, I shared "my story" on my blog. Also for practical reasons, so I didn't have to tell the story again and again to family and friends and acquaintances. I do so vividly remember the support I got online, it was amazing. It was indeed a big virtual hug, a very warm feeling. When I had my surgery, I imagined all those people from that online community standing around me and giving me their warmth and strength. It may sound really silly, but it gave me a lot of comfort.
The pair of you are, to coin a phrase, "ruddy Amazing!" Have been following you for a few years, but have literally seen every video, followed your journey, been inspired, laughed and cried. You got this!
Happy anniversary guys, keep strong and focused, ask lots of questions, my mum was diagnosed with 2a at 50,she was treated at Christie’s and lived until 82, keep smiling ❤xxx
My husband got his stage 4 lungcancer diagnoses now almost 4 years ago. We both liked to be in control, but this rollercoaster you are now in, can’t be controlled and it will be the most difficult thing you will have to cope with. One thing I have learned is that you can think of every possible scenario (good and bad) and the reality will allways be different. My husband still being here is a miracle on its own. We sherish every day now, knowing he will have to leave us soon. Lots of hugs, keep hugging eachother. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Mandy, I work at Castle Hill not in your specific cancer (Haematology). It's a great place but very busy!! The Chemo and Radiotherapy units are fab, we will look after you 💜
Hi Mandy and John I’ve been diagnosed with different cancers 4 times (and I’m still here😂) I’m under Grimsby hospital the same hospital group as you. I would say contact the nurse that was with you at the consultants and she can go through your records and explain things in English. In my experience it is just another day at the office for some but not all consultants. The macmillan specialist nurses are the ones who explain what’s what well. They’re understand how you feel and are there for you even on the days you’re just having a wobble. I had radiotherapy at Castle Hill but for breast cancer to me it was just like having an X-ray no big deal, not the same as your having but your nurse will explain what to typically expect. The staff are lovely in the radiotherapy. You will not have to pay toll fees for the bridge or parking fees so you might decide to stay where you are and just pay for fuel. I ended up having a hysterectomy and I instantly felt better. You may find some of the things that you’re putting down to the menopause are in fact caused by the cancer and may improve or disappear once you have treatment. I’m not medically trained I’m just telling you my experience things are much easier once you know what’s what you feel more in control. All the best you got this and your course treatment will be over before you know it. You can message me if you want to ask me anything. Take care x
My partner had testicular cancer which spread to his lungs and ended up stage 4 He had surgery and chemo and 10 years later he is clear and very well. He changed his diet to healthy and took extra vitamin tablets. Just take each day as it comes and let people spoil you.Sending you lots of love and hugs.You will get through this ❤️
I know exactly how you feel John, my wife was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer at start of covid, I had been her protector for 44 years and suddenly couldn’t help, I couldn’t even sit with her during chemotherapy, when the oncologist told us the findings I asked wahat the prognosis was and he said do you really want to know 😮 I lost my temper and said of course, he said without chemotherapy 4 to six weeks, I looked at my poor wife’s face and will never forget, she started chemotherapy 2 days later and we got a further 2 years thankfully, she passed away 2 years ago on the 22nd, I say this to have faith in the hospital and treatment and Mandy with any luck at your staging you should have many, many years together, bless the pair of you ❤
It was extremely moving to read your comment. I cared for my wife through her treatment, it was everything I could do. Take care you’re clearly wonderful
Practical advice today. Get you the UK equivalent of a 5 gallon bucket and some people poopie bags for it (Amazon). If you're tired and feeling poorly, the last thing you want to do is clean-up. My sister lived 3 hours away from a hospital and carried her bucket of supplies each trip. Wipes (unscented) for both ends, people poopie bags and toilet seat ring for bucket. Regular trash bag for putting people poopie bags after using them. A pee bottle with lady attacment. You should be able to get in and out of you van but might need an rv step platform to keep from stretching too much. A driver that doesn't mind you venting and is able to pay attention to the road while you emote. Gas up your vehicle the day before a treatment cuz some folks can't stand the fumes/smell. You will probably have more energy in the morning. Do your fun activity then. Save the washing cleaning etc for the afternoon or evening so you can sit and rest. Eat often when you can. You may or may not be able to tolerate certain smells or tastes. Have some plain comfort food on hand. Mashed or baked potato, white rice, cream based pasta like Mac n cheese, toast, etc. Be your own advocate. Medical personnel will take you at your word, no questions, ok then. Get a small notebook, write down every random question that pops up. If they see you are keeping a record they tend to be more forthcoming. Write down the answer, date/time and who gave it to you. Sometimes the nurse is the best resource but if they can't answer ask them to find out from the attending physician. Keep a record of your meds and reactions in this book. If the nurse takes your temp, oxygen and BP, ask them what it is and note it in the book. If you are unable, ask them to jot it down or John if he is allowed to be with you. Keep a list of all meds, Vitamins, supplements, herbal teas, etc, you are taking on you at all times. Every time you enter a medical center for treatment, they will ask you for this info, and sometimes you might forget an item. Yes, they may have the last list of meds but you may have stopped taking something because of adverse reactions and the admitting nurse may not be aware of the change. I don't know how they do it in the UK, but in the US you usually have a team that works with you for your treatment. There will be a team leader that you should be able to reach during work hours and an emergency contact. Post those clearly where anyone can see them. If you have an adverse reaction to a drug at home, you might not be able to make a call. Get a BP cuff, oxygen meter and thermometer and train you primary caregivers how to use them. Changes in BP, oxygen or temperature might need reporting right away or a call for an ambulance for transport. You may never need any of this, but being prepared can mean all the difference in an emergency. You are in my prayers for healing.
One very brave lady and one very brave man 👍 my wife had bowel cancer 3 years ago just at the end of covid! So she spent three weeks in hospital and I couldn’t go and see her! I felt just like John! Useless ! I knew nothing, we hadn’t a clue! After three weeks in hospital when she came home we had no help and struggled, we didn’t know where to go what to do etc. Three years on, she has just had a scan as her annual check 🤞🤞🤞🤞 we think all is ok, but ! Still has a colostomy bag which she would dear,y like to ditch ! But! She is alive, and hope we can get away in our camper van this summer . I wish you both all the best, it’s hard fir the person going through the treatment, and I can’t imagine what it’s like, but!., as a partner I felt I was going through it as well, people kept ( and still keep) telling me to make time for myself, which is vital to support those receiving treatment.
Hello Mandy and John, I’m a long time, silent follower, but I thought it might be helpful for you to know that my husband had cancer treatment at Castle Hill Hospital, and we spent a lot of time at Butt Farm Caravan and Campsite, it’s very convenient for Castle Hill. I hope all goes well with your treatment Mandy, I’m sure you will both come out smiling, and put this all behind you. Kind regards Janet
John, you are a big support for Mandy. Can i say you both are showing great strength. Just laugh when you can, cry if you want, scream, shout just live each day and enjoy something in each day.💚
I had my radiotherapy at Castle Hill 5 years ago and can say you will be in good hands. The staff are wonderful. I used to have to get the transport each day as my partner was working which was tiring in itself so having John with you will help immensely. A funny story re the tattoo's, last year I was getting out the bath and my partner said what's that dot. I said it's a tattoo she said what you've had a dot tattoo. I said I've had 3. Then explained why. It only took 4 years to notice 😂 All the best Mandy, stay strong. ❤
All the best both. After my visit to hospital towards the end I got more confident asking the doctors to write things down for me because it's like a blur when the consultants etc speak to you. They seem to just appear and then they are gone. Never be shy to say - I'm sorry I haven't understood what I heard please can you take me through it again a bit slower. Never a problem from any of the brilliant NHS teams. Take care.
I think consultants sometimes forget they are actually talking to people who are probably struggling to deal with the worst news ever! Keep well, keep it together, take one day at a time.... Thank you for keeping us all up to date❤ xx
Mandy & John, firstly sorry to hear you are having to go through this. I have just been given all clear after 10 years. I was stage 3&4 cervical cancer. I had a fantastic consultant at Doncaster Royal Infirmary. I opted for surgery (radical hysterectomy) as if it came back as I understand once you had radiation you can’t have it again. I had extra parts removed as well as repair to bladder and bowel. Looking back I don’t regret my choice. I had a daughter that I wanted to see grow up and she is nearly 28 now. Going through a forced menopause was no biggie in comparison to what could have been. Don’t be talked down to by doctors, just remind them you are the patient and you have the final say…they have nothing without your consent. I wish you well, listen to your body, rest when it needs rest and sleep when it is tired. Much love from me and my family in Lincs
Hey Ive just watched the video and thought I’d share my story of cervical cancer with you. I was diagnosed with 3a way back in 2011 when I was 19 and my son was 1. I was treated with cisplatin chemotherapy once a week for 4 weeks. Alongside I had 6 weeks of radiotherapy(the last 2 weeks were classed as intensive). My advice would be, eat as healthy and nutritious as you can. Maybe start juicing to get nutrients in(organic when you can) I found the ginger ones really helped with sickness. I didn’t loose my hair thankfully my worst part of treatment was with waterworks(pain when passing) and sudden onset of menopause. I wish you well on your journey, hope to see you on a campsite in the future and give you a big hug Thanks for the videos guys! Take it easy❤
give her a hug from me. i spent spent 5 weeks in hospital after a massive pulmonary embolism the doctor told it could of killed me as it was one of the worst she had seen. been diagnosed Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome self injecting blood thinners twice a day. i am so thankful for the NHS and all the nurses doctors porter cleaners that helped me. and yes them make you like you wet your pants lol
John, you are doing more than you think, being there for Mandy and supporting her though all this is really important,you need to take care too hugs to you both xx
Thank you for sharing your latest vlog with us. I'm feeling abit angry about how your meeting with The Consultant was so rushed and how He avoided answering your questions etc.This is not how it should be ! Of course You are both still trying to come to terms with Mandy's illness and need answers.I really hope your next appointment is better and that someone will have more empathy and give you the answers you need. God bless you both always xx
You are starting a long and challenging journey. Not quite the kind of journey you are used to, looking for parkups and finding places to get water and service your tanks. However, we totally understand John wanting to plan and help with everything practical. We would be just the same. You must feel like you are in a traffic jam with a ferry to catch in bad weather with nowhere to get shopping 😉 We think that everything will start dropping into place and John will be the perfect support. Look after each other and enjoy the gaps in your treatment when you can 👍🏻🚐🚐💙 Trev n Sue
Sorry to hear you have cancer. You can beat this with the right treatment and family around you, I was told that i had terminal cancer of the pancreast in august after having a major operation in October which was unsucssful i am having chemo. hopefully it won,t but with me i do get very tired a lot and have some aches and pains sometimes with sickness and direa. all i can say is try and stay positive and with family around you can beat this. Sending best wishes,
John and Mandy I’ve been watching you guys since the beginning of.. I don’t don’t post much at all really but I love watching you guys and I just wanted to give you guys my heart and tell you that I’m with you and that I’m praying that Mandy will get better and be healed in Jesus name pray amen
Hello Mandy and John. You were suggested to me via TH-cam. Anyway, I’m a newbie here on your Chanel. I look forward to getting to know you guys on here as I watch some of your previous posts. Happy Wedding anniversary xx
I'm thinking about what you are both going through at the moment and remembering those feelings. The one thing I will say, is that all medical profesionals have different ways of delivering information. They often come accros as distant or aloof. For a lot of them its a coping mechanism, others may be worried about legal action if they say the wrong thing. If I could say one thing based on my own experianes its this: Don,t read to much into not getting awnsers . We have a wonderfull NHS. Stay strong for each other
John, the best way you can help Mandy is to be there for her. So don't worry about your tractical support, you are more than OK. ! All the best for both of you !
Mandy & John - we send you both massive hugs and positive vibes - we are currently nearly a year into our full-time vanlife and we were in no small way inspired by you two, which we will always be grateful for, and still are. Stay as healthy as is possible right now and keep looking after each other and out for each other. You are both brave, strong and bloody lovely people and deserve all the love and support that's coming your way. Nicky & Kevin xx
Sadly I’ve only just found your channel so have only just watched your health diagnosis, but I am looking forward to forward to watching the rest of your videos 🥰
Its such a blessing believe me to have such a strong and loving husband who cares and supports you mine has literally saved my life. Happy Anniversary guy's and so much love to you both keep strong and your amazing 👏
I do watch your videos, but I don't really comment. I have shed tears for you both, and wish I could do something to ease what you are both going through. This... 'trauma'... will change you both, and change your view of life. Stay strong. x
Good luck. Having a understanding and good communicating oncologist is very important to understand your situation. My wife had a incredible oncologist who had time to answer every question my wife asked and explained every procedure in detail. It made a massive difference to us on our successful journey 12 years ago 🤞🤞🤞. You can and will do it
My heart is heavy with the all that you both, especially Mandy, are going thru with the shock of your diagnosis - I am gobsmacked with what your going thru - life is a roller coaster enough on its own let alone having to go thru this - your an amazingly strong person Mandy - you really are - and thank you for sharing your journey helping to make such an impact on awareness of cervical cancer on all platforms.... please take care cheers Debz from Oz
Hi John been where you are and my heart goes out to you two wife had breast cancer 5 years ago while looking after her 90 year old dad One thing people don’t realise the strain it puts on the partner while trying to be positive for the cancer patient as well as the strain on the relationship Myself and wife Doris sends our hugs to Mandy We felt that we was the only people in the world during Doris’s appointments we was in a private room with the consultant and nurse
Sorry I haven't commented... Shocked..but also overwhelmed with both your abilities to deal with this challenge... I've watched from the start of your adventures ... Best wishes xx
Just watched your video and I just want to jump Into the screen and give you both such a big hug. You are both an inspiration to each other as well as to all of us watching you go through this . Stay strong and keep us all informed at your own leisure. We are all routing for you xxxx
Mandy - you've got this. Take it one day at a time. xx John - it's ok to cry. The one you love is going through a tough time...as are you. xx Both - congratulations on your wedding anniversary. Focus on the good stuff. xx Love and hugs to you both. xx
Hi John and Mandy, we're sending you guys so much love and positive energy right now. Just try to be kind to yourselves and one another - your heads must be spinning with this news and all the planning and adjustments you need to work through, on top of your diagnosis Mandy. Not sure how, but if we can help just ask. Stay strong. Gaz and Becs 😘
Can't put it better than 199Paramedic, you both are Amazing. All these memories you are making now will give you something to look forward to doing again after the treatments are over. Great to see you both smiling, it's one of the greatest bits to help you through. John I feel your frustration, my wife has Huntingtons and the only thing I can do is be there, and you've got that covered mate. Fingers crossed, and hopefully you'll both be heading on the roads again soon.
J&M just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about Mandy’s illness. I know lots of people will have said this already but just concentrate on yourselves, post when you want, and remember will are all willing Mandy to get better. ❤
Just do whatever you guys feel like doing! Sharing and talking about it on socials, can be a therapy and if it helps then we'll all be here to support you! 😊 I would suggest from a comfort perspective and seeing my mum go through a similar cancer, Mandy, you will probably want your own space, bedroom to rest/sleep. I personally think it would be tough to stay in the vans. Even if you just do that at the start and see how you get on, then adjust as you see fit. Xx
Watching this, brings tears to my eyes how much I can see feel for each other I am very fortunate like you, my wife could attend every appointment every scan every result Been at it for 5 years now had the unavoidable, emotional ups and downs Just saying I think I might slightly just understand a bit of your feelings right now guys .. You’re right, the questions you ask, never truly answered as you want, feel for both of you deeply right now xxx
Hi Mandy & John we have been following your channels for a while and would just like to wish Mandy well with her treatment and a speedy recovery. We know castle hill hospital quite well as have had to attend several appointments there, just a heads up that parking can be quite a challenge and you need to allow at least 30 minutes to find a place. Finding a place for your van may be even more of a challenge. If you haven’t been before it may be work visiting before your appointment date to see if you can get the van parked. We found it added more stress to a an already stressful situation that you can do without. Hope this helps, wishing you both the best
I have been watching you for many moons and my wife has been going through cancer treatment for the last two years, so I sort of understand, if that’s possible, what you are going through. As you have said everyone is different so I would just like to wish you all the very best and hope the treatment goes well. John stay strong, Mandy will need you more than you know
Hello...I watched your video last night and can understand your frustration and how upsetting this can be. I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer 2 years ago and a consultant with the bedside manner of a brick told me the news....we wish you a speedy recovery....lots of hugs...take care and we think your amazing... xxxx
All the best of luck Mandy with what you are going through.. also John you also take care of yourself self as it’s both of you going through this terrible thing together, but stay strong Mandy and all the best xx
Sorry to hear your news and thankyou for spending your precious time talking about it. I’m sure you may already know but please touch base with Jo’s cervical Cancer trust. They are there to help you both and the font of all knowledge . X
When I had my radical hysterectomy I found getting in and out a van a lot easier than a car as your not bending so much and can just slide out ❤, you will get tired and need rest time I do think I would have been better in our motorhome than in home ,no steps and much nicer to be able to just ride out and see something different if you feel up to it ❤❤❤
Happy belated anniversary. Castle Hill is fantastic. They did some amazing work on my wife and son. Can’t recommend them too highly. I’m sure they will have on the mend soon. Take care both and stay strong
Hi Mandy you got the name of the type right and 2A is definitely treatable. I´m so sorry you were treated not the best. I was a mental health trained medic but I completed cancer care for quite a long time at medical school. I also did a year of radiography training as well before changing mental health, diagnostic not therapeutic, but I can still explain what will happen at your appointments I think and a bit of how you may feel. If you have any questions get in touch and I will try to advise you. x
We really feel for you and know the shock of getting such a diagnosis. My husband was diagnosed with stage 2b melanoma 10 years ago and had to have further scans to make sure there was no spread and is still on regular follow up. You had a bad experience with the doctor relaying the news to you but I hope when you meet with the oncologist you will get a much better discussion and they should be able to explain all side effects and answer your worries xx
I have had endometrial cancer twice and am now 4 years clear. My partner had stage 4 melanoma and now 10 years clear. More and more better treatments now.
Big love to you both ❤ what you are doing is amazing! Can’t imagine how you must be feeling, but thank you so much for documenting your journey at this extremely difficult time. But it really does help raise awareness of cervical cancer. Thank you!❤
Although I’ve followed you for a while,I’ve never commented,I’m praying that treatment goes well for you and it’s been caught early,all my best wishes.
Listening too you both is like reliving what my partner went through. As hard as I find watching you two regarding all the problems, I just feel the need to listen, and maybe pick up on something that could be relevant to John in how to deal with scenarios I went through whilst looking after my partner. Keep staying strong.
Look after yourself John as Mandy will need you. Big hugs to you both, cyber love and strength being sent your way, from New Zealand. You are both in our prayers and thoughts 🙏❤
Hi guy's thanks of update. We are thinking of you both. I felt the same as you John it is very hard not to do something But when the treatment starts you can do so much more to help mandy. Just be there and talking You have got this guy's 👍 Karen has got 11 more days to go . Be safe guy's
Hope all goes well on what is an uncertain journey. Been there with Alan, but stay positive close to each other. All the very best Sha and Alan Motoringmasons
Even though I am a fairly new viewer I have been watching old videos and catching up,my life has been directly affected by cancer,my son who is reach a cure date and has been clean for 27 years since,and my heart goes out to you. I wish for you another big hug and definitely look after yourselves and each other. Just remember you are loved and we are all pulling for you!❤️❤️❤️ Have happy anniversary and a nice evening celebrating it as well. One hint that might help is get a journal and write all these things down so you can use it the next time you talk to the docs or nurses…..I just know that it helped me.
I feel your frustration, I remember when I was going through your stage of my diagnosis, I was also stage 2 (of aggressive breast cancer) and I just wanted to know everything. Looking back and with hindsight I was given just enough information that my brain was able to process at that time. You are both doing amazingly and although the next few months might be bloody hard, it is all doable. My treatment plan started with surgery & radiotherapy and then changed to include 18 weeks of chemo and one year of immunotherapy, it is scary when something changes but when you actually get to see the oncologist you will be able to get some proper answers and get the information that you need at that time. I think if I 'd have known all of what I was going to need at the start my brain would have exploded. You will be inundated with advice (and here's some more), we are all different and there is no one-size-fits-all so don't assume you will feel the same as others and therefore prepare like they have done. You are you, so just ask for advice as and when you need it, believe me, it will be forthcoming,. Thinking of you both. Stay strong - you've got this 💪💪 Sarah xx
As I’ve never had the Big C I cannot imagine what you are going through. I can imagine what your family are going through as I’ve had both family and friends who have had cancer and it is frightening for all concerned. Some have passed but others have had something in them to fight and survive and I sincerely hope you do the same. Sending you all the love and support from someone who met you very briefly at the NEC. Take care to you both.😘
Still hoping and praying for Mandy to have successful outcome, and for John for the strength to give Mandy the support that we know he will give. And for my 33 year old daughter who has been suffering pain as we wait for biopsy results from last weekend. 🙏🙏🙏
Good luck with your chemo Mandy. Sending love. My mum had cervical cancer over 20 years ago and will be celebrating her 80th this year. The treatment sounds different to yours, but the stage was the same. Wishing you all the best and the strength to get through it all. ❤
Thanks for the update, we have been wondering about your results. Pity you had such a crappy meeting with the "Doctor", very poor bedside manner. But fortunate you have your liaison person and she was able to answer some of your concerns from the meeting. Also happy belated wedding anniversary - you are such a wonderful support for each other. Enjoy your nerf time with your grandson! 😂 Take good care, all the best and love from us in Australia. ❤🥰
Your on a conveyor belt to them. I find it on the whole an impersonal experience these appointments . I have a catch up once a month with the head consultant who is by far a more personal experience. 20 years ago went through the same thing doesn’t seemed to have changed a great deal. You have done the right thing by openly talking about your personal journey with cancer well done to both of you. Xx
So lovely to see you two smile and giggle. And I know you are having dark times too.. that's inevitable. But the love you have for each other is tangible.. and it will be your strength! Love you both.. and candles will burn daily for you here in Ireland. ❤❤
Thank you guys for taking the time to explain what's happening while you're having to deal with this. We love you and sending you the biggest hug. You've got this Mandy xxx
Good to hear that you are stage 2a, it sounded worse! (Obviously 1 would be better) Good luck with your treatment, it sounds very intense! I was put on a pre habilitation programme for cancer before my Bowel cancer operation in Feb, a combination of cardio and strength exercises. The idea is to counteract any loss of strength while having treatment. It is definitely a good idea to build up your strength while you can before you start your treatment. They told me not to diet before my op but healthy eating and minimise or give up alcohol 😢 Keep strong, hopefully you will both be looking back in a few months and it will all be behind you. Xx
All the best Mandy, big virtual hug to you, hope your oncologist has better empathy than the doctor you saw Monday. Keeping fingers crossed for you that you can get through this without suffering side effects. xx
You are both doing amazing ,let's be honest your both still in total shock, and not to get the information you wanted from your appointment must be very frustrating, I'm afraid it happens to all cancer patients, when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer during covid I got more information from my nurse than from the consultant, and everyone I speak to it's the waiting for results that is so worrying, but john will be there for support ,I hope your latest scan goes ok and very good luck for the future ❤
Hi John, Hi Mandy, I Both I found Mandy’s channel last week & I subscribed I have just found your joint channel & I have subscribed to your joint channel 👍 Mandy, & John, I really wish you both all the very best in your journey I am sending you both lots of virtual hugs & a lot of love to you both 💞🦋 Lin
MacMillan nurses are amazing a great source of information and knowledge, Audio books are great for taking your mind off things especially when on your treatment. Wishing you all the success in the world x
Hi John and Mandy, I was so shocked to hear about your news, I hope this gives you both a bit of hope. I was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in 2020. Now after 3 years of fight I got news I am now in remission and the hospital are signing me off.. Mandy staying positive helps it helped me and I feel that you will pull through. All my love guys.
Stage 4 colon cancer is not the same as 2a cervical cancer and can easily be cured
@@juliadevlin7815 yes I know that they are completely different, but the experience of having cancer, chemotherapy for 6 months was a hard journey for myself and my family, I stayed positve throughout and I found this helped alot. I am sure Mandy and John will stay positive as this horrible illness can be beaten back and they can have a happy and fun filled life together.
Good luck with all your treatment Mandy thinking of you both xxx
Hey guys x I was diagnosed with incurable brain cancer in November 2023. So I know the shock that you are going through. I think it’s great that you are sharing your journey on here, awareness is key! I am doing radiotherapy and chemo and plan on exceeding the prognosis the Drs have given me! Sending you positive thoughts, and healing energy. You got this!!! ❤
Such a shock for both of you. Eighteen months after I lost my beloved huband to cancer in 2019, I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer. This was during covid. Following surgery, I had chemo, radiotherapy and brachytherapy. I am now on a six month check up. I was also treated at the Queens Centre, Castle Hill, Cottingham, a place giving great positivity and care. I trust that Mandy will have good care, and come through smiling. Best wishes from Susan.
I am the same as you, endo cancer. Radio, chemo and brachytherapy. Treated in peter mac, Melbourne Australia
When I got breast cancer, I shared "my story" on my blog. Also for practical reasons, so I didn't have to tell the story again and again to family and friends and acquaintances. I do so vividly remember the support I got online, it was amazing. It was indeed a big virtual hug, a very warm feeling. When I had my surgery, I imagined all those people from that online community standing around me and giving me their warmth and strength. It may sound really silly, but it gave me a lot of comfort.
The pair of you are, to coin a phrase, "ruddy Amazing!" Have been following you for a few years, but have literally seen every video, followed your journey, been inspired, laughed and cried. You got this!
Happy anniversary guys, keep strong and focused, ask lots of questions, my mum was diagnosed with 2a at 50,she was treated at Christie’s and lived until 82, keep smiling ❤xxx
My husband got his stage 4 lungcancer diagnoses now almost 4 years ago. We both liked to be in control, but this rollercoaster you are now in, can’t be controlled and it will be the most difficult thing you will have to cope with. One thing I have learned is that you can think of every possible scenario (good and bad) and the reality will allways be different. My husband still being here is a miracle on its own. We sherish every day now, knowing he will have to leave us soon.
Lots of hugs, keep hugging eachother.
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Hey Mandy, I work at Castle Hill not in your specific cancer (Haematology). It's a great place but very busy!! The Chemo and Radiotherapy units are fab, we will look after you 💜
Just jumping in to say all the very best to you both. It doesn't matter how you get through it, just that you get through it x
Hi Mandy and John I’ve been diagnosed with different cancers 4 times (and I’m still here😂) I’m under Grimsby hospital the same hospital group as you. I would say contact the nurse that was with you at the consultants and she can go through your records and explain things in English. In my experience it is just another day at the office for some but not all consultants. The macmillan specialist nurses are the ones who explain what’s what well. They’re understand how you feel and are there for you even on the days you’re just having a wobble. I had radiotherapy at Castle Hill but for breast cancer to me it was just like having an X-ray no big deal, not the same as your having but your nurse will explain what to typically expect. The staff are lovely in the radiotherapy. You will not have to pay toll fees for the bridge or parking fees so you might decide to stay where you are and just pay for fuel. I ended up having a hysterectomy and I instantly felt better. You may find some of the things that you’re putting down to the menopause are in fact caused by the cancer and may improve or disappear once you have treatment. I’m not medically trained I’m just telling you my experience things are much easier once you know what’s what you feel more in control. All the best you got this and your course treatment will be over before you know it. You can message me if you want to ask me anything. Take care x
My partner had testicular cancer which spread to his lungs and ended up stage 4
He had surgery and chemo and 10 years later he is clear and very well.
He changed his diet to healthy and took extra vitamin tablets.
Just take each day as it comes and let people spoil you.Sending you lots of love and hugs.You will get through this ❤️
I know exactly how you feel John, my wife was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer at start of covid, I had been her protector for 44 years and suddenly couldn’t help, I couldn’t even sit with her during chemotherapy, when the oncologist told us the findings I asked wahat the prognosis was and he said do you really want to know 😮 I lost my temper and said of course, he said without chemotherapy 4 to six weeks, I looked at my poor wife’s face and will never forget, she started chemotherapy 2 days later and we got a further 2 years thankfully, she passed away 2 years ago on the 22nd, I say this to have faith in the hospital and treatment and Mandy with any luck at your staging you should have many, many years together, bless the pair of you ❤
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It was extremely moving to read your comment. I cared for my wife through her treatment, it was everything I could do. Take care you’re clearly wonderful
Prayers to you and family. My wife is fighting the battle of endometrial cancer. Chemo hasn't been totally unbearable
Practical advice today. Get you the UK equivalent of a 5 gallon bucket and some people poopie bags for it (Amazon). If you're tired and feeling poorly, the last thing you want to do is clean-up. My sister lived 3 hours away from a hospital and carried her bucket of supplies each trip. Wipes (unscented) for both ends, people poopie bags and toilet seat ring for bucket. Regular trash bag for putting people poopie bags after using them. A pee bottle with lady attacment. You should be able to get in and out of you van but might need an rv step platform to keep from stretching too much. A driver that doesn't mind you venting and is able to pay attention to the road while you emote. Gas up your vehicle the day before a treatment cuz some folks can't stand the fumes/smell. You will probably have more energy in the morning. Do your fun activity then. Save the washing cleaning etc for the afternoon or evening so you can sit and rest. Eat often when you can. You may or may not be able to tolerate certain smells or tastes. Have some plain comfort food on hand. Mashed or baked potato, white rice, cream based pasta like Mac n cheese, toast, etc.
Be your own advocate. Medical personnel will take you at your word, no questions, ok then. Get a small notebook, write down every random question that pops up. If they see you are keeping a record they tend to be more forthcoming. Write down the answer, date/time and who gave it to you. Sometimes the nurse is the best resource but if they can't answer ask them to find out from the attending physician. Keep a record of your meds and reactions in this book. If the nurse takes your temp, oxygen and BP, ask them what it is and note it in the book. If you are unable, ask them to jot it down or John if he is allowed to be with you. Keep a list of all meds, Vitamins, supplements, herbal teas, etc, you are taking on you at all times. Every time you enter a medical center for treatment, they will ask you for this info, and sometimes you might forget an item. Yes, they may have the last list of meds but you may have stopped taking something because of adverse reactions and the admitting nurse may not be aware of the change.
I don't know how they do it in the UK, but in the US you usually have a team that works with you for your treatment. There will be a team leader that you should be able to reach during work hours and an emergency contact. Post those clearly where anyone can see them. If you have an adverse reaction to a drug at home, you might not be able to make a call. Get a BP cuff, oxygen meter and thermometer and train you primary caregivers how to use them. Changes in BP, oxygen or temperature might need reporting right away or a call for an ambulance for transport.
You may never need any of this, but being prepared can mean all the difference in an emergency. You are in my prayers for healing.
One very brave lady and one very brave man 👍 my wife had bowel cancer 3 years ago just at the end of covid! So she spent three weeks in hospital and I couldn’t go and see her! I felt just like John! Useless ! I knew nothing, we hadn’t a clue! After three weeks in hospital when she came home we had no help and struggled, we didn’t know where to go what to do etc.
Three years on, she has just had a scan as her annual check 🤞🤞🤞🤞 we think all is ok, but ! Still has a colostomy bag which she would dear,y like to ditch !
But! She is alive, and hope we can get away in our camper van this summer .
I wish you both all the best, it’s hard fir the person going through the treatment, and I can’t imagine what it’s like, but!., as a partner I felt I was going through it as well, people kept ( and still keep) telling me to make time for myself, which is vital to support those receiving treatment.
Hello Mandy and John, I’m a long time, silent follower, but I thought it might be helpful for you to know that my husband had cancer treatment at Castle Hill Hospital, and we spent a lot of time at Butt Farm Caravan and Campsite, it’s very convenient for Castle Hill.
I hope all goes well with your treatment Mandy, I’m sure you will both come out smiling, and put this all behind you.
Kind regards
Janet
John, you are a big support for Mandy. Can i say you both are showing great strength. Just laugh when you can, cry if you want, scream, shout just live each day and enjoy something in each day.💚
I had my radiotherapy at Castle Hill 5 years ago and can say you will be in good hands. The staff are wonderful.
I used to have to get the transport each day as my partner was working which was tiring in itself so having John with you will help immensely.
A funny story re the tattoo's, last year I was getting out the bath and my partner said what's that dot. I said it's a tattoo she said what you've had a dot tattoo. I said I've had 3. Then explained why. It only took 4 years to notice 😂
All the best Mandy, stay strong. ❤
John you can help and are helping by being by Mandy,s side supporting her and just talking about it, that's your best job ❤
My mum finished her last chemotherapy in December last year, Stay positive and keep smiling all will be ok!
The NHS is a national treasure , I'm sure everything will be fine , stay positive. I had a malignant melanoma removed almost 20 years now .
All the best both. After my visit to hospital towards the end I got more confident asking the doctors to write things down for me because it's like a blur when the consultants etc speak to you. They seem to just appear and then they are gone. Never be shy to say - I'm sorry I haven't understood what I heard please can you take me through it again a bit slower. Never a problem from any of the brilliant NHS teams. Take care.
Telling your medical team to write things down and having someone with you for most if not all appointments are essentials!
I think consultants sometimes forget they are actually talking to people who are probably struggling to deal with the worst news ever!
Keep well, keep it together, take one day at a time....
Thank you for keeping us all up to date❤ xx
Just wanted to add to everyone’s posts in sending you all our love and support to you both ❤
Mandy & John, firstly sorry to hear you are having to go through this. I have just been given all clear after 10 years. I was stage 3&4 cervical cancer. I had a fantastic consultant at Doncaster Royal Infirmary. I opted for surgery (radical hysterectomy) as if it came back as I understand once you had radiation you can’t have it again. I had extra parts removed as well as repair to bladder and bowel. Looking back I don’t regret my choice. I had a daughter that I wanted to see grow up and she is nearly 28 now. Going through a forced menopause was no biggie in comparison to what could have been. Don’t be talked down to by doctors, just remind them you are the patient and you have the final say…they have nothing without your consent. I wish you well, listen to your body, rest when it needs rest and sleep when it is tired. Much love from me and my family in Lincs
Guys stay positive, while not the news you hoped for its good to catch it early. Sending hugs from Cooper and me and hope to see you guys soon.
Hey Ive just watched the video and thought I’d share my story of cervical cancer with you. I was diagnosed with 3a way back in 2011 when I was 19 and my son was 1. I was treated with cisplatin chemotherapy once a week for 4 weeks. Alongside I had 6 weeks of radiotherapy(the last 2 weeks were classed as intensive). My advice would be, eat as healthy and nutritious as you can. Maybe start juicing to get nutrients in(organic when you can) I found the ginger ones really helped with sickness. I didn’t loose my hair thankfully my worst part of treatment was with waterworks(pain when passing) and sudden onset of menopause. I wish you well on your journey, hope to see you on a campsite in the future and give you a big hug Thanks for the videos guys! Take it easy❤
give her a hug from me. i spent spent 5 weeks in hospital after a massive pulmonary embolism the doctor told it could of killed me as it was one of the worst she had seen. been diagnosed Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome self injecting blood thinners twice a day. i am so thankful for the NHS and all the nurses doctors porter cleaners that helped me. and yes them make you like you wet your pants lol
Hi John And Mandy hope all goes well with the treatment 👌👌👌
John, you are doing more than you think, being there for Mandy and supporting her though all this is really important,you need to take care too hugs to you both xx
Thank you for sharing your latest vlog with us. I'm feeling abit angry about how your meeting with The Consultant was so rushed and how He avoided answering your questions etc.This is not how it should be ! Of course You are both still trying to come to terms with Mandy's illness and need answers.I really hope your next appointment is better and that someone will have more empathy and give you the answers you need.
God bless you both always xx
You are starting a long and challenging journey. Not quite the kind of journey you are used to, looking for parkups and finding places to get water and service your tanks. However, we totally understand John wanting to plan and help with everything practical. We would be just the same. You must feel like you are in a traffic jam with a ferry to catch in bad weather with nowhere to get shopping 😉 We think that everything will start dropping into place and John will be the perfect support. Look after each other and enjoy the gaps in your treatment when you can 👍🏻🚐🚐💙 Trev n Sue
Sorry to hear you have cancer. You can beat this with the right treatment and family around you, I was told that i had terminal cancer of the pancreast in august after having a major operation in October which was unsucssful i am having chemo. hopefully it won,t but with me i do get very tired a lot and have some aches and pains sometimes with sickness and direa. all i can say is try and stay positive and with family around you can beat this. Sending best wishes,
You’re both doing SO well, stay strong. So many people are behind you. X. 💐
John and Mandy I’ve been watching you guys since the beginning of.. I don’t don’t post much at all really but I love watching you guys and I just wanted to give you guys my heart and tell you that I’m with you and that I’m praying that Mandy will get better and be healed in Jesus name pray amen
Hello Mandy and John. You were suggested to me via TH-cam. Anyway, I’m a newbie here on your Chanel. I look forward to getting to know you guys on here as I watch some of your previous posts. Happy Wedding anniversary xx
I'm thinking about what you are both going through at the moment and remembering those feelings. The one thing I will say, is that all medical profesionals have different ways of delivering information. They often come accros as distant or aloof. For a lot of them its a coping mechanism, others may be worried about legal action if they say the wrong thing. If I could say one thing based on my own experianes its this: Don,t read to much into not getting awnsers . We have a wonderfull NHS. Stay strong for each other
John, the best way you can help Mandy is to be there for her. So don't worry about your tractical support, you are more than OK. ! All the best for both of you !
Mandy & John - we send you both massive hugs and positive vibes - we are currently nearly a year into our full-time vanlife and we were in no small way inspired by you two, which we will always be grateful for, and still are. Stay as healthy as is possible right now and keep looking after each other and out for each other. You are both brave, strong and bloody lovely people and deserve all the love and support that's coming your way. Nicky & Kevin xx
Thinking of you both and you are always in my prayers. You have each other which is wonderful. Bless you both xxx
Still thinking of you guys every day. Take care of each other.
Sadly I’ve only just found your channel so have only just watched your health diagnosis, but I am looking forward to forward to watching the rest of your videos 🥰
Its such a blessing believe me to have such a strong and loving husband who cares and supports you mine has literally saved my life.
Happy Anniversary guy's and so much love to you both keep strong and your amazing 👏
I do watch your videos, but I don't really comment. I have shed tears for you both, and wish I could do something to ease what you are both going through. This... 'trauma'... will change you both, and change your view of life. Stay strong. x
I just want to say, I love you guys. This is a different difficult time for ye. Hold fast. We are all sending our strongest thoughts to ye.
Good luck. Having a understanding and good communicating oncologist is very important to understand your situation. My wife had a incredible oncologist who had time to answer every question my wife asked and explained every procedure in detail. It made a massive difference to us on our successful journey 12 years ago 🤞🤞🤞. You can and will do it
My heart is heavy with the all that you both, especially Mandy, are going thru with the shock of your diagnosis - I am gobsmacked with what your going thru - life is a roller coaster enough on its own let alone having to go thru this - your an amazingly strong person Mandy - you really are - and thank you for sharing your journey helping to make such an impact on awareness of cervical cancer on all platforms.... please take care cheers Debz from Oz
Hi John been where you are and my heart goes out to you two
wife had breast cancer 5 years ago while looking after her 90 year old dad
One thing people don’t realise the strain it puts on the partner while trying to be positive for the cancer patient as well as the strain on the relationship
Myself and wife Doris sends our hugs to Mandy
We felt that we was the only people in the world during Doris’s appointments we was in a private room with the consultant and nurse
Sorry I haven't commented... Shocked..but also overwhelmed with both your abilities to deal with this challenge... I've watched from the start of your adventures ... Best wishes xx
John du är för mycket tekniker . håll om din fru och vissa att du finns för henne.Mvh Angus
Just watched your video and I just want to jump
Into the screen and give you both such a big hug.
You are both an inspiration to each other as well as to all of us watching you go through this .
Stay strong and keep us all informed at your own leisure. We are all routing for you xxxx
Take care and God Bless You both.💞🙏🙏💞
Good luck to you both during this horrible time. I'm sure Mandy will smash it
Mandy - you've got this. Take it one day at a time. xx
John - it's ok to cry. The one you love is going through a tough time...as are you. xx
Both - congratulations on your wedding anniversary. Focus on the good stuff. xx
Love and hugs to you both. xx
Bless you both xx
Hi John and Mandy, we're sending you guys so much love and positive energy right now. Just try to be kind to yourselves and one another - your heads must be spinning with this news and all the planning and adjustments you need to work through, on top of your diagnosis Mandy. Not sure how, but if we can help just ask. Stay strong. Gaz and Becs 😘
I was stage 3 breast cancer and i am better now so be strong its so different nowadays x
Can't put it better than 199Paramedic, you both are Amazing. All these memories you are making now will give you something to look forward to doing again after the treatments are over. Great to see you both smiling, it's one of the greatest bits to help you through. John I feel your frustration, my wife has Huntingtons and the only thing I can do is be there, and you've got that covered mate. Fingers crossed, and hopefully you'll both be heading on the roads again soon.
J&M just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about Mandy’s illness. I know lots of people will have said this already but just concentrate on yourselves, post when you want, and remember will are all willing Mandy to get better. ❤
So sorry to hear that mate. I hope everything will be all right and things will go better in the future. Please don't loose hope.
Just do whatever you guys feel like doing! Sharing and talking about it on socials, can be a therapy and if it helps then we'll all be here to support you! 😊
I would suggest from a comfort perspective and seeing my mum go through a similar cancer, Mandy, you will probably want your own space, bedroom to rest/sleep. I personally think it would be tough to stay in the vans. Even if you just do that at the start and see how you get on, then adjust as you see fit. Xx
Watching this, brings tears to my eyes how much I can see feel for each other
I am very fortunate like you, my wife could attend every appointment every scan every result
Been at it for 5 years now had the unavoidable, emotional ups and downs
Just saying I think I might slightly just understand a bit of your feelings right now guys ..
You’re right, the questions you ask, never truly answered as you want, feel for both of you deeply right now xxx
You sharing this so intimately and openly and talking to you does really help me
Hi Mandy & John we have been following your channels for a while and would just like to wish Mandy well with her treatment and a speedy recovery. We know castle hill hospital quite well as have had to attend several appointments there, just a heads up that parking can be quite a challenge and you need to allow at least 30 minutes to find a place. Finding a place for your van may be even more of a challenge. If you haven’t been before it may be work visiting before your appointment date to see if you can get the van parked. We found it added more stress to a an already stressful situation that you can do without. Hope this helps, wishing you both the best
Good luck Mandy ❤❤
I have been watching you for many moons and my wife has been going through cancer treatment for the last two years, so I sort of understand, if that’s possible, what you are going through. As you have said everyone is different so I would just like to wish you all the very best and hope the treatment goes well. John stay strong, Mandy will need you more than you know
Hello...I watched your video last night and can understand your frustration and how upsetting this can be. I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer 2 years ago and a consultant with the bedside manner of a brick told me the news....we wish you a speedy recovery....lots of hugs...take care and we think your amazing... xxxx
Happy anniversary Big hug to you.both.❤think of you both
Stay strong guys, you got this. Time goes over so quickly, before you know it, it will be over and done with xx
All the best of luck Mandy with what you are going through.. also John you also take care of yourself self as it’s both of you going through this terrible thing together, but stay strong Mandy and all the best xx
I am waiting on the lab results for colon cancer...So I know how the feelings are. God bless you both !!
Sorry to hear your news and thankyou for spending your precious time talking about it. I’m sure you may already know but please touch base with Jo’s cervical Cancer trust. They are there to help you both and the font of all knowledge . X
When I had my radical hysterectomy I found getting in and out a van a lot easier than a car as your not bending so much and can just slide out ❤, you will get tired and need rest time I do think I would have been better in our motorhome than in home ,no steps and much nicer to be able to just ride out and see something different if you feel up to it ❤❤❤
Happy belated anniversary. Castle Hill is fantastic. They did some amazing work on my wife and son. Can’t recommend them too highly. I’m sure they will have on the mend soon.
Take care both and stay strong
Hi Mandy you got the name of the type right and 2A is definitely treatable. I´m so sorry you were treated not the best. I was a mental health trained medic but I completed cancer care for quite a long time at medical school. I also did a year of radiography training as well before changing mental health, diagnostic not therapeutic, but I can still explain what will happen at your appointments I think and a bit of how you may feel. If you have any questions get in touch and I will try to advise you. x
We really feel for you and know the shock of getting such a diagnosis. My husband was diagnosed with stage 2b melanoma 10 years ago and had to have further scans to make sure there was no spread and is still on regular follow up. You had a bad experience with the doctor relaying the news to you but I hope when you meet with the oncologist you will get a much better discussion and they should be able to explain all side effects and answer your worries xx
I have had endometrial cancer twice and am now 4 years clear. My partner had stage 4 melanoma and now 10 years clear. More and more better treatments now.
Big love to you both ❤ what you are doing is amazing! Can’t imagine how you must be feeling, but thank you so much for documenting your journey at this extremely difficult time.
But it really does help raise awareness of cervical cancer.
Thank you!❤
Although I’ve followed you for a while,I’ve never commented,I’m praying that treatment goes well for you and it’s been caught early,all my best wishes.
Listening too you both is like reliving what my partner went through. As hard as I find watching you two regarding all the problems, I just feel the need to listen, and maybe pick up on something that could be relevant to John in how to deal with scenarios I went through whilst looking after my partner. Keep staying strong.
Look after yourself John as Mandy will need you. Big hugs to you both, cyber love and strength being sent your way, from New Zealand. You are both in our prayers and thoughts 🙏❤
Hi guy's thanks of update.
We are thinking of
you both.
I felt the same as you John it is very hard not to do something
But when the treatment starts you can do so much more to help mandy. Just be there and talking
You have got this guy's 👍
Karen has got 11 more days to go .
Be safe guy's
Keep your chins up and think positive. bless you both xx
Hope all goes well on what is an uncertain journey. Been there with Alan, but stay positive close to each other. All the very best Sha and Alan Motoringmasons
Even though I am a fairly new viewer I have been watching old videos and catching up,my life has been directly affected by cancer,my son who is reach a cure date and has been clean for 27 years since,and my heart goes out to you. I wish for you another big hug and definitely look after yourselves and each other. Just remember you are loved and we are all pulling for you!❤️❤️❤️ Have happy anniversary and a nice evening celebrating it as well. One hint that might help is get a journal and write all these things down so you can use it the next time you talk to the docs or nurses…..I just know that it helped me.
I know you say "talking" helps you but I feel it is so generous of you to be so open in sharing your experiences involved in your latest journey 💗
Ann
I feel your frustration, I remember when I was going through your stage of my diagnosis, I was also stage 2 (of aggressive breast cancer) and I just wanted to know everything. Looking back and with hindsight I was given just enough information that my brain was able to process at that time. You are both doing amazingly and although the next few months might be bloody hard, it is all doable. My treatment plan started with surgery & radiotherapy and then changed to include 18 weeks of chemo and one year of immunotherapy, it is scary when something changes but when you actually get to see the oncologist you will be able to get some proper answers and get the information that you need at that time. I think if I 'd have known all of what I was going to need at the start my brain would have exploded.
You will be inundated with advice (and here's some more), we are all different and there is no one-size-fits-all so don't assume you will feel the same as others and therefore prepare like they have done. You are you, so just ask for advice as and when you need it, believe me, it will be forthcoming,.
Thinking of you both. Stay strong - you've got this 💪💪
Sarah xx
As I’ve never had the Big C I cannot imagine what you are going through. I can imagine what your family are going through as I’ve had both family and friends who have had cancer and it is frightening for all concerned. Some have passed but others have had something in them to fight and survive and I sincerely hope you do the same. Sending you all the love and support from someone who met you very briefly at the NEC. Take care to you both.😘
Still hoping and praying for Mandy to have successful outcome, and for John for the strength to give Mandy the support that we know he will give. And for my 33 year old daughter who has been suffering pain as we wait for biopsy results from last weekend. 🙏🙏🙏
Good luck with your chemo Mandy. Sending love. My mum had cervical cancer over 20 years ago and will be celebrating her 80th this year. The treatment sounds different to yours, but the stage was the same. Wishing you all the best and the strength to get through it all. ❤
Thanks for the update, we have been wondering about your results. Pity you had such a crappy meeting with the "Doctor", very poor bedside manner. But fortunate you have your liaison person and she was able to answer some of your concerns from the meeting. Also happy belated wedding anniversary - you are such a wonderful support for each other. Enjoy your nerf time with your grandson! 😂 Take good care, all the best and love from us in Australia. ❤🥰
Your on a conveyor belt to them. I find it on the whole an impersonal experience these appointments .
I have a catch up once a month with the head consultant who is by far a more personal experience. 20 years ago went through the same thing doesn’t seemed to have changed a great deal. You have done the right thing by openly talking about your personal journey with cancer well done to both of you. Xx
Thoughts and prayers with you.
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So lovely to see you two smile and giggle. And I know you are having dark times too.. that's inevitable. But the love you have for each other is tangible.. and it will be your strength! Love you both.. and candles will burn daily for you here in Ireland. ❤❤
Thank you guys for taking the time to explain what's happening while you're having to deal with this. We love you and sending you the biggest hug. You've got this Mandy xxx
Good to hear that you are stage 2a, it sounded worse! (Obviously 1 would be better) Good luck with your treatment, it sounds very intense!
I was put on a pre habilitation programme for cancer before my Bowel cancer operation in Feb, a combination of cardio and strength exercises. The idea is to counteract any loss of strength while having treatment.
It is definitely a good idea to build up your strength while you can before you start your treatment.
They told me not to diet before my op but healthy eating and minimise or give up alcohol 😢
Keep strong, hopefully you will both be looking back in a few months and it will all be behind you. Xx
All the best Mandy, big virtual hug to you, hope your oncologist has better empathy than the doctor you saw Monday. Keeping fingers crossed for you that you can get through this without suffering side effects. xx
You are both doing amazing ,let's be honest your both still in total shock, and not to get the information you wanted from your appointment must be very frustrating, I'm afraid it happens to all cancer patients, when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer during covid I got more information from my nurse than from the consultant, and everyone I speak to it's the waiting for results that is so worrying, but john will be there for support ,I hope your latest scan goes ok and very good luck for the future ❤
Hi John, Hi Mandy, I Both I found Mandy’s channel last week & I subscribed I have just found your joint channel & I have subscribed to your joint channel 👍 Mandy, & John, I really wish you both all the very best in your journey I am sending you both lots of virtual hugs & a lot of love to you both 💞🦋 Lin
John stay strong for mandy . Hope she be OK . It is and will be hard for you boff. Hope you all the best mandy john
MacMillan nurses are amazing a great source of information and knowledge, Audio books are great for taking your mind off things especially when on your treatment. Wishing you all the success in the world x