Nigerian Lady Ends Two-Month Marriage After Discovering Her Husband Is A Fraudster And Has No Home
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.พ. 2024
- A Nigerian lady has ended her two-month-old marriage after discovering her husband was living a fake life. One of the groomsmen during the couple’s marriage told her that her husband had no home, the lady found out that the man didn’t have a house and was into Yahoo (Internet fraud).
The groomsman who had warned her earlier revealed he noticed a few challenges on their wedding day. He said they quickly ran out of drinks because the groom didn’t do anything. His friends had to do the little they could to help the situation.
Two months after the wedding, the woman called the wedding off and moved back to her father's house. It was revealed that the husband enticed the bride with a fake life, and she fell for it. He had no house to go to after the wedding, so they stayed in the hotel on top of the lady’s bill. When the lady asked and found out that the man doesn’t have a house and is into Yahoo, she called the relationship quit.
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Wow! this an eye opener for me, My wife sacrificed everything for me, all I do is to send money to people back home(9ja), and I have never for once really buy something meaningful, except buying her a new car which she can afford. Appreciating her sacrifice is very important, no matter how small it might be, now that I know am sending her on a trip to Dubai this summer. Am glad I did watch
God bless you sir.😊 Thank you for changing your mindset. Many men are not even kind.
beautiful decision, your home is blessed
This is very commendable Sir.
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You are a real man and you deserve all the respect in the world.
Courtship period is not intercourse period but interview period to know each other
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Thank you
Madam Chioma, your head is there...very apt. And you're beautiful. At 39, i tell myself even if i don't get to marry, I'm still complete, I will have influence on the world, and I will be fulfilled in my purpose. No be visa to enter heaven o. God help us all
You got it, girl! We have different destinies, and we must be intentional on how we live
Your comments indicate that you have a kingdom mindset!
Nigeria has a country and as a people need to change their mindset........You must never define success by material things!
Mary u re right 💯
The red flags are so glaring, why would you as a lady finance your wedding.
Exactly!
Right. Her parents should've been covering the wedding costs.
Love can make you do that
Both of them. As a woman, how can you marry a man without doing background check? Ah Africa the pressure to marry. Leave women alone to marry when they want to. The honest truth , not every woman will get married. Be okay with being single. How many successful marriages do we see that will want to make anyone get married when 50% of legally married men both Christian and non Christian are on dating sites as single men? Marriage is a beautiful thing when both of you fear God, have integrity, have the same values, respect, have accountability partners. Can say sorry to each other.
Forget oooo, some guy are smart o
@mamajojoworld, thank you very much. God bless you
@@akinbiodunmojisola8775 smart in a way that you cannot discern what he does for a living? I think it all boils down to women pushing themselves to be married at all cost to save their faces for family and friends.
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Most marriages are deceit marriages. No truth is spoken both men and women. Especially men. Some have kids out there and will refuse to talk. The world is not our own.
When she paid for the wedding,what was she thinking???
I agree with the woman in yellow and black gown: Are you marrying me or we are marrying ourselves?😂 it's not funny 😂😂😂😂
The world has turned upside-down. 😢
A very courageous lady🎉
A very balanced discussion ladies. Well done Tope for moderating.
Parental consent in marriage is absolutely important
Chioma you are a wonderful addition to this group. You have a superb view on this topic.
Awesome 👍 thanks ladies for being straight. I really enjoyed the way you handled every aspect of it
I really appreciate and thank you ladies for your balanced and matured views and authentically feminine and Nigerian approach to your conversations. I am a rev sister, I dedicate my life to promoting the wellbeing of especially girls and women. It breaks my heart to see women marginalized, maltreated and not equipped to defend themselves and live meaningful lives. You ladies make us proud.❤❤
Tope. Loving your Aso oke jacket! Can’t stop looking 😂. 👍
We woman must stop being so desperate. Spend at least 1 year intentionally dating, meeting their family, attending family events, meeting church members and neighbors, visiting his home and employment location, check bank accounts, criminal records, etc
I support my Ibo sisters 100%! I DO NOT support a woman financially helping a man BEFORE marriage, especially for their wedding. Husbands DEFRAUD their wives, not to talk of girlfriend or fiancee....
My husband wasn't working when we married, but he found a way to make ends meet. Got a room, furnished it before our wedding.
It's what my mom told me that made me choose him: "with this guy, you won't go to bed hungry". Translation: he's a visionary. And that's what has sustained us. His resilience.
My dear it happened to me.I carried the whole wedding as well as the marriage for over sixteen years.What I didn't know was he was using his money to wed other women and raise a family
Haaaaa!!! Madam ur own is still fair... Come and ask me.....
Men can do the most terrible things to us. I married and discovered I married a drug addict who had been an addict for 15 years. His entire family was in on the deceit.
It happened to me.
Best moderator on this show. Good insights from all the ladies.
First red flag. A woman should not be financing no wedding!!
You guys are just awesome, intelligent, beautiful with class. Just saying it as it is all the time. Keep on rolling, I'm watching. Love you guys❤❤❤❤
Good girl,Tope!
I did the same my dear! Sometimes, it is down to some cultures to contribute to the wedding. In the SE they leave it for the man to foot the bills.
At least before marriage there should be a background check
Everything that matters to we Nigerians is MONEY..Everything will not be fine in our country until we all stop worshiping MONEY
@@oluwaisinvolved1566 so true
The background checks on this kind of situation doesn’t bring much because even people around who are related to the guy, friends, neighbours, family coverup with the man. I have been in that situation o. Uncle was a fraudster, duping girls, he lied to be a doctor and was rolling with doctors, real doctors as friends and they knew he wasn’t a doctor. Guess what!!! People around were calling him Doctor o!!! And he never went to medical school!! So what is background check really!! He duped me!! Na police I used to arrest him to collect my money.
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Women cause this problem by being desperate over unscrupulous men. A woman in our African tradition is not supposed to give money for her dowry. Have seen this many times and it never worked. We're not European whose culture is different regarding marriage. We want to adopt foreign culture and do away with our good culture? I don't support the idea of a woman before marriage bringing out money for her bride price. The bride price is the proof of the love the man has for his wife. This money must come from the man not the woman.
Exactly
@thomasassim-ita1787, God bless you for the statement
Even if a man isn't financially stable yet if he's ready to marry,I insist in the bride price coming from the man's pocket.The wife can assist in other bills regarding the marriage plans buh not bride price talking.My opinion tho !
@@graceenato557 there is nothing wrong with assisting the man. The main point is understand his core values and Who he really is. That will help you make informed decisions on how to choose the right partner. Also, make sure you are the right person for the partner too
@@graceenato557 absolutely right my sister. this little thing like bride price people ignore is a very big thing in our culture. even if the man is not rich he must provide the bride price or forget about marriage. many women have paid their bride price in the end the marriage becomes a disaster afterall the man did not pay anything to marry the woman. no woman should be desperate bcoz she's advanced in age, a man that truly loves you will come and do the right things not a 419 who doesn't know the meaning of marriage. in African marriage we must follow the tradition not what oyinbo are doing coz we're a different culture. if a poor man makes the right sacrifice of paying the wife's bride price God will help him and bless him in no time. you'll be surprised that within a year or two he might become a millionaire bcoz of that sacrifice. the bible says "he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the lord" because this man has been sincere and has done the right thing.
This just tells me that a lot of Nigeria's have not watched Swindle on Netflix. It is an eye opener
It is good for both families to do their own "investigation" before Wedding! "Wedding is more for the Woman." The Bride's family should be able to buy her Wedding Dress, and not the Groom. The Wedding rings, the Groom should buy that. Food should be supplied the Bride's family and friends. The Drinks by the Groom's family and friends. The Hotel for the Weekend should be the Groom. The Bridesmaids and Groom's men / little Bride & Groom should buy their Clothes as their support for the Wedding.
For the Traditional Marriage, the Boy's Dad is the one who leads in paying the Dowry and all that the girl's family demands, after a hidden door negotiations. Food and Drinks is 50/50.
Thank you this opens my eyes to a lot
Whether someone says the woman loves money or not, the issues is that you shouldn't falsely use deception to take advantage of a lady into marriage, telling a lady lies to deceive her is more then wickedness
There are many many of these people, these many guys in Nigeria. What about all the internet fraudsters in Nigeria or Africa, is that not their jobs.
Keep quiet if you don't have anything says fraudsters are everywhere not only in Nigeria 👌👌
@@olubusolaawolaja6831 what rubbish are you talking about for God sake, we are talking of deceiving a lady with lies into a marriage you are here talking of internet fraudsters
@@leonardorjioffor6683 sir I wrote my opinion, everyone is entitled to their opinion, why not drop your own opinion and move. There is freedom of expression everywhere. I know what I wrote and I understand it perfectly in relations to the topic above, I don’t understand your rubbish that you are seeing sir.
@@leonardorjioffor6683 apologies I dropped my opinion under your comment 😀
Culture and traditions are very important ingredients for marriage. Ignore it at your own perils
God bless you Ladies of the view. I appreciate your wisdom and wealth of experience.
Tope is such an astute moderator. She is intelligent.
It is never how long people court for but questions that were never asked. Courtship is a time of asking and getting to know the other person.
Tope..... wisdom full ur head...i like ur maturity keep it up
Yes!!! We live in denial must of the time.
I almost did what Bisi talked about: we were going to get married in court, and do a church wedding afterwards.... My husband then chose to stop coming to our house, and we prayed over the issue, and God DID convince my dad to give us his blessings
If you pray to God and He tells you, through your parents, “no don’t marry him”. You don’t pray again, you leave!
Absolutely, who are his people. Finding out what he does for a living? Why would anyone be living in an hotel for 2 months, though?
She made a good choice.If she stays, he would have use her for money rituals
I agree my dear, let the man handle the marriage things. You can support after you're married to him. That's proper
Supporting a man for marriage is a sign of desperation.
May God don't let us be in such situation.
but a husband to support his wife family is what
Really??
Very important topic.
Why is it that most married men when they start making money , the first people they give or think about or help is there family plus members plus friends before there wives . Why please?
Everybody needs to see this episode
I have shared it on my stories
When you don't investigate your fiance & family; that is what you get better still some will marry a ghost.
It's not what you do, it's what you do without due diligence.
If you focused on wedding instead of marriage, you're bound to go astray.
But why did the pastor fail to do due diligence but waited till the wedding day? For me that is wishy-washy. Very unprofessional.
You can support your wedding ceremony expenses but not paying your own bride price...
Our great grandparents did the investigation and it's really helpful nowadays there's nothing like that,these generation marry on the internet to the extent that siblings get into marriage without knowing
Change the changer😂
May you not marry a cankerworm
Awesome talk, thank you so much, we women and men also need to hear this.
Beecee on point!!!
Preeeeeeaaaccccchhhh. The world needs to respect African culture......Marriying yourself took me out.?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Women should ask questions such as where do you live, what do you do for a living, what's his vision in life and other questions..
The lady in yellow is so aggressive . Seem like a lady of Yes is Yes and No is No . Has to be my way, period .
Am sure you are a man
Why is Beecee so aggressive with her speech? It’s unnecessary.
Wow this is amazing ❤
Marriage is an achievement for some Nigerian women. So out of desperation they are marrying themselves
This looks like a story that I know ooo. But she came up with many reasons not to break up the marriage.
Uhmm how did not she find out before engaging into getting married?
This is very strange.
Wao i really enjoy this its so nice
My husband must pay my bride Price, anyhow he want to,why will I give him money to pay my Bride Price,it means you're in for insults,paying of bills and taking care of the so called husband and family
Thank you big mummies
The lady should be more emotionally intelligent. The signs were already there. It takes two to do the tango.
Hey ladies... I and my wife planned our wedding together. She bought the cake and paid for the camera man,even the traditional marriage she catered for it 60 %,...Its 10years now. I dare say we are happy. Verrrrryyyyyy happy. Life happens dears. Regards.
It is called love. In some cultures women pay d dowry
They do not value women in that culture
We parent must stop putting too much pressure on our female children,let's give them time to look for responsible man,God fearing as well.Let your female child have a good job, for her to be able to stand gidigba financially.
To Chioma: Thump up
It's not bolding but responsibility
Ur wedding and u dnt contribute anything? Im from malawi we work as a team the man and the woman.
What is d tittle of d Movie bcus I can't believe is real
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What about things that the woman's family are to do, is it the husband that will still do it or can the woman help her family to do that. Urgent answer please.....
That is why Europe is good any income you are getting ,the government most know where is coming from
Pls I have a request. This is about s*x before marriage. A lot of older people got away with it and many other things like genotype, rhesus factor and many more. These days the Christians are advised to refrain from s*x before marriage yet to discuss compatibility in all other aspects. I am yet to see a man who will discuss his small and I'll function ' thing" nor a lady who hates s*x which could be an abnormality in her. I have seen a situation where " born again" drove her to marry a man who could not perform and the marriage broke down within a week. What happened was a real mess. So, my ladies , what should born again do in that aspect???
😢 religion can play a role in naivety - females are told don’t be materialistic, help and overlook before long abuse emerges and continues after marriage
Not all men are visionary or leaders
It's a lie. The lady couldn't have patient for the guy to hit the jackpot
I supported my wedding should have done it. Not every bean should be spilled!!! Make una dey try rep una husband smor smor outside!
I just don't understand Bisi
They talk carelessly...that's why I won't honor their invitation. They have no respect for privacy
@@TheObesDairy,it's not bisi that said it, bisi did not even support it!!!
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Please so-called yahoo Boys are rich and kind. They don't scam themselves.
Simply public menace and dogs 🐕 living in a failing state
I as a man refused my wife to help in my marriage cus I want to be the man cus I wouldn't want my sister to do so cus a man must be ready to sacrifice to marry cus it speaks alot in the way the marriage will work.
Avoid by ALL MEANS in having SEX during Courtship, because "Courtship is different from Marriage." "Investigate the Each Other!" A girl who is disrespectful from the beginning, will not change during the marriage. There should be NO rush into Marriage, because Marriage is a different Ballroom Game!
Some ladies are too desperate for marriage that is why they don't have time to investigate who they are marrying and some are blind by so called I love him, I don't want to loose him, at the end marry and divorce then remain single again so why the desperation at first?
Can church dissolve such a marriage if requested by the wife?
A real woman remains under her parents homes until a man goes to pick them up. But those who have dated all the 12 disciples and nothing works out for them are those who pays for thier marriage
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Many Ladies of this day wishes their mother in-law died
Now how will Marry a man you don’t know his family a responsible woman stayed and planed marriage in Hottel where is the family where is the future the children and the society here have we lost it all?
FRAME 7:00 women like talking about "someone you love and want to marry."
What has "love" got do with with marriage? Love does not come before marriage. Love actually comes with marriage; that love is unconditional.
When women bandy this "love" and "want to marry" business around, they are in effect describing a boyfriend/girlfriend (sensual) relationship. This is western tradition and influence.
Then I rather have children & forget about the marriage
That Muslim babe is very beautiful today ooo.
No where is safe it seems
Did the bride not meet the parents of the groom?
Good for her before he use for ritual
Please God is the one that lets you know if he picked your spouse. Please seek God. Good or bad parents, they can give you bad advise
so, you can't pay for your own wedding dress?
What are you saying
Yes she can't because it is worn 1 day. She was clever for renting. It is not new my dear. It has been happing since time in memorial and it will continue to happen. What do you need the for after the wedding day.
Yoruba the best of all times
Thank you! You have analysed the "other," which we tolerated in sharing geographical habitations 😊
What type of opinions does this Bisi have for crying out loud? Ha!! Phew 😥 I always never agree with her.
Is her opinion....yours mighty be different
@@thessydamilola8186 true, that is why I said what I said
Really? Bisi is the best oo, if I don't see her nor Nyma I feel reluctant to watch cos others sound political most of the time. Even her stance today might not be popular but it is valid
If beecee is not in the show, good night!!!! The truth is always old fashion.
Work hard to keep u! See work 😢
Focus on the content rather than on the container
Most women fall for fake lifestyle.
Wedding is not marriage
Bisi stop lying you supported even more than the guy did. There’s nothing wrong in supporting a man. However, some women are too to get married and lose their sense of reasoning.
Your View 😮😮😮!!! You couldn’t come up with an original name for your show 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤣😂
This lady in black and yellow will be so mean, even in her current marriage. The type that will burden the hubby with everything possible. Not in support of a Man with zero capacity venturing into marriage though. But she's quite stereotyped to put all the weight on the Man inside the marriage itself
She is only saying the man should be man anough to foot the bride price!! And that is how it should be!!!! This is not about supporting your husband after marriage.
@@faithieflame4976 Yes I know. Just reading deeper into her body language, I can easily see her extending that mindset into the marriage proper.