I Used to HATE Hearing "Your Chinese is AMAZING" Yokohama Chinatown #4

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  • Why did I hate hearing "Your Chinese is Amazing"? I went to Yokohama Chinatown and explained why I used to hate people telling me my Chinese is amazing. After you watch this video, you will know why I didn't like it and why I changed after many years of living in China and Japan.
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  • @OrientalPearl
    @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Thank you all for helping me turn negative feelings into something positive. I hope to do the same for you. Making this channel has helped me get over social anxiety and frustrations living abroad. These past 8 years here, I’ve stayed low key and never knew making a TH-cam channel would be so fun. -Anming

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      estoban kupah Thanks! I might upgrade to better software too. But maybe I’ll get a better camera first.

    • @hmei774
      @hmei774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *TEACH ME* HEY CUTE GIRL.

    • @user-yd2dx2iy5x
      @user-yd2dx2iy5x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really? My gosh you are very talented, your chinese is so great, japanese is good as well, although i Heard a little acent in this last... but is awesome , congratulations! Omedetouu!

    • @annonymerbruder2154
      @annonymerbruder2154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think exactly these reactions of people are the reason why watching videos like yours. Its not common. Otherwise i understand why you didnt like before. But i like your attitude just keep up your work. Im a big fan . Greetings from Germany

    • @ding1376
      @ding1376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oriental Pearl 我應該多向妳學習嘗試一些新事情。哈哈。

  • @eChineseLearning-school
    @eChineseLearning-school 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    It's hard not to compliment it. You are so cheerful and we just want to encourage you and make sure your day is good :) Keep it up!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thanks so much for your comment. I love when other TH-camrs leave a comment. I like to teach a little bit about Chinese customs on this channel and tell people that it's common for Chinese people to try to start a conversation by giving a compliment.

  • @416cyclestyle
    @416cyclestyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Your English is amazing! Top notch! Slight hint of Windsor...

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Thanks, I've been studying for my entire life. Still not perfect yet. lol

    • @sweetlichekvlog6640
      @sweetlichekvlog6640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@OrientalPearl 🤣🤣🤣

    • @coolrebel671
      @coolrebel671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahahah

    • @coolrebel671
      @coolrebel671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I read that Chuck Norris is fluent in English in three different dialects

    • @SuperLuckysob
      @SuperLuckysob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Raj Magar
      So is Chuck Norris! ;D

  • @bastyo
    @bastyo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    >Anming takes the first flight ever to Mars
    >Martians walk up to her
    >Anming: "grblzrd!"
    >Martians: "Wow your martian is amazing!"

    • @ulver1187
      @ulver1187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad to see this comment is not on every language channel

    • @TriFF51
      @TriFF51 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Curb Your Enthusiasm Theme*

  • @abnormia
    @abnormia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I got frustrated in Korea as well. Anytime I spoke even the smallest bit of Korean the main reaction was "wow your Korean is so good!" And at first it's great because you love getting complimented as you're learning but after a while you get tired of hearing it and just want people to treat you as a local. But it's also because they appreciate that you took the time to learn their language while most foreigners dont so I cant get mad either ^^

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I know what you mean! It's a really awkward feeling. But I don't care about it anymore. There is no point in getting made about it now.

    • @aineangeles2648
      @aineangeles2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Trust me Germans and French do that also and the Polish and the Spanish etc

    • @andrewdunbar828
      @andrewdunbar828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do they usually say it in Korean? I never noticed it but my Korean never gets very good. If I know what to listen for I'll listen for it next time I'm there. I try to do daily tasks in Korean but I'm nowhere near conversational, let alone fluent. In China or Japan just "please" or "thank you" is enough to trigger a compliment.

    • @andrewdunbar828
      @andrewdunbar828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aineangeles2648 It never happens to me in any European country, even the least studied languages. Usually they just answer in English or in the local language without commenting (-:

    • @ThatsJeanette
      @ThatsJeanette 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@andrewdunbar828 This is because there are a lot of immigrants in Europe and it is quite normal for the countries people that this immigrants speak the countries language brokenly. However, if someone says that they have only been in the country for a few months, are only visiting or you can't hear anymore that somenone is a immigrant (Sometimes you see the ID Card of someone and only understand in this moment that he or she is not a native) it will also attract a compliment from the people.

  • @elorarora
    @elorarora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think people probably get very excited when listening to you and knowing that you took the time to learn their language.
    People in the US still do that with me all the time, and I've been living here for 4 years and studied English my whole life.
    I too, was very bothered by that in the past.
    But then, everytime my husband says a whole phrase in my native language I get super excited too, so I started to feel better about it.
    I believe that at least 90% of the time people are not trying to offend you, they're just happy! :)

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so glad that your husband is learning your language too! That's wonderful.

  • @robguyton3577
    @robguyton3577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The lady behind the counter said "She speaks in a Fujian dialect." That's like a lonely Martian hiding on earth saying: "Hey, check this out - she's one of us!"

  • @ronniejamesdio6889
    @ronniejamesdio6889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    In China:
    *Foreigners who says any random word in Chinese with inaccurate pronunciation and tone* = Wow!! Your Chinese is Amazing
    In Italy:
    *A Native speaker who makes accidentally a grammar or spelling mistake in their native language* = You're illiterate!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's sooooo true! lol

    • @andrewdunbar828
      @andrewdunbar828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In Italy if I try to explain that my Italian is bad but my Spanish is OK they just say "No no no I can't speak Spanish". But if I just speak in Spanish mixed with whatever Italian words I know then nobody notices and we can almost chat about anything in Spagntaliano (-:

    • @robson2256
      @robson2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@andrewdunbar828 I don't ever bother anymore. There in Italy i was speaking to people straight like this: "Bongiorno! Donde esta il pistacchio? io no lo encuentro"

    • @tommasochiti4237
      @tommasochiti4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m Italian. I just learnt Spanish and English VCing in discord with some random folks. Yesterday a girl asked me if I was Spanish mother tongue and I was so happy.

    • @staypositive4358
      @staypositive4358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robson2256 . That's so funny!! I'm a native English and Spanish speaker and now I'm learning Italian. I can just picture you inserting Spanish words into Italian sentences. Haha

  • @DD-gz9ut
    @DD-gz9ut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Do not take it badly when you get that reaction. I take it as a huge compliment when people say my English is so good. My mother tongue is Spanish but I went to a full-time English private school. I was able to learn English like an English native speaker.
    Actually one time on a layover in the U.S. a CBP officer was incredibly intrigued by my lack of "Spanish accent". He thought I was illegally living in the U.S. and completely breaching my tourist visa. Asking a LOT of questions and being incredibly suspicious. Then I told him how I learned English, we both had a good laugh and he said "good job" while stamping my passport and letting me do my layover :)

  • @chrismachado8664
    @chrismachado8664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My goal is to get where you are: just fit in. At the moment, since I’m still a beginner, I truly enjoy the “You speak Chinese!!” or the “Your Chinese is good”, but you’re right, it’ll get old pretty soon. Most commenting for support really, wasn’t sure what to say.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much! I think you said it just like it is.

    • @Lysander45
      @Lysander45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The sentences I can speak the clearest in Mandarin are the ones explaining that my Chinese isn't very good and the reasons why that is the case. The problem is I speak those sentences so fluently now that the listener assumes I'm being modest so they continue on at native-pace.

    • @eChineseLearning-school
      @eChineseLearning-school 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep studying! You'll get all the compliments too.

    • @AlphineWolf
      @AlphineWolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are 2 different kinds of Chinese. Gotta learn both of them.

    • @lynda.grace.14
      @lynda.grace.14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Timmy Dragonborn And if you are Chinese (not second or third generation in an Anglo country) you English probably isn't going to be "great" any more than Arnold Schwarzenegger's is. Yeah, you may have the vocab, but the thick accent is super hard to lose.

  • @wimschoenmakers5463
    @wimschoenmakers5463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Enjoy the remarks of those Chinese. They are just surprised.

  • @honaker326
    @honaker326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know what? I've been watching your videos pop up more often in my feed and watched you every once in a while. But I never even thought about subscribing until you mentioned it at the end of the video. No joke. That was all it took for me. You have good content and are not afraid to talk to people. It's fun watching you walk around, find new food, and meet new people. Being able to see a different culture is fun too. ~From: A random American

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for subscribing. Now you will know when new videos come out. I don't post on a schedule. I just do 2 videos a week whenever I finish them.

  • @111milltown
    @111milltown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hit the subscribe button and you are not cheesy! Thanks for inspiring me to learn Japanese! Keep making videos because your genuine. You should think about starting a patreon page.

  • @brzfst
    @brzfst 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You made a valid point about hearing "Your Chinese is Amazing" so often. People with good hearts (as you know) are eager to compliment "foreigners" that speak as well as you do. They are always smiling :)

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's true, and I'm happy to show it to the world.

    • @brzfst
      @brzfst 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl You are one of the most positive people I have ever encountered....stay true to youself.

  • @Stephanie_12345
    @Stephanie_12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am Chinese American and I envy your fluency! I feel that when people tell you well you speak the language of the land, they are impressed to find that you are so intelligent and hardworking to learn!

  • @Paul_Wetor
    @Paul_Wetor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's a compliment, because you made the effort to learn Chinese so well. And a surprise because you are a foreigner in Japan speaking Chinese. You will always stand out. (Opposite situation: "German Girl in America" on TH-cam looks completely American and sounds that way too. If she didn't mention it, people would never know.)

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right and I blended right in during a trip to Germany a few years ago.

  • @Mwoods2272
    @Mwoods2272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I get the opposite reaction. Born in Japan, look Japanese,raised in America, don’t speak Japanese well, living in Tokyo and people give me this weird look. Why doesn’t he speak and understand Japanese?

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sure that brings many different challenges too. I have a friend from Hong Kong here that doesn't speak any Japanese.

    • @greywaren6034
      @greywaren6034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agh I have the Chinese American experience of native Chinese parents raising me only with English because they wanted me to excel in American school… and now I hate that I can’t speak Chinese like a native Chinese speaker

  • @malblount1792
    @malblount1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    From what I've seen so far Anming,you seem to turn everything into a positive. Your dedication and hard work(studies) shines through.😘

  • @rogerwitte
    @rogerwitte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's nice to see you interacting with people and having conversations and it's nice to see what's in the shops and restaurants. But make no mistake you are the star of your show and it is your personality and the way you display it in your conversation that keeps us coming back for more

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you keep coming back for more too. 😊

  • @serenepeacefulrelaxingmusi3874
    @serenepeacefulrelaxingmusi3874 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was an interesting fun journey around this area, I am one who can't get there myself so I appreciate your adventures and being taken along. Thanks 😀

  • @iamlegion990
    @iamlegion990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    We enjoy watching the reactions. So like it or not..you are stuck with it, and us.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's right! I've come to terms with that too! lol

  • @MisadventuresOfJason
    @MisadventuresOfJason 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I understand your frustration as you’ve spent such a long time studying and learning the languages and your dedication to it shows in all your videos! We love to see it. Your feelings are understandable. I think it’s difficult because there isn’t a huge population of western foreigners going to those countries with fluent Chinese or Japanese like yourself. One positive thing about all of this, is you’re the fun one that stands out and just your presence is a conversation starter to most! 😁

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's right. Japan is actually more used to foreigners so people don't react nearly as much over here.

    • @MisadventuresOfJason
      @MisadventuresOfJason 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oriental Pearl Keep doing you though Anming! Your presence is unique. I am upset that 70% of viewers aren’t subbed! All of you need to hit that sub button and notification bell! maybe it would be more helpful if I also wrote that in Chinese and Japanese :(

  • @bsr6823
    @bsr6823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos are very inspiring and informative. Thank you for making this content as it can be applied anywhere!

  • @britturk123
    @britturk123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is so wonderful to hear from the Chinese people you meet is not only that they think your Chinese is amazing, but that many of them notice immediately that you speak with a certain Chinese dialect.
    I have heard many foreigners who speak Turkish quite fluently but they always have the accent of their origin, which i guess is very normal or easy to do. You obviously have a good ear or can adapt with more ease than others, this obviously has a lot to do with your ability and level of speaking the Chinese language, which is obviously very good.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was quite surprised that they were able to identify where I studied in China. I thought my Chinese became quite bland after leaving Harbin, but apparently the accent is still there.

    • @Jerry-gt7kx
      @Jerry-gt7kx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl Fun fact. An accent discloses part of speaker's identity, where you from, what do you like, what things are you used to or experienced at etc.

  • @RespectOthers1
    @RespectOthers1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Anming is like playing Pokemon Go around Chinatown. Definitely caught a few valuable ones today! :D

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fore sure! Actually this footage is all from last Friday and I have even more to release yet. I made 3 videos from this one day out.

    • @user-sg2ww5nm8i
      @user-sg2ww5nm8i 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      只要有中国相关的东西哪里都有这个老头!

    • @user-vo7xw7ro1q
      @user-vo7xw7ro1q 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @qiulong yuefly 看我用户名。你蛙岛哪来的大陆教育?大陆教育可教不出来脑炎绿蛙。继续装。

  • @CeruleanPandas
    @CeruleanPandas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my cousin is white, but was born and raised in japan and she hates when this happens too because it underscores her difference from those around her. sometimes people just want to blend! but anyone who "looks foreign" and speaks the language fluently isn't the norm, so it's hard to blame them for pointing it out or being surprised. tough situation though for sure!

  • @moontan_
    @moontan_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can so understand as an introvert, you learn to blend in, not to stand out but I guess you are a bit of a rarity and I think you just make people happy when they find out you can speak their language so well. I have watched some other channels too, I have noticed that especially with the Chinese when you speak their language instead of English you see a whole different side to them. Your videos are so wholesome, I love the conversations and not only just for the amusing shock reactions.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m glad you like the conversations too.

  • @doubled3082
    @doubled3082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, I subscribed after my 1st viewing. I wish I was in the first 100 subscribers. I was way back in 6,000. My daughter has autism and she knows a few Chinese words and watches your videos with me and smiles. I speak pretty good English for being from the Midwest. Have a great weekend! We all love you!!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for being here this entire time. The first 100 subs were all my family.

  • @philiphitt7988
    @philiphitt7988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    The reality is, you're somewhat of a unicorn. I can't imagine they encounter too many Americans or foreigners that have such a command or fluency of their language, it's super impressive.
    I really enjoy watching your videos, thanks for posting. 🙂

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You phrased it well. That's exactly what it is. lol

  • @krisfrederick5001
    @krisfrederick5001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Like your friend said in the last video, he felt better when people stopped pointing it out and just accepted him as one them. 09:07 That just gave me a flashback to the "Patty Hype" episode of Spongebob...

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's exactly right! Most people who live abroad for many years feel the same way. They just want to live their daily lives like everyone else.

    • @chrik25
      @chrik25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never really understand that mindset. Kinda entitled way of thinking to be honest.

    • @krisfrederick5001
      @krisfrederick5001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrik25 Well, being from the U.S. I don't say "Wow, your English is great" to an Asian looking person assuming they must not speak it. Kind of the same thing right?

    • @chrik25
      @chrik25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@krisfrederick5001 You can if you want, i won't be offended at all. I would just say thanks and walk away even though I am born in the u.s. When someone say something nice I usually take it and thank them. Basically i dont get mad because they didnt know my history. That is why i think that kind of mindset is entitled in a way. Im not here to offend by the way. Just my 2 cents.

    • @krisfrederick5001
      @krisfrederick5001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrik25 Sure, good things.

  • @amberw7980
    @amberw7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If I could subscribe twice, I would :) Thank you for making these videos! It's fun to see everyone's reactions, but I imagine it gets old after awhile.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! One time makes me happy. I used to be happy to get one new subscriber per day before March of this year.

    • @amberw7980
      @amberw7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl Yay! Well, I hope more people subscribe instead of just watch, haha. Your videos are really fun and actually comforting. It's nice to see all the friendly faces you meet. :) And the cultural education you add is so appreciated.

  • @bryans6673
    @bryans6673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It happens everywhere to many people. I (a Chinese) have lived in the USA and Canada more than 20 years. One time when I visited a store in New York state, the store staff said to me "Your English is very good." I had exactly same feeling as you. My son was born and grew up in Michigan, one day a local Michigan guy greeted him in Chinese "你好!". He told me he even felt offended. I agree with you that people want to fit in. This kind of situation rarely happens in immigrant cities such as Toronto where people won't praise your English no matter how good your English is. I think the situation you're experiencing will be getting better as more and more foreigners are living in China and even their children were born there.
    BTW, Many foreigners' Chinese are still not at a workable level even they have been living in China for many years. Your Chinese is REALLY REALLY good!. LOL

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's a genuine compliment tbh

  • @danielzamora9549
    @danielzamora9549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    6:10 the guys behind her are waving 😂

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OMG!!!! I totally missed that. You're right! I didn't even notice while editing.

  • @alohakakahiaka
    @alohakakahiaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoy all your videos. I am so glad you've accepted and embraced the way people feel. For many of them it's probably the first time any foreigner has spoken with fluency. I enjoy how so many people are amazed and happy they can engage with their native language. Thank you for sharing. :-)

  • @MrAmeruxamond
    @MrAmeruxamond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't really speak Chinese or wanted to learn it but you give me some kind of motivation. I always though Chinese was super hard to learn but maybe a few phrases can't hurt too be learned. Entertaining video as always 🙋‍♀️

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear that! It's kind of fun to learn a little bit as well. You never know when you might use it.

  • @worldaviation4k
    @worldaviation4k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wonder if you saw my message about giving a gift to friend at their company by mail. i was shocked about that as it backfired and the boss was annoyed. So many culture things i need to learn.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I read just about all of the messages. If I gave it a heart, it was definitely read.

  • @marcocabrera4428
    @marcocabrera4428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've always noticed that once you reach a certain level people stop commenting on your language. I don't know about how it is in China though. Only lived in Japan

  • @ShidahMony
    @ShidahMony 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for doing this! i've been studying mandarin for 3 years now for my degree and i still lack confidence to have a conversation with chinese people here in Malaysia. your videos gave me some confidence and i will definitely try harder to speak mandarin here!! keep doing this kind of videosss

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Give it a try. I had great conversations with Chinese-Malaysian taxi drivers when I visited last year.

  • @NewYorksFinest
    @NewYorksFinest 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All these videos are so fun to watch! Especially in these crazy times, stay safe out there!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you like them! Everyone needs a reason to smile nowadays.

  • @SuperLuckysob
    @SuperLuckysob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've heard that my Swedish is amazing my whole life even though I was born here almost some 50 years ago. Edit: Love your videos! :D

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha ha, well I hope it doesn't bother you too much.

    • @SuperLuckysob
      @SuperLuckysob 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl Nope it does not! hehe!

    • @siphu
      @siphu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      May I ask what your ethnicity is?

  • @timetherington1986
    @timetherington1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I would have thought if you frequent the same stores and venues in an area you'd get known pretty quickly as that foreigner that speaks Chinese very well and then rapidly you just become someone who they speak to every day who just happens to be a foreigner. This was my experience anyway.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The good thing is that they change staff everyday. So I can hit the same exact store and see totally different workers.

  • @J-N-B
    @J-N-B 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's a compliment in this era of divide, hate and negativity enjoy the gesture to tell you that you are doing something right/good.

  • @ck4278
    @ck4278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s really cool seeing the reactions of people in the background ... love your videos.
    Orange County, California

  • @jfl2886
    @jfl2886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it’s good to have native languages conversations. The sudden friendliness shown

  • @bruhinthewild
    @bruhinthewild 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    No...you'll never fit in. And that's great. Especially in a culture where everyone is expected to "fit in". Having the diversity is great. People will eventually warm up to it.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I can always get away with being strange over here! YA! lol in a good way!

    • @bruhinthewild
      @bruhinthewild 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@OrientalPearl stay weird my friend

    • @staypositive4358
      @staypositive4358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bruhinthewild . Are you from Austin, Texas? lol

    • @bruhinthewild
      @bruhinthewild 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Stay Positive No.. Hawaii.

    • @miggu
      @miggu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Out of the countries of Asia, Japan is the one that I found wider diversity and where individuality/personality is encouraged, I didn't find that elsewhere in Asia

  • @michaelt3308
    @michaelt3308 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love these vids. Thank you!

  • @kennyhall6921
    @kennyhall6921 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s a mature growth and good on you for that. Keep pushing

  • @AceofShaq
    @AceofShaq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think that sometimes it feels like they’re degrading you a little, like with Japanese people they’ll be like “日本語が上手だ” when ALL you said was こんにちわ but then sometimes people are just really impressed because they think that foreigners won’t be bothered to learn as they think that we think everyone speaks English so it’s 50/50 for me

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's right... that was the exact reason I didn't like it. But now I don't really get upset about it anymore.

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      also I think it's because speakers like OP have a much better Japanese accent than japanese people have English accents when they speak rnglish

  • @JeenRsHeart
    @JeenRsHeart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Most importantly though, how was the 5 color xiaolongbao?

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was amazing! I've never seen that in China.

  • @jlcdrivewayramps7343
    @jlcdrivewayramps7343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anming you really are a Chinese at heart.

  • @johnaviator
    @johnaviator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just know that you're amazing! Always enjoy your videos.

  • @simondunstall3520
    @simondunstall3520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Or this "你用筷子很好" i get it all the time..lol and yes i agree us westerners get the compliments when speaking way to much but i understand their feelings in the way that you have taken the time to learn their lingo so praise is a natural reaction no?

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's right! I've gotten that many times. I can't get mad though because my mom can't use them and neither can my dad. lol

    • @MrMannyhw
      @MrMannyhw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      At least you are not in a party of 10 having dinner being the only caucasian. One asian ask for a fork and the waitress automatically passed it to you (the only caucasian there and actually can use chopsticks).

  • @JaredCaprio
    @JaredCaprio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    0:28 LOL! dudes already complementing you before you even finish speaking.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That happens all the time. It seems too soon to me.

  • @jesscaballero8808
    @jesscaballero8808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am an introvert and A LOT of times I really dislike talking to people, even though I believe it's easy. Still, you make it look FUN and it makes me WANT to do it because I like fun things hahaha

  • @FrankDeFelicecasan
    @FrankDeFelicecasan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always enjoy your great people skills and the fluency of your speech!! Also Japanese are so polite, always bowing ...

  • @BeautifullyBroken88
    @BeautifullyBroken88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It’s definitely not a secret that you didn’t like it when ppl would Compliment you on how good your Chinese is. You literally say it in every video lol

  • @youmustbefibbing7376
    @youmustbefibbing7376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The user of this computer has logged out. So my close companion, the monitor, and I, the keyboard, would like to take this rare opportunity to praise your awesome Mandarin skills.
    Oh, we have to shut down now, bye...

  • @landerx5534
    @landerx5534 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks again. Ilove your videos please keep them coming. I’m your #1 fan from Canada

  • @PureAddictivity
    @PureAddictivity 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the growth!!

  • @paecpc
    @paecpc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There are many Westerners speaking Mandarin on TH-cam channel, some of them are engaging and some are not. I keep watching your clips and subscribed to your channel as I find you a very affable lady that I can relate to. To be honest, some of your contents are not strong, eg going around talking to people you met, but I find them interesting, may be it’s your way of engaging with people. I also find you looking a typical Western lady, but inside very much has an oriental soul.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well, my videos are more of a vlog about living over in China and Japan. Some of the other Chinese speaking TH-camrs are going slap-stick humor. That's their style and I have my own.

    • @bnanaaasbrown9529
      @bnanaaasbrown9529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oriental Pearl I admire you for not compromising your principles and resorting to misleading titles and sensationalised content.
      Your channel will continue to grow and you'll keep your integrity too! :D

  • @dragonboy718
    @dragonboy718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    funny right? I would never think to tell a Chinese person that boy their English is go good

    • @invalidopinion8890
      @invalidopinion8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it’s really because most English speaking countries are very multicultural and are filled with more than just the natives like in America in wouldn’t really be rare to see an Asian person speaking good english

  • @urbansoulmassage
    @urbansoulmassage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great top pick 🤗

  • @kappatrappa9048
    @kappatrappa9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    these
    videos make my day, i envy your experiences! enjoy every moment. I am glad you are embracing the compliments, you deserve them!

  • @hmei774
    @hmei774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    *HEY CUTE GIRL. WHEN YOU WANT MEET YAKUZA* 😋

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yakuza lives in my neighborhood. I see them quite a lot. lol

    • @eyemah4440
      @eyemah4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oriental Pearl récord them

    • @hmei774
      @hmei774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@OrientalPearl 🎤🐧💬 OMG !!!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      eyemah I got them 2 times already! Where have you been?! Lol watch “Real Japan” and “5 strange things about Japan”.

    • @MisadventuresOfJason
      @MisadventuresOfJason 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eyemah you’re missing out! lol check out her other videos.

  • @gashbeenfaisal228
    @gashbeenfaisal228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really can't stop watching your videos!
    please continue!

  • @FritsvanDoorn
    @FritsvanDoorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is so very interesting to see what you do. Talking to people, having the same small talk with different subjects. And then now and then I hear a word in one of your sentences. That makes me happy and feek good. Thank you for keep making this big effort.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are making progress! I'm proud of you!

  • @johnnylingo4686
    @johnnylingo4686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learning to be fluent must be the goal but then also to fit into new community. I think it will only come when a person commits to a single place for a long time.
    It may change for you when you can graduate and put down roots.
    Thanks for your encouraging videos they really are inspirational.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad that these video are inspiring people.

  • @amandalowe7457
    @amandalowe7457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely love your TH-cam channel. Keep the videos coming!

  • @ellenc5452
    @ellenc5452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello from Alberta, Canada. Love, love, love your videos. Keep them coming. I always look forward to them and I am a long time subscriber.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Canada! I appreciate that you have been one of the 30% that subscribed.

  • @Janeie
    @Janeie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You speak Chinese really well and with confidence I guess that's why people feel excited hearing you speaking Chinese in Japan , I understand your feeling I had the same situation speaking fluent French . Btw your Videos help me a lot improving my Chinese and get me know to everyday Chinese speaking coversations keep going ❤❤

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm really happy to hear that and also that others had the same experience as me.

  • @pokerworld
    @pokerworld ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber here. Your pronunciation is great. Your vocabulary is also great. You speak better than I do and I am Chinese. I am conversational in Spanish as well but need to brush up on my Chinese. Thanks for the great videos!

  • @jimscherl2307
    @jimscherl2307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you videos! Please don’t stop! ✌️

  • @tommyd5238
    @tommyd5238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I still find it amazing that you can speak Chinese and Japanese so well, my wife of 30 years is from Japan and i`ve visited many times but I still would`nt be able to hold a conversation with anyone, maybe its a memory thing and mine is absolutely terrible, although I never stay any longer than 3 months at a time.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My memory isn't that great either. I have to reinforce everything I know everyday just being in this environment otherwise I would start to forget things too.

  • @stephallan2543
    @stephallan2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a subscriber... each time a new post comes up, I watch it! Keep up the great 👍🏽 work. 🙋🏻‍♀️🌏😉👏🏽🥰❤️🇺🇸. I’m still praying for your easy transition to CHINA and procedures to return to school. 🙇🏻‍♀️🙏🏽🕊

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You and I are in the same boat. It really sucks not knowing when we can go back.

  • @BradpTMO
    @BradpTMO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the reminder, I have been watching for a few months now but forgot to subscribe. My bad, now corrected. Keep up the good work!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's ok. I don't like to be pushy. 70% is really high though. So, I finally said something.

  • @noonana2795
    @noonana2795 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should love it when people say your Chinese is good because it Shows that your hard work payed off 🤗 you should be proud

  • @LuisRodriguez-ob2hp
    @LuisRodriguez-ob2hp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry Anming I suscribed at this moment , when I read about the 70% of viewers that are not suscribed LOL , I think Your chinese is not amazing , What is really amazing its your attitude, humility , the calm that seeks to inspire those of us who want to learn other languages, and the search for warm smiles from people who must live abroad, away from their family and sharing other meals and custom. t I hope you return to you German roots and to my beloved Spanish that you learned in childhood, the amazing era when you forged that character that we and the 70% enjoy in your channel ! See you ASAP.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for subscribing. Having so many people get this message and subscribe helped a lot!

  • @530MAIDU
    @530MAIDU 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those beautiful dragons though...we have a semi- large Native American Casino with a Chinese Restaurant that use to have an enormous brass one hanging from the ceiling and the tables had the Mahjong tiles inside the table glass tops. The colorful dragons are simply beautiful and your presence seems to brighten 🌟💫 the various shops atmosphere. You’re happy attitude and joyful demeanor makes each trip a pleasant experience for all us viewers. Great 👍🏽 job!

  • @MiguelLopez-zn1wo
    @MiguelLopez-zn1wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always look forward to your videos, you're my favorite TH-camr 🙂. Stay safe out there!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      With all the youtubers out there I'm your favorite!? That's so cool!

  • @GopherM
    @GopherM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We do love the videos. I have a friend here that worked in Japan for several years and married a Japanese lady. I told him of your videos and he and his family watch them often. Like you, he tells me how difficult it was and still is to live here after spending several years in Japan. Keep the videos coming.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing! It makes me so happy to hear that families can watch these video together. There aren't many family channels out there on TH-cam.

  • @BlackersMTV99
    @BlackersMTV99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've watched some of your videos and must confess, you are amazing.

  • @doncastrian
    @doncastrian 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanted to say hi. Just a regular British TH-cam viewer. I started out by watching xiaomanyc on TH-cam alot and TH-cam recommend your channel and have been watching everything you've been doing for months. Keep up the great videos you're doing, it's entertaining and youve got a great personality.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, thank you! The TH-cam algorithm linked his channel and mine together so a lot of the viewers here are fans of his. Thanks for watching. This channel had 200 subscribers just 4 months ago. You got in at the very beginning.

    • @doncastrian
      @doncastrian 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl I sure did. I'll be sticking around, it'll be good to see what you do once you're back in China. One thing I want to try as a result of your channel is bubble tea but I've never seen it in England before. Maybe one day....
      Stay safe

  • @richardchu2346
    @richardchu2346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos as it is funny and relaxing to watch. You have a great and likeable personality.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! That made me smile.

  • @gmv12345
    @gmv12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:48 I am...hahaha..love your content! Keep it up, never give up!

  • @chelvalier_e5899
    @chelvalier_e5899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me sorprende lo distintos que son los puestos de comida en comparación a los de mi país 🇵🇪. Gran video, que raro que no lo vi antes ^^

  • @alexismoreno9530
    @alexismoreno9530 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So so thanks of your part to sharing this kind of videos with Us every time I saw it My inspiration for learning chinese grow up like a foam I´m follow tour studies recomendation in to it Good lucks

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm really glad to give you some helpful advice. I've been a language teacher for many years.

  • @Bullmannumber4
    @Bullmannumber4 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely, lovely, lovely video 😍😍

  • @paulstretton3733
    @paulstretton3733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed this video. Keep up the good work.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! More to come soon.

    • @paulstretton3733
      @paulstretton3733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oriental Pearl I’ll look forward to it. 😃

  • @bamagirl595
    @bamagirl595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just, now, only realized that when you mentioned "70% of viewers are not subscribed to my channel", I was one of them! So sorry. I really enjoy your videos, I just never realized that I wasn't subscribed. But I am now and turned on my notification bell :)

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for subscribing. I hope the new views will have a better chance now.

  • @sheldonk5634
    @sheldonk5634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a previous expat living in Thailand, I thought it was respectful to learn the language. Though far from your abilities I saw too spectrums. One was appreciation of speaking Thai when interacting with locals and them knowing I was trying my best. This was especially true outside the large cities. The other was speaking Thai and the local looking at me as to what was I doing and saying even though I was correctly conversing as Thai is a very tonal language. I knew I was a ‘farang’ (foreigner) but still enjoyed the language challenge. Continue what you’re doing and stay safe. We are hoping to get back to SE Asia next year, including Japan, if travel opens up from the US again.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How long did you live in Thailand?

    • @sheldonk5634
      @sheldonk5634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oriental Pearl I lived in Bangkok for 3 years for work and traveled for another 4 years which required a Thai work permit. I had Thai nationals work for me and still periodically email with them. Several Americans working in the office ended up marrying Thais and now live in the US. You shamed me (not true) in becoming a subscriber!

  • @loug4595
    @loug4595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anming It great to see all you hard work and effort pay off when native speakers give you compliments language skills good for you .. I know you did great on your thesis take care stay safe .. Go Blue !

  • @kelkel83ky
    @kelkel83ky 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video, make me laugh so much. Looking forward to the next one.

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @kelkel83ky
      @kelkel83ky 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl I did.

  • @zalestasmr
    @zalestasmr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yayyy, i get so excited when you post ! Your videos gives me so much potential to learn Chinese or Japanese or any language lol once i can travel hopefully i can have that chance and possibly meet up with you ! 💕 and also i hope you have a wonderfull dayy

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That would be cool to meet some of the viewers! I love making new friends.

  • @GendaijinBlog
    @GendaijinBlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel you on this, since I've felt the same growing up in Japan as a foreigner. At some point, you'll get used to it and it won't even bother you at all.

  • @111mizuki
    @111mizuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank youuu for making those videos love youuu ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No problem. There will be another one out soon too.

    • @111mizuki
      @111mizuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OrientalPearl wow so excited for that

  • @thomasprell4193
    @thomasprell4193 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello, it's good to think about what viewers long for. It's better to do like you do. Just load up like you did before. We love it! It's natural, it's you. Don't worry to much what we want to see. Show us what YOU want to show. Good luck and be blessed. ♥

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      At the end of the day I don't have 100% control over the channel. My favorite video is "Locked out of China", but it wasn't very well received with viewers. I will make videos I want to do every once and a while, but because TH-cam is my main source of income right now, I have to make videos you want to see, not just ones I want to make.

  • @toriheart5046
    @toriheart5046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🦊🦊Love your Channel Anming , Its one of my Favorite channels on You Tube, 🌺🌸 And I subscribed along time ago .
    I'm so glad you are enjoying making videos for us 😀 Hugs from Michigan ✨🌟🎇

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Michigan! I miss you. Thanks for being a loyal subscriber. Us Michiganders have to stick together!

  • @rc52
    @rc52 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my case, some people think I'm Italian & if I go to a store in a mostly Hispanic neighborhood they'll start talking to me in English & when I start speaking Spanish they say, oh you speak Spanish? A cashier at a McDonald's asked what I wanted & I noticed she had a heavy Spanish accent & when I responded in Spanish she was like que tu hablas Espanol (you speak Spanish?) I just smile & have fun with it! It's actually a nice surprise to them that you speak their language, I luv it... Btw your Chinese accent is so sweet! Keep up the great video's, it's really fun seeing the reaction of the locals!

    • @OrientalPearl
      @OrientalPearl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a funny story. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

  • @theobserver1320
    @theobserver1320 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a great woman. I watch every video with great pleasure. go on. 👍🏻