I thought she was about to pass out from hyperventilation while waiting on the judge to read the results. Sad that you can tell they were both lying yes mostly her but glad they all know now
His mother might know the insurance and puts of the Child Support system, any man should know that as long as they're paying child support they have the right to spend time with they're child. When they pay child support they can also ask that Court if they can put it in the paperwork that they get visitation every week or every two weeks, I know this because my son's father brought it up at our child support court date and He was given every week visitation and He rarely came and got Him for His visits, eventually He got with a different female and my son was picked up twice after that because the girlfriend decided to whip my son and left cord bruises on my son, I took Him to the hospital and Social Services got involved, His father or His girlfriend didn't show up in Court so my son never went to His father's house anymore.
I don’t like how the mom was enabling his story when she wasn’t around. To many women are willing to make another woman a single mom if their son is involved.
I don’t like how the mom was enabling his story when she wasn’t around. To many women are willing to make another woman a single mom if their son is involved.
I like that too because regardless whether the mom was around or not that girl didn't have to be disrespecting her like that and that's what he said that she would come around the family and just be disrespectful no man's going to want a disrespectful person always disrespecting their mother!
Exactly. This is one of the very rare instances where Judge Lake actually reprimanded the young upstart female, and told her to basically shut it when you're in the presence of an elder. Much love and respect to the young man.
No she’s hurt it’s a difference.. his mom is very disrespectful idk what y’all watching but it seems like the mom always defends the son right or wrong
Who you telling. I would have gotten swollen on tv. Her mouth is too much. Wonder where are her parents. Grandma better than me. I would have been chocked her up.
The thing is a lot of people young and old , they just lay down with anybody , they could be married , no morals or respect for themselves and much less for someone else .
Duhh I love this show but displaying innocent children like this for entertainment is a shame. Plus who wants to give there DNA to the county government.
@@demolishbeatz3796 Right! His child has been laying in the arms of another man. He dont want to believe it and it's not like he didn't try to find out. I see his frustration . I'm with you he didn't disrespect himself.
And older folks too, many of them are in Paternity court as well, 30 and 40 years later.🤔 I've seen many walkers and canes in Paternity Court, and the sad thing is the grown adult that doesn't know who their biological father is after all those years. Poppa sure was a rolling stone.🙄
The look on his face when the judge said ( you may be stuck on child support for a child that's not your) I felt his pain..I been in those shoes before..had tears in his eyes..this why DNA test should be mandatory before anyone can sign the birth certificate
How do yall men not show up to the most important court date 🤨establishing paternity and if u feel u aren't the father, u can get answers right away. Instead u miss court, are made the father by default and ordered to pay child support 😒 Play silly games, win silly prizes Edit: men have a choice to make DNA mandatory before signing a birth certificate... U have a choice in the matter. Y'all really don't be proactive or take advantage of your rights to educated yourselves
@@autumnskai6383 yeah it's the man fault the lady was giving up her kitty to multiple guys, yeah it's the man Fault for trying to take her at her word.. yeah it's all the fault 🤦🤦🤦
The young lady was afraid. They are both young. She most likely didn't come clean because she didn't want to be judged. We have to do better as a society in creating environments that allow folks to be honest without being judged.
Ok his mom kept calling her a hoe. I have two boys and I would protect them. But idk all that they say or do. It obviously things have gone on for her to call her a hoe more then twice I wouldn’t show her respect either.
Andrea Puri i see that you are all over the comments.... u hate men we get it. It’s the mans fault i he doesnt know another woman is spreading her legs for another.. we men get it.
The ex was also tired of taking care of her, the welfare mom, she will have more kids with different men before she is through. They never stop popping the babies out for the welfare checks. Truth.
The child support system is severely flawed by naming someone a father based solely on the word of the mother and the man missing court. There really needs to be a serious grassroot campaign to change these ridiculous laws
Change to what? The guy gets the chance to prove his case, if he doesnt show up, guess what? Tough. The child deserves to know, not educating one's self about court is his problem. Who gets court papers and pretends like nothing is happening???
I think it needs to go back even farther than that. There needs to be a serious effort to cut out teenage pregnancy through self esteem and communication. Even adult women need to take the necessary steps to prevent having babies after babies with men they just met yesterday.
Most of these Laws were put into affect before DNA became so easy to do, so they haven't updated to the technology. What they need is to give an open date range to get the DNA done, say a month. If either party doesn't show, it is ruled in favor of the other party. A month is plenty of time for a potential dad to get one day off to get a test done. There's no need to punish the woman if the guy is a deadbeat who constantly goes off the grid to avoid payments. But we also need a way for dad to easily appeal if say he didn't get the court summons and make it simple for Not Dad to get taken off of it once the DNA determines that he's not the father.
Unfortunately men have done women wrong for years and the court had to fin a way to hold men responsible for making babies and leaving single parents all over the place...its just now catching up as men have evolved for the better and some women abuse these matriachal laws...
This girl is joke, everyone in the neighborhood knew that she told her ex that he was the father. after almost two years he ended up getting a paternity test and it was found he wasn't the father. so then she comes here and act like she knew all along this guy was the father and tried to portray him as a dead beat. smh this girl is a joke. bye & she never apologized
Wow...it was clear that she was 'massaging' the facts a bit...the aunt confirmed it and the judge saw through her 'massage' efforts..I hope they can co -parent civilly, but I am not so sure...
dad luck for him - he is with the woman that does not know anything about being a mother. As good mother would not hold her child back from the father.
She had the nerve to say “told you”??? She wasn’t sure herself...come on now...it would have been better had she not said anything and just accepted the results.
Wolverine Logan see what you won’t do is that bc not all women act this way. Some of us are actually civilized and know how to use manners.💯 Don’t let a few make you view the whole group as ghetto and immature acting, bc we’re not all the same person🤦🏽♀️
His mom was shaking her head when the judge said they should meet the baby. His mom dont want nothing to do wit being the grandma to that baby n she hates her son is the father
@Jaiza J She seems to be the type who desires to not listen to & respect her elders, and usually, that is how they end up in situations such as this. It's hard to feel sorry for them, when they can't be told anything.
She had a bery nasty attitude. No way would i let my child, niece, nephew, etc talk to their elder that way. The judge shouldn't have had to check her, auntie should have. I feel sorry for the dad and whoever else has to deal with her. 😢
@@ch1ckencrafts294 40 is already a lot for some people, like in my case lol, my dad is alive and well, has a job and all.. Yet he's never paid child support to my mom. I have never gotten money from my dad and im 17 years old now. Some women get literally nothing to raise their child, it sucks.
She’s still a young girl. It says a lot that her aunt was there as if she has been her guardian for whatever reason. She’s not hurt just because of this issues but she has preexisting issues with her OWN life and how she was raised. Yes she’s disrespectful but this girl is crying out for love
No, I think his mother was out of pocket as well. Older people think they can mistreat younger people all the time. When she called her a ho, it was out of nowhere. Not once did this young lady curse at her or speak negatively about her. She might have gotten smart with her but what the young woman said was the truth. The mom didn't have anything to do with it. No one knew who the father was and instead of the mom pushing her son to get the answer he needs, she told him to pull away. The mother was the disrespectful one
@@kievdarraeus8359 I'm not a mother but I can say 100% I would also advise my son not to get into this child's life, if he wasn't sure, until they get that test done. That young woman is conniving.
Did I hear that right? It's up to a court to decide whether or not a person who's been proven not the father might still have to pay? That doesn't really sound like the best situation for anyone. Child doesn't know her dad and man stuck paying for a child that's not his. Crazy to hear a judge say that without any problems.
Ikr But it's a very private manner so I get it. That little girl has been on this earth for over 600 days, n he only saw her a handful of times... The judge made the rt decision giving him that alone time w her. He was emo too Stand up dude
The court thing actually makes sense. Some guys would just keep ignoring the court date to shake their responsibilities. So now both parents are motivated to show up to court. However, a court paternity test should be enough to get you off child support, that is just ridiculous.
i think the judge mentioning the one to two months gap scared her into thinking he a possibility cause if the ex was away and she hooked up with this guy a month or two later and found out she was one month pregnant after hooking up with this guy then it cudnt be the ex cause he was locked up
@@richmack4194 that's ignorant. In the end the child don't care about parents issues & will look at u like why u abandon me. Saying its your mom is not a man.
When the judge made the comment about him still being on child support even if he's not the father. The mother tried to hold her smirk in. It's was a "I got you" moment for her and she enjoyed him being told that. She's the worse kind of evil.
I know. I hate that soo much. She is coming at him like she is the victim. I don’t care if it’s the tiniest doubt, who wants to accept a baby that you have to care for and raise and it may not potentially be yours. She can’t fault him for that. However I will say this, men should be more willing to find our quickly because they don’t want to miss out on the chance of being in the child’s life if in fact it is their child.
Her excuse or pass is"desperation". Fact: The court system understand a female psychology since the early 1950's & don't want to hold females "accountable & responsible" for permitting the Male to G-O R-A-W. The Female "knows" shes "fertile" and there is over 10 birth control available . Females act off emotions, instinct or subconscious then reply, " I don't know?" and it's allowed. ~Bachelor I Stand...Got Dignity!
Jeffrey Phillips what????? First of all I watch this because I feel like it. Second of all nothing is funny about ANY of these shows. You think it’s funny and entertaining that there are kids having kids. Third of all this is MY OPINION and again nothing is funny about this.
Jenelle Robinson He’s right though, this is a TV show & the reason we watch is to be entertained. It’s not the same as watching actual court hearings. They make it more entertaining by asking the questions they do, the audience reactions & editing.
This girl's chest was heaving when the judge was about to make her ruling! She was SCARED! I LOVE how Judge Lake breaks these little girls down and picks them back up! She is like the mother they never had!
Exactly. Her whole family structure must be non-existent. Such a pity, and an indictment of the state the community finds itself in, that a judge has to step in and fix what is broken.
So true !!!! Judge Lauren Lake tells it like it is !!!! I love her compassion for the children, the mothers and the young men that show that they deserve it because their heart is in the right place.
@@shaheedmuhammad365 she will make it more of an issue than it needs to be. She is less mature and much more disrespectful than he is....I feel sorry for the baby
The system got to change man, a man should not have to continue pay child support after finding out the child is not his. Like how does that even make since, how?
Agreed. And a man shouldn't have to pay without having definitive proof that he is the father especially if the female isn't sure he's really the father.
**unpopular opinion** Ok for all the people mad at him bringing his momma, then she shouldn't have brought her aunt. You gone get on him about not being a"man", then same thing goes for her.
I feel sorry for this young man...he seems like he's hard working and trying to make something of himself..now he's got to deal with this nasty, rude disrespectful female for the sake of his daughter..BM was busy running game on 2 men and got caught up..she really didn't know who the father was..but had all that mouth..especially disrespecting the potential grandma..
Yassssss!!! Jesus...I'm older but never counted on a man to take care of my own...there was also no question as to who m ur ba by y dad was...have some self respect young lady
But now everything should be kool they didn’t really know if they had too deal with each other but now they know so I would think they would try too to do what’s best for the baby
@@prettyhandsomegang5227 the young man seems close to his mom so the disrespectful behavior has to be put on pause for good. Otherwise, a toxic relationship.
*Why do people say "deal with them for only 18 years?" There's college graduations, marriages, future grandkids childbirth etc..the not getting along will not stop at 18, there will still be future instances even though not as much BUT STILL;* if this baby is hospitalized years later as an adult or is having their grandbaby or it's time for grandkids baptisms etc, *you have to worry that you can't go into any venue like a hospital at the same time as the other parent everytime or have to sit them on different benches in a marriage ceremony or as far apart as you can possibly manage, SMFH.* That's why it's not worth it to have that attitude of "I don't want to put up with 14 more years.." *You're better off trying to see once you know for sure, how you can possibly get along for the sake of the child! It's just better that way because a LIFELONG BOND has gotten created!*
She wasn't sure and was shady af. At least he didn't pay all that for nothing. Her mom needs to zip it though. Her daughter was playing 2 dudes. Must've seen that somewhere🤷♀️💯
Enkhzaya Zundui Tf? Respect is automatically given to anyone, but the minute someone gets disrespectful, all respect I have in that moment is gone. Idc how old you are.
Crystal Light in my opinion he was disrespectful to he don’t respect her so she don’t. Respect him u can tell they gone have issues cause he gone be disrespectful nd she is too
@@crystalthompson1997 he was only disrespectful because of how she came across in court. She was disrespectful towards his mother and he even said that she's always been. He carried himself very well in court.
"You're not your son" "I am his mom though". What does being his mom have to do with knowing what and who he was doing and where he was doing it/them. These moms need to realise they do not know their children and what they are doing every step and moment of the day. Be there in support of your child always, but you are not helping the matter when you try to act like you know every step your child makes.
She was crying tears of joy , but not because her daughter knowing who her dad is. She was crying tears of joy, because that meant the child support funds were not going to stop.
@@sheenaantoinette1864 This is perfect example of greed and not understanding support. Like I said before, if they lived together and low income, they would make it work. Paying is better than nothing and that is the amount he can pay right now.
Her mother really needs to be ashamed of herself for not checking her daughter for the way she was disrespecting his mother, because if I would've talk like that to anyone mother my jaw would've been broken..😂😂😂
Yes the child becomes legal at that age but child will always be a connection. Not saying they have to be together (cordial hello would be enough) but when the child goes to college, gets married, has children, award or recognition ceremony at college and work, Lord forbid a vehicular, medical, or any other type of emergency, there for your child. Goes way beyond 18 years...
She wasn’t sure whose baby it was lol. That sigh of relief said it all.
Ellebeee ikr there was definitely a chance
Kimberly Monique well... I laughed. So yeah, there’s that. LOL
I thought she was about to pass out from hyperventilation while waiting on the judge to read the results. Sad that you can tell they were both lying yes mostly her but glad they all know now
Ellebeee I actually said the same thing right before I saw this post
Her breathing was so heavy before the results were read.
She over here shouting “I told you” when her whole body language show otherwise! She never knew 🙄
RIGHTTTTTT!!!
That smart mouth heffa was just relieved to find out the child's actually his.
I knew right 😂😂😂😂
By the way you cute
But He knew!!!
That baby just sitting there like, 'yall gon be done soon?'
Right
Lol
On god lol
That's what the girl said to all the guys too.
lol true
I have a feeling that girl is going to make it even more difficult for him. She's so disrespectful.
She's very disrespectful
Children are taught to be...disrespectful, hateful or racist all in the same type of ways. We all have to do better.
His mother might know the insurance and puts of the Child Support system, any man should know that as long as they're paying child support they have the right to spend time with they're child. When they pay child support they can also ask that Court if they can put it in the paperwork that they get visitation every week or every two weeks, I know this because my son's father brought it up at our child support court date and He was given every week visitation and He rarely came and got Him for His visits, eventually He got with a different female and my son was picked up twice after that because the girlfriend decided to whip my son and left cord bruises on my son, I took Him to the hospital and Social Services got involved, His father or His girlfriend didn't show up in Court so my son never went to His father's house anymore.
Did anyone catch on to her cursing at her aunt?? smh
He was also very disrespectful so was his mother.
I like how he stood up 4 his mom
yeah
Yeah 💪🏽
I don’t like how the mom was enabling his story when she wasn’t around. To many women are willing to make another woman a single mom if their son is involved.
I don’t like how the mom was enabling his story when she wasn’t around. To many women are willing to make another woman a single mom if their son is involved.
I like that too because regardless whether the mom was around or not that girl didn't have to be disrespecting her like that and that's what he said that she would come around the family and just be disrespectful no man's going to want a disrespectful person always disrespecting their mother!
Looking at her when the decision was made, she didn't know for sure.
These girls be getting skeeted in like a mf 😂
Same THANG i said !! She didnt know for sure.
She didn't that was clear.
This show is edited for drama and views you don’t know my story.
She looked very worried
First I heard a young man telling the woman not to talk to his mom like that, glad the judge let him finished saying that. I respect him for that.
and a few minutes after that, the judge corrected her about being disrespectful to her elders.
Exactly. This is one of the very rare instances where Judge Lake actually reprimanded the young upstart female, and told her to basically shut it when you're in the presence of an elder. Much love and respect to the young man.
her own mom didn't check her
Agreed!
@@greentee5993 That was her aunt in court.
That girl is so disrespectful, even to her aunt
No she’s hurt it’s a difference.. his mom is very disrespectful idk what y’all watching but it seems like the mom always defends the son right or wrong
@@shawnaanderson1408fr the mom was disrespecting her indirectly
@@shawnaanderson1408no she was rude AF, wrong is wrong, she knew there was reason to doubt
@@shawnaanderson1408yup them the worst moms
@@immealldayeveryday9425and the mom was still disrespecting her
my aunty would have back handed me talking to another grown up like that .
Hahaha
Who you telling. I would have gotten swollen on tv. Her mouth is too much. Wonder where are her parents. Grandma better than me. I would have been chocked her up.
th1smomentisfate no one had a nasty attitude besides the girl. She mad at everybody bc of what she did.
The thing is a lot of people young and old , they just lay down with anybody , they could be married , no morals or respect for themselves and much less for someone else .
Same....😂
She wanted to do it outside of court because it was a possibility that she would be getting embarrassed on national tv/social media.
Just TAMIA I would never go on any kind of court show. It’s messy.
Exactly
I've always asked if these cases are legit.
Exactly! Because she didn't know who the father was!
Duhh I love this show but displaying innocent children like this for entertainment is a shame. Plus who wants to give there DNA to the county government.
Did she just say...”I am glad she now knows” referring to her daughter.
No bish....YOU glad YOU know!
Paula Major LOL
Paula Major 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Facts
Literally she wasn’t even sure 🤣
Lol
The aunt asking, "Now are you gonna step up?" Woman he's been paying child support.
Think she meant physically being there for Avah
@@reneegordon7888 he would’ve if she didn’t tell him to stay away from her and her daughter.
Can't be there physically if that chick hiding the baby from the father.
It takes more than child support to be a parent
She is grimey and a little liar, liar. The ex raising the child and takings Mr. Portice money. Wicked little girl.
That's right YOUNG MAN! Dont let NO ONE disrespect your mom!!!! Hat off to you!♥️♥️♥️
His mom should have told him not to be disrespectful to himself too.
@@LC-uz6em how he disrespectful to him self 🤣🤣🤣
@@demolishbeatz3796
Right! His child has been laying in the arms of another man. He dont want to believe it and it's not like he didn't try to find out. I see his frustration . I'm with you he didn't disrespect himself.
She’s in the comments defending herself 🤦🏾♀️
I woulda had to hit somebody in court 😤
"This is exactly why young people don't have no business making babies"
I second that!!!✌
; i third that!!!! ✌🏽
Like in: “Gone with the Wind”. They don’t know nothing bout birthing no babies...or raising them! 😂
Preach 🌞🌞
🙄🙄🙄
And older folks too, many of them are in Paternity court as well, 30 and 40 years later.🤔 I've seen many walkers and canes in Paternity Court, and the sad thing is the grown adult that doesn't know who their biological father is after all those years. Poppa sure was a rolling stone.🙄
I hate those personal injury court ads 😂😂
Hilarious
They look fake as a ghost
I feel like the Personal injury court are actors that are acting out real court cases. I've watched 1 episode and I couldn't get through it.
There was a torpedo coming at my face!!!
Its fake
The look on his face when the judge said ( you may be stuck on child support for a child that's not your) I felt his pain..I been in those shoes before..had tears in his eyes..this why DNA test should be mandatory before anyone can sign the birth certificate
How do yall men not show up to the most important court date 🤨establishing paternity and if u feel u aren't the father, u can get answers right away. Instead u miss court, are made the father by default and ordered to pay child support 😒
Play silly games, win silly prizes
Edit: men have a choice to make DNA mandatory before signing a birth certificate... U have a choice in the matter. Y'all really don't be proactive or take advantage of your rights to educated yourselves
@@autumnskai6383 yeah it's the man fault the lady was giving up her kitty to multiple guys, yeah it's the man Fault for trying to take her at her word.. yeah it's all the fault 🤦🤦🤦
@@robertnealy9456tf you mean she only slept with two guys not even at the same time so you sound dumb
@@robertnealy9456 It's the man's fault for not protecting his seed. Who forced him to be with her in that way though?
@@Missmewbs it's the man fault the woman lied about him being the father 🤦🤦🤦🤦 imagine that
How you gonna say “ I tOlD yOuU” when you got another man raising your baby😦
Makes sense 🤪
She's not very bright.
That's called step father. She could know, but thinks is more healthy if the baby got a step father than that guy.
The young lady was afraid. They are both young. She most likely didn't come clean because she didn't want to be judged. We have to do better as a society in creating environments that allow folks to be honest without being judged.
@@savemoney7053 exactly
She’s too disrespectful to his mom, period.
Andrea Puri shiii if it was my son paying child support for a baby he ain’t know if it was hers I’d be all up in his face too
Exactly
His*
Ok his mom kept calling her a hoe. I have two boys and I would protect them. But idk all that they say or do. It obviously things have gone on for her to call her a hoe more then twice I wouldn’t show her respect either.
Andrea Puri i see that you are all over the comments.... u hate men we get it. It’s the mans fault i he doesnt know another woman is spreading her legs for another.. we men get it.
She knew dam well she was sleeping around with her ex, she was just tryna get money and diapers out of both men
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Kendall Williams
Exactly!!
Clearly said he was locked up..lol.. she slept with him prior to sleeping with the actual dad.
)A
Facts
Dude is embarking on 18yrs of drama😂😂😂
Lifetime...
@@cowboys5 no at 18 he didn't have to deal with the mom anymore
For those who didn't get the memo, "He went away" means he went to prison.
Woahhhh!
I did not catch that 🙄🙄
Fact 😂😂💯💯
Big FACTS!!
I thought dude maybe was in the service or something
As a person from the Midwest, thank you. No judgment, but that saying has a different meaning and I never figured that into this situation.
The ex was sick of taking care of the kid & called him...
The ex was also tired of taking care of her, the welfare mom, she will have more kids with different men before she is through. They never stop popping the babies out for the welfare checks. Truth.
Startrek1965,That was FULL of HATE!!!
@@candiedwards974 go to her Facebook page. she's pregnant again.
yes
@@warlock4hm I just checked her FB page their daughter together is adorable. I wonder if the ex is the father
The child support system is severely flawed by naming someone a father based solely on the word of the mother and the man missing court. There really needs to be a serious grassroot campaign to change these ridiculous laws
Change to what? The guy gets the chance to prove his case, if he doesnt show up, guess what? Tough. The child deserves to know, not educating one's self about court is his problem. Who gets court papers and pretends like nothing is happening???
I think it needs to go back even farther than that. There needs to be a serious effort to cut out teenage pregnancy through self esteem and communication. Even adult women need to take the necessary steps to prevent having babies after babies with men they just met yesterday.
Most of these Laws were put into affect before DNA became so easy to do, so they haven't updated to the technology.
What they need is to give an open date range to get the DNA done, say a month. If either party doesn't show, it is ruled in favor of the other party. A month is plenty of time for a potential dad to get one day off to get a test done. There's no need to punish the woman if the guy is a deadbeat who constantly goes off the grid to avoid payments.
But we also need a way for dad to easily appeal if say he didn't get the court summons and make it simple for Not Dad to get taken off of it once the DNA determines that he's not the father.
I actually agree. The interest on backpay makes it almost impossible for a non custodial parent to catch up.
Unfortunately men have done women wrong for years and the court had to fin a way to hold men responsible for making babies and leaving single parents all over the place...its just now catching up as men have evolved for the better and some women abuse these matriachal laws...
They get on my nerves crying. When they caused the entire situation.
That's what I was saying...
I was hoping he wasn’t the father, she didn’t know either she was nervous
Me too!! I checked her Facebook and she’s currently pregnant. I hope she doesn’t have to come back to PC
L Hamilton what’s her facebook
If you look closely the baby has the exact same nose as her dad. The first picture I saw of both of them I was sure that thats her father
Right
Same only so he wouldn't have to deal with her
This girl is joke, everyone in the neighborhood knew that she told her ex that he was the father. after almost two years he ended up getting a paternity test and it was found he wasn't the father. so then she comes here and act like she knew all along this guy was the father and tried to portray him as a dead beat. smh this girl is a joke. bye & she never apologized
That’s the Messed up part about it all, and their related now!
Wow...it was clear that she was 'massaging' the facts a bit...the aunt confirmed it and the judge saw through her 'massage' efforts..I hope they can co -parent civilly, but I am not so sure...
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Wow I’m watching from South Africa 😂🥂
You can't reason with these machines the BT1000 destroys all lives
Auntie told the whole truth😂
keepin it cool The girls face when her Aunt threw her under the bus!😳
@@nicolaholgate7 😂😂😂😂😂
AND DID 😂😂😂💯
@@nicolaholgate7 yes and that follow up question was priceless too. "I told you the ex?"
They edited out the part where my aunt stated that I only said that because of the age gap between us. I was protecting him.
I died when she said her ex stepped up after telling him that he is not the father months before the birth of the child 💀😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
OMGG WRDDD BRO
Judging by her reaction, it was pure luck he ended up the father.
dad luck for him - he is with the woman that does not know anything about being a mother. As good mother would not hold her child back from the father.
Yep, she looked relieved.
100% probably more men too
Exactly, she wanted to say "now I know" but played it off and said "now she knows".
He hit it raw so that’s what he gets. That’s what he wanted, a baby and ultimately child support 😂🤣😂
She had the nerve to say “told you”??? She wasn’t sure herself...come on now...it would have been better had she not said anything and just accepted the results.
Average American woman.
,,FCC xx.
Immaturity at it's best! She's cares more about being "right" than for the who's the father of her child. She's complete trash.
Wolverine Logan see what you won’t do is that bc not all women act this way. Some of us are actually civilized and know how to use manners.💯 Don’t let a few make you view the whole group as ghetto and immature acting, bc we’re not all the same person🤦🏽♀️
Why do you say she wasn’t sure
She got some nerve acting like she knew. She was sweating bullets two seconds before that.
Sure was!
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I agree
Right!!!!😳😥😥😥😥😥
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His mom was shaking her head when the judge said they should meet the baby. His mom dont want nothing to do wit being the grandma to that baby n she hates her son is the father
Yesssss
Right or wrong, the young woman is rude and arrogant. She has an attitude problem.
No df she did not
In Africa, no woman would ever speak like that to her man's mother or relatives like that. That would end everything! Arrogant lady! No manners!
@@narrowwayevangelisticandpr3103 Thank you my dear ,You are a true african child .My girlfriend or wife dare not talk to my mum in such manner .
Dominic Sciberras very!!!
@@nichole4194 Not knowing who the daddy actually was yet cursing the mother who was being respectful is an attitude problem. Get real.
The baby actually looks like his mother and you can tell they're young cause he thinks $1000 is alot of money for a baby🤦♀️
Saundhi D. he a child himself so im not surprise
@@issasecretsecret7814 how old are they
Rawr 56 they probably like 19
If that’s not a lot why have kids
My thought exactly! He needs to improve his situation if $1000 per month is crippling his financial world.
She almost had a heart attack while the verdict was being read.
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Verdict? 😂😂
@@cocobenji6123 We are in court of law. Isn't it?
@@maishawlson Much love from here too
Exactly she didn't know what to do
She didn’t know who the dad was but she looped in both men just to be sure and that’s not right. Hopefully Avah can be with her dad now ❤
Yea that is correct thumbs up
Girl bye
She look like she was really scared b4 they read that result like she wasn’t sure if he was the dad 😩
Well she di-dn't know which is why they did a paternity test.
Wow she has no manners and so bloody rude to her aunt and the mum. Disgusting.
Edit: OMG thanks for the likes guys ♥
Jasmine C facts !!
@Jaiza J She seems to be the type who desires to not listen to & respect her elders, and usually, that is how they end up in situations such as this. It's hard to feel sorry for them, when they can't be told anything.
@@traciemartin3785 absolutely. It's sad her child would do just the same.
Trash beget trash. The cycle continues. That kid is already dead.
@@gmshadowtraders lol for sure.
She almost had a heart attack waiting on them results 😂😂😂
She was breathing hella hard😂😂😂😶
I noticed that, too.
I thought she was gonna pass out
I thought she was going to pass out 😭
Ridiculous
She had a bery nasty attitude. No way would i let my child, niece, nephew, etc talk to their elder that way. The judge shouldn't have had to check her, auntie should have. I feel sorry for the dad and whoever else has to deal with her. 😢
You spelled very wrong.
$150 a month is nothing to raise a child. But it's a lot when the baby isn't yours.
You right!....
$150 is alot more than some woman get. I know somone only $40a month.. Sad
@@ch1ckencrafts294 40 is already a lot for some people, like in my case lol, my dad is alive and well, has a job and all.. Yet he's never paid child support to my mom. I have never gotten money from my dad and im 17 years old now. Some women get literally nothing to raise their child, it sucks.
@@rose_6299 is he on child support ordered by the court?
@@tonyaj3915 I'm sorry english isnt my first language, could you make that question more specific for me? I'm not 100% sure what you mean...
Now he’s stuck with this disrespectful woman
Pearl Magwaza but Jesus is she cute!
She's not a Woman, she's a female. There's a distinct difference!
She’s still a young girl. It says a lot that her aunt was there as if she has been her guardian for whatever reason. She’s not hurt just because of this issues but she has preexisting issues with her OWN life and how she was raised. Yes she’s disrespectful but this girl is crying out for love
Pearl Magwaza i hope she will grow up... she is scared and must feel like everyone hates her.
@@C_Alleyne old enough to know better.
This girl didn’t know who fathered her baby prior to the results. You can tell. Smh
@phalynwilliams4119 exactly 💯 I woulder why
They do not be scared when they are laying down with them different men. So sad.
Did y'all see how RELIEVED she was when Judge Lake read those results? Homegirl didn't have a CLUE!
Nope
She is a bag of lies and deceit
Disrespectful and wicked little girl.
I saw
Conniving disrespectful little girl. She played a big part of this 2
Very conniving. The ex must have either gone away again or left her for good. Now she wants the other guy to "step up"..smh
Very disrespectful!
No, I think his mother was out of pocket as well. Older people think they can mistreat younger people all the time. When she called her a ho, it was out of nowhere. Not once did this young lady curse at her or speak negatively about her. She might have gotten smart with her but what the young woman said was the truth. The mom didn't have anything to do with it. No one knew who the father was and instead of the mom pushing her son to get the answer he needs, she told him to pull away. The mother was the disrespectful one
Yes! First episode where I hoped the guy wasn't!
@@kievdarraeus8359 I'm not a mother but I can say 100% I would also advise my son not to get into this child's life, if he wasn't sure, until they get that test done. That young woman is conniving.
This little girl needs to grow up. The aunt tried to cover for her niece, shame on you. Judge got with them 🙌
The aunt is 16 years old herself.
She is disrespectful. She needs to be sent to Jamaica for a good whupping by Granny!
Did I hear that right? It's up to a court to decide whether or not a person who's been proven not the father might still have to pay? That doesn't really sound like the best situation for anyone. Child doesn't know her dad and man stuck paying for a child that's not his. Crazy to hear a judge say that without any problems.
Yep! You heard it right
I am so happy that the judge checked her about disrespecting that woman...smh. These young folks will make you catch a case.
So uncalled for, just practicing lines she saw on maury. No his mom didn't sleep with you, so why try starting a lovers spat with her?
I dont know... the mothers talk too much. And the judge tends to let them be disrespectful and not stop them.
Very disrespectful and snapped back at her aunt, with her little misleading self
I’m 18 n I agree respect ya elders always!!
@@TheZogie exactly she kept talking when it wasn't her place.. like yea respect ur elders but respect is earned
Nooooo that ended too soon, I wanted to see that moment in the Judge's chambers!
I hate when they don't show it😭
@@bossladiee --me, too!
You wrote what I feel. I hate it that they don't show that part when they mention it. It's a part of the story/case too!
Me too
Ikr
But it's a very private manner so I get it. That little girl has been on this earth for over 600 days, n he only saw her a handful of times... The judge made the rt decision giving him that alone time w her. He was emo too
Stand up dude
She clearly lying in the beginning to both guys.
These young women stop lying
The court should never decide, until, the DNA is proven.. in all States period
The court thing actually makes sense. Some guys would just keep ignoring the court date to shake their responsibilities. So now both parents are motivated to show up to court. However, a court paternity test should be enough to get you off child support, that is just ridiculous.
Even though the baby is not the ex, we clearly see why she didn't go on tv. She's not young and dumb. She's just trifling AF!
i think the judge mentioning the one to two months gap scared her into thinking he a possibility cause if the ex was away and she hooked up with this guy a month or two later and found out she was one month pregnant after hooking up with this guy then it cudnt be the ex cause he was locked up
carsty yea I think everyone had her doubting it so she started to believe it too.
Bruh his mom looks like his sister that's how you know kids having kids 😂😂
Jay's world generational curses sis is real
That part!! 💯💯
@@asiawilson8177 Are*
Must be a young person making that comment. Mom's looks and acts young but you see the age in her neck and teeth. Definitely, over 45.
Or that could jus be how she naturally looks🤦🏾♂️ stop being a hater
Something tells me his life bout to get waaaaay tougher dealing with her.
iamSirPlus... yes sir!
iamSirPlus tougher? Life bout to hit him like a brick wall
I would just walk away and pay the c.s.
The way his moms face was after finding out he's her dad
@@richmack4194 that's ignorant. In the end the child don't care about parents issues & will look at u like why u abandon me. Saying its your mom is not a man.
When the judge made the comment about him still being on child support even if he's not the father. The mother tried to hold her smirk in. It's was a "I got you" moment for her and she enjoyed him being told that. She's the worse kind of evil.
This is why they should make DNA testing upon birth mandatory! For both parents!! 😁
Exactly.
They do that in China and you can’t deliver a child without a marriage certificate.
For both parents, why ?
You know the mother having birth is her DNA test 🤣
@@spunkymaniac9312 I know but still lol
🤦🏾♂️ for both huh ?
She had the audacity to go "I tOlD yOu" when it was obvious she didn't know AND had another man raise her baby.
I know. I hate that soo much. She is coming at him like she is the victim. I don’t care if it’s the tiniest doubt, who wants to accept a baby that you have to care for and raise and it may not potentially be yours. She can’t fault him for that. However I will say this, men should be more willing to find our quickly because they don’t want to miss out on the chance of being in the child’s life if in fact it is their child.
It's pretty obvious in this case, the kid looks exactly like him
The ex wanted to raise a baby he thought was his so don’t blame her for that
And she did tell him it was his just was scared💀
@@IamSunShine127all of them are at fault no one is the victim😂
She is a disrespectful person to herself and to her elders.
That's why she in this situation.
R D she really does have a smart mouth
Her excuse or pass is"desperation".
Fact: The court system understand a female psychology since the early 1950's & don't want to hold females "accountable & responsible" for permitting the Male to G-O R-A-W. The Female "knows" shes "fertile" and there is over 10 birth control available . Females act off emotions, instinct or subconscious then reply, " I don't know?" and it's allowed.
~Bachelor I Stand...Got Dignity!
That "I told you statement" irritates my SOUL!
These are children having children. The audience in the back laughing and carrying on like this is a funny matter. This is not funny.
Right, it wasn't funny! The audience should have been more respectful, sounding like they were in Maury' s audience.
The sole purpose of this show is for entertainment.... Why else are you watching it?
Jeffrey Phillips what????? First of all I watch this because I feel like it. Second of all nothing is funny about ANY of these shows. You think it’s funny and entertaining that there are kids having kids. Third of all this is MY OPINION and again nothing is funny about this.
Jenelle Robinson He’s right though, this is a TV show & the reason we watch is to be entertained. It’s not the same as watching actual court hearings. They make it more entertaining by asking the questions they do, the audience reactions & editing.
Certainly not funny for the poor kid
This girl's chest was heaving when the judge was about to make her ruling! She was SCARED! I LOVE how Judge Lake breaks these little girls down and picks them back up! She is like the mother they never had!
Exactly. Her whole family structure must be non-existent. Such a pity, and an indictment of the state the community finds itself in, that a judge has to step in and fix what is broken.
So true !!!! Judge Lauren Lake tells it like it is !!!! I love her compassion for the children, the mothers and the young men that show that they deserve it because their heart is in the right place.
"LiTTLe gIrLs"... be quiet, she's a grown man.
I feel sad for both of them, I can see now that co-parenting is gonna be a headache.
Yea she seem like she gonna try to get a raise
@@shaheedmuhammad365 she will make it more of an issue than it needs to be. She is less mature and much more disrespectful than he is....I feel sorry for the baby
Same
I think the Mom will get in her son's ear and cloud his judgement
She’s going to be the issue. Or rather is the issue.
She didn’t know who the baby daddy was 😂😂😂😂I feel bad for the dad
There is always so much stress on parents teaching their daughter's about staying away from toxic no good men. We need to teach our sons the same.
Amen
Coz she is toxic
The girl is toxic in this case so don't label all men
Parents do, but toxic women look just as attractive as toxic men do to women
@@Strength_In_Wisdom true!
The system got to change man, a man should not have to continue pay child support after finding out the child is not his. Like how does that even make since, how?
Agreed. And a man shouldn't have to pay without having definitive proof that he is the father especially if the female isn't sure he's really the father.
The system is so backwards, just doesn't make any sense!
Agreed
If you get a letter in the mail for child support and you don’t go to the court date you will automatically be deemed as the father
@@sosincere1212 I overstand that! But when the man is not deemed the father through DNA shouldn't he be taken off?
How can you be mad at him for doubting your daughter when you don't even know if he is the father? SMH
**unpopular opinion** Ok for all the people mad at him bringing his momma, then she shouldn't have brought her aunt. You gone get on him about not being a"man", then same thing goes for her.
Did y'all see Grandma shaking her head at the end? she shaking her head she knows what her young son has in front of him.💜.
She knows she has a problem with her grandchild disrespectful mother
@@childofthehigherpower9293 . yes that and a life time of all the above mess. I pray the baby grows up happy strong minded and heathly .😀💜
Exactly!
Her young son should of kept it in his pants. Everyone loves to play, no one wants to pay!
Otto von Bismarck exactly
"Were I in the bed with you?" Lawd... these folks are procreating.
Seriously, my great grandmother spoke in the same tone 😂
Haha right?! And they be the main ones wanna argue.. But you will NOT lower my IQ by arguing with you! 😁 😂
Lol
Yes they are
natural_eye_am And the grandmother used the word “brung.” lord have mercy!!!
I hope she doesn’t end up with 5 kids and 4 baby daddies before age 30.
Shay Shebad
She will though
5 kids and 7 baby daddies.😂
Shay Shebad 😂😂
@Cali Smooth typical black queen? You are definately anti black women... Go be with your non black woman and leave black women alone.
Cali Smooth typica black man who hates black man hating on a black man bc he can’t be one
The baby was sooooooooooo ADORABLE!!!
This girl is so rude... In my country she would be taught how to respect elders with some scolding
She will not try this nonsense in Africa.
@@ezekieli5675 she could never I’m Nigerian and if I just look at you rudely imma get beat 😭😭
@@vanessamonina7965 I am Nigerian too
@@ezekieli5675 ayeee that’s wassup
@@vanessamonina7965 Wonderful naija people
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I feel sorry for this young man...he seems like he's hard working and trying to make something of himself..now he's got to deal with this nasty, rude disrespectful female for the sake of his daughter..BM was busy running game on 2 men and got caught up..she really didn't know who the father was..but had all that mouth..especially disrespecting the potential grandma..
Exactly
Right..I can't stand chics like her.
I don't feel sorry for him. His fault that he is in that
Yassssss!!! Jesus...I'm older but never counted on a man to take care of my own...there was also no question as to who m ur ba by y dad was...have some self respect young lady
@@stephanied4863 Right, so rude and disrespectful!
Stop saying I told u and u didn’t even know she’s glad she found out herself
The child support system is flawed. It needs a major overhaul
She feels relieved!!!! She didn't know herself. Too young for all this. Respect his Mom, she gonna be your life line . Respect each other
“Pull out your arms. Now take ‘em out of your pocket.” 😅
😂 😂
Lowkey that was very disrespectful and untasteful..
Jerome Thornton the judge or the young man?
African Violet that’s what I’m wondering
The Judge that young man was carrying himself appropriately... Why did speak down in him like that...
I'd be devastated to know that I'd have to deal with that attitude for the next 18 years
But now everything should be kool they didn’t really know if they had too deal with each other but now they know so I would think they would try too to do what’s best for the baby
@@prettyhandsomegang5227 the young man seems close to his mom so the disrespectful behavior has to be put on pause for good. Otherwise, a toxic relationship.
Well said.
@Return of Me he seems like a deadbeat mommas boy to me. Ijs
*Why do people say "deal with them for only 18 years?" There's college graduations, marriages, future grandkids childbirth etc..the not getting along will not stop at 18, there will still be future instances even though not as much BUT STILL;* if this baby is hospitalized years later as an adult or is having their grandbaby or it's time for grandkids baptisms etc, *you have to worry that you can't go into any venue like a hospital at the same time as the other parent everytime or have to sit them on different benches in a marriage ceremony or as far apart as you can possibly manage, SMFH.*
That's why it's not worth it to have that attitude of "I don't want to put up with 14 more years.." *You're better off trying to see once you know for sure, how you can possibly get along for the sake of the child! It's just better that way because a LIFELONG BOND has gotten created!*
Little girl, that was not an ‘I told you.’
That was a
‘Whew, lawd thank you.’
She wasn't sure and was shady af. At least he didn't pay all that for nothing. Her mom needs to zip it though. Her daughter was playing 2 dudes. Must've seen that somewhere🤷♀️💯
Did u see her reaction when the results were said? Omg
Ah i thought it was her mom
That's auntie I believe, but she is/was playing games
Had too
Respect is earned, not deserved. However, that doesn't mean you get to be disrespectful and then expect respect.
True
It's cultural. Down South you are put in your place for disrespecting elders.
What are you talking about? Elderly you have to respect!! If you respect elderly you earn respect.
Enkhzaya Zundui Tf? Respect is automatically given to anyone, but the minute someone gets disrespectful, all respect I have in that moment is gone. Idc how old you are.
Exactly
Her mom had him young but raised him right, he didn’t act disrespectful like she did even when nothing bad was said about her
itzbarbie nah he was definitely being disrespectful !
Crystal Light in my opinion he was disrespectful to he don’t respect her so she don’t. Respect him u can tell they gone have issues cause he gone be disrespectful nd she is too
I agree. And he stood up for his mom when that girl was disrespecting her.
@@crystalthompson1997 No he was not. Stop it.
@@crystalthompson1997 he was only disrespectful because of how she came across in court. She was disrespectful towards his mother and he even said that she's always been. He carried himself very well in court.
"You're not your son" "I am his mom though". What does being his mom have to do with knowing what and who he was doing and where he was doing it/them. These moms need to realise they do not know their children and what they are doing every step and moment of the day. Be there in support of your child always, but you are not helping the matter when you try to act like you know every step your child makes.
Exactly. She spoke out of turn.
this poor guys view of women will change forever, hope you protect yourself now.
“There was a torpedo coming at my face” 😂😂😂
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She was crying tears of joy , but not because her daughter knowing who her dad is. She was crying tears of joy, because that meant the child support funds were not going to stop.
Noemy Villatoro $75 huh?? an infant at that!!! childcare is $200 a week....foh
lol !
Looooool ?
Omg🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@sheenaantoinette1864 This is perfect example of greed and not understanding support. Like I said before, if they lived together and low income, they would make it work. Paying is better than nothing and that is the amount he can pay right now.
She didn't even know y'all seen her reaction she was relieved
Somebody bout to be shamed...
“Were I talking to you”...Slept in English class or skipped all together.
*Asleep
😂😂🤣🤣 I swear I caught that too!!
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Dropped out in grade school... after learning how to MULTIPLY!!!!
@Mr. Cong g
He seems like a very bright young man! Wish him peace and blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
She yelled "I told you" but truth be told she didn't know who the father was smh. But put him on child support bc the ex is in and out of jail.
Fr
He went "away"
We know what that means
Exactly...i hate that b.s
I think the ex-boyfriend probably at home watching what you think
@@lisalong8816 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@lisaratliff7566 lol
She gets pity, and not accountability. Well done judge
She was breathing hard waiting on the results... she was scared!
Keonna Horner I peeped that she was holding her breath lol
Cuz she wasnt so sure herself from her body language
A rachet guilt
Oh Yesss 😂😂😂😂😂
I realized his mother was aged when I heard her voice, she looks 20s,she's pretty
Yes, I thought she was his girlfriend!
I thought she was the sister... I look the same way with my sons
Need to get her teeth done though
I hit her already
Ms. Middleton knew she was playing both men. You could see the look on her face with those smirks.
Her mother really needs to be ashamed of herself for not checking her daughter for the way she was disrespecting his mother, because if I would've talk like that to anyone mother my jaw would've been broken..😂😂😂
She was hella nervous when them results was going to be read.
Lol, yeah I don't think I've seen anyone on there that nervous.
Looked like she was going to pass out!
Shitting bricks frfr
A few minutes of pleasure a 18 years of headache it's not worth it
Yes the child becomes legal at that age but child will always be a connection. Not saying they have to be together (cordial hello would be enough) but when the child goes to college, gets married, has children, award or recognition ceremony at college and work, Lord forbid a vehicular, medical, or any other type of emergency, there for your child. Goes way beyond 18 years...
lilmommalady76 as
at least he's the dad. how many men are on the hook for someone else's pleasure? :P
No way San Jose
Ny its 21.
She was praying so hard before those results were read!
Yes u could see how she kept looking up. Lol
Shanice Johnson He must be the better of the two smh
This young lady is going to learn the hard way with that attitude