My boyfriend is too busy | LETTERS FROM THE SKY

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  • @ViewportPlaythrough
    @ViewportPlaythrough 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    self-proclaimed busy person here, and also someone who broke up with someone that proclaimed she is "too busy" for me.
    - alloting time is a priority ladder.
    - being "busy" is not a straight 24/7.
    - it is also subjective and relative.
    - at the end of the day, a relationship is a balance act between a concensus that both of you have separate lives, but should be given effort to keep it afloat
    being a self-proclaimed busy person, i myself, takes it a point that everytime i would become busy, i would try to have a talk with my partner telling her that i would be busy, why, my estimated time and such. parang ipapaalam mo lang, at the least do your side of the fence and toss the ball to the other side. at that point its her/his decision on how to react, at the least you know you played your part.
    as someone who broke up with someone that proclaimed that she was "too busy",
    you would feel it. take your gut feeling and trust it as if your guardian angel is trying to nudge you on the right direction.
    did s/he at least tried to toss the ball on your side of the fence?
    where are you at his/her priority ladder?
    maybe s/he really needs some space and time away?
    if its taking away from you too much and s/he still doesnt reciprocate, then its on you to decide.
    walang namimilit sayo. hindi ka hinostage. hindi ka tinututukan ng balisong o kung ano man. if you know its hurting you too much, more than what you can handle at nagkukunwari ka padin? thats on you, not him/her anymore, kasi clearly matagal na siyang wala, ikaw nalang yung naiwan (at the least ganun nangyari sakin :p)
    shameless plug: i write and narrate this kind of stories pala on my channel ^_^

  • @YourNOTOrdinaryGirlNabiii18
    @YourNOTOrdinaryGirlNabiii18 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kung ngayon palang magboyfriend/girlfriend wala na time or quality time knowing the technology now a days makipaghiwalay nalang sana. Respeto at wag natin sayangin ang oras ng partner natin lalo na kung nagkukulang na sa lahat at hindi naman nagagampanan yung part sa relasyon. Nakakapagod lang kasi lalo na kung alam mo yung worth at kung anong deserve mo. Wag makipagrelasyon kung hindi handa sa responsibility as a man of the relationship. And don’t expect magiging sweet sa inyo kung hindi nyo ginagawang top priority partner nyo. 🙄🤪

  • @rhonnaaveemnace8690
    @rhonnaaveemnace8690 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you skyfam! ❤

  • @RochelleCabal-il8hk
    @RochelleCabal-il8hk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Me and my bf sobrang busy the whole day Pero Pag dating ng gabi 9pm bebetime na (VC) khit 1hr lng we make sure na kamustahin nmin isat Isa that's important sa relationship

  • @GeorginaFlows
    @GeorginaFlows 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Kryz and Slater! It's me, Georgina! Yes, just wanted to agree with Slater that working out or any movement type of practice, really, is always better and more effective to be done sporadically throughout the day even if it's as short as 5mins or 10mins, but more often in a day, compared to an hour long once a day or once a week. It's also a healthier approach for longevity. Love listening to you guys!

  • @llbuitre
    @llbuitre 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Kung gugustuhin, maraming paraan. Kung ayaw maraming dahilan. Yan yung quote sana Sir Slater. Hehe. 4:06

    • @joycefrilles
      @joycefrilles 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totoo naman eh. Kung workaholic at di ka magbibigay sa isang tao eh wag nag mag jowa. Makakasakit ka lang nang tao.

  • @belentot4717
    @belentot4717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "KUNG AYAW MAY DAHILAN, KUNG GUSTO PALAGING MERON PARAAN"

  • @bossg2817
    @bossg2817 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Hindi naman talaga sya busy (maybe), hindi ka lang talaga kasama sa mga top priorities nya."

    • @YourNOTOrdinaryGirlNabiii18
      @YourNOTOrdinaryGirlNabiii18 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree! Kaya dapat kung hindi ka top priority magboyfriend/girlfriend palang maghiwalay na. Ang unfair lang sa partner na laging nalileft out lalo na kung alam nya mismo worth nya na hindi nya deserve ang treatment na ganyan.

    • @bossg2817
      @bossg2817 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@YourNOTOrdinaryGirlNabiii18 I think kahit ndi naman ikaw yung top prio pag mag-bf/gf pa kayo, but atleast on top ka sa mga friends nya or next sa family.

  • @janlouisemakiling3474
    @janlouisemakiling3474 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Kung gusto maraming paraan, kung ayaw madaming dahilan”

  • @dfmedicalclinic9990
    @dfmedicalclinic9990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel the same way. Something I can relate to😅

  • @rhyzadebelen17
    @rhyzadebelen17 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    might as well ended it because red flags is showing already.no matter how busy a person is if he truly love his gf he will find a way to make time even 10 or 15mins.

  • @ma.bernadettesanantonio7063
    @ma.bernadettesanantonio7063 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's in manila as nurse and Im here in our province. I start reciprocating the energy that his giving to me I lost my excitement to tell him what happen for my whole day because his not listening and interested , not even saying GoodMorning or Goodnight.
    Kryz is right , I will not share or tell because I know he's not going to respond or even give back the same energy that I give.
    Im busy too , but I can give him a minute or a time to make an update to check him because I love him and he's important and that what the love is.

  • @elamanacap5528
    @elamanacap5528 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow Kryz 😮

  • @eysiaguilar1612
    @eysiaguilar1612 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kung gusto may paraan 😊

  • @belentot4717
    @belentot4717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Naalala ko lng yung break up ni Nas and his GF. prang ganito ung reason ni girl kaya sila naghiwalay, pero the way Nas put it in the video is like masyadong naging clingy si girl.

  • @urs3347
    @urs3347 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hi! I'm new here 🤭

  • @doktoraph
    @doktoraph 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I watched the whole podcast. I get the point of Kryz but parang nafeel ko yung burnout niya sa episode na to. Making hugots and half hearted jokes here and there. Haha. I just felt bad for Slater when he’s trying to make it up for Kryzz but medyo nashushutoff siya. Ayun lang 🙈

  • @galladeblade6001
    @galladeblade6001 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Skyfam forever! ❤

  • @simplevideosforsimplelife3080
    @simplevideosforsimplelife3080 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    being busy is okey as long its for your career,, but no time to send good morning/night hi hello? lols ,, leave that girl/guy its a waste of time.. not worth it

  • @hoykoya3382
    @hoykoya3382 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This podcast were recommended byg my friend. But kinda disappointed. I was waiting for you guys to advise the letter sender to communicate her feelings to her partner.
    Nagassume na na malicious yung intent nung guy. Mejo nag-skip kayo ng isang step sa problem solving. Remember that the virtues of emotional maturity is communication, trust and vulnerability. Mejo nawala yung communication sa advise niyo.
    Anyways,nagenjoy naman ako. More power!