Debating With My Mom About Relationship! *Gone Wrong* (Chai Talk Ep 32)
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Papa jee was basically called inadequate in every possible regard without explicitly saying it Bar for bar 😂😂😂😂
Its funny when a woman says it about a man, however if a man were to say it, they would be labeled as narcissist, toxic, misogynist etc etc etc
😂😂😂😂
I feel bad for him because they drag him through the dirt and all he’s done is not be super loving even though he stuck around & that’s more then a lot of dads do
I saw Ahmed and his fiance at my work 2 days ago on Sunday. They entered the store and my hands were shaking I'd been watching you guys on screen and now he came in the store in person, me seeing him in person lol. I wanted to meet them but I didn't wanna disturb them shopping around the shop. His fiance is beautiful Mashallah. May Allah bless their marriage!
Wajeeh, honestly you are being such a man here. Mama jee keeps mentioning throughout how inadequate and absent Papa jee was, and your only response is how she never forgets......
Even the moments where she mentioned his negligence during pregnancy, your response was the same. Imagine the agony of pregnancy and then having no support.
He pissed me off here. Hes not gona make a good husband
@@rabiamalik6113 exactly. He cannot comprehend these things
We need a Mama Jee and Papa Jee pod with her saying all this shit to him I wanna see what he’s got to say😂
So you want WW3
Papa g is chill he won’t say anything 😅
Whether you are on MaMaji team or Wajeeh team, they both do a great job by addressing important issues from a personal eastern cultural perspective. At least both of them are bringing important issues to the table and discussing it openly rather than just keeping those issues suppressed or sweeping them under the carpet! Keep up the great work!!!
Wajeeh you need to stop arguing with your mom. You should be positive even when your mom says something that makes you angry. Just take a moment, relax and calmly say "ok". It's difficult to change your mom's views so just let it go. Have as many positive experiences with your mom before it's too late ❤
Well said 👏
I always find him argumentative and also laughs it off at mum's experiences...
Mum's a hero...stay happy and stay blessed Wajeeh's mum...❤🎉🎉🥰
arguing and having different opinions is part of a human experience and its important to progress. Do you always just smile and keep quiet if people diagree with you? what a stupid statement.
The higher divorce rate in younger generation is not lack of bardasht but it is the MOMs who feel that their sons need to fill in their partners role. Thats why some compete with their bahus, others cling onto their sons, remaining just want to know it all just to feel important. Allah does not allow bf Mama jee. But he does allow Khulla. If you feel so much resentment then better replace the partner than clinging onto kids and manipulating them
When you have a partner who is emotionally, physically not present then only you can understand Mamajee's point. The men at that time were not taught how to be a husband so not their fault too
@@jawariarazaq8220 you dont need to ve taught to be a husband
I think it’s pretty obvious how uncomfortable wajeeh gets when his mom bashes his dad . I don’t think he’s being Insensitive to her , but he naturally can’t hear negative comments about his dad .
Wow this so so sad this is why personal conversations about pregnancy etc should not be talked about in public space. But I guess this the world we live in. Our parents lived a much happier life having respect and not sharing every damn thing like these days. Allah protect us all
Wajeeh really? thats your advice? "form a group to talk shit about your husband and then let it be" How about a person (man or woman) actually explains to their partner how they feel and the other person tries to understand and puts in more effort? How about men / women take actual responsibility for their behavior and try to become a better partner. My parents have been doing what you suggested and they're just petty as fuck. None of them wants to understand the other side. They both hold on to things and are not able to talk about anything because at this point so much already happened. Relationships need communication and rupture in order to grow. No one will forget anything unless the other person knows how they feel and tries to make an effort.
my father has been financially absent for us eventhough he has been there for us phsically. but for what he has done wrong i cant forget but at the same time i do appreciate what he has done for us and still love him to death .
Sorry, I don't agree with that regarding pregnancy, if mom happy child will have a happy personality or vice versa.
I had a hard, difficult, stressful pregnancy, and I was upset most of the time, and my child mashallah is the happiest bubble personality. So it's not true, in my opinion
Not the neighbors husband for a hug and kiss lol
Please start “cooking episodes” with mama jee and I’d love to see the bond of mother n son cooking real authentic Pakistani food in the kitchen and cope with the “following the direction “ tantrums 😂😂😂 .
THE LEGEND IS BACK.🌟.
My reaction before watching the video: so far so good, it’s cute so far!
Amazing thanks share your house buying process ❤
Ahmad! I feel for you lol
I feel sorry for her husband
YESSS so true! SO much scientific evidence. It is how you get a baseline for your nervous system responses. If you want to learn more I would look up Polyvagal theory by Stephan Porges.
I enjoy mama Jees talks esp when she talks about the past. Waieeh the end reaction was not good you could’ve said those things calmly as well.
Happy Belatedddddddd Birthdaayyyyyyyy Wajeeeeeeeeeeeeihiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Your mom loves you so much. After all the arguments and your disregard for her sentiments, she is giving you in the spotlight and asking everyone to pray for you.
Plus, you want her to let go of all the traumatic and heartbreaking incidents that she went through because her partner refuses to behave like a mature and responsible adult/husband but on the other hand you are always telling everyone how mamaji did not do this or how she used to whoop you etc. You should realise that it's not easy to just ignore and let go of everything.
It is not right whatsoever for someone publicly keep critiquing your parent like this to your face. Wajeeh although should be more respectful certainly has a right to be upset given how his mom just keeps bashing his dad in front of him. He obviously has good experiences with his father and that’s why he feels upset. I bet if the roles were reversed you would’ve complained in the opposite way smh
Mama and Aymen look so pretty Ma Shaa Allah ❤️
Wajji shutup yar . Smjnay ki koshish e nai krtay tum mama je ko. Show her some empathy. Mama je bardasht all your talk thats literall batmeeziyan the way you speak
you should have more guests on your podcast
I agree they have no emotional inv😊
Happy birthday Wajeehi.
Love your vlog ❤❤❤❤
I think your mom wants credit for everything.
Your dad obviously did stuff according to what he knows.
She always ditching her hubby.
Heyy
Wedding in oct in Cancun ?
Involvement
She doesn’t like her husband who she eloped with herself, what mother in the world says it took a while to fall in love with their child 🙄 Then the son who can’t control his temper. This mother son duo is a train wreck all the way! They are carbon copies of each other’s unstable personalities!
What do you mean eloped? as far as i know they met and married like any other couple. And people should just stop putting so much pressure on women to uphold this unattainable image of "the pure only loving mother who never gets upset and loves unconditionally". So many women suffer from post partum depression. thats a real thing. So many women do not feel an attachment to their children initially, thats normal. That doesnt make them any less of a woman or good mother. Educate yourself
@@_chapternumberone_8782 look up their previous convos. Ran from home in Pindi to US and got married to a man here by herself. Her post Partum depression seems to be 30+ years long at which time a woman should consult clinical help instead of taking it out on her kids.
Wajeeeh it depends on what kinda mistakes the man maked? shortcomin comings? wajeeh if your dad doesnt do something you can lol
Day 34664534568565 of Wajeeh recycling the same topic with his mother
Ok
Aunty could you please stop trashing your husband all the time. Whatever shortcomings he had or has can be discussed within yourself. Announcing it to the whole world would not make it any better. You are not perfect but he also compromised with you. I don’t know what to say seriously this is not nice at all.
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Came to this pod after wajeehs ig post but once again a headache with the aunty, she Does not represent desi moms or women even 1% such an embarrassment and i genuinely feel sorry for the kids! Sorry, dont know why uncles stuck
Up with crap all his life lol. Jeez not gonna bother watching rest
Mama jee is right Wajeeh ko toh Mauka chahiye hota hai to “put put put” 🤌