Simple Steps to Improve Your Marriage - Matt & Lisa Jacobson

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  • @essiesdancevidsandtravels6917
    @essiesdancevidsandtravels6917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's all in the little choices we make that say I love you rather than I love me mindsets

  • @Ladylothlorian
    @Ladylothlorian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I was in an uber going home from work and my driver blessed me with this. He said.
    "Wives already love, that is why they are called to submit. They have a hard time giving their desire to lead to their husbands. Husbands have a hard time loving, that is why they are called to love their wives. That doesn't come naturally."

    • @sanji546
      @sanji546 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t get it

    • @Ladylothlorian
      @Ladylothlorian ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sanji546 can you tell me what specifically don't you understand so that I can hopefully clear it up? 🙂

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    " An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments seperate friends like a gate locked with bars." Proverbs 18:19✝️
    "Sarcasm poisons your relationship
    Never ever speak in a sarcastic manner
    The heart closes incrementally over time
    A closed heart is most difficult to overcome"
    Wisdom
    Thanks for sharing

  • @chelseahoagland4250
    @chelseahoagland4250 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have these books. Hubby wouldn't read his but I tried to do some from mine to break out of the gutter a bit. I read the hubby book and saw how much he was already doing which helped me identify things I took for granted.

  • @kathycole1
    @kathycole1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What a godly couple.

  • @gobigten01
    @gobigten01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A wonderful marriage comes out of a lot choices to love you more than I love me... Says it all. Yeah, jokes at your own experience NOT your wife's. I also love being aware that your marriage is a treasure--it must be protected.

  • @TravelingwithJenny
    @TravelingwithJenny ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am buying these books today because of this show, my marriage is in a strained state with family, church, and work obligations and I want to get that living feeling back.

  • @GoldenPalm24
    @GoldenPalm24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This channel is GOLD!

  • @pmvang45
    @pmvang45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love these powerful messages. Thank you for sharing. Stay bless!!

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you, Matt & Lisa. This was very helpful. Think I'll get your books.

  • @sgrassman4212
    @sgrassman4212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Helpful, needed, grateful for their input and willingness to share. Also for Focus on the Family for All the videos, written materials, etc., etc.💓✝️

  • @chrisnkundizana7029
    @chrisnkundizana7029 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Lisa for being REAL!

  • @stephaniethompson7995
    @stephaniethompson7995 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is 100% correct... "pursue your wife!" Beautiful!

  • @user-nt1cm7gp8u
    @user-nt1cm7gp8u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really needed to hear this. Wow, amazing talk. Thank you!

  • @josephinewliu
    @josephinewliu ปีที่แล้ว

    starting from 4:30

  • @sarahlynnbaxter2225
    @sarahlynnbaxter2225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a fantastic video thank you

  • @kathrynford3529
    @kathrynford3529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How did I happen to click on the one that sp perfectly describes me and my husband? I'm sending this to him 😁

  • @sejalkothari6687
    @sejalkothari6687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you 🙏

  • @kapitanivanov
    @kapitanivanov 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this couple💗

  • @EdG-rn7dk
    @EdG-rn7dk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listening is key,. My wife easily gets upset if you don't agree with her. Unless she specifically ask for advise, it often best to confirm your hearing and be empathetic

  • @bonnieketterman6542
    @bonnieketterman6542 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed ur show I watch ur show faithfully ur show is really a sweet blessing t o me

  • @joyofsalvation100
    @joyofsalvation100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In western culture marriages are based on "Feelings". So if your spouse doesn't feel it, that marriage starts to collapse. That's why divorce rate is very high even in Christian marriages in America.

    • @shaungoodman4924
      @shaungoodman4924 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Light of the "western-marriage" hs lost it's shine

  • @theresablanchard3260
    @theresablanchard3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi is any way i can in this program?

  • @deals4u623
    @deals4u623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @kyleyoung8707
    @kyleyoung8707 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @SnookOnTheFly
    @SnookOnTheFly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Simple unless you and your wife’s father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies (marriage counselor’s diagnosis). I’m a third wheel in their life.

    • @kathietreachler5662
      @kathietreachler5662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hear you. My heart goes out to you.

    • @nwankaanze7018
      @nwankaanze7018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats an excuse friend, for you, not leading. He just filled a vacuum. Take charge of your marriage.

    • @SnookOnTheFly
      @SnookOnTheFly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nwankaanze7018 come hang out for a week and see if there’s a leading problem or a following problem.

  • @Allin1source
    @Allin1source ปีที่แล้ว

    Man and woman should do housework we both live together. We has couples should be has a team

  • @celestinebowman5887
    @celestinebowman5887 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Too late, divorce for a week now....my husband didn't want a marriage.

    • @Sarah08850
      @Sarah08850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry

  • @jillcooper6740
    @jillcooper6740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So he shammed her for not gushing over him like she did for a girlfriend who she doesn't see every day? Unreasonable! If a woman said something like to her husband like he did to her, she would be labeled as needy, or a complainer, or a b!&%$. But he can do it, and she is immediately shammed and convicted. Glad I ain't married to that guy!