15 Signs Your Mom Is a NARCISSIST!! (You're NOT Crazy, She's TOXIC!)
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- Have you thought to yourself that your own mom was a narcissist and that she was trying to control you and your life. Maybe she is trying to manipulate you and make you think that you are the crazy person and you might be a very nice daughter. You want the best for your mom, but it feels like she is taking out her failures on you.
Based on many women I have spoke to as a life coach I have noticed that its common for mother daughter relationships to be obstructed and dysfunctional. I've heard many women tell me that they are not cool with their mom and that their mother hates them for no real reason. Which lead me to make this video and give my honest opinion as a man and tell you the signs that your mom is a narcissist.
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They always had a problem with communication and they don't know how to build and and edify one another and work together as a team so they could not pass down how to train up a child with good communication and how to motivate and build one another up on a positive side of the coin instead of the flip side of the negativity and arguing and fussing and fighting
You see who women players that life to they either pass their life to God and Father his program or the place they allegiance to Satan the devil the government and everybody else and live a bad life
For many women, having children is the first time she experiences power over someone
Children are a blessing from God. Not all women choose to be mothers but if they become mothers they should never blame the child because the child didn't choose to be born. Love that child and be honest with them.
@@malibu6961Very deep and true.
Wow! That was deep! That's exactly my case! Thank you for sharing.
Man, I literally just cut ties with my mom. Then this video popped up. I know God is speaking to me
Sad truth my mother is jealousy of me and she’s definitely a narcissists.i hate us chosen one’s have to be born in a karmic family let’s stay strong chosen one’s 🗣🗣🗣🗣✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽🗣✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
Narcissists love you and hate you at the same time and this goes for friends or family members.😂😅😢
It's crazy
@@Mbaliez18 no joke
Definitely, my mother. She hated even more when I decided to build a relationship with my dad and even tried to make me feel bad for going to visit him. Growing up, she would always tell me much I acted, looked and talked like my dad. When I got older, I told her how that made me feel as a kid but I understood now, she couldn't control me either and I called her out on her manipulation and lies. I asked my dad before he passed why she blatantly lied on me. He said, well baby, misery loves company. It really put everything into perspective for me. She never celebrated any of my accomplishments but would bring up that ran away as a teenager and not take into account that she was the reason that I left. I'm 44 now and finally went no contact a few years ago, and anyone, including siblings, that still connected to her and enabled her behavior. Anything that I've done, she's always tried to tear it down or talk me out pursuing my goals. She's even sent my other siblings my way. I shut them down too.
It’s crazy because i truly have a been a victim to the manipulation and lies too. Had a great childhood but things changed as i got older. My mother did me in so much everything triggers my past to the point i reflect back on the situation. I tried talking to her multiple times, nothing works. Its truly sad..
My mom is a Deceptacon
@chiefguwopcockygang Yeah, I even asked her pastor to mediate so that we could fix our issues, and she declined without a second thought and was even more mad because I took it to him. I'm thinking, he's your pastor, and you speak so highly of him. What better person to mediate. That was the end for me, and that was before Covid. The peace that came with separation has been worth it.
@chiefguwopcockygang It really is. My brother recently cut ties to her and told me that I was right about everything. All it took was him being hurt for the last time, and it was definitely uncalled for.
This topic right here, is whats gonna start the wave of healing in the community
This is facts parent be showing favoritism compare and taking no accountability I literally had my parent come to my house frowning at me, and when I looked at them, they tried to act like they wasn’t frowning at me where they do that, huh? And I still don’t have hurt in my heart heart toward them
This video is on point, I'm a SURVIVOR of an ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC MOTHER, who my ENTIRE LIFE would beat on me, would mentally abuse me, she would threaten to have my father killed, would take all my money, never ever to this day will acknowledge any of my accomplishments, that's okay though because I have finally figured out that she's full of self hate struggling with her own inner demons unwilling to change, I've forgiven her and here recently TRIED having a relationship with her and I just can't, she's just TOXIC, and continues to play the VICTIM, I won't tolerate it, I put her in her place, as everyone else is AFRAID of her, I'm living for Christ and want nothing more to do with her, I forgive her, and will love her from afar
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My mother was a malignant narcissist, and it rubbed off on my sister being a narcissistic golden child. Also, it rubbed on my brother being a flying monkey. My mother was my worst enemy, her and my siblings are far worse off in life than I am. Glory to God
Same situation, and everybody else hit rock bottom frfr
That lady makes me so sick. Her energy is always off with me and my children. I came to the conclusion that we don't like each other
My Family is full of snakes 🐍
This is so true I’m glad I caught it and started healing so I won’t do it to my kids. My Mom
Is just like this and I figured out everything about the witch craft that hurt me most
Im a survivor of narcissistic mother too….
Big Bro Tren this message was needed. I have come to accept that my family is narcissistic esp on my moms side of the family. It’s a harsh reality to know that my mothers love was conditional and was being groomed to be my mothers lifetime supply.
Yoo that’s crazy
This Resonate With Me So Much. My Momma Always Have Something Negative To Say When I Tell Her Something Good That I'm Trying To Do. That's Why I Tell Her Anything. Just Because She Never Accomplished Anything In Her Life. Why Try To Stop Me!
All parents are supposed to be role models for their kids to be a parent is a gift from God
Thanks for keeping it 100 sadly to say my mother is prideful, egotistic and spiteful it never takes accountability and can never admit when she is wrong.
Tren I am a British Born Indian and it truly is very bad in my culture too. It is hidden and alot of the Indian narcissistic parents when you meet them they look so sweet and innocent and you would never believe how evil they are behind closed doors. They always make the world think it is the child's fault and never theirs. Big Sis JP xx
Yeah my mom definitely my biggest ENEMY and it’s hurtful to know that but I must admit it now
Man Tren.. this is some divine timing for real. I was just spending the last few days with my mom and it ended with me in tears and feeling totally drained from her fighting me and blaming many things on me and the side of my family she's estranged from now because of her being so blatantly toxic, most of my family members cut her off. Since she's my mom, I suppose has been my reasoning, I've given her so many chances and was giving our broken relationship a chance for growth but she always goes back to her ways and cruel behavior. This makes me feel validated in the situation, thx for confirmation. 🙏
Tren speaking Ancestor energy, the truth shall set you free 🗣️🙏🏾
Thank God my mother was the best. I miss her everyday even after 30 years without her. A GEM people want you to live in the same cycle of failure. My mom was adventurist to the end.
You speaking facts I dealt with my mom for 41 years just came to realization 3 years ago 🤦🏽♀️
Yes, yes, and yes! I’m taking care of my mother now and she is so mean and negative to me. Just now realizing she has always been this way for me. Now in the process of self healing. She has always been my problem. Never realized because of the label of mother. Truth, truth, and more truth you are telling.
That's So True The Devil Use those who are close to Us
Soon as I saw the title, I clicked on, cause my mother is a toxic narcissist. She sees me elevating and she is getting mad. I feel like a real life Cinderella. She gets mad because I see her for who she is.
I hear you from experience (re: mum). At the end of the day yes they will be your biological parent. But after years of neglect you begin to focus on you and you have to remove yourself from the negative energy, let it go, move forward and know your worth. Yes they choose to bring you into the world (and although it states in the good book Exodus 20:12 to honour thy father and mother) it doesn't mean you have to tolerate the emotional, mental abuse they may throw at you. Whatever's going on in the parents life they're putting their issues/demons out on you. especially if you haven't done anything wrong to deserve the treatment. Know your worth, move forward and let them deal with whatever's going on with them. If you have been disrespectful to your parents then you need to communicate with them and apologies. If not let it go and live your life. Don't waste your life/energy trying to figure it out. Love yourself first, do the things that make YOU happy and everything else will fall into place. Sending luv and light ❤❤
I figured that out growing up confirmation Big brother tren true story real talk 🎯🎯💯💯❗❗
My mom is a pathological liar and only calls me two days before pay day for cigarettes and if I can't bring them she won't call me for days because she give me attitude. I can't even confined in her as a mom because she'll immediately call the rest of the family and add extra stories to a story I told out of needing comfort.
This is what I been going threw and still do
I had to stop telling her stuff and her jealousy has been going on since i was a teenager. She hated when she had to buy me clothes and shoes we argued every year until i moved out at 17 and thats bc my grandmother use to make her do it smh
Big Brother Tren everything you said is Truth and I really appreciate you speaking on this topic. Before running into you're channel I thought I was crazy. I Love You❤❤❤❤
Whew chile Big Brotha Tren you are my screen therapist. You spoke so much of my mom to me every word you stated remind me of my mom
This right HERE‼️It’s really sad but the Good lord opened my eyes 👀 FULLY & I’m so grateful that God blessed me with the gift 🎁 of discernment & too be a chosen one🙌🏽I just learn to love people from a distance…while Praying 🙏🏽 for them! And the good Lord will do the rest‼️🤞🏽🩷
Tren you on point, I know some moms that are sooo toxic, that they’ll even attempt to sleep with their daughters husbands ‼️ SMH
My baby mommas mom was interested in me. Its a power move.
You really speak facts🗣️ every video u make🙏🏼
My mother has even sent people my way to mess with me. My mother is so envious! She'll envy the most insignificant things. If I get home with something in my hands, I have to do a basketball trick to hide whatever I'm carrying because she'll monitor everything; envy is so powerful, that stuff falls from my hands (and I was a very good ballplayer!). You're right!.. when I graduated, she upped the envy, when I mention anything about my profession, you can see the disgust in her face, the envy.
I pray for her.
Going through this my own blood 🩸 hate me but act like they love me and so it’s cuz I’m a BABY TO THEM SMH 🤦🏿♂️
I definitely am big bro this what I'm going through exactly praise the most high Luke 12:53
This video will help
@@TrenGeniusit has
Yup. U be wanting to take up for them, but after so long.. people gone show they’re the PROBLEM & who they really are 💯
Family in general are psycho narcs. I seen this growing up. We just little sheep wondering lost. To many drill Sargents and boot camp style reality there forcing on you. You miss out on Learning vital important knowledge because they jealous and incapable of providing the help required to raise a child . It's real sad out here. This world is so wicked and cruel. Life truly is all spiritual. I was done nasty so I know this subject to good. We in school Learning how to be successful, but this is really what needs to be taught at school.
Shit crazy you definitely speaking to me my mom staying with me right now Im 34 have 3 kids and a man and stays with us she has a job making $30+ an hour and she dont want to leave but want to stay here with us and complain like we in her house and then on top of that she dont like paying to be here she always have an excuse as to why she dont have any money Im soooo over it man now Im feeling like she wont leave because she just want to know my every move she dont want me to make moves without her knowing 😩🤦🏾♀️
Shit on point my boi. Mother's love u as long as they can control ur actions. As soon as u live life ur way and become independent the love turns into hate
Yep. Tell you to grow up, be a man/woman.. then hate when you do. Complete ignorance
Videos like this serve is therapy because I know I’m not alone. My mother was a straight Jezebel and almost want to puke every time I hear someone speak about how sweet and nice my mother was. They have no idea and if I ever tried to tell them they wouldn’t listen
I needed this message. I appreciate it, that's real
A lot of confirmation.
I cut my mom off a month ago, I realized she’s toxic and my other family members hate me too. She only tries to use me and take what I have. She literally asked for the watch, shoes purse I’m wearing. She has a husband and wanted to use my credit for herself smh 🤦🏻♀️ it’s crazy Fr
U really speak facts 🌍listen
Turn up the video
@@TrenGenius thanks again
Dude it's crazy how your video drops right on time in the needed situation. God is great. Amazing content
"Maybe she is trying to manipulate you and make you think that you are the crazy person" 100% Your Video comes at the right time... Gaslighting to the Extreme.
I see my daughters moms just hating on my daughter all the time… I’m sending her this video my brother!
Amen 🙏
Omggggg spot on my mom… lord it hurts help us 😢
This is the story of my life and the said part is im her only child and to put the icing on the cake she gets her family to do her dirty work while she sits back and play stupid
She's pessimistic everytime bruh I try to get a word in she cant see a world without her being right all the time
My mom wasn’t getting along with my sister at one point. When I wanted to talk or spend time with my sister she threatened to throw me out. My mom is extremely controlling and abusive. I’m 32 married with 2 kids. I cut her and my dad off. They were extremely toxic.
I’m crying.. you nailed this one!!❤
Oh man Tren I have the worst Narcissistic mother in the entire universe from day 0 when I landed on Earth. I had to go no contact in my 40s she is that nasty. It all started just because I was a female and she wanted her firstborn to be a male. You would never believe the ways she has been trying to erase me. so that she can live a life as if my brother is the oldest. Nasty woman turned my father and siblings against me and even they have become like her. But I have gotten over the nasty woman it took decades but I have healed. I sometimes wonder how could a chosen one like me be born from such an evil person. Big Sis JP xx
Sad, sad,sad, but facts all day long. Where are you at with that nice weather? You have a tank on in October.
💯 on point started at 13yrs old. And sibling rivery. And 💯 right about The ignorant evil as jealous women and more.
they hate truth big bor...... keep speaking truth..... i love you for that sh$t
Jealousy/vanity/Ignorance/misery loves chosen ones company. Don't fall 🧿🌹💜🔥🔥🔥
You are speaking nothing but Truth, I'm having to step away from my mother and I know GOD is telling me to stay away
So glad I found you brother. My dad, older sister and ex husband are narcissists. I’ve been through it for 45 years. My mom is kind of just avoidant- it’s how she copes with my dad and older sister I guess. ❤
I can't stand when people wanna watch or follow you on social media when they don't like you, they're just nosey. I'm not even looking or thinking about these people from my past I've moved on.
She’s a covert narcissist, I called her out. Never want to talk or see her again, I’m so good on it.
God heald me from all that when I was a kid she said her mama treated her carelessly when she was a kid my mother is still traumatized till this day she is very jealous of me.
Mr.tren I always called my grandma my mother that lady take really care of me wolf black sheep to my relatives they very jealous of me before grandma passed away 7 months aga real mother drop me off front of her porch left me there never came back I thank God for that lady appreciate her now she my angel
been going through this my whole life
Preach big bro!!! 🧿🌹💜💜💜💜💜💜
I'm experiencing this as well and made mistake by letting my mom back in to my life. She has a demonic energy because of alcoholism. Thank you for this video ❤🔥
My Mother is a Narcissist ! I had to let her go it's been 5 yrs now... ( off Topic you look good today Trennnnn 😶🌫)
8:03 my 2 daughters at 20 & 25 are much much greater than Me 🙌🏽🤩✊🏾
Tren You just ATE this video up MAKE THIS VIRAL YALL....this is all Facts
I'm sending this to my mom rn
Mad because you'd rather follow God.....this was so so real!
10:58 yep, she wished me away from my dad. They were unmarried 20yo college students in'63. That was unheard of. I had an amazing life w/grandparents!
Yessss yessss yessss spot on no lies detected here and I thank God daily for bringing me out of darkness and into the light! I'm still here still standing ten toes down...No body but God...Amen!! Thank you for this message this is triple confirmation! Close that door let go and heal become the best version of self to be a better you!
U are speaking the truth 😢😢😢
this is my real brother fr i keep going back and re watching from years ago and it hits different
Thank u 4 tellin da truth a judge once told me dat as long as my Moma was in my Life I will neva reach my full potentials I was in da system & she's still doin da same thing & I have grnd kids now & dey see it
Thank you for this message Big Bro Tren you opened my eyes to alot of things happening in my family. 🖤🖤🖤
Yes...we, as chosen ones=divinily childs=worthy watchers=spiritually pures...remaining mirror of true Love...with one heart...host of entire world...sadly misleaded/deceived outside...we are all real witnesses: it's the darkest work of the ego/evil spirit to destroy on earth the meaning of "family"...planted since the beginning of creation!
Man if tren ain’t on point I don’t know what y’all believing in 😤💯🙏😢👌🏼
Enjoy the video sis 🙏🏽
Stating facts!!!! It mainly be the mothers and not the fathers! Not excluding them but my dad is one of my best friends, he doesn’t treat me how my mom USED to before I created healthy boundaries 💯💯💯
My mom is very very negative but I overlooked it because of the title she had which was being my mom and she did nothing but took advantage of that title and destroyed everything I ever worked hard for in my life because she manipulated me out of everything . When I looked at her as my best friend my whole world apparently she looked at me as a object with batteries in my back smh sad it's sad man
Thank you Trens
My mother is the best thing in my life and my daughter I'm a mother I'm a real queen here.😊👑🐝
Everything that you have said in this video is a 110% true. My own mother who hates is mad at the simple
Fact that I am not a ho like her. All she did was Ho and party back in the day. And, still somewhat does it now.
I don’t tell her none of my business because she run her mouth too much. She verbally makes up shit about me that I never do and calls people and tell them. I am the third oldest out of four children to ever graduate college. We do not have a close bond nor a good relationship. Yes, I tried as much as I can. She’s cut off completely from my energy. I am glad that we are in our last days, because everything that she said bad about me and did bad to me. She’s now reaping God’s Wrath/God’s Karma. God got me Tren. I will be ok.
My life…found out when I was 33. Don’t talk about friends for the chosen ones. I always uplifting every woman around me. They was always lowkey cut throat. But yeaaaaa my mama be on one
Bless her soul lol, it was a empowering moment in my life realizing the truth. I like jordan petersons talk on the devouring mother.
Well said Big Bro 🙏
I realised this year the probably sadly truth about just that.
And from that point i could start working on myself ..thanks to youtube and many facts that spoken and explained from the view of children thats been raised by a probably narcissistisk mother. I was the scapegoat now i realised. She made almost the hole family turn my back because of that i finally spoke out about a tragic situation in my childhood.
Its painful when you realised the truth tru life.. what i didnt want to see. But the final good of it is that Im finally free..
But of course heeling Will take time, some days you strong and some day so small. But i have broke the curse in the familyband and thats good😃🙏
My Mom is under demonic oppression because she refuses to forgive family members for past issues, as a result she's been attacking me for years.
Just cut ties with a lot of my family that think like the other toxic people in my family.
My Big Bro Tren Is Speaking Real Wisdom And Truth 💯💪
I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS SINCE... CHILDHOOD...SHE PASSED THE GENERATIONAL CURSE ONTO MY SISTER, AND NOW MY SISTER'S DAUGHTER 😢IS CARRYING ON THE SAME TOXIC WAY! IT'S A TRAGEDY!!! MY ONLY PEACE, IS THAT GOD SEES 👀 IT ALL!!!
You the truth I’m an angel in my own way Respect….
Before I was this giant, this woman told me to be nice. She told me that because I was on the web/entanglement/social media being mean. I was so ignorant, arrogant, and so blind that I didn't have insight of what she was trying to tell me. Now after some hard knocks in life I understand. I read this number on the web, it told me to get on the right track. I will DO that and take that as a WARNING ‼️🙏🏾🧘🏾♂️
Children too!
Your right God bless you brother.
This is sad but true! 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Every word this man said describes my mother in law
My mom doesn't act jealous but she didn't want me to live too far she wants me to be safe. I still live with them so I'll have to see if things change when I start to do better😬🤔 and come back here. I believe every word being said because of hearing about broken households in the black community.