CUT PEOPLE OFF WITHOUT WARNING!!! .. NO NEED TO [EXPLAIN] WHAT THEY DOING WRONG ANYMORE

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  • @TrenGenius
    @TrenGenius  3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

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    • @Mosaic_Mirror
      @Mosaic_Mirror 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      shit feeling

    • @Mosaic_Mirror
      @Mosaic_Mirror 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i mean really shitty i’m wanting to not b here

    • @rachelwilliams9407
      @rachelwilliams9407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont have any money rite now to book... but I will

    • @abdb5471
      @abdb5471 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      u I’m dry I it noother

    • @warrenmcnair2812
      @warrenmcnair2812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cut you off 😂🤗 fast as lighting, I am not going to deal with suckaz who thought they are getting away, getting down on thee. Suckaz always, almost every time cut there self of from real blessing thinking I am some sweet shit to play. Guess what, I am still moving, they cut their own self off" yet they're still choosing, playa I am not moving.

  • @BeautifulbyDesign
    @BeautifulbyDesign 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    Man, people will literally run you in the ground and replace you as soon as they throw the dirt on your casket. Let. It. Go!! 💯

  • @GArmand715
    @GArmand715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    If ppl don’t have your best interest let them go some ppl don’t deserve second chances !!

  • @CC-pu6qn
    @CC-pu6qn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Most of the time these grown people know what they are doing. I don’t know why they take kindness for weakness, kind does not mean dumb 😒

    • @Justmelanin
      @Justmelanin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right they be grown asl and be acting oblivious like they know what they doung that toxic aries was in my life for 4 years .contiously dping the same stuff takin my kindness for weakness. Yes u said it right kind does not mean dumb. Glad she out my life. God been tryna cut her from me for a minute

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Justmelanin When God gives you signs, always take heed.

    • @gabbysambienceofrivers4813
      @gabbysambienceofrivers4813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      PREACH! 💯💯

    • @marlybanks1100
      @marlybanks1100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Justmelanin z

  • @dantepepper
    @dantepepper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    Don’t let the toxic affect your vibration

  • @DivineFlow7
    @DivineFlow7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Universe taught me to invest all that love and support into myself. Complete isolation of family that led to HEALING.

    • @MissingMyMommy
      @MissingMyMommy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💪🏾💯

    • @Nain617
      @Nain617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I completely understand .same for me .

    • @tanasiagoode5293
      @tanasiagoode5293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same for me hope everything is well we will get through this god bless 🤞🏾💕

    • @JGreen-ky3dg
      @JGreen-ky3dg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same for me

    • @JGreen-ky3dg
      @JGreen-ky3dg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @JB'S Freestyle Music same 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢

  • @lamaralvarez7385
    @lamaralvarez7385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Never re respect the one who snaked you.

  • @blakedaley8909
    @blakedaley8909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    Things that can raise your vibration/improve your life:
    -No fap/Semen retention
    -Try to drink a gallon of water a day
    -Meditate
    -Not relying on anyone else for your happiness
    -Loving Yourself
    -Sun Gazing
    -Vent to yourself
    -Working out
    -Reading books
    -Having a leader mentality
    -Cold showers
    -Eating less
    -Fasting
    -Having/Expressing gratitude for Everything
    -Cutting out fast food
    -Eat to live, not for pleasure
    -Not comparing yourself to others
    -Only compete with yourself
    -Affiliations
    -Getting nature
    -Get some sun
    -Not caring what others think
    -Cut out sugary drinks
    -Sober lifestyle
    -Getting 7-8 hours of sleep
    -Taking vitamins
    -Use Fluoride free toothpaste
    -Eliminate fear of death
    -Smile and laugh more
    -Free your mind

    • @supastar2044
      @supastar2044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Absolutely thanks for sharing this.

    • @mawbeautiful881
      @mawbeautiful881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Words to live by

    • @designsbye3819
      @designsbye3819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love this! Thank you for sharing.

    • @Tehkia02
      @Tehkia02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏🏽thanks

    • @hmgclipz6808
      @hmgclipz6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You’re a Godsend dude. God bless your soul!

  • @lynncarnegievogl8220
    @lynncarnegievogl8220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I was tired of being nice. Stopped doing for my haters and cut them off. I am healthier physically, emotionally, and mentally.

  • @relentlessunstoppable675
    @relentlessunstoppable675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    You must learn to cut off people who don’t resonate with you mentally,spiritually,emotionally,physically,etc. And learn to bring spiritual beings who want to improve themselves and be the best person they can be.
    This is when you will experience true happiness prosperity,abundance,joy,love etc. climb up the conscious table don’t climb down.

    • @janiceb8288
      @janiceb8288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      WORD 🤜🏽🤛🏽

    • @cevonnamarie00
      @cevonnamarie00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg!! This is so true. I have to make a major cut off and I know when I do I will have all that. I can feel it. You just said basically what I hear in my head everyday

    • @FernandoIfillRuiz
      @FernandoIfillRuiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Starting this year 2022 I’m cutting off my own family loose and moving on with my own life.

    • @kenishahammond3935
      @kenishahammond3935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that was powerful!

  • @daoriginalr.h.s.t.3020
    @daoriginalr.h.s.t.3020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    That's why I have no girls as friends and zero guy friends and no help and support from family members because they are in competition with me and be hating on me and I see that they were fake people all along. Being in isolation is my best friend to me because I draw closer to God.

    • @undercoverskelett6975
      @undercoverskelett6975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here feel it 🙏🏽

    • @victorialevy431
      @victorialevy431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did the same thing. Isolate and focus on God. Plus I'm celibate. That keeps me very focused also. God bless you always.

    • @sarahm2054
      @sarahm2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💚

    • @goldenfaithtx
      @goldenfaithtx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly...then they come around mad ..saying you don't have friends. I have the new replacements who are good for me spiritually.not old jealous envious ones. Sometimes its good alone too...don't need them only God anyway. However I notice God always sends good souls at certain times when needed.

    • @victorialevy431
      @victorialevy431 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahm2054 💜💜💜

  • @valeriewilliams7035
    @valeriewilliams7035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Watch all these jealous spirits is getting ready to come because we are about to blow up and they aren't ready to go where's God's is taking us. Hallelujah..

    • @sidsualsweets.1211
      @sidsualsweets.1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Absolutely they mad before you even get there.

    • @kandrayatv
      @kandrayatv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glory! 🙌🙌🙌

    • @laneyljk
      @laneyljk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sidsualsweets.1211 Exactly you ain't lying

  • @MrLeroyJacob
    @MrLeroyJacob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    "You not a therapist" this is where I went wrong. Everybody always called me to talk about their PROBLEMS and that started to tear away at my soul. They rarely call with good news or call to invite me out for some fun. Now I just stopped it all and am living alone, so that I can heal myself and hopefully find people more on the same path that I am. I fell for the trap of trying to be loyal to lifelong friends that are no longer serving me. Friends that are still doing the same thing from 25 years ago but make me feel guilty for wanting to change my life for the better.

    • @amandakropen3273
      @amandakropen3273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I got so sick of these phone calls too.....the negative energy was sucking me dry!!!

    • @LordTariq
      @LordTariq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wow....well said!🎯

    • @hyberkonawa272
      @hyberkonawa272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LordTariq I give my last message saying "Your not helping, I'm done!" then I blocked this person.
      Does blocking someone in silence, is much better than send a last message just like I did?
      Please tell me your opinion.

    • @akl1054
      @akl1054 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yo my life story

    • @thebeamli
      @thebeamli ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This his the nail in the head. People only call me about their problems. Then I'm left drained. I am a social worker by trade but I'm tired of being strong for everyone else. 😪

  • @staciquinton2794
    @staciquinton2794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I have been there to help my family members and when they began to disrespect me, and treat me like my feelings don't matter, I cut them off.
    I don't have time for foolishness. They are going to miss me, because I was good to them. Their loss my gain. 7-13-2021(Tues)

    • @iamLucciMane
      @iamLucciMane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ME AS WELL, QUEEN.👁❗❗❗it's tough but we'll be good and aight.❗❗💯3x.🔥Thanks for this word Tren.❗💯3x.🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾👋🏾☝🏾#thaone😈💜 tuesday.- (7/13/2021)

    • @mystalegacy
      @mystalegacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I root with ur words "no time for foolishness" 👍🏿✨

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Never feel guilty in letting go off toxic people,they don't care when they drain your energy

  • @lordlovesme8281
    @lordlovesme8281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    You speaking the truth. If you have more withdrawals than you have deposits you become spiritually bankrupt. Thank you for always given us the Intel

  • @jasmineallen725
    @jasmineallen725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    The two dislikes are from haters that got dropped from the people you preachin to. Tren keep shining King 👑

  • @queenofwands6494
    @queenofwands6494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    The worst people are people who "NEED" your Energy.. if that's the case, then cut them off as quick as you can.. Period!! ⭐👊⭐
    In this sense: Starseed Sagittarius Power! ♐⭐✌⭐
    God bless you all! 😊🖐🖐

    • @infiniteg7852
      @infiniteg7852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sagittarius is the best !

    • @kandrayatv
      @kandrayatv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sag gang! 🏹

    • @SG-xj2iy
      @SG-xj2iy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Horoscopes are from the devil

  • @bear8803
    @bear8803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Constant reminder. Liars, stalkers, emotional manipulators. I will never forget what they did to me. It’s unforgivable, but I choose to forgive because I have to. I will never go back to the way things were. I won’t allow them back into my life again. I will never allow energy vampires take advantage of me again. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @bobbyjohnson4002
    @bobbyjohnson4002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Time to shut people down stop dealing with people that don't care about you anyway 😕

  • @crystalray2475
    @crystalray2475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    That's y I have more family by love not blood. Thank ya honey. I was always one of those. A people pleaser . I thought that I should always be nice no matter what. Not any more. 🦋

    • @CrimsonFantasy
      @CrimsonFantasy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No more of that

    • @c.7093
      @c.7093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      BIG FACTS ! YA REAL FAMILY DONT ALWAYS SHARE YA BLOOD. SOMETIMES YA BLOOD FAMILY IS TOXIC.

    • @paulinelawrence5231
      @paulinelawrence5231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nice I’m Happy for you
      I’m on the journey.
      And is sad when it’s your own Family.
      But GOD is GREAT 🙋🏾‍♀️✝️❤️🙏🏾💯🩸🇯🇲🇬🇧

    • @MrLeroyJacob
      @MrLeroyJacob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@c.7093 My family is the most toxic, and they don't even realize it 😖 they call ME crazy

    • @Express2BU
      @Express2BU 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blessings Queen enough is enough! 👏🏾

  • @runthomas
    @runthomas ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this poor guy has been chewed up proper in life by his friends.
    and now he is sharing some good advice.

  • @mslisaplace
    @mslisaplace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This young man has made a very big difference in my life! I have been going through this all my life and I am 50 years old now. Don't wait as long as I did.

  • @Blackmambama
    @Blackmambama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Just deleted my FB, insta and now twitter. I dont want these same people I cut out reach me ever again.

    • @n3wj3rs3y
      @n3wj3rs3y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @SALAAMAKBAR-p9x
      @SALAAMAKBAR-p9x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THATS WHAT U HAVE 2 DO

    • @mermaidlu5125
      @mermaidlu5125 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s the first part 💯

    • @misfitdess3222
      @misfitdess3222 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And now they are texting my phone!! It was revealed they are monitoring spirits... I'm not texting back any of them back now that I've gotten confirmation.

  • @KvngTone
    @KvngTone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I got tired of being nice and had to put my foot down! My favorite answer is Now “NO” & it’s called growth!

  • @michellebrown6983
    @michellebrown6983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I just sent out a birthday dinner invitation to some people recently and never heard from them. I just cut them off and see them for who they are. In this covid19 season so many people are surely showing their true colors. Its fine, my name is Michelle Brown and I'm sticking to my writing ministry which I'm doing a common good for. Amen!

    • @sherrijohnson3399
      @sherrijohnson3399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen Sister Michelle 👑🌷💎🤩🙏🤍🌹Your Starseed Family Is With You🙏🤍🌹🙏🤍🌹🙏🤍🌹

    • @michellebrown6983
      @michellebrown6983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sherrijohnson3399 thanks.

    • @kimberlyagee7338
      @kimberlyagee7338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They could have at least called and said whether or not they felt comfortable going to your dinner because of covid.I would have it was me.I would never hurt someone feelings by not responding at all because I wouldn’t want anyone to do me like that even though they have but I’m good now .Things like that don’t bother me anymore either you with me or you not.

  • @minibikemike7915
    @minibikemike7915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't call people text people or go around people and let all that s*** come to me first and if they don't then I don't get a hold of nobody

  • @sabrinaturner5813
    @sabrinaturner5813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    2 Corinthians 14....about being unequally yoked this is what Tren is talking about their spirit and yours. You will have problems being able to do anything because these negative energy people will pull you down. Spot on🤗

    • @thedamagereport2924
      @thedamagereport2924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      T.h.a.n.k.s. f.o.r w.a.t.c.h.i.n.g f.o.r . m.o.r.e i.n.f.o o.r g.u.i.d.a.n.c.e.
      W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P::::
      +1•6•0•9•7•4•1•8•5•8•6

    • @InfiniteMind9
      @InfiniteMind9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The bibles not for everyone. multiple Rasict verses and there 4500+ religions that all think there right

    • @destinyshae07
      @destinyshae07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2 Corinthians 6:14

    • @sabrinaturner5813
      @sabrinaturner5813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@InfiniteMind9 2nd Corinthians 6:14 is not speaking of racism it's about Christians hanging out with non Christians and getting into trouble because their beliefs are different. God loves everyone no matter what their race is.

    • @currychapo
      @currychapo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrinaturner5813 The Bible makes God sound like a narcissistic asshole. “I am the Lord thy God, thou shalt not have any gods before Me.”- God. Then he kicks out a creation HE made out of heaven because, said creation had aspirations to be just as great. Doesn’t get any more petty than that.

  • @bangelic6471
    @bangelic6471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My situation was a little different. My cousin would call me for support but wouldn’t really act like she needed support but I guess my motivational energy did something for her. I then found myself involved in the things she was doing in life and my focus was taken off my own personal self growth. I then started to feel powerless. One day she called and I having a melt down, she hurried up and tried to get off the phone then. They’ll come and steal your energy then leave you hanging.

    • @lyn9415
      @lyn9415 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Something similar happened to me with an old friend.
      I literally have to love her from a distance now. I completely stopped picking up her phone calls and responding to text.

  • @hiraiii777
    @hiraiii777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This resonated wit my soul reflection

  • @mechimichelle6098
    @mechimichelle6098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Tren I’m a believer now because an old friend reached out to me and did this at the last minute. They knew they were driving long distance snd cancelled at the last minute dinner . I was glad because I really did not want the entanglement with this individual. You’re absolutely amazing 🔥🔥🔥🤴🏽

  • @familysquadd7767
    @familysquadd7767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm tired of being nice big bro!!!! I'm blocking and releasing people that serve me no good!!!! They know what they doing!!!

  • @acajudi100
    @acajudi100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please include family members, for they can be worst and deadly! You are 100% correct!

  • @kimberleyamber4918
    @kimberleyamber4918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️💫💫💫Good energy coming your way love and no one will shut that door 🚪 ❤️

  • @MahirB430
    @MahirB430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you brotha! Stop giving your time, energy, resources, and money to these people. Their energy vampires and all around us. Trust me it took me a decade to learn this lesson.

  • @RadSusie
    @RadSusie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Listteeennnn! This is the truth! I will never entertain a karmic again

  • @marvanewborn2287
    @marvanewborn2287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    😂😂😂"SHE DON'T GIVE 'YOU' SHYT, SO STOP GIV'IN 'HER' SHYT"!!😂😂😂

  • @mygodisawesome6121
    @mygodisawesome6121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m going through this right now. Finding out about fake friends and hating family members. Especially the relatives. They hate you when you don’t have shit to give them. They don’t come to any of my gatherings, they rolled their eyes when I bought my daughter a car, etc. I can go on and on. I just cut them off with no explanation.

  • @GodsSpoiledBrat
    @GodsSpoiledBrat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This message was for me … I just BLOCKED all of them. F’em

    • @thedamagereport2924
      @thedamagereport2924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      T.h.a.n.k.s. f.o.r w.a.t.c.h.i.n.g f.o.r . m.o.r.e i.n.f.o o.r g.u.i.d.a.n.c.e.
      W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P::::
      +1•6•0•9•7•4•1•8•5•8•6

  • @sharonbenjamin9310
    @sharonbenjamin9310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Trenius ain't lying because I've experienced this with people who I've realized weren't willing to be a positive source of support in my life! #YourJealousyAndEnvyIsShowing

  • @bernadetteconnell5668
    @bernadetteconnell5668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They take your kindness for weakness;!! But i know just the antidote for them

  • @marcusbaker5866
    @marcusbaker5866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Slice and dice 💯🙌🏾💫⭐️

  • @ElevatingEnergy
    @ElevatingEnergy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I had to drop someone without warning that I loved very much but she wasn’t a true “friend” to me. She always called to talk about her issues with guys or to talk about people she was very close to. One day for the first time she came to my house after knowing her for years and pulling up on her when she needed me, spirit showed me her true self. I saw it and the hate was so deep but I didn’t understand at the moment. Spirit showed me everything that I overlooked each time I mean showed me eaaaaach time she was blatantly hating the most and it was times she was suppose to be there for me and it ended up with me being there for her and nothing we connected to do for me happened. I felt bad for cutting her off but that’s because when I love people and when I invite them in I genuinely have love for them. I don’t even understand people like that for real. Spirit started showing me how she called to talk about people she claim to love the most, how she was the one that was taking ideas from people but claimed people were stealing her ideas. She even started selling an idea that I told her about. I know that I have to learn to listen to my inner intuition when it’s showing me things but I overlooked just because of my love for her. People are really miserable and the smile they show is nothing but a mask. I’m thankful for finally waking up and seeing her for who she really is and not for what I wanted to see her for. One thing I can say is she did tell me who she was in a sense but not the fact that she’s a big hater and very envious of those she’s around. Wheeeeew I’m glad I was watching your video on someone’s live and found you. Keep speaking truth and revealing what most don’t see. I see but I use overlook but not any longer. Gratitude ✨💜

  • @bigche5859
    @bigche5859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is just what I needed today…. I’ve cleaned house.. nobody left…. I’m starting over… winners and star seeds only 💯💫

    • @EarthAngel8989
      @EarthAngel8989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel ya..Im right there too...

    • @sherrijohnson3399
      @sherrijohnson3399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Phat Roster!👑💎🙏👑💎🙏👑💎🙏

  • @gereinhart4155
    @gereinhart4155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Treat yourself like a championship team. Keep your starters head in the game because 2nd and 3rd string players get cut. They don’t get to play! Make them watch you in all off your glory from the sidelines! Be humble and never let them take credit for your hard work. And whatever happens you can’t fail if you never try to win in your game off life.

  • @valeriewilliams7035
    @valeriewilliams7035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God's already moved them out of my life . Amen.

    • @thedamagereport2924
      @thedamagereport2924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      T.h.a.n.k.s. f.o.r w.a.t.c.h.i.n.g f.o.r . m.o.r.e i.n.f.o o.r g.u.i.d.a.n.c.e.
      W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P::::
      +1•6•0•9•7•4•1•8•5•8•6

  • @prfnd8070
    @prfnd8070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This was Straight UP Meant for me today. TODAY! Literally this video posted a few minutes before clocking out of work and first thing being said literally matched with my intuition and situation that happened at that moment. It was ME bro: You Were Talking TO ME 🤯🤯 bro .. LITERALLY REAL TALK!! It’s depleting me. Man God’s got us, God got us HEAVY 🔥 THANKS TREN!!!!!

  • @valeriewilliams7035
    @valeriewilliams7035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All this is happening now; and set back and letting them feed me information and let my conversation be short and to the point and keeping mouth close for the plans that's God's have for me. Amen..

  • @shotscallher007
    @shotscallher007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It's okay to have the hater an long as they stay off the court 🍾

    • @donyellbrown6895
      @donyellbrown6895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm tired of being nice and taken advantage of but my cutt off game is fierce!!

  • @thekingjamesversion
    @thekingjamesversion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so true. I finally got exhausted from my narcissistic best friend's tactics. I had to cut off all contact without any more warnings. He was SHOOK. The effect didn't matter however--I just wanted to protect my peace and for him to stay away from me. Because I no longer had trust.

    • @1LovedbyHim
      @1LovedbyHim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. I just cut off four people, without warning, all because one was a narcissist. I cut her off, and realized the other three were feeding her information about me, gossiping, and trying to “talk over my head” as if I didn’t know what was going on. Overall, our energies were not lining up, so I cut them all off. They think I owe them an explanation, but they won’t be getting one from me at all! I could care less!

    • @thekingjamesversion
      @thekingjamesversion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@1LovedbyHim They think you’re dumb or something. I’m glad you did what you had to do for yourself. Well respected!

    • @hurricaneed7578
      @hurricaneed7578 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@1LovedbyHimglad you did that i was actually discarded by a friend that disrespected me said subtle insult etc. I was being to nice to just shrug it off basically being a doormat but even though my ego took a hit when i got discarded im still grateful cause our beliefs was just different and were both better off without eachoter

  • @frontface4331
    @frontface4331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Exactly, it is very wrong to be a friend to someone who does not respect you and your time, such people are heartless and does not which you are greater than them, and doesn't care if they will benefit from your success or not, they just wanna play games with you, and they never expected to hear any good stories from you.

  • @infinitytrippyvideos1662
    @infinitytrippyvideos1662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thanks man. The clip you posted a week ago gave me strength to finally break up with my toxic other half. You don't know how much positiveness you send us. God bless 🙌🏽

  • @AZDC99
    @AZDC99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    10:00 When he talks about people who won't celebrate achievements with you. Went through that for too long with one somewhat recently discarded former friend. Glad how he says brutally that basically these people "are not good for you." Because it's the last thing you want to admit to yourself if you're me, the final frontier of getting rid of a bad friendship (or friendship turned bad, I should say)

  • @warriorgoddess1364
    @warriorgoddess1364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Damn...this one was on the moneyyyyy!!!

  • @craigjohnson94
    @craigjohnson94 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The people who are jealous of you will do things to bring you down such as not showing up when they know that you are counting on them.

  • @071oakland
    @071oakland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are preaching and I mean the real gospel. 2020 I clean house and I let three people go who I knew over 20 years who was snakes Undercover. And when you let them go you can see from a distance what they were all about.

  • @isabellj192
    @isabellj192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Right on time King Tren! I have learned so much from you and several other awesome individuals and I am grateful for my growth and journey! Gratitude Universe for awesome humans and spiritual beings🌍🤗🙏💚🇺🇸

  • @maxinehoppie5073
    @maxinehoppie5073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If their argument is that theirs is a game of exploitation. We say :use them then lose them! Never take their BS! I'm sooo glad to lose them! That's the only thing to do with losers!

  • @pepafischer9047
    @pepafischer9047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Trenius..you are the Best..may God prothect you and bless you with Milions .gretings from Switzerland...thanks

  • @SALAAMAKBAR-p9x
    @SALAAMAKBAR-p9x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ALWAYS HAVE TO COME BACK FOR A CONSTANT REMINDER ❤

  • @janetcain2440
    @janetcain2440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I CRIED WHILE WATCHING THIS ONE, BECAUSE I'M THINKING I'VE DONE SO MUCH FOR PEOPLE, MEN AND WOMEN, INCLUDING FAMILY AND THE THINGS THAT I'VE DONE WAS NEVER RECIPROCATED. EVERYBODY I COME ACROSS WANTS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE, MANIPULATE ME OR CONTROL ME, I NEVER GET ALONG WITH WOMEN BECAUSE OF JEALOUSY, IT'S HARD TRYING TO HAVE RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE MEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT OR CAN'T BE TRUSTED. I DON'T KNOW IF SOMEBODY WILL EVER SEE THE GOOD QUALITIES I HAVE OR IF A GUY REALLY WANTS ME FOR ME AND NOT HURT ME BECAUSE HE DON'T KNOW HOW TO LOVE, MAYBE GOD WANTS ME ALONE AND ISOLATED FOR A REASON.

    • @mstanaya31
      @mstanaya31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏾

    • @loiskidd4852
      @loiskidd4852 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think the same way....REJECTION IS GODS PROTECTION

  • @michaelnorris5759
    @michaelnorris5759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man this is the answer for me thank you 😢 thank you and thank you again and again

  • @kaiwanatruesdale2462
    @kaiwanatruesdale2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My cut off game bout to be real strong tired of being used !!!

  • @jaquanlafizsko392
    @jaquanlafizsko392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Mr tren is like a messenger from god

  • @ladyreepatton6342
    @ladyreepatton6342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hey Big Bro. Slice and Dice.

  • @SALAAMAKBAR-p9x
    @SALAAMAKBAR-p9x ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MY BROTHER FOR LIFE ❤HE IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT ❤THIS LETS ME KNOW WHEN PEOPLE WANNA ACT GOOFY AND DOOFY UNTIL U CHECK THEIR SORRY ASS 💯

  • @cevonnamarie00
    @cevonnamarie00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Maaaaaan THANK YOU. I’ve been in a situation that I have verbally said is draining and I know it’s time to cut them off. It’s been too long. I’m ready to focus, love me, and prosper. I know things will be better because right now it’s a constant, depressing repetition.

  • @alexismartin113
    @alexismartin113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The biggest issue of today’s society!!! Talk to em Tren!!

  • @sarahm2054
    @sarahm2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Man Tren!! You are so right🎯🎯🎯🎯 yep I had to let go of a toxic relationship because I knew it was blocking my Blessings!! No More!! I am so Happy now, I had to free myself!!! Yes I felt like I was on a roller coaster ride for 22 yrs. Yep I felt used & abused too!! I Love you Brother for your inspiration!! ✨💚 Thank You💛

  • @jahmeekasimeon9736
    @jahmeekasimeon9736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FACTS BROTHER YOU ARE AMAZING WITH YOUR UNDERSTANDING ABOUT HOW THESE USERS TOXIC AND NARCISSIST PEOPLE SPIRITS SOULS MINDSET AND CHARACTERS NATURALLY ARE.

  • @victoriabaldwin4821
    @victoriabaldwin4821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are speaking the truth about my situation, I have to let go of a lot people. They made sick; literally

  • @nicoletteanderson594
    @nicoletteanderson594 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching this 3 years after you posted it; you are speaking the truth!!! You hit the nail on the head!

  • @mariapass4962
    @mariapass4962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm just over with dealing with people that wrong me because I allow it to be repeated and I'm not taking it anymore I would never trust them again and I'm not going to be fake no more I'm tired of pretending as if everything is okay when I know everything that you did to me that was really messed up that's not acceptable

  • @maxinehoppie5073
    @maxinehoppie5073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You said it Bro! They never learn because they can't, the Bible says so!

  • @nadiacavallini4728
    @nadiacavallini4728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you for this message!! This message totally resonates as always!

  • @tbrilegaciesllcpresentspat2555
    @tbrilegaciesllcpresentspat2555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being nice has cost me and Im tired of it....... Slice & Dice permanently.....🤔🙅

  • @shaqebk2222
    @shaqebk2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Been doing big bro, did last week, even did early this morning 🤣🤣‼️‼️

  • @KingDarkBlaze
    @KingDarkBlaze ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Straight up u gotta take care of your own I had a fake friend he acted like he was cool an there for me an stopped talking to me when i needed a friend the most I got the message an I decided he was not my true friend an cut him off.

  • @Sheeknowz
    @Sheeknowz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This person is my mom. It makes her so mad when I’m happy and grateful for everything in my life at that moment. So she picks a fight absolutely everytime we see each other! Literally!And after weve argued and shes broken me down verbally she leaves n goes home to let me sit in that hurt quietly.

    • @thedamagereport2924
      @thedamagereport2924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      T.h.a.n.k.s. f.o.r w.a.t.c.h.i.n.g f.o.r . m.o.r.e i.n.f.o o.r g.u.i.d.a.n.c.e.
      W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P::::......
      +1•6•0•9•7•4•1•8•5•8•6

    • @711tinus
      @711tinus ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

  • @billphilpott3787
    @billphilpott3787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is for me..I don't have enough energy to start over

  • @Hesaves21
    @Hesaves21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m listening fasho fam no more second chances everything u said was on point 💯💯

  • @josephpaaneah
    @josephpaaneah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Before watching this video I already know I need this. Perfect timing too. Been cutting off people left and right. It was starting to get bad but I finally got my alone time and peace back. Ain't nothing like it too. Thank you so much Big Brother Tren for all that you do. Love you're videos and personality. All praises to our father. 🙂

  • @Express2BU
    @Express2BU 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This really touch my spirit in every way. 👂🏾Thank you Tren Genius 😇
    Keep spreading positivity to our people!
    Those who mind don’t matter & those who matter don’t mind 💙 - Dr.Seuss

  • @chief-buckbynature5942
    @chief-buckbynature5942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you be speaking truth same thing what I'm going cut the person off they always trying to hit you with a guilt trip talking about they problems thinking you can give me money

  • @Ryan-ld3iz
    @Ryan-ld3iz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I always grateful to have you to help me to belive in myself thank you from trinidad 🇹🇹

  • @manueloalzulfiquarali3688
    @manueloalzulfiquarali3688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *I'm tired of being NICE!*

  • @matthewspanner6232
    @matthewspanner6232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’ve given me a degree or angle of clarity that I can perceive from . I appreciate you brother . Made me understand that I may not be crazy .

  • @robjusme546
    @robjusme546 ปีที่แล้ว

    Run Bebeh! Say a prayer and go🦸like the flash in the blink of an eye!

  • @diamond_holistics
    @diamond_holistics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    On point, on target 🎯, absolutely correct all of it !!

  • @Chris-pj7jg
    @Chris-pj7jg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hear you very well brother in Christ.

  • @lifechangingaura3059
    @lifechangingaura3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yesterday was real to me Tren your video is on time
    Thank you
    Success is Mine 🌞

  • @Londyn2828
    @Londyn2828 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so frustrated because my “friends” and family see me as competition. They called me spoiled because I want to leave the hood.They called me childish because I have homework even though it’s college homework…And when I graduated from basic training….nobody showed up….you know how embarrassing it is to be the only soldier without family at graduation?When I was in the hospital with a broken jaw because I got jumped (first fight I ever lost and it was a bad one obviously) no one showed up. Even the nurses were asking about my family. Where is my mom. Etc.Worst of all when we had family members pass away the family dumped their anger on me and attacked me on social media all at once…I became homeless because I was grieving alone( Got back on that horse ofc I a was Shute depressed at the time)…and I’m 27 years old now realizing that I am the black sheep. Even though I’ve done NOTHINGGGGGGG

    • @theartistcherrypi6454
      @theartistcherrypi6454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, I’m sorry you’ve suffered so much trauma in your life! There’s a purpose in your pain and separation/isolation away from those wicked people/family members and I pray the Lord will continue to comfort you and lead you and guide you on your life’s journey and path to healing and peace.
      Praying for you brother and thank you for your service to our country.

    • @Londyn2828
      @Londyn2828 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theartistcherrypi6454 This helped me more than words can express. Thank you andGod bless you kind soul!

    • @theartistcherrypi6454
      @theartistcherrypi6454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Londyn2828 I’m just really sorry you’ve gone through such pain but at the same time, I know God has kept you and brought you through all of it because His hand is on your life. That’s why they rejected you. The light of Christ in you causes the darkness in them to rage and not want to be in your presence. Their inner demons are troubled by your presence because you have something in you that God placed in you and they don’t have it or want it.
      There’s nothing you did wrong to deserve such treatment when all you’ve done is try to be a better person and improve your life and do the right thing. Stay strong brother and keep your head up. Stay on the path towards peace, healing, self love and happiness. Isolation away from our family and friends often works in our favor because it allows us to do the work on ourselves while drawing closer to God with no unnecessary distractions or drama.
      No matter what always keep moving forward. You can not stay stuck in pain. Give it all to God because you can’t do anything with it anyway so don’t carry burdens from your past into your present or future. Don’t ever look back and wonder what you might have done wrong or why wicked people treated you wickedly. That’s the enemy trying to torment you because of a past you experienced but can not change. Keep moving forward in your present knowing God has a better future for you than you could ever imagine.
      Some of us have been alone on our own from 6yrs old abandoned by everyone and grievously wounded by our own family we went to for help. It’s not fair but I thank God that He was with me every step of the way so at my age about 12yrs further down the road than you are I deeply relate to your feelings.
      To this day one of my favorite Bible verses is Psalms 27:10 because that’s my life in a nutshell. It reads, “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up.”
      Praying for you on your journey 🙏🏾

  • @imbrakingthrough2152
    @imbrakingthrough2152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So glad For You being here for us 🤜🏻

  • @imanishelton148
    @imanishelton148 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has me tearing up! I really needed to hear this!! This is confirmation from GOD!!!

  • @kimberlydaniels2692
    @kimberlydaniels2692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank You!! Thank You!! Thank You!!! 🙏🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 This message was my confirmation to make the changes and cut ppl out my life. SMH. I was feeling bad about it but it is what it is. I'M TIRED IF BEING NICE. Man this year has taught me some real lessons. But I choose ME. PERIOD ‼️

  • @laneyljk
    @laneyljk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Other people support me more than the people who was close to me! Now I'm getting big and the people in the past trying to rekindle friendships 😂

  • @kathypilcher9456
    @kathypilcher9456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s me big bro 😒😌😌😌💕🤷🏽‍♀️I’m telling you I can’t sleep or eat these last past days bro 🙏🏿😌💫💫⭐️💫💖💖

  • @terry3722
    @terry3722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only when they need something. Call them and if they answer. They cant do it. To hell with them. They know you are unlimited.

  • @glenjohn545
    @glenjohn545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I needed that "Big Bro" thank you!!! God Bless You!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @livetolove2392
    @livetolove2392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Today I was with someone who talked to me about the government 😂😂😂