My boyfriend of 8 years has been falsely accusing me of cheating on him when i NEVER did. It's horrible. I've been trying to defend myself like crazy. I needed this video so much... thanks for making this video. I don't need to prove my innocence or get vindication. God knows the truth.
@@michelesnyder8488 I been there I been accused of things that I never did and some people blame me for it and it’s no one to take up for me or be on my side when theirs trouble some will go and tell my mom and she tells my dad and it’s gets very very messy and I get physically yelled at like I’m a child and their no social support at all it’s allways about image and control any advice on what to do? I need a long one here
I believe your boyfriend, and i believe you cheated. I wish women would stop 7 think before they tell their little white lies that they think know one will learn about. Women have become such pathological liars and they are NEVER held responsible if they do get caught that we men can NOT afford to take a woman's word! I had a girl cheat on me and she denied it vehemently at the time, bu the guy she slept with WAS a buddy and he confessed (thanks to too much alcohol). After 30 years, i met the woman on social media again, and we were talking and it came up, She STILL wouldnt admit to it all this time later, and she brushed it under the rug after i wouldnt drop it! ( I became a social outcast because i suspected her of cheating 7 tried to break up with her. So it affected me deeply in relationships afterwards. i couldnt even trust my own instincts, which happened to be right, because EVERYONE took her side. Guess how many apologies I got from those people? 0) Women are liars, all 110%!
My brother was falsely accused by his employer and the community. I am sad because he suffered. But i rejoice that his suffering only Jesus could understand. He hung himself with an extension cord at work after they all destroyed his life and his reputation and good moral. They hated him when he was alive. But when he was dead they came to his funeral saying what a great worker and person and individual he was. The last thing he left was the small cross that he carried. A wooden small cross. The cross looked small now to some but that weight is a joy to have to bear for our lord and savior. I will see him again some day i hope if i can forgive and if i can carry the cross that jesus and my brother carried. Amen.
I am so very sorry to hear this. How devastating for him! I can't even imagine! But Jesus can. The heartbreak for you and for the rest of the family must be massive ... and for good reason. I will be praying for you. Thank you so much for your comment. May God bless you, dear one, and heal you.
I'm sorry that is happening, Helen. It does hurt. But what a privilege it is for us to be able to identify with the sufferings of Christ when those things happen to us! Keep your chin up. Keep looking to Jesus. I find that when I lose myself in Him, the things of earth (including hurtful people) grow strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace! I will be praying for you.
There was a time I wasn't vindicated in time though. I was accused of steeling some Christmas weights that helped hold down an artificial tree. The household lost track of them because they had me move them 3 times. The daughter called me one day and said we found the Christmas weights in the pantry but the accuser, her mother had died before they were found!
It just doesn't seem right to not give your account of what really happened or was said especially if your job is on the line. False accusations can ruin a person's life because employers 9 times out of 10 believe the accuser before even asking the accused their side. I worked so hard to better myself to get a job I like and is meaningful and the someone comes along to try to destroy what I worked so hard for. I overcame mental disability to become successful and for it to be ruined by a false accusations makes me not want to be alive.
I am so sorry for what happened to you. This would create such a feeling of powerlessness, and my heart goes out to you. To work so hard to better yourself and find meaning in life, only to have it destroyed by a false accuser. It is, of course, okay to explain ourselves when we're answering to our bosses or to the judicial system. I am speaking here mostly about everyday gossip. I didn't do a very adequate job of making that clear, and it must have sounded pretty glib to someone like you who has lost so much. I will be praying for you as you do your best to live your life in such a way that no one will believe this thing that has been said about you. Our God is a God of second chances and He sees your plight. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that justice will be served in His time and in His way. The world needs you, so please don't give up.
I'm with you on that Shaw; you're most certainly not alone. Surround yourself as much as possible with people who KNOW you. I'm from NY and live in NC now. I've discovered if people are envious or don't like you, they can literally change your life with false accusations. I sincerely wish people would use common sense but society is attracted to 'scandal'. I give it to God to clear up but in the meantime I STILL have to forgive because it unfortunately reinforces my notion that humanity is DONE.
Were you able to get out of your situation? I am the same situation at the moment. If you have any advice, do let me know, but I have given up myself to the higher power to resolve the matter. I don't know why some people are so cruel.
@@laurenkeyes1677 amazing....i thought Ghanaians(originally from Ghana) have the monopoly on this traits... I now have idea of how people in such situation takeaway their life...and more painful when it comes from suppose church or Christians......manys thanks for letting me know it a human stuffs
Thank you. I needed this word. My sister in law recently accused my daughter of stealing a book from her but I know for a fact that this is not true. My daughter is beside herself hurt and confused. I truly believe that it was just misplaced but for some reason they are blaming my daughter. It hurts so much and makes me want to defend and get very angry. But this message was just the reminder I needed. Thank you.
LuLaRoe Laurie Hicks - I’m so sorry. 😢 I can see why you and your daughter are hurting. It’s never fun to be falsely accused. During those times, we have a chance to identify with how Jesus must have felt during His ministry years. 😢 God knows the truth ... and one day He will right all wrongs. We can take comfort in that as we continue to trust Him. 🙏 God bless you. I’ll be praying.
This video was recommended to me and I'm so glad and just subscribed. What a wonderful message. You are such a beautiful lady with a gentle Godly spirit, and I just want to thank you for having this channel and presenting this message, in particular. God Bless You!
I'm glad God used this video to encourage you, S Wood. Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for subscribing. I pray some of the other videos will encourage you as well. God bless you!
Praise the Lord this prophetic word is relevant ok I've been manipulated in my family my work even to the person I suppose to marry but after seeing this video I feel like I've just surrendered everything to God's glory, thank you 🙏
I wish I would have heard this ten years ago. I'm so exhausted from defending myself from baseless slanderous lies that it made me a little mean. I'm so tired from all of it giving it up to the Lord will be easy.
The problem is that everyone feels they are being falsely accused, even the accusers feel they are being falsely accused of falsely accusing. See how confusing it is? Our passion for vindication is because of the stress hurt and hardships we have endured, and the feeling of helplessness. We need to feel, and to in a place of security and power. That's why we instinctively defend ourselves. I agree with your comments, but it is definitely hard. Also, people choose what to believe about you, you can't control that. We also need to create boundaries. This will make people make more accusations, but if we don't, then we will be slaves to others, and our only master should be the Lord. So, just expect false accusations, especially if you are doing the right thing. Lastly, most people who will falsely accused you and cause hardship in your life will be Christian, because we live in a predominantly Christian society. And that can be very disappointing and hurtful, but understand that being a believer is not the same as being saved.
I am sorry. This is a fallen world and we humans live in the kingdom of Satan, the father of lies. People never put yourselves in a compromising environment. Study the word of God daily, live by having virtues,integrity and self control. The pleasures of the flesh,falling to temptation and having vices will kill the love God has for you.
I agree Dwayne, but not all of us have been this wise to the Lord s teaching from the beginning, what if there was a genuine mistake, but people take it to the extreme and accuse all kinds if things? - People can't un-say what has been said, and the saddest part.
I'm Going Through The Same Thing Where An Evil Uncle,And Some Other Relatives Have Falsely Allocated,False Allegations Against Me To The Judicial Systems.I Need To Get An Excellent Skillful Attorney Who Represents All Areas Of Law,To Clear My Name,& Other Reasons Too!!!! Lord Almighty God,God's,Mother Of Jesus Christ,Jesus Christ,Angels,Saints,And Saint Anthony Protect Me &The Ones That Love,Care About Me& I Love Them,&Care About Them As Well. Amen!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sue tf outta them, expose them and make ‘em pay for being little thugs with badges. Oh and never let pedofiles and serial killers run your justice system.
I’m praying right now that everything works out for you in God’s way, in His time, dear one. These things can be so hard. But God … none of this has caught Him by surprise. 🙏❤️🙏
There's no reason to defend yourself They just threaten you more people who do that are going to keep doing it best to turn the other cheek and walk off let them do what they need to do to make themselves feel good nothing else you can do
I have a narc sibling who constantly attacks me saying I “don’t respect him” kinda silly I don’t do anything to disrespect anyone consciously kinda seems like he’s projecting
I'm so sorry this is happening, Angela. That makes it hard ... don't give up on him. I think you're right. He probably doesn't respect himself. Keep showing him love.
@@michelesnyder8488 A man who loses his family, all or part of them at sea or in any other way, or, as in my case, who has faced relentless accusations which, because I did not properly respond to them, they went unchecked, leading to just such a loss; any man who finds himself in a situation like one of these, needs a special song to keep him from total despair. That is song is: 'It is well with my soul', posted on TH-cam by Jason Webb.
Michele Snyder oh yes, i am being slandered and it is affecting a fundraiser I started, but I believe that my honesty will find the way through the dirt that has been thrown on my name. I stopped doubting it when i saw that each time i have more faith something really good comes out of it.
I'm so sorry, Marija. A few years ago, I did a benefit for a family and was surprised by the negative reaction of some. It truly mystified me. Then I thought about this and continued on doing what I felt God called me to do: Those who are out doing their job are too busy to be critical of those who are out doing their job. And then, of course, there is this poem by Mother Theresa. I'll post it here: People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you. Be honest and frank anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight. Build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the best you've got anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway. I hope this encourages you, Marija. Keep on doing good ... anyway! :D
You are so right, Jennifer. Only God’s grace. Keep your head up and don’t let it stop you from being who God called you to be. He created you with a special purpose. Don’t let anyone or anything keep you from it! Rather, let this setback propel you forward in His strength! I am praying for you.
Thank you Lord for this message. As I searched the internet on how to defend myself I did pray first and as I scrolled down I came upon this message.
I'm so glad you did, Paula. I hope it helped. I'm praying for you now.
My boyfriend of 8 years has been falsely accusing me of cheating on him when i NEVER did. It's horrible. I've been trying to defend myself like crazy. I needed this video so much... thanks for making this video. I don't need to prove my innocence or get vindication. God knows the truth.
I'm glad it helped. Yes, God knows ... and you will be vindicated in His time.
@@michelesnyder8488 I been there I been accused of things that I never did and some people blame me for it and it’s no one to take up for me or be on my side when theirs trouble some will go and tell my mom and she tells my dad and it’s gets very very messy and I get physically yelled at like I’m a child and their no social support at all it’s allways about image and control any advice on what to do? I need a long one here
I believe your boyfriend, and i believe you cheated. I wish women would stop 7 think before they tell their little white lies that they think know one will learn about. Women have become such pathological liars and they are NEVER held responsible if they do get caught that we men can NOT afford to take a woman's word! I had a girl cheat on me and she denied it vehemently at the time, bu the guy she slept with WAS a buddy and he confessed (thanks to too much alcohol). After 30 years, i met the woman on social media again, and we were talking and it came up, She STILL wouldnt admit to it all this time later, and she brushed it under the rug after i wouldnt drop it! ( I became a social outcast because i suspected her of cheating 7 tried to break up with her. So it affected me deeply in relationships afterwards. i couldnt even trust my own instincts, which happened to be right, because EVERYONE took her side. Guess how many apologies I got from those people? 0) Women are liars, all 110%!
My brother was falsely accused by his employer and the community. I am sad because he suffered. But i rejoice that his suffering only Jesus could understand. He hung himself with an extension cord at work after they all destroyed his life and his reputation and good moral. They hated him when he was alive. But when he was dead they came to his funeral saying what a great worker and person and individual he was. The last thing he left was the small cross that he carried. A wooden small cross. The cross looked small now to some but that weight is a joy to have to bear for our lord and savior. I will see him again some day i hope if i can forgive and if i can carry the cross that jesus and my brother carried. Amen.
I am so very sorry to hear this. How devastating for him! I can't even imagine! But Jesus can. The heartbreak for you and for the rest of the family must be massive ... and for good reason. I will be praying for you. Thank you so much for your comment. May God bless you, dear one, and heal you.
Ty. the more good I do, the more people work against me. It hurts!!!
I'm sorry that is happening, Helen. It does hurt. But what a privilege it is for us to be able to identify with the sufferings of Christ when those things happen to us! Keep your chin up. Keep looking to Jesus. I find that when I lose myself in Him, the things of earth (including hurtful people) grow strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace! I will be praying for you.
There was a time I wasn't vindicated in time though. I was accused of steeling some Christmas weights that helped hold down an artificial tree. The household lost track of them because they had me move them 3 times. The daughter called me one day and said we found the Christmas weights in the pantry but the accuser, her mother had died before they were found!
It just doesn't seem right to not give your account of what really happened or was said especially if your job is on the line. False accusations can ruin a person's life because employers 9 times out of 10 believe the accuser before even asking the accused their side. I worked so hard to better myself to get a job I like and is meaningful and the someone comes along to try to destroy what I worked so hard for. I overcame mental disability to become successful and for it to be ruined by a false accusations makes me not want to be alive.
I am so sorry for what happened to you. This would create such a feeling of powerlessness, and my heart goes out to you. To work so hard to better yourself and find meaning in life, only to have it destroyed by a false accuser. It is, of course, okay to explain ourselves when we're answering to our bosses or to the judicial system. I am speaking here mostly about everyday gossip. I didn't do a very adequate job of making that clear, and it must have sounded pretty glib to someone like you who has lost so much. I will be praying for you as you do your best to live your life in such a way that no one will believe this thing that has been said about you. Our God is a God of second chances and He sees your plight. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that justice will be served in His time and in His way. The world needs you, so please don't give up.
I'm with you on that Shaw; you're most certainly not alone. Surround yourself as much as possible with people who KNOW you. I'm from NY and live in NC now. I've discovered if people are envious or don't like you, they can literally change your life with false accusations. I sincerely wish people would use common sense but society is attracted to 'scandal'. I give it to God to clear up but in the meantime I STILL have to forgive because it unfortunately reinforces my notion that humanity is DONE.
Were you able to get out of your situation? I am the same situation at the moment. If you have any advice, do let me know, but I have given up myself to the higher power to resolve the matter. I don't know why some people are so cruel.
@@laurenkeyes1677 amazing....i thought Ghanaians(originally from Ghana) have the monopoly on this traits... I now have idea of how people in such situation takeaway their life...and more painful when it comes from suppose church or Christians......manys thanks for letting me know it a human stuffs
Thank you. I needed this word. My sister in law recently accused my daughter of stealing a book from her but I know for a fact that this is not true. My daughter is beside herself hurt and confused. I truly believe that it was just misplaced but for some reason they are blaming my daughter. It hurts so much and makes me want to defend and get very angry. But this message was just the reminder I needed. Thank you.
LuLaRoe Laurie Hicks - I’m so sorry. 😢 I can see why you and your daughter are hurting. It’s never fun to be falsely accused. During those times, we have a chance to identify with how Jesus must have felt during His ministry years. 😢 God knows the truth ... and one day He will right all wrongs. We can take comfort in that as we continue to trust Him. 🙏 God bless you. I’ll be praying.
This video was recommended to me and I'm so glad and just subscribed. What a wonderful message. You are such a beautiful lady with a gentle Godly spirit, and I just want to thank you for having this channel and presenting this message, in particular. God Bless You!
I'm glad God used this video to encourage you, S Wood. Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for subscribing. I pray some of the other videos will encourage you as well. God bless you!
Praise the Lord this prophetic word is relevant ok I've been manipulated in my family my work even to the person I suppose to marry but after seeing this video I feel like I've just surrendered everything to God's glory, thank you 🙏
I wish I would have heard this ten years ago. I'm so exhausted from defending myself from baseless slanderous lies that it made me a little mean. I'm so tired from all of it giving it up to the Lord will be easy.
The problem is that everyone feels they are being falsely accused, even the accusers feel they are being falsely accused of falsely accusing. See how confusing it is? Our passion for vindication is because of the stress hurt and hardships we have endured, and the feeling of helplessness. We need to feel, and to in a place of security and power. That's why we instinctively defend ourselves. I agree with your comments, but it is definitely hard. Also, people choose what to believe about you, you can't control that. We also need to create boundaries. This will make people make more accusations, but if we don't, then we will be slaves to others, and our only master should be the Lord. So, just expect false accusations, especially if you are doing the right thing. Lastly, most people who will falsely accused you and cause hardship in your life will be Christian, because we live in a predominantly Christian society. And that can be very disappointing and hurtful, but understand that being a believer is not the same as being saved.
You make some very good points here! Thank you for contributing to this video.
I am sorry. This is a fallen world and we humans live in the kingdom of Satan, the father of lies. People never put yourselves in a compromising environment. Study the word of God daily, live by having virtues,integrity and self control. The pleasures of the flesh,falling to temptation and having vices will kill the love God has for you.
I agree Dwayne, but not all of us have been this wise to the Lord s teaching from the beginning, what if there was a genuine mistake, but people take it to the extreme and accuse all kinds if things? - People can't un-say what has been said, and the saddest part.
I'm Going Through The Same Thing Where An Evil Uncle,And Some Other Relatives Have Falsely Allocated,False Allegations Against Me To The Judicial Systems.I Need To Get An Excellent Skillful Attorney Who Represents All Areas Of Law,To Clear My Name,& Other Reasons Too!!!! Lord Almighty God,God's,Mother Of Jesus Christ,Jesus Christ,Angels,Saints,And Saint Anthony Protect Me &The Ones That Love,Care About Me& I Love Them,&Care About Them As Well. Amen!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I pray you will be vindicated! 😢💔🙏
Good bless you thank you for sharing this word I receive it with gladness
I’m glad it helped. 🌷
But nobody speak about when people acusse us that we stress out.
this message pertains to men as well, Thanks for sharing it Michele.
Thank you for making this video 🙏🤍🕊️🙌
I am not a lady but I needed this thank you!
I'm glad it helped!
Sue tf outta them, expose them and make ‘em pay for being little thugs with badges. Oh and never let pedofiles and serial killers run your justice system.
This is a blessing for me as I am going through some issues as we speak.
I’m praying right now that everything works out for you in God’s way, in His time, dear one. These things can be so hard. But God … none of this has caught Him by surprise. 🙏❤️🙏
@@michelesnyder8488 Thank you so much!
There's no reason to defend yourself They just threaten you more people who do that are going to keep doing it best to turn the other cheek and walk off let them do what they need to do to make themselves feel good nothing else you can do
I have a narc sibling who constantly attacks me saying I “don’t respect him” kinda silly I don’t do anything to disrespect anyone consciously kinda seems like he’s projecting
I'm so sorry this is happening, Angela. That makes it hard ... don't give up on him. I think you're right. He probably doesn't respect himself. Keep showing him love.
That was very beautiful!
Thank you, Chirag.
This is my very favorite song, especially when a trumpet, or trumpets are involved. Beautiful!!!
I would love to hear that song! Can you share the link with me, please?
@@michelesnyder8488 A man who loses his family, all or part of them at sea or in any other way, or, as in my case, who has faced relentless accusations which, because I did not properly respond to them, they went unchecked, leading to just such a loss; any man who finds himself in a situation like one of these, needs a special song to keep him from total despair. That is song is:
'It is well with my soul', posted on TH-cam by Jason Webb.
@@Partcart_X - Oh, YES!!!
is there an online bible study or number to call for your classes
If you like, Sheila, I can add you to my Facebook group. My Facebook moniker is "Michele Snyder." I would love to be your friend. :)
Do NOT watch a video ... get a defense lawyer who is a seasoned pro and let him do the talking...
Defending yourself is not evil..
God bless you 🙏
I'm not religious but this is such a nice explanation :) thank you
Thank. you, Marija. I'm glad it helped. No doubt about it, though, it does hurt to be falsely accused.
Michele Snyder oh yes, i am being slandered and it is affecting a fundraiser I started, but I believe that my honesty will find the way through the dirt that has been thrown on my name. I stopped doubting it when i saw that each time i have more faith something really good comes out of it.
I'm so sorry, Marija. A few years ago, I did a benefit for a family and was surprised by the negative reaction of some. It truly mystified me. Then I thought about this and continued on doing what I felt God called me to do: Those who are out doing their job are too busy to be critical of those who are out doing their job.
And then, of course, there is this poem by Mother Theresa. I'll post it here:
People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind,
people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful,
you will win some false friends and some true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank,
people may cheat you.
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building,
someone could destroy overnight.
Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness,
they may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today,
people will often forget tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have,
and it may never be enough.
Give the best you've got anyway.
You see,
in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
it was never between you and them anyway.
I hope this encourages you, Marija. Keep on doing good ... anyway! :D
I would love to read your link, Marija.
That was a beautiful message. Thank you.
You are welcome. :)
Amen.✝️👑
Thank You👏
Thankyou. x
But it hurts and eats one up. It is only God's grace to heal
You are so right, Jennifer. Only God’s grace. Keep your head up and don’t let it stop you from being who God called you to be. He created you with a special purpose. Don’t let anyone or anything keep you from it! Rather, let this setback propel you forward in His strength! I am praying for you.
This is a wonderful video.
You come to my place n I will show you what suffering is..
OH YOU BET
Yes
Can I know why you upload this video. Did God asked you to do so? If so then are you among the 144000?
Misrepresented all the time