Lord, dating is a lot. A woman shouldn’t be on a dating site looking for a relationship. Men are the hunters, ladies let them seek you out, organically . If he doesn’t, then he either has no balls or is taken, or doesn’t want you enough. This is exhausting
I agree with you to a point, but the truth is dating sites are the best place to meet people. That said, 100% agree don't use them to find a relationship. Use them to date. And by meeting and dating several people you increase the odds of finding someone you want a relationship with. That was my mindset when I went online last year. I went on tons of dates and yes, I found the guy who adores me as much as I do him. I would have NEVER met him without doing so on an app.
@@danaknight647 I’m capable of meeting someone in real life and not through scrolling and swiping. I meet people all the time naturally without having to make a profile and search for someone. I did online dating in the past and it was a huge time waster. I feel discounted price letting myself be on there. As women we are supposed to let ourselves be found by showing interest and if a man likes you back, he’ll take the bait and try and reel you in . Internet dating ain’t it.
Dating sites offer up a way to put yourself out there. It’s up to the guy to initiate the courtship from there. If you’re chasing each other it’s a game. Period. I don’t chase guys and I don’t want a guy to chase me. They will choose me if they like what they see. I will do the same. I did my job. Too old for games. Dating is too much these days-no one wants to be honest and intentional. I am praying I found the one guy God has for me about 6-7 weeks ago, so far so good. The best thing about him? He clicked on me and immediately gave me his number and after I texted him to confirm and say hi-HE CALLED ME! That’s the way it should be! Dating apps are ok-with no games!
@@j-tenn226 I don't know why TH-cam "recommended" this video to me, but I concur and LOVE your comments! Do you listen to/watch Tony Gaskins? Sounds like it. Only socially awkward Ted Bundy types or toxic overly-sexual narcs resort to online dating, and women with standards have no business being online advertising ourselves to such grown boys!
You are so right Elliott !! I no longer give a lot of importance to the outcome, if I find someone good, if not it's not the end of the world, it doesn't matter if I'm getting older courtship is supposed to be enjoyable, pressure is not thr way to go !
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He's right; I dated a guy for 5 years thinking we were closeto marriage. He actually got worse. I was taken for granted. I finally had, had enough. Only then AND ONLY THEN did he pay attention to MY WANTS. BY then, I was so fed up I broke up with him. What I should have done is an ultimatium maybe after 2 years and then if he met it, then marry him. Everything turned out so wrong. Have goals LADIES, GOALS and he either meets them or no.
Shouldn’t be sleeping with them to begin with. When u have sex with someone you blend your energy with them. This can be dangerous with someone whom you barely know and don’t trust. They could have spiritual parasites attached to them and by sleeping with them you create a highway for these negative entities to access you and feed off you and create dissonance within your energy.
No, we know this and we see it because this type of behavior leads to men we are not interested in commit and stick around for years in hopes of a window in, and guys who we actually have interest in don't commit. And I do find it that men are on the more wrong side, because they were interested but then when the interest is mutual THEN they do all these ego-driven behaviors that are not evolutionarily favorable because they lack the skill to care for a potential sucessful mating. And what will suffer? Their offspring.
I find this video confusing because that’s what he did. Made me wonder all of those things when he knew I want to get together after 20 years. But I’m greatful that we did reconnect. Even though we haven’t met up.
I bought the guide and Everything is so clear now .But is it possible to turn the situation if I showed too much intent behavior ? I pulled away now after giving him ultimatum.
Yes bc I believe a man can only go based off what he's exposed to meaning, as of right now, he's going off your intent. BUT if you get repetitions in where you're showing premise then that's what he will eventually base things on.
Elliot Scott well I wouldn’t call it courtship, when you can’t be real, be yourself, and the other immature, emotionally unintelligent, & unready person cannot handle it. Everything in moderation though🙂
Sometimes a guy can’t drop her, the assets to good to let go. That’s why he comes back, so who got the power.? When he comes back he’s paying a price. I’m having my cake and eating it too.
He don’t care about u that’s why he left in the first place. You’re just a commodity to him - easy access. Not sure why you think this is a good thing. Surely you know you’re more valuable than 3 holes to poke?
@@reneedavis7248 you’ll never be happy if u depend on someone else. Also even if u are happy, it’s only temporary cuz he’ll screw u over again and again and again and as much as you’ll allow it. But I hope u are genuinely happy. Happy and not lying to yourself and telling yourself you are happy.
I bought his attraction guide and finally started reading it and I can honestly say……. the man drops gems 💎 👏🏾
Thank you that means a lot
Indeed!!
Great video! I appreciate how you explain the real dynamics of what relationship formations truly look like from the inside-out.
@@ElliotScottDating
What does you mean by “if a woman sticks by premise”? What does that mean ?? Thank you 🙏🏼
Your a very smart young man; 60 year old lady backing up exactly what you say , no different at my age , men are men ; always good advice from you
Lord, dating is a lot. A woman shouldn’t be on a dating site looking for a relationship. Men are the hunters, ladies let them seek you out, organically . If he doesn’t, then he either has no balls or is taken, or doesn’t want you enough. This is exhausting
I agree with you to a point, but the truth is dating sites are the best place to meet people. That said, 100% agree don't use them to find a relationship. Use them to date. And by meeting and dating several people you increase the odds of finding someone you want a relationship with.
That was my mindset when I went online last year. I went on tons of dates and yes, I found the guy who adores me as much as I do him. I would have NEVER met him without doing so on an app.
@@danaknight647 I’m capable of meeting someone in real life and not through scrolling and swiping. I meet people all the time naturally without having to make a profile and search for someone. I did online dating in the past and it was a huge time waster. I feel discounted price letting myself be on there. As women we are supposed to let ourselves be found by showing interest and if a man likes you back, he’ll take the bait and try and reel you in . Internet dating ain’t it.
Dating sites offer up a way to put yourself out there. It’s up to the guy to initiate the courtship from there. If you’re chasing each other it’s a game. Period. I don’t chase guys and I don’t want a guy to chase me. They will choose me if they like what they see. I will do the same. I did my job. Too old for games. Dating is too much these days-no one wants to be honest and intentional. I am praying I found the one guy God has for me about 6-7 weeks ago, so far so good. The best thing about him? He clicked on me and immediately gave me his number and after I texted him to confirm and say hi-HE CALLED ME! That’s the way it should be! Dating apps are ok-with no games!
@@j-tenn226 I don't know why TH-cam "recommended" this video to me, but I concur and LOVE your comments!
Do you listen to/watch Tony Gaskins?
Sounds like it.
Only socially awkward Ted Bundy types or toxic overly-sexual narcs resort to online dating, and women with standards have no business being online advertising ourselves to such grown boys!
@@jessitabonita I love Tony Gaskins
You are so right Elliott !! I no longer give a lot of importance to the outcome, if I find someone good, if not it's not the end of the world, it doesn't matter if I'm getting older courtship is supposed to be enjoyable, pressure is not thr way to go !
In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Nah. Im perfect at this point, it doesnt change the fact that guys around are low quality
Just bought your attraction guide. I figure it's more valuable than a paid dating app so 25 bucks well spent 🤷♀️🤣
I'm glad you like it thank you for your support 👍
I love the thumbnail 😂😂 well done Elliot love the effort hahah
Lmao it was Elliot saying you’re nothing special for me 🥰
He came in with intent, I did not but followed his lead. Then he pulled back.
I think this is harder than calculus. Lots of maneuvering here!
This is amazing
Thank you
He's right; I dated a guy for 5 years thinking we were closeto marriage. He actually got worse. I was taken for granted. I finally had, had enough. Only then AND ONLY THEN did he pay attention to MY WANTS. BY then, I was so fed up I broke up with him. What I should have done is an ultimatium maybe after 2 years and then if he met it, then marry him. Everything turned out so wrong. Have goals LADIES, GOALS and he either meets them or no.
Did u end up marrying the guy?
I feel eventually all women worldwide will just STOP dealing or sleeping with men. No kidding.
We are so tired of shitty treatment.
Shouldn’t be sleeping with them to begin with. When u have sex with someone you blend your energy with them. This can be dangerous with someone whom you barely know and don’t trust. They could have spiritual parasites attached to them and by sleeping with them you create a highway for these negative entities to access you and feed off you and create dissonance within your energy.
No, we know this and we see it because this type of behavior leads to men we are not interested in commit and stick around for years in hopes of a window in, and guys who we actually have interest in don't commit. And I do find it that men are on the more wrong side, because they were interested but then when the interest is mutual THEN they do all these ego-driven behaviors that are not evolutionarily favorable because they lack the skill to care for a potential sucessful mating. And what will suffer? Their offspring.
I love you Elliot!!!
That clicked Elliot so much, got it!!!
I'm glad 😊
i just know you had fun making that thumbnail
Yea I did hahaha
Wow I do want a skottie 🤣🤣 you were talking to me right there
Pace and not give everything right away. So he’s always thinking where is this going what she’s thinking.
I find this video confusing because that’s what he did. Made me wonder all of those things when he knew I want to get together after 20 years. But I’m greatful that we did reconnect. Even though we haven’t met up.
does this work on a DA?
He tends to talk about emotionally available men. Doesn't go into those with attachment issues
I bought the guide and Everything is so clear now .But is it possible to turn the situation if I showed too much intent behavior ? I pulled away now after giving him ultimatum.
Yes bc I believe a man can only go based off what he's exposed to meaning, as of right now, he's going off your intent. BUT if you get repetitions in where you're showing premise then that's what he will eventually base things on.
@@ElliotScottDating Thank you Elliot 🙏🌸you helped me a lot with your amazing content
So IOIs on drip ✅
So never reveal direct intent..Only date with a premise... interesting. Thank you.
Good day Elliott, Thank you
Same to you!
@@ElliotScottDating Thank you, Elliott,
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This is too complicated 😭
So PLAY games basically😄
I wouldn't say it's a game it's just courtship.
why not they play games and bs.
When I play a game, it’s usually because it’s fun, playful and strategic-meaning putting myself in a position to win.
Elliot Scott well I wouldn’t call it courtship, when you can’t be real, be yourself, and the other immature, emotionally unintelligent, & unready person cannot handle it. Everything in moderation though🙂
Damn dating sucks
Good luck explaining it the higher powers when it’s judgement day to all the abusers ..
😂
Gday from Oz 🇦🇺
good day!
your so cute elliot with your big blue eyes and your funny too
Sometimes a guy can’t drop her, the assets to good to let go. That’s why he comes back, so who got the power.? When he comes back he’s paying a price. I’m having my cake and eating it too.
He don’t care about u that’s why he left in the first place. You’re just a commodity to him - easy access. Not sure why you think this is a good thing. Surely you know you’re more valuable than 3 holes to poke?
@@Diarrheagod if it makes me happy what’s it to you
@@reneedavis7248 you’ll never be happy if u depend on someone else. Also even if u are happy, it’s only temporary cuz he’ll screw u over again and again and again and as much as you’ll allow it. But I hope u are genuinely happy. Happy and not lying to yourself and telling yourself you are happy.
@Diarrheagod yea you know more than I do. Lol. It’s been over a year since then and things are better than before
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Holy shit lol.